RESPONDING TO THE BAD COMMENTS AND EASY SUMMER MAKEUP LOOK | VICTORIA
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RESPONDING TO THE BAD COMMENTS AND EASY SUMMER MAKEUP LOOK | VICTORIA
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I am 32 childfree by choice and I gravitate to you for this reason. Other influencers are able to talk about their children on their platforms and being a mum and mum life. If I don't relate I move along... Thank you for keeping the childfree by choice conversation going for us guys! It's appreciated more than you know! ❤
I am guilty! I asked a female acquaintance, a couple of days ago, if she was planning on having a family. She answered me and I left it there.
This is a genuine question to you. Would you have found that offensive?
I was trying to conceive for ten years, from 27 to 38. I made the mistake of telling a few people and I ended up being constantly asked, if I was pregnant.
If someone told me that they didn't want children, I'd leave it there. I wouldn't dream of questioning anyone why they didn't want a family. I admire women who go for what they want (or don't want in this case)
I'd be really interested to know your thoughts
Love & light ✨️
I agree with you Olivia. Same reason I watch Victoria and I am 53… wasn’t my first choice to be child free but it’s how it ended up and some days I just cannot watch the bloggers I follow with children as it stings a bit some days. Not saying it’s their fault it’s just me.
Swear all you want Victoria 😂
@@fibrowarriors682 Hi ❤ I wouldn't be offended at all, I think it's quite a natural question to ask, I think it's just the response that's important. No one needs to know or understand the reasons, just respect the choice which I find most people do and if they don't, that's none of my business 🙂 🫶🏼
Couldn’t agree more ❤
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It's not repetitive - it's literally YOUR life and we're choosing to watch YOU. Folks who don't want to hear about it should watch someone else. Keep talking about whatever you want - we're here with you!
I’m here for the child-free content! Would anyone ask a content creator with children to stop going on about their kids? Unlikely. So why is it okay for someone to tell you to stop talking about your choice to be child-free? Ah, the good ol’ patriarchy 🫠
Keep the conversation going, Victoria - it’s so important. ❤
Yes, me too!! I have kids, but this is my escape 🤪 love, love, love your content, Victoria 💘
I completely agree!!!
I have only heard Vic talk about not wanting children in two of her past vlogs. She doesn’t bang on about it all the time. She and Alex made a decision not to. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. This is a fashion and life style channel. And I have been watching for a long time..👍❤️👍
I’m 45, married and child free and it’s great to here you talk about this as it’s relatable to me 😁
So so glad you're here!! xx
Me too! Never planned and i should not be my Future with Kids, so dont judge if someone is living a different life.
Sammmmee :)
Same here!
i have children. i still appreciate women talking about being childfree, it makes this visible and shows that we do have a choice. and everyone should decide without societal pressure
Honestly thank you for speaking about being childfree. I’m also 34, happily married but childfree by choice and it was not something I decided upon easily. I agonized over it for a good 6 years and am finally at a place where I feel (for the most part) confident about it. You speaking about this makes me feel less alone. I think there’s a lot of grief involved in making this choice and it’s very much path less traveled. Please keep talking about it. Appreciate you so much.
I am nearly 51 years young, married, and childfree by choice. I love your vlogs and I've really been enjoying seeing you living your best life. Your recent adventures with family and friends have been so lovely to see, especially since I know you've set goals to take the time for more moments like that.
Hi Victoria, I’ve been following you for a very long time now and normally won’t make comments but felt like I had to. DON’T listen to the negative comments. They’re judgement of you don’t matter. I find that with all your well deserved success, you still seem genuine. Keep being yourself! ❤
There are countless family and mommy vloggers out there - my take on it is if I have to hear about other people’s children then people will have to just deal with women talking about being childfree 😂
Yesss love this xx
A lot of those mummy vlog areas of the internet are so toxic too, which is kind of baffling
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The “I’m trying to pack a bit lighter these days” slow-mo really made me laugh out loud 🤣🤣 Love your vlogs
ahahahaha xx
Trust your own judgement Victoria, it’s solid.
45 here and still child free. Best decision I ever made. Don’t feel influenced or pressured by others and I think it’s great you are a role model to other women. I think Taylor Swift is too! Not all women want to breed and it’s great having examples of that in the social media world.
