00:00 Introduction 14:06 How we process information 41:16 Awareness test 44:34 Using what you see to validate how you are feeling 46:35 Patterns of behavior 54:14 Takeaways 58:51 Jane (eye movement integration) 1:14:05 Belinda (circle of excellence) 1:25:29 Visual accessing cues
I am 7 years late 😢... But you can't imagine how much this is helping in helping my teenage daughter... Thank you so much may The Lord bless you. Love and peace from Iraq❤❤❤
20:00 to 24:52 when he told 2 people to give their side of the story he began to get personal which probably made others feel attacked or nervous to give a story but then he read the room and give a quick speech of empowerment by switching their mental models from “this is who i am” to “this is how ive been acting” which changed everyone’s perspective to give a speech and immediately right after someone felt confident enough to say theirs 👏🏾 just an observation but thats some powerful shit
This was brilliant! Thank you! And yes, I was at Tony Robbins's UPW event (Unleash the Power Within) in 2022, it was great! But you have explained some other things which were not at the UPW. When I did the 1st exercise, I neutralised an unpleasant event within minutes which I stored in my brain for years. 😃 Incredible 😯
Great job that I have enjoyed watching it 3 times and was taking notes. I’m a certified coach and I enjoyed not only listening and learning but also the way he was delivering his class and the amount of sincerity and devotion he was showing. Excellent job.
my view is that l should be grateful l to this gentleman for providing such a wealth of information whilst lm watching in comfort ...I will be forever grateful I send my love through the airwaves for such a stellar presentation
People who always want free always want short and quick will never reach there destination.... Be patient be cool watch all the way and you will discover gems along the way ❤❤❤❤
I would just like to extend my sincere appreciation and gratitude for making this workshop available to those which seek innerstanding! This has been instrumental on my journey. I am focused towards introducing NLP and Healing coaching to an audience of individuals which will benifit from the life changing techniques... I fell the energy that you are an amazing man, father and husband... keep up the good work. you are blessed so you can be a blessing to others! Namaste!
My purpose (in these videos) is help others help themselves create a more fulfilling life. Comments like yours is WHY I do this. I am reminded of the story of the young man who, walking along the beach, sees thousands and thousands of starfish washed ashore and stranded, dying, on the beach. Stricken by the tragedy, he feels a great sadness as he realizes the starfish, to innumerable to save, will all perish because there are too many to help. While lamenting on this, he notices an old man standing at the waters edge. One by one, he is picking up starfish and tossing them back into the ocean. Bewildered, the young man yells to the old man, "What's the point? It won't really make any difference. There's too many." The old man, smiling, as he tosses another back into the ocean, says, "It made a difference to that one!"
@@NLPandHypnosis That starfish story is one of my favourites. Footprints in the Sand is another even though I'm not religious. It's just very beautiful.
Robert Harrison I just found your video on TH-cam and after searching through a lot of NLP vids. I found you to be very clear and easier to understand. I am keen to see more of your videos , and learn more ... Thank you Richard from the UK.
@@RobertHarrisonBusinessReleasing those limited beliefs are freeing. And the since you have with those "teenagers" you see humans at job or business works the same.🤗
I appreciate your way of communicating and articulating all this important info... how appropriate! I just notice that too many other NLP experts and Hypnotists play ego-maniac and suggest their way to earning respect and credibility... you don't need to do that and you come across as very trustworthy and in this for sincere reasons. That is lacking unfortunately in this arena. You are awesome! Thank you for sharing!
I love listening to talks or books when I work. I am very glad I came across this video. I think anyone truly interested in learning and particularly in learning about the workings of the mind would find a lot of value in this video. I loved how the speaker talks and teaches, for me it was very easy to take in and understand. I think most of the backlash in the comments comes from the "click-bate" title. Clearly this video is an hour and a half long, which to me is a plus. But no this is not a ten minute video that will suddenly make you become who you want to be, and I think the people who are looking for some quick trick may be missing the big picture in all this anyway. If you really care to change I think you have to gain an understanding of how things work and how your own mind works which to me cannot be taught/understood in ten minutes. Anyway, I got a ton of value from this video. Thank you for making it :) And thank you all the people watching this video I know you are capable of making the changes you hope to see in your life! :)
Your presentation of these ideas really connects with me. The thought occurred that if 'everyone' just grokked the importance of the map not equalling the territory, the world would be greatly benefitted.Thanks
The demos here are great; found the video useful for myself and should expect the same for those new to and experienced practitioners alike. Nicely done.
