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  • After jumping the fence and running off into the Portuguese wilderness Colton tells Chris Harrison he's done! But can Chris talk our Bachelor around?
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ความคิดเห็น • 569

  • @sadiakhann
    @sadiakhann 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1141

    Is it just me or does the Bachelorette always go more smoothly than the bachelor?

    • @meganveldema5023
      @meganveldema5023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Sadia Khan men are unstable

    • @walkintheforest
      @walkintheforest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sadia Khan just you.

    • @gdesiree29
      @gdesiree29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It does go smoother.

    • @alexrusso5067
      @alexrusso5067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      That’s what happens when women are in charge

    • @shelbywittsell7122
      @shelbywittsell7122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I feel like men cause less drama

  • @minhphung8479
    @minhphung8479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    people think this is romantic, i actually think this is what a tantrum a man child would throw

    • @fffianist
      @fffianist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol this comment aged beautifully

    • @minhphung8479
      @minhphung8479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@fffianist OMG thank you

    • @angadgrewal7386
      @angadgrewal7386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is in bad place insecure and clueless

  • @dolliebush8735
    @dolliebush8735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    One thing I do know , you can't make someone love you if they don't want you , no matter how hard you fight...

    • @aberoocx562
      @aberoocx562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Preach

    • @dolliebush8735
      @dolliebush8735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@brittanpayton1439 She will feel forced and she will do it out of pity but she want be happy , stay true to her heart and I wish Colton get the help that he really needs

    • @leemary4833
      @leemary4833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He is out of control. Red flags of shaking, refusal to get rejected is not a normal part of life. It’s a fantasy he has develop in his mind, to be infatuated with someone, wanting someone to lift him up. That’s like looking for a trophie, not a real healthy relationship. Her healthy dad and family saw issues that are real problems here. He’s not ready for a relationship. He should just have friends, to experience more out of life and do some self evaluation to rid his denial issue.

    • @leemary4833
      @leemary4833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In Becca series he wanted a strong woman but now Cassie is a soft vulnerable type that he can control, not healthy.

    • @pennyrollings9635
      @pennyrollings9635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There is a song can't make someone love you that won't..

  • @kalik5665
    @kalik5665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Pretty creepy looking back at this now that she’s filed a restraining order.

  • @lifeofmarissa9507
    @lifeofmarissa9507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    See even Chris says that "she may not be into you" he sees it, he sees cassie wasnt possibly here for colton. And colton is still ignoring all the warnings

    • @phalynwilliams4119
      @phalynwilliams4119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Chris went in. He didn't studder. Maybe she's just not that into you. Wow. He has been doing this long enough. I'll bet Chris reads people well.

    • @hnnahx_3362
      @hnnahx_3362 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Understand!^
      I think when you’re falling for someone even with warnings about the person sometimes people just don’t care because they “love them” that they’ll only notice the good in the relationship? That’s how I see Colton still chasing Cassie to make this work. ♥️

    • @ileana823100
      @ileana823100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well considering they are still together I would say ignoring those warnings was a good thing

    • @paulah8058
      @paulah8058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love blinds people

    • @helloooo7703
      @helloooo7703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ileana823100
      😬

  • @lifeofmarissa9507
    @lifeofmarissa9507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +932

    Katie warned him
    Tayshia warned him
    Demi warned him
    Kirpa warned him
    Cassie Dad Warned him
    Chris Harrison Warned him

    • @lifeofmarissa9507
      @lifeofmarissa9507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Al Wa look at my comment, that's what I said

    • @lissettedelarosa6679
      @lissettedelarosa6679 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Lmao word I don’t feel bad for him. I might be horrible for saying that but they all warned him and i don’t see the chemistry between him and Cassie at all

    • @mickeygibson5919
      @mickeygibson5919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes they did what a mess he need to put his big boys pants on she not ready for love like that she got a lot of growing up to do and have fun sorry say it

    • @lamar9331
      @lamar9331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Cassie is into herself, not Colton.

    • @Shewas-kathybates
      @Shewas-kathybates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      the heart wants what it wants

  • @roter13
    @roter13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    Now I feel bad for Cassie! it almost feels like she's being forced to at least give him a chance when she clearly just wants to go home.

    • @z7847
      @z7847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If she so clearly wanted to go home, she could’ve just sent herself home

    • @z7847
      @z7847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don’t feel bad for her. She chose to stay

    • @bluntsmoke9913
      @bluntsmoke9913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@z7847 agreed

  • @89Awww
    @89Awww 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    And now she's filing for a restraining order against him. Jeez.

    • @magyar5615
      @magyar5615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      As I said at the time: he is a stalker, had this been a woman her behavior would have been called out, she would have been called crazy, unstable but no they made an entire season based on his behavior which was seriously unstable, listen to the interview he did with Reality Steve, he admits he lied about his final choice to play everyone, he needs help. What a freakin double standard.

