*PHIL COLLINS BROTHER* 🎵 PETER GABRIEL - IN YOUR EYES - REACTION
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He was the original lead singer of Genesis from 1964 to 1975. Phil Collins played drums and sang harmony from 1970 when he joined to when Peter Gabriel left.. Phil Collins replaced him on vocals from 77 forward while remaining as drummer in the studio and live duets
Not to be that guy... 1976.... 😱
I was just about to tell them this…
@@nightHawk66 You are that guy
@@psychobartus 😱😄
Collin started singing for Genesis in late 1975
Gabriel is a genius. His songs are very profound. He uses many African rhythms in his music.His work with early Genesis is brilliant. Try more . You won't be disappointed.
Couldn't agree more, his career's work is FULL of gems.
Jeux Sans Frontieres!
@@LowcountryJoe2 Good choice. Try Suppers Ready from album Foxtrot. Sublime
Couldn't have said it better Saturday
@@gratefulpitnicker I love that about him
Pater Gabriel and Phil Collins were in the progressive rock band Genesis together in the 70s! You can def hear the similarities in their solo work.
At the time I thought "Big Time" was about Collins. It seemed to fit.
@@lumpyfishgravy Well, I knew Peter did refer to his Genesis days in Solsbury Hill so thought the same! "walked right out of the machinery" but Phil stayed in there!
In fact, Collins was the drummer when Gabriel was lead vocals. Collins singing style especially on taking the mantle from Gabriel is almost identical.
@@eumaeus You really think that Peter Gabriel and Phil Collins have almost identical vocal styles? I think you really need to listen again.
They were both together Genesis. You absolutely MUST watch the Secret World live version of this song!
Absolutely! I love that entire concert.
Best version of his best song. Makes me cry everytime
I was at that concert!
Actually, while that is a decent version, I will always take the live version with Youssou N'dour over that one.
@@BirdBrain0815 Hell yeah!
There's a version of this from *Secret World Live* that includes Paula Cole as a back up singer. You can hear the world music influence more in that performance. Brad hit the nail on the head with this reaction. 👏
My favorite version. ❤❤ How I wish I'd seen him on that tour! I got into him too late.
Amazing version!
That one has to be seen to be believed!
The version from Growing Up live is also very good - both have an extended intro and outro that is beautiful.
I agree, Paula really made that a special tour. One of my favorite live videos of all time.
Peter Gabriel is a true artist. His catalog is really diverse with a lot of world music influences.
This song can only be played while holding up a boombox cranking it in front of the girl you lost to win her back. #SayAnything
very under rated movie. As Ione Skye was very under appreciated but super beautiful girl.
If that ever happens to me, then I’ll know what to do in that situation.
Today you hold up your Bluetooth speaker. 😂
Exactly!! Can’t listen to this song without thinking of the iconic scene from the movie.
One of the best artists around.. he has like 30 years of discography to go through, and changes throughout.
This song just melts me. The music, the lyrics, I just completely feel it. ❤️
Me too.❤
This is one of my favorite songs.
Ditto. The same as Paul Simon's Hearts and Bones, beautiful music with beautiful words.
This was a huge hit song in 80s, featured in the hit movie “Say Anything” and Peter Gabriel has a great list of fantastic music you should check out.
I just cannot hear this song without picturing John Cusack standing out in Ione Skye’s character’s front yard, holding the boombox over his head.
So, who else thinks Brad and Lex should definitely watch Say Anything, that classic 80s movie?
Me!!!!! As an 80s teen, I wanted to be serenaded like Lloyd serenades Diane in Say Anything!
Saw him live in 1987 on the So Tour in Pittsburgh.
This song with Youssou N'Dour on that stage changed how I viewed live performances.
From the second row, I had never experienced a vibe like that.
Phil Collins and Peter Gabriel were both founding members in genesis. Phil took over lead singer duties when Peter left to go solo.
Phil joined Genesis along with Steve Hackett for the band's third album.
Phil Collins wasn't a founding member, he joined in 1970, the band formed in 67.
@@floorticket Thanks for the correction. I knew Steve Joined later, but I thought Phil was founding member.
@@nealm6764 Technically, he won an audition to become the FOURTH drummer in the band's history.... (But, by far, the longest-standing and most impactful, even in just the five-piece/Gabriel-fronted years alone ....)
Such a beautiful song. "Solsbury Hill" would be my next choice.
Or Red Rain
Solsbury Hill is one of my favorite songs.
My suggestion is: "Not One Of Us"
YES!
