WHY “NICE GUYS FINISH LAST” IS JUST NOT TRUE

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  • Most people who say that “kindness is a weakness” are giving with expectation. #shorts #garyvee #kindness
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  • @philgreatness
    @philgreatness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I give without expectations too. It has worked like magic all my life. So true 💯

    • @SeptMG7
      @SeptMG7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely!

  • @AndrewSharpe7
    @AndrewSharpe7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    “giving without expectation has been one of the core pillars to my success”
    - so awesome to hear!! Serving other people and caring is the way to go!😃 it’s not that mysterious but ppl seem to think it is.

  • @HUSTLERx1st
    @HUSTLERx1st 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I've been watching Gary's stuff for years now, I love this guy more every year.

  • @RealJamieBarclay
    @RealJamieBarclay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Don't give with the expectation of getting things in return, give to be proud of the person you are.

  • @nmn5550
    @nmn5550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "True kindness is undefeated"
    Yeah, but it's also super hard when you're not used to it :) Not impossible, but hard.

    • @1mag1nat1vename
      @1mag1nat1vename 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's the best reason to practice it. Practice is the best remedy for "hard".

  • @MikeBarron1
    @MikeBarron1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pure kindness in undefeated! This is true man!

  • @afenton32
    @afenton32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Very true! What you put out in the world is what comes back to you. Or as the bible says, What you reap you sow. That's the secret to a successful life. Thank you, Gary!!

  • @ChoppedByTPodcast
    @ChoppedByTPodcast 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    spot on.. stop giving out good expecting to get good back...

  • @MartyBrandonketo
    @MartyBrandonketo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have watched a ton of your content, this is by far the best piece I have seen. Thanks Gary!

  • @enamelvoice5838
    @enamelvoice5838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I guess by nice guys the quote is referring to people who are afraid to show their authentic self due to the fear of rejection by others .They pretend to be nice to be liked .

  • @qamariqbal4870
    @qamariqbal4870 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very deep and so true. True kindness, pure kindness, is undefeated.

  • @thedappercook
    @thedappercook 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nice guys finish first always, Mark my words.

  • @dangerzone_davis
    @dangerzone_davis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Gary "I’ve swallowed every piece of gum that I’ve ever chewed” Vee

  • @nerdexproject
    @nerdexproject 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The shorts are just pure freaking gems man💎

  • @PG_streetwear333
    @PG_streetwear333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    POSITIVITY IS CONTAGIOUS! JOIN THE MOVEMENT

  • @tharpeaddy
    @tharpeaddy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It has always came back to me in more amounts than I ever expected…just accept what it is

  • @crguero951
    @crguero951 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro you are an absolute OG! You just get it. Much love to you Gary Vee!

  • @emart166
    @emart166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the video

  • @sandram6913
    @sandram6913 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic!!! Thank you GaryVee!

  • @deadeye1681
    @deadeye1681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so underrated. I appreciate your existence.

  • @dgalati2745
    @dgalati2745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The universe agrees... When you throw a pebble in a pond the ripples (if you watch in slow motion) are not chaotic... It's that the at with everything...

  • @jaredbeckwith
    @jaredbeckwith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It pays to be nice 👍

  • @Deanos_Dispensers
    @Deanos_Dispensers 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this

  • @jakemartin8057
    @jakemartin8057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best video I’ve seen in a while

  • @luiskhoum4191
    @luiskhoum4191 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so true

  • @14xx07
    @14xx07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doing the right thing is always the right thing.

  • @DreDay-hh1cb
    @DreDay-hh1cb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nice guys definitely finish last when it comes to women

    • @stefanmorris6010
      @stefanmorris6010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would argue that the women that nice guys want but can't get would probably not be happy with them anyway :)
      Sometimes what we THINK we want is not actually what we NEED.

  • @cherrybaylon9737
    @cherrybaylon9737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You very Much!

  • @Vicstone559
    @Vicstone559 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ahhh man, definately a sense of relief knowing theres that 0.1% of people that speak on this, hey your the best mr. gary keep up the good work.