    • @adelina7970
      @adelina7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@magyar5615 hmm didn’t see that part. I am looking. What a weirdo! Well he brought all this upon himself.

    • @noellarash367
      @noellarash367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Take a hint.. CU... she does not want you.. Read the Book”She’s/He’s just not In To You”

    • @pourladentelle
      @pourladentelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And now he came out the closet!!! The drama just doesn't end!!

    • @DajaahAdams
      @DajaahAdams 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dddnosn

  • @kadiabareld
    @kadiabareld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    This is harrasment, obsession and delusion at it's finest. She does not love you, Colty.

    • @fffianist
      @fffianist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The accuracy hurts

    • @lar.8168
      @lar.8168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow this aged well

    • @jennasablotny1327
      @jennasablotny1327 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      my boyfriends name is colton and my nickname for him is Colty😂😂

    • @precooked-bacon
      @precooked-bacon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yep

  • @linlin4122
    @linlin4122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Those 🐶🐶 are like "Get this drama queen off the road so we can sleep!"😬 😩😩

  • @BrieTay
    @BrieTay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I don’t understand how y’all think this behavior is acceptable. She doesn’t like him.... like why did he keep pressing the issue

  • @bizwizconsultant
    @bizwizconsultant 5 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    Colton is delusional if he thinks that Cassie rejected him because of Tashia and Hanna, even after telling her that she is the one? When he poured his heart out to Cassie and was there shaking like a leaf, she was just there looking at him with disdain and said stop shaking, i'm not in love with you so I have to go now. One day when Colton matures he will understand that if a woman truly loves him she would not leave him.

    • @ivanafabijanic7121
      @ivanafabijanic7121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did you hear about editing?

    • @bizwizconsultant
      @bizwizconsultant 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ivanafabijanic7121 Yes and clearly they didnt edit out that break up. We saw exactly what Colton said to Cassie and saw how she rejected him. That is why he jumped the fence.

    • @ivanafabijanic7121
      @ivanafabijanic7121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bizwizconsultant You think that conversation lasted 10 minutes? Thats how much we saw.

    • @bizwizconsultant
      @bizwizconsultant 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ivanafabijanic7121 Don't need to see everything when the salient points have been highlighted.

    • @bizwizconsultant
      @bizwizconsultant 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Wendy Alien She was in acting mode

  • @elaineemartini1233
    @elaineemartini1233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    What if she’s just not that into you!!!!! Lmfao

    • @riannaharris7968
      @riannaharris7968 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou

    • @phalynwilliams4119
      @phalynwilliams4119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chris Harrison spoke to Colton just like the way a friend would. Colton's dad later made similar comments and so did his mother. Colton has the right to pursue Cassie. Although it was hard, the other women are better off in the long run that he broke it off with them.

    • @MsCarlastar
      @MsCarlastar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mean they are still together so !!

    • @lanacastillo49
      @lanacastillo49 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MsCarlastar haha not anyhmore he is a creep and a stalker

    • @Kate-dv4bz
      @Kate-dv4bz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MsCarlastar not anymore

  • @anandiganguly3086
    @anandiganguly3086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I feel bad for Hannah and Taysha. They gave him their hearts. Cassie better be worth this..

    • @magyar5615
      @magyar5615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Those women both were lucky to not be the object of his affection as he is not well that is for sure and had deep and serious problems mentally that were and are not being addressed. Shame on the show for making this all seem ok somehow, now Cassie and her family are truly in a situation wherein they need to be extremely careful. As stated elsewhere I hope they have a security detail (The Bachelor should actually provide that since they created and encouraged him and are negligent or worse here) and hoping they all stay safe, and he gets help fast and that he can find peace.

    • @c.n.gichohi8316
      @c.n.gichohi8316 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well she wasn't she just used him for the fame and broke up with him smh

    • @precooked-bacon
      @precooked-bacon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@c.n.gichohi8316 i think she's too traumatized and scared for her safety to care about fame at this point

    • @natalialeal1536
      @natalialeal1536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@c.n.gichohi8316 r u kidding me? Im glad she broke up with him. Maybe she sensed the red flag and how obsessive he was with her from the start. The guy is a creep

    • @ajfoxworth
      @ajfoxworth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      L

  • @Smarion2
    @Smarion2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    He definitely needs therapy about his insecurities of not ever feeling he's enough. And it's unfortunate because she isn't that into him at all. She even said she wants him to find someone who is. 😕 These other girls will never compair to her in his heart because of that rejection.

    • @delaney9718
      @delaney9718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then everyone of us needs therapy.. I mean who ever feels enough?

