I can't even begin to imagine how the victims of stalkers must feel, especially when the stalker becomes intimidating or aggressive. To add insult to injury, how frustrating it must be for stalking victims not to be taken seriously by the authorities by having their situation undermined or dismissed altogether. Why the victims have to be responsible for the behavior or reactions of their stalkers more than boggles the mind.
@melstiller8561 My daughter was stalked by a random guy who was already banned from her Uni cos he kept freaking out the female exchange students that lived on campus. My daughter is a very petite, pretty blonde haired blue eyed Japanese student and must have stood out to him. After he was banned from campus, he started to show up at the petrol station she worked nights (lone worker) and he was banned from the store between 8pm-8am. Then hung around the building for literal hours standing directly under different cameras, smiling at her through CCTV and relaying the usual route she took going to and from work etc. She reported it to police there and then and to be fair, they did take her seriously. He was questioned and cautioned, banned from being within a certain distance of the forecourt and the police issued her with an insanely loud alarm and contact details for officers that would pick up and be available 24/7. He went quiet and then dropped off the radar. Few months later she got a call from Metropolitan Police. He'd moved to London, picked up where he left off with another young lass of very similar age and appearance who was subjected to a serious physical and sexual assault for which he's currently serving a four year sentence. Don't know the finer details but dread to think what he did to her that got him 4yrs inside. Poor lass. 😔
@@charlottewebster4233 thank goodness the police’s intervention helped in the case of your daughter. I had to move house, change job, and change uni all at once and not stay in contact with anyone from my old life to stop the stalking I was facing. The police said they would only intervene if I were to get hurt - which is a bit late.
YES, EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS, PLEASE REPORT WAR CRIMES AND SPIRITUAL WARFARE: Cease and desist malicious use of AI, and weaponry of chemical and biological warfare: supremacists, terrorists, communists. I am not your property and neither is the rest of the world. GO AWAY. WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS ILLEGAL IN EVERY GOVERNMENT ACROSS THE GLOBE.
I was targeted by a stallker I barely knew in 2008. He was a friend of a friend, and I don't think we ever said more than 'hello' to each other. He somehow got hold of my home address, and drove for hours to knock on my door at 3am. It was terrifying. He climbed over my fence and was trying to look through my windows. I think he was either an 'intimacy seeker' or an 'incompetent suitor'. He was eventually arrested by the police, and when they asked him why he was doing this, he yelled 'BECAUSE I LOVE HER!' When the police told me this, I told them 'he can't love me, he doesn't KNOW me'. He was eventually sectioned due to psychosis. But the police didn't warn me when he was discharged from hospital, and they made some very inappropriate jokes to me, a traumatised victim. Sixteen years later, and I still haven't dated, because I'm basically scared that any man will turn into a stalker. I'm still afraid every time I get home alone in the dark.
That’s horrible. Police are the worst, they really are. At least they did the bear minimum of there job and got him arrested. I hope you are eventually able to date someone you trust, if that’s what you end up wanting to do.
@@Epic-so3ek Thankyou. I suspect that I will need some more counselling before I can date again. The police made some insensitive jokes, but at least they arrested him quickly, largely because they caught him in the act.
In Norway, where I live there is the use of zoning tags with restraining orders so that if the offender comes in too near proximity to the victim it sets off an alarm both to the victim and the police.
I live in the US and work for a government agency and my stalker is a co worker. They have a policy of not firing veterans. He is a veteran. I was told he will still be working there long after I am gone. Before anyone says i should get a different job, I am 64 years old. Noone would hire me in a position that would pay me what i make now. It has taken 17 years to reach this pay. I told a friend at work if I disappear or am murdered who will have done it. He has no reason to be anywhere near me at work yet is always showing up in my space to intimidate me. They used the term micro aggression in the video and that is very accurate. Not knowing what they are capable of, always having to think about them. It's awful.
Sounds horrendous. I wonder if you or he could be relocated to another of your organisation’s offices. Even if that isn’t possible; surely he can be prohibited by management from going near where you are situated given the harassment/safety implications.
I'm a veteran and can tell you that veterans can be fired. The policy is lunacy. Report him to HR. Veterans can be fired for cause. I know this. Stalking is cause. You can go to HR, or your Equal Opportunity department. You can also call a hotline number for sexual harassment. You don't have to take it. I know it's hard. I'm a woman veteran and had a stalker once. It wasn't taken seriously. After all, I was in the military, so I "should have" been able to handle myself. That was the crap I got fed. My stalker was a civilian who lived in my apartment on the floor above me. Creeper. Maybe you can transfer to another department or agency. I worked at the VA, and got fired during my probation period. I worked 11 months and was let go without cause. So yeah, they fire veterans. That didn't have anything to do with stalking. It was something different. I didn't even do anything to deserve it. They decided that I wasn't a" good fit" for the position.
YES, EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS, PLEASE REPORT WAR CRIMES AND SPIRITUAL WARFARE: Cease and desist malicious use of AI, and weaponry of chemical and biological warfare: supremacists, terrorists, communists. I am not your property and neither is the rest of the world. GO AWAY. WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS ILLEGAL IN EVERY GOVERNMENT ACROSS THE GLOBE.
Do you think he or she was a secret admirer? The birthday card could have been a way for a man or woman to disclose that they care enough about you to remember your birthday. That’s my best guess. I don’t base my assumptions on shoddy legal system standards but on well educated guesses that make the most sense.
@@Acuity-1 secret admirer or not, when a woman shows you she's not interested, you gotta respect that. Any other sign of interest after the woman states clearly her boundaries is stalking and obsession.
I have read in the United States 1 in 3 women will be stalked in their lifetime. It’s unacceptable that police are not handling this properly and siding with the stalkers/ scammers.
Keep your profiles private. Background check people if you date. I don’t even date anymore but when I did with a friend we would background check anyone. And even then it can still happen to you 💔 Sometimes it’s not even the person or people you would think to worry about that do it. I think that might be one of the scariest parts. Makes you really just want to stay to yourself
@@patl3897the hybrids have a soul 😮 the backdrop people n the stalkers are parasites n archons n sold their soul... hybrids are here for a reason then we get stalked n energy harvested ..so it's not one stalker it's thousands on one...
I got rid of My stalker.He came up to my face& said, YOU'RE AFRAID OF ME!!! Arent You!!???.I was,but i kept cool. I knew he was trying 2intimidate me & we were the only ones on the street. Although,I was scared to death,i knew i needed to be confident & calm.Then,Ironically,my mouth went on cruse control or auto pilot.Out came the words,Yes,im afraid,BUT MY #38 ISN'T.!!We both were in shock🥺! Immediately, he made a U- turn& left. I never had problems any more & i never had any weapons,but it worked. Another time a guy followed me while going to bus stop to worked (3rd shift). I turned around,but kept my hand in my left pocket,& used my right hand to wave to him to come on- try me. He made a U-turn& left.Once again,no weapon,but i never saw him again.I guess its a mind thing?!!
