thank you for this. at work yesterday i was literally followed around by male customer who i assume was around 40 (i am 24). i went into the bathroom to see if it was coincidental, then when i came out he was still there. i asked him if he needed help with anything, and he said “i just wanted to tell you your leggings are kind of see through.” i blurted out an apology, not knowing what else to say and tried walking away when i heard him say “it’s not a bad thing. it looks nice.” i speedwalked to my department (the paint desk at lowe’s), and yet again he followed me. i saw one of our assistant store managers and asked her to stay with me, shaking and on the verge of tears. she pulled me to an area where customers can’t see and i explained the situation and she told me to sit there for awhile until he was gone. i was so scared, terrified, and felt so embarrassed and violated. i can’t sleep, it’s currently 3:15am, and i don’t feel safe at work at all (this isn’t the first time customers have been super creepy towards me), but your voice has helped to calm me some. thank you so much.
I just started the video but I want all of my fellow r*pe survivors that it is okay to feel panicked, it’s okay to “lose your mind” every now and again. You are human and part of that is doing the best you can ♥️
I lost my baby at 18 weeks pregnant in November and life hasn’t been the same since so thank you for allowing me to just unwind and relax for a while 💞
Me and my girlfriend lost ours at 23 weeks this Wednesday. It was sick, had deformities and there were no chances, unfortunately. I feel like I’m trying to stay strong like knowing that makes it any easier but idk if I’m actually going to be okay for a while. I know I will heal in the long run but it’s so unreal and it’s only been like 2-3 days. She’s been so damn strong through all of this and I love her with all my heart. She keeps me strong.
I was cheated on while suspecting for awhile that it was happening, it absolutely destroyed me mentally. But this video calmed my mind for a few minutes, thank you for that :)
I’m trying so hard to feel safe. Sometimes I get so tired of fighting to feel safe even when I should feel safe. Thank you for this video I haven’t been this close to feeling okay in a bit but this got me really close to it. Hope you’re having a good day (:
I haven't finished the video yet but thank u, I had a very rough week because I had two panic attacks at my job and I quit today (after only a week, oh god) and I was looking for something like this, not a roleplay, not tapping, just kind and soft whispers I hope you have a great weekend! And thank u again
I have ocd, and Psychosis, I experience Hallucination and delusions. Sometimes at night I get scared becuse I think I’m seeing things in my bedroom at night, so sometimes I’ll use asmr to help me feel more calm to get the fears to go away, this asmr vid helped a lot. Watching it calmed me down sm, 🫶🫶🫶 Thx you sm for making this 🫶🫶🫶
I’ve been diagnosed with ptsd from childhood trauma. I never really picked up on the symptoms until after the diagnosis. This is very relaxing thank you
i’ve bad such bad health anxiety for the past 2 months. i usually have small health anxiety episodes but this is the worst it’s ever been. so i really do appreciate this:) it helps me relax and think rationally for a moment
Need to pause and continue watching this another time because I feel like crying and it makes me realize how long it's been since someone treated me like a real person with feelings. I've already cried once today, can't do it right before sleep or else I won't be able to breathe as I try to fall asleep!
i didnt listen to the whole thing but i did listen to alot of it and i really like what you are saying about creating your own chances and nothing being really random because i think that too and you can tell majority of society seems to think there is randomness but there really isnt alot of it when you think about it.
The point made about loving yourself equates to loving the universe due to the collective consciousness we all come from was so good to hear. Love when someone has an understanding of Indras Net it's the most reassuring thing to experience and remember.
@@Terminallyposessed im not being rude just asking, maybe English isnt their first language but that sentence sure ain't English. Can you explain what "equates to loving the universe due to the collective consciousness we all come from was so good to hear" means? Or "love when someone has an understanding of indras net its the most reassuring thing to experience and remember"? I think they were trolling or something
@@Terminallyposessed im not talking about that, I mean their sentence structuring. Like wheres the grammar. Wheres the sense. What they said is isnt translatable, it isn't possible to make sense out of what they said. Language isn't a religion
I initially found this video a little over a year ago on what would be the worst night of my life, for a brief moment this video calmed my panic, eventually external sources broke through that but I continue to associate this video with that moment of calm that I so appreciate.
