About 10 years ago, my now-late MIL needed help and my husband's sisters decided she was going to come live with us because they were "busy". Not sure how a sah wife with grown children and a retired woman were "too busy" to do it while I worked and was raising an 8 yr old...But, that's that they decided. I was so glad when my husband stood up to his "big sisters" and said "I love Mom, but I also love my wife. It isn't going to happen. Either the two of you step up and look after Mom or we have to put her into a home." It was the now-late FIL who put his foot down and asked "WHY hasn't anyone asked ME? She might be your mother but she is MY WIFE!" Yes. The two SILs were deciding to move her 2 hours away from her husband without discussing it with either of them. "Let's move her in with the woman she hates!" She ended up staying at home and the FIL hired a nurse to help with the big jobs but she died in her home with her husband at her side. As it should be.
My grandmother moved in with us when I was about 6, and people would ask my Mom, I knew you did this and I'm thinking about having mother move in with us, and my Mom would tell them don't
And a wife who hasn't been brow beaten into thinking that her MIL is another mother to her that she HAS TO TAKE CARE OF without the MIL treating her like a well loved daughter.
@@thatrayo he knows that her wife won't agree but it's his mother. Like they say you can marry multiple times but you only have one mother. The wife is heartless. No matter how bad your mother is she's always your mother..
@@ofeliapadilla3008 actions have consequences, if you're going to be a jerk to someone, regardless of who you are to that person, you're not entitled to kindness from that person. The mil is heartless. Didn't you see how she even treated her own child? If you're still going to blame the wife after that, you really need to re-evaluate your morals. And are you saying your mother is more important than your spouse? You made vows for a reason. Do you even know what marriage is?
At the very beginning he said she had contract work which wasn't worth much, but after she moved out he mentioned that he couldn't make it and his mom was too sick to work. He just doesn't think anything ahead. Money, his wife not wanting his mother there, the place too small. He was only thinking, me me me MEntality
Getting selfish like this. It's funny how setting boundaries and taking care of yourself is always selfish to people who have you there to meet their needs
@@Mrstigger747 did yours save every single thing because she lived through the depression? I don't think that woman threw out a glass jar. They were all neat and clean and storing things but it was kind of a lot
When I read these stories I realize how lucky I was. I had an angel of a mother -in-law. After my husband passed away she and I lived together for almost twenty years before I lost her. It was not all peaches and cream , like with every couple there were days when we got on each others nerves but we were always able to work it out. I miss her as much as I do my own mother.
It is time for Nate to learn how to housekeep lol. I taught all 7 of my children to take care of themselves and their households before they left home.
Okay, I really think these scheming spouses need to learn something. No married partner wants to live with their in-laws. Even if your partner has a good relationship with them, it's safe to say that when most people get married they want to live with their partner, not their partner and their family. What is wrong with these grown folks?
I love how husbands always want to move mom in to help take care of them and then throw all the work on the wife. And no, women don’t get married to take care of their mother in law.
Yep, MiL is just a title given after marriage, making her son's wife a DiL and not superior to her actual Mother at all, just like FiL's, Aunts etc......😀
It really depends on the relationship the wife has with her mil, I helped my husband take care of his mother. However, she always treated me like a true daughter and was extremely good to me.
@@brendayoungblood9484 Yes, there will be good and bad MiL's to deal with, but these are just 'nasty overbearing MiL stories, taise the blood pressure up for us to read, which are fun when getting their comeuppance at the end.......😁
The stepmother comment was about the trope of evil stepmothers, not that her MIL was her stepmother. She was basically saying that she felt like Cinderella and Snow White with this situation he brought upon her. The stepmother comment was not a mistake or a typo, it was how she viewed her relationship with her MIL.
He's an idiot. You cannot spring something like that on a spouse without prep. And the idea that he thought it was okay to have her do all of the work -- and not acknowledge that she has a job too ... and take away her home office for his Mom? Glad she was strong and didn't take any of his ridiculousness. Gett a housekeeper or some home help for Mom. All your fault, Nate!