I’m Very Excited for my breakthrough session tomorrow using NLP with my therapist 🥳 ready to break free from yearss of panic attacks and ptsd 🦋🧘🏻♀️💯💎 thank you to all the amazing&curious minds that helped discover these mind tools so that I and many ppl around the world can live their best lives ✌🏽⚡️
@@robinelliott5561 hey Robin, it did! NLP/therapy empowered me to realize that I was making the decision to “panic” ... it’s wild to think it all comes down to choice and we have the power to choose how we react even when we feel completely out of control. it took me awhile to unravel- some days I walked out of session feeling confused, lost, and to be honest embarrassed at times... but now, there is this pause and distance between how I react to stressful situations and how control my energy when I feel triggered.. NLP allowed me to take notice that somewhere deep in my subconscious got logged the need to panic and certain self limiting believes I held about myself.. now I am very much in alignment with my truth and confidence in self. I have to take things day by day and sometimes moment by moment but no where near where I was, who I was, and far from where I been. I wish u love light and healing namaste 🙏🏽🦋
I’m sorry but I️ see a ton of people complaining about how long the video is. If you think that it’s too long, no body is stopping you. Click away! Why waste more of your precious time to write a comment saying it’s too long? That’s counterproductive! Please explain the though process behind this, me no unda stand!
@@mcharrison23 sure they do. It's valuable information, after all. Anyhow, the techniques to change your life can often be done in under 10 minutes, so the title isn't off. The video length is on the video before you choose it, anyhow.
This is so insightful. Many people use nlp for negative purposes and I was able to identify what people were doing to me. This is empowering. Great video
You said, "I was able to identify what people were doing to me" Correction: You were (feeling) what you wanted to see what people were doing to you. It is called REFRAMING... You can't change the picture (the people you were talking about) but you can change your FEELINGS, the FRAME around the Picture. I even sometimes and take the frame off and break it... It is not the Reality... it is what we THINK is the Reality is.. (scary). LOL
At the end...as in last minute or two...his example of looking down (depressed) and up ("can't access that way") is something I've observed via yoga practice. This was a very cool and meaningful point of connection for me. Great video.
Two things I’ve always done without consciously thinking about nlp is try to draw a long hallway and simultaneously also see the top of a flat pyramid or try to hear two different conversations at the same time or look in my room and find as many things that I’ve never noticed as possible. I did all that to train my brain somehow. I figured it was expanding my mental capacity like a balloon.
Great video! You are so talented instructor! I watched it several times and will again. Thank you very, very much! Please, can you upload more videos like this.
Excellent demonstration and explanation of some of the NLP techniques. I've studied NLP for at least ten years but one thing that I've never realised before is that I don't have a reference for a moment when I've been confident or secure - EVER! I'm not being dramatic but I've got no memory of it, even when things have gone my way I'm on alert for a spoiler so never get to enjoy success. To many outsiders my life looks like it's been a blast, but for me it's been a continuous succession of "something's going to go wrong". I'm not sure how to change that because it seems to be my only experience. This video has certainly opened my eyes to the core of my depression. Thanks, that's a revelation that I can focus on but at 60 years old it's probably not an easy fix. Great channel and thanks for sharing.
Perhaps you need to redefine your definition of confidence. In my experience, confidence is not something you can get or install... it's simple the absence of fear.
Wow. The part where you are referring to panic attacks. I had that too. And it is so true, you are expecting it, and with that are making it happen. Same as now with my feeling of something stucks in my throat the whole day. I don't feel it in the morning when I awake, but I expect to feel it, focus on my throat all the time and boom, there it is for the rest of the day. I hope I learn in the rest of the video how to break that habit because I know, that it will go away.
@@robinelliott5561 hy Robin. I would say Kind of I guess..? First of all it's gone. I don't have that anymore, and it went of it's own. I learned that everything I'm laying my focus on will get stronger in it's appearance, if that makes sence. If I'm worrying about something, even if that something seems to constantly annoy me and is hard to ignore, it will get a place where it is allowed to be. If I say okay, I will live like it's a part of my life and don't fight it internally, it's like it loses its purpose and goes away eventually. So if a doctor can't find something physical causing your problem, try to except it, it's only there to annoy or worry you so take that purpose away, make it small till it's not existent anymore.
I loved this lecture. The title seems to do injustice to how valuable and engaging this content is. You know how "learn a language in 1 month" kind of titles seem absurd and hard to believe, putting you off immediately, which perhaps is just my vision imposed on reality. Anyway, great video!! Thank you!
This presentation is not "How to change your Life" in 10 minutes; it is "How to change your Life in 10 minutes." So if you can learn techniques that can change your Life in 10 minutes, then this video-clip is titled properly, no matter how long this video presentation itself is. (On a different note, this itself is an example of how changing your frame can help you judge some thing differently. :-))
Are there people in your life that sigh, roll their eyes, and tell you to just "shut up"? It's a trick question. There are.... the real question is.... do you realize it?
This was brilliant especially the initial explanation of NLP it gave me so many ideas to work with and do loved the exercises in the end state layering although i do just single state stuff not stacking this was new for me
I really appreciated this talk; thank you! Re: the awareness test, for those with (c)PTSD or some other form of conditioning that produces hyper-vigilance, the counting of ball passes as the main focus and task is sometimes allocated to peripheral focus/vision, while the person is actually alert to and attending to unusual (threatening) stimuli. I have never seen an awareness test, but I definitely saw the dancing bear in the middle. If I missed something, it was the correct count of ball passes because that is non-threatening and inconsequential, whereas unexpected or unusual behaviour always catches my focus and becomes my cognitive priority.