Thank you so so so much for this! I've been terrified of sleep from the nightmares, and it's 2:20am and I just came across this. It feels like being wrapped in a soft blanket, or the feeling of nearly absolute safety of resting in my best friend's room while she's doing her own things around the house. This means so much, thank you!
thank you so much for sharing this, I’m so honored by this comment and that I was able to bring you that feeling in a difficult time. I hope you were able to get some rest! ❤️
Fr I randomly had like 3 sleep paralysis back to back night after night after night and for the last 2 months I haven’t really been able to get sleep since
this is so helpful, you are so affirming and calming in such a non-judgemental and helpful way. thank you so much. tonight was the second night in the last three days of witnessing a close family member overdosing, and nearly not making it out alive. there is a lot of powerlessness in the feeling of this, and you helped me process some of that and i took a break to go journal in the middle. this is a simple video but it’s incredible the impact it has-I really really appreciate you. thank you for this❤
im struggling with relapse and ptsd rn and this was so relaxing!! im so glad i came across your channel as you have such a comforting energy! iI absolutely adore your piercings and rings!! they look so cool:)
i really appreciate this video. i watched it right after a shooting at my school and i’m watching it again because i’m back where it happened and i’m struggling to feel safe. this helps a lot ❤️
I like that I can hear the birds in the background, they really help calm me down as well. You’re voice is really soothing and you really helped me sleep. I struggle with sleeping a lot, so I just wanted to thank you for helping me out
Newly single mom, my 5 year old won't visit with her dad because she's used to use together. So I come with her to her dad's (my ex husband) for her weekend visits. I'm currently sitting with her at HIS home and the anxiety is so real. I am still very much in love with him but he has clearly moved on. This is so very hard for me to do but for our children the lengths we will go to ate endless as long as she is happy. I needed this video so much right now.
This helped me out so much, after yesterday happening and today just thinking too much about the past, I feel so much better already. Thank you so much
The memories hurt so much, a little bit of reprieve like this is such a relief. It may not fully medicate the pain, but I can finally sleep while listening to this.
I was robbed tonight at work and my purse stolen on top of it. While I’m ok, this video really helped me relax after the traumatic experience. Thank you!
hi stranger! I am so glad i found your videos, I might be able to sleep tonight thanks to you. I cried hearing your kind words. I have no one to really share this with so I am going to write it here in order to relieve a little bit of weight off my shoulders. TW : sa I have very few memories of my childhood and i recently started remembering a specific eveng in witch i am being SAed by someone at ghe age of 6. I have no idea of who the person who did it was, how many times it happened, what happened exactly and honestly it makes me feel sick. I've had issues my whole life dealing with depression, eating disorders, suicidal thoughts, and feeling like a sexual object with men. I am also having dreams about being raped. My friends and my boyfriend, as suportive as they try to be, don't know what to do and don't seem to understand the idea lf "i don't know what happened but it hapened". I am stresses, i wan to know the truth, who used my body, who took something of me. But i probably never will. And i am starting to think that i am creating all this in my head. If someone whos has know a similiar situation feels able to help me in any way, i'd be glad if you reached out :))
Thank you. My grandmother just abandoned me, and my mom makes it clear I’m hard to care for and trauma dumps on me. My brother isolates himself away, and my dad is acting hella weird. I’m homeschooled with no friends or teachers, and I’m sick chronically with no cure. Life sucks but I’ll watch this repete
Got a really sudden overwhelming feeling of being unsafe, this is exactly what I needed. I’ve been having a really hard time being back at home from college and away from the safety of my friends.
Yaay love the positive affirmations with hand movements and whispers for the tingles and sleep plus this is what I needed especially with everything that's been going on lately 😔😟😱😨
IDK if you added it in manually but the sound of the birds chirping is so nice. That's one thing I always find so calming and beautiful 😩❤ Also love your whisper so much and this video idea, thank you ❤
I'm so sad about the supreme court. I didn't expect this to weigh me down like this, but I'm really just so sad. I can't see any goodness in the future. And this is helping me thank you 🌄
i really needed this. i just had a traumatic experience at work last night and i didn't know if I'd make it home or not. i just want all of these negative emotions gone
thank you so much !! i start my first ever job in a few days and i’m incredibly nervous and stressed. this video did the trick in under three minutes 🙏
I recently had a house fire that has been causing some drastic changes to my life, anyhoo, I will sometimes wake up in the middle of the night but like…I won’t actually be awake. Like a dream inside a dream and when I ‘wake up’ I’m back in my house that burned. This was very soothing and it was my first time watching your content. Very soothing voice. Tysm. EDIT: also sorry for being so specific I just kind of needed to vent.
