Much agreed, she didn't deserve to die & be thrown away like a used Kleenex. I also agree that cheating on a serviceman, with another married serviceman & hoping you'll get proposed to by the guy on the side is a whole different level of foolishness. As I recall relationships on post are supposed to be held to a whole other level than those in the civilian world. It's meant to prevent drama, like what started this tragedy, from starting in the first place. It's demoralizing, can cause hostilities between unit members & can take valued service personnel into a headspace they ought not to be in. This murderer had psychological issues from the outset. I think he was a sociopath; Maybe a psychopath. These stories talked about on post should have thrown up red flags about this man & had him on a list for routine psyche evals.
The husband got out of 1 of the worst marriages possible. He lost a cheating wife, and lost an unloyal friend. In the end, he also got the life insurance policy which is around $200,000 for his cheating wife. I'm sure he is doing better knowing the truth of all this.
This girl Erin was delusional, married herself, but hoping that her secret lover who was also married would propose to her, that sounds really insane to me. plus her friends cheering her on and supporting this behavior, damn...
She was 19, that's ridiculously young to get married and settled down, especially these days, people seem even more immature. She was a silly little girl playing with fire and other people's emotions and lives
@@CW1971The average age of marriage was about 20 in 1940-1950. When that age passes 28, society is on the backslide (and we've gone passed that number).
@@Cbd_7ohm and what I said was that people are more immature these days, seeing as she was 19 when she died, had managed to move away and got pregnant twice and start an affair, I'm guessing she was only about 18 when she got married. That is ridiculously young. I'm 52 and if I'd married the person I was with when I was 18 then I know we'd both have been miserable and divorced pretty soon after we married. I fail to see what the age of marriage has to do with the downfall of civilisation, where I am the age of marriage has risen for many reasons including more people getting further education and people not marrying at all
Bullshit, if you think she's not an innocent victim of murder, then you are literally saying she deserved what happened to her because she was an adulterer. You were moved to make a veiled condemnation of her, as the adulterer, but make absolutely zero comment on the man that cheated on his wife and then murdered a woman who was pregnant with his child. Which means you're more apalled at her having cheated on her husband, than you are at the husband's friend, who also cheated AND murdered a pregnant woman!! WTF?
@@SM-McKraken Sleeping with another woman is not really cheating for a man. Whereas a woman sleeping around is most certainly cheating. That has to do with what each person looks for in a partner. Women date for money and resources as proven by science. Men date only for love, s3x and LOYALTY as proven by science. A women cheating is the equivalent of a man lying about all his money and spending it on another woman instead. Not to mention the damage female promiscuity causes society and id say this is simply karma
@@SM-McKraken She’s saying the only *innocent* victim, although I disagree with her as the rest of the family members involved were also innocent. Yes, the murder victim didn’t necessarily deserve to be murdered from our modern moral standpoint but that doesn’t reduce the cruel, selfish & incredibly destructive action she committed in cheating on her own husband, and having an affair with a married man, allegedly allowing herself to get impregnated by him. Cheating on someone who’s in love with you is unbelievably cruel and inhumane, and doing so with someone who is also married is doubly-so. It’s incredibly inconsiderate and selfish and has resulted in the complete ruination of some of the most decent individuals throughout Humanity’s history-and also destroys countless lives every year on planet Earth . Did she consider any of her kids when she allowed this adultery to take place? No. What about her husband? Clearly not. What about the wife or children of the man she was having an affair with? Definitely not. Its entirely possible to feel empathy and sadness towards a victim of murder while also acknowledging the wrongdoings that they committed which opened them up to what happened to them. Most pre-Christian European cultures would have trials whenever a man or woman committed adultery & usually the betrayed spouse would be brought before the village Earl or Chieftain & asked wether they wanted the adulterer to be executed or exiled from the village. These customs existed for a reason that entire nations felt valid for innumerable generations. An individual’s *choices, matter.* This is why we choose consequences befitting as such.
I find it weird that Erin's family make her out to be this innocent little girl. She didn't deserve what happened to her, by any means, but her really terrible and not in any way innocent choices cost her her life. I just feel the worst for her actual husband. He really is a total victim in this.
i think one looks at the perspective of the parents the love of their daughters outweighs those actions. I agree though that she was not innocent at all. I feel for the husband, the wife and children of the murderer and the parents of Erin even.
Yes couldn’t agree more. I find her mother taking this so lightly and talking causally about the event & definitiely acting like her daughter is a victim. Well I hope she realizes that her daughter did wrong and soffocated her poor husband who truly cared about her . She didn’t deserve to die but she needs to understand her daughter is also accountable for her death
Right !!! I said the same thing like she did not deserve to die in that way or in any way but she put herself in that position the moment she decided to cheat on her poor husband and then u cheat with a married man why would u think that would work? Imagine what the husband had to be feeling first u find out the love of your life and your unborn child are missing and then dead and then on top of that u find out that she was killed by the person she was cheating on u with and the baby maybe wasn’t yours wow I feel so bad for him
This is actually common place. Not murder but I seen it for 20 years in the Army. Young married couple at their first duty station, wife’s first time away from small town USA, husband gone alot, lots of muscular fit guys giving her all the attention she wants. Never ends well.
@@sheenl1409 it really is but it’s not just women so I should have made a better point cause guys do the same thing. I’ve seen both ends. I’ve seen women move across the country for their husband who’s serving and she stays home alone with no friends while he’s out at the bars every night cheating. Don’t get me wrong there’s plenty of great men and women that make a great life out of the military. I did. But out of every platoon I’ve been in there’s always at least 1 scenario like this. Or a scenario of husband deploys and wife leaves with another guy and takes all the money from the husband. I’ve also had Privates marry strippers and get took too lol.
@@Dubbletap187 I've seen neighbors leave their spouses and get together. The spouses were in Iraq at the time. lol We used to be in our Internet Cafe...tent in Iraq and all of sudden you would hear "B*tch...I'm gonna kill you!" from someone on the telephones. You took a note of that guy's face. We had to send a lot of guys from Iraq back home to Ft. Bragg, NC. lol I don't want to get into any of my Germany stories. The Air Force Officers from Ramstein and K-town were all CERTIFIED swingers...the stories are never ending. 🤣
My uncle was in the Marine corps 30 years. When he was 1st married his wife Kim lived with him all over the world. She came back to the states, oh she had his money, a nice home, a new vehicle and she cheated left, right and sideways. I refused to get in the middle . Our youngest brother did get involved and he told our uncle, our uncle told her he was being sent to Afghanistan, he is now administration. Our uncle had cameras sat up all over the house, well needless to say, she had no idea and our uncle is divorced, she lost everything. She had over 4 affairs and in my uncles home, he's doing good now and has been dating our neighbor, a real nice lady who likes him for him. Please watch your backs young men and women, lot of crazy out here.
What a terrible wife. Cheating on him while he served the country. Military life can lead to a lot of affairs and heartbreaks. Couldn't be married and away all the time. That's not healthy for any relationship.
I went through the exact same scenario when I was stationed at 29 Palms 20 years before this happened, my wife at the time was also named Erin. Only difference is that she is alive, well and remarried.
I’m happy that the husband wasn’t the murderer. But she wasn’t trapped in a love triangle. She created this love triangle. It’s terrible that she was killed. But it is hard to feel sorry for her because she created this problem.
@@ohhipeterIt's hard to feel sorry for someone who cheats. No one said she deserved it. She could've just ended her marriage but no. He deserves to rot in hell for what he did.
@@ohhipeter It is almost impossible to feel sorry for her. The death penalty was the ancient punishment, I like to think that we've moved past that now. But be in no doubt, she was buried as a cheater.
@@ohhipeter I guess reading comprehension is a skill that you don’t have. I said, “it’s terrible that she was killed. But it’s hard to feel sorry for her because she created the problem.” As a soldier that had a cheating spouse during a deployment to Iraq, it is very hard to feel sympathetic for her. I do not wish death upon adulterers.
@@unitedwestanddividedwefall5098 i must agree with you. A lot of people have issues with reading comprehension. I wrote a similar comment and people were say “oh so she deserve to die”.
People enter in to marriage not truly understanding what their entering into. Many are broken in some way. Even those who seem like to try have the perfect life. What sad is she died in her sin.
They disrespect marriages all the time, they bring race or politics or whatever into it. However, anything to say good is bad and bad is good is the world we now live in...
Marriage is an outdated concept constructed entirely by religion. And religion is nothing more than a tool used to control and soothe the weak minded masses.
To lure someone to their death and casually talks about murder like that is a cold hearted psychopath. It doesn’t matter if someone cheats (even if it’s wrong) you don’t EVER kill another person.
I feel bad for the husband & the guys wife & child. If you want to keep hooking up with other people, do NOT get married!!! Simple as that! They ruined 2 marriages by cheating. The husband is left with no wife, was cheated on, lied about being violent, & didn’t know if she was pregnant. The other wife, was cheated on, lied to, left with a daughter without a father. So sad. I also feel bad for the parents who lost their beloved daughter in a horrible way. Such a sad story all the way around. I hope her parents, the husband, & the wife & daughter can move on & live good safe , happy lives🌻 Rest in paradise Amanda🌻
Honestly tho if that was my dad take him to mf jail, why would I want to live with a killer anyway. Don’t even feel sad about daughter and mother being left alone, who would want a violent person, a killer at that. I’m good alone thankz me and my daughter idc
The problem is you forget that some people genuinely get a rush or some sort of thrill from being in volatile love triangles ,especially women enjoy competing for other mens attention and enjoy my fought over by men
One thing I have always said, If they will cheat with you - they will cheat on you. Even if you don't have enough respect for someone else, have enough respect for your self to leave people well enough alone who are in a relationship.
That is correct' The same applies to gossip. When someone gossips to you about someone else -- You can guarantee that they gossip to someone else about you. Gossip is a social poison The best one can do in such a situation is to dump the toxic friends - because they are NOT your friends
I'm glad you mentioned that. I used to watch the show every single day. But I stopped when they went to a different type of format. It's awful. The standard episodes are by far the best way to go.
Dang, I feel so bad for the husband. Not only was he cheated on, but he became a suspect for a murder he didn’t even do. I guess the hurt must be so great for him, considering he wasn't in this interview.
@@godhg9694You mean the person that committed adultery with another MARRIED MAN? She created this whole thing. The husband is the victim, and no, I don't condone murder, so don't even try to go there.
@@godhg9694feel bad for the husband but not the cheater wife , although she doesn’t deserve to be die with the baby but she knows the consequences to have relationship to a married man while she is married too , KARMA is the right word for her.
This truly was a fatal attraction. Cheating on your husband with your eventual killer. A "married" woman texting a girlfriend she's hoping her "fling" boyfriend will propose to her??? WTF? She didn't deserve to die but she put herself in what became a deadly situation. Sad story indeed.
@crimewatch It is unsettling how Erin's parents and friend are smiling and casually interviewing abt her. Amst like they r talking abt her birthday party and not her murder. No tear, no sadness. Also, Erin was a cheater. There is no underplaying that, even if she unfortunately got murdered for it...But, if your parents aren't sad about your death, then it says a lot about you
@mcmans_ I see no reason anyone should believe their stupid emotions give them the right to harm others. Comments like these normalize senseless murder.
This family is disgusting. I notice how the mother and sister tried to make the marine seem like the bad guy in like it was his fault that his wife cheated. These people were the wrong people to interview because all they did throughout this video was trying to make her seem so innocent like an angel.
