THE GIST you've been waiting for! , Trying out UCOOK, adding new items in my closet [ Video Diary ]
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I love the fact that you’re self aware,being able to see and accept red flags 🚩 and not force things I am proud of you baby girl 😅❤️
Literally feels like I’m watching a reality tv show. The quality?? Maad!!!!!🔥🔥🔥♥️♥️
Thank you so much
Same hey, wow!
Met my husband at the library😊, we both readers and thats what got us attracted to each other by exchanging books and chatting about them on our library dates😅. We’ve been together since 2007, and married for 7 years now.
Love that for you
No downloads here, we watch all the ads because content created by influencers is so comforting and entertaining. Have a lovely Easter weekend
Thank you
Purrrrrrr👏🏾
trueee😂😂i agree
Girlies please learn from Thandi don’t let guys mistreat you and thank you for a beautiful vlogs have a blessed Easter weekend
Well since you asked… lol I met my husband of now 4 years at his brother’s house party back in 2014 1st of March.
We both weren’t drinking and smoking so that’s how we just started talking to each other. We talked till the sun came out and not once did he try anything funny so I was very impressed.
We actually didn’t even date because the second time we met he took home to meet his family and introduced me as his girlfriend. I was shocked to find out that I was then his girlfriend just meeting me for the second time.
Anyway. In April he won’t abroad for work for an entire month. When he came back he told me he wants to pay for lobola and that was in May.
Omg congratulations 😍
“A huge part of me wanted to leave” - we ignore the little signs way too many times. I cannot explain it but there’s this voice deep down in your gut which tells you to leave but we choose to ignore it, because perhaps we look for the good in every situation. Even if you go a second time, that voice will pop up again and again and again. I am just glad you’ve stopped contact. You deserve so much better and you will receive it.
The first date killed me but big ups to you for knowing exactly what you want and what you don’t want in a relationship.❤️
I met my husband online when I moved to America. We've been together 12 Years and married for 8. 🇺🇲🇿🇦❤❤
I'm gasping, I'm holding onto my invincible pearls. Girl, he was a walking red flag. The audacity of this man😬, bombastic side eye 👀
Thank you, Thandi, for being self-aware, knowing your self-worth, and having boundaries. I love you TG, you're a hard working Queen 👸 ❤❤
Thank you so much ❤️
She ain't lazy at all!!!❤😊
I met my husband 8 years ago at Cubana Cedar square 😊we have been married for 3 years. I wish you all the best on umjolo Thandi don’t forget to pray about it also ❤
I’m always on time too. I hate being late. I hate people who are always late. It’s really a good habit T keep it up don’t change for anything
Girl the way you was blushing talking about the second guy? I love it. So cute.
I was so focused and invested in the story until you started singing 'I wanna go home '🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣🤣🤣
Me too🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 hai Thandi
Me too😂😂😂😂
I love that your so open to love and while on the journey you're not narrow minded but so aware and matured
Don't give up on love hunny ❤
You deserve love and love deserve you, all the best on your journey...keep them dates coming until the one 😅
Thank you so much
The quality of your vlogs is unmatched ❤🙌🏽
Thank you so much
Again currently watching .. and nooooo.. walk ? Walk where? Drink your water? Bt did I nt crack out with laughter when u sang " I wana go home" 🤣 🤣 🤣... im proper dead... he nuts shem
I knew the song was coming when she said that 🤣🤣
“Anyways I’m other news, I went on another date today” love this energy 🤣🤣🤣 we move apha kwaTG Gang qha ❤
No time to waste 🤭
Loved your story time, 1st guy definitely red flag, 2nd guy super sweet to have made you feel good. The Ucook meals you made are wholesome looking 🥰
At least you warned us that this would be lengthy so let me relax and catch-up ❤️😊
Enjoy
I am glad that you are so self aware and that you will never let anyone treat you less than what you deserve❤️
Wat I like about you ,you love yourself, how you not scared to try new things in life always on point not allowing that guy to disrespect you 😘👌
Thank you ❤️
I absolutely love how you glow up when you talk about the second guy you went on a date with. 😂❤❤❤ We look forward to him giving you more of this glow and happiness please!