Trigger warning: mentions of gore and gvns This really helps me calm down after i spontaneously look up gore on reddit, its rlly scary to see guts and stuff and guns and knives especially since im still just a teenager, this helped me calm down a lot, thanks
my mind's been spinning with all the thoughts about me and my gender dysphoria, it's just so confusing and I feel like everything is so hostile anymore and that I don't and haven't even known who i am for most of my short life. i hope i can get better, but this video kept me from losing my mind any further, for today.
I’m here because A redditor called me a name on my post and I instantly felt triggered, why are men so hateful towards women? I wish they could just leave us alone.
I'm not used to being loved and cared about no one ever has and now my ptsd is acting up again episode's almost everyday I feel so lost and alone even though I have people who love me, I don't feel safe at all not even in my own body
thank you for this. at work yesterday i was literally followed around by male customer who i assume was around 40 (i am 24). i went into the bathroom to see if it was coincidental, then when i came out he was still there. i asked him if he needed help with anything, and he said “i just wanted to tell you your leggings are kind of see through.” i blurted out an apology, not knowing what else to say and tried walking away when i heard him say “it’s not a bad thing. it looks nice.” i speedwalked to my department (the paint desk at lowe’s), and yet again he followed me. i saw one of our assistant store managers and asked her to stay with me, shaking and on the verge of tears. she pulled me to an area where customers can’t see and i explained the situation and she told me to sit there for awhile until he was gone. i was so scared, terrified, and felt so embarrassed and violated. i can’t sleep, it’s currently 3:15am, and i don’t feel safe at work at all (this isn’t the first time customers have been super creepy towards me), but your voice has helped to calm me some. thank you so much.
It's been a long time since this comment and i hope you're doing okay❤ as women and girls we need to stay together
@@SA_876yjk thank you sm❤️❤️ i hope you’re well and safe too!❤️
i have C-PTSD and use asmr to cope. i struggle to stay present and not dissociate or zone out. you make me feel very safe. 🙏🏻
I just started the video but I want all of my fellow r*pe survivors that it is okay to feel panicked, it’s okay to “lose your mind” every now and again. You are human and part of that is doing the best you can ♥️
Not r@pe just SA when I was 9 but years later im still freaked out especially in my new relationship
Needed this today 😢❤thank you
thank u 💖
I lost my baby at 18 weeks pregnant in November and life hasn’t been the same since so thank you for allowing me to just unwind and relax for a while 💞
Me and my girlfriend lost ours at 23 weeks this Wednesday. It was sick, had deformities and there were no chances, unfortunately. I feel like I’m trying to stay strong like knowing that makes it any easier but idk if I’m actually going to be okay for a while. I know I will heal in the long run but it’s so unreal and it’s only been like 2-3 days. She’s been so damn strong through all of this and I love her with all my heart. She keeps me strong.
i'm so sorry for your loss
Oh I’m sorry 🩵🩵 That’s so horrible 🙏
I was cheated on while suspecting for awhile that it was happening, it absolutely destroyed me mentally. But this video calmed my mind for a few minutes, thank you for that :)
i’ve been through that situation, and I’m happy to be able to help you through it for a moment ❤️
i am so sorry :( don't forget how strong you are
I hope u are doing well now.