Wow, Imogen, I didn't see the bear because I was so focused on getting the count perfect...a throw back to the perfection I MUST achieve to not be punished as a child.... must be perfect! A lie from the pit of hell that im currently disassembling.
Yes! Thank you. I only counted 8 passes and though I missed the bear, I was very busy looking at other things going on peripherally. I was compelled to take note of the whole picture not just the white team passing. I hadn’t considered why until seeing your comment. When I was watching I didn’t care so much if I counted the passes correctly but was more concerned about missing “something else”.
You were 💯 calling me out about being so freedom centric that if somebody orders me to do something, now I'm not going to do it even if I might have considered it before. I need then to create understanding within me before I listen to anyone about anything! Even the rapport aspect they talk about in hypnosis training... I don't hold as much value in rapport it seems.
Well, if you know you're freedom, then you'll understand why you're feeling like you want to resist something. Using that awareness, you step back, observe it, then reconsider based on what's truly useful.
I really appreciate your efforts 👌 I have already been so much enlightened and spiritually awakened to these facts after diving deeper into TAROT READING profession, however your video is an elaboration to everything and that's AWESOME 👌 👏 KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK 👍
What do the 168 dislikes have to say about this video? It’s fascinating. He speaks in a clear cut understanding manner, there’s no industry jargon. I’m gonna have a wild guess, it’s because it says change your life in 10 minutes but the video is 87 mins long? How you don’t find this interesting is beyond me.
I have been studying law for 10 years. I can explain the basics in about 30 minutes or less. But it would all seem foreign to you if you knew nothing about law or if all that you knew about law was wrong. So for someone to retain the 30 minute summary, they would need to have years of instruction to even be able to comprehend it.
Thank you for this very professional presentation. There are others out there in yt Land that curse and "f" bomb and tell us to deal with it. They have some good info but I feel that it's unprofessional to use that language in a public forum.
Prime Practice (dental company)use all NLP stuff to train dental and yet they will not admit it's NLP teachings. Because they don't want dentist finding the original teachings. Great stuff, thanks
Yup, If it don't mind it'll never matter, we know how amazingly powerful our thoughts can be from our science today. I'm reminded that our brain/mind is just an amazing tool. I believe that It's most important to ask; "who listening to the mind" and understanding that we are three-part beings of mind body spirit... :) Good upload, I had another cup coffee, Thanks!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and providing such a great introduction into NLP! It was interesting to notice how Jane was described at 01:03:22, this is where I can fully relate to. Is there any further source of information available regarding this specific behaviour, so that you really try hard and perform best initially but then become the guaranteed dropout as described with the abovementioned example with Jane. This is the first time i learned that this behavioural trait can was described and can be tackled, and as i am struggling with this ever since I would be more than grateful to learn where I can find more information or resources. Thanks in advance!!
Actually I didn't know how to write at all ,right now I am so happy myself that I can wrote faster than before. I hope my friends he so happy with what I growth and more support me .
Lololol dude that's me all day long I don't even think about the aspect of possible hurt only just now and my starting to conceive that component LOL. New sub thanks for this post really awesome
Okay, so with the moonwalking bear; he is black and we were watching the white players, so we canceled out the black players as well as the black bear. I've seen this in myself when I start looking for something. The color or the shape is what I start looking for. If it is small and red, then everything red that is small in the room jumps out at me. If the instruction was to count how many black players never get the ball the moonwalking bear would have jumped out at you like a sore thumb.
Changing the map - Changing the story: Parents think they are doing something good, but they create suffering and death of their kids. And only if the kids die before them the parents can realize what evil they've done. But some delusional people might say "Don't blame yourself" as if death was not the direct concequence of being born. Change your map regarding procreation if you already didn't.
Maybe NLP can answer this. Why is it that there is some information we receive that we are skeptical about and can only accept (if at all) with a lot of convincing and back and forth in our head, and also every now and then we receive information that right away we automatically believe, accept, and internalize to where it becomes part of us? I've noticed this in my life and I would love to be able to duplicate both to purposefully hard wire constructive, positive beliefs I would like to have and get rid of our prevent negative, destructive beliefs that plague or would plague me.