I am so glad you can identify red flags and that you stand your ground. Just saw the lays reel I am going insane.
You are very creative and hard working for someone to call you lazy...
Thank you
Thank you Thandi for giving us the tea on the dates 😂. I’m laughing because I’m literally going through the same situations with going back to the dating game. Not an easy task I must say but we will get there ❤❤❤
Love love the longer vlogs mama too nice 😊
Seeing you sit on the TV stand reminded me of your latest reel. Tokyo and Rio fashion show hahaha♥️
😂😂You are such a good story narrator TG, enjoyed the date update. That 1st boy must walk, and all the best with the gentleman who makes you smile🤍🤩
You deserve to be at 100k already nje. Your vlogs are so good and the quality is top tier❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much
definitely!! 💯💯
Hey Thandi😘 My husband and I met at christmas party for some company and I was my cousin's plus one. Today we are 2 kids in, 3 year of marriage and happy😘❤
Oh wow love this 😍
I think it’s best to let the guy get there before you - if you are early, wait in the car until he lets you know he has arrived, I say this because I think when dating you need to see how the man receives you. Does he get he get up when he sees you? Does he pull your chair out etc? Those are very important things you need to see, especially if those things are important to you
Currently watching and in disbelief on the 2nd comment of "you lazy" 😲... nah he too relaxed .. he lazy
Not the "I wanna go home" song chile. I am FINISHED 😅😂😂😂 I don't think you were overreacting Thandi. Very valid points/red flags!
Thank you
Looove the content creator tips.thank you🙏
Way before you mentioned him trying to kiss you, I literally thought to myself, "the gag is I bet he thought it was going well." Misogyny in dating is so ick cause literally men think they're being cute by straight up insulting you.
Girl! It honestly baffled me when he asked me that
We've been served by our Queen😍😍😍😍💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥#TopTierQualityOrNothing
Not Tina coming up to rescue her big sis 😂😂- I need me some Tina, always readily available for solutions . So glad to hear that the second date went well🎉🎉. We here for your happiness , wishing you the best sis ❤
11:06 the way I ran to get my tea for this story 😂
Hope you enjoyed it
The girl❤ your nails ❤🔥your hair❤🔥your face❤🔥I love how you love yourself!!!!!
You are not overeating. He is walking red flag. Thank you for serving the tea hot.
Thank you for the vlog
Awww, that guy missed out on a lovely girl. His loss, and I'm so glad the second first date went really great. I was blushing with u the whole time u were telling us about him. I love the outfits, and the white shirt is cute. I'm going on a date tomorrow. we are going out for lunch, I pray it goes well. Thank u for the long, funny vlog❤
girl love the way you are so self aware and didnt waste time with the first time. thank God you didnt ignore the red flags..enjoyed the vlog 💕💖❤
Love you Thandi☺️. I’m soo hopeful with the second guy, I hope you guys keep in touch until he comes back in May. Good luck mama, you’ll find the one!♥️
loved everything about this vlog and the quality? top notch👌. the "get someone else to do it" threw me off🤣, glad you left in the early stages before it advanced .
you are such an amazing human Thandi. Full of love and smile, You are a relatable human.
Your vlogs are not just vlogs they feel so humanly and close to you. As your subbies e get to know you more and more by what you give to us, a beautiful view of who you are outside of being an influencer. Continue shinning and winning my angel❤❤❤
Thank you so much ❤️
I'm on the search in dating apps for the love of my life😂😂😂😂. I'm so happy the second guy was a gentleman, and you enjoyed the date😊. Routing for you TG
Glad you’re putting yourself out there letting loose… dating… comfortable in your own skin… fresh food supply… shoo-in is how you create your content…. Giiirrrrllll you have evolved so well… your own living situation deserves an applauds reallly does 👏 Love this for you❤ Well-done🎉🎉🎉🎉 by the way met my husband of 16yrs in a taxi 😆 not sure if you find them there these days anyway 😂 Mwaaaa😘
Omg guys I wasn’t paying attention years ago hey
What I can tell you Thandi is that take your time and pray about your partner, he will come to you unexpectedly.