I’m 67 and still getting stalked by strangers. I give them no voice, no time and no contact. They position themselves next to my balcony and living room window. However, I keep myself UNAPPROACHABLE bc once I reject them, they can turn very violent. Become so conscious that you don’t go unconscious again. ❤
@@annberlin5811 It's criminal to stalk. I exposed it with out speaking or lifting a finger. I split my Wifi network and created two WiFi names. "WiFiStalkerWhitePickup" and "StrangerStalkerWhitePickup." Now, all the neighbors know. Then I waited. Stalker left. Hoovered at 9 days in a Maintenance shirt they had not worn in a year. Haven't seem him since. Their conclusion may lead them to believe that you will Notify the law about their behavior. Educate yourself about Spiritual Warfare. You KNOW if you are torching Christ's light.
This is whats happening to me. I have ptsd and panic attacks from being here in this area and when he doesn't intimidate me he recruits others in the neighborhood
They will all go to jail 🤷🏿♀️ intimidation tactics don’t work on me idgaf & they ain’t nobody to back down from. They can get a life & leave me tf alone before they fuq around n find out. Let em crash out if they want to. What tf are they pose to be stalking me 🤷🏿♀️ seems like they need some mf help
Me too being stalked and harassed changed me forever. He died, of alcohol in a graveyard which made the world a safer place. But the damage he did to me is untold
@@ChristineBeecher-o8y As a single woman, I have to deal with a lot of male workers going around my lawn and even inside my house I have felt that a landscaper is creeping me out by showing up unannounced and asking me personal questions, showing up randomly and dragging a job out I've made the decision to tell him something to end it like I had a relative pass away I will be gone for a long time so I'm putting this project on hold / pay him and just get rid of him because he's creeping me out. I can't exactly put my finger on it but I sure don't want it to escalate. I have had contractors become too familiar with me and I'll tell them something about a boyfriend or my fiance and that usually does the trick What is your ex doing to creep you out? Anything besides texting/calling?
@@ChristineBeecher-o8y he ended up being hospitalized for 4 months, medicated, having a no contact order in place and he has left me alone so far. He was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia.
I have a stalker 24/7/365 I've lost my life,I've listened to this program and yes the reversal role and frame takes place.also cyberbullying, cyber harassment , intercede in personal telephone projects,gossip about me,ruining my character,job,career,dream. I believe you
I've said to so many people don't keep yourself trapped on social media leave them they're not even worth the time as it is it's full of toxic posts and not great on your mental health because of how addictive it is, you'll get so much time back not being on social media. It's been a while since i haven't been on any of them and now i have no fears that anything could happen because of them because it did and if i didn't get rid of them being harassed and stalked on a game i play would've been so much worse. Not being on them prevents anyone from trying anything or so much as thinking about me it prevents too easy access to us and they'll appeal to your pride and ego to keep yourself trapped into it all but you have to put it aside and do what you've got to in order to keep yourself safe. We can help ourselves by removing ourselves from these sites it was all so much better back in the 1990s and before where all we had was a telephone and some pen and paper and we didn't feel the need to tell anyone anything. I went back to doing a few things the way i did them then and you'll see that the only reason people are on social media is because of peer pressures and maybe for work or school but primarily peer pressures. But there is no strict measures against peer pressures when there should be and even when people use it for specific purposes they allow people to form cliques and that's when things start to happen. So we have to set those measures for ourselves and there are multiple options to do that if you really do need to use social media use whatever options available whether disabling notifications checking manually to preventing yourself being automatically added to group chats use it because it'll save you a lot of issues. You have to keep it to only using it for a very specific purposes for yourself if you use it for a chat meeting only use it for that then log off keep it strict because there are coworkers on it and not all of them can be trusted.
Psychological services feed off both the perpetrator and victim, You get told to get therapy to get out of the situation, yet services who already counsel the stalker have no accountability loop or any desire to engage their patient in a discussion around the behaviour you try to report to them. Women are told "safety Plan" Perpetrators are not provided with a behavioural change plan....
Yes, I am working on boundaries and trying not to think about the behavior I witness periodically. Like all of this would just go away if I gaslight myself into ignoring behavior. The stalker doesn't go to the doctor or therapy, he is not held accountable for anything and is emboldened in his fantasy. So I have to pretend I am not bothered as I wait for what he will get away with next. They know it's wrong though because of how sneaky they do things to avoid getting law involved.
@@emilysnyder4857 Hope your ok. Stay in touch if you like and we can help each other. I have been googling women safety courses which may be more relevant. Paying for a security guard or having a dog can help. I am going away for at least a few days from next week etc.
I used to live in Los Angeles, which has the toughest stalking laws on the planet, but also ran up against the problem that the police aren’t trained to deal with stalking. My stalker literally ruined my life and ran me out of the state. The police were like, “Filming you isn’t against the law.” And “ How do you know it was her that slashed your tires?” The police are useless.
Hi. I am a fan. However, this video is unwatchable due to the imbalance of audio levels. This could be easily resolved either within your video editor or with a separate audio editor. Thanks.
Your talking about levels of stalking, don't try to defend stalkers who aren;t physical, mental stalking has a physical effect on people, folowing people has a mental effect which causes physical stress, lack of motivation, depression, hopelessness and all sorts of physically diminishing effects.
It is the same here in New York… the legal system is not up to date with a criminal behavior that has to do with an abuse committed by mentally ill people… i’m going through this cycle with one sociopath/stalker and it’s beyond what one can comprehend and do. 😢… unless a tangible crime is committed, most of time authorities do absolutely nothing and even refuse to punish the “criminal”. As if psychological abuse that sociopaths can inflict is not on the same “level” as physical violence… it is horrible. Also “my” stalker is a definition of a pathological narcissist…. Nowhere is said narcissists won’t be stalking 😅
The police do nothing. Victims all over hear the same things, how the police cannot do anything and in my case it was dismissed as a neighbour dispute. 6 yrs now I am under constant surveillance, followed where ever I go, the verbal abuse when I leave my home, go to my garage, threats to me and my pets, cameras pointed into my home, damage to my home, assault, etc. All caught on video as he has done something under each window there is CCTV all around my home and I have a body camera. I make sure I never react in hopes of deescalating the situation. Getting a solicitor to start an injunction resulted in the police threatening the solicitor with arrest for harassing my stalker. You quickly understand there is nothing the stalker will do that the police will do anything about. I have told everyone: family, friends, co workers, that if something happens to me it's not an accident. This ruins your life. I wish I had you Isla with me when I report the stalking to the police. The police believe my stalker who says I'm stalking him despite all the evidence and incidents occurring all on my normal routes/places and home.