Did it ever occur to you it was his fault? What if he was beating her or harassing her? How do you know she was not the victim in the entire situation? I guarantee he was a wife beater and treated her like crap. Women deserve respect and if their current man can't provide that, she needs to go elsewhere. Good for her, to bad the situation backfired.
I missed where her mother and friend spoke badly about the marine husband. I heard both the mother and father say that they thought he was nice, but were just worried that their daughter might close herself off, if she moved out of state with him, because she didn’t know anyone.
He would have killed at one point for sure, but I don’t think he did it before because he made many mistakes and during his conversations and google search he was exploring ways to make someone disappear, that’s why I believe it was his first time.
she started it with the officer, dont talk to me multiple warnings, if she had been black she would not got the mulitple warnings, then to sue, and paid 20k
@@ohio2nv201 It's true. When the officer being interviewed said something like "we dropped it because it isn't jury friendly" what he really meant was "white women get a different justice system than everyone else."
I’m sure you meant “trustworthy”, but with that said, I wish it was so easy to teach kids that all types of people can be lying evil scum, even the cute boy who lives down the street, with our words. Certainly there’s no harm in trying, and providing support and open lines of communication w/our kids is everything, but in my experience, as flawed beings we are stubborn dickheads and most of us need to learn these types of things on our own.
It's impossible to be a good judge of character without learning how narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths behave and their thought process and motives. They are the ones you need to watch out for and they're everywhere. Every single person in the world knows at least a few narcissists. All psychopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are psychopaths. All narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths lack empathy, which allows them to do horrific things on purpose.
@@nicktorr7888 yep, attracted to the bad boy. Knowing it's not what she deserves. I get so fascinated with the psychology of such. Innocent looking girl, picking abusive man and statements like, "he changed" lol
We can instill morals, but those morals will fail if we don’t place Jesus at the forefront of our lives. There is a reason why God set forth His commands.
Do not trust anyone if they’re willing to have an affair. How you get them is how you lose them. There are some exceptions to the rule but overall cheaters are people not to get involved with. People are capable of horrible things and we need to stay vigilant for our own sakes. If your gut tells you something is off, follow that because there usually is something wrong. That guy was capable of murder and she had no idea. I feel terrible for her husband, family and friends. May they have peace and solace. 😢
And it goes both ways... The cheater and the one willing to date a cheater. The top 2 requirements for even having a chance at a successful relationship is 1) trust and 2) good communication. Any relationship that begins with lieing, threats, ultimatums etc. are 100% doomed to fail, often in very ugly ways.
I feel so bad for the husband, hope he later finds a good wife and gets to start a family, he probably got over her easily after seeing her true colors. She’s so delusional cheating while married and expects a married man to propose to her?🙄 and yet her parents say that she was “shy” or “innocent”. A devil in disguise, play stupid games win stupid prizes
@mondrella627 Strangely, not many people here feel bad for Chris’ wife as well. As he was cheating on her too with a married woman, willingly and knowingly guilty of the same exact thing, and at the end also became a murderer. Double devil? Hope that she too finds strength to get over it and lives a happy life.
She behaved like a trollop she was a teen for God s sake she forgot she was a married woman expecting a child and expected a married man to leavehis wife for her common now , she acted like a loose woman ,of course no one deserves to be killed no one has the right to do that, but I'm sorry but she brought her tragic end on herself the oky victim here here is the unborn baby
@@ileanaacacostaacosta1813When you use the word "but", it completely negates your comment, "Noone deserves to die." You ARE saying she deserved to die. Good thing(?) I suppose, that you didn't make any mistakes as a teen. Or if you did, didn't pay for them with your life. Jfc
Yep. I just made this comment before i saw urs. The fact that both her and her friend were excited in the text message when they thought he was going to propose made it worse.
As a parent, I would have been extremely disappointed in any daughter who cheated on her husband and who showed no regard for the other wife. Sadly, this young woman’s poor decision ended in her death and that was a tragedy for all involved.
I find this interesting that it put all the blame on the girl. Another perspective a married man and woman have an affair, and the man is a violent murderer. This would just be a broken marriage if he wasn’t. Bad marriages aren’t a scapegoat to murder.
Ridiculous! Everyone makes mistakes but to say unfortunately her poor decision ended in her death is like saying everyone’s poor decision to work at the Trade Center on 9/11 ended in their deaths. No! A sick killer purposely killed a naïve immature woman. But blame the victim because you were cheated on once and focus on that tiny part of what happened with this murder.
Funny how the friend call the guy a "scumbag" but she was just "disappointing" apparently she had no problem starting an affair with her friend's husband under the nose of her own husband. This 2 people have very questionable morals, she didn't deserve to die obviously but her poor decision making was a factor.
Naive isnt the word. She had no concept of character or how to read people. A little girl fantasizing. How could he marry her when he was already married? He was just playing with her. Sad. I feel sorry for the parents and the husband. And the dog/cat.
My family and I were stationed in 29 palms when she went missing. The days went on forever. After the 3rd day when they didn’t find her I just knew she was gone because she was pregnant with no water. It was very sad.
If you're cheating with a married man, i can promise you, he's not going to propose. He's already got one wife he can't be faithful to, why would he want another one? And why would you want him? He won't change for you. The friends calling the cheating man a scumbag, your friend was also married... she was just as guilty for that relationship. Edit to add: she still didn't deserve to die. She was a kid. I know i made plenty of mistakes when i was her age, she still deserved to live out the rest of her life.
I spent four years on active duty in the U.S. Army. I can say without equivocation that marriage and the military do not mix and that's whether a servicemember's spouse is active-duty military or a civilian. The things I've seen and even done myself, I am not honored to say, will blow anybody's mind. Whenever I see videos of wives waving little flags and greeting their husbands returning from deployment, it just makes me cringe.
@keller109 it means 65% of the service people cheat on their spouse and 50% of the stay at home spouses cheat on their service men or women. The whole military society is nothing but cheaters and ripe with sexual diseases.
yeah, yall are either cheaters or beaters. Adultery and sexual deviancy runs rampant with yall. My sisters husband is in the us army and this dude straight up told her he's a serial cheater when he got caught and wouldn't change. I wouldn't date or marry yall even if a gun were pointed at my head.
That's not really true. Not only I did 9 years in the Army but an Air Force brat. My father served 20 years in the Air Force and never once cheated on my mother nor did she. Sorry but just because you went through some hard times doesn't mean everyone has the same fate. During my 9 years in the Army I have met VERY successful couples serving either together or one serving and the other working civilian jobs to keep their family together. What makes me cringe is how you spit on those with successful relations just because you didn't have a good one. You have NO right to say that about everyone. I even had a boss who retired from the military and had a wonderful wife during his time serving and their marriage is still strong. If you think military and marriage or relationship don't mix then you are hanging out with the wrong crowd. Just because you had it bad doesn't mean you have the right to spite those who proved your comment wrong and have a strong marriage before, during and/or after serving.
@@keller109 Its not really that bad. Some people have to bring others down and thinking they know everyone. Not all marriage and relationship in the military is as bad you think. In fact A LOT of couple have a good life during and after serving.
Nobody deserves to be murdered. Yet, when you play with people’s emotions & get involved in love triangles….You never know what the final outcome may be. If you are married, remain faithful. Focus on your marriage, communicate, devote yourself to each other. The same goes for committed relationships too.
I almost want to say she got what she deserved but no one has the right to take another human's life. Every human life should be treasured not taken because of something so senseless.
@@jessicajamesspeaks 💯👈🏿 BUT!!! I wonder what the world would be like if we all got what we really deserved 🤣🥱please don’t let that go over your head. Im
I also know of a married woman who cheated with another married man. I have absolutely no respect for her. She was hurting her husband, her children, the other man's wife and children. Her selfish lust destroyed so many people.
I feel so bad for her mother. She lost a child and grand child. She also has to live with the knowledge of her daughter’s poor choices. That’s really hard. Nevertheless, no one deserves to be murdered. Her life mattered too, she was dealing with trauma. But I especially feel bad for the baby and for the husband who was cheated on and became a suspect in her murder when he was innocent. So many hurt lives, it pains me.
Husband did not loose too much, if any! The victim lost her life! She did not deserve that. Nor her parents didn’t deserve! Hope in your family everybody is perfect!
@@liliivanova2920 "perfect" is an overly used word which is to be dismissive of another's opinion. No one has to be perfect, they just need to be better than that evil dead woman. The husband did lose. He lost the love of his life and a potential first born child.
She didn't deserve to be murdered but this woman certainly chose to live on the edge and push her luck. A little hard to feel empathy for manipulators like Erin.
I do not care what the person did or was like NO ONE is appointed to give or take life except God and those He appoints. In Gandalf’s words “Are *you* going to give it to them Frodo?” How dare we judge anyone alive or dead. Leave it to those appointed to their positions.
the biggest manipulator here was the killer. He cheated on his wife, and he had a daughter and was a marine. He killed his pregnant lover... he is a low life manipulator.
This is the type of lady who never does anything wrong. She has to stop and report that’s the part of the driving test. If you know use of force. She was at fault and if she files suit she will get laughed at. Always the victim! It’s ridiculous that someone actually believes that this is improper use of force.
For that second video, people, if a cop reads you your Miranda rights (which makes no sense given the situation) then stop talking and get a lawyer. If you have to say anything let it be explaining you won’t talk without a lawyer. They can arrest you whether it’s right or not, so don’t fight them. Take care of it in court and if you have a right to not say anything, but they then arrest you for not acting anything obviously you can sue.
If she had been armed she was within her rights to shoot the cop, and she would have skated as a matter of law. The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
@@williamclayton9566a report from the alleged victim!! she was the victim, someone crashed into her car she didn't crash into anyone's car, this is what I don't understand Why it had to go this far... is this how they treat an assault victim who walks away after being assaulted?? It's obvious that officer was in the wrong else they would never have dropped the charges
Exactly. That cop escalated the situation. She is not trained, HE IS. American cops throw their weight around way too much. In Europe, the police fear the citizens. You would never see this happening in the U.K. I would want to see his personnel file. I will bet he has had other complaints about his aggression. And what people don’t understand is that the number of times the cop acts inappropriately way exceeds the number of complaints. There was one case where the cop had been involved in more than 20 instances but all complaints had been dropped. Guess why? Police intimidate them into dropping their complaints. That cop is going to hurt someone seriously and then they will take his behavior seriously.
I completely understand how the mom cherished the video with her daughters voice. My dad passed away in 96 when I was 11. I wish I could have anything with his voice.
@@ETSSNIPERu can’t leave the scene of an accident, period. She claimed she didn’t know but then said, “it’s not that bad.” So she knew. Bc what she may think wasn’t her fault- could be her fault. What side was she hit from behind? Was she in her lane? Many questions which is why u don’t leave. Even still, she should’ve just said: I didn’t know until after I parked. What can I do? -Even if he’s being aggressive, STFU and then sue. What pisses me off is that is shows how white women get charges dropped where I was actually compliant, arrested as a mistaken identity but bc the DA knew I had a strong case and knowing an innocent spent half a night in jail- they hit me with resisting even though I was 100% innocent. Standing, waiting for an Uber. The tapes show the cops confronting me while I’m super confused. Apparently, another Hispanic woman was causing shit inside the venue but thought it was me. Not only that, I was arrested from behind yet I’m still compliant not struggling just obv confused. They said I resisted bc I kept asking why I was being arrested. At this point, I’m a 38yo, never even had a ticket, kid is grad HS 2 years early and I just sold a biz. I fought this misdemeanor charge for 2 years and 30k. I was made to come to court on a monthly basis even having a warrant put out bc they got the date wrong.The DA “lost the cop footage,” but didn’t know my cell phone captured everything. It finally was dropped after I demanded a trial and only after I told the judge- who also got in trouble after we complained the DA was withholding evidence & said, “you should be thankful u can afford a lawyer and if u continue to complain, we will hold u in contempt,” that we got the transcripts and will release them to the public along with the tapes and how the court, knowing I was falsely arrested refuses to uphold the law and drop the case. Even though they settled with me, my lawyer got half, and it took a total of 5 years from me and stress. To see a snarky, entitled woman who obviously lied be treated like a victim just shows how the justice system works for white ppl.