    • @Smarion2
      @Smarion2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@delaney9718 I do. But, I'm getting therapy. 😂

    • @mariev6108
      @mariev6108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@delaney9718 I do. No offense just honest but no therapy needed.

    • @delaney9718
      @delaney9718 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariev6108thats a lifegoal I would say

    • @phalynwilliams4119
      @phalynwilliams4119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Colton's dad asked him if he liked Cassie because she turned him down. He had prior meltdowns when other women left him. He strung Tia along for awhile. Granted Tia was pushy but still. He loved Becca too so. We'll see. I wish them well

  • @prismcounseling
    @prismcounseling 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    4:35 "I've been through enough of knowing I'm not enough for a long time..." Now we know the root of what he was talking about and dealing with.

  • @d.l.4411
    @d.l.4411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    he’s so delusional lol. she told the camera she didn’t love him

    • @jenng1770
      @jenng1770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What happens when boys think with their penis.

  • @precooked-bacon
    @precooked-bacon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    this should have been where they called in a counselor to have colton decompress and talk about why he is hyper-focused on someone who just expressed their boundaries

  • @coelhinha10100
    @coelhinha10100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    A girl dumped him and he’s like,
    “ Don’t touch me! I am done!”
    He is such a drama queen lol 😂😂😂

    • @dannac_8888
      @dannac_8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      co10100
      Oh please, that producer was OBNOXIOUS.
      Thinking she could physically pull in like a DOG on a leash.
      He's obviously FINE. He was a pro football player, NOT an INFANT.
      He's more than capable of seeing a car.
      He was in NO DANGER.
      She was a BOSSY NOBODY. Thinking she could make a decision for him.
      What a fool.

  • @Elllafella234
    @Elllafella234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    This is so pathetic Colton really threw away his two relationships for a woman excuse me girl who clearly has said “ I’m not in love with you “ like Colton let her go she CLEARLY doesn’t love you 😒😒😒

    • @ginnysworld8780
      @ginnysworld8780 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Crissy San you cant chose who you love girl. Trust me I been in Colton’s spot before. Tons of people could be into you. You may not want them and only love someone else. I think he did the right thing he isn’t settling he is true to his heart I admire him.

    • @Elllafella234
      @Elllafella234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ginny’sWorld no it’s pathetic when Cassie told him I’m not in love with you

    • @chxlsxx
      @chxlsxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What is the point of keeping those 2 relationships if he doesn’t love them???? There’s no point even if you have 10 relationships but you’re not invested in any of them. This is real life, for goodness sake. If you were dating a guy who you didn’t love, would you stay with him just because he loved you???

    • @phalynwilliams4119
      @phalynwilliams4119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cassie says she loves him now

    • @phalynwilliams4119
      @phalynwilliams4119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The relationship will have to run its course and hopefully it will work out.

  • @emmaselenemonroe5530
    @emmaselenemonroe5530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I really respect him for this. He knew where his heart was, and he didn't want to lead the other two women on. That wouldn't have been fair to them or himself. And now it truly seems like he's happy.

    • @mf8080
      @mf8080 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I respect her too a lot, it took a lot of guts for her to say she wasn't ready and needed more time instead of just going with the flow for the sake of the show...

    • @priyaravindran6150
      @priyaravindran6150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Colton revealed recently that they broke up not too long ago, because he asked about marriage, and she once again said she was not ready. Now they’re back together again. Two breakups in the matter of a year? Probably not the last one.

    • @gabriellabradberry
      @gabriellabradberry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This aged like milk ://

    • @pourladentelle
      @pourladentelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I guess now he's even happier!!!

    • @candicem8931
      @candicem8931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Turns out he lead ALL the women on in the end...

  • @gdesiree29
    @gdesiree29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    All I can say is go for what it . Even if cassie isnt feeling the same way he cant go back to the other two cuz he already confessed .
    I dont want to be anyones second option.
    They deserve better.

    • @pollypockets508
      @pollypockets508 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That being said, Desiree did get dumped by Brooks, but she moved past the heartbreak and is now happily engaged. That could have happened with Colton. But whatever

  • @marieantonioo
    @marieantonioo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Colton: I put myself out there and I get rejected..
    Imagine how all those girls felt...I feel so bad for those two wonderful ladies especially Hannah G she didn’t even had a date... she deserves better and
    Cassie clearly doesn’t want you...🤷🏾‍♀️
    Btw: I know you can’t force love...

    • @susankang6995
      @susankang6995 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marie Jane yea and one restraining order later hopefully he gets the picture

  • @nataliejones2102
    @nataliejones2102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I'm still wondering where he was planning to go. Cause he was walking like he knew where he was going😄

  • @stacyvang2760
    @stacyvang2760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The look on Chris's face at the end literally screams "you're crazy dude."