You deserve so much better than that, I hope you'll find someone who's worth your time
How are you these days? I hope you' re healing and thriving. 🍀
I’ve had severe anxiety for a decade that’s kept me mostly housebound, but this video helped me find some peace ❤️ thank you 🥰
Me too ! You’re not alone ❤️
I’m trying so hard to feel safe. Sometimes I get so tired of fighting to feel safe even when I should feel safe. Thank you for this video I haven’t been this close to feeling okay in a bit but this got me really close to it. Hope you’re having a good day (:
The specific "when you dont feeling safe" is what got me, that is exactly what I need
I haven't finished the video yet but thank u, I had a very rough week because I had two panic attacks at my job and I quit today (after only a week, oh god) and I was looking for something like this, not a roleplay, not tapping, just kind and soft whispers
I hope you have a great weekend! And thank u again
I have ocd, and Psychosis, I experience Hallucination and delusions. Sometimes at night I get scared becuse I think I’m seeing things in my bedroom at night, so sometimes I’ll use asmr to help me feel more calm to get the fears to go away, this asmr vid helped a lot. Watching it calmed me down sm, 🫶🫶🫶
Thx you sm for making this 🫶🫶🫶
I’ve been diagnosed with ptsd from childhood trauma. I never really picked up on the symptoms until after the diagnosis. This is very relaxing thank you
When you said I hope your doing ok, I started crying. I don't know why but it made me feel better
mommy issues got worse yesterday so thank you for this, i’ve been anxious since
Same. The hard thing with my mom is that she’s so nice to me except when she’s not and says horrible things to me that cause trauma.
16:20 I started sobbing. Someone else in the world has verbalized how I feel. I don’t feel safe in my own mind and I’m constantly running from it.
It’s a beautiful thing to not feel alone. Even if the shared experience is terrible
i’ve bad such bad health anxiety for the past 2 months. i usually have small health anxiety episodes but this is the worst it’s ever been. so i really do appreciate this:) it helps me relax and think rationally for a moment
i was really struggling today and came across this video. it helped a lot. thank you. i hope you are kind to yourself today.
Need to pause and continue watching this another time because I feel like crying and it makes me realize how long it's been since someone treated me like a real person with feelings. I've already cried once today, can't do it right before sleep or else I won't be able to breathe as I try to fall asleep!
i didnt listen to the whole thing but i did listen to alot of it and i really like what you are saying about creating your own chances and nothing being really random because i think that too and you can tell majority of society seems to think there is randomness but there really isnt alot of it when you think about it.
The point made about loving yourself equates to loving the universe due to the collective consciousness we all come from was so good to hear. Love when someone has an understanding of Indras Net it's the most reassuring thing to experience and remember.
What are you even talking about
@@tashan4932 they were just commenting their opinion? No need to be rude
@@Terminallyposessed im not being rude just asking, maybe English isnt their first language but that sentence sure ain't English. Can you explain what "equates to loving the universe due to the collective consciousness we all come from was so good to hear" means? Or "love when someone has an understanding of indras net its the most reassuring thing to experience and remember"? I think they were trolling or something
@@tashan4932 it might also be their religious beliefs tho we don't really know that.
@@Terminallyposessed im not talking about that, I mean their sentence structuring. Like wheres the grammar. Wheres the sense. What they said is isnt translatable, it isn't possible to make sense out of what they said. Language isn't a religion
don't wanna get into my situation.. but thanks, this was needed 😔
This is the best whispering I have ever heard, it's so gentle, I love it, good job!!
thank you so much, I appreciate that!
I initially found this video a little over a year ago on what would be the worst night of my life, for a brief moment this video calmed my panic, eventually external sources broke through that but I continue to associate this video with that moment of calm that I so appreciate.
Thank you so so so much for this! I've been terrified of sleep from the nightmares, and it's 2:20am and I just came across this. It feels like being wrapped in a soft blanket, or the feeling of nearly absolute safety of resting in my best friend's room while she's doing her own things around the house. This means so much, thank you!
thank you so much for sharing this, I’m so honored by this comment and that I was able to bring you that feeling in a difficult time. I hope you were able to get some rest! ❤️
Fr I randomly had like 3 sleep paralysis back to back night after night after night and for the last 2 months I haven’t really been able to get sleep since
this is so helpful, you are so affirming and calming in such a non-judgemental and helpful way. thank you so much. tonight was the second night in the last three days of witnessing a close family member overdosing, and nearly not making it out alive. there is a lot of powerlessness in the feeling of this, and you helped me process some of that and i took a break to go journal in the middle. this is a simple video but it’s incredible the impact it has-I really really appreciate you. thank you for this❤
You have a beautiful and nurturing heart and soul. You are an amazing person and the world can use more people like you
The nature sounds, the whispers, the hand movements, the affirmations, beautiful video! It’s helping so many people :)))) Thanks so much for creating!
