10 Life Lessons I Learned by 32: Putting Myself First & Letting Go of Expectations

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  • @SN10118
    @SN10118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    U chose quality time with children more important than work its normal… and you are great mom you will bounce back❤

  • @nandinidevimanoharan5446
    @nandinidevimanoharan5446 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes absolutely. To each their own. There is no need to explain ourselves to anyone on why we live a certain way or take a certain career decision. Our life needs to be meaningful to us and therefore we choose differently in different phases of our life based on what is important at that time. Happy Birthday!

  • @susana023
    @susana023 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Happy Birthday ma. Everything what you said is very true . What I learned in my 40s you learnt in 30s . Your mom is a wonderful woman and has taught you well

  • @PUTHIYATHAGAVAL-x7f
    @PUTHIYATHAGAVAL-x7f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your 10th point is exactly what I came across..now myself realised family and health is everything.taking care of children and home is not an machinay work its full of love and respect...we need to be happy to make our family happy..

  • @SN10118
    @SN10118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Very genuine from the heart darling pls be like this very outspoken❤

  • @kutu8800
    @kutu8800 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re wonderful daughter and mom Rayane …. I recently started watching your videos got inspired

  • @sivamanju1
    @sivamanju1 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am a Srilankan and I watch your channel you are doing well and all the blessings and wishes

  • @shyamalavijayan5517
    @shyamalavijayan5517 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Belated wishes ma'am happy birthday
    Everything u said is 100% true

  • @hemalatha4185
    @hemalatha4185 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Kudos to your mom for raising a beautiful soul like you dear❤ have a blessed year ahead

  • @mohanapriya5284
    @mohanapriya5284 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ur speech was so healing and too inspiring ...❤

  • @vidyapremkumar5478
    @vidyapremkumar5478 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love it Rayane, don’t regret or think for a second about what others think of you, I see an intelligent and caring mom who loves her kids to bits. I am an executive director at a bank, but I can be easily replaced, no one else can be my kid’s mom.

  • @_artisansatelier
    @_artisansatelier 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I started my page because I faced the same 10th point.. More power to you and girls out there..

  • @kothaiandalvenkat5233
    @kothaiandalvenkat5233 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All those ten points are valid points..I definitely agree with you... keep posting such good motivation video to us..God bless you in Abundance

  • @rathishri7336
    @rathishri7336 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very well communicated and very straightforward. Honest vlog in recent time i have seen

  • @jaya5372
    @jaya5372 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday 🍰🎂❤....loved everything you have learnt from your mom absolutely true👏👍

  • @vennilavarshana9734
    @vennilavarshana9734 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤ you are a wonderful daughter and you are a wonderful mom ❤❤❤

  • @ssr6731
    @ssr6731 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know just feel like you are a very kind person
    ..the way you share things is just soo genuine and real

  • @selvik5204
    @selvik5204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Correct enakum eipavum ethey thinking than padithum work pannama irukarom 😊

  • @smiley46
    @smiley46 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Maturity. sensible. sensitive. ❤

  • @umarekha4602
    @umarekha4602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy belated birthday Rayane.You are so simple n down to earth. I wished I had so much wisdom as you when I was 30.You were brought up well. ❤❤❤

  • @umauma-tg2su
    @umauma-tg2su 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy Birthday and God bless you my dear!

  • @jayanandhini601
    @jayanandhini601 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really thank you Rayan❤. I took that cup matter so seriously today. Convey my regards to Radhika mam.
    Learn this too dont loose baby in you this is more than the all 10, binch watching your vedio what i found in common is your still a kid. And open to learn and teach.

  • @nirmalabangglo6243
    @nirmalabangglo6243 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy Birthday Rayane ❤....God bless u with gd health & happines...From Singapore 🇸🇬

  • @Itsaadhini
    @Itsaadhini 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday Rayane🎉❤ Lots of love to you! Just a reminder dear, you are perfect the way you are! You know what, it was the best decision to stay at home for your growing kids, and if you would have been a working mom that would be the best decision too! You know why Rayane, it’s because what you want! It’s what makes you happy! Don’t ever think that family friend look down upon you dear instead just sympathise even now she don’t understand and appreciate what a woman gave to her growing kids and family. How sad she don’t see the value in your choice , how sad she hurt a woman just as her daughter. It’s sad to see one woman put another down. The problem is her, NEVER YOU! A lots of people shows like they have figured out their life but no! A lots people still immature in their 50s,60s and we face them everyday ! Luckily we are far mature for our age then them. I’m not putting anyone down here but people forget , we all trying to be the best and still figuring out and practicing what’s best for us and our family. You are so beautiful inside out, always follow your heart and SHUT THE NOISE around you darling. This words coming from a stay at home mom who faced all this situations in life and made peace with everything now. Lots of love to you from 🇦🇺

  • @priyankak4580
    @priyankak4580 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You resemble our former chief minister Dr. J. Jayalalitha sister. And your life lessons striked a point about certain things in my life. God bless you and your family abundantly sis.