Your story hits home, very sorry about your situation and you're absolutely right about these weirdos and their behaviors affecting us in different ways. Well in my case, it took a series of recordings overtime and speaking to a Sargent to help me with my situation. The cops who shown up to my home before seemed to believe my narcissistic neighbor and it was very upsetting. I spoke with a Sargent from my local police and that's been a help. In my experience complaints especially involving harassment and stalking are taken way more seriously when a Sargent is involved perhaps you may want to try that too. Maybe it may be a help to you. After 4 years of constant harassment by my neighbors and several cops, I now have a protective order against neighbor. It's taken 4 years to get one sadly and it doesn't necessarily stop the psycho from harassing me. My neighbor still seeks out even with order of protection in place but she does that through 3rd parties like her children and boyfriend now involved creating havoc in my life without reason. Best way to completely get a piece of mind is no contact and possibly moving without a trace. These narcs are crazy of crazies it's pathetic!
This is frightening!! My friend is going through something frighteningly similar! The Police haven’t helped her at all!! In fact ‘ignoring’ her. She feels like she’s going crazy! Its been going on for YEARS! But now he’s hijacked her phone, social media and home cameras so the cameras are turned onto her. Listening to her phone calls, then displaying evidence of the subject of her calls by putting signs up in their car??
@@VeeBee81 It amazes me how these scumbags have so much free time to do harm, you wonder with some people! Tell your neighbor to invest in outdoor cameras if not done already. Document document document!
Thanks for highlighting stalking issues and raising awareness 🙏. It is much appreciated. Your video is great. It is really informative and straight to the point.
Was the police officer a misogynist, or was he gullible and easily taken in by charm? Both could be true - and misogynists will always side with the man so he needn't be very charming, but that's how narcissists get away with abuse, isn't it? They charm everyone not the current victim.
It's mainly about getting that promised hefty retirement pension which a lot of them aren't actually getting any more they've just jiffed them out of it here in the UK which was already a con because most people won't even be able to stay in the job for 10 years because it messes them up so much even if they were already messed up when they joined and jobs like that attract narcissists, but they still believe they could make it. They have to keep getting prompted to get it though so you can see why they're always trying to but you can guess how many make it that far, the same thing is happening in the medical and teaching industries too.
I can so relate to her❤. I had to leave my home and put it for sale due to stalking, harassment and constant surveillance. It was easy for them to hack my devices as i lived next door. It did not end there...story to be told at a later time. This individual is a typical case of predatory stalker. He takes pleasure by intimidating and dominating. It is his way of life however in my case he never succeeded 😊
They do in the USA also the police dismiss it and think the woman is overreacting. It's not a big deal. They are not only not trauma-informed but they also re-victimize the woman. The police won't take it as a crime and even in court, in my case, allow the woman's reputation down. In my case, they made it out as if I didn't have the right to break-up with him without discussing it with him. It's still happening. I tell more and more people about it, I write about it and post it so that it is publically known what is going on. Thanks for this. post! Great information!
I have/am done ALL these ‘tips’ -Despite multiple violations of my Order of Protection, my stalker has violated so many times, I have moved, changed my job, my son’s school 2x & he still won’t stop. He’s destroying my life & nothing I can do.
My neighbor/stalker admitted to the police everything he did. He admitted to sending obscene texts and accosting me whenever I left my house. The police declined to press charges because "his name will be put in the paper" and also the village has to pay for every case prosecuted. So it just wasn't worth it to "law enforcement" (I have to laugh at that term). When police acknowledge you have been victimized and yet refuse to help, there's little recourse left for the victim.
I am being badly stalked by a group of criminals in the UK and another in USA bc of being a public victim. It has been the worst experience of my life.
Same here. The crooks are hacking my phone right now. Also, Blocking me from every turn. Following me everyday. Just won't leave me alone. Dress in disguise so won't get discovered. But, they leave trails every time.
I have a TRIO of stalkers and harassers within my community. So much for "loving your neighbour as yourself"...but they aren't Christian, and that speaks volumes regarding what the Bible says and what the world says about "mental health issues"...As my personal and most current stalkers/harassers have been doing such to me for several years now...to the point of having dead animals found on my property amongst other "items" and traces of such, to which I do not want to post exact details of here...not sure if these people are trying to intimidate me or they are just trying "scare tactics"...as wolves always come in packs. They are never just ONE individual, they are many. But most victims only "see" one individual who does the actual "physical foot work" so to speak. The rest of them hide behind their computers or phones and do that type of "foot work"...like texting, harassing, gas lighting, spamming, hacking, theft, ID theft, scams, doxing, messaging of another sort etc... on social media accounts of many kinds, to which I also have been victim to. SICK AND TIRED OF THEM!
I sometimes wonder how much my "Christian Values" are what attracted the stalker to begin with. I checked on him a few weeks after his Mom died because he had no visitors and was clearly abandoned by family. In time I became aware of the reasons why he had no other connections. But it's done a real number on me now that I have been coping with their stalking over a year. I am definitely not qualified to help here and regret getting involved... In fact I think he was provoked when I told him I don't watch horror movies because God told me a long time ago not to. This person watches horror movies all the time and I think he didn't like my opinion about his favorite slasher films. So now he is an actor in some stalker movie of his own. I feel like it's a spiritual battle with people who stalk someone. Like they are targeting you for trying to be a decent person.
Fight stalking.....My privacy has been compromised for 11+ years using technology and devices. Since I have no way to prove it, the bastards continue to do so with impunity. ( Czech Rep. )
So many people refuse to take themselves off social media even when they know that's the problem, get yourself off them love they aren't worth the time and there's already laws coming into effect that nobody under 16 can use social media and for schools to stop any phones being on the premises or taken from them before class because of how addictive social media is. Once you get used to them it seems your life will change too much if you aren't on them but it doesn't it's just one less site to be on. Keep yourself secure too don't slack off on security change passwords on all the most important sites every 2 months at least, i got lazy and they just get in no matter how big you make your password it's like they're just let in if you don't change it. Keep it all clean and safe too and only stick to official sources don't use any mods or custom content just use the game vanilla and you'll be completely save.
@@Harteo3917what pisses me off is I was not on it on any of that everything I was doing buy paper, but I do think people are getting pissed off about it everyone wants email this that I can't wait to change it all one more time for good and I am not giving it out, hardly
You know the crazy thing is the whole reason I was like the only one not on Facebook from the start of it was because of getting stalked in the past in the first place, this has been the worst distress!