Either "Solsbury Hill" or "Don't Give Up" (feat. Kate Bush) would be a great next song to listen/react to.
This song is playing from the boom box in the iconic scene in the movie Say Anything.
Those backing vocals are the West African singer Youssou N'Dour. I had the good fortune to see him on tour with Gabriel at MSG.
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Lex picks up on musical vibes pretty good. Much of Peter Gabriel's music has African influences.
Also, the song is about how SHE is able to lift HIM out of fits of despair, and makes the struggle of living worth it. In its simplest terms, anyway. Also, the African influence comes from the S. African musicians who played and sang on this album. Instead of just boycotting S. Africa over apartheid, a lot of white artists from the US, the UK and Europe at this time decided to actively seek out S. African artists for collaboration, as a way to kind of thumb their noses at the apartheid government. The more you know...
Paul Simon too. Lady smith Black Mumbai’s Choir.
He doesn’t use any male female pronouns
@@michael7144 astute point. I was posting from my PoV, which I assume I still have the right to do.
@@bminturn yes, everyone tends to project. He probably was talking about a she.
This isn’t a love song” per se, it’s a prayer. He’s singing to his creator
He’s basically saying, “Things can get hard in life, but when I look into your eyes I feel whole and happy again.”
^This
Without Peter Gabriel leaving Genesis, you may have never heard of Phil Collins!
Lex, how do you have such perception? Almost instinctual! Crazy!
This was the song my wife and I fell in love to and had our first dance to at our wedding. The live version is even more awesome!
Peter Gabriel is an active member of Amnesty International. He wrote letters of protest to South African government in the days of apartheid. You can hear the African influence in a lot of his songs.
Amnesty International
One of the greatest songs ever written
Genesis one of the all time greatest groups. So many great songs and albums. Every member had solo success. So much talent from that band!
The Gabriel era is of course VERY distinct from Collins era. It's one of those bands where no one song is totally representative.
'So' is a genuine masterpiece, not a bad cut on the entire album and no two songs are alike. Perhaps Sledgehammer will be more to Lex's liking.
This is my favorite love song of ALL TIME! 🥰🖤
One of my favorite artist/vocalist. Right up there with Steve Winwood.
Best music in the 70'/80's.
Guaranteed came from those guys.
The song actually about how the strenght of Nelson Mandella inspired Peter. He was recording with African musicans for the album.
In this episode of Brad & Lex, Brad's signature "side to side sway" is apparent from the intro. Lex declares a "Lion King" comparison mood wise as she gives Peter Gabriel a nod while unleashing her "Simba bop".
I will now forever call the 80s trend of incorporating African beats and musicians "Simba Bop."
@@mickeyrube6623 So It is and so shall it be.
Peter Gabriel was the front man in Genesis, while Phil Collins was on drums, but became the front man when Gabriel left the band
Music polls aren’t worth much but I saw one recently that had this number 1 on a love song poll.
"So" is a f masterpiece. Red Rain, Mercy Street, Don't Give Up, etc. Really epic album. And the Disney-esque comparison makes sense, Gabriel has a great track in Wall-E.
Nothing All Complicated,, Just A Straight Out How You Make Me Feel Love Song ❤
he gathered stellar musicians for any project he created. This dude is AMAZING
I do hope they watch the live version of this from the Secret World tour. If a person hasn't seen Gabriel present his music live--which like Floyd and Bowie is always very theatrical--it's hard to fully appreciate how these songs 'work' as art. It's like hearing Sledgehammer without seeing the official video. The sound gains another layer if it's accompanied by some form of Gabriel-approved visual.
Saw that show in 94 still in my top 3 of concerts of all-time
@@paulobrien9572 I've tried to give up rating them, every time I think of another great one I want it in my top 3 without pushing anything out. Now I just say some of them felt like exalted experiences, and for sure in its way, this one was one of those. :-)
Gabriel is a genius. His work is amazing , he was an early mainstream artist to embrace worl music and African music as influences ( along with Paul Simon ). His songs are often about sex , love , or the intersection of the two.
This song really was a profound statement back in the day and still resonates now... It is telling of the trials and tribulations of life and relationships and finally finding the one that completes you... it is diving deep into the feeling, without the façade we all wear day to day, spoken without reservations or pride from the core of our being, of truly becoming one entity with another and the longing and desire when one must be away from that union. At least that is what *I* always took from it... Brad Got It Totally! Not sure where Lex was going, but this one is points for Brad!
Already a world hit, but 3 years later, movie Say Anything came out and made the song a legend
These lyrics are undeniably good. The writing is on point. It's specific AND vague enough to let the listener fill in some blanks. And it's just plain old fashioned well written. Noice!