  • @nineteen96
    @nineteen96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    He's too naive and emotional for me to find him attractive

  • @mayamcdonald847
    @mayamcdonald847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    just imagine him in his room that night without the cameras he must have cried a river I feel soo bad for him.

  • @sarahs2052
    @sarahs2052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Cassie don’t want you !!! And you wasted two other perfectly good relationships for her.

    • @gdesiree29
      @gdesiree29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hes not in love with them. That's why lol

    • @tinahuttner7280
      @tinahuttner7280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The guy just needs to hold off on having a relationship.but the cassie chic dont get why she even stayed on as long as she did,she said she wasnt inlove w him😒

    • @sarahs2052
      @sarahs2052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ann l right ! She just wasted his time and potential relationships

    • @naylas3908
      @naylas3908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why would you settle for ‘perfectly good’?

    • @bluebobbyjack
      @bluebobbyjack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ann l for Instagram deals

  • @marier1542
    @marier1542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Colton and Cassie deserve each other. They're both so immature.

    • @mariamyahya737
      @mariamyahya737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      marie R I AGREE! He puts up this facade of a mature, sweet, sensitive gentleman and honestly with the way he is behaving I don't think he deserves the other women. They don't deserve to be a second choice honestly. I am just tired of him and tired of this season. I have never seen a grown ass man act like a child. She doesn't want you move on like wtf ?

  • @elbagonzalez9249
    @elbagonzalez9249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That was the most dramatic temper tantrum I’ve ever seen lolol

  • @Xrrr548
    @Xrrr548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    She will say yes for time being then dump him bad lol

    • @memoliscom9853
      @memoliscom9853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's merely a face-saving exercise for Cassie plus an opportunity for more exposure, but clearly she will dump Colton as soon as she thinks it's the optimal time for her own self-aggrandizement.

    • @ileana823100
      @ileana823100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And they are still together

    • @priyaravindran6150
      @priyaravindran6150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They broke up after the show, again, because Colton brought up marriage once more. She still said she wasn’t ready. They patched things up for now, but two breakups in the matter of a year doesn’t bode well.

  • @estherbutera1610
    @estherbutera1610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Hannah G was straight forward with her feelings she wasn’t playing she was ready to take off with Colton but it sucks he wasn’t feelings the same but on the other end we have Cassie who’s confused as hell, on god I don’t even believe she loves Colton, the way she’s was acting like she’s don’t even care

  • @elliemark2492
    @elliemark2492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Thought he would fight for Cassie. Just because she isn’t ready for marriage yet doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want to be with him. She just needs more time then what the programme gives to get to that point xxx

    • @naledymadlala7174
      @naledymadlala7174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ellie Mark thank you! I mean he shouldn't settle if he doesn't want to

    • @elliemark2492
      @elliemark2492 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naledy Madlala exactly xxx 😊

    • @nabeeha3131
      @nabeeha3131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ellie Mark - Preach👏👏

    • @tigerroselili5765
      @tigerroselili5765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ellie Mark Cassie said she isn’t ready for a COMMITMENT. I’m confused as to why she went on the show in the first place.🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @elliemark2492
      @elliemark2492 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Al Wa yeah but the more time they have spent together the more he realises that she is the only one he loves and wants to be with because he felt such a strong connection xxx

  • @Fashionholic_digitalart
    @Fashionholic_digitalart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    In a sea of critical comments I wanna say that love makes you do crazy stuffs and Colton is in love so stop judging

    • @karenzhang1020
      @karenzhang1020 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Benika Jimo Agree with you 100%

    • @Piscoandmartinis
      @Piscoandmartinis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This comment aged so bad!💀

    • @Fashionholic_digitalart
      @Fashionholic_digitalart 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Piscoandmartinis wait
      ... What Happened!

    • @Caysum21345
      @Caysum21345 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Fashionholic_digitalart after the show ended he stalked her, put a tracking device on her car, sent threatening messages to her, her family and her friends and she was forced to get a restraining order against him. He’s admitted to doing all of it

  • @kirtinair6561
    @kirtinair6561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Finding love has also became a business! He has made out with almost all the girls on the show.. and apparently he was 'falling' in love with all 3 of them.. and i don't even believe how the girls came to a show like this when they knw that the guy is giving attention to various girls at the same time.. showering and making out with them. Such shows should never be encouraged. Even if he is walking around randomly there are lights and camera guys around him all the time.. how can this be authentic in any way

  • @marieki1
    @marieki1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    he acts like a child who didnt get his candy so he throws a tantrum. and chris harrison is there like "yeesssss drama" in Chris voice:"the most dramatic season of The bachelor history"

  • @hirry.p
    @hirry.p 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Is Chris a valley girl? “Last night was wild”