They won't be able to if you make sure to reset or reinstall every device you have don't even back anything up because it's all compromised now just reset and clean reinstall. Change passwords on everything too and make sure all sites you use has a seperate login don't use any of your accounts to login to things.
@@Leannot35 Yeah i stopped being on any of them and then i got terribly harassed and stalked in an online game which only proved why it's the best decision because if i was still on them they would have found me on them too. I think i'm still having some problems with a girl back in high school who showed some creepy behaviors like 15 years ago now because weird she found me on twitter right before it started to happen, how i have no idea or how she knew which was my characters in the game. All i know is the situation would've been 100 times worse if i didn't leave them all right before that because they would've harassed and stalked me on there too, then they would've saved me pictures and spread them around, then probably tried to find out where i live. Thankfully not being on them provided no clues to anything.
I'm currently being stalked and have no clue who they even are. I'm a male 31and it's a group of guys all riding in the same pickup. They follow me every day when I leave for work (I've made purposeful turns and u-turns to be sure they were actually following me), they stop about a block away from my house just screaming shit at me (can't tell what though they're too far away), and they drive by my house really slowly at 3am every single night (I have cameras). Even with all the photos and videos nobody will believe me because I have a penis. Do you have any advice for me? I know if anything goes down I have the right to self defense (I'm in the US) but I'd rather it not get to that point. But all it's going to take is them finally trying to jump me or do whatever they're following me for and I wouldn't stand a chance one vs 4-5 people. Idk what to do at this point beyond be extremely cautious and watch my back
Keep collecting all evidence get cameras and use your phone when out and about to record and document times and dates then rename each video with the dates and times, then organize your videos according to location. You'll have to be persistent with it for several months so you can record them showing up multiple times and following you multiple times make an absolutely thorough file on them don't cheap out and win because they're giving you no choice. Don't so much as talk to them just let their behavior speak for itself and when you hand in the evidence they'll see from the videos they're the only people doing things. I had to do all this on an online game and i even tricked them by staying at a location i normally don't go to and the guy mainly responsible for sending people after me kept showing up every few months and he only lasted 1 month before he did. He did this whenever he knew he was losing me and was about to start things again after a few weeks of going silent so that i'd relax so he could maximize his effect. He just stood there pretending he was doing nothing but it was the very fact he showed up where i was even when he has other places to go and stood his character as close to mine as he could even on my new account creepy. You have to catch them out on these things too because they can't disprove they weren't doing anything because of the mere fact they kept showing up after you've been making it clear you want nothing to do with them. Make sure to keep a copy of the file somewhere because you don't want anyone going on your phone and deleting all the evidence.
Shit,I keep thinking no one was respectful of me n I'm getting stalked cause I do not have a penis...so funny you said that,cause I kept thinking if I had money or something else.. then this would stop .but I see it's just the people doing this is narcissistic n we're not .
Hello, I believe that I am being gang stalked by my neighbors and employer. I moved into a new home back in 2022 with my siblings and things seem to be going good. After moving into my new home, I transferred to a different department within the organization where I work. I enjoyed my new position and was excited to learn new skills. I believe things went wrong when the empty house next door just randomly had a screaming man on the porch. It was late at night and his yelling was so loud it woke us up. We thought it was a homeless man/ squatter because the house had been empty for a while after a crew had been fixing it some months after we moved in. We are new to the area and didn’t know anyone in this city. After the first night of him yelling, we did not hear anything else for a bit until they moved in the next year. Every other night there was yelling and screaming, banging, or him arguing with his female friend late at night. He would be burning things at night to were the neighbors noticed him doing the same thing. He also had a car wash which was okay, I had no issues until he started making mud puddles in the yard due to his car wash. One day my mom told me the neighbor had asked her to put a rock in a hole that was in the yard which she replied that she would ask me because she did not live with us. The next day I guess he felt he did not have to ask me and did it anyway. I went out and asked him to move it because I wanted to put dirt in the hole instead of having a dangerous rock there. He said he would move it but never did. I believe after calling the city the one time, that's when he started looking in our windows and telling neighbors things about us. I believe there was someone that worked for the city who told him that we called because I heard him talking about who called referring to us. After that I did not feel safe in my neighborhood because the neighbor would tell everyone that we called but when I tried to talk with him about the issue he was not nice. He would say things like “I am not letting a young bit@% run me.” After that I knew he was not a person that was safe to talk to. Just the constant yelling all hours of the night was torture and on top of him recruiting other friends//neighbors to taunt us by standing in the yard to see if I would come out and say something to them but I was told to ignore them. After a few times of noticing him looking in the window I always was very cautious of him. Ive even caught him mocking/bully me as I walked down the street like doing things behind my back and rally neighbors to name us as snitches of the neighborhood. When this neighbor finally moved out we had some peace for a bit until new neighbors moved in and I noticed they would say things about us being snitches without us ever being introduced to each other. After that, I knew something was strange when I would hear the new neighbors talking about us like we were just watching them. I remember I had asked their kids to not play in the mulch bed around the tree in our yard, I’m not sure what the kids told their parents but they were upset about me telling them that and telling other neighbors like I was yelling at their kids. After that day I would hear little reference about me and my family and them saying things that we did or said. I was sitting in my room one day and heard a mans voice say something in reference to me but didn’t think anything of it. One day I text something on my computer and pointed it to the mirror and heard which I believe was my first neighbor who came out and told others whet I typed on my computer. I knew after that someone had place listening devices/cameras in our home and had been spying on us. As a child Ive always had really good hearing which I believe is due to my terrible eyesight. I can sometimes hear conversations in other rooms or far away. If I don’t feel safe, I make sure I am very aware of my surroundings. One night while sitting in my living room I overhear the neighbor having a conversation with someone reading my health information in my Mychart. After I heard that I called my supervisor and told her that I did not feel safe in my home. I just did not know who to call and I also work from home and heard them viewing my computer screen while working from home scheduling patients. I called off from work for about almost a month due to knowing my computer was being screen recorded. After noticing my family was being watched, I was able to hear them through the listening devices placed in our home. I do believe there are people within the health organization where I work that are giving people access to my phone, work computer etc.. Ive also noticed that they have hacked into my social media accounts and have been stalking my friends list to befriend some of my social media friends. I also have been labeled as being a spy due to the country I served as a volunteer. Ive heard them post personal videos of me and my family on certain websites making it visible for others to see. My first day going back to work I can hear others talking about me dealing with a mental health issue. When I was in the hospital, I could hear them watching me and other employees saying how much they hated me and calling me a spy. I was on my way to the YMCA to take a shower because I was tired of being watched when using the bathroom and taking showers. I did not take a shower for a week because I was tired of it. I ended up going to my doctor office because my job had sent paperwork for me to fill out due to me calling off. I’ve already expressed to my sister about what was going on but she just did not believe me. I believe the information I was telling her was scaring her and she wanted to due what was best for me ; so she recommended I see a psychiatrist. I ended up going to the psych ward for a few days and still heard them spying on me inside the behavior health unit. I even heard employees saying terrible things about me and also putting things in my food, or spitting in my water. It got intense when I heard the name of the person who was in my Mychart and took a screenshot of the person name. Everywhere I go it’s like people know me. I went to a festival not too long ago and I got a boba tea, I believe the person put bleach in my boba tea because I heard say she will make it extra sweet. I can’t do anything because whatever I think, they can hear every thought in my brain. I believe my employer may have hired neighbors to stalk me and my family or me and my family are being targeted for evil reasons maybe sex/organ trafficking…. I hear my neighbors calling everyone I know ruining my reputation and preventing me from moving or making me the odd person out at my new employment. They have made friends with family members or people from my childhood to join them.They track every Lyft or Uber. i don’t trust people anymore and have to take medication for anxiety and depression due to this. I don’t have anyone to talk to so I am putting what I have been going through on here. I hear everything and try to protect my family the best way I know how. I believe everyone knows about my family and we are being put on display for the pleasure of other evil people to make our life difficult. I hate that I moved in this neighborhood and by me thinking I could tell someone what was going on, now I have to hear evil things being said or done to me and my family. I know this post is all over the place but I am typing it out because I am not able to do anything because I am being monitored all day every day.