Aloha, Love this song...sooo much betta live...with all the various artist...peace
Gabriel is not only one of the most beautiful singing voices in music, his compositions and choice of musicians is at the top of the industry
I had a roommate I'm college who was SO into Genesis/Gabriel/Collins. One of her treasures was a back stage pass badge from an early 80s genesis show. Brings back memories.
One of his greatest tracks and one of the greatest love songs in history. Simply magnificent, the musicianship especially the drumming and percussion is just at another level and the vocals wow. The African singer near the end still gives me goosebumps 37 years after first hearing thsi track. A truly global track.
Peter was one of the Original members of the Group Genesis, which Phill Collins was the drummer and took over the vocals when Peter Gabriel Left
Peter Gabriel is an artist's artist. He is super talanted. Along with all his hits and classics others have mentioned, I love the song Blood Of Eden. Very emotional and moving! Also love the lesser known song called I Go Swimming from his Plays Live LP. I have it on 200g vinyl from Classic Records and it sounds out of this world!
Such an amazing accompaniment of musicians/ Manu Katche, Tony Levin, Youssou N’Dour!
Peter Gabriel and Kate bush - "Don't give up", would love to see what you guys think of that.
Ditto!
A snoozer lol 😆 But I liked them together on her 1979 Christmas variety show 🎶 🎵
Facts 💯
This one for certain.
Very inspirational 👍
This song is clearly about a man who wanted to be what his woman, whom he held in absolutely high esteem, wanted him to be but he was unable to be. It's not a failure love song but a song about not being able to match, because of pride, what she deserves and how she see him. Artists are emotionally unpredictable and it's difficult for those who are intimately involved with them. I think that's what this song is about.
You should really check out The Secret World Tour version of this. Bought this album when it came out - this track still sounds as fresh
Now That You Have Heard This One & The Lyrics,, AN ABSOLUTE MUST SEE LIVE PERFORMANCE VIDEO,, PETER GABRIEL "IN YOUR EYES" (SECRET WORLD LIVE) VIDEO
Yeah Peter Gabriel ! One of my favorite singer when I was young !!! "In Your Eyes" is so beautiful !!!!
Check out Peter Gabriel's Secret World Live
I agree. phenomenal live performance!
One of my all time favorite songs. Peter Gabriel is a brilliant lyricist. I was so lucky to see Genesis while he was still a member. The sounds of different genre, different cultures he brings. Like in this song. Has an African rhythm to it maybe.
I believe the original video shows the musicians. I'll have to look for it
Great song
PURE. 80s. GOODNESS.
Peter Gabriel was the primary songwriter and lead vocalist for the classic period of Genesis. Once Phil Collins joined Genesis, Phil did a lot of harmony vocals along with Peter, most of the time simply doubling the same melody being sung by Peter and adding a very special quality to the band's vocals. Genesis was more popular than the Beatles for a while in England, and Peter Gabriel was a huge celebrity as a result of that popularity. Peter donned a variety of bizarre costumes for live performances, and the theatrical nature of a live Genesis performance back in the the day was a big part of Genesis' success, but Peter came to feel unsettled and restless with his role in Genesis, and left to have a great solo career, although I think he had more success as a solo act in Europe than in the USA.
The band was a bit distraught about having their lead singer, songwriter, and onstage performer leave them, and they searched high and low for a replacement lead singer. They eventually got sick of auditioning people (I think they hosted about 60 tryouts), and Phil sort of got up and said "Fuck this, I already know all the songs, give me a chance", and, so, music history was made.
Fans of Genesis have argued for almost half a century now as to whether Gabriel or Collins was the better lead singer for the band. Collins almost certainly learned to truly sing while doubling Peter's vocals in the early Genesis albums, and fans typically wanted The Olde Songs to sound as near to same as possible to the versions originally sung by Peter, so Collins delivered them in much the same style during live performances. I was surprised to hear Lex quickly say that Gabriel sounds like Collins, but given the history involved, I suppose it really isn't that surprising that people might think so. Having lived through the entire period that Genesis has been making music, I'm used to fans typically noting the differences rather than the similarities.
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Peter was the primary singer, not the primary songwriter. Where did you get that from? Tony Banks and Mike Rutherford were responsible for most lyrical writings and compositions. Gabriel however did write all the lyrics to the Lamb.