That arrangement seems like nate will eventually just abandon his mother, especially since she does nothing but complain and insult him everyday; considering he's the one with a place to stay & she can't provide for herself
If Nate cares about his mother so much then he take of care of his loving mother himself. She would rather stay live with her parents then live with a MIL that is mean to her
Lol. OP: lists all the major infractions Nate has done that she’s overlooked because she wanted to make it work. Nate: Just overlook this ONE thing! You’re overreacting!! Class act in gaslighting and being a steamroller there, Nate. Great job. 😒
As someone who suffers from pain especially because of my back I get wanting someone to help me. There are times that my pain is so bad that it’s hard for me to do a lot around the house, fortunately my husband is understanding and try’s to help out where he can but I don’t expect him to do everything. I worry about how difficult things will become as my pain gets worse but I would put myself in a home before I would expect my child to take me in. I remember my mother telling me that she would want me to put her in a home rather than expect me to care for her in her old age. Growing up I had to watch my father take care of his mother until mom was able to convince him to put her into a home so that we could live our lives. Grandma had Alzheimer’s so there were times when she had episodes of confusion where she thought she was a little girl so she was looking for her parents or she would get mad and go after people with her cane which was scary especially for a little kid.
Contract work has the potential to earn more than grind work. Being a couple means being a couple. You don't just make the decisions for both, UNLESS it is agreed by both for that to be the way.
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. Nate thinks he's the managing partner and Sarah is the silent partner. "Silent," as in, "shut up and do what I tell you!"
Unless there's something really weird going on, the spouse's mother is your mother-in-law, not your stepmother. A step parent is what you call the person your parent marries after splitting up with your other parent.
Nate has an Oedipus complex; he has unhealthy feelings of intimacy towards his mother. He expected to make his wife put up with domestic abuse from his mother, it backfired in style!!!
Mother in law or stepmother? Once again the husband moves his mom in without checking with the wife first. Have you heard of assisted living for mom Nate? Yes Sarah, this IS all just absurd. Ciao Nate! Yikes! Sarah’s pretty vindictive too! Uh, Sarah did say NO from the start Nate. They should have never gotten married in the first place. They’re both horrible people.
I feel bad for the MIL since she has to do everything & is an ill elderly person but only some since OP mentioned she's nightmare MIL. Nate should have done better planning for once. This is probably more ridiculous than the story on the main channel about the husband trying to force his wife & kids to live with his parents cause he didn't want to choose another way to help his parents & planned stuff without his wife's input. Cause at least the in-laws were good people. Hope OP eventually finds someone that considers her input & puts his share of work into the housework/relationship.
Nate says Sarah is the selfish one for leaving him after his dumb a$$ thought he could just move mommy dearest in behind his wife’s back without a single consideration for her existence Cue me laughing so hard I could be a paint mixer
I bet that Grandma's 'OLD' house was probably about 40-50 years old as usual in these stories in the US y'all, which amuses me, whereas many of us Brits live safely in houses some hundreds or more years old, but modernised inside and out over the years.....😀
Many houses here don't get any fixes or redos for a long time, to keep a house in good condition takes time and money and most people here have neither of those, especially now
Actually, if it was her grandma's house, that would put it around the 1950s, which would be SEVENTY years ago. There would have to be a lot done to it to make it work, like redoing the electrical system for modern appliances and cable and wifi. Also bringing the HVAC up to code, and etc.
@@rawilliams5881 Apparently houses around 20-50+ years have flimsy roofs and need to be replaced by the owners at least once during their stay however long that lasts. Houses in the UK generally are made out of solid brick, but some new builds can just bee wooden framed with cladding on the outside, still have sturdy slates as roofs. Some houses still in use can date from the 1600's +?- a few years, mostly Manors and some two story houses, probably mostly made out of stone work, but have been modernised inside over the years of ownership, such as here on the Isle of Wight named Northcourt Manor - 1615, way before America was invented.....
His mom didn't even bother to contact the wife..... A retirement home would be the best cause that way she can talk 2other People her age!!!! They have come a long way with retirement homes... They even go on field trips....