  • @vijiramraj9472
    @vijiramraj9472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LIKE YOU RAYANE PAPA. THIS YOUNG AGE YOU HAVE A LOT OF GOOD THINGS AND HAVE GREAT HABITS. RADHIKAMA IS SO LUCKY TO HAVE A KID LIKE YOU. VERY VERY GOOD THINGS AND BUNCH OF KNOWLEDGE YOU HAVE AT THIS AGE. GOD BLESS👏👏👏👏♥♥

  • @Jaisairam-k9y
    @Jaisairam-k9y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Firstly, Happy Birthday Rayane. Very well-said. No one understands one's life as much as ourself who are juggling with everything at homefront. It's always easy to say nasty things and give comments hurting others when they are not even in their shoes to understand their plight. Sadists and Narcissists. Just ignore and take care and run your life diligently! God Bless!

  • @amuthadaniel
    @amuthadaniel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blessed Birthday to you 🎉🎉May God bless you with good health & Prosper you in everything you do ❤

  • @SrSrk98
    @SrSrk98 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jaya Sree Krishna ...awesome my dear...I could resonate with many points...learning something each day...love to grow❤...God bless you...Happy birthday

  • @kausalyakumar374
    @kausalyakumar374 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤Many Many Happy Returns Of The Day dear ❤
    You are a charm daughter and responsible mom too❤❤❤Cute person ❤

  • @parimalakrishnan3985
    @parimalakrishnan3985 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bless with good family sis...i am really happy for you🎉

  • @preethimohan3028
    @preethimohan3028 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy Birthday Rayane❤ God bless you🤗

  • @sinduarumugam9605
    @sinduarumugam9605 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday Rayane ❤ loved your points, some people are judgemental! Having a stupid nature of hurting others … even if we are doing our things perfectly they will keep on telling something, we need to ignore them and move on…❤ loved the way you explained each points

  • @jeyanthiasirvatham7509
    @jeyanthiasirvatham7509 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very well brought up by Radhika ma'am! God bless dear Rayane and your friends

  • @muthubala09
    @muthubala09 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very glad to see this video... I think this is the biggest treat for us on your birthday.. I LL save this for my entire life bcz this 10 issues most need for my life bcz me too have same mindset ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @manjusharavi762
    @manjusharavi762 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All you said to 100 percent correct...

  • @SharmiKadirvel
    @SharmiKadirvel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Rayane. I can see myself talking. I thought i am the only one with these characters. Atlast found one😄U gave me a new sight into my life. Thanks and big hugs to u🤗

  • @AnshaAnshaaa-x7n
    @AnshaAnshaaa-x7n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy Birthday sister God blessings you 🥳🎉🎊

  • @vinothinivelmurugan9562
    @vinothinivelmurugan9562 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your way of talking ❤

  • @haripriya5797
    @haripriya5797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ohh dear!! I just so understand&these family friend aunties everywhere are the same &I don't know tbay appear suddenly out of the blue. Next time please don't waste your precious time&energy dear because being a stay at home mum is like doing God's will&being there for the children, these things aren't understood ever by people who always thrive for status, money, calling themselves busy with work&hurt others feelings for their fulfiillment or seek validation by talking like this. But little they know that God
    offers a unique opportunity to glimpse the heart of God for His people. Nowadays they don't even have time for God while you're doing His true Will.. Happy for you 💕keep smiling like this always &stay blessed dear. Happy birthday🎂🎉🎁

  • @zitaselvanathar6800
    @zitaselvanathar6800 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always love to see you. when you come to London come and see me .