Taught me so much, thank you. I’m loving the synchronicities with my conversations today. I completely relate to min 50:00. “Tell me I can’t and I’ll show you I will” or “I Was gonna do that anyway, but now that you told me to, I’m Not!” Lol. (Quotes from 2 sisters, My Aunt Molly And My Beautiful Mother, Emily, respectively)
This guy has the same EXACT story as another guy... so I've learned that when you are doing a lecture, the story you tell doesn't necessarily need to be true to the person who is telling it because it is only a story. So you can tell made up stories.. ie. my name is XYZ (when it really isn't - but it doesn't matter - because you are going for a certain outcome - which is to captivate and influence your audience).. just like acting. Actors performing don't necessarily need to be the character in real life.. they just have to be able to ACT like they are and be convincing, This speaker was convincing with his story about the skii trip... because someone else had the same exact line in another video. This is their script as it seems.. good thing to know. Because what you are watching is really about changing your awareness not necessary judging if the speaker is being who they are in the video.. he could just assume any identity in the seminar.. but that's not the point.. the point is teaching... and what the audience in this video is learning... interesting
Maris, if you are referring to explaining NLP and how it got started the stories should match. If you are referring to personal stories - any personal stories I tell are my own. So, if you hear anyone else use them as their own please let me know and be specific so I can check it.
Ok, I will get that video.. I just finished watching another video of a person using the same diagram as you and thought to myself... hmmm... they are probably on the same team and are trained to tell the same story.. i.e. the story about the skii trip and the Starbucks story when you were about to have a baby.
BUT it is also possible (here is a lesson in awareness) that the guy on the video (perhaps it's you) is the same guy in the other video! The first video I watched was of a man without a beard. The second one is the same guy, but with a beard! So now, I can either re-frame myself or you could or that my first comment is true.. that the story is the same, but told by different people.. to influence the audience.. and not necessary need to be true for the person delivering the talk.
Can someone tell me if this stuff works? Everything I watch really confuses me and sounds like witch craft, but I’m open minded. What’s the best video to watch? Person? Book?
00:00 Introduction
14:06 How we process information
41:16 Awareness test
44:34 Using what you see to validate how you are feeling
46:35 Patterns of behavior
54:14 Takeaways
58:51 Jane (eye movement integration)
1:14:05 Belinda (circle of excellence)
1:25:29 Visual accessing cues
Thank you
Very cool
Thank you bro
Thanks 🙏
thx.. helpful to refer back again
I am 7 years late 😢... But you can't imagine how much this is helping in helping my teenage daughter... Thank you so much may The Lord bless you. Love and peace from Iraq❤❤❤
Releasing those limited beliefs are freeing. And the since you have with those "teenagers" you see humans at job or business works the same.🤗
Watching this was probably the best spent ninety minutes in quite a long time. Thanks for posting this workshop.
Can you summarise this video for me please?
20:00 to 24:52 when he told 2 people to give their side of the story he began to get personal which probably made others feel attacked or nervous to give a story but then he read the room and give a quick speech of empowerment by switching their mental models from “this is who i am” to “this is how ive been acting” which changed everyone’s perspective to give a speech and immediately right after someone felt confident enough to say theirs 👏🏾
just an observation
but thats some powerful shit
This was brilliant! Thank you! And yes, I was at Tony Robbins's UPW event (Unleash the Power Within) in 2022, it was great! But you have explained some other things which were not at the UPW. When I did the 1st exercise, I neutralised an unpleasant event within minutes which I stored in my brain for years. 😃 Incredible 😯
Great job that I have enjoyed watching it 3 times and was taking notes. I’m a certified coach and I enjoyed not only listening and learning but also the way he was delivering his class and the amount of sincerity and devotion he was showing. Excellent job.
yes sweety
Yes. I WILL be watching this again. I've already rewound and paused many times in this first full viewing. ❤😮🤯
my view is that l should be grateful l to this gentleman for providing such a wealth of information whilst lm watching in comfort ...I will be forever grateful I send my love through the airwaves for such a stellar presentation
Thank you. I'm glad you enjoyed it!
People who always want free always want short and quick will never reach there destination.... Be patient be cool watch all the way and you will discover gems along the way ❤❤❤❤
I would just like to extend my sincere appreciation and gratitude for making this workshop available to those which seek innerstanding!
This has been instrumental on my journey.
I am focused towards introducing NLP and Healing coaching to an audience of individuals which will benifit from the life changing techniques...
I fell the energy that you are an amazing man, father and husband... keep up the good work. you are blessed so you can be a blessing to others! Namaste!
My purpose (in these videos) is help others help themselves create a more fulfilling life. Comments like yours is WHY I do this.
I am reminded of the story of the young man who, walking along the beach, sees thousands and thousands of starfish washed ashore and stranded, dying, on the beach.
Stricken by the tragedy, he feels a great sadness as he realizes the starfish, to innumerable to save, will all perish because there are too many to help.
While lamenting on this, he notices an old man standing at the waters edge.
One by one, he is picking up starfish and tossing them back into the ocean. Bewildered, the young man yells to the old man, "What's the point? It won't really make any difference. There's too many."
The old man, smiling, as he tosses another back into the ocean, says, "It made a difference to that one!"
Excellent..
@@NLPandHypnosis ... Excellent story...
@@NLPandHypnosis I live in the Bay Area. I’m grateful for your presentation. Looking forward to September 15. Thank you💕
@@NLPandHypnosis That starfish story is one of my favourites. Footprints in the Sand is another even though I'm not religious. It's just very beautiful.