I'm 73..I have played the mother in law game three times. Having walked away from two marriages..I dug in on the third and knew this one was the most controlling one .like the big boss of my life's game. But..by then I knew the moves and had the verbal skills to out nasty anyone with a glance or word. It's been 31 years now..she is really old and no two women have a closer relationship in this planet. She met her match and thru it we have love and respect..she knows what exactly I am capable of..and ground standing helps. Further..my husband ALWAYS runs things by me..he tried it out the first three years..but found my help and cohooting makes life sweet
Ah Sarah performed maliciouscompliance number 12 to Nate. If your significant other decides to have their elderly parent whose health is in decline move into your house with you without discussing it with you first and tell you to be a good wife /good husband and they do absolutely nothing to contribute to the household anyway before deciding to have the elderly parent move in with you, maliciouscompliance number 12 States to go ahead and do exactly what they ask but make plans to move elsewhere with your own stuff when their elderly parents stuff gets to your house and leave immediately with signed divorce papers
This reminds of my elderly neighbor lady. She refused to let her Mothe-In-Law live with them when she became ill. Threw her into a nursing home, and she died shortly thereafter. Her husband died 15 years ago, and she's been on her own ever since. Children learn what they see, they saw her refuse to take in her Mother-in-Law. She's in her late 80s, and her kids aren't looking after her at all, they put her in a home, and she's lucky to see them once a month. She's miserabe and cries constantly. Always remember Karma, what goes around comes around.
You have a very narrow and biased view of what the situation was, clearly. All your info seems to be from the miserable hag of a neighbor and none of the key figures she has conveniently vilified, lest acknowledging her own part would leave her with the reality of her own flaws (much, much easier to be a world-class victim than to change and self-reflect). And you, dear moron, have listened to one side of a complicated family drama, and decided that it was sufficient to build your opinion. At your age you should be wise enough to hear out all sides before coming to your own conclusion. Or at least have the presence of mind to know that you will never get all party's to share their story and chalk it up to you not truly knowing the entire story. Or you will continue to be bamboozled by narcissist's crocodile tears and the universe's smallest violins. I've learned very early on that miserable of people who die alone are almost always deserving of their fate. (And most were nasty pieces of sh*t when younger, more powerful, and more active burning bridges and screwing over loved ones until those loved ones permanently left.)
This is when the translator breaks down. It probably crashed due to all of MILs and their insanity, lol. There are way too many crazy MILs and crazy exs that it couldn't take anymore.
Mr. Big Shot is bringing in All the money, until Sarah leaves, then he can't afford two peoples food & utilities. But if Sarah was there, she'd be bringing in the money difference And doing All housework And taking care of a woman who doesn't even like her! Yet, Nate doesn't understand why she'd leave!?!?
If his wife was the most important person in his life, he wouldn't of just moved his mother in without speaking to her.. the sheer level of disrespect is astronomical.. MIL was expecting Sara to be her live in servant/caretaker.. she wasn't expecting to do a thing and is just upset Sara escaped..
She's a MIL and not a stepmother. I hope that she divorces him right away. I liked my MIL but, not sure if I would want to live with her. My MIL was very independent and wouldn't want to live with us either.
So Sarah's contract job wasn't like a real job, but Nate couldn't afford the living expenses without her paycheck? It sounds like somebody had their head lodged firmly up their own backside. Where was their residence located? Maybe at the corner of "F Around Blvd." and "Find Out Lane?"
Taking care of parents and in-laws is our responsibility. But, it must be discussed in advance conversion(s). With rules and boundaries set. This dude, deserves to be left.
Why do men think that they should get paid for everything? Just because you are at home and are tired and WANT to relax that you get to? These men-children running the world is why we are screwed.
Nate: Even if you're a little mad about it, this definitely isn't something that would warrant us breaking up! Sarah: Based on everything I've mentioned, is your tiny little brain capable of understanding the phrase "the last straw"? Well, is it?
You're just a contractor your money doesn't matter anyway You don't make enough he says then he says he can't support his mother without your paycheck. He can't have it both ways either you make good money or you don't make anything. You need to move back home and support your MIL
Nate was really stupid! Offering to kick his mother out? If he offered, instead, that he'll start learning to help out at home, the situation may have worked itself out. Of course, my perspective is from a different society.