  • @heatherosu
    @heatherosu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    He believes she left Bc she didn’t know where his heart was at with his other relationships! That had literally nothing to do with his remaining girls. She said over and over again that she wasn’t in love him, and she didn’t know if she could get there as quick as him. Her feelings have nothing to do with the remaining girls. Her heart isn’t where it should be and she was smart to tell him now before he decided to eliminate someone. She senses he’s just wayyyyyyyyy more into her and she wanted out. Her father brought her back to planet earth and see the big picture. He also said at the beginning of their date that his relationship with her wasn’t progressing like the other 2 girls, and he was hoping this over night date would reassure and solidify where their relationship is going.
    She decides to leave during dinner and he decides she’s the one! I understand we don’t see everything and there’s a lot of editing, but this makes him look all over the place with his comments and explanations lol...
    I don’t feel sorry for him, Bc this girl runs and you don’t give Hannah a chance (who knows, maybe after their date he’d decide she was the one)... if he was so in love with Cassie he shouldn’t have any over night dates!
    We’ve seen this with Des, she was sooooooo in love with brooks! He eliminated himself and she continued her journey with Chris even though her heart was broke! Look at them now! Still together. Best decision that guy eliminated himself so she could see the big picture!

  • @AnnahPanda
    @AnnahPanda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    To think that this is exactly what all the girls that he sent home felt...and the 2 women he is basically dumping by chasing after Cassie.

    • @jessiewife6612
      @jessiewife6612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AnnahPanda The heart wants what it wants. He can’t choose who he loves.

    • @AnnahPanda
      @AnnahPanda 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessie Wife you’re absolutely right. However, point is that those girls are feeling just as heart broken.. and the fact that he already was set on Cassie, yet treated the other girls like they had a huge chance with him is so sad.

    • @shebaby94
      @shebaby94 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's basically the whole premise of the show. You can't pick everybody in the end.

  • @marieki1
    @marieki1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    i dont get this. someone rejects you...dont want you...doesnt find you attractive enough....isnt it a little pathetic to still try to convince a person to love you and want you? i mean if a man doesnt want me I will definitely not chase him. where is self respect? more like: thank you, next

    • @llacey
      @llacey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      marieki1 YES!!!

    • @zandekkah3500
      @zandekkah3500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And the irony is that when you don't chase them, is when they want you .... the dating game is so dumb

  • @MikleyL
    @MikleyL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I literally said I love you and she said I love you too. Goodbye. LOLLLLLL

  • @leemary4833
    @leemary4833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Even his dad knew he wants what he can’t have. Why he feels privilege over other’s decisions and minds rather than accepting of them...not sure. Cassie hasn’t found love. It’s not love unless it’s a choice both makes, not one making it for both. Chris is rational, realistic and observant that she’s not into him. He struggles with rejection and have control issues plus deeper issues of the past. He’s going by his feelings...not hers included.

  • @yasmeenm6435
    @yasmeenm6435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Oh how the mighty have fallen. We all thought the gate jump was so romantic, now it just seems creepy...

    • @ginoissac8009
      @ginoissac8009 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      All Cassie needs in court is footage of that gate jump for a permanent restraining order. Imagine him outside her apartment. That was some Superman sh*t!

  • @TonyNguyener
    @TonyNguyener 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    nobody:
    cassie: im not ready
    colton: i think she loves me!

  • @keepinglifeflowing8392
    @keepinglifeflowing8392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The Bachelor should no longer entertain leading men who are under the age of 30. Men who can make holistic decisions, taking into consideration not only attraction and their hopes and dreams but who they are actually compatible with. This show is basically funding Colton running down Cassie and bullying/forcing her into being in a relationship with him. Yes, persistence is a beautiful quality and you should fight for who you love. But there must be some semblance of consideration on the other person's end. Cassie said that she loved him but she was not in love with him. She told him that he deserves someone who is insanely in love with him. She was basically saying that not only was she just not that into him but the kind of love she is seeking is one where she is insanely in love. She told him precisely what she wanted in that moment. She was not confused, she just didn't want to bear the guilt of hurting him. She felt the walls closing in when she realized that this man who she was not insanely in love with was about to propose to her. Colton doesn't get it, she didn't even want to date him because that would cut off her options. Colton heard what he wanted to hear.

    • @Shewas-kathybates
      @Shewas-kathybates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NO one is being bullied or forced to do anything chose your words wisely or learn their meanings before you use them.

    • @tekgid433
      @tekgid433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your an idiot, human were designed to marry and have kids young.

    • @sendukumeperla
      @sendukumeperla 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree.
      I'm sorry for him.
      Very scary how when you love someone soo very much you many times hear (remember) only what you want to hear.