Love you two... to me Gabriel is singing to everyone... it's a spiritual song, that we are all brothers and sisters... 'in your eyes' he looking at everyone.. he sings about 'when he gets lost' and no matter which way he goes all roads lead back to God.. 'the grand facade soon will burn' to me means this system that creates chaos and tries to separate us from each other and God will soon come to an end... and when he loses his pride he can reach out and connect with love from the inside (his heart)... looking at the world seen through God's eyes.. in God's eyes he is complete and the answer to fruitless searches... maybe i'm getting carried away and i guess a google search will reveal Gabriel's true meaning for the song... but the African/World beat is very catchy... as others have pointed it out - the live version/performance is awesome and brings more meaning to the song... sorry too long but there you are... keep up the good work...
Even though you heard this you really should watch the live version. Tremendous
I second this comment . Live version from his 1990 tour.
"SECRET WORLD" tour
"So" is such a great album.
👍!
You need to do the live 'Secret World' version to fully appreciate this song.
110% agree!!! That concert is amazing 🤩🤩🤩
U need to watch the live version - UNBELIEVABLE performance!
Genesis told stories with their songs. When Peter left, they tried to keep that vibe, but eventually Phil went to pop songs to make money. Peter kept with his art and his dynamic music
nothing i can add....hes brilliant and so is phil collins. Peter Gabriel made an effort to show the world that African culture can be beautiful. And Brad...Im telling you real. Youre a lucky man, cuz Lex is the cutest ever. I give you your props too though my man. You always give things serious thought. That deserves respect. You dont pass any judgement until you have really thought it through.
related by band- Peter was the original singer in Genesis- when he left the band because he no longer wanted to tour because he had a sick child, Phi Collins took over as lead vocalist, continued to be their drummer as well as hired Chester Thompson to be part of their band. if you watch any of their older live videos you'll see Chester's kit on the left and Phil's on the right. for his most recent tours Phil's young son Nick plays the drums and he's every bit as incredible as his dad and seeing the pride in Phil's face as he introduces his son will bring TEARS TO YOUR EYES!
He’s a great artist and a great humanitarian
He use to be the lead singer in Genesis Phil Collins used to be the drummer
Also Phil Collins played drums for a band called GENESIS whose lead singer happens to be Peter Gabriel. Therefore the similarities. You have to watch the live version of this.....A vibe you both will love.
Also Peter Gabriel does backing vocals on Phil Collins' classic, "Take Me Home."
Bonus: Sting does backing vocals on Phil Collins' song "Long, Long Way to Go." Both are on the same album (No Jacket Required).
PETER GABRIEL "MERCY STREET",, "DIGGING IN THE DIRT" & "LOVETOWN"
Peter Gabriel went exploring Africa and Asia in the late 1970s. He brought back and recorded a number of musicians. Their collaborations resulted in Gabriel's African-influenced third and fourth solo albums, in 1980 and 1982. These records exposed the rest of the Western world to ancient African polyrhythms and esoteric percussion instruments.
Gabriel's 1980 song "Biko" also exposed the evils of South Africa's Apartheid regime to the Western world, leading to its eventual downfall and the freeing and presidency of Nelson Mandela.
Phil Collins played drums for a couple of tracks on Gabriel's third album. During one session, Gabriel and his sound engineer discovered and then developed the Gated Drum Reverb sound, a huge technological advance that Phil used on his own first solo album the next year -- most notably in the hit "In the Air Tonight". This became known as the "Phil Collins Sound" but it was Peter's innovation, and it changed the entire musical landscape, all over the world.
As others here have written, Peter co-founded the Progressive Rock band Genesis. In 1970, they hired a young theatre actor named Phil Collins, who quickly proved to be one of the greatest drummers in Rock and Jazz history. Phil also sang backing vocals for Peter, and they did sound very similar after five years of harmonizing. Genesis is easily one of the top three greatest Progrssive Rock bands ever, along with Yes and either Pink Floyd or King Crimson, depending on your point of view.
Most top selling songs in the 80's were associated with movies, much like this song.
You don’t have to react to it, but watch the live video of this song. It is so cool and a longer version.
Funny you should say "brother", as Phil Colllins played the drums and Peter Gabriel sang when they were both in Genesis. :-) Merry Christmas. :-) And the music is African in vibes because African musicians play in it, and the vocals you hear at the end are those belonging to Youssou N'Dour (who revorderd once a duet with Neneh Cherry).
It's about the ultimate love you have for someone that that person changed everything for you and with you.
Peter is a musical Genius, this is a great song of love and how that person makes you feel how they are your all.
The line, "Of all the fruitless searches" means all the other people they been with they have finally found that perfect one.
Very 80's. Can't hear this song without thinking of the film 'Say Anything'.