My current situation; best advice to you is to document document document however some are slick and know how to trigger their victims low key. Narcs are the ultimate low lives real talk!
I have stalkers getting people to repeat shit I talk about as if it’s supposed to make them look anything but delusional & pressed. Idk why they can’t just leave me tf alone they are straight up irritating
@@eyeamphree3337 You're not kidding- I've come to that realization already. It's very sad and all too common out here. People you don't give a damn about and show it are drawn to you. Makes no sense 🤷
I have one now and have had them before. Mostly men that are neighbors. The current one is a property manager and has sent me a text message addressing himself as Daddy in the office. Now he is parked right in front of my condo right in my front door.he is married. I am a single woman. I've only had one conversation with this creep. There seem to be a lot of these types in society today. I'm so tired of it
I reported it I had a witness ,I moved to several states I changed my name and still fighting , it has taken its toll on me I'm angry all the time I have been diagnosed with PTSD, this is a fricking nightmare. She has the worst of the situation and the Courts will say move, how many times do you need to move?
So many people say their stalkers keep finding them and that's being most likely you're being tracked either on your car, an object they planted, or something they put on one of your household devices. They don't keep their accounts safe either and keep using the app feature to login to stuff that isn't safe at all, you have to learn how to keep completely secure and don't put the slightest bit of information about yourself online don't even give clues in usernames use generated ones. I recently made a new youtube because of problems i had on a game and they knew my last one as you can tell completely made up name lol i just choose one i like nobody even knows if i'm male or female not on here not on anything zip all and it's kept me safe.
I’m currently dealing with this, I barely even know this guy, he’s relentless and it’s been over a year, I have no idea where he gets the energy and motivation for this , I’m exhausted
Excellent video. There should be community classes online safety like not using your email or mobile phone number for anything online, that is easily hacked and is basically public, even in email.
Hi Dr Sohom, is the only/main difference between narcissism and psychopathy the levels of empathy shown by the individual i.e would this be the defining metric used to differentiate between the two? Could a simple definition for a Lehman such as myself be that a narcissist can show empathy after the fact and a psychopath is born without the ability to empathise?
I have the highest level of being staked. She is tracking my phone and installed some tracking devices in my vehicle, she’s using other people, most likely paying them, she has them CONSTANTLY watching me and it’s not just one person is watching it’s multiple people are watching. She got me arrested for nothing three times. I think nobody ever has been stalked to that degree. I got the RV and she installed the tracking device (which is most likely as small as a Tile tracker) and she has people CONSTANTLY following me everywhere 24/7. This is a pure INSANITY, I’m going crazy myself already, it’s a living hell. She even found connections with the cops and using them to lock me up.
IN Australia, staying at a family members property and it started day one after I had been doing a property condition report and looked at something under the carport - 2 wood beams that went through to the other side. I was called names, then I was called a very horrible name. Then there were notes in the door etc and an incident at the front door. My phone camera interfered with and someone in my kitchen, then creepy out near the side gate holding his phone up to take an image of me - during the time my phone was stuffed with. Followed cyber security advise and went to a tech, techy did not know enough to understand the phone hacking and said it was the hard drive. It was not. My. phone worked properly the next morning. I spent money going away and staying away for days and weeks. I got work and was about to settle down to work and then he just tapped on the window at the time I had to get up... It was weird and created distress, then the person at the reception desk was rude when. I arrived and someone else .... I resigned from my job with a trauma head ache and curled up in bed that afternoon acknowledged psychological damage from my past relationship that started from an assault.....
Someone was texting me last night just out of the blue, very alarming things, how they saw me in my neighborhood taking out the trash! I have no idea who it was and how they got my phone number!!! I called the police and got a female officer and she was very responsive, she told me this could be the beginning of something or maybe just a one time thing! I’m pretty upset not knowing what to expect…
My stalker literally stopped because I asked him to 😳 I wasn’t expecting it to work but I told him that he was making me very uncomfortable and that I needed him to stop and he said that it would pain him to do so but he would do it for me 😳 I’ve never seen him since! Might be worth trying in the early stages for anyone else struggling with this, though some will just be determined to continue no matter what unfortunately. Perhaps worth trying to directly communicate if it’s safe to though.
It's the scariest thing I've ever been through. I'm afraid to like anything on social media. He stalked everything I liked. Sent me murder videos. He had hundreds of fake profiles. Im afraid to go to certain pages because I don't know if they are safe.
I’ve been stalked since 1988 from one lad in my year! Back then it was laughed off! Then when left school one time he’s ringing me 20/30 times a day, he’s stalked on and off all my life to one point he got a job at my work!! Past couple of years ago… I still see him where I live and have a panic if I see him in the shop. Over 30 plus years I’ve lived with it.
I'm under stalking since june 2024, after a man who think he is powerful was cursed me at my work place ,i was working in a condominium that man is a resident. Even though i moved to another state, I'm still under stalking ,but I'm praying God and stay vigilant
I am in Oregon, and my police have not done anything AT ALL for me. I have 6 years of documentation, 6 years of stalking...now the stalker has shot over my property (on video, no less). Cops won't take a stalking report, despite a law being on the books. I have spent hours trying to get them to take a report, but nope. I'm literally going to have to catch a bullet before they do anything...and that's not ok. What do I do? To whom fo I turn???