  • @MrShourie
    @MrShourie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou Gary❤

  • @dgalati2745
    @dgalati2745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only dangerous animal is the butterfly, he's always causing tsunamis

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At what point do you seperate being kind from being used because your nice.
    I tend not to care as much anymore because I was that nice person that did everything for people and family but got nothing in return. When it was my turn to ask for help everybody had excuses.

  • @actionfit9345
    @actionfit9345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Karma is practical 👍🏻 - Cheers to all the nice guys - give unconditionally- time to reflect 🤔😳😃

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Striking gold!

  • @princethomas1566
    @princethomas1566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Reading about people grabbing multi-figures monthly as income in investments even in this crazy days in the market,any pointers on how to make substantial progress in earnings?would be appreciated

    • @sonyabutler9503
      @sonyabutler9503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You make it seem unreal to make up to that as a passive income annually,when it’s clearly possible. I have made over 1Hunnid thousand dollars from January till now with no joke game plan. She’s a masterpiece and her name is Christiana

    • @sonyabutler9503
      @sonyabutler9503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kindly reach her thru Tele gram page with the name

    • @sonyabutler9503
      @sonyabutler9503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christianarobert is the name

    • @lindamary8764
      @lindamary8764 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christiana Robert really knows her way around trading, its evident from her deep knowledge of how the market works, reading signals to perfection, i feel very safe trading with her.

    • @tinacruz4430
      @tinacruz4430 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If only some people would be patient to understand that Bitcoin isn't going anywhere, instead it's taking over the globe

  • @user-yl7nt1fo4x
    @user-yl7nt1fo4x 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey @ GaryVee u my brother are a legend..... Thanx for being there 🙏

  • @chelseazone651
    @chelseazone651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats fuc*in Amzing 😍😍 ... Garyvee is the Best, Love u

  • @figward
    @figward 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes

  • @bhuwanregmi5193
    @bhuwanregmi5193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gary, i'm messed up with the things related to what should be done. I think a lot and do less. Even when i am doing right thing, i doubt on myself. My energy got drained and i do nothing, except regrets. Please, help me.

  • @billionairebodhisattva4388
    @billionairebodhisattva4388 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you bro, on my personal mount rushmore. Legend. Cheers mate 🥂

  • @sandorbozsanyi8444
    @sandorbozsanyi8444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video.

  • @low_res_spider
    @low_res_spider 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the vids

  • @CookinWidKunchi
    @CookinWidKunchi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fuckimg Powerful message

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Incredible person reading this, go after what it is that you want in life! Learn the skills, do whatever it takes! You are capable of anything! I believe in you! ✨
    Love - Nat ❤️

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @AIGital thank you for reading it my friend :)

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ The real RJ Sandefur thank you for sharing this my friend! Keep doing incredible things by your leadership! You’re impacting the lives around you! 💯👌🏼😃

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ The real RJ Sandefur thank you for sharing this testimonial, my friend! :)

  • @dgalati2745
    @dgalati2745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "there is order in everything"
    "The Right will always be right the right thing"
    The only addition I would say is w are also agents and neither the first cause if ourselves... It's easy to do the right thing when if someone does the wrong thing to you it doesn't affect your doing the right thing .. there is much more here... But kindness is the prize...and it doesn't originate from us... Or at least like it ought to... I mean I could say more and I don't want to leave anything on the table but if I said jars of clay.. not sure it would be helpful

  • @whyohbee
    @whyohbee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice guys might finish last more often, but they don't burn their bridges and tend to get another chance more often.

  • @tanyagiacchina492
    @tanyagiacchina492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woohoo!!! YES!!!! Tell them Gary!!!!

  • @tomhermann1167
    @tomhermann1167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This may be the first thing I heard from him that's not completely bullshit...

  • @Rykaas
    @Rykaas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You probably weren't expecting this, but thank you my man

  • @thereynas7413
    @thereynas7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just give without having to mention anything. Just give lol

  • @waylonsheppard3432
    @waylonsheppard3432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man you are a awesome foul mouthed hero! Thank you

  • @zappy222
    @zappy222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good > Evil

  • @TheKatrinaRuthShow
    @TheKatrinaRuthShow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it!