About 10 years ago, my now-late MIL needed help and my husband's sisters decided she was going to come live with us because they were "busy". Not sure how a sah wife with grown children and a retired woman were "too busy" to do it while I worked and was raising an 8 yr old...But, that's that they decided. I was so glad when my husband stood up to his "big sisters" and said "I love Mom, but I also love my wife. It isn't going to happen. Either the two of you step up and look after Mom or we have to put her into a home." It was the now-late FIL who put his foot down and asked "WHY hasn't anyone asked ME? She might be your mother but she is MY WIFE!" Yes. The two SILs were deciding to move her 2 hours away from her husband without discussing it with either of them. "Let's move her in with the woman she hates!" She ended up staying at home and the FIL hired a nurse to help with the big jobs but she died in her home with her husband at her side. As it should be.
My grandmother moved in with us when I was about 6, and people would ask my Mom, I knew you did this and I'm thinking about having mother move in with us, and my Mom would tell them don't
Finally a wife that doesn't take crap with hubby or mil! Loved the story ❤️ 😊👏
And a wife who hasn't been brow beaten into thinking that her MIL is another mother to her that she HAS TO TAKE CARE OF without the MIL treating her like a well loved daughter.
Me too!!!!
"You could have just said no!"
Yeah but.... she did though...🤦♀️
My MIL passed away 2 years ago. I would do anything to have her alive and living with us. We offered and she declined. Miss her every day.
Aww! Poor Nate! Loved to dish it out but just couldn’t take it. 😩😂 I do love Sarah’s shiny spine! Good morning and Happy Hump day from BC 🇨🇦.
"Sorry, Nate...but today you get to PAY for being a controlling, abusive idiot."
He needs to start learning to cook and his mom can tell him how to do housework! His idea, his problem!
If mother dearest is a mean MIL, then living together would be an apocalypse
I LOVE listening to these things and talking back to them and yelling! It's too much fun!
Sarah is a gem. She handled Nate wonderfully
She's evil too. She will grow old too .... she will experience that too. Wait for her karma
@@ofeliapadilla3008 maybe she wouldn't expect her children to make big decisions without informing and involving their spouses 😊
Yes Sarah Christianson is nice. Thanks for comment above. It's nice to see that on my phone
@@thatrayo he knows that her wife won't agree but it's his mother. Like they say you can marry multiple times but you only have one mother.
The wife is heartless. No matter how bad your mother is she's always your mother..
@@ofeliapadilla3008 actions have consequences, if you're going to be a jerk to someone, regardless of who you are to that person, you're not entitled to kindness from that person. The mil is heartless. Didn't you see how she even treated her own child? If you're still going to blame the wife after that, you really need to re-evaluate your morals.
And are you saying your mother is more important than your spouse? You made vows for a reason. Do you even know what marriage is?
At the very beginning he said she had contract work which wasn't worth much, but after she moved out he mentioned that he couldn't make it and his mom was too sick to work. He just doesn't think anything ahead. Money, his wife not wanting his mother there, the place too small. He was only thinking, me me me MEntality
Getting selfish like this. It's funny how setting boundaries and taking care of yourself is always selfish to people who have you there to meet their needs
"You're being selfish!" = "Why aren't you letting us walk all over you anymore!?"
seems to be a growing tend these day.
@@wendigos_eat_people7177 my mother was born in 1923. 🤔
@@catsncrows same, but my mother was 1927
@@Mrstigger747 did yours save every single thing because she lived through the depression? I don't think that woman threw out a glass jar. They were all neat and clean and storing things but it was kind of a lot
I live in Florida. My mother-in-law lives in California. I have seen her for a total of 14 days in 39 years. Love her for that.
Step mother = father’s new wife that is not your birth mother
Mother in law = your husband’s mother
Thank you, Mother Trucker. Did I make this comment to make a mother trucker joke? Yes, yes I did.
Yeah. They need to proofread better. The implications are...troubling.