Robert Harrison I just found your video on TH-cam and after searching through a lot of NLP vids. I found you to be very clear and easier to understand. I am keen to see more of your videos , and learn more ... Thank you Richard from the UK.
Dude, you are an amazing teacher. Thank you for giving me the confidence to proceed in NLP training. i believed it was fake, so thank you. god bless
Glad you like it. NLP is real. It changed my life and I've seen it profoundly improve 1000's of lives over my 22+ years of NLP Coaching and Training.
@@RobertHarrisonBusiness ♥️💯♥️🙏✨️✨️🙌🙏
Letting go of limiting beliefs becomes so freeing.
@@RobertHarrisonBusinessReleasing those limited beliefs are freeing. And the since you have with those "teenagers" you see humans at job or business works the same.🤗
I appreciate your way of communicating and articulating all this important info... how appropriate! I just notice that too many other NLP experts and Hypnotists play ego-maniac and suggest their way to earning respect and credibility... you don't need to do that and you come across as very trustworthy and in this for sincere reasons. That is lacking unfortunately in this arena.
You are awesome! Thank you for sharing!
I love listening to talks or books when I work. I am very glad I came across this video. I think anyone truly interested in learning and particularly in learning about the workings of the mind would find a lot of value in this video. I loved how the speaker talks and teaches, for me it was very easy to take in and understand. I think most of the backlash in the comments comes from the "click-bate" title. Clearly this video is an hour and a half long, which to me is a plus. But no this is not a ten minute video that will suddenly make you become who you want to be, and I think the people who are looking for some quick trick may be missing the big picture in all this anyway. If you really care to change I think you have to gain an understanding of how things work and how your own mind works which to me cannot be taught/understood in ten minutes. Anyway, I got a ton of value from this video. Thank you for making it :) And thank you all the people watching this video I know you are capable of making the changes you hope to see in your life! :)
Your job must be so boring
And you, as well🤠👍
All goodness from inside out
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Your presentation of these ideas really connects with me. The thought occurred that if 'everyone' just grokked the importance of the map not equalling the territory, the world would be greatly benefitted.Thanks
The demos here are great; found the video useful for myself and should expect the same for those new to and experienced practitioners alike. Nicely done.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I’m Very Excited for my breakthrough session tomorrow using NLP with my therapist 🥳 ready to break free from yearss of panic attacks and ptsd 🦋🧘🏻♀️💯💎 thank you to all the amazing&curious minds that helped discover these mind tools so that I and many ppl around the world can live their best lives ✌🏽⚡️
Did NLP help your panic & PTSD?
@@robinelliott5561 hey Robin, it did! NLP/therapy empowered me to realize that I was making the decision to “panic” ... it’s wild to think it all comes down to choice and we have the power to choose how we react even when we feel completely out of control. it took me awhile to unravel- some days I walked out of session feeling confused, lost, and to be honest embarrassed at times... but now, there is this pause and distance between how I react to stressful situations and how control my energy when I feel triggered.. NLP allowed me to take notice that somewhere deep in my subconscious got logged the need to panic and certain self limiting believes I held about myself.. now I am very much in alignment with my truth and confidence in self. I have to take things day by day and sometimes moment by moment but no where near where I was, who I was, and far from where I been. I wish u love light and healing namaste 🙏🏽🦋
@@listentogrey How are you now?
@@milkyym8891 alive and well! Thank you for asking 😊🦋💫
I’m sorry but I️ see a ton of people complaining about how long the video is. If you think that it’s too long, no body is stopping you. Click away! Why waste more of your precious time to write a comment saying it’s too long? That’s counterproductive! Please explain the though process behind this, me no unda stand!
My only complaint about the time is that it's not longer haha, this shit is great
@@kalvenk4441 I'm with you! I crave more.
Yeah, but seriously, "change your life in Ten minutes " Ha, + they really want you to give them some of your money.
@@mcharrison23 sure they do. It's valuable information, after all. Anyhow, the techniques to change your life can often be done in under 10 minutes, so the title isn't off. The video length is on the video before you choose it, anyhow.
@@beingjohngalt1 / got it.
This is so insightful. Many people use nlp for negative purposes and I was able to identify what people were doing to me. This is empowering. Great video
You said, "I was able to identify what people were doing to me"
Correction: You were (feeling) what you wanted to see what people were doing to you.
It is called REFRAMING... You can't change the picture (the people you were talking about) but you can change your FEELINGS, the FRAME around the Picture. I even sometimes and take the frame off and break it...
It is not the Reality... it is what we THINK is the Reality is.. (scary). LOL
Excellent lectures i have been interested in this and the brain for many years. Thank you
At the end...as in last minute or two...his example of looking down (depressed) and up ("can't access that way") is something I've observed via yoga practice. This was a very cool and meaningful point of connection for me. Great video.
