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  • @tarajaneaustin
    @tarajaneaustin ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wow. God is good. This video is 4 years old but I tell you it is so relevant to me today. When I do the school run with my children, I have had a male parent constantly lust after me but only from a distance. Well today he crossed the line and it left me feeling like, should I not have been friendly in my hello, good mornings as we pass by each other. Not going to lie, but on the way home I was calling him all sorts of nasty names. Then when I had some alone time, I was praying against him. Now I see that instead I should have been praying for this broken man, asking God to give him the victory in his life, over his family & marriage. I thank God for putting this in my TH-cam feed, and for spreading the truth of his gospel. May the grace of God shine upon you for the message of this word Amen.

    • @NoGMOGod
      @NoGMOGod หลายเดือนก่อน

      We WRESTLE NOT AGAINST FLESH AND BLOOD. LUST IS A DEMONIC SPIRIT. PERIOD. IVE SEEN THEM. PITCH BLACK UNCLEAN. What starts as an ungoldy desire..can become something demonic(conceived)

    • @NoGMOGod
      @NoGMOGod หลายเดือนก่อน

      If God be with you EVERYBODY Women and men can have the TOOLS. to see these things.

  • @luannapoole4496
    @luannapoole4496 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What A Holy Godly Blessing This program is for me, and I Fervently Pray that it will be to all I share it with on my blog and on other social media platforms. I know that this is an older program because you and Dr. Doug are now married. But this information is Holy Supernatural Powerful Yesterday, Today, & Tomorrow. Holy God Mega Blessings Always and Forever To you both. Amen & Amen

  • @paulmerritt2484
    @paulmerritt2484 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Wow that is quite a thing to assume about someone. That if a man does not have other men in his life that are older than he is then he is no good to get into a relationship with? My marriage turned out just fine. 33 years and going strong. I had no one. I had no family or father or mentors or lifetime friends. Then I went to work 6 days a week to support my family. I did not feel comfortable around all the macho stuff and I was tired of being put down for not being into sports. The only men I knew were the ones I met at work. My father is God. The only Father I ever knew. I am a man. I do not need to be a mans man. I am for Jesus. I am for my community. I have friends today who are men. Lots of them and I know most from Church. My wife and I met and fell in love at age 16. We got married at 20 and had our first child almost 2 years later. We never had other partners we dated or all these problems. We had our own problems and grew together closer to Jesus.

    • @faigee3493
      @faigee3493 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amen to that. God bless you and your wife and your family

    • @judyclark6320
      @judyclark6320 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Because you both trusted God and allowed God to help you grow your marriage into maturity. You made the right decision.

  • @deniset3164
    @deniset3164 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Every person is broken some are more broken. Couples trigger each other, by stress or bad habits.

  • @mariabarlow149
    @mariabarlow149 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love this and needed it!
    Im on dating sites and get supposedly Christian men that with in the first conversation, they throw out sexual innuendoes. It drives me nuts and then thats a wrap and I do not want anything to do with them at tgat point cause I see them as week and if they do not respect me then they will not respect a relationship .

    • @Lene-t7h
      @Lene-t7h 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      this leoprous oldddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd people n racheal still leprousssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss bitch now you in your 3osssssssssssssssssss your oldr than leprosyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

  • @terichastain4179
    @terichastain4179 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Women's bodies are holy... my spirit bears witness. I grew up with an entirely bizarre idea of holiness. Thank you especially for this Table Talk episode. ❤🔥

  • @faigee3493
    @faigee3493 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My husband doesn't peak.I am so blessed.He jokes about a celebrity possibly just to tease me.But most times I also like that Person, I am so blessed. I had never have to worry about that and he does not have to worry about that with me. We are just totally comfortable with each other. When I hear the Stories of the people who do struggle with that it pains me. We met when I was 15 and got married when I was 17.Had my first child at eighteen five daughters by at the time I was twenty five I don't look the same anymore but it does not matter to him and and that is how it should be. We love each other more now than we ever did.Who knew we'd be together for 45 years this year? Most of our friends thought it would not last.
    The older I get, the more I realize that life is not about.Looks or sex at all not at all. And my husband.
    Agrees wholeheartedly

  • @bridgettulloch7615
    @bridgettulloch7615 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Mr Weiss keep up the good work u cannot please all of the people but some blessings🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @rebeccaoprea9917
      @rebeccaoprea9917 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What good work? He left his family for another women. He fell and won’t admit it.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sometimes, there is a process you have to go through

  • @grateful1929
    @grateful1929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I don't like my husband looking. He peeks at them several times. I still see and it hurts me.