One the greatest works of art in the 20th century. Peter has very few equals and none better.
"Red Rain" by Peter Gabriel live in David Letterman is a stunning masterpiece. I would emplore all to watch it at least once.
crazy that lex got the connection to collins! they started their musical careers together!
Peter & Phil started off in the same band - the amazing Genesis. Many times Phil, the drummer, would sing backing & harmonies with Peter singing lead. Some excellent PG songs are San Jacinto, Blood of Eden and Biko. Also I Know What I Like, Carpet Crawlers and Firth of Fifth with Genesis.
Hi guys. I actually saw him in a live concert , here, in Portugal, back in the 70's....great musician. Love him. Love from Portugal
To date one of the greatest concerts I have experienced was Peter Gabriel’s back in like 91’. I have been to roughly 100 concerts, and this was up there with Rattle and Hum (U2) and David Gray in Dublin. It was truly a great show and Peter was sooo on point
very jealous, my first show was u2 in 1987
@@jeremiahdunn6546 my first concert is as Seven Seconds… I go back a bit, but U2 Rattle and Hum was something else!
@@8cylinderstolife737 oh man yes it was, I remember seeing the movie in theaters on opening day
@@jeremiahdunn6546 it’s crazy experiencing it and then looking back from so long ago.
You should have passed on the shortened lyric version of this song, and instead, chosen the extended live concert version. It will completely change the power of this song.
Peter Gabriel is a visual artist and this song without the stage performance is an affront to his genius.
Really, listening to his song the way he released it is an affront to his genius? He's a musical genius and the song stands perfectly on its own.
Perceptive to notice how much this sounds like a Phil Collins piece of work, since they spent a number of year working together in Genesis....hard to say who influenced who, especially since they were both creative geniuses!
This song is just so beautiful.
This is world music. Worldbeat. From various countries all in one.
Brad is on to it. A guy is getting so tired of working so hard every day but then comes home and sees that it's all worth while when he looks into his lover's eyes. She rejuvenates him and makes him whole again.
They used to be in Genesis together you are right on Lex👍👍👍👍
WHAT A GREAT SONG! That whole album was amazing
Lacing in african hyms was magical
This was our Prom song. So romantic for teens in the 80s & 90s. Especially after watching the movie "Say Anything."
The live video is much better need to check it out 👍👍👍👍🤟
You absolutely MUST watch the live version of this song from Athens.
Gabriel is joined on stage by Senegalese singer Youssou N'Dour for what is, in my opinion, one of the best live performances of any song ever.
The sheer joy and vitality in the performance is breathtaking to behold!
Peter Gabriel was the first singer of the prog band Genesis. He went solo and Phil Collins (Genesis' drummer) took over the singing role. Peter went with World music. you can definitely hear African vibes in this song.
Yay! You did it. 🙌 Peter Gabriel is really a musical genius. Oh yeah, the Sting video (every breath you take) you guys were talking abt sampling from older songs to rap songs. (Sting/P Diddy) Anyway, Tu Pac did a popular one in the 90s "changes" i believe its called. You guys should check out that one if you havent heard it (Brad, you may know it already) and the popular original called "the way it is" by Bruce Hornsby from 80s. Tu Pac sampled the main piano riff. The piano skills in "the way it is" -mind blowing! 🤯 Happy holidays guys! Be safe! ✌❤
Peter Gabriel taught Phil Collins how to sing, that’s why they sound so similar. 🙂
Phil sang in musical theater and was the drummer/singer for his band Flaming Youth long before he knew Peter Gabriel.
What a musical myth you have concocted here Sorry bud but your wrong ! LOL
You learn something everyday!!!!🙃
Brad swayed...
It's a Christmas miracle!!
Plenty others have extolled the wonderfulness of Peter in these threads, so I must mention an integral part of Peter's sound. On this track, as well as all of his albums, is the legendary bass and Chapman Stick player, Tony Levin. Tony was a part of the legendary progressive rock giant, King Crimson as well as the newer super group, Liquid Tension Experiment. He was also performed with Yes and Anderson, Bruford, Wakeman, Howe. The bass lines he creates are so rich and unique but completely serve the song. He was the creator of the Funk Fingers as was in the Peter Gabriel song "Steam". He is a master of his craft with a very distinct style.
Peter Gabriel was the lead singer in the 70s rock group called Genesis with phil collins on drums, and when peter gabriel left the group to go solo phil collins took over as lead singer plus drummer.
That was nice - Brad sharing his real feelings for Lex. Most men feel that way - they want to be the man that their woman wants.