How did the narrator not catch this error? 🤔
@@straightblackgirl 😂 i love it
@@Dee-Gee I wonder that too
Good morning from Iowa, where telling someone to calm down works about as well as baptizing a cat who isn't sedated.
Morning, that comment about the cat and calming down made my morning. Still laughing about it
Bahahahahahah!
😂😂😂😂
As a fellow Iowan I can confirm. Land of Herky, "ope, ima sneak right past ya", and "Don't tell me to calm down!" 😅 (Those are fighting words. )
😂😂😂😂😂
When I read these stories I realize how lucky I was. I had an angel of a mother -in-law. After my husband passed away she and I lived together for almost twenty years before I lost her. It was not all peaches and cream , like with every couple there were days when we got on each others nerves but we were always able to work it out. I miss her as much as I do my own mother.
1/ Nate DOES NOT know ALL the wives in the world ...
2/ I wouldn't take care of MIL if it were forced on me either
It is time for Nate to learn how to housekeep lol. I taught all 7 of my children to take care of themselves and their households before they left home.
Okay, I really think these scheming spouses need to learn something. No married partner wants to live with their in-laws. Even if your partner has a good relationship with them, it's safe to say that when most people get married they want to live with their partner, not their partner and their family. What is wrong with these grown folks?
I love how husbands always want to move mom in to help take care of them and then throw all the work on the wife. And no, women don’t get married to take care of their mother in law.
Yep, MiL is just a title given after marriage, making her son's wife a DiL and not superior to her actual Mother at all, just like FiL's, Aunts etc......😀
It really depends on the relationship the wife has with her mil, I helped my husband take care of his mother. However, she always treated me like a true daughter and was extremely good to me.
@@brendayoungblood9484 Of course! But It has to be a personal decision (helping the Mil), not something yOu HaVe tO Do just because you are her DIL.
Yes it's disgusting how some men seem to think a wife = maid + caretaker for their mother + mother for their child.
@@brendayoungblood9484
Yes, there will be good and bad MiL's to deal with, but these are just 'nasty overbearing MiL stories, taise the blood pressure up for us to read, which are fun when getting their comeuppance at the end.......😁
The stepmother comment was about the trope of evil stepmothers, not that her MIL was her stepmother. She was basically saying that she felt like Cinderella and Snow White with this situation he brought upon her. The stepmother comment was not a mistake or a typo, it was how she viewed her relationship with her MIL.
He's an idiot. You cannot spring something like that on a spouse without prep. And the idea that he thought it was okay to have her do all of the work -- and not acknowledge that she has a job too ... and take away her home office for his Mom? Glad she was strong and didn't take any of his ridiculousness. Gett a housekeeper or some home help for Mom. All your fault, Nate!
"She should be grateful I told her the day before mother arrived!"
Nate: So what am I supposed to tell the poor woman, huh?
Me: That she was an utter failure of a parent.
That arrangement seems like nate will eventually just abandon his mother, especially since she does nothing but complain and insult him everyday; considering he's the one with a place to stay & she can't provide for herself
This was, I think, the best one I've seen so far.
She did tell you NO from the start
This was a good one
Closing the barn door after the horses are already out. !!
If Nate cares about his mother so much then he take of care of his loving mother himself. She would rather stay live with her parents then live with a MIL that is mean to her
Lol.
OP: lists all the major infractions Nate has done that she’s overlooked because she wanted to make it work.
Nate: Just overlook this ONE thing! You’re overreacting!!
Class act in gaslighting and being a steamroller there, Nate. Great job. 😒
Stepmother??? Proofread!!! It's her MIL!!😂😂😂
Good story, two selfish people in one house came to a bad end.
As someone who suffers from pain especially because of my back I get wanting someone to help me. There are times that my pain is so bad that it’s hard for me to do a lot around the house, fortunately my husband is understanding and try’s to help out where he can but I don’t expect him to do everything. I worry about how difficult things will become as my pain gets worse but I would put myself in a home before I would expect my child to take me in. I remember my mother telling me that she would want me to put her in a home rather than expect me to care for her in her old age. Growing up I had to watch my father take care of his mother until mom was able to convince him to put her into a home so that we could live our lives. Grandma had Alzheimer’s so there were times when she had episodes of confusion where she thought she was a little girl so she was looking for her parents or she would get mad and go after people with her cane which was scary especially for a little kid.