So very sorry! Been there and suffered that! Talk about being alone. I am praying to the heavens you are able to move and far away! Best of luck and blessings your way 🙏
I have been stalked for several years. The Palo Alto police and dispatch are complicit with the stalker. I was brutally assaulted by a police clerk who had case my vehicle on 5/9/24. I lost over 2 liters of blood and the police refused to take my report. They were condescending, gaslighting and dismissive while I was bleeding out in the ambulance. Then on 07/17 someone broke in and sexually assaulted me. The police harassed me, gaslighting and harassing me for the nine hours I was in the hospital. Meanwhile someone broke into my vehicle and stole a bunch of my clothing and took a tool and smashed up the outside of the vehicle. Police still have not taken my complaints seriously.
*cased The Palo Alto Police don’t take it seriously even though it has been extremely violent, dangerous and aggressive. I had my wallet and identification stole in December 2020, I went with a friend to the police station and the Palo Alto police refused to take a report.
Unfortunately several Palo Alto police and emergency dispatchers ARE criminals and have no interest for public safety. They only care about protecting criminals and I have documented the dispatchers and officers committing multiple infractions and felonies. The common one is 136.1 intimidated and harassment of a victim or witness to a crime. They have repeatedly exploited the legal system and violated the law and policy for police.
They seem to have paid several people to harass me at a nearby business. The guy in the red truck CA plates 8xxx596 he harasses me nearly every night. I rarely call the police because they pay this guy to harass me. And they gaslight me. They have sprayed many poisonous chemicals on my vehicle, spray my roof with a drone pair, and other excessive insane stalking behaviors. It sounds crazy because They Are.
My oldest daughter has had a guy stalking her for 7 yrs literally a couple years after high school. She’s getting married to my grandson’s dad and they’ve been together eight years so he’s been there from the beginning of all of this starting and at first he believed that she was out there in the streets doing all these things this guy was saying. I told him this dude never has any photos of her doing anything no photos of them together. He’ll go away a couple of months then he’s back. I think the longest he disappeared was nine months and then he came back. The last time he sent something to her sister and I don’t even know how he got her phone number, but I don’t think he knows it’s her sister. He thinks she just a girl friend Because he sent her a video from three years ago and it’s been edited her and her sisters were all at a party dancing together, but in this video, she’s dancing with a guy, but you can’t see the guy face. All of them were there together, so they know that there was no guy dancing. They were dancing together. My daughter never posted anything and it was the sister who had the video. But he has a snippet of the video and somehow he put some dude with no face in it dancing behind her. Her sister lives in a whole otherstate and has never been here. Like we know the original video was 3 yrs ago and there’s no guy in it just the girls. She stays armed with her concealed weapon She does weapon training. She’s always aware of her surroundings and it’s just crazy that it’s been going on this long. Police can’t do anything because she can’t prove exactly who it is and even if she could, she has prove that they’re the ones sending all the messages and getting the numbers
What to do when stalked by complete strangers 24/7 everywhere and all the time. It's like strangers have access to your phone calls, texts, emails, online calender, know everything.
Can you please talk about if a woman has a big dog ( like a protection/guard dog) how it can decrease the chance of any type of assault by men , like how it change there thinking ? Thank you in advance 🙏
Im.going through this buy for me it's an entire group of people and one of them.made a voodo doll and the one guy is a police officer .I'm going to drop names maybe you can suggest
Some of this is so very true! Like beyond for real true. Sketchy of new people they could work for the stalker! The system dose not protect you! It's the victim who's life gets turned upside down! It's all bad and sad for the victims and almost nothing is disrupted to the guilty malicious stalker/abuser. The court system is actually the stalkers friend if you share a child, the courts hand the victims over on a golden platter!!! The stalker disregards protection orders and clear the area before police arrive and since they are not there any more the police do nothing but say well if they come back give us a call again! Like your ganna end up dead before the system protects you!!! 1 year and you have to fight for another one. Needless to say this isn't my real name! I left my abuser in 2018 and in 2024, I still have to look over my shoulders, question people new and old and their intentions and if they work for the stalker!! Worry about every move I make vandalism to my vehicle, slander on my name and character! Like this shit isn't ok!!! 😢 seems I get to live like this forever! Constant fear, anxiety, panic attacks, distress! It all really takes a toll on the victims!! 😢
I have a stalker and it’s scary because I don’t know who they are and they randomly stopped putting messages by my car and they have been peaking in that’s when I knew someone was stalking me
Yes it can be a tricky one when they are a neighboor because you want to fit in and get on with them. So many clips on u-tube dont give you practical tips so THANK-U 4 this. If I was her I probably would have bought myself a big beautiful protective dog. Yes narcissists feed on positive and negative attention. ❤ best to not say anything to them. There is this attitude amongst cops that oh its just a "domestic" which undermines the psychological b.s people are putting up with day in and day out. Try and stay safe people. 🙏 🤲 ❤
Her story is so similar to mine. The police do not take it seriously and the stalker I believe is paying off some of them. I had a young officer tell me about the stalker that he is so nice and polite. Clearly, this officer was young and dumb. I guess it’s all around the world in that police force is not trained regarding stalker behavior. Same thing happened to me when we went to court: he tried to make it like I was stalking him. He lies at the drop of a hat about everything and anything. I pray that this blows up in his face. I’m praying for justice. I also have to move just like she had to. I hope he picks the wrong person to mess with one day and finally gets what he deserves. I hope he ends up in jail for the rest of his life.
The five things you need if you are being seriously stalked 1. Friends like Smith and Wesson 2, kevlar 3. Bear Spay 4. Large breed aggressive dog 5. Attitude
They are on every level of our govt, including doctors, therapists, EMT;s,lawyers, and yes all police and state cops, not all are stalkers, but they do know about the program.
So sorry 😞 my ex-husband stalked me while we were married and paid people to follow me too; he knew police 👮 👮♂️ officers in high ranking so he got away with a lot plus did them favors they were always buddies with him so even when I reported him, I was not believed but they arrested him anyways and we divorced in 2016. Then in 2019 I married another covert narcissist who also stalked me and almost made me end my own life at a hotel room we stayed at for a business event in Maryland. Only by the grace of God, I managed to leave that toxic marriage and I will never allow another man to abuse me like that! Self-love and self-respect will not allow you to let these men abuse you! Develop self-love so you never let anyone abuse you! See the red flags 🚩 🚩 or learn them so you recognize them right away when you start a new relationship!
Yup. Dealing with this now with a neighbor. Called the cops and the guy had an answer for everything and the police seemed to believe him and I looked like the crazy one, like she was saying.