I feel so much for young people in situations like this. I was barely 18 when i got involved with my husband. He was USMC at the time and about 6yrs older than me. Almost 20years later we are still together, married and with an almost 11yr old child. I still wonder what was i thinking getting into such a serious relationship at such a young age. I love the absolute heck out of him even now and will love him forever but its so young. Erin 19 and pregnant in the middle of the Marine Corps wife life world is a blessing and So overwhelming. For me...San Digo, 29 Palms, recruiting locations in the midwest, traveling overseas with a toddler... its been a life. Now retired and dealing with mental health (him) from 2 deployments overseas and disabilities. Its a lot. Im 37 now I cry a lot. Depression.. etc. Wouldnt change this life bc my 2 favorite people i get to hold close. Him and our child. ... but in the blink of an eye here we are. Military life looks glamorous to so many ppl but what really happens on the inside within the personal walls of your home and ehat you go through on a daily basis no one could understand unless they live it. 🙏 ❤
Kudos to you for enduring. Military life never looked glamorous to some of us. I always suspected it comes with the challenges you describe. They deserve love too though, and it's good thee are strong people like you to give that love. Wishing you less tears and more joy in the future.
Semper Fi family. I served for 20 years (USMC/0369) and have been retired another 21 years. I wish you and your family continued success and happiness. You ma'am are an absolute blessing to your family.
@@avalonjustin bro wanted smth to shit on other than my comment so conveniently brought up my username... ok cheating views aside ur prob one of those f*thers (🤢🤮) who breed and then delude themselves into thinking they're soooo important to their children/offspring when they're not bc the children would live just as fine or even better without them
I was involved in a minor accident where somebody hit me. The two drivers involved, me being one of them, decided we didn’t need the police. When the officer arrived, we told him we didn’t need him.
Not all men just like this woman with the police that got tazed, all woman are not like her thank christ ,I'm a girl !! Ohh please !! She went after that police officer 1st and she deserves everything she has common to her grow up sister it's time to spend time with the adults in jail fir a bit ,then let's hear u complain about being a girl ,lol our sister convicts will show u what a woman is ...😂hood luck to her...
It wasn't an affair. It was a psychopath who wanted to see if he could seduce someone's wife. Moral of the story is, teach your daughters to be faithful and honest, because there be predators everywhere, ready to whisper in girls' ears.
@@dqreps this was a cozened young lady, even lured to her death with the promise of a wedding ring. He sweet-talked her about being better than her loser husband. That always works with naive girls. Once he’d taken her from her partner, he felt accomplished, believing he was worth something. He saw a gullible fool who threw away her life for mere words. That’s why he couldn’t resist the urge to snap her innocent neck.
Her mom was worried she wouldn’t make friends because of shyness says how much she didn’t know her daughter. She’s married to one marine, sleeping with other marines and ends up pregnant by god knows who …. This woman is a disaster and responsible for her own unfortunate demise.
I also read some where that women played around while their husbands were deployed. It just blows my mind how they could do that when their husbands' lives are on the line every day or in fierce battles. I'd be on my knees praying every night for his safe return.
This all happened miles from my home. I'll never forget that. I've been to this mine also.. absolutely terrifying. The 29 Palms Marine Base sadly has a lot of gruesome violence and domestic violence. I think the heat makes people nuts here.
There is probably a lot of DV because the wives on base are getting ran through by every soldier around. Does someone deserve to die for that no but her 304 actions are 100% responsible for her death.
@crimewatch It is unsettling how Erin's parents and friend are smiling and casually interviewing abt her. Amst like they r talking abt her birthday party and not her murder. No tear, no sadness. Also, Erin was a cheater. There is no underplaying that, even if she unfortunately got murdered for it...But, if your parents aren't sad about your death, then it says a lot about you
This happened in my home town of the Morongo Basin. I feel Chris Lee's wife had something to do with the whole set up of "Chris getting rid of the problem in their marriage." This was a huge event when Erin went missing and when she was found in the mind shaft. They didn't disclose the bing her cell phone it was found with her body. I felt for her family especially her mom she was here all the way up to them finding her daughter. What should have been a vacation for the two of them ended up in the discovery of her daughter had been murdered.
@@mikanisbestgrill8645wtf does being 19 have to do with it? There’s plenty of teenage girls 19 or NOT who can handle themselves to not cheat. Your comment makes no sense whatsoever. She went out having sex with another MARRIED dude while hers was at home by himself. Make that make sense? YOU CANT!
What police never acknowledge is it's their literal job to be courteous, think critically, and de-escalate problems, but then they try to throw equal responsibility on citizens. It's not their job it's yours. Unless someone is being physically violent there's no reason for it.
They escalated that interaction really badly. Like yeah, the lady was being a Karen and should have just not said anything, and immediately asked for a lawyer... but being arrested for a tiny fender bender at work is probably going to make most people pretty pissed! The cop seems like one of the dudes that was a bully in school and grew up to be a cop lol
@@DocUnstopped accountable for what? The other people crash her, she was the victim of the accident. She was chill enough to leave without filing a report because her car had no damage. He made up the situation and as his own supervisor said, is not the first time he approaches someone in an aggressive way for no good reason. He needs to be accountable, just imagine if it was a real crime, that guy would have no problem discharging his weapon on anybody. Now the Audacity of the police station asking her to drop the lawsuit.
@@janetmccoy7945and in turn you have a city ravished by Robbery and Lawlessness smh y'all make no sense look at NYC for example and Los Angeles homelessness and crime at it's highest since the 70's and 80's after they defunded the police the cops don't care no more
Remember kids, the police are not there to “serve and protect,” but to enforce laws. Do not invite them into your homes, do not talk to them without a lawyer present, but most importantly try not to do anything that might cause you to be in the crosshairs of any law enforcement officer. You do wrong, you’ll be arrested and possibly ruin your lives. They do wrong, they’ll investigate themselves and find no wrongdoing.
POL ICE only serve and protect their Masters The foreign Elite Bankers - who actually refer to them as "" Our Dogs "" Which is about correct as the greater majority of them are secondary psychopaths and are Brain-damaged - order-following dogs without morals. I refer to them as C-riminal U-nited N-ations T-yranny S-upporters
@@alvinvegamendez8674 no they could have sent her and ticket an took her to a court date. She got hit and just left to get to work, people are firing people for the smallest things now.
@@hughjass1835 yup watch very immature young cops all they had to do was ticket her and bring her with a citation it was a fender bender they could have said we are giving you a citation now cause she is a white she is a Karen.
That woman was in the wrong, she popped attitude, and resisted complying with the officer told her she, by law was obligated to not leave the scene of the accident...despite what she thought. Also, you cannot use being a girl as an excuse to not be handled in such a manner when you're not accepting you broke a law, non-compliant, kicking and screaming at an officer, and act like you're not in the wrong at all.
Since she'd been mirandized, she had every right to say "then don't talk to me"...he just didn't like it and decided to use his "authority". He even said "I COULD arrest you" insinuating that he wasn't planning on it.
If she had been armed she was within her rights to shoot the cop, and she would have skated as a matter of law. The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
I'm so sorry for her Mother and Father! Nothing will ever be the same! I pray God will Comfort and give her Family Peace because I just couldn't imagine.
Always freaks me out how regular folk become murderers. It affects the way I live. If a man gets angry in my presence...whether my own brother or a stranger...I immediately walk away. I also never put myself in situations where I'm physically trapped. To this day I sleep with a locked door . To me everyone is a murderer-in-waiting😂.
But ^this wasn't just some regular guy who suddenly became a murderer. This guy had been talking with his wife and friends about how he could kill someone and successfully dispose of a body. It sounds like he was just waiting for an opportunity to do that.
I wonder if she called or thought about her husband that's waiting at home for her while the new man she loved was killing her... And the new guy's baby🤔. Grass wasn't greener huh....l
Very true… many of these young women are learning the same lesson that men have been “learning” for all time… I guess at least its beginning to even out the cheating gap.
I've always heard not get into serious relationships while in military to avoid unexpected surprises when you come home. But I realised, this kind of situation can happen to any non military couple.
She was not so poor Cheating while married And thought the man she was Cheating with was going to propose to her🫨🤣 that's a very unique way of proposing
When gauging a person you expect to be with for the rest of your life, you always pay attention to their friends and family. Erin's mother seems like she isn't even bothered by the fact that her pregnant daughter is dead and was murdered. I couldn't detect any real emotion in her interviews here. That should have been a huge red flag. Her so-called friend didn't even have the decency to tell her husband about what was going on. Red flag #2. I'm sure there's a ton of others. The only person I really feel bad for is Erin's husband. He didn't deserve any of this. I hope he can move on and find someone who really cherishes him. It should be noted that people who cheat on their husbands or wives are so terribly despised that most won't even have sympathy for them dying. I can guarantee you most others in this comment section will say the same. If only people would think beforehand.
Poor mother, she grieved and then strong enough to gave an interview after 5 years the incident occured and some internet stranger says you didn't feel anything for the death of your daughter.
@@toms18 I'm not the only one...if it isn't apparent to you, you're simply not paying attention. People don't even care that she's dead. They feel bad for the husband.
@@GSP-76 she and her husband had a teary eyes and she almost cried once, if it isn't apparent to you, but apparently we watched a different video. People deal with grief in a different way, and you are not there with her every day, stop trying to be a body language expert, a fake field, and sympathize a bit. Have a nice day, hope you are always healthy, I'm gonna bounce, I don't like to argue on the internet.
@@toms18 I sympathize with her husband...and I'm far from the only one who felt the same about her parents. Cheaters and betrayers don't get sympathy. Its a hard fact of life. She literally wanted to go run away with her affair partner who saw fit to rather kill her. That's Darwin award levels of stupid. If she didn't want to be with her husband, why not just get divorced? Then she would have been free to chase whoever the hell she wanted. Her friend was no different than her. She's saying one thing in this video but actively hiding her affair from the husband. All shitty people who made stupid life choices.
About the arrest... The officer should have SAID, "You are under arrest" - not, "Turn around". In his head, he hears, "I am arresting her" - but she didn't know wtf was happening to her. That said, never resist arrest! It can be sorted out later, but when told you're under arrest - you do what the officer tells you to do. Even when you think they are wrong. Live today, sue them tomorrow!
yes, first of, Don't call anybody honey. He's not your husband or friend, he's there doing his job. Second, she's the first to push and maybe kick. Don't resist. You'll be in more trouble than you already are. I was given a speeding ticket once. I wanted to give my side of the story to the police but this police kept saying just tell that to the judge or pay the fine. I refused to pay and went to court. In court, I asked the judge what happens when the police officer lies. I gave my full account and the court dismissed my case. Although I was told to pay $64 for court fee. I could have fought for it but I just paid it. ... As for the police officer, he could have handled it better. Being a hot head won't help him. He is in a position that he could be judged by his action.