Two things I’ve always done without consciously thinking about nlp is try to draw a long hallway and simultaneously also see the top of a flat pyramid or try to hear two different conversations at the same time or look in my room and find as many things that I’ve never noticed as possible. I did all that to train my brain somehow. I figured it was expanding my mental capacity like a balloon.
Great video! You are so talented instructor! I watched it several times and will again. Thank you very, very much! Please, can you upload more videos like this.
Thank you Drinka!
@@NLPandHypnosis Dri Mer
Excellent demonstration and explanation of some of the NLP techniques. I've studied NLP for at least ten years but one thing that I've never realised before is that I don't have a reference for a moment when I've been confident or secure - EVER!
I'm not being dramatic but I've got no memory of it, even when things have gone my way I'm on alert for a spoiler so never get to enjoy success. To many outsiders my life looks like it's been a blast, but for me it's been a continuous succession of "something's going to go wrong".
I'm not sure how to change that because it seems to be my only experience. This video has certainly opened my eyes to the core of my depression. Thanks, that's a revelation that I can focus on but at 60 years old it's probably not an easy fix. Great channel and thanks for sharing.
Perhaps you need to redefine your definition of confidence. In my experience, confidence is not something you can get or install... it's simple the absence of fear.
Good technique at 60.05 minutes Thank you
I wonder how we can pracrice this technique on ourselves?
this works, i've done it numerous times. everyone does have different needs, which nlp teaches. if a person isn't ready "let it be".......
Wow. The part where you are referring to panic attacks. I had that too. And it is so true, you are expecting it, and with that are making it happen. Same as now with my feeling of something stucks in my throat the whole day. I don't feel it in the morning when I awake, but I expect to feel it, focus on my throat all the time and boom, there it is for the rest of the day. I hope I learn in the rest of the video how to break that habit because I know, that it will go away.
Did NLP help your throat issues???
@@robinelliott5561 hy Robin. I would say Kind of I guess..?
First of all it's gone. I don't have that anymore, and it went of it's own.
I learned that everything I'm laying my focus on will get stronger in it's appearance, if that makes sence.
If I'm worrying about something, even if that something seems to constantly annoy me and is hard to ignore, it will get a place where it is allowed to be.
If I say okay, I will live like it's a part of my life and don't fight it internally, it's like it loses its purpose and goes away eventually.
So if a doctor can't find something physical causing your problem, try to except it, it's only there to annoy or worry you so take that purpose away, make it small till it's not existent anymore.
I loved this lecture. The title seems to do injustice to how valuable and engaging this content is. You know how "learn a language in 1 month" kind of titles seem absurd and hard to believe, putting you off immediately, which perhaps is just my vision imposed on reality. Anyway, great video!! Thank you!
This presentation is not "How to change your Life" in 10 minutes; it is "How to change your Life in 10 minutes." So if you can learn techniques that can change your Life in 10 minutes, then this video-clip is titled properly, no matter how long this video presentation itself is.
(On a different note, this itself is an example of how changing your frame can help you judge some thing differently. :-))
Are there people in your life that sigh, roll their eyes, and tell you to just "shut up"? It's a trick question. There are.... the real question is.... do you realize it?
And punctuation... 🤭
Verywell said
Wow this is amazing!! Thank you so much!! I can't wait to watch all your videos and learn everything I can about this!! I wish you had a book too 😀
Great job! This gave me a priceless insight into why I developed myopia and how i have healed it half way to perfection. Thank you
This was brilliant especially the initial explanation of NLP it gave me so many ideas to work with and do loved the exercises in the end state layering although i do just single state stuff not stacking this was new for me
I really appreciated this talk; thank you! Re: the awareness test, for those with (c)PTSD or some other form of conditioning that produces hyper-vigilance, the counting of ball passes as the main focus and task is sometimes allocated to peripheral focus/vision, while the person is actually alert to and attending to unusual (threatening) stimuli. I have never seen an awareness test, but I definitely saw the dancing bear in the middle. If I missed something, it was the correct count of ball passes because that is non-threatening and inconsequential, whereas unexpected or unusual behaviour always catches my focus and becomes my cognitive priority.
Wow, Imogen, I didn't see the bear because I was so focused on getting the count perfect...a throw back to the perfection I MUST achieve to not be punished as a child.... must be perfect! A lie from the pit of hell that im currently disassembling.
Yes! Thank you. I only counted 8 passes and though I missed the bear, I was very busy looking at other things going on peripherally. I was compelled to take note of the whole picture not just the white team passing. I hadn’t considered why until seeing your comment. When I was watching I didn’t care so much if I counted the passes correctly but was more concerned about missing “something else”.
Amazing video. This has now made me curious about NLP. I’m in London otherwise I’d definitely come to one of your presentations. Outstanding sir.
We will be launching the online practitioner training September 15, 2020.
Bay Area NLP And Hypnosis wow great, will keep an eye out for that thank you
We’ve moved it to Thanksgiving week.
When you asked "what's your favorite invisible color" I immediately thought "clear"
Awesome Robert Harrison, you're great!