Had a stalker/ in law that was in my husband’s business hating on his ex wife when they were married. Moved into my apartment complex and was attacking my marriage, coming to my house regularly from early morning exex . Psychos are very crafty, pressing predators.
I’m a stalker, or was at least in 2011. It was over some freshman girl I met in high school. I was a senior and had 3 friends(first time I had close friends like that). I met her in a music class(was supposed to take French 3 instead). I was for the most part socially awkward. I had social anxiety but I wasn’t diagnosed with anything else at the time. I only talked to her a couple times in person but I talked more to her on Facebook. It wasn’t until after I graduated when I first became aggressive. She posted something about her ex who was in Texas, probably at the time. She said her summer wasn’t so boring when she had her ex to talk to. When I first saw that on her feed, I went CRAZY. I sent her a long message pretty much threats. You know, like if I see her again, I would delete them. I went to a mental hospital because I told my therapist what I wanted to do to her. A few days later after she had blocked me, I pretended to be someone else and added her as a friend so I could see what she was posting. I saw one message on her feed that said, “haha yesterday was his brain damage”. That ticked me off too. I may still very well be a stalker because I still see what she’s doing online. Her friends know about me, too. I don’t know why I keep torturing myself by keeping her in my head. I think one reason would be that I want to see if she has a boyfriend. I think I want that anger so I could use to justify what I would do. She gave me a few chance to be friends with her again but she would always throw that first message I sent to her back in my face about how I wanted to delete her. I told my friends and some of hers about what I said. They were wondering why in the heck I would say that. I can’t tell you what I would do if I see her again. I know it’s bad but I feel like I just gotta know if she has a bf or not. I went to the mental hospital again this year but this time, because I wanted to delete myself. I still do. I want to save enough pills so I can delete already. I do need help but I think it could only get bad from here. I’d be lying to you if I said I would stop stalking right now. If you want me to be put down, please give me the medication to do it my way. That’s the only positive I think could come from this because men’s mental health is treated as a joke, so just let me go out my own way. The good in me is trying to warn people to do something now before it’s too late.
Dr have you ever heard of a person being hired to stalk on behalf of someone else? For instance, when you no longer respond to the fake profiles (changed SM settings) So my ‘hired’ stalker was actually an actor, pretending to want a relationship with me, things didnt add up, he had 2 phones, he kept going to the loo, coming back with more questions. When messaging and phoning me he was asking things that related to a previous stalker who had done an SA on me at work. The real stalker got a warning from the GMC so cannot contact me direct-he is a very wealthy psychiatrist! There is more I could tell you-any help would be much appreciated. Thanks
Psychiatrist was stalking you? His goal is probably to make you “sound or appear” mentally ill. Either as a sadistic power tripper, some narcissistic “egotistical injury” he believes you caused, or to steal your assets or an inheritance.
People who overstep boundaries are masters at testing where they are. He had probably sussed out that she was a polite person and accommodating before he started climbing over her wall. If he had found the boundary was closer he would have slowly pushed it to that point til he got what he wanted
I feel like in this woman’s case there was a severe lack of empathy as well, hers of which was no doubt impaired by the stress of the situation too thereby harming her social reasoning problem solving ability; heck if I was a single gal and who knows what other prior experiences I have with guys and then yeah this dude next door right…. If there was a greater level of intelligent mentalizing aka that’s what I mean by empathy on this case from the cops that inevitably would have led to more assertive boundaries on there end this would have cleared up much better. I want to be mindful about what I say as a comment in response to this video overall out of respect for the woman involved. Understandably cops have a cognitive threshold for their caseload right, though in general I would say that the capacity for mentalization isn’t selected for enough as it pertains to cops for uniquely selecting for social problem solving. Great stuff again Sohom, inner peace to the woman and all around.
Jesus God please somebody help me explanation mark this is no I can't do it anymore I cannot do this anymore I cannot it is not an appointment it is not an old friend this is a real hacker / Stalker.. I can't do this anymore he has been stalking me for a year I can't go online I can't do anything I can't have any apps I can't have anything and he's still here why won't he go away why I'm not important I don't have money what is going on I can't do this anymore I cannot not healthwise I can't I can't somebody please please help me no one will help me
Girl bye nobody care about their goofy ass sitting around wasting their own time doing the most obvious lame shit. Let them crash out & fuq around n find out.
Stop being the victim, get out of the mindset you are in because this is just what he wants. He wants you, hurt, depressed, upset, weak, vaunerable, fearful, unhinged,. Stop thinking that he feels any empathy or has a conscience. His goal is CONTROL, and to cause you pain and suffering. If he knows he is succeeding then he is only going to do more. He wants to break you. Get mad, get pissed off and start thinking of mean things you can do to derail him. Do you know who it is? Is this happening on your phone or computer.? Easy turn the computer off shut it down. Get a laptop and start fresh, get another phone. Or leave them on but still get a laptop and new phone and use your old one letting hm think he is still screwing you up. Down load some rediculious apps, like stupid stuff or stuff that deals with men who hunt down cyber stalkers. Flip the game on him. Put stuff that you know he will see and call him out directly. "Hey stalker, this is for you and load a stupid song or commercial" then document every single incident in a timeline. Put up cameras to cover every part of your house and vehicle. Yes he is doing bad to you, but right now it's just things you can replace, it's just stuff. Protect yourself. He's doing this because he can, shut that door.
Know if you are under some sort of investigation. If so, they will do exactly what they want & get away with every sick bit of it. All I can do is plea the blood of the lamb, over my family, each & every one of us & suffer through the abuses, harassment etc
(my grammar hasn’t been the best just relaxing while texting on my phone my bad haha; undesirable autocorrects) And I found it interesting that she said that stalking cases have almost tripled in the last decade and I have no doubt Sohom that you’ve correlated that to social media hey, yeah this digital sphere which is what I’m mindful about concerning the woman, it creates more delusions as people are not getting non-verbal and physically verbal direct feedback from each other. I feel like in this situation with the woman that’s obsessed with me, she relies more on non-verbals because she’s unable to mentalise which makes her obsessive thoughts worse as she tries to figure it out which is why yesterday I sensed this and just told her straight and she said she apologised if she overstepped any boundaries and then she just acted like she worshipped the ground I walked on and now I should just send her message and tell her I’m just a super regular ordinary dude that doesn’t deserve her respect haha. Peace Sohom, peace yal
I would call the police but thats just waste of time justice saying barry and Valley to coast whos leaving itams like long logs and stones and kicking BALLs at me when i dealing with the stress of my very very ill mother in hosiptal am i a target or what or are gonna bye me a megabreak fast ❤😊😅
I couldn't watch the video ..... terrible editing u talked over her story let her tell her story then talk thumbs down I found this frustrating to watch learned nothing
Have you stalked yet I know some like in your profession that is and sad to say I'm a targeted individual and have concrete proof been told there going to read of me ECT it's a federal program with some even congress has talked about it here in America but they can say so much because they don't want to scare the public
Audio is horrible and your constant interruptions prevented anyone from hearing her story. I have a stalker. Your "tips" are common knowledge to almost anyone who has a stalker. None of what you are saying makes any difference when women aren't taken seriously and things like restraining orders are not a deterrent--it's merely taken as a challenge by a delusional, dangerous stalker. You gave us no usable information beyond what most of us already know. Didn't watch to the end. Pointless.