I am 31 (32 soon) and it’s so refreshing to hear you talking about being child free by choice.
I don’t hear anyone else talk about it! I can relate so much, thank you so much xx
Bad commenters are just reflecting their own misery. Xo
Say this louder for the people in the back hahaha xx
So true
Children are a blessing but not everyone should or wants to have children and people should respect that.
You are gorgeous btw!❤
Perfectly put!! xx
There subject of the matter is about being a role model, I guess so it's not exactly stating that "being childless is wrong"... I think that what is meant by Taylor Swift not being someone's role model is connected with the fact that childless people only have to take care about themselves whereas those with kids are less self-centred and more responsible and that's why they're more probable to be a role model. Giving money to charity etc. is obviously very honourable but when you're as rich as Taylor is not actually a huge sign of generosity... Just a though, nothing personal
@@nataliakwidzinska5666 oh yeah, having kids definitely makes you less self-centred and more responsible. I'll remember that when I see another parent ignoring their child down the pub, whilst scrolling on their phone. Childfree people can be just as responsible and outward thinking thanks - sometimes they are carers, sometimes they are doing things for wider society (not just people in their family who they love anyway)...don't make assumptions about huge groups of people - it's just another form of discrimination and part of the problem. Just a thought, nothing personal.
@@charlottewilliams7690 that's just another assumption made by you about SOME group of parents😁 I agree, not every parent is perfect. I have nothing against childless people, let me be clear about that, that was just a thought😋
@@nataliakwidzinska5666 Wrong, I didn't refer to a group of people. I said next time I see a parent doing that - which I will, because I see it regularly. and every time I do it is proof that you are wrong to assume that being a parent automatically makes someone responsible and caring. Bye.
I am the other end as I have 6 children, I love that we are all different and unique in our life choices x
Yesss me too!! Let us all talk about the things that make us happy! xx
It's definitely about respecting that other people's life choices are right for them, in the same way my life choices are right for me, just different life choices! ❤
Victoria! I don’t usually comment but had to. pls don’t ever stop talking about being child free. It’s so refreshing. I am 35, happily married and child free. Love hearing you talk about it and owning it. I do, but with someone with your platform it really does wonders hearing it out loud from someone else who is the same. It should be a conversation not taboo! It’s nothing against the people with children, it’s just having your own choices. Atm if anyone asks why, i just say because we realised we don’t have to. Keep owning it 🫶🏼 thank you!
I think there are too many people having kids as they just think it’s what you should do. It’s nice to have people discussing alternatives. It’s great you are creating the life you want, keep doing you lovely ❤
I love the fact you talk about it. It’s much more common now and it should be talked about as it’s completely normal! ❤️
The high trees catch the wind is all I can say! Love watching you, one of the most "real" people ever.
Ohh this is a lovely saying gosh! xx
As a mother to two and a grandmother to one, I ABSOLUTELY respect your choice to be childfree and the conversation shouldn't cause offense to anyone. I enjoy your content for all the topics you discuss: fashion, simple day in the life stuff, fabulous trips, lovely vacations, heart to heart talks, home decor, garden life, etc. You bring it all and it's greatly appreciated ♥
You are so lovely and both you and your husband are so hard working in a job you love and are happy doing. Dont understand people who comment negative things . All they have to do is not watch you and move on.dont worry about them because you have nearly a million who love you ❤
Yeahhh I always think this! We can curate and watch so much free content across socials, fill it with the things you love :) xx
I'm 39, childfree and have been married for 20 years this October. Being childfree should not be taboo anymore and I still get so fired up when people affiliate that decision with being selfish, cold / non-nurturing, and say I will never experience true love, happiness and fulfill my purpose on this planet. Rant over 😃...Wonderful vlog as always Victoria. Hopefully you can resolve what's causing the eye irritation! Sending love from America ♥
Hi Victoria, I've only just started watching this video but I want to say that your TH-cam content is by far my favourite. You look beautiful on Instagram and the other places you post but we see your personality on TH-cam and that's what we all love ❤
This is so so kind!! xx
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Victoria do not worry to much, I learnt not everyone will be happy. You are respectful and nice to all. I can think of much worse things to be offended for 😂 Lovely to hear about the childfree choice, it is inspiring ❤
those are the best looking vintage earrings i’ve seen an influencer show! beautiful
I’m 35, married and childfree by choice and love seeing you talk about it, even if it is “repetition”. Although I’ve told friends and family I’m happy with my choice, every now and then they will ask if I’ve changed my mind yet, if I’m still happy with my decision. As though it couldn’t possibly be final. I get sick of hearing it but then I’ll see you talking about it again and feel less alone! ❤️
Hi, well I'm in my late 50s, have children and am divorced. I love watching ur vlogs and will continue. Don't apologise to anyone for being u. Plus I love a good curse word it relieves stress. Ur looking fab ❤
Absolutely love Vic and I really hope she gets to 1 Million subscribers soon. People may disagree but I genuinely think she’s one of the most talented and authentic people online. I’ve been watching her for 7 years and she’s still the same then as she is now ❤just a bit more elevated in terms of style ❤
Thankyou so much for being here lovely xx
I am 55...(Generation X) married 24 years...LOVE kids but it never happened for us. It blows my mind that people assume because one does not any....they automatically don't want any. Some couples can't conceive and many can't afford alternatives.