Thank you so much, Robert. This was very eye-opening. 🙏
I enjoyed the class . Loved the presentation and learned something about my behaviour and feelings. Thank you so much. God bless
Glad you enjoyed it!
This was such a great lecture! This will Bec so use with my EFT clients❤. Many thanks from NZ
This is very helpful and insightful. Brilliant. Thank you.
honey moley..... mind BLOWN. patterns of behavior. I need to fix my story QUICK! Thank You!
Have you yet?! I bet not.
Blessed to find this gem. Thanks for the great explanations
No Failure Only Feedback! Like this!
You were 💯 calling me out about being so freedom centric that if somebody orders me to do something, now I'm not going to do it even if I might have considered it before. I need then to create understanding within me before I listen to anyone about anything! Even the rapport aspect they talk about in hypnosis training... I don't hold as much value in rapport it seems.
Well, if you know you're freedom, then you'll understand why you're feeling like you want to resist something. Using that awareness, you step back, observe it, then reconsider based on what's truly useful.
I really appreciate your efforts 👌 I have already been so much enlightened and spiritually awakened to these facts after diving deeper into TAROT READING profession, however your video is an elaboration to everything and that's AWESOME 👌 👏 KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK 👍
I found this very interesting and have learnt a lot
very many thanks.
Boring? This is definitely Not.... Great video thank you!
Thank you for reminding me of what i need to get back to. ❤
And I'm pretty sure you still haven't, eh!
Great informtation. Thanks for making it available.
Am enjoying this. Unfortunately the white board is whited out. Have you considered adding a text file with the white board text?
Great Video... Very informative. I will try and read a book on NLP as well
I enjoyed this very much. Good lecturer.
What do the 168 dislikes have to say about this video? It’s fascinating. He speaks in a clear cut understanding manner, there’s no industry jargon. I’m gonna have a wild guess, it’s because it says change your life in 10 minutes but the video is 87 mins long? How you don’t find this interesting is beyond me.
Ignore them. Like those guys playing in football n concentrate on the moonwalking joker
Thank you for uploading, I learnt a lot and I loved the way explain, my 16 year old loved and subscribed!
Thanks for putting this video. Super helpful !
This was very informative and extremelly well explaine
Excellent Speech on nlp please upload a video on nlp wellness related to health Command God Bless u it's sunil from karad Maharashtra
Oh the irony: "How To Change Your Life In 10 Minutes", but this is an hour and a half long?
Yes indeed, i was also thinking and surprised.
Does this was really NLP in 10mins?
I thought the EXACT same thing!
A basic understanding of it in 10 mins. But I like what’s here better
I have been studying law for 10 years. I can explain the basics in about 30 minutes or less. But it would all seem foreign to you if you knew nothing about law or if all that you knew about law was wrong. So for someone to retain the 30 minute summary, they would need to have years of instruction to even be able to comprehend it.
Beautiful, the comments are 369. I love it ❤
Thank you for this very professional presentation. There are others out there in yt Land that curse and "f" bomb and tell us to deal with it.
They have some good info but I feel that it's unprofessional to use that language in a public forum.
Prime Practice (dental company)use all NLP stuff to train dental and yet they will not admit it's NLP teachings. Because they don't want dentist finding the original teachings. Great stuff, thanks
This is quite fascinating Thank you
Awesome introduction.
Thanks!
Yup, If it don't mind it'll never matter, we know how amazingly powerful our thoughts can be from our science today. I'm reminded that our brain/mind is just an amazing tool. I believe that It's most important to ask; "who listening to the mind" and understanding that we are three-part beings of mind body spirit... :)
Good upload, I had another cup coffee, Thanks!
Bay Area Sir
Thank you very much
God bless you
From,Sabir Yaqoob Shaikh and family Mumbai India
I'm stopping at ten minutes exactly. No more. No Less. Good Day Sir!
I dozed off. They are almost all the same. In a scale from 0-10. Insecure people is a big market.
excellent and compelling
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and providing such a great introduction into NLP!
It was interesting to notice how Jane was described at 01:03:22, this is where I can fully relate to.
Is there any further source of information available regarding this specific behaviour, so that you really try hard and perform best initially but then become the guaranteed dropout as described with the abovementioned example with Jane.
This is the first time i learned that this behavioural trait can was described and can be tackled, and as i am struggling with this ever since I would be more than grateful to learn where I can find more information or resources.
Thanks in advance!!
You have my support thank you for your video ❤😊
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Not “what does this mean about me”, but “What it is showing me about my behaviour”?
I wonder if you could tell me who came up with the follow the pen technique, i've never seen Richard do this, did he?
omg !! THIS SO REMINDS ME OF WHEN I DID LANDMARK
Good teacher.
Excellent trainer excellent
I'm still watching the video. Some emotion came over me yesterday with a phone conversation and now I feel so down.
I hope you feel better Penny. Continue improving and being sincere in your efforts. You can make it work, I believe in you!
makeitmondos you’re cute
the ''how'' story really proves the 70% negativity mindset, most of them reflected a story that weren't for the help but rather something else.