    • @jayniekinser7259
      @jayniekinser7259 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      God is your source. Cleave toGod for strength. Perfect Love Cast Out Fear. And Proverbs 3:5,6. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and He will direct your path. Pray for peace. Pray overall for your husband without anger.

    • @darlenesumter4026
      @darlenesumter4026 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ought not be. Find Bible verses about that situation and pray it over your husband. God Word is true.

    • @noreenramsammy8385
      @noreenramsammy8385 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My husband always looked at other women and after 7 years he cheated and left us.....came back crying after 6 months....I forgave him and guess what he cheated again after 10 years....this time he did nor leave but just did his own thing every day until after 10 years God did a wonderful thing and chastised him...He lost a kidney got covid and nearly died...so he came back to God and I take care of him....had a stroke also..

  • @sonjaengland2338
    @sonjaengland2338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    But I've been unable to get my husband to talk, or admit anything, seems he'd rather lie & I'm suppose to forgive him of everything 7 times 70. Can't sweep his lust, porn & adultery under the rug and forget it, without dialog.

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you'd like, we have a Partners of Sex Addicts phone group and Facebook group available for support.
      www.drdougweiss.com/groups/partner-groups/
      facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa/

    • @melodiewood1315
      @melodiewood1315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      RUN !!

    • @sonjaengland2338
      @sonjaengland2338 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melodiewood1315 too late to run

    • @melodiewood1315
      @melodiewood1315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sonjaengland2338 Cant imagine even going near a person like that. Bless you Sonja !!

    • @sharoncrawford7192
      @sharoncrawford7192 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don't live with it.

  • @paulmerritt2484
    @paulmerritt2484 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    At 17 years old taking married women home from the pickup bar does not make you prey if it is a regular occurrence.

  • @ilovesketching1
    @ilovesketching1 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Pornography destroyed my marriage and I had blame myself for years of the whys? , but finally through counseling that this is so true It’s because of his brokenness that he chose to see pornography and became addicted. And I didn’t see in him any actions of repentance. So we both moved on .

  • @gsssprocket
    @gsssprocket 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of best, programs, this view today. Excellent wisdom shared here,,, most Jesus filled and speaks to the reality today,. LUST IS WHEN YOU THINK ANYTHING DIFFERENT THAN GOD THINKS!! WELL DONE HERE!!! VERY WELL STATED!

  • @kendrawells1288
    @kendrawells1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Could you please address the betrayed who’s spouse battles lust/addiction. I feel like we were not addressed or acknowledged in this talk. How this affects us.

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This video was a segment from a tv show that I appeared on a while ago. However, we are coming out with a DVD called Intrigue Addiction, which covers this part. Any of the Partner Recovery materials could help you heal if you were betrayed. We also have a phone support group and Facebook support group you can join.
      www.drdougweiss.com/partner-group/
      facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa/

  • @MJ-hope
    @MJ-hope ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I became a man, [woman] I put away childish things. Paul said this, in the SPRIT.Obey this !

  • @kimberlyleonard154
    @kimberlyleonard154 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    9:42 I don’t even want to go out in public either my husband. He tells me what he thinks about every woman that’s around!!! I feel so embarrassed, hurt!!! I feel like nothing!!

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry you're going through this, Kimberly. If there's something my team can do to support you, Heart to Heart Counseling Center has female therapists trained to work with you. The phone number to schedule an appointment is 719-278-3708.

  • @audreyperreault2036
    @audreyperreault2036 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr. Weiss, I have listened to many of your Podcasts.. Thank you for making them and sharing your expert knowledge. I have learned a lot from you.. My only "bone to pick with you' is that YOU TALK WAYY TO FAST., if you SLOWED DOWN YOUR SPEECH, you would come across more convincingly. More mature and much more intelligent... ! You have a captive audience., slow it down some ok?

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for the comment, Audrey!

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson7179 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent Topic filled with several nuggets of Wisdom

  • @suzaniovieno2023
    @suzaniovieno2023 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear lord I pray that you bring all men back to your words now and forever in your almighty name get back from them in his name Jesus Christ amen amen hallelujah ❤. Keep this prayer going ❤

  • @Mel-cc9vr
    @Mel-cc9vr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is some powerful information. Thank you Dr. Weiss

  • @jesusgirl9858
    @jesusgirl9858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So POWERFUL!

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The Holy Spirit gives us authority .