The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
@@williamclayton9566 Yes, of COURSE it was totally unlawful. But if these officers gave 2 shits about that, they wouldn't be doing a totally unlawful arrest in the first place, would they! My point was, that regardless of whether you think that the cops are completely in the wrong, and even if you KNOW they are in the wrong - for your own safety & wellbeing - just don't give them ANY REASON AT ALL to shoot you- if you want to stay alive & even remain unharmed, then DON'T resist arrest.. the police station isn't far away so sort it all out there in the presence of rational, law-abiding officers! You can sue them tomorrow.
She knew exactly what was going on. The cop told her multiple times that she'd committed a criminal offence by leaving the scene of a motor vehicle accident. He even read her out her miranda rights. After they got her back to her feet she starts whining like a 5-year-old, "How could you do this to a girl?".
That woman that was arrested was ridiculous, she had such a bad attitude and was so rude & then refused to even turn around …. & then says she got arrested for calling him honey . No , you got arrested because you committed a crime & when a cop tried to talk to you , you got tough .. & not having a criminal history isn’t an excuse , you show respect to an office of the law . Period . She didn’t initially know it was a crime , get that , but it was clearly explained to her & she still argued , everything after that was her fault . Absolutely ridiculous. & the fact that it got dropped sucks because I bet she thinks she was right . She has PTSD because of her own attitude . Goofy.
It's sad and it's a horrible waste of human life I feel awful for her parents and her husband and for her having to go through whay she did, but when you play these kind of games and you cheat on your spouse you really are risking everything even your life.
I wish she didn’t die but they’re on here talking like she wasn’t cheating kissing her husband beforehand while also saying the killer tried to bring down her character as she lied to her husband excited to be proposed to. Mother said “I wonder what her daughter was thinking when she thought she loved and could trust this person” as she should’ve been home with the man who vowed to love her and trust her. She put herself in that situation, not anyone else, again, I wish she wasn’t dead but this ish happens to people when they're doing wrong all the time
Since when does sarcasm get a person arrested?!? Leo with no communication skills?? Nothing new. I’m all for policing but this is nonsense I can understand why people are afraid of a regular ole person with a badge.
What on earth was that police officer thinking. The accident wasn't her fault if she's hit from behind and everyone knows about insurance scams. This officer needs to be gone.
Police chief, too. No one has gotten to the point I've made here: If she had been armed she was within her rights to shoot the cop, and she would have skated as a matter of law. The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
If a husband or boyfriend had an altercation and treated their wife or girlfriend like the police did, they would be arrested and placed in jail. These vicious thugs in uniform blame the victim and drop the made-up charges against her. When cops say stop resisting, it means stop wincing in pain and let us mop the floor with you while we mock you and make fun of you. These out of control gangsters need to do serious time and be removed from all law enforcement for their lifetime.
no one deserves to die, at all…but cheating on your husband and expecting to be proposed to by a married man, is another level of delusion
Oh really, no one at all? You’re out of touch, hun. Probably lived a sheltered life.
Much agreed, she didn't deserve to die & be thrown away like a used Kleenex. I also agree that cheating on a serviceman, with another married serviceman & hoping you'll get proposed to by the guy on the side is a whole different level of foolishness. As I recall relationships on post are supposed to be held to a whole other level than those in the civilian world. It's meant to prevent drama, like what started this tragedy, from starting in the first place. It's demoralizing, can cause hostilities between unit members & can take valued service personnel into a headspace they ought not to be in.
This murderer had psychological issues from the outset. I think he was a sociopath; Maybe a psychopath. These stories talked about on post should have thrown up red flags about this man & had him on a list for routine psyche evals.
I was in the army...this situation is rampant in the military
The more delusional to expect that purpose from a killer!
“Love knows no reason”
What??? She was NOT trapped in a love triangle......she was the creator of the love triangle.
So she deserved what she got? Wtf
@@carlsangrey5 That’s quite a jump from what he said.
I agree that was the decision she had full control over. She was hardly trapped..
@@Petaljane seems implied to me
@@carlsangrey5🥴
So nobody talks about the poor husband!
I feel so sorry for him!
All these women care about is the cheating woman because they want to normalize those actions. If it was a guy, they'd be cursing him out.
Sincerely 😢😢😢😢 he's the clear victim in all of this
dont know why he killed erin maybe she wanted out he was married why even be involved bad for the family why bother w lee
The husband got out of 1 of the worst marriages possible. He lost a cheating wife, and lost an unloyal friend. In the end, he also got the life insurance policy which is around $200,000 for his cheating wife. I'm sure he is doing better knowing the truth of all this.
me too i was in the army and this thing is common with cheating spouses
I feel sorry for the husband who was dealing with three losses. None of it was his fault and none of it was in his control.
Absentee husband opened the door for a Prince Charming….
This girl Erin was delusional, married herself, but hoping that her secret lover who was also married would propose to her, that sounds really insane to me. plus her friends cheering her on and supporting this behavior, damn...
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She was 19, that's ridiculously young to get married and settled down, especially these days, people seem even more immature. She was a silly little girl playing with fire and other people's emotions and lives
Women.
@@CW1971The average age of marriage was about 20 in 1940-1950. When that age passes 28, society is on the backslide (and we've gone passed that number).
@@Cbd_7ohm and what I said was that people are more immature these days, seeing as she was 19 when she died, had managed to move away and got pregnant twice and start an affair, I'm guessing she was only about 18 when she got married. That is ridiculously young. I'm 52 and if I'd married the person I was with when I was 18 then I know we'd both have been miserable and divorced pretty soon after we married. I fail to see what the age of marriage has to do with the downfall of civilisation, where I am the age of marriage has risen for many reasons including more people getting further education and people not marrying at all
No one deserves to die but The only innocent ones were the baby and the poor husband. Hope he’s moving on with his life and is happy.
the only way to be happy is to not commit to any woman. They exist just to make men miserable and steal from them
Bullshit, if you think she's not an innocent victim of murder, then you are literally saying she deserved what happened to her because she was an adulterer. You were moved to make a veiled condemnation of her, as the adulterer, but make absolutely zero comment on the man that cheated on his wife and then murdered a woman who was pregnant with his child. Which means you're more apalled at her having cheated on her husband, than you are at the husband's friend, who also cheated AND murdered a pregnant woman!! WTF?
@@SM-McKraken Sleeping with another woman is not really cheating for a man. Whereas a woman sleeping around is most certainly cheating. That has to do with what each person looks for in a partner. Women date for money and resources as proven by science. Men date only for love, s3x and LOYALTY as proven by science. A women cheating is the equivalent of a man lying about all his money and spending it on another woman instead. Not to mention the damage female promiscuity causes society and id say this is simply karma
@@SM-McKraken She’s saying the only *innocent* victim, although I disagree with her as the rest of the family members involved were also innocent. Yes, the murder victim didn’t necessarily deserve to be murdered from our modern moral standpoint but that doesn’t reduce the cruel, selfish & incredibly destructive action she committed in cheating on her own husband, and having an affair with a married man, allegedly allowing herself to get impregnated by him. Cheating on someone who’s in love with you is unbelievably cruel and inhumane, and doing so with someone who is also married is doubly-so. It’s incredibly inconsiderate and selfish and has resulted in the complete ruination of some of the most decent individuals throughout Humanity’s history-and also destroys countless lives every year on planet Earth . Did she consider any of her kids when she allowed this adultery to take place? No. What about her husband? Clearly not. What about the wife or children of the man she was having an affair with? Definitely not.
Its entirely possible to feel empathy and sadness towards a victim of murder while also acknowledging the wrongdoings that they committed which opened them up to what happened to them.
Most pre-Christian European cultures would have trials whenever a man or woman committed adultery & usually the betrayed spouse would be brought before the village Earl or Chieftain & asked wether they wanted the adulterer to be executed or exiled from the village. These customs existed for a reason that entire nations felt valid for innumerable generations. An individual’s *choices, matter.* This is why we choose consequences befitting as such.
Happier than he would be with her, dude got lucky out of this unfortunate situation where lives were lost
Nothing good comes from cheating.
Good People don't Cheat.
Exactly. She suffered the consequences of her actions.
I would say the other victims would be Chris's wife and his daughter and Erin's husband. This was so sad and an eye opener.
Would be something if chris wife and erin husband got together as the ultimate fuck you😭
His wife is the first one who made the accusations that she was molested their daughter
And they’re still alive. Erin is not.
@@valleygirl2530 aware of that hence the word "other"
I find it weird that Erin's family make her out to be this innocent little girl. She didn't deserve what happened to her, by any means, but her really terrible and not in any way innocent choices cost her her life. I just feel the worst for her actual husband. He really is a total victim in this.
I find her mother strange. No emotion and even smirked when she recalled being told her daughter was missing.
i think one looks at the perspective of the parents the love of their daughters outweighs those actions. I agree though that she was not innocent at all. I feel for the husband, the wife and children of the murderer and the parents of Erin even.
They didn't say what happened with him what about the husband?
Yes couldn’t agree more. I find her mother taking this so lightly and talking causally about the event & definitiely acting like her daughter is a victim. Well I hope she realizes that her daughter did wrong and soffocated her poor husband who truly cared about her . She didn’t deserve to die but she needs to understand her daughter is also accountable for her death
Right !!! I said the same thing like she did not deserve to die in that way or in any way but she put herself in that position the moment she decided to cheat on her poor husband and then u cheat with a married man why would u think that would work? Imagine what the husband had to be feeling first u find out the love of your life and your unborn child are missing and then dead and then on top of that u find out that she was killed by the person she was cheating on u with and the baby maybe wasn’t yours wow I feel so bad for him
This is actually common place. Not murder but I seen it for 20 years in the Army. Young married couple at their first duty station, wife’s first time away from small town USA, husband gone alot, lots of muscular fit guys giving her all the attention she wants. Never ends well.
That's sad
@@sheenl1409 it really is but it’s not just women so I should have made a better point cause guys do the same thing. I’ve seen both ends. I’ve seen women move across the country for their husband who’s serving and she stays home alone with no friends while he’s out at the bars every night cheating. Don’t get me wrong there’s plenty of great men and women that make a great life out of the military. I did. But out of every platoon I’ve been in there’s always at least 1 scenario like this. Or a scenario of husband deploys and wife leaves with another guy and takes all the money from the husband. I’ve also had Privates marry strippers and get took too lol.
@@Dubbletap187 I've seen neighbors leave their spouses and get together. The spouses were in Iraq at the time. lol We used to be in our Internet Cafe...tent in Iraq and all of sudden you would hear "B*tch...I'm gonna kill you!" from someone on the telephones. You took a note of that guy's face. We had to send a lot of guys from Iraq back home to Ft. Bragg, NC. lol I don't want to get into any of my Germany stories. The Air Force Officers from Ramstein and K-town were all CERTIFIED swingers...the stories are never ending. 🤣
I'm glad I was born and raised in NYC I was able to get all that sh*t out the way young
That's why you shouldn't get married young it's foolish you're not done growing and you have to HOPE that you grow together instead of growing apart
My uncle was in the Marine corps 30 years. When he was 1st married his wife Kim lived with him all over the world. She came back to the states, oh she had his money, a nice home, a new vehicle and she cheated left, right and sideways. I refused to get in the middle . Our youngest brother did get involved and he told our uncle, our uncle told her he was being sent to Afghanistan, he is now administration. Our uncle had cameras sat up all over the house, well needless to say, she had no idea and our uncle is divorced, she lost everything. She had over 4 affairs and in my uncles home, he's doing good now and has been dating our neighbor, a real nice lady who likes him for him. Please watch your backs young men and women, lot of crazy out here.