  • @one_nation_fanwear
    @one_nation_fanwear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Like the tides of the ocean and the cycles of the 🌙. What goes around, comes around. The ying yang symbol is historic art for a reason. Universal balance. Put good out into the world and it will come back like a 🧲 when needed. Do good onto others. 💯

  • @AlexCio
    @AlexCio 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Karma is practical!

  • @Trigoter
    @Trigoter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you add Turkish subtitles?🙏

  • @lifeadventureswithjeremyca590
    @lifeadventureswithjeremyca590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome, and inspiring advice!! True kindness, does win!!! Thanks for sharing!!!!$🎃📱❤🍻🤙🏽

  • @Josito10RM
    @Josito10RM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE

  • @effectme3410
    @effectme3410 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @19Hollisterchick90
    @19Hollisterchick90 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's just a lot of people who think they're nice, but if they had actual confidence, money, etc, their true colors would show. Nice people aren't finishing last. Some will have their bad days, but overall things work out in their favor.

  • @Jonathan_McConnell
    @Jonathan_McConnell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I believe good happens to those who do good. Karma is about returns in the afterlife or rebirth, so no I don’t believe in Karma.

  • @bobbobbington3615
    @bobbobbington3615 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was the long winded version of, "Nu uh," by a nice guy in last place.

  • @acee7205
    @acee7205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im so confused on how nfts work
    Like can i make anything an nft ?
    How do i Make and nft?
    How would i sell and nft?
    I guess ill be binge watching vids on this topic for a bit

  • @ZacharyJClark
    @ZacharyJClark 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Meanahile he does stuff like rip people off during yardsales.

  • @kimjaytv8851
    @kimjaytv8851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the thought about Karma is just Common Sense.

  • @datteslatho8264
    @datteslatho8264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I believe karma is the most practical energy but he world!
    Other vee friends: 😱😬

  • @SleepingElephant
    @SleepingElephant 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its True. Learn game

  • @jesusheredia9190
    @jesusheredia9190 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U need to be actually nice to be a nice guy

  • @janibizjak9966
    @janibizjak9966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I mean this quote was for dating word if you are too nice to girls no girl will give you...yes...

  • @jass864
    @jass864 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    make sense

  • @ThepritamgoswameTV
    @ThepritamgoswameTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Karma is circular it comes back to you.

  • @nikhil6204
    @nikhil6204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing is the definition of nice guy is changed

  • @jefeortega5439
    @jefeortega5439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaron Brook follows this guy so I wonder how he feels about Ayn Rand.

  • @Fetaldareaper1414
    @Fetaldareaper1414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The term nice guys finish last is meant for relationships not for societal interaction.

  • @ankit30343
    @ankit30343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gary said i have zero expectation from others does this includes his employees too, what do he do when they are underperforming and making him losses🤔🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @mckainentertainmentnetwork5116
    @mckainentertainmentnetwork5116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect Gary Vee 🙏🏾

  • @karmacurio3967
    @karmacurio3967 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A show with shadguru will be beautiful....

  • @harshitdawar1650
    @harshitdawar1650 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why not write a book on this topic

  • @SneakyPicknick
    @SneakyPicknick 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    gary I would love you interviewing Dr Jordan Peterson, please can we make that happen?

  • @margaretscrazycraftylife423
    @margaretscrazycraftylife423 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    TRUE nice guys don’t finish last.

  • @imthepowerer5000
    @imthepowerer5000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dan Peña and Rollo Tomassi would dare to disagree. However karma to has its place and you do good you get good returns. You see I'm kind never nice unless I aim to be silly as the Latin for nice is ignorant so who wants to be ignorant (nice)?