Do they not know the difference between a step-mother and a MIL? If she's OP's stepmother, and Nate's mother; that is a more screwed up situation.
Nate is such a whiny baby. That "but why?!" really boiled my blood. Like, dude... grow up!
Contract work has the potential to earn more than grind work.
Being a couple means being a couple. You don't just make the decisions for both, UNLESS it is agreed by both for that to be the way.
I would react the exact same way
Welp! When you insist your parent to move in, then YOU must take care of them on your own to the very end! Punk Dat!!
There are limits on how selfish you can be. But one should never disregard your spouse's option or anything like that.
"..the fairer sex?" He means the "shut up and take it sex", and she ain't going to do either.
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. Nate thinks he's the managing partner and Sarah is the silent partner. "Silent," as in, "shut up and do what I tell you!"
And "calm down" when silent partner has had enough and is dissolving the partnership.
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@@eurafrican85 Thank you. Enjoy your day 👋🤗
I dunno why but the way Nate mentioned his mom slapped him in the face before his soon-to-be ex-wife laughed was funny
Just the tone & how he said it
I'm grateful you guys are able to put out 2 videos a day on this channel and your sister channels; I just hope you aren't overworking yourselves
Just to make sure I'm not missing anything, what are the "sister" channels?
@@Biorythym
The three main (and most posted channels) are this one, iText Pro, and Apple Text.
@@TBaker-xu5is Kitty Texts and Santa Texts aren't update as often, but seem to be done by the same people
@@Biorythym
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His Mother would be her Mother-in-law not her Step-Mother. Her Step-Mother would be her Fathers wife after he remarried.
Good morning from Oregon, everyone!
Promises like piecrusts - easily broken
I think the selfish one isn’t Sarah. He doesn’t want to lose the money.
Unless there's something really weird going on, the spouse's mother is your mother-in-law, not your stepmother. A step parent is what you call the person your parent marries after splitting up with your other parent.
Might have been a slip
I noticed that too! 😮
She said later that his mother was like an evil stepmother...so it could be her nickname for the mil.
Gooddd morning to everyone 🌞from New York ❤
Nate has an Oedipus complex; he has unhealthy feelings of intimacy towards his mother. He expected to make his wife put up with domestic abuse from his mother, it backfired in style!!!
@@leondillon8723 LOL, unless he's a glutton for punishment type of guy.
Good morning everyone from a chilly Alabama. Really good video
Morning.
Didn't she mean Mother in Law rather than stepmother?
She said "evil stepmom" type.
Nate ruined his marriage!!!! Yeah his mom thought she Live off the gravy train.... His mom thought she wouldn't have To lift a finger......
Mother in law or stepmother? Once again the husband moves his mom in without checking with the wife first. Have you heard of assisted living for mom Nate? Yes Sarah, this IS all just absurd. Ciao Nate! Yikes! Sarah’s pretty vindictive too! Uh, Sarah did say NO from the start Nate. They should have never gotten married in the first place. They’re both horrible people.
I feel bad for the MIL since she has to do everything & is an ill elderly person but only some since OP mentioned she's nightmare MIL. Nate should have done better planning for once.
This is probably more ridiculous than the story on the main channel about the husband trying to force his wife & kids to live with his parents cause he didn't want to choose another way to help his parents & planned stuff without his wife's input. Cause at least the in-laws were good people.
Hope OP eventually finds someone that considers her input & puts his share of work into the housework/relationship.
"its been decided" "its set in stone" oh yeah..sure nate
Nate says Sarah is the selfish one for leaving him after his dumb a$$ thought he could just move mommy dearest in behind his wife’s back without a single consideration for her existence
Cue me laughing so hard I could be a paint mixer
Empty promises, and the attitude from this man. How arrogant.
Step parent: When your parent marries someone not your parent.
Parent-in-law: Your spouse's parent.
Good Morning Bridget, how are things in Louisiana? It's another gorgeous day in Georgia 🍑
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Good story.