Your ability to identify a pattern in your mind frees you from it
Just a thought: when i am abroad, in cultures which I consider more successful I tend to become like them. Just from the vibe. How come?
Your environment impacts what you notice which impacts how you think which impacts how you act. Look up Reticular Activating System.
@@NLPandHypnosis thank u
Actually I didn't know how to write at all ,right now I am so happy myself that I can wrote faster than before. I hope my friends he so happy with what I growth and more support me .
YES... I am so happy for you too!!!
The demonstrations start at 58:52
Thank you
Lololol dude that's me all day long I don't even think about the aspect of possible hurt only just now and my starting to conceive that component LOL. New sub thanks for this post really awesome
Okay, so with the moonwalking bear; he is black and we were watching the white players, so we canceled out the black players as well as the black bear. I've seen this in myself when I start looking for something. The color or the shape is what I start looking for. If it is small and red, then everything red that is small in the room jumps out at me.
If the instruction was to count how many black players never get the ball the moonwalking bear would have jumped out at you like a sore thumb.
Can NLP help to achieve a "Peak Experience" ?
Yes, you can use NLP to enrich a memory of 'Peak Experience' or you can use it to help you create one - ie via goals, values alignment, etc.
NLP is not like a MacGyver show. a go or no go.... You have to keep at it. I like that.
Changing the map - Changing the story:
Parents think they are doing something good, but they create suffering and death of their kids. And only if the kids die before them the parents can realize what evil they've done. But some delusional people might say "Don't blame yourself" as if death was not the direct concequence of being born.
Change your map regarding procreation if you already didn't.
nice and precious sharing. Thanks
Thank you Kamybay!
Maybe NLP can answer this. Why is it that there is some information we receive that we are skeptical about and can only accept (if at all) with a lot of convincing and back and forth in our head, and also every now and then we receive information that right away we automatically believe, accept, and internalize to where it becomes part of us? I've noticed this in my life and I would love to be able to duplicate both to purposefully hard wire constructive, positive beliefs I would like to have and get rid of our prevent negative, destructive beliefs that plague or would plague me.
THAT is what NLP is... I'm not sure if I'd call it 'hard wire constructive'... NLP is not hard... It just is...
I really like the third technic.
Yes I agree, the 3rd technique was great.
All I can say is wow, wow, wow!
Taught me so much, thank you. I’m loving the synchronicities with my conversations today.
I completely relate to min 50:00. “Tell me I can’t and I’ll show you I will” or “I Was gonna do that anyway, but now that you told me to, I’m Not!” Lol. (Quotes from 2 sisters, My Aunt Molly And My Beautiful Mother, Emily, respectively)
Does anyone know what coughing or staring or whispering or brighting or or gaslighting would mean in NLP?
This guy has the same EXACT story as another guy... so I've learned that when you are doing a lecture, the story you tell doesn't necessarily need to be true to the person who is telling it because it is only a story. So you can tell made up stories.. ie. my name is XYZ (when it really isn't - but it doesn't matter - because you are going for a certain outcome - which is to captivate and influence your audience).. just like acting. Actors performing don't necessarily need to be the character in real life.. they just have to be able to ACT like they are and be convincing, This speaker was convincing with his story about the skii trip... because someone else had the same exact line in another video. This is their script as it seems.. good thing to know. Because what you are watching is really about changing your awareness not necessary judging if the speaker is being who they are in the video.. he could just assume any identity in the seminar.. but that's not the point.. the point is teaching... and what the audience in this video is learning... interesting
Maris, if you are referring to explaining NLP and how it got started the stories should match. If you are referring to personal stories - any personal stories I tell are my own. So, if you hear anyone else use them as their own please let me know and be specific so I can check it.
Ok, I will get that video.. I just finished watching another video of a person using the same diagram as you and thought to myself... hmmm... they are probably on the same team and are trained to tell the same story.. i.e. the story about the skii trip and the Starbucks story when you were about to have a baby.
found the video... just an observation... and am thinking that this is like a green glass door experience
BUT it is also possible (here is a lesson in awareness) that the guy on the video (perhaps it's you) is the same guy in the other video! The first video I watched was of a man without a beard. The second one is the same guy, but with a beard! So now, I can either re-frame myself or you could or that my first comment is true.. that the story is the same, but told by different people.. to influence the audience.. and not necessary need to be true for the person delivering the talk.
Fascinating
Facts all facts.. Mind over Emotion
Can you help me find a therapist in Illinois/Indiana area, I need hardcore therapy
this is great thank you man
Great stuff...
Can someone tell me if this stuff works? Everything I watch really confuses me and sounds like witch craft, but I’m open minded. What’s the best video to watch? Person? Book?
Really good thankyou
Richard Bandler was? He is
and wonderful too
Good sensory acuity Charlie!
Curious why NLP workds right to left? I it likeIy doesn't matter, but why is NLP taught from right to left?