this came up just when i needed it. anxiety is a bitch, hope every has a good night day time
The bird chirps are so nice in the background omg
Every time I don’t feel safe or uncomfortable I watch your video and fr it helps me so much, so I really wanna thank you
im struggling with relapse and ptsd rn and this was so relaxing!! im so glad i came across your channel as you have such a comforting energy! iI absolutely adore your piercings and rings!! they look so cool:)
i really appreciate this video. i watched it right after a shooting at my school and i’m watching it again because i’m back where it happened and i’m struggling to feel safe. this helps a lot ❤️
Omg how are you not more popular? This is exactly what I needed today and the best PTSD comfort video I've found
i’ve been going through a tough time these last few weeks. thank u for making me feel relaxed
thank you so much this video legitimately helped me learn new ways to ease tension.
This video showed up in my recommended at the perfect time! Really great ASMR and super relaxing, just subbed 🥰
I like that I can hear the birds in the background, they really help calm me down as well. You’re voice is really soothing and you really helped me sleep. I struggle with sleeping a lot, so I just wanted to thank you for helping me out
Newly single mom, my 5 year old won't visit with her dad because she's used to use together. So I come with her to her dad's (my ex husband) for her weekend visits. I'm currently sitting with her at HIS home and the anxiety is so real. I am still very much in love with him but he has clearly moved on. This is so very hard for me to do but for our children the lengths we will go to ate endless as long as she is happy. I needed this video so much right now.
thank you for sharing your story. you are so brave and strong and I’m proud of you for seeking comfort for yourself in that difficult situation!
This video relaxed me to heaven. Never felt un-anxious its been yearssss
This helped me out so much, after yesterday happening and today just thinking too much about the past, I feel so much better already. Thank you so much
The memories hurt so much, a little bit of reprieve like this is such a relief. It may not fully medicate the pain, but I can finally sleep while listening to this.
Timing couldn’t be more perfect
Thank you!
Thank you so much for this. This saved me from my panic attack from living with my mom
this is everything thank you
anyone here dealing with SA/CSA, you’re not alone in trying to feel safe in your body and mind again ❤️❤️
thank you so much.Im ill and sad and i just want to relax,you made me feel safe.I cant watch it becouse i cried.thank you
going to pray that this helps me get some good sleep- i’ve been having nonstop nightmares augh
I've not watched the whole video yet but it is very nice you deserve more subscribers ♡
thank you so much! I appreciate you saying that ❤️
struggling with ptsd and relapse rn. this helped a lot. thank you !
Been having rly bad intrusive thoughts lately and tonight was especially hard, thank you so much
I was robbed tonight at work and my purse stolen on top of it. While I’m ok, this video really helped me relax after the traumatic experience. Thank you!
thank you for such a kind and caring vid
hi stranger! I am so glad i found your videos, I might be able to sleep tonight thanks to you. I cried hearing your kind words. I have no one to really share this with so I am going to write it here in order to relieve a little bit of weight off my shoulders.
TW : sa
I have very few memories of my childhood and i recently started remembering a specific eveng in witch i am being SAed by someone at ghe age of 6. I have no idea of who the person who did it was, how many times it happened, what happened exactly and honestly it makes me feel sick.
I've had issues my whole life dealing with depression, eating disorders, suicidal thoughts, and feeling like a sexual object with men. I am also having dreams about being raped.
My friends and my boyfriend, as suportive as they try to be, don't know what to do and don't seem to understand the idea lf "i don't know what happened but it hapened".
I am stresses, i wan to know the truth, who used my body, who took something of me. But i probably never will. And i am starting to think that i am creating all this in my head.
If someone whos has know a similiar situation feels able to help me in any way, i'd be glad if you reached out :))
Very relaxing whispering! Love the positive affirmations!!