Your mom isn't moving in with us. Have a good life without me.
I bet that Grandma's 'OLD' house was probably about 40-50 years old as usual in these stories in the US y'all, which amuses me, whereas many of us Brits live safely in houses some hundreds or more years old, but modernised inside and out over the years.....😀
Many houses here don't get any fixes or redos for a long time, to keep a house in good condition takes time and money and most people here have neither of those, especially now
Actually, if it was her grandma's house, that would put it around the 1950s, which would be SEVENTY years ago. There would have to be a lot done to it to make it work, like redoing the electrical system for modern appliances and cable and wifi. Also bringing the HVAC up to code, and etc.
Not a European trying to gatekeep the definition of what an old house means...? 🙄
Workmanship standards are different in different places.
@@rawilliams5881
Apparently houses around 20-50+ years have flimsy roofs and need to be replaced by the owners at least once during their stay however long that lasts.
Houses in the UK generally are made out of solid brick, but some new builds can just bee wooden framed with cladding on the outside, still have sturdy slates as roofs.
Some houses still in use can date from the 1600's +?- a few years, mostly Manors and some two story houses, probably mostly made out of stone work, but have been modernised inside over the years of ownership, such as here on the Isle of Wight named Northcourt Manor - 1615, way before America was invented.....
He should know how to do basic things. It's not a woman's job to do everything herself. Cleaning/cooking should be shared equally.
How did she even think of marrying somebody that didn’t know how to do any house work at all or worse just refused to do any house work at all?
His mom didn't even bother to contact the wife..... A retirement home would be the best cause that way she can talk 2other People her age!!!! They have come a long way with retirement homes... They even go on field trips....
You call her a stepmother, when she is actually the mother in law.
I'm 73..I have played the mother in law game three times. Having walked away from two marriages..I dug in on the third and knew this one was the most controlling one .like the big boss of my life's game. But..by then I knew the moves and had the verbal skills to out nasty anyone with a glance or word. It's been 31 years now..she is really old and no two women have a closer relationship in this planet. She met her match and thru it we have love and respect..she knows what exactly I am capable of..and ground standing helps. Further..my husband ALWAYS runs things by me..he tried it out the first three years..but found my help and cohooting makes life sweet
Imagine living with them! A live in maid. 🎉🎉🎉
Ah Sarah performed maliciouscompliance number 12 to Nate. If your significant other decides to have their elderly parent whose health is in decline move into your house with you without discussing it with you first and tell you to be a good wife /good husband and they do absolutely nothing to contribute to the household anyway before deciding to have the elderly parent move in with you, maliciouscompliance number 12 States to go ahead and do exactly what they ask but make plans to move elsewhere with your own stuff when their elderly parents stuff gets to your house and leave immediately with signed divorce papers
This reminds of my elderly neighbor lady. She refused to let her Mothe-In-Law live with them when she became ill. Threw her into a nursing home, and she died shortly thereafter. Her husband died 15 years ago, and she's been on her own ever since. Children learn what they see, they saw her refuse to take in her Mother-in-Law. She's in her late 80s, and her kids aren't looking after her at all, they put her in a home, and she's lucky to see them once a month. She's miserabe and cries constantly. Always remember Karma, what goes around comes around.
But what if the MIL was a hateful person and that's why she didn't want the MIL to live with them?
You have a very narrow and biased view of what the situation was, clearly. All your info seems to be from the miserable hag of a neighbor and none of the key figures she has conveniently vilified, lest acknowledging her own part would leave her with the reality of her own flaws (much, much easier to be a world-class victim than to change and self-reflect).
And you, dear moron, have listened to one side of a complicated family drama, and decided that it was sufficient to build your opinion. At your age you should be wise enough to hear out all sides before coming to your own conclusion. Or at least have the presence of mind to know that you will never get all party's to share their story and chalk it up to you not truly knowing the entire story. Or you will continue to be bamboozled by narcissist's crocodile tears and the universe's smallest violins.
I've learned very early on that miserable of people who die alone are almost always deserving of their fate. (And most were nasty pieces of sh*t when younger, more powerful, and more active burning bridges and screwing over loved ones until those loved ones permanently left.)