  • @kayleepalominos277
    @kayleepalominos277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This boy in LOVE love

    • @dannac_8888
      @dannac_8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Lucid Dreamer Dreamer
      ADDICTED.
      If they ever break up. He'll compare every other woman to her. He made her idillic in his mind.
      Hormones are the ultimate addictive drug.

    • @dianasohn2515
      @dianasohn2515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      IN LUST! They never had a bond they didn’t even know eachother well n now they are broken up n she filed for restraining order.. she never wanted him!

  • @gracecool1349
    @gracecool1349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Can we all just take a moment to remember Colton left Tia

    • @tavg18
      @tavg18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Grace Cool and just because she had an enormous chin :/

    • @DiaN-do3jm
      @DiaN-do3jm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      life is like a circle. it comes back.

    • @carcar97
      @carcar97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Tia pressured him too much, so I don’t feel bad.

    • @tekgid433
      @tekgid433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and? people break up with each other everyday. you cant force feelings

    • @gracecool1349
      @gracecool1349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tekgid433 my point is that he is complaining that he feels like no one wants him because of how people leave. the way he left Tia was so crappy. and Tia wanted him and so do two other girls on the show

  • @skorpess
    @skorpess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you love someone set them free, if they come back they are yours ,if they don't they never was

  • @Commander_Cat
    @Commander_Cat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "I've been through enough of knowing I'm not enough" 😢

  • @naiahfepaglinawan1412
    @naiahfepaglinawan1412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yes, you've been through enough. Isnt that good reason not to look for love at the moment?

  • @ForeverSweetx3
    @ForeverSweetx3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    And this is suppose to be romantic...because? Why exactly? That man is not stable emotionally & mentally. Like this isn't a drama. Calm down & stop being crazy.

  • @TheMasterdj7
    @TheMasterdj7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don’t know what’s going on, but Colton is acting like a 10-year old kid or under, and not a sincere, practical adult. Thank you very much. 👍

  • @inetjon5685
    @inetjon5685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You cannot force someone to LOVE you back COLTON
    I wish I was there to speak to you as a MOTHER !!!

  • @LaurenTaylorTV
    @LaurenTaylorTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I said in my bachelor recap series on here that this whole thing was weird because we saw Chris Harrison run for the first time and then him and Colton sit down and have an awkward talk like two guys who did some drunken stuff last night😂

  • @Skyethur
    @Skyethur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Where do broken hearts go?
    Can they find their way home
    Back to the open arms
    Of a love that's waiting there...

  • @uwaaa111
    @uwaaa111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chris was really worried about Colton. I am sure after they found him he was cursing him in his head but still, to see him genuinely worried about Colton was sweet.

  • @LaurenLover81
    @LaurenLover81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I knew people who didn’t even watch this season of The Bachelor cuz they were busy living life, but this particular season hit them in real life a couple months later. Didn’t realize Teisha & Hannah came from this infamous season.

  • @Candymandy933
    @Candymandy933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    He said “I could read people really well” REALLYYYYYY

    • @patrocialett2100
      @patrocialett2100 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Steph Daigle well said

    • @rollindown95
      @rollindown95 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 this didn’t age well. After he got slapped with a restraining order for stalking her and putting a tracker on her car

  • @jenavievemaria
    @jenavievemaria 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    cassie will never deserve him. she broke his heart. she could’ve left earlier if she wasn’t already clear w her feelings. poor colton. he deserves so much happiness, i just wish he wouldn’t go after cassie. :(

  • @iamjia95
    @iamjia95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    you can’t love all 3 of them stop playing with their hearts

    • @ryanschmid9793
      @ryanschmid9793 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hanna m. He says “falling” in love which means not “in love”

  • @adelina7970
    @adelina7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The most romantic thing I thought now turned out to be creepy. You can see how obsessive he was.

    • @lowclouds2990
      @lowclouds2990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel like people think this is ok just because he's attractive. They'd look at is as creepy if he wasn't. So many people overlook it.

    • @adelina7970
      @adelina7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lowclouds2990 you made a good point. Now I don’t find him attractive anymore. Eww!

    • @lowclouds2990
      @lowclouds2990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@adelina7970well now we know considering Cassie placed a restraining order on him for stalking her and her family after the break up 😬

    • @adelina7970
      @adelina7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lowclouds2990 yea now everything came to surface.

    • @precooked-bacon
      @precooked-bacon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i agree at the the time it seemed fine. if you even look back to clare and dale season after a few months, you notice how on autopilot dale was in every scene.