Than do your vlogs just have a calming effect & certainly add I always feel happier watching you nomatter how bad things might be.
S/O to you mama…I like the fact that you stand firm on your boundaries without exceptions 🔥. You will definitely find your perfect match in one of the good day because that’s what you deserve 🌸💎. I really enjoyed this weeks Vlog… picture quality is insane 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️
Thank you so much
That first date was not worth your time and energy pls, but I’m glad order was restored quickly 😂♥️ a good story teller
Yho! You have the patience of the saints Thandi, I’d have knocked his teeth out.
As usual, great content and good vibes 💕
😂🤣🤣 not knocking his teeth out ma’am
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The part when you sang “I wanna go home “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, girl you are in your Know your worth Era, these men needs to be put in their place.
😂🤣🤣🤣
The tea was hot. You have a golden heart and being pretty makes you one of a kind. Thank you for this wonderful video. What phone/camera did you film with hun? Quality over everything
“Get somebody else to do it”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭
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You dodged a bullet hun, I'm so glad you're very self aware and very observant of people's behaviors and red flags.. you'll find a worthy person babe he's not the one, he's not a nice person...
He definitely wasn’t the one
Sana I had to pause! Get my hubbly ready and my savanna because 😂😂😂😂 heeeeey the tea! I ran out of “yhooo” “wtf”
I love that you listened to your gut feeling
Ugh. I really want the 2nd date(overseas) guy to be the one for you yazi… he seems to make you blush and smile a lot 🥰… lol mina my boyfriend of 5 yrs now is someone I had already known for a few yrs but kept friendzoning him 😂
So sometimes your person is already in your life, you just dont know it yet😅
Loved the vlog,
I think some guys are under the impression that you are desperate if you are on internet dating apps and you will settle for anything. Holding thumbs for you on this journey 😊
Thank you
Loving this actively dating phase of your life. I must say your stories were funny 😂. You deserve the best Tee, ❤️❤️❤️❤️
That second meal *the salad ..looks like it was tooooo good🤤!! and of course the camera quality👌
It was 10/10, thank you
YOOOHH SANA>>>Im listening to your storytime rn..Piping hot tea... 🍵
Not him helping himself to your water😂😂😂😂 I’m wheeeezing😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
Girl that was the last straw, the audacity. He finished his
Thank you for the tea🍵... Love love love the quality #excellence ❤❤
23:21 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Best part. You had me in stitches.
My husband and I met at church and we have been married for a 11 years.
Love that for you guys
I smiled and blushed like I was on the date (the great date). Aaaaaaaahhhh I love this for you Thandi 🤗🤗 Thank you for updating us.
Much love from Zambia 🇿🇲
Not us sharing dinner pics 😂
I hope this withstands the trial (of you both meeting as he was leaving).
The quality Thandi🥹🤌🏾
Tg gang we up for everything in this fam lov lov our queen❤
Quality of ur vlogs u guys be competing with tv its on point, i can tell u really put in the effort in your craft and u deserve all the blessings
Thank you so much
Better u that me yhoo im so scared to try online dating but I like that u were so alert.thank u for the update...
I lost hope when you started to sing “I wanna go home” 😂😂 Glad the second date made up for the first one 😅 crossing fingers for another one with him 🤞🤞
Crossing fingers 😉
Ok ok siya date ngoku until we find the one. I'm still scaredof online dating most guys from there are weirdos
From a bad date to a good date oh I love it 🥹😍
Men must listen when they speak when dealing with a cancerian. We are alert, sensitive and can read energy like crazy.