  • @shlrlaborben8934
    @shlrlaborben8934 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ❤ JOHN RAMEREZ WAS ON THE GREEN ROOM , CBN , AND MAYBE EVEN ON TABLE TALK......PLEASE BRING HIM BACK TO PREACH ON SPIRITUAL WARFARE ON MINISTRY NOW & LET HIM SPEAK WHAT GOD PUTS ON HIS HEART ......AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS....LOVE & PRAYERS....IN CHRIST YESHUA'S HOLY NAME AMEN.

  • @JayScott-z5o
    @JayScott-z5o ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm enjoying what the ladies of Table Talk are saying as well as Dr. Doug Weiss. My question is how does lust compare to guys noticing some of that "eye candy" that walks through stores that we guys notice. Please advise on this topic.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If the man your rating is not surrounded by men , he is not a man .

  • @ozzyoz5210
    @ozzyoz5210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My spouse openly flirts with other women;even in our home, to the point I can't have female friends. Our neighbor becomes his target for stirring up controversy/ I've been married 4 years in June 12 2019!!

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He may benefit from watching "Lust Free Living", but he may also benefit from watching "Lusted After" so he can understand how women feel like when he is exercising this behavior.
      Lust Free Living: www.drdougweiss.com/product/lust-free-living/

    • @Justtobewholeagain
      @Justtobewholeagain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My ex husband did that for years. It broke my heart. Get help while you’re still young and still newly married.

    • @sharoncrawford7192
      @sharoncrawford7192 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Red Flags.....

    • @sharoncrawford7192
      @sharoncrawford7192 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's disgusting.

    • @MJ-hope
      @MJ-hope ปีที่แล้ว

      She would be ex- neighbor.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Trauma not being dealt with .

  • @patriciacrider1114
    @patriciacrider1114 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    #jonitabletalk Hi Joni. This was very enlightening. I will keep my testimony to myself here, but I sure learned a lot from this program.

  • @colleenrogers3536
    @colleenrogers3536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What about when a woman is lusting after a married man? What is she trying to purchase?

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only she would know the answers to that. However, she might want to talk to someone before she gets hurt.

  • @MarinaM-o6p
    @MarinaM-o6p หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎤“ YOU CAN WEAR A BURKA “ and MEN STILL LUST AFTER WOMEN …..THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING TOO ……

  • @mr.titanz5209
    @mr.titanz5209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please talk about when you can be lusted after even when you dress modestly and because the anointing and calling you have on your life and how satan comes to try and destroy the gift or your gift. Thank God for you now I feel at peace at rest. My marriage has put me under almost a mind state to where I began thinking I was not important etc......BUT God. I will be one who will spread this message quickly. Hugs of a sisterly love in Christ Jesus such a breakthrough!

    • @DrDougWeiss
      @DrDougWeiss  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Since lust is 100% a man's choice it doesn't matter how you dress. In the DVD "Lusted After" I help women realize they are not creating lust.

  • @shawncoulter2512
    @shawncoulter2512 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My heart breaks at how much these women in the panel are trying to destroy other women. They keep blaming other women for causing it!!! Please stop judging!!! This is so destructive.

    • @rebeccaR22
      @rebeccaR22 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I didn’t pick that up.. but they aren’t wrong about women attracting what they dress like. However Doug was on point saying they could be listed after even if nothing is showing.

    • @allisons6180
      @allisons6180 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree something in our culture blames the woman. 😢

    • @fredaarends-xz2gm
      @fredaarends-xz2gm ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@rebeccaR227:14

  • @patriciarowland8230
    @patriciarowland8230 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It hurts period And Jesus said not too.

  • @gracekennelly8534
    @gracekennelly8534 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Almost 100K subscribers 🎉!

  • @Kimberlyjae3679
    @Kimberlyjae3679 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actually everyone. Dr. Doug was extremely good here. Pls don’t mix up what he is saying about a woman’s body being holy. Think about it. What would make it holy? Who tries tooth and nail to destroy it? Come on, you got to have some discernment IF you are truly born again.

  • @GardenerRose
    @GardenerRose ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Us moms need to pray and teach our children the power of self control .respect of our bodys and out of that understanding
    ... we will respect others 🙏 strong in faith ❤ 🎉

  • @rebeccaR22
    @rebeccaR22 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does this have to do with men finding pregnant women to be so attractive?

  • @jamesh4426
    @jamesh4426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is also a Jezebel spirit it’s female and male demonic spirits out there that they haven’t discussed yet. I’ll argue that when you’re a teenager, and you have a good body, you tend to want to express yourself and wear outfits that show your body off, usually into your 20s., I think we’re all aware of that. Also,
    when you’re a younger person, I think that most of the “lust” is curiosity and innocence. I wasn’t “looking” for sex in my teens and even early 20s, I was just expressing myself through cute clothes. It was before the internet and things were wayyy more chill than they are today.
    And there is a scientific argument to discuss out there too., boys are producing millions of sperm every day and it makes them aroused. Women’s bodies are not doing that. So they tend to not be aroused as men are. Maybe someone out there has a good argument on how to manage science and what is happening to the body, from a Christian perspective.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We become honest about our sin .