  • @collingallardo5280
    @collingallardo5280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bruh ppl only say this for dating girls lmao

  • @RAZASHARP
    @RAZASHARP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ummm when it comes to womennn.. it’s ABSOLUTELY true!!! Guys only listen to Gary for business!!!! Lmao

    • @Andrew-xt8lz
      @Andrew-xt8lz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You’re a hairdresser, if you’re losing with the women there’s something missing lmfao. You already got one foot in the door

    • @RAZASHARP
      @RAZASHARP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Andrew-xt8lz ummm I have MODELS for days!!! Who said I had the problem!!! Lol

    • @Andrew-xt8lz
      @Andrew-xt8lz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RAZASHARP Okay I see you Chad, save some for the rest of us

    • @RAZASHARP
      @RAZASHARP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Andrew-xt8lz lmao..Be my guest.

  • @JohnBrewsterMusic
    @JohnBrewsterMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    True kindness is undefeated 🙏

  • @jacobkershaw9745
    @jacobkershaw9745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why does this man move his hands so much

  • @andrewkim7700
    @andrewkim7700 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the nice guys finish last thing is more true in dating.

  • @bryanwyers6202
    @bryanwyers6202 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prove it

  • @J-GUT
    @J-GUT 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I mean there’s tons of terrible people that won’t face any consequences for the lives they ruined, that’s why I don’t really believe in Karma.

  • @Arational
    @Arational 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have I got a story to tell you Gary.

  • @TGREAT1
    @TGREAT1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro karma is what happens to most of us.atheists also believe, who truly lived!

  • @AldyPradana17
    @AldyPradana17 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @mottymszb1417
    @mottymszb1417 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯

  • @comehangoutwithme8018
    @comehangoutwithme8018 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gotta talk to u brother.......need a push.....haters are hating .....and I'm tryin to be like u in my life.....so much hate lol... totally ok....but just need some words.....from my friend....who totally understands

  • @modymobarak7479
    @modymobarak7479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    With all due respect to you Gary, I have been following your content for a long time but I think you are taking half the truth about the idea of ​​karma. You said that if you do good things you will get good results in return but if this is true then on the other hand if you do bad things Bad things will happen to you too. Right then why are there so many people who have done so many terrible things who do not get bad things in return and there are people who do good but everything that happens to them in return is not good at all. I think the idea of ​​karma is ridiculous to the extreme. It's just a fragile shield to protect people's so-called The Fair World. If karma was real, then the world would be a Fair place. But I don't see the world we live in as a Fair place, my friend.

    • @user-hv9zw8gf2s
      @user-hv9zw8gf2s 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ☝️☝️

    • @samchallis5935
      @samchallis5935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But they do at last. Ever heard about narcissists always ending up alone in the end? It's real. Also consider that the " bad" act is the karma in itself. It leads to suffering and segregation from the whole, away from unity and absolute truth. Being " evil" and separated from God is the " negative" consequence by itself metaphorically speaking, eventhough it can be hard to fully see it.

    • @azhen9581
      @azhen9581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the same tots in my younger days. Till i learnt this.
      There is a saying I'll translate from Mandarin:
      The gpod will get good karma
      The bad will get bad karma
      If the karma has not ripen, the time has yet to come.

    • @uolocur9356
      @uolocur9356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, this was a feel good video for the nice guys lol

    • @uolocur9356
      @uolocur9356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samchallis5935 my dad, uncle, and grandfather are all narcissists without a doubt. All three have extremely loyal wife's, all three sit home all day and drink, all three feel pretty much fine with their situation. Evil unfortunately almost always wins in the short, and only sometimes gets caught after

  • @rochaswag123
    @rochaswag123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They finish 5th

  • @assassin47511
    @assassin47511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👌👌👌

  • @azhen9581
    @azhen9581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been hearing Gary use the word Karma and i have been secretly wondering if he truly know what that means. I'm so touched to watch him explain this in this video and it's true Karma is practical. It's science. Thank u for this wonderful video.

  • @kwamecoleman-wz8bp
    @kwamecoleman-wz8bp หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not for me

  • @hacorn96
    @hacorn96 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i agree with him, but it's not how "nice guys" is defined. what he's talking about, thats something typical "nice guys" would never do. another thing about karma - it's adding to society without expecting anything in return. so it's a "philosophy of work", more than a "practical way of working"

  • @youtalk3277
    @youtalk3277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you will never understand this.@garry ve