Cancerian’s and picking up energies
One thing about Thandi she'll give each and every member of the TG Gang her undivided attention and love🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi Thandi, i'm grateful that you have self awareness. Always remember that you are special and only a certain caliber of men can stand that, majority of them will want to dim your light so they can feel good about themselves. You are worthy of more💐
Thandi you are a good narrator am glad that you received a person that you love him ,but take time and access him until you are satisfied ❤❤❤Be blessed
It’s me screaming “khona into eOff” corner to corner as you narrate the date 😭, I’m sorry you had to go through that but I’m happy the other date went well. ❤
I'm smiling listening to this. It's like I'm chatting with my BFF and they are giving me tea😅🤣❤
The quality is insane yho. The picture...the audio🤌👌
Thank you so much
Watching this while I’m on the treadmill. Love this for me. Love this vlog for usssss 🎉😂
I met the love of my life at U’R 😂♥️. Don’t let anybody tell you that you can’t find love at groove🥰
😂😂😂😂 should I start going to groove
My babe sila ngoku TG Notication just jump to watch ......Thanks my Dear❤❤❤
Your content is so good and the quality of your videos is out of this world I wanna cry❤
Your dinner looks so yummy 🤤 … I’m really gonna check out UCOOK
I literally went hah so loud sitting in an open office space when you said he crabbed your water 😅😅😅😅😅
Girl 😂🤣🤣 don’t let them catch you watching my vlogs
Hi Thandz - I love this for you babe go on ample dates until you find your match.
Well I met my hubby in high school but was not into him then. Years later we exchanged numbers via Facebook (I think 🤔) and started talking again, still did not want him. I only came around in 2020 and we started dating in 2021 and now we are married and we have a beautiful daughter 😍 I have never been happier he truly is my best friend 💯
Love that for you 😍
TG, we are within
Am glad you saw the red flags and not getting worked out about it. Pray will meet the one when the time is right. As for the guy calling you what... he's crazy he's not deserving of you gorgeous ❤
Girl you deserve better.he ain't for you.your a hard working,independent lady.
love that you stood up for yourself the second time, some douche bag once implied the same to me and I was so annoyed because I was just like do you have any idea how hard I have worked to be where I am? most men have this bad perception that we as women are lazy and prefer things handed to us and that is just an inaccurate narrative. proud of you hun
Its you blushing talking about your 2nd first date and i love it for you😍😍😍😍
Mmmh okay
Oh wow your date story i think im glad you didn't ignore the signs sis, im happy for the second date though 😂😂❤ don't give up in love
I love your Blue dress on you wow😍😍😍😍😍😍, and those gold earrings? Wow
The way I love your vlogs. I met my husband e Home Affairs. We were both fetching our passports. Ungazama khona you never know nawe you might be lucky.
Are you serious girl, such a lucky lady 🙌🏾 love that for you
Loved the storytime...🥰you look absolutely gorgous
More seat down should be done cause wow sisi, you narrated the story very well❤️👏 felt like I was in those date with you... TG gang is all behind you cause the happiness is very visible from that second date❤️🌻🥰
And hlezi umhle sisi❤️❤️
Thank you so much
Thank you TG❤❤❤❤❤
yho that first date was a lot,you did well by cutting him off.i am glad you enjoyed your second date
Thank you
Man your smile is so contagious 😍😍😍😍been smiling from ear to ear. Yhuu enkosi ku second guy mntaka Bawo for salvaging the situation iyhuuu
mine saw me at my Aunts birthday party. I didn’t see him he saw me. I almost didn’t go cause I lost my brother on a Thursday that week. I was going to the Eastern Cape that weekend.
TG gang we have been served 💃💃....Thanks Thandi for bringing us along into your busy schedule, definitely LOVE the Quality of your camera it is giving hey❤️
Thank you so much ❤️