I personally don’t relate to childfree life, I’ve got three kids that really fulfill me but I do believe that having kids is not for everyone and people should really think this decision through. Thank you for speaking on that. However, I would be interested in your reasons for not having children if it’s not too personal maybe you can share it in the future. Have a great day! 😊
64 and childless by choice. People keep saying I'll regret my choice, still waiting......Nope, no regrets yet!😊❤
I've been watching your vlogs for years. You're one of my favorite content creators. Sending lots of love ❤
Ahhh thank you for being here babe! xx
Agree! Love her blogs too! 💐
Your makeup with the white dress looks STUNNING
I’m 28 & child-free…. You are definitely not repeating yourself! It’s so refreshing to just hear you chat and see your amazing travels. Also it is really lovely watching another woman pursue her passions, ambitions, and career ❤️ makes me feel not alone in that! It’s so cool that now as women we truly have a choice in our path!
So excited for you because I can see that you have 972.... subscribers! Go the mill! Not that is about the subs but hey a nice round number lol. Thank you for coming back week after week I love your vids! x
Haha I feel the same! Quality over quantity but that 1 mil being in sight is soooo exciting! xx
You are not boring, not repeating yourself and TH-cam is my favourite channel too x
35:14 😂😂😂😂 made me laugh out loud also very relatable!
ahahahah Alex got me there xx
I’m 44, married, child-free and I find it relatable when you talk about it…. I think it helps too for younger viewers because you can definitely find yourself at a time when your friends are all having babies and it can feel like you are drifting apart…. Reminders of how fulfilling life is without kids are important at those times. I definitely had that a few times in my 30s but so happy now ❤
Your makeup is stunning, Victoria! I've enjoyed your content for years. Keep up the great work!
I am 27 and in a happy relationship, we want to remain child free and it’s so refreshing to hear someone talk about it as a positive! I have watched you for years and as soon as you mentioned that you were childfree by choice, I felt very validated. I really appreciate you talking about something so personal 😊❤️
I appreciate your perspective and being genuine and authentic in your lifestyle choices. It’s not redundant when it’s your life and it’s a common topic amongst women and extremely relatable ❤thank you for sharing because a lot of people aren’t as brave to put it out there
I’m a Mum of 3 and I love your Vlogs and social posts. Your content is high end and the perfect escapism and inspiration for everyday life. Just keep being you lovely xxx
Thank you Victoria, I needed this because I'm 32 and I'm undecided, I'm 3 years post divorce after DV and now in a very happy and healthy relationship and I'm happy just living. So thank you for openly talking about it, I wish more people did!
As a barista I was always told to listen to the pitch in the “scream” the milk makes while you’re steaming it! When it changes pitch and stays there then stop steaming. Apparently this keeps you from scorching the milk. 💕
I've followed you for years but never commented, but I wanted to say how much I admire your ability to carry on producing such wonderful content in the face of persistent and ridiculous negative comments. You're an inspiration ❤
46:00 can I just say that this camera footage is just mega beautiful, feels so HD and crisp❤…also this dress colour suits you so well!