Last gf literally put a curse on my body. Guess which part
Crazy is the who committed murder.
Military guys get screwed the worst
Your uncle didn’t choose violence that day. Good for him.
What a terrible wife. Cheating on him while he served the country. Military life can lead to a lot of affairs and heartbreaks. Couldn't be married and away all the time. That's not healthy for any relationship.
I went through the exact same scenario when I was stationed at 29 Palms 20 years before this happened, my wife at the time was also named Erin. Only difference is that she is alive, well and remarried.
I messed around with some married chick in 2010 in 29 palms
It’s sad that you had to go through that.
Pity
Hope you are doing better brother thank you for your service
idk why men would get married to a woman while in the military, women have no loyalty and will always cheat given the chance
I’m happy that the husband wasn’t the murderer.
But she wasn’t trapped in a love triangle. She created this love triangle.
It’s terrible that she was killed. But it is hard to feel sorry for her because she created this problem.
It’s hard to feel sorry for her? Do you think infidelity deserves a death sentence?
@@ohhipeterIt's hard to feel sorry for someone who cheats. No one said she deserved it. She could've just ended her marriage but no. He deserves to rot in hell for what he did.
@@ohhipeter It is almost impossible to feel sorry for her. The death penalty was the ancient punishment, I like to think that we've moved past that now. But be in no doubt, she was buried as a cheater.
@@ohhipeter I guess reading comprehension is a skill that you don’t have. I said, “it’s terrible that she was killed. But it’s hard to feel sorry for her because she created the problem.” As a soldier that had a cheating spouse during a deployment to Iraq, it is very hard to feel sympathetic for her. I do not wish death upon adulterers.
@@unitedwestanddividedwefall5098 i must agree with you. A lot of people have issues with reading comprehension. I wrote a similar comment and people were say “oh so she deserve to die”.
People may be surprised to know just how common these "love triangles" are in the military. It happens a lot.
The question is why? People seem to be getting married on a whim and also too early or too young, long and short for the wrong reasons
Military? How about life in general.
As both an “Army brat” & Soldier,it is an insular world where contacts are frequent-particularly in Military housing bases
@@MrBloodbank25People who rush into marriage with 1 having undesirable traits they can only “mask” so long
😮this is crazy awful 😕
Its just depressing to see how many people disrespect their marriages. 😢
People enter in to marriage not truly understanding what their entering into. Many are broken in some way. Even those who seem like to try have the perfect life. What sad is she died in her sin.
They disrespect marriages all the time, they bring race or politics or whatever into it. However, anything to say good is bad and bad is good is the world we now live in...
@user-gz9tq9fo5b Trump cheated on both of his wife bro Republicans are no better
The way it should be
Marriage is an outdated concept constructed entirely by religion. And religion is nothing more than a tool used to control and soothe the weak minded masses.
To lure someone to their death and casually talks about murder like that is a cold hearted psychopath. It doesn’t matter if someone cheats (even if it’s wrong) you don’t EVER kill another person.
But it does matter if someone cheats, it results in things like death
Most Marines talk like this esp infantry dudes.
She was as cold as the man she cheated with.
There must be 50 ways to leave your lover
@@lesliepropheter5040 why don’t women wear pantyhose anymore, it’s winter time…..
I feel bad for the husband & the guys wife & child. If you want to keep hooking up with other people, do NOT get married!!! Simple as that! They ruined 2 marriages by cheating. The husband is left with no wife, was cheated on, lied about being violent, & didn’t know if she was pregnant. The other wife, was cheated on, lied to, left with a daughter without a father. So sad. I also feel bad for the parents who lost their beloved daughter in a horrible way. Such a sad story all the way around. I hope her parents, the husband, & the wife & daughter can move on & live good safe , happy lives🌻 Rest in paradise Amanda🌻
Honestly tho if that was my dad take him to mf jail, why would I want to live with a killer anyway. Don’t even feel sad about daughter and mother being left alone, who would want a violent person, a killer at that. I’m good alone thankz me and my daughter idc
The military is full of cheating. It is really sad and scary.
@@tinktinkkks4209I can tell u r a woman
Theyre all too young
The problem is you forget that some people genuinely get a rush or some sort of thrill from being in volatile love triangles ,especially women enjoy competing for other mens attention and enjoy my fought over by men
One thing I have always said, If they will cheat with you - they will cheat on you. Even if you don't have enough respect for someone else, have enough respect for your self to leave people well enough alone who are in a relationship.
That is correct'
The same applies to gossip.
When someone gossips to you about someone else --
You can guarantee that they gossip to someone else about you.
Gossip is a social poison
The best one can do in such a situation is to dump the toxic friends -
because they are NOT your friends
AMEN
But it’s fun though 😅
Apparently Chris knew that too.
Not true
It’s great to finally see the documentary format back for these true crime videos.
Absolutely
I'm glad you mentioned that. I used to watch the show every single day. But I stopped when they went to a different type of format. It's awful. The standard episodes are by far the best way to go.
Agree 💯
Agreed❤
Is this a new episode??
You cheat, it brings more evil.
Dang, I feel so bad for the husband. Not only was he cheated on, but he became a suspect for a murder he didn’t even do. I guess the hurt must be so great for him, considering he wasn't in this interview.
The husband is still alife..u should feel bad for the person that died with the unborn child..it was double homocide.
@@godhg9694You mean the person that committed adultery with another MARRIED MAN? She created this whole thing. The husband is the victim, and no, I don't condone murder, so don't even try to go there.
@@Bullet44 u definitely show no compassion for the lost of life.
@@godhg9694feel bad for the husband but not the cheater wife , although she doesn’t deserve to be die with the baby but she knows the consequences to have relationship to a married man while she is married too , KARMA is the right word for her.
@@mariejhomortega9873 Lady your comment is really mean ..it was double homocide. why are you so heart-less, put some love in your heart.
This truly was a fatal attraction. Cheating on your husband with your eventual killer. A "married" woman texting a girlfriend she's hoping her "fling" boyfriend will propose to her??? WTF? She didn't deserve to die but she put herself in what became a deadly situation. Sad story indeed.
Why would that be a deadly situation?
@@eemoogee160 Try to Figure it out...
@crimewatch It is unsettling how Erin's parents and friend are smiling and casually interviewing abt her. Amst like they r talking abt her birthday party and not her murder. No tear, no sadness. Also, Erin was a cheater. There is no underplaying that, even if she unfortunately got murdered for it...But, if your parents aren't sad about your death, then it says a lot about you
@@eemoogee160 Really dude? LOL
@mcmans_ I see no reason anyone should believe their stupid emotions give them the right to harm others. Comments like these normalize senseless murder.
This family is disgusting. I notice how the mother and sister tried to make the marine seem like the bad guy in like it was his fault that his wife cheated. These people were the wrong people to interview because all they did throughout this video was trying to make her seem so innocent like an angel.
Did it ever occur to you it was his fault? What if he was beating her or harassing her? How do you know she was not the victim in the entire situation? I guarantee he was a wife beater and treated her like crap. Women deserve respect and if their current man can't provide that, she needs to go elsewhere. Good for her, to bad the situation backfired.
I missed where her mother and friend spoke badly about the marine husband. I heard both the mother and father say that they thought he was nice, but were just worried that their daughter might close herself off, if she moved out of state with him, because she didn’t know anyone.
Philadelphia checking-in.Listen dildo, regardless of what anybody does in their marriage they don't deserve to be MURDERED!!
@@allysonaa5730 there were subtle hints. Also, are you married if you don't mind me asking?
@@stallionstudioslol you guarantee it😂. How’s that kiddo?
Being faithful saves a lot of drama and it’s cheap as well.
Being single definitely does.
@movementforsuccess23
Yep!
😂😂😂 How is she gonna expect a proposal when you're already married? lol.
Erin was self absorbed, selfish and delusional.
Young and immature, childlike…
Facts lol 😂
My ex-husbands' 2nd (now ex-) wife did. Then she accepted a proposal while she was married to him.
@@Das-uo9bl spill the tea. Tell us more please 🙏🏼
Makes me wonder if he thought about molesting his own child. He had some sick thoughts and I wonder if he has killed before.
He might as a marine!
Wow, I didn't think about that, but maybe you're right!!
He would have killed at one point for sure, but I don’t think he did it before because he made many mistakes and during his conversations and google search he was exploring ways to make someone disappear, that’s why I believe it was his first time.
@@Devi_Seona I see your point but not all murders are planned.
Poor husband he got done dirty.
Actually he avoided paying child support for a bastard born from his wife's infidelity and a divorce settlement.
He dodged a damn bullet.
@@ashesofhopesinabonfireofdr6341she never ☠️
1000%!!!! And no one said a word about it. Smh
They always do 😢
Shit happens way too much
The woman who escaped from a car accident deserved jail time.
Why?
She was the one who was hit, felt it not even big enough to call police at the “scene” & left. That happens a lot here in Florida.
she started it with the officer, dont talk to me multiple warnings, if she had been black she would not got the mulitple warnings, then to sue, and paid 20k
@@ohio2nv201 It's true. When the officer being interviewed said something like "we dropped it because it isn't jury friendly" what he really meant was "white women get a different justice system than everyone else."
She was out of line. She kept saying she didn’t not know that. Well, now she know, she should had comply.
I think it’s important to let our children know that not everyone is trusting.. instill good morals and have a good judge of character.
I’m sure you meant “trustworthy”, but with that said, I wish it was so easy to teach kids that all types of people can be lying evil scum, even the cute boy who lives down the street, with our words. Certainly there’s no harm in trying, and providing support and open lines of communication w/our kids is everything, but in my experience, as flawed beings we are stubborn dickheads and most of us need to learn these types of things on our own.
It's impossible to be a good judge of character without learning how narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths behave and their thought process and motives. They are the ones you need to watch out for and they're everywhere. Every single person in the world knows at least a few narcissists. All psychopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are psychopaths. All narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths lack empathy, which allows them to do horrific things on purpose.
I don't think that she so much trusted him as much she just wanted to gobble his knob.
@@nicktorr7888 yep, attracted to the bad boy. Knowing it's not what she deserves. I get so fascinated with the psychology of such. Innocent looking girl, picking abusive man and statements like, "he changed" lol
We can instill morals, but those morals will fail if we don’t place Jesus at the forefront of our lives. There is a reason why God set forth His commands.
Do not trust anyone if they’re willing to have an affair. How you get them is how you lose them. There are some exceptions to the rule but overall cheaters are people not to get involved with. People are capable of horrible things and we need to stay vigilant for our own sakes. If your gut tells you something is off, follow that because there usually is something wrong. That guy was capable of murder and she had no idea. I feel terrible for her husband, family and friends. May they have peace and solace. 😢
I agree with you about avoiding cheaters. If they’ll cheat with you, they will cheat on you. Just don’t let your own morals slide like that.
And it goes both ways... The cheater and the one willing to date a cheater. The top 2 requirements for even having a chance at a successful relationship is 1) trust and 2) good communication.
Any relationship that begins with lieing, threats, ultimatums etc. are 100% doomed to fail, often in very ugly ways.
@@misslora3896100% correct!