  • @LCFUNNY
    @LCFUNNY 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was the one thing I was wanted to watch for the whole season

  • @waqakoroi590
    @waqakoroi590 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know the feeling of leaving someone it's totally breaks your heart😭

  • @shrey768
    @shrey768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been though enough, of knowing that I'm not enough, for a long time and every reminder of that just makes me stronger. So I'm OK with that....
    Heartbreak 😞

  • @phenomenalgirl6365
    @phenomenalgirl6365 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Well Colton did fight for Cassie and got her back

  • @Shewas-kathybates
    @Shewas-kathybates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm rooting for Colton and hope he finds his happiness. Everyone wants a man who cares for them like Colton cares for Cassie, but I hope she's honest with herself at the end of this because I don't want her giving him a second chance if she's not into him.

  • @pancakesandtea
    @pancakesandtea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Ewww when Chris Harrison says "I'm sorry" everytime colton tells him something heartfelt. There is no sincerity in Chris Harrison you can tell he is more concerned about the show l, either that or he hasn't seen this level of sincerity from a bachelor contestant(because of all hollywood fakery) and doesn't know how to react

    • @Khulismonica
      @Khulismonica 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He even said we can't find the dude...like he is just another random person

    • @lollipop823
      @lollipop823 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly lol he’s happy he’s thinking “good ratings coming” while Colton is having a breakdown lol

    • @Shewas-kathybates
      @Shewas-kathybates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're a mind reader? Pretty amazing.

    • @pancakesandtea
      @pancakesandtea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Shewas-kathybates I'm intuitive and I can see insincerity a mile off...

    • @SuperSilverJay
      @SuperSilverJay 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah he doesn’t care lol that’s his job to be there for the contestants but it’s not genuine.

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A person is supposed to compliment you not complete you- if you have that mindset you are set up for disaster

  • @ann000000000000
    @ann000000000000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chris Harrison is more freaked out than a parent when their child runs away 😅.
    He‘s a grown man dude!

    • @xiamariansupreme72
      @xiamariansupreme72 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They were in a foreign country and it was almost midnight. People get snatched up or attacked by just roaming the streets at night in an unfamiliar country.

  • @barbarasanches2370
    @barbarasanches2370 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Portugal has no spooky animals! Can’t believe you filmed this episodes there

  • @sunflowers2469
    @sunflowers2469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i've never seen this show, but i love this 😂 it always grossed me out and sickened me how the premise was all these women are competing or wanting to be picked by one man. any man who would be on this show should have this happen to him 😂

  • @kristysk81
    @kristysk81 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ok fine. It's ok to fight for someone. I just feel bad for the other two. I have a feeling the empty ring box is a way of showing Cassie that he will not officially propose but propose to just date because his ultimate goal was to find love and that's who Cassie is. I think a marriage proposal was too soon for Cassie.

  • @misslaptop8505
    @misslaptop8505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oh wow i'm super early for once.

  • @mzbrown6969
    @mzbrown6969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    the level of mind control Cassie has over this man is powerful

  • @Naturalwoman56
    @Naturalwoman56 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have love at all.” If Cassie is not into him (I hope that’s not the case), at least he has done something to let Cassie and the whole world know he’s love for her...that he’s willing to do “anything and
    everything” to win her over. That is true love....

  • @haonrolyat
    @haonrolyat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's the rejection. Being rejected and the thrill of the chase especially to a guy that has 30 women or competing with 30 guys. It's a real thing - he doesn't want to be rejected and that thought caused an obsession now that he has to overcome. This is literally a symptom of someone who has not dated enough. These two moments will be good for him if he can just mature realize them for what they are and move on - otherwise they will just end up being unhealthy obsessions.

  • @infinitedreaming222
    @infinitedreaming222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know people say Cassie is dumb but the girl is obviously well read. Art of seduction, art of war, and few jackie O biographies are definitely on her bookshelf. I peep the finesse.

  • @Sassyglbeauty
    @Sassyglbeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    For some reason, this reminds me of that show that was based on The Bachelor. I mean, how quickly everyone came running after him.

  • @Nehasupnfan
    @Nehasupnfan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chris Harrison is like 'She's not that into you' and Colton goes 'I know she loves me!!'. Duh!!! If she did love you she wouldn't be so confused. She would leave the way Elyse did.. saying the things that Elyse did!

    • @purplehazee90
      @purplehazee90 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      and she said she loves him but shes not IN LOVE with him :( how did colton just forget that part?

  • @200991602
    @200991602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What I find really annoying is when people say this is "romantic " but if a Bachelorette did the same as Colton , she would be called " desperate" . This is 2019 not the 1950's. I wish Colton and Cassie well, good luck. OOOXXX Hugs.

  • @DreamerLuna1995
    @DreamerLuna1995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He’s such... a baby... he knew what he was signing up for.

  • @quiznos6374
    @quiznos6374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So he told Hannah G when he came to her suite that “ I thought it was going to be you”. He confessed his love for Cassie, then you say you were planning for it to be Hannah, what about Taysha?? She was just there for the ride?