For those who get offended so easily, do they live in the real world? Sometimes we have become so sensitive that we are stopping to live the real world. Victoria, you don't need to apologize, your videos are very classy, elegant and always appropriate. You don't need those who easily are offended. Carry on with your wonderful videos. Luv them all!
I love you Vic. Your doing great. Watched you for years and years and personally i find it very interesting to hear a different perspective. I have two girls but i also enjoy hearing you talk about your perspective on life! What ever that might be. ❤
No mean comments here - Just let the good in and mentally block those others.
I love the Merit mascara also. Thank you for showing the new Merit products, so nice.
Hello gorgeous, I don’t think I’ve come across a more kind hearted, humble person than you. I just don’t get it how people can say anything bad about you, it’s baffling. Having watched your videos for so long now I can truly say you are the sweetest person 💕 thank you so much for sharing your life with us all, xx best wishes always
I think its amazing that u talk about being childfree. I am a parent but i think its great to be an example for those u don’t want to be or are questioning having children. I think many people just feel like it’s the ‘next step’ in life and don’t seriously think about if it’s what they want. Societal norms can push people to do things especially when they are young that they can regret. I think this is a topic that should b spoken about by more people. Im loving ur chatty videos, thank u❤💕
I don’t like to just watch people that mirror my thoughts. I like watching people that are different than me. I am 43 with two basically grown children. I got married at 20, and had my first child at 22. I’ve been a housewife for 17 years and love it. I think that’s what makes the world wonderful is all this beautiful variety.
As someone who is choosing to be childfree and starting to navigate the world of peer pressure and people questioning my opinions, you speaking about this has helped me so much, you articulate it so well and I'm sure there are many of us who appreciate current and any future times you want to bring it up and keep the conversation relevant. In an age where people still question what others do with their own bodies, having voices to support us is so important to know we're all in a similar storm.
As a Scottish person living in Wales, I call Lakes Lochs by mistake all the time….. it’s just the word your used to when your chatting 😂
the cut on this video was absolutely amazing, loved it
I’m 28, child free and have been single for 8 years. I absolutely love my life! It’s nice being able to talk openly about our different paths in life ❤
I appreciate the repetitiveness 💞 i think its a sign of authenticity
I haven’t watched you for a couple years and I am absolutely delighted to watch this and hear this perspective. Thank you! Re-subbed.
I’m 45 and child free by choice, was a very easy decision for me, I always knew I did not want children and still do not. Please continue to talk about it as much as you want, you’re living YOUR life and this is YOUR channel, I wish people would remember that! ❤
Hi Victoria, With your skin, are you checking the ingredients in your skincare/makeup products? There are websites (acne clinic nyc is one) where you can copy and paste the ingredients in your products and the website will tell you whether the ingredients are likely to cause breakouts. Just a thought! ❤️
47, child free by choice, and proud of it too. I REALLY appreciate people speaking up and standing tall with their decisions. I spent my 20’s and 30’s having the same old conversations about how I would regret it, how I am being selfish, how I am making a mistake. It is SO good to hear it being spoken about - THANK YOU to everyone who does ❤ (and PLEASE repeat yourself….!) And sing your swearing songs! ❤
I have kids and I’m also here for your child free content-I love it and you should never apologise for your choices! You are fantastic and a breath of fresh air xxxx❤
My husband and I are child free and we don’t think we missed out on anything. All of our friends are all scrambling trying to pay for college, weddings and grandchildren. We laugh as we go travel the world and will never have to worry about those things. Each to their own. It’s everyone’s choice so nobody should give you a hard time for what you and your husband choose.
The white dress with the heels was such a good look, Victoria! And the makeup looks were incredible as well. Xx
It always seems like such a double standard to me when someone who is child-free by choice mentions it once or twice and (most) people with children, it's just standard to talk about and discuss their kids all the time. Why? Because they're a part of their life! The same goes for being child-free, so why not bring it up from time to time? It's almost like people think it's a "dirty" word or something that doesn't need to be mentioned.
It's not really fair.
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There's definitely a taboo about it which for me is another reason to chat about it when the topic opens up! Especially if it means someone else ends up feeling more comfortable in this space too :) xx
You are such an inspiration to me ❤❤
Never stop talking about being childfree! and definitely dont apologise for it! we are constantly flooded by people having kids and sharing everything about their kids while those of us who dont have kids feel like they have to stay silent. why should we live in the shadows feeling bad for the decisions we make and the life we live. i'm tired of not being able to feel proud of my life and living it loudly!!