I don’t understand how people can do those things and sleep at night. My conscience would have killed me
@@Kimnguyen969I feel the same way.
Problem is there is SO many
Usually when you see this , its already to late.
But I beleive too these ppl do not change
They are selfish mean ppl, weak
I feel so bad for the husband, hope he later finds a good wife and gets to start a family, he probably got over her easily after seeing her true colors. She’s so delusional cheating while married and expects a married man to propose to her?🙄 and yet her parents say that she was “shy” or “innocent”. A devil in disguise, play stupid games win stupid prizes
She's dead. Why is he mad at the non living? You must be very unhappy.
@mondrella627
Strangely, not many people here feel bad for Chris’ wife as well. As he was cheating on her too with a married woman, willingly and knowingly guilty of the same exact thing, and at the end also became a murderer. Double devil?
Hope that she too finds strength to get over it and lives a happy life.
She behaved like a trollop she was a teen for God s sake she forgot she was a married woman expecting a child and expected a married man to leavehis wife for her common now , she acted like a loose woman ,of course no one deserves to be killed no one has the right to do that, but I'm sorry but she brought her tragic end on herself the oky victim here here is the unborn baby
@@ileanaacacostaacosta1813When you use the word "but", it completely negates your comment, "Noone deserves to die." You ARE saying she deserved to die.
Good thing(?) I suppose, that you didn't make any mistakes as a teen. Or if you did, didn't pay for them with your life.
Jfc
How can you say that how evil are you? Nobody expects too fall in love With someone else.
I hate to tell you thi@@ileanaacacostaacosta1813
That was a messed up woman… I hope her husband have a good happy life.
You disappointed in her, but he's a scumbag? Both of them were scumbags
Exactly. I caught that too.
Yep. I just made this comment before i saw urs. The fact that both her and her friend were excited in the text message when they thought he was going to propose made it worse.
Exactly the comment I was going to make! Funny how only one side, of two people both cheating on their spouses, is a scumbag!
I think the friend knew the whole time,she was letting them use her house to cheat she’s just disappointed it ended how it did
feminist logic. men bad women victims
As a parent, I would have been extremely disappointed in any daughter who cheated on her husband and who showed no regard for the other wife. Sadly, this young woman’s poor decision ended in her death and that was a tragedy for all involved.
I find this interesting that it put all the blame on the girl. Another perspective a married man and woman have an affair, and the man is a violent murderer. This would just be a broken marriage if he wasn’t. Bad marriages aren’t a scapegoat to murder.
So the murderer whose decision it was to kill her bears no responsibility? Wow, way to blame the victim.
@@lizab7625she did it to herself
Ridiculous! Everyone makes mistakes but to say unfortunately her poor decision ended in her death is like saying everyone’s poor decision to work at the Trade Center on 9/11 ended in their deaths. No! A sick killer purposely killed a naïve immature woman. But blame the victim because you were cheated on once and focus on that tiny part of what happened with this murder.
yeah i wouldnt want my daughter to be a cck gobbler either
Funny how the friend call the guy a "scumbag" but she was just "disappointing" apparently she had no problem starting an affair with her friend's husband under the nose of her own husband. This 2 people have very questionable morals, she didn't deserve to die obviously but her poor decision making was a factor.
I know.I have also mentioned that in my comment. I said how the friend got it wrong and they are both scumbags.
Sad, her mom feels so guilty because she knew her adult child was not capable of taking care of herself. As a parent that is a terrifying feeling.
Naive isnt the word. She had no concept of character or how to read people. A little girl fantasizing. How could he marry her when he was already married? He was just playing with her. Sad. I feel sorry for the parents and the husband. And the dog/cat.
or that SHE was already married
My family and I were stationed in 29 palms when she went missing. The days went on forever. After the 3rd day when they didn’t find her I just knew she was gone because she was pregnant with no water. It was very sad.
If you're cheating with a married man, i can promise you, he's not going to propose. He's already got one wife he can't be faithful to, why would he want another one? And why would you want him? He won't change for you. The friends calling the cheating man a scumbag, your friend was also married... she was just as guilty for that relationship.
Edit to add: she still didn't deserve to die. She was a kid. I know i made plenty of mistakes when i was her age, she still deserved to live out the rest of her life.
I spent four years on active duty in the U.S. Army. I can say without equivocation that marriage and the military do not mix and that's whether a servicemember's spouse is active-duty military or a civilian. The things I've seen and even done myself, I am not honored to say, will blow anybody's mind. Whenever I see videos of wives waving little flags and greeting their husbands returning from deployment, it just makes me cringe.
Can you specify what you mean? I never thought it was that bad
@keller109 it means 65% of the service people cheat on their spouse and 50% of the stay at home spouses cheat on their service men or women. The whole military society is nothing but cheaters and ripe with sexual diseases.
yeah, yall are either cheaters or beaters. Adultery and sexual deviancy runs rampant with yall. My sisters husband is in the us army and this dude straight up told her he's a serial cheater when he got caught and wouldn't change. I wouldn't date or marry yall even if a gun were pointed at my head.
That's not really true. Not only I did 9 years in the Army but an Air Force brat. My father served 20 years in the Air Force and never once cheated on my mother nor did she. Sorry but just because you went through some hard times doesn't mean everyone has the same fate. During my 9 years in the Army I have met VERY successful couples serving either together or one serving and the other working civilian jobs to keep their family together. What makes me cringe is how you spit on those with successful relations just because you didn't have a good one. You have NO right to say that about everyone. I even had a boss who retired from the military and had a wonderful wife during his time serving and their marriage is still strong. If you think military and marriage or relationship don't mix then you are hanging out with the wrong crowd. Just because you had it bad doesn't mean you have the right to spite those who proved your comment wrong and have a strong marriage before, during and/or after serving.
@@keller109 Its not really that bad. Some people have to bring others down and thinking they know everyone. Not all marriage and relationship in the military is as bad you think. In fact A LOT of couple have a good life during and after serving.
Nobody deserves to be murdered. Yet, when you play with people’s emotions & get involved in love triangles….You never know what the final outcome may be.
If you are married, remain faithful. Focus on your marriage, communicate, devote yourself to each other. The same goes for committed relationships too.
I agree
Yet? What does “ Yet “ means?
My bad! You said nobody deserves to be murdered, right? 😂😂😂
If you cheat on your spouse you deserve to die. It's called an honor killing and that was normal up until recent times.
@@maxmx767yet some people play games that lead to their murder
@@pale_saint So you are justifying MURDER?
Listen men ! No matter how bad a relationship gets walk away from that person . There is never any excuse good enough to ever harm a woman or child
Yes, i totally agree.
I agree... but the marines are trained killer so it doesn't surprise me this happened
Most men won’t do this!!!!!! This is just the bad seeds that will pop up. It will always be crazy people in the world.
I almost want to say she got what she deserved but no one has the right to take another human's life. Every human life should be treasured not taken because of something so senseless.
@@jessicajamesspeaks 💯👈🏿 BUT!!! I wonder what the world would be like if we all got what we really deserved 🤣🥱please don’t let that go over your head. Im
I also know of a married woman who cheated with another married man. I have absolutely no respect for her. She was hurting her husband, her children, the other man's wife and children. Her selfish lust destroyed so many people.
I hope you also have no respect for the man who cheated on his wife as well.
I feel so bad for her mother. She lost a child and grand child. She also has to live with the knowledge of her daughter’s poor choices. That’s really hard. Nevertheless, no one deserves to be murdered. Her life mattered too, she was dealing with trauma. But I especially feel bad for the baby and for the husband who was cheated on and became a suspect in her murder when he was innocent. So many hurt lives, it pains me.
All because she couldn’t keep her 🐱 in her damn panties
Married men should stay away from married women
Morality should still prevail
Her mother didn’t seem to be very concerned about that. Who knows? Maybe the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree
She played with a fire and got burned. i feel sorry for her family and husband.
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Husband did not loose too much, if any! The victim lost her life! She did not deserve that. Nor her parents didn’t deserve! Hope in your family everybody is perfect!
@@liliivanova2920 "perfect" is an overly used word which is to be dismissive of another's opinion. No one has to be perfect, they just need to be better than that evil dead woman.
The husband did lose. He lost the love of his life and a potential first born child.
She didn't deserve to be murdered but this woman certainly chose to live on the edge and push her luck. A little hard to feel empathy for manipulators like Erin.
I do not care what the person did or was like
NO ONE is appointed to give or take life except God and those He appoints.
In Gandalf’s words
“Are *you* going to give it
to them Frodo?”
How dare we judge anyone alive or dead. Leave it to those appointed to their positions.
when you fuck around you find out
the biggest manipulator here was the killer. He cheated on his wife, and he had a daughter and was a marine. He killed his pregnant lover... he is a low life manipulator.
100%
@@tazmrm0373”How dare we judge anyone alive or dead” pretty easy to. She sucked as a person
Take time to get to know your person before either getting married or having a child with someone....know them...their family and who they work with
These two knew each other since childhood I'm fairly certain they said.
@@annalieb2075 -- I think you're right ... I believe they said they'd known each other from the boarding of the horses since the 5th grade
Humans are bizarre creatures, doesn't matter how long you have known them
This is the type of lady who never does anything wrong. She has to stop and report that’s the part of the driving test. If you know use of force. She was at fault and if she files suit she will get laughed at. Always the victim! It’s ridiculous that someone actually believes that this is improper use of force.
Uhhhhhh, you’re insane.
23:44 Without a doubt - The best argument ever made against the death penalty. I’m so sorry for your loss ma’am.
For that second video, people, if a cop reads you your Miranda rights (which makes no sense given the situation) then stop talking and get a lawyer. If you have to say anything let it be explaining you won’t talk without a lawyer. They can arrest you whether it’s right or not, so don’t fight them. Take care of it in court and if you have a right to not say anything, but they then arrest you for not acting anything obviously you can sue.
If she had been armed she was within her rights to shoot the cop, and she would have skated as a matter of law. The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
@@williamclayton9566Or she could have just shut up.
@@williamclayton9566a report from the alleged victim!! she was the victim, someone crashed into her car she didn't crash into anyone's car, this is what I don't understand Why it had to go this far... is this how they treat an assault victim who walks away after being assaulted?? It's obvious that officer was in the wrong else they would never have dropped the charges
@@williamclayton9566 Dream on. She resisted arrest, fought with the cop, and had she shot him she'd be rotting in prison right now.
@williamclayton9566 probably the dumbest comment I've ever seen 😂
Molested his daughter. What a monster of a man even saying that.
Could be true
He was just trying to minimize what he did by making a more heinous accusation about someone else
The Police Officer in the last video needs to be fired in my opinion.
Agree. Way too aggressive.
AGREE! What a pus.sy!
But it is a rule; do not resist arrest or talk to a police officer disrespectfully
She did both
Why escalate??
When police are talking to you, even if you believe you're innocent, just shut up comply and sue them later. That's how sensible people do it.
Touché
Detective: it’s no need for you to lie to me right now🤣😂
Thank you. Then when her butt is tased she wants to cry "I'm just a girl". Boo hoo.
Exactly. That cop escalated the situation. She is not trained, HE IS.
American cops throw their weight around way too much. In Europe, the police fear the citizens. You would never see this happening in the U.K.
I would want to see his personnel file. I will bet he has had other complaints about his aggression. And what people don’t understand is that the number of times the cop acts inappropriately way exceeds the number of complaints. There was one case where the cop had been involved in more than 20 instances but all complaints had been dropped.