  • @VandhubalaKrish
    @VandhubalaKrish 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m a home maker, that’s my personal preference. What’s wrong in it?
    Family comes first for me. Priority defers. 😀

  • @Quintessentially_me
    @Quintessentially_me 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You meet people where they are ❤

  • @thiruppavaichandrasekaran2972
    @thiruppavaichandrasekaran2972 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rayane, I honestly enjoyed your talk.

  • @anjuma525
    @anjuma525 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hey !!! Happy birthday sweetheart 😊😊
    I have gone through the same thing cos I quit my job after 10 years for my son…
    As u said I’m learning everyday, im figuring out myself everyday as a mom… it s sweet journey… I’m enjoying the process and I’m refilling my cup everyday and give my love, knowledge, time to my son…. Love u for u r clarity in life… u r an amazing women 😊😊

  • @annemary1762
    @annemary1762 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Birthday God bless you and your family ❤

  • @madhumidhat3775
    @madhumidhat3775 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday Rayane ❤️my mom used to say we both are born in same year! I’m September baby😊 what an intellectual point u have made ! Looking forward for more 😊

  • @sofithasleem-ro5mk
    @sofithasleem-ro5mk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many more happy returns of the day rayane sissy❤🎉May Allah give lot of happiness and success ..... 💕 😘

  • @shilpak10
    @shilpak10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Strong moms raise strong daughters !!👍🫶. Happy birthday 🎉

  • @babithas6483
    @babithas6483 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi u speak same like your Mom I like it.Happy born day

  • @danr2974
    @danr2974 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SUPER. WE LOVED THIS VIDEO. THANKS.

  • @arrtirameshbabu1020
    @arrtirameshbabu1020 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looking forward frm u for many good things which u hv learnt.happy birthday ma❤

  • @gayathriraaj4049
    @gayathriraaj4049 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy birthday darling 💓 God bless you

  • @deepakannan4585
    @deepakannan4585 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful and well said👏👏 v v true..

  • @nh3652
    @nh3652 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    very nice. you are a blessed child

  • @marymettilda7073
    @marymettilda7073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday my dearest Rayan... I am very much admire your way speech...🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @rgayathri8107
    @rgayathri8107 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    இனிய பிறந்த நாள் வாழ்த்துகள் ரேயான் 🥰🥰

  • @SubhaLakshmi-z8j
    @SubhaLakshmi-z8j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey Rayane, u frequently mention many at times amma sonanga, wish to have a podcast with her in ur channel 😊

  • @optimist8258
    @optimist8258 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😢❤ thank you for the beautiful advice

  • @shruthireddy5189
    @shruthireddy5189 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Woww well said😊 happy birthday 🎂

  • @vidhaathskitchen3340
    @vidhaathskitchen3340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy 32-year-old, dear ! You're very kind and beautiful

  • @indumathi3037
    @indumathi3037 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish u happy birthday sister. God bless u and ur family. I am biggest fan of u sister

  • @Vika-lm8fr
    @Vika-lm8fr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am also in the same state of life Rayane. I took break for my career to grow up my children but all of my surroundings and relatives r asking only one question that don't u go to work and sitting in home only. Omg.. These words r hurting . I got gold medal in Post graduate and worked as a HR in corporate for 12 year. But now I m feeling that I am 0 and nothing because of those words from others

    • @sasikalasathishkumar5885
      @sasikalasathishkumar5885 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't feel that way u r worth ur time with ur family

    • @abinayasethuramachandran2613
      @abinayasethuramachandran2613 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Whatever happens people always something to say , they don’t know what we are going through, just ignore and be happy

  • @vijayalakshmimahalingam4589
    @vijayalakshmimahalingam4589 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday Rayane. God bless you always. Nice talk.

  • @azhagumalini2388
    @azhagumalini2388 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many more happy returns of the day 🎉

  • @NishaSweety-uq3jr
    @NishaSweety-uq3jr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happiest birthday 🎂 32 years have a wonderful year love and happiness 😊🎉🎂🎊🎉🎂👑🎈❤️ur my absolutely my queen 😊and ur very genuine person ❤ love u 😘 ray akka 😊❤❤❤

  • @hima1623
    @hima1623 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday Rayane
    All 10 points are really superb and worthy

  • @sumathimurugesh8768
    @sumathimurugesh8768 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Birthday wishes to you dear.. God bless.. 🎉🎊🎂🥳

    • @Rayane_Mithun
      @Rayane_Mithun  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @VictoriaAntony-g1h
    @VictoriaAntony-g1h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are very honest keep it up

  • @udhyaspandian429
    @udhyaspandian429 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be happy with whatever you do, spend your time wisely and learn more life skills for your self-improvement.
    Investing time on children , is a art, do it with passion and they learn things from you.