I have followed you since the beginning and am your mother’s age but really wanted to say you are an inspiration to young and older ladies alike in your work ethic, personal relationships and style. You are beautiful and I adore everything you do. Lots of love and respect ❤💕
Yey love your vlogs and content x
Ahhh thank you lovely! Hope you enjoy xx
Victoria, I never get bored of listening to you talk! The haters can hate, but you'll always be great! I love all your looks on the Valentino trip,especially the make up on the last night. Viva Victoria!!!❤❤❤
33, happily married, childfree. Thank you for talking about this. Crazy that in this day and age, people still assume that because you are female, you should have kids. Have been a silent watcher of your channel since 2014. Thank you for the great content❤
As a 43 year old mother of two children I have nothing but respect for other women choosing not to be mothers themselves. This whole narrative that a real woman is a mother as well as everything else is complete garbage.
To all the child free women living their best lives and bossing it everyday, keep doing you. ❤
I’m 49 & child free. When I first started therapy I said I never wanted kids & my therapist challenged me on this. So I explained that as an introvert, I need a lot quiet time to recharge myself everyday, I knew that if I had kids, you can’t (unless you are a monster) say “kids, don’t talk to me/come near me/make a sound for the next six hours,” and because you can’t do that, I would very quickly come to resent, if not actually hate those children. I don’t want any child to grow up in an environment like that, so the best thing I could do for “my kids” was never having them. We ended the conversation with my therapist saying that I absolutely should not have had kids. I get to be a huge part of my friends’ kids lives and I absolutely adore that, I can be my best self for them and then go home and crash. It’s the best of both worlds for me.
Live the life you want Victoria, it only belongs to you.
I am haven’t watched your video yet but I am seeing a lot of comments about being childfree by choice, and I will say as a mom of two kids, I GRAVITATE TO CONTENT ABOUT CHILDFREE FREE STUFF OR JUST VLOGGERS LIKE YOU VICTORIA, I need a break, TH-cam watching time for me is my break and I can’t watch mommy/pregnancy bloggers stuff it triggers me so much and makes my anxiety go through the roof😢 And this is no personal attack on those people at all, I just can’t be in mommy mode 24/7 I have unfortunately unsubscribed from many people who have gotten pregnant and have had babies just because I do not want to be reminded of my current stresses in my life. I had my first kid at 23 and my last kid at 30 and am now 35, I just don’t want to be pulled into family/mommy/pregnancy vlogs, it’s been a tough transition to motherhood for me and I really don’t want to bring in more stresses and also finally I am myself again or getting closer to my true self with therapy and the gym life, so please to all childfree people out there, you do you please, enjoy your life❤
Ok I've been following you for a while but I didn't realize you wanted to be child-free - I just figured you were. Thank you for mentioning this. We are also child free and undergo lots of societal pressures from coworkers, friends, and family, so I find this comforting to know that there are others like us. ❤❤❤❤
I dont think you are repetative, you always make your point intelligently and totally genuinely....on all subjects you mention.Anyone who doesnt like your content can stop watching. Continue to be your lovely self and thank you so much for years of interesting, informative youtube.❤
Thank you for addressing this topic. I am 47 years old, never married with no kids. I wish to get married and have kids. If it does not happen, well I am ok with this because of you and other influencers. I will not be beating myself down because I didn't hit my life milestone by the book. Ladies like you are a testimony that you can be happily married with no kids. You lifted the weight off the shoulders of those who wish to have, those who can't and those who don't. Thank you!
I don’t know if you can be both adorable and chic in a hat but you absolutely are.
I am also child free by choice. I’m married and 33 and I’d love for you to continue the conversation. I don’t touch upon it much on my own TH-cam channel but you are inspiring me to ❤
I'm 46, married with one child and do not have an issue whatsoever with you or anyone else choosing to or talking about their choice to be childfree
May I also say that I am flabbergasted that people feel the need to be negative or take offence to the most ridiculous of things
On a positive note me and my Husband visited Australasia in Manchester after seeing it on one of your vlogs and absolutely loved it x
I’m 30, happily married and child free by choice. It has been a journey in accepting that my choice is my choice and no one else’s. I love all your content because I relate to you and your life. Keep going, you’re doing a great job. Lots of love from Australia
I love hearing about all your beliefs, values a s principles regardless of if I'd choose to live that way myself. It kinda helps to give me perspective and expand my awareness as I move through my own unique reality and experience.