Guess why? Police intimidate them into dropping their complaints. That cop is going to hurt someone seriously and then they will take his behavior seriously.
@@ailleananaithnid2566 in America it’s bigger then one cop. Plus most people really be asking for it over here. 🤣😂
I completely understand how the mom cherished the video with her daughters voice. My dad passed away in 96 when I was 11. I wish I could have anything with his voice.
I have my mom last voice recording, and it’s h hard for me to listen to.
Blessings
Blessings
Absolutely horrendous situation. Horrific for those innocent people left behind
YOU CANT LEAVE THE SCENE OF AN ACCIDENT YOU CAUSED.
she was tapped from behind, she didn't do anything wrong and didn't consider it an accident
she didnt CAUSED she was the victim but decided not to care
Watch the video again and listen more closely, she didn’t cause thr accident
@@bbennyj yet another one of americas finest showing their bullying nature, that police force is terrifying.
@@ETSSNIPERu can’t leave the scene of an accident, period. She claimed she didn’t know but then said, “it’s not that bad.” So she knew. Bc what she may think wasn’t her fault- could be her fault. What side was she hit from behind? Was she in her lane? Many questions which is why u don’t leave.
Even still, she should’ve just said: I didn’t know until after I parked. What can I do? -Even if he’s being aggressive, STFU and then sue.
What pisses me off is that is shows how white women get charges dropped where I was actually compliant, arrested as a mistaken identity but bc the DA knew I had a strong case and knowing an innocent spent half a night in jail- they hit me with resisting even though I was 100% innocent. Standing, waiting for an Uber. The tapes show the cops confronting me while I’m super confused. Apparently, another Hispanic woman was causing shit inside the venue but thought it was me. Not only that, I was arrested from behind yet I’m still compliant not struggling just obv confused.
They said I resisted bc I kept asking why I was being arrested. At this point, I’m a 38yo, never even had a ticket, kid is grad HS 2 years early and I just sold a biz. I fought this misdemeanor charge for 2 years and 30k. I was made to come to court on a monthly basis even having a warrant put out bc they got the date wrong.The DA “lost the cop footage,” but didn’t know my cell phone captured everything. It finally was dropped after I demanded a trial and only after I told the judge- who also got in trouble after we complained the DA was withholding evidence & said, “you should be thankful u can afford a lawyer and if u continue to complain, we will hold u in contempt,” that we got the transcripts and will release them to the public along with the tapes and how the court, knowing I was falsely arrested refuses to uphold the law and drop the case. Even though they settled with me, my lawyer got half, and it took a total of 5 years from me and stress.
To see a snarky, entitled woman who obviously lied be treated like a victim just shows how the justice system works for white ppl.
I feel so much for young people in situations like this. I was barely 18 when i got involved with my husband. He was USMC at the time and about 6yrs older than me. Almost 20years later we are still together, married and with an almost 11yr old child. I still wonder what was i thinking getting into such a serious relationship at such a young age. I love the absolute heck out of him even now and will love him forever but its so young. Erin 19 and pregnant in the middle of the Marine Corps wife life world is a blessing and So overwhelming. For me...San Digo, 29 Palms, recruiting locations in the midwest, traveling overseas with a toddler... its been a life. Now retired and dealing with mental health (him) from 2 deployments overseas and disabilities. Its a lot. Im 37 now I cry a lot. Depression.. etc. Wouldnt change this life bc my 2 favorite people i get to hold close. Him and our child. ... but in the blink of an eye here we are. Military life looks glamorous to so many ppl but what really happens on the inside within the personal walls of your home and ehat you go through on a daily basis no one could understand unless they live it. 🙏 ❤
Kudos to you for enduring. Military life never looked glamorous to some of us. I always suspected it comes with the challenges you describe. They deserve love too though, and it's good thee are strong people like you to give that love. Wishing you less tears and more joy in the future.
Much respect to you for holding it down for bro. That is true wife material!
Semper Fi family. I served for 20 years (USMC/0369) and have been retired another 21 years. I wish you and your family continued success and happiness. You ma'am are an absolute blessing to your family.
Strange ... at 18 years you are a grown up person. At least in Europe. You can vote and are allowed to drive a car.
As a father this brings me to tears.
Don't bring up a hoe and you won't have a problem
Reminder to teach our kids morals. Don't cheat on people.
@@avalonjustin "cHeATinG iS iMmoRaL" 💀☠🤡🙄
bud it's not important enough to be immoral
@@4m3mory Honey, you're not mature enough to be on the internet unsupervised. Your username and comment are enough to prove that.
@@avalonjustin bro wanted smth to shit on other than my comment so conveniently brought up my username... ok cheating views aside ur prob one of those f*thers (🤢🤮) who breed and then delude themselves into thinking they're soooo important to their children/offspring when they're not bc the children would live just as fine or even better without them
What starts wrong will end wrong
I was involved in a minor accident where somebody hit me. The two drivers involved, me being one of them, decided we didn’t need the police. When the officer arrived, we told him we didn’t need him.
"The heart of man is so deceitful, who can understand it" 😢
Woman have all the power when it comes to love its all her own fault she could of said no
"she belongs to the streets"
@@brigzy7978 100% right
Not all men just like this woman with the police that got tazed, all woman are not like her thank christ ,I'm a girl !! Ohh please !! She went after that police officer 1st and she deserves everything she has common to her grow up sister it's time to spend time with the adults in jail fir a bit ,then let's hear u complain about being a girl ,lol our sister convicts will show u what a woman is ...😂hood luck to her...
She Used to belong to the streets she now is dead and not apart of this world anymore or it's lusts
She didn't deserve to die at his hands. Unfortunately, affairs can have a lot of terrible consequences.
It wasn't an affair. It was a psychopath who wanted to see if he could seduce someone's wife. Moral of the story is, teach your daughters to be faithful and honest, because there be predators everywhere, ready to whisper in girls' ears.
@@artstation707it was indeed an affair. That is literally the definition of cheating on your spouse.
@@dqreps this was a cozened young lady, even lured to her death with the promise of a wedding ring. He sweet-talked her about being better than her loser husband. That always works with naive girls.
Once he’d taken her from her partner, he felt accomplished, believing he was worth something. He saw a gullible fool who threw away her life for mere words. That’s why he couldn’t resist the urge to snap her innocent neck.
The child inside her certainly didn't deserve to die!
play stupid games
win stupid prizes
she was fragile in her thinking, her mom said she was naive, people like that thinks everything is love
Naive, but lie and cheat? You're abusing the word "naive" here! Preserve it for other people who deserve it, pls!
She was into beastality “loved horses”
Not love but lust! Wrong is wrong
They said she was shy and a homebody 🤣
Her mom was worried she wouldn’t make friends because of shyness says how much she didn’t know her daughter.
She’s married to one marine, sleeping with other marines and ends up pregnant by god knows who ….
This woman is a disaster and responsible for her own unfortunate demise.
We reap what we sow
She didn't make friends because they probably didn't trust her.
Furthermore not everybody who's in the military is deserving of the expression thank you for your service
Everybody is already DEAD
That is why they are a BODY
Every'one' is alive
Actually - How many of YOU are there in existence on this earth ?
I also read some where that women played around while their husbands were deployed. It just blows my mind how they could do that when their husbands' lives are on the line every day or in fierce battles. I'd be on my knees praying every night for his safe return.
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This all happened miles from my home. I'll never forget that. I've been to this mine also.. absolutely terrifying. The 29 Palms Marine Base sadly has a lot of gruesome violence and domestic violence. I think the heat makes people nuts here.
prairie demons
stay safe
There is probably a lot of DV because the wives on base are getting ran through by every soldier around. Does someone deserve to die for that no but her 304 actions are 100% responsible for her death.
@@SavageFrenchies Get a clue.
Yeah, I remember that place as a Marine...CAX! I wanted to kill my CO for sending me there! (just a joke).
@crimewatch It is unsettling how Erin's parents and friend are smiling and casually interviewing abt her. Amst like they r talking abt her birthday party and not her murder. No tear, no sadness. Also, Erin was a cheater. There is no underplaying that, even if she unfortunately got murdered for it...But, if your parents aren't sad about your death, then it says a lot about you
This is why teenagers shouldn’t be getting married. Erin was too young and naive to be newly married a thousand miles from home.
They should absolutely get married. This is a one off situation
You ain’t lying
There are consequences for adultery. She started cheating with a murderer and payed the ultimate price.
This happened in my home town of the Morongo Basin. I feel Chris Lee's wife had something to do with the whole set up of "Chris getting rid of the problem in their marriage." This was a huge event when Erin went missing and when she was found in the mind shaft. They didn't disclose the bing her cell phone it was found with her body. I felt for her family especially her mom she was here all the way up to them finding her daughter. What should have been a vacation for the two of them ended up in the discovery of her daughter had been murdered.
Maybe it’s just I haven’t had my coffee yet, but took me 20min in, to realize Lee and Chris were the same dude
His name is Chris Lee l. 😅❤
Such a sad story 😢 I believe Erin got married way too young. Her passion was horses she should have carried on doing that. She was very immature
I'm sorry but youth has nothing to do character.
nah deserved
Her passion ended up being cheating on her husband.
She could get lost in a closet. Her father said that...she stood no chance in military life
The video of Erin teaching a kitty to obey commands was irony because she couldnt teach her own kitty to not cheat on her own husband
Omg…she was a 19 year old girl ffs.
Wow🤢
@@mikanisbestgrill8645wtf does being 19 have to do with it? There’s plenty of teenage girls 19 or NOT who can handle themselves to not cheat. Your comment makes no sense whatsoever. She went out having sex with another MARRIED dude while hers was at home by himself. Make that make sense? YOU CANT!
What police never acknowledge is it's their literal job to be courteous, think critically, and de-escalate problems, but then they try to throw equal responsibility on citizens. It's not their job it's yours. Unless someone is being physically violent there's no reason for it.
And have to be assaulted? Try being a beat cop for a year. 😒
They escalated that interaction really badly. Like yeah, the lady was being a Karen and should have just not said anything, and immediately asked for a lawyer... but being arrested for a tiny fender bender at work is probably going to make most people pretty pissed! The cop seems like one of the dudes that was a bully in school and grew up to be a cop lol
@@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CATBut she hit out at the cop ! She tried to assault him !
So your logic is that people shouldn’t be held accountable nor have the ability to think critically because police exist. Wow.
@@DocUnstopped accountable for what? The other people crash her, she was the victim of the accident. She was chill enough to leave without filing a report because her car had no damage. He made up the situation and as his own supervisor said, is not the first time he approaches someone in an aggressive way for no good reason. He needs to be accountable, just imagine if it was a real crime, that guy would have no problem discharging his weapon on anybody. Now the Audacity of the police station asking her to drop the lawsuit.
The girl was the victim of. a fender bender & the cops roughed her up & tased her.
That cop is sadist & Definitely needs to be fired
😂👍 sure thing
Don’t resist and maybe she wouldn’t have been tazed. How is this not understood by now?
@@taydestiny38This is why many communities say PLEASE defund the police.
@@janetmccoy7945and in turn you have a city ravished by Robbery and Lawlessness smh y'all make no sense look at NYC for example and Los Angeles homelessness and crime at it's highest since the 70's and 80's after they defunded the police the cops don't care no more
@@taydestiny38dont resist? Fragile minded cop couldn’t handle a little attitude from a woman. He let his feelings dictate his actions. Dudes a clown.