  • @selvarenguahila9871
    @selvarenguahila9871 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Happy birthday Rayane.God bless you

  • @vijayalakshmimudaliar5814
    @vijayalakshmimudaliar5814 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sweet so cute very innocent be careful

  • @MaharajBanu-yj4nx
    @MaharajBanu-yj4nx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey raiyane ,how super you are speaking, whatever you shared in this video every ones mirror.. I liked your video yaar❤❤❤❤.. every one thing same as you dear... super keep rocking 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @preethimohanwings4505
    @preethimohanwings4505 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many more happy returns of the day Rayane 🎉💐🍫

  • @TamizhiniMagizhini
    @TamizhiniMagizhini 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Belated happy birthday sis ❤ ungala enaku rmbbb pidikum sis unga amma ungala rmbb anba ah simple valathu irukanga rmbb panivu irukenga evalo alaga pesurenga superrr character sis periya actor oda ponnu but antha mathirie ila rmb simple irukenga unga kids alaga porupu pakarenga superr mom sis ❤❤❤❤

  • @SN10118
    @SN10118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many more happy returns of the day dear❤ happy birthday🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @shobhanasathish7421
    @shobhanasathish7421 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy Birthday Rayane🎉.Have a great year ahead❤

  • @abithiyagu2934
    @abithiyagu2934 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy birthday🎉to you❤

  • @nirmalakshimiadhikesavan5419
    @nirmalakshimiadhikesavan5419 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you rayanemithu and your family also

  • @jayachitra9970
    @jayachitra9970 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi I am Jayachitra from Bangalore and I love your way of Tamil spoke all videos really good dear keep rock and happy birthday dear stay blessed ❤

  • @abibalaji100
    @abibalaji100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday dear....valaga valamudan

  • @sugandhigovind8100
    @sugandhigovind8100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday 🎂🎂🎂 to Rayan ❤ vazga vallamudan vazga nallamudan 😊😊👍

  • @saraswathidhamotharan308
    @saraswathidhamotharan308 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are simply superb dear❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mohanesh-ok2mq
    @mohanesh-ok2mq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May this day be as Special as you are sis🎉🎉🎉🎂🎂🎂🎂🥳🥳🎊🎊🎊. your engrey I really get very motivated by you , you are my role model l lots of love you sis.

  • @ancyvarghese16
    @ancyvarghese16 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy Birthday dear Rayane❤ Have a wonderful year ahead

    • @Rayane_Mithun
      @Rayane_Mithun  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!!

  • @singsong8020
    @singsong8020 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U said well sis..❤

  • @kasthurisundar9703
    @kasthurisundar9703 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rayaen such a simple girl ❤❤❤❤

  • @rithika_ahh
    @rithika_ahh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a honest video ❤❤

  • @minukesavan5479
    @minukesavan5479 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy birthday!!we need your birthday clelebration video please

  • @dr.darshanaakarthikeyan
    @dr.darshanaakarthikeyan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every word you uttered is gold!❤✨.Happy birthday Rayane!❤

  • @sharmilarajapandian3797
    @sharmilarajapandian3797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy Birthday papa 🎉

  • @sharmilarajapandian3797
    @sharmilarajapandian3797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best speech papa❤

  • @savitham7859
    @savitham7859 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy Birthday Rayane bless you

  • @chandrandeepa
    @chandrandeepa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lots of love to you Rayane ❤

  • @anbanaamma9465
    @anbanaamma9465 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Many more Happy returns of the day ma🌺🌸🌼🎆🌺🌸🎆🌼🌺🎆

  • @aishwaryakayanam1291
    @aishwaryakayanam1291 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    G8 learning at 32 .... thanks for sharing

  • @nirmalakshimiadhikesavan5419
    @nirmalakshimiadhikesavan5419 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wish you happy birthday rayanemithu and God bless you rayanemithu

  • @mageswarisundrasegaran8623
    @mageswarisundrasegaran8623 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Advance Happy brithday radikaa AMMA 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @ArchanaSomu
    @ArchanaSomu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy birthday sister ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lakshmimadras-y4b
    @lakshmimadras-y4b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Superb speech 🎉🎉