  • @mleekahh
    @mleekahh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    People are hating on him, making fun of him - and I honestly applaud Colton. Yes it looks non-sensical. Yes it looks crazy,but these are all HIS feelings. If he chooses to fight for her, who are we to tease.

    • @dannac_8888
      @dannac_8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Malikah Brown-Henry
      The contract with the big payout does. That one.

    • @lanacastillo49
      @lanacastillo49 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      you were saying?? lol he is a creep

  • @foxx3242
    @foxx3242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i love the fact that they are still dating 🥰 what a true love

    • @dianasohn2515
      @dianasohn2515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No they not it was a bad relationship she never wanted him n he can’t take no for a answer so now he’s stalking her

  • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
    @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “What if she’s just not that into you?”
    Even Chris could see it.
    Let this be a lesson. Never beg anyone to love you. It never works.

    • @roll14tideroll
      @roll14tideroll 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      so how do you get people to like you then?

    • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
      @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not acting like a pathetic beggar who is desperate is certainly one way. Don’t be with people who don’t like you or be with someone romantically who doesn’t want you.

    • @roll14tideroll
      @roll14tideroll 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 and if no one wants you then what do you do then

    • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
      @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep looking for people that will. Or learn how to be comfortable with yourself and how you are first. But don’t beg anyone to love you.

  • @brietbjork3851
    @brietbjork3851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YESSSS they are so meant to be😍

  • @michaelhoward9169
    @michaelhoward9169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What planet is this dude living on? Yes! I get fighting for the woman I love but this is stupidity at it finest. When Colton told Cassie point blank that she was the one all alone an blatantly dismissed Tayshia and Hannah G, the woman was still not interested. I mean come on. I think Cassie like Colton but she's not in-love with the guy. She just 23 years old and yes she acting like a 23 year old. Kudos to Chris for saying what very well be true to Colton.

  • @lindawade9558
    @lindawade9558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    And Cassie is not all of that anyway she was stuck up and thought she was more than anybody else what goes around comes around

    • @gwenscott535
      @gwenscott535 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you are right but I wander how much of that came from her father, seems no man would ever be good enough.

  • @Dancing4Life24
    @Dancing4Life24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hannah👏🏻 G👏🏻 Deserves👏🏻 BETTER👏🏻

    • @simstarr4461
      @simstarr4461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well now she has Dylan 😊

  • @lolacookie453
    @lolacookie453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “What if she’s just not that into you?”
    “I think she loves me”
    Delusion, denial, dysfunction, the foundations of a toxic relationship.

  • @AshTonnet-dn1we
    @AshTonnet-dn1we 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    she made the right choice lol

  • @mostafafarweez3161
    @mostafafarweez3161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is what you're supposed to do when you're in love with someone. You fight for them. And that's what the rest of the Bachelors and Bachelorettes are supposed to do on their seasons.

    • @MissMotita
      @MissMotita 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤢 no. You respect them and when they say no you stop.
      He said he doesn't feel good enough. He is trying to prove to himself at all costs (even at Cassie's detrimental) that he is finally enough. It is actually quite sad. Hope he gets therapy.

  • @leemary4833
    @leemary4833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A person should be complete in himself before getting into a relationship. It shouldn’t be about another person taking responsibility/burden to complete his life.

    • @dannac_8888
      @dannac_8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maryann Lee
      It's not a BURDEN.
      It's co-dependency. One fills what the other feels they LACK.
      It's the way billiins of relationships are on this planet.
      Nothing new.
      Estrogen and testosterone is alive and kicking in 2019

  • @YankeesGirlxoxo
    @YankeesGirlxoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m glad he didn’t choose Tayshia cause now she’s happily engaged to Zac

  • @dean4846
    @dean4846 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you have ever seen the tv show unreal this is it

  • @leemary4833
    @leemary4833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The other 2 women were not the issue for Cassie. He’s making his refusal to believe her true feelings and introjecting his thoughts into hers. She said her mind that she wanted him to to find someone who is madly in love with him because she wasn’t and didn’t care if he finds someone else. Chris is really good with honesty and trying to bring him back to reality. Seeing red flags that he will want to control her for the rest of his life because he hasn’t dealt with his rejection issues since his parent’s divorce. He can play this nice guy, great guy thing which is a cover up for some deep issues. He needs to overcome that before getting into a relationship with another. Cassie isn’t too scared to say she loves him, he’s too scare to admit she doesn’t.

  • @tryptamind6839
    @tryptamind6839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yeah sure, he is really good at "reading people"... 🙄

  • @aliciadoshi1249
    @aliciadoshi1249 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chris Harrison thinking - maybe I'm too old for this.

  • @kcat3276
    @kcat3276 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chris picking up a lost dog 😂😂😂😂