Remember kids, the police are not there to “serve and protect,” but to enforce laws. Do not invite them into your homes, do not talk to them without a lawyer present, but most importantly try not to do anything that might cause you to be in the crosshairs of any law enforcement officer. You do wrong, you’ll be arrested and possibly ruin your lives. They do wrong, they’ll investigate themselves and find no wrongdoing.
This is indeed the way people rightly feel and think as a result of aggressive police officers.
😮 exactly 💯
...even if you don't do wrong....
@0tuc, Police can write anyone a ticket for anything and they do. Americans are being ruled by lawless deepstate terrorists in uniform.
POL ICE only serve and protect their Masters
The foreign Elite Bankers - who actually refer to them as "" Our Dogs ""
Which is about correct
as the greater majority of them are secondary psychopaths
and are Brain-damaged - order-following dogs without morals.
I refer to them as
C-riminal
U-nited
N-ations
T-yranny
S-upporters
The officer is doing his job - she came for him. That's a major red flag.
We all need good friends in our lives that could call us out and check us when we're going out of line.
I don't understand why a woman who was rear-ended was arrested??
@@alvinvegamendez8674 no they could have sent her and ticket an took her to a court date. She got hit and just left to get to work, people are firing people for the smallest things now.
Watch it again. It's explained pretty well
@@hughjass1835 yup watch very immature young cops all they had to do was ticket her and bring her with a citation it was a fender bender they could have said we are giving you a citation now cause she is a white she is a Karen.
@@alvinvegamendez8674, is there really such a law
That woman was in the wrong, she popped attitude, and resisted complying with the officer told her she, by law was obligated to not leave the scene of the accident...despite what she thought. Also, you cannot use being a girl as an excuse to not be handled in such a manner when you're not accepting you broke a law, non-compliant, kicking and screaming at an officer, and act like you're not in the wrong at all.
Since she'd been mirandized, she had every right to say "then don't talk to me"...he just didn't like it and decided to use his "authority". He even said "I COULD arrest you" insinuating that he wasn't planning on it.
If she had been armed she was within her rights to shoot the cop, and she would have skated as a matter of law. The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
@@williamclayton9566Remember her vehicle was hit from the rear and no damage so she literally did nothing wrong
Can you imagine if she was black ? She wouldn’t live to tell her story
@@williamclayton9566 you have got to kidding right? smh full blown moron
I'm so sorry for her Mother and Father!
Nothing will ever be the same!
I pray God will Comfort and give her Family Peace because I just couldn't imagine.
Always freaks me out how regular folk become murderers. It affects the way I live. If a man gets angry in my presence...whether my own brother or a stranger...I immediately walk away. I also never put myself in situations where I'm physically trapped. To this day I sleep with a locked door . To me everyone is a murderer-in-waiting😂.
It's a shame for having to think /feel this way but you are absolutely right 🤷😩
This is why I won't have a gun in my home...
You could be talking about Case 2 and the cop
you are right but please never forget that there are people out here who are kind and will jump to help you if necessary.
But ^this wasn't just some regular guy who suddenly became a murderer. This guy had been talking with his wife and friends about how he could kill someone and successfully dispose of a body. It sounds like he was just waiting for an opportunity to do that.
I wonder if she called or thought about her husband that's waiting at home for her while the new man she loved was killing her... And the new guy's baby🤔. Grass wasn't greener huh....l
The grass is greener above her grave than underneath🤷
Very true… many of these young women are learning the same lesson that men have been “learning” for all time… I guess at least its beginning to even out the cheating gap.
I've always heard not get into serious relationships while in military to avoid unexpected surprises when you come home. But I realised, this kind of situation can happen to any non military couple.
Pitifully naive woman lost her life as a consequence of her poor judgement.
I am just happy they found this poor poor girl and she wasn't down there forever. So heartbreaking 💔
THIS WORLD DIES IN 10 months or less all 8 billion Die.
@@davidway4259Let me guess..."Jesus is coming", right?
@@Phreno_XenoYeah , me too !
Happy for what poor girl? She acted like an ass and was treated accordingly!
She was not so poor
Cheating while married
And thought the man she was Cheating with was going to propose to her🫨🤣 that's a very unique way of proposing
When gauging a person you expect to be with for the rest of your life, you always pay attention to their friends and family. Erin's mother seems like she isn't even bothered by the fact that her pregnant daughter is dead and was murdered. I couldn't detect any real emotion in her interviews here. That should have been a huge red flag. Her so-called friend didn't even have the decency to tell her husband about what was going on. Red flag #2. I'm sure there's a ton of others. The only person I really feel bad for is Erin's husband. He didn't deserve any of this. I hope he can move on and find someone who really cherishes him.
It should be noted that people who cheat on their husbands or wives are so terribly despised that most won't even have sympathy for them dying. I can guarantee you most others in this comment section will say the same. If only people would think beforehand.
IKR!
Poor mother, she grieved and then strong enough to gave an interview after 5 years the incident occured and some internet stranger says you didn't feel anything for the death of your daughter.
@@toms18 I'm not the only one...if it isn't apparent to you, you're simply not paying attention. People don't even care that she's dead. They feel bad for the husband.
@@GSP-76 she and her husband had a teary eyes and she almost cried once, if it isn't apparent to you, but apparently we watched a different video. People deal with grief in a different way, and you are not there with her every day, stop trying to be a body language expert, a fake field, and sympathize a bit.
Have a nice day, hope you are always healthy, I'm gonna bounce, I don't like to argue on the internet.
@@toms18 I sympathize with her husband...and I'm far from the only one who felt the same about her parents. Cheaters and betrayers don't get sympathy. Its a hard fact of life. She literally wanted to go run away with her affair partner who saw fit to rather kill her. That's Darwin award levels of stupid. If she didn't want to be with her husband, why not just get divorced? Then she would have been free to chase whoever the hell she wanted. Her friend was no different than her. She's saying one thing in this video but actively hiding her affair from the husband. All shitty people who made stupid life choices.
That is so horrible. Affairs kill either physically mentally or emotionally all those around and involved.
Chick?!?! LMAO you are supposed to stop oh my gosh 🤣 😂 you don't continue driving 😂
So they use her miscarriage to justify why she cheated on her husband,ok 🙄
She shouldn't have cheated on him, but then she shouldn't have been killed either
Cheating is bad, but it's not a crime. Murder is.
So you’re using an affair to justify him killing her, ok 🙄
@wildfllowerpower she didn't cheat on the man that killed her? Did you watch the episode? Typical feminist.
About the arrest... The officer should have SAID, "You are under arrest" - not, "Turn around". In his head, he hears, "I am arresting her" - but she didn't know wtf was happening to her. That said, never resist arrest! It can be sorted out later, but when told you're under arrest - you do what the officer tells you to do. Even when you think they are wrong. Live today, sue them tomorrow!
yes, first of, Don't call anybody honey. He's not your husband or friend, he's there doing his job. Second, she's the first to push and maybe kick. Don't resist. You'll be in more trouble than you already are. I was given a speeding ticket once. I wanted to give my side of the story to the police but this police kept saying just tell that to the judge or pay the fine. I refused to pay and went to court. In court, I asked the judge what happens when the police officer lies. I gave my full account and the court dismissed my case. Although I was told to pay $64 for court fee. I could have fought for it but I just paid it. ... As for the police officer, he could have handled it better. Being a hot head won't help him. He is in a position that he could be judged by his action.
The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
@@williamclayton9566
Yes, of COURSE it was totally unlawful. But if these officers gave 2 shits about that, they wouldn't be doing a totally unlawful arrest in the first place, would they! My point was, that regardless of whether you think that the cops are completely in the wrong, and even if you KNOW they are in the wrong - for your own safety & wellbeing - just don't give them ANY REASON AT ALL to shoot you- if you want to stay alive & even remain unharmed, then DON'T resist arrest.. the police station isn't far away so sort it all out there in the presence of rational, law-abiding officers! You can sue them tomorrow.
She should have just been given a ticket and told to appear in court. This stupid cop was on a power trip.
She knew exactly what was going on. The cop told her multiple times that she'd committed a criminal offence by leaving the scene of a motor vehicle accident. He even read her out her miranda rights.
After they got her back to her feet she starts whining like a 5-year-old, "How could you do this to a girl?".
To be young and naive can really get you into bad situations how sad it ends like this
That woman that was arrested was ridiculous, she had such a bad attitude and was so rude & then refused to even turn around …. & then says she got arrested for calling him honey . No , you got arrested because you committed a crime & when a cop tried to talk to you , you got tough .. & not having a criminal history isn’t an excuse , you show respect to an office of the law . Period . She didn’t initially know it was a crime , get that , but it was clearly explained to her & she still argued , everything after that was her fault . Absolutely ridiculous. & the fact that it got dropped sucks because I bet she thinks she was right . She has PTSD because of her own attitude . Goofy.
It's sad and it's a horrible waste of human life I feel awful for her parents and her husband and for her having to go through whay she did, but when you play these kind of games and you cheat on your spouse you really are risking everything even your life.
I wish she didn’t die but they’re on here talking like she wasn’t cheating kissing her husband beforehand while also saying the killer tried to bring down her character as she lied to her husband excited to be proposed to. Mother said “I wonder what her daughter was thinking when she thought she loved and could trust this person” as she should’ve been home with the man who vowed to love her and trust her. She put herself in that situation, not anyone else, again, I wish she wasn’t dead but this ish happens to people when they're doing wrong all the time
Since when does sarcasm get a person arrested?!?
Leo with no communication skills?? Nothing new.
I’m all for policing but this is nonsense
I can understand why people are afraid of a regular ole person with a badge.
Her mom is as delusional as her daughter. I’m sorry mom, but your daughter isn’t the victim here. 🤷♂️ Maybe you should have taught her better.
She definitely didn’t deserve this . But this is why you don’t cheat ! On a good man that’s doing a good thing rip to this beautiful person
A proposal in the desert? Something about this little redneck girls
What on earth was that police officer thinking. The accident wasn't her fault if she's hit from behind and everyone knows about insurance scams. This officer needs to be gone.
Seems like it was personal like she rejected him in the past! He was a punk
Police chief, too. No one has gotten to the point I've made here: If she had been armed she was within her rights to shoot the cop, and she would have skated as a matter of law. The arrest was completely, TOTALLY unlawful. It was kidnapping/unlawful confinement. The courts have repeatedly ruled that ANY arrest w/o a warrant, absent certain specific circumstances, is a violation of the 4th Amendment. Those circumstances are that the crime must be an ongoing breach of the peace, AND be committed in the presence of the officer/arrestor (true with citizen's arrest as well). ALL OTHER CASES REQUIRE A WARRANT. They found her once, they could've found her again. She was a solid citizen. If they had gone to the trouble of getting a sworn statement from the alleged victim, and then visiting a judge, they could've been in the clear. As it was, the cop risked his life, because it would've been permissible for any armed bystander to put 2 in this pigs' head - he's an armed felon committing an ongoing breach of the peace in the presence of the enforcer.
If a husband or boyfriend had an altercation and treated their wife or girlfriend like the police did, they would be arrested and placed in jail. These vicious thugs in uniform blame the victim and drop the made-up charges against her. When cops say stop resisting, it means stop wincing in pain and let us mop the floor with you while we mock you and make fun of you. These out of control gangsters need to do serious time and be removed from all law enforcement for their lifetime.
Nothing ever good comes from resisting arrest either.
That’s true but at the same time he shouldn’t have been trying to arrest someone who got hit.
Yup, she should have complied!!