I’m happily married with 3 children and 2 step, so can’t relate to child free content but it does fascinate me to hear about women that have decided to be child free and reasons behind it, good for you 👏🏼 Have you always felt this way? I’m the same age as you, so it’s great to see a different side of life through your eyes. X
I am here for the honesty, the fashion, and the child free conversations! Keep on! Also, you looked fabulous all through this video (as always). ❤
I'm 26 and pretty sure I *do* want kids, but I still find your content about being child-free super refreshing and inspiring. Even for those with kids or who 100% want kids, I think it's still refreshing to see someone talking about this among the sea of posts about pregnancy and fertility. As a young woman, I sometimes find *that* overwhelming because I'm single as can be and nowhere close to having kids, so seeing you so confident and happy in your decision to do your own thing brings me a sense of comfort sometimes, or just a distraction from society's standards that are set for us as women. If that makes any sense at all 😆
39, married and childfree by choice. Appreciate the childfree content, not all of us can, nor believe we are here to solely have children. You look absolutely stunning - particularly on the Valentino trip. Loved this vlog. Thank you lovely Victoria x
Love Merit. Great for a minimalist curated make up routine.❤❤
It's just so fantastic! Perfect travel makeup too with such versatile products xx
Who doesn't love a grwm with lux makeup ❣️ laughing at the tanning situation. The struggle is real!! You still look great regardless xx
As someone who has been watching since your colorful hair in uni, I can say that you have always stayed true to yourself. Haters will hate, but the love you have for yourself matters the most. You’ve blossomed beautifully. Anyone who doesn’t like your content, can go watch something else. It doesn’t take away from you or them. However, this has always been a positive space. Slander and hatred about or to Victoria will not be tolerated. 🤍
Please don’t stop talking about choosing to be child free! You are one of the only influencers I have followed forever that I still relate to. It’s validating to see an example that you can be “grown up” and “an adult” and in a happy relationship without having children!!
You are unique you do what makes you happy. Your job is not to make others happy, if you do you’re destined for a lifetime of misery. ❤
on behalf of all normal Scottish people...... we dont care if its lakes or lochs. we are happy you loved our beautiful scotland
Thankyou lovely :) xx
In terms of archiving pieces, have you thought about buying a storage unit and keeping your pieces there? Or building a small shed that's temp controlled and store them there? Just a thought. Anyway! Can't wait to see the closet updates!
I've also had the most puffy eyes I've ever had with hay-fever recently xx
Met my amazing husband at 38, married when I was 49 (he was 38), and now 54 and am child free as well. I commend you for being you❤ Why did I feel a need to explain myself to confused people all my life! Why did I find myself consoling them? 😂 LYSM
Good for you. I’m a mother of two boys, and my oldest which is 25 has said from an early age that he does not want any children. I respect his choice 100%. I actually don’t see myself as a grandmother. Most of my friends are and I get the eye rolls because I don’t crave to be a grandmother. What ever works for you and as long as you are happy that’s what matters.. much love to you 3. ❤
I am a mom of 2 grown sons and I absolutely appreciate any woman that chooses not to have children. It is free choice and each woman lives her own journey❤
Thanks for the phone tutorial especially for your elderly viewers! I think it’s admiral that you are promoting “childless by choice”. I felt like I needed to constantly justify our lack of children, which I imagine was all in my mind, partially because we waffled a bit. I have chronic health issues and I felt like I couldn’t do my best as a mother and that my husband would be constantly stressed and nearly a single parent. It is difficult and you will loose some friends because they become so involved with children and parents of children. In our family and friend groups we are of a tiny handhold of “childless by choice”. Bottom line, give Victoria props for knowing that you can have a beautiful life with or without children. I can’t imagine how often as influencers she is asked when she’s getting pregnant. I heard this question asked of another influencer the other day in a live and it made me want to scream!
I have kids and love your content. I watch you for your personality. Not what you have or don’t have. I love watching you build your career and family whatever that looks like. Talk about whatever you want. It’s your channel.