As much as I get along great with my MiL, we both know if we ever had to live together it'd be a mistake. On some things, we're just too different.
Love these 2 voice actors.....she's your MIL, not step mother. Lol
She was say her MIL was being evil stepmother vibes NOT that the MIL was a stepmother
@darkmage9252 no, there was definitely another part of the story where she erroneously refers to MIL as her stepmother
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@darkmage9252 no worries
This is when the translator breaks down. It probably crashed due to all of MILs and their insanity, lol. There are way too many crazy MILs and crazy exs that it couldn't take anymore.
I would have NEVER allowed my ex MIL live with me.
Scumbag husband found Karma all by himself. 😅
OPS LIKE THESE WOMAN ARE WARRIORS PUTTING THEM BOTH IIN THEIR PLACE
Mr. Big Shot is bringing in All the money, until Sarah leaves, then he can't afford two peoples food & utilities. But if Sarah was there, she'd be bringing in the money difference And doing All housework And taking care of a woman who doesn't even like her! Yet, Nate doesn't understand why she'd leave!?!?
Oh with the mommies boy,
oh how they would take it if the WIFE's mother come to stay
I got confused for a minute wen she referred to her mil as stepmother
Umm…how did Nate’s mother become Sarah’s “stepmother”? Aren’t they married? 😂
If his wife was the most important person in his life, he wouldn't of just moved his mother in without speaking to her.. the sheer level of disrespect is astronomical.. MIL was expecting Sara to be her live in servant/caretaker.. she wasn't expecting to do a thing and is just upset Sara escaped..
She's a MIL and not a stepmother. I hope that she divorces him right away. I liked my MIL but, not sure if I would want to live with her. My MIL was very independent and wouldn't want to live with us either.
And yet, knowing that this is what he is, she married him anyway!
Wow! It's incredible how he thought the wife would stick around when she CLEARLY said she didnt agree to his decision. 😂
So Sarah's contract job wasn't like a real job, but Nate couldn't afford the living expenses without her paycheck? It sounds like somebody had their head lodged firmly up their own backside. Where was their residence located? Maybe at the corner of "F Around Blvd." and "Find Out Lane?"
His mom would have made demands until Sarsh couldn't do her job. So Nate wouldn't have enough for 3, let alone 2 mouths.😂
These stories make me believe that getting divorce papers signed as part of the marriage agreement is very important!
Taking care of parents and in-laws is our responsibility. But, it must be discussed in advance conversion(s). With rules and boundaries set.
This dude, deserves to be left.
.....Her husband's mother is her STEPmother...??? Sweet home Alabama~
Why do men think that they should get paid for everything? Just because you are at home and are tired and WANT to relax that you get to? These men-children running the world is why we are screwed.
As my wife it's your duty to...
Really? That wasn't in our vows. Peace out.
"Stepmother"? Doesn't someone proofread these things?
Apparently not! 🤣
Nate: Even if you're a little mad about it, this definitely isn't something that would warrant us breaking up!
Sarah: Based on everything I've mentioned, is your tiny little brain capable of understanding the phrase "the last straw"? Well, is it?
I’d be moving out before mom got there. The d😅Circe papers would be on the table
"I'll do anything!"
Anything but take care of himself and his mom lol
Are they step siblings or something?! Why does she keep saying step mom?!
Oh woah okay finally she says mother in law!😂
Because they messed up and confused them.
happy wife happy life dude done f***ed up.
You're just a contractor your money doesn't matter anyway You don't make enough he says then he says he can't support his mother without your paycheck. He can't have it both ways either you make good money or you don't make anything. You need to move back home and support your MIL
How many times do you say Not no But Hell NO!
It's not mother-in-LAWS, it's MOTHERS-in-law. Today's grammar lesson.😅
Sod him his choice his job to care for her. Pack upp and leave. I would send her stuff back or GTFO
Nate was really stupid! Offering to kick his mother out? If he offered, instead, that he'll start learning to help out at home, the situation may have worked itself out. Of course, my perspective is from a different society.
So he springs it on her