Thank you. My grandmother just abandoned me, and my mom makes it clear I’m hard to care for and trauma dumps on me. My brother isolates himself away, and my dad is acting hella weird. I’m homeschooled with no friends or teachers, and I’m sick chronically with no cure. Life sucks but I’ll watch this repete
Got a really sudden overwhelming feeling of being unsafe, this is exactly what I needed. I’ve been having a really hard time being back at home from college and away from the safety of my friends.
You seem like a very sweet person. I loved the video. Thank you so much❤
I never feel safe in my room.. i always feel like im being watched😿
same, i feel like this everywhere
@@nenfis6868 yo that's a mood
Yaay love the positive affirmations with hand movements and whispers for the tingles and sleep plus this is what I needed especially with everything that's been going on lately 😔😟😱😨
IDK if you added it in manually but the sound of the birds chirping is so nice. That's one thing I always find so calming and beautiful 😩❤ Also love your whisper so much and this video idea, thank you ❤
I was lucky enough to catch the real thing while I was recording! I’m so glad you enjoyed the sounds ❤️
I'm so sad about the supreme court. I didn't expect this to weigh me down like this, but I'm really just so sad. I can't see any goodness in the future.
And this is helping me thank you 🌄
I couldn't sleep cause I was crying I love you
i really needed this. i just had a traumatic experience at work last night and i didn't know if I'd make it home or not. i just want all of these negative emotions gone
thank you so much !! i start my first ever job in a few days and i’m incredibly nervous and stressed. this video did the trick in under three minutes 🙏
Thank you for calming me I have ptsd and this video help me.
This has helped me so much ! Thank you 💕😴
you earned a new sub ilysm
Thank you.
love! this is so good. relaxing and soothing.
I recently had a house fire that has been causing some drastic changes to my life, anyhoo, I will sometimes wake up in the middle of the night but like…I won’t actually be awake. Like a dream inside a dream and when I ‘wake up’ I’m back in my house that burned. This was very soothing and it was my first time watching your content. Very soothing voice. Tysm.
EDIT: also sorry for being so specific I just kind of needed to vent.
Thank you, Angel ❤
I feel a lot better
I havent been doing so good with my mental health and this relaxes me so much thank you ❤❤🥺
Trigger warning: mentions of gore and gvns
This really helps me calm down after i spontaneously look up gore on reddit, its rlly scary to see guts and stuff and guns and knives especially since im still just a teenager, this helped me calm down a lot, thanks
Thankyou 💕especially after what happened yesterday. I hope your doing well too 💕
really nice, you have a very comforting voice
thank you for this
Amazing video - thank you for reminding me to let go of tension 🌸
This really really helped me today, thanks
Thank you for this lovely video, I needed this today
This really helped me a lot, I love your style of ASMR! 🥺🤍
thank you so much! I’m so glad it helped you ❤️
Obsessed!!! Thank you so much
this video was amazing. Thank you so much for this
So nice! 💤
i loved your video. thank you for making me feel safe
Thank you 🥺
I really enjoyed your tension releasing and face touching please can you do more of this 😍 thanks
Just found this and it relaxed me so much after a stressful day tysm💞
Hi! I know this is gonna be random, but where ever you are, i hope you’ve been doing great over these past 2 years. Sending love from a stranger ❤️
@@Phoebe.WitchingStar Hii ! thank u so much ur the sweetest same for u
Thank you 🥹❤️
God Bless you! Thank you so much for your help!
my mind's been spinning with all the thoughts about me and my gender dysphoria, it's just so confusing and I feel like everything is so hostile anymore and that I don't and haven't even known who i am for most of my short life. i hope i can get better, but this video kept me from losing my mind any further, for today.
I’m here because A redditor called me a name on my post and I instantly felt triggered, why are men so hateful towards women? I wish they could just leave us alone.
1 minute in ... your amazing :) :) :)
I'm not used to being loved and cared about no one ever has and now my ptsd is acting up again episode's almost everyday I feel so lost and alone even though I have people who love me, I don't feel safe at all not even in my own body
Hey I just found your channel and you’re amazing 🔥
pleaseee do more vids like this!!
I've been have ptsd episodes more lately which ends in hallucinations of every kind and believing I'm being watched what's wrong with me
The massage thing in the beginning showed me the left side of my jaw is just one giant locked up muscle 😅
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