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The word of God is not his authority .

    • @patmelton43
      @patmelton43 ปีที่แล้ว

      What? How do you know?

    • @ryanortiz9629
      @ryanortiz9629 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Easy! He is not basing his argument on biblically principals. He calls people idiots. He is condescending

  • @Faji9r
    @Faji9r ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How can you be holy if you’re a sinner and not born-again.

    • @user-hk8gp7ui6s
      @user-hk8gp7ui6s ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Repent of your sins, confess your belief that Jesus died and rose again, and ask Him to be Lord of your life. You can be holy because He is holy. Do it! God Bless you.

    • @transformtodaywithteresa7005
      @transformtodaywithteresa7005 ปีที่แล้ว

      God is holy. Women are not inherently holy. Bizarre.

    • @lindamolyneux3536
      @lindamolyneux3536 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Holy Biblically means "set apart" God is "Holy!" , "set-apart" God...like no other and Lord of all lords.
      If we are holy, we choose to live a life surrendered to Him and not like the "common,"worldly ways...we are set apart unto Him.

  • @NoGMOGod
    @NoGMOGod หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would like to see the scriptures regarding all his teaching. There is nothing "holy" in any of our flesh. It has been corrupted by sin.

  • @lynghee159
    @lynghee159 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Dr. Wiess! Holiness❤

  • @lindablackmore
    @lindablackmore ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was with my ex boyfriend for 14 years. He was a pig. Period!

  • @HeavenestStCyr
    @HeavenestStCyr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so empowering... But as a non married man what's wrong with checking out a girl? We are highly visual and I can check out a girl without lusting after her

    • @earlethecanadian5470
      @earlethecanadian5470 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      THis has been my question, too

    • @TrishaLynnDYI
      @TrishaLynnDYI ปีที่แล้ว

      You can not check out a girl without lusting. Being single doesn’t mean to be free to lust. You are training your Brain with those behaviors. Sorry that’s my opinion.

    • @olivialoeto204
      @olivialoeto204 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is your fallen nature talking. You have more control than that. The fact that you know as man, you are visual; means you know enough to take control.

    • @HeavenestStCyr
      @HeavenestStCyr ปีที่แล้ว

      @@olivialoeto204 okay thx. But I think you misunderstood my question. though.

    • @lI-qt8ir
      @lI-qt8ir 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well it’s a habit that won’t stop when your no longer single that’s for sure

  • @sharoncrawford7192
    @sharoncrawford7192 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im 66, and I don think I have to worry about anyone lusting after me. But I dont look 66 and Ive had men refer to me as my husbands beautiful wife. I just think, what,,,,

  • @TebowTheNextKilmer
    @TebowTheNextKilmer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy is wise. He basically is repackaging Pope John Paul II's Theology Of The Body. If you haven't read TOB, do yourself a favor.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lust free living .

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Princes take longer than a kid.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men make men.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Surrounded by men of God .

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That is lust .

    • @sandysimoes4662
      @sandysimoes4662 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He’s talking about himself

  • @Paula-fs8qq
    @Paula-fs8qq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Froggie.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Come in and bring healing .

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Trauma .

  • @loricarroll7379
    @loricarroll7379 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women don’t lust?? I think women are waaaay more lustful than men.. Men are sexy

    • @patmelton43
      @patmelton43 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! You sound so wicked. Don't judge others because you are that way.

  • @sandrafarley7433
    @sandrafarley7433 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why are u all making a mountain out of mow hill ? Holy Spirit changes people simple

    • @Exhibit_Obedience
      @Exhibit_Obedience ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yes indeed, Holy Spirit changed me completely!! Thank GOD!!! 🙏🏼

  • @angelslovelybraiders2366
    @angelslovelybraiders2366 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about the churches that is teaching it’s okay to lust🤔🤔

    • @lindamolyneux3536
      @lindamolyneux3536 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow, they must not read their Bible....sad

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Covenant.

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sex attraction.

  • @ominolene
    @ominolene 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i do believe that ppl who are 30s and above shouldnt call themselves princesss they too old

  • @cherylriley2753
    @cherylriley2753 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🤮👿

  • @sheldrickholmes6787
    @sheldrickholmes6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men make men.