Very informative. Thank you. However, video is on high speed, and it is very difficult to watch and to properly receive information. Especially if person is on the edge of nerves from stalking. It made me even more anxious to watch while to try and catch the meaning of what been said. Please try to speak slowlier and show videos in slower mode, to not elevate anxiety. Your viewers are not professionals to catch meaning of what you say in a half way 😁
I can't even begin to imagine how the victims of stalkers must feel, especially when the stalker becomes intimidating or aggressive. To add insult to injury, how frustrating it must be for stalking victims not to be taken seriously by the authorities by having their situation undermined or dismissed altogether. Why the victims have to be responsible for the behavior or reactions of their stalkers more than boggles the mind.
@melstiller8561 My daughter was stalked by a random guy who was already banned from her Uni cos he kept freaking out the female exchange students that lived on campus. My daughter is a very petite, pretty blonde haired blue eyed Japanese student and must have stood out to him. After he was banned from campus, he started to show up at the petrol station she worked nights (lone worker) and he was banned from the store between 8pm-8am. Then hung around the building for literal hours standing directly under different cameras, smiling at her through CCTV and relaying the usual route she took going to and from work etc. She reported it to police there and then and to be fair, they did take her seriously. He was questioned and cautioned, banned from being within a certain distance of the forecourt and the police issued her with an insanely loud alarm and contact details for officers that would pick up and be available 24/7. He went quiet and then dropped off the radar. Few months later she got a call from Metropolitan Police. He'd moved to London, picked up where he left off with another young lass of very similar age and appearance who was subjected to a serious physical and sexual assault for which he's currently serving a four year sentence. Don't know the finer details but dread to think what he did to her that got him 4yrs inside. Poor lass. 😔
@@charlottewebster4233 thank goodness the police’s intervention helped in the case of your daughter. I had to move house, change job, and change uni all at once and not stay in contact with anyone from my old life to stop the stalking I was facing. The police said they would only intervene if I were to get hurt - which is a bit late.
@@camellia8625 That sound horrendous 😧
Thank you, your comment is very validating.
YES, EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS, PLEASE REPORT WAR CRIMES AND SPIRITUAL WARFARE:
Cease and desist malicious use of AI, and weaponry of chemical and biological warfare: supremacists, terrorists, communists. I am not your property and neither is the rest of the world. GO AWAY. WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS ILLEGAL IN EVERY GOVERNMENT ACROSS THE GLOBE.
I was targeted by a stallker I barely knew in 2008. He was a friend of a friend, and I don't think we ever said more than 'hello' to each other. He somehow got hold of my home address, and drove for hours to knock on my door at 3am. It was terrifying. He climbed over my fence and was trying to look through my windows. I think he was either an 'intimacy seeker' or an 'incompetent suitor'. He was eventually arrested by the police, and when they asked him why he was doing this, he yelled 'BECAUSE I LOVE HER!' When the police told me this, I told them 'he can't love me, he doesn't KNOW me'. He was eventually sectioned due to psychosis. But the police didn't warn me when he was discharged from hospital, and they made some very inappropriate jokes to me, a traumatised victim. Sixteen years later, and I still haven't dated, because I'm basically scared that any man will turn into a stalker. I'm still afraid every time I get home alone in the dark.
That’s horrible. Police are the worst, they really are. At least they did the bear minimum of there job and got him arrested. I hope you are eventually able to date someone you trust, if that’s what you end up wanting to do.
@@Epic-so3ek Thankyou. I suspect that I will need some more counselling before I can date again. The police made some insensitive jokes, but at least they arrested him quickly, largely because they caught him in the act.
@@vermilliongeckoI’m so sorry ❤ that is truly awful. Wishing you peace.
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In Norway, where I live there is the use of zoning tags with restraining orders so that if the offender comes in too near proximity to the victim it sets off an alarm both to the victim and the police.
Wish Scotland was like that.
@@CameronCorneilus In Norway we also have something called "Nødverge". That means that we can kill someone or use sufficient violence to keep us safe.
Nc has this too
Wow it sounds like maybe they care that's so different and wonderful
We need this in the USA!
I live in the US and work for a government agency and my stalker is a co worker. They have a policy of not firing veterans. He is a veteran. I was told he will still be working there long after I am gone. Before anyone says i should get a different job, I am 64 years old. Noone would hire me in a position that would pay me what i make now. It has taken 17 years to reach this pay. I told a friend at work if I disappear or am murdered who will have done it. He has no reason to be anywhere near me at work yet is always showing up in my space to intimidate me. They used the term micro aggression in the video and that is very accurate. Not knowing what they are capable of, always having to think about them. It's awful.
Sounds horrendous. I wonder if you or he could be relocated to another of your organisation’s offices. Even if that isn’t possible; surely he can be prohibited by management from going near where you are situated given the harassment/safety implications.
That’s terrible. Wish you the best luck.
I'm a veteran and can tell you that veterans can be fired. The policy is lunacy.
Report him to HR. Veterans can be fired for cause. I know this. Stalking is cause.
You can go to HR, or your Equal Opportunity department.
You can also call a hotline number for sexual harassment. You don't have to take it.
I know it's hard. I'm a woman veteran and had a stalker once. It wasn't taken seriously. After all, I was in the military, so I "should have" been able to handle myself. That was the crap I got fed.
My stalker was a civilian who lived in my apartment on the floor above me. Creeper.
Maybe you can transfer to another department or agency.
I worked at the VA, and got fired during my probation period. I worked 11 months and was let go without cause. So yeah, they fire veterans. That didn't have anything to do with stalking. It was something different. I didn't even do anything to deserve it. They decided that I wasn't a" good fit" for the position.
YES, EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS, PLEASE REPORT WAR CRIMES AND SPIRITUAL WARFARE:
Cease and desist malicious use of AI, and weaponry of chemical and biological warfare: supremacists, terrorists, communists. I am not your property and neither is the rest of the world. GO AWAY. WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS ILLEGAL IN EVERY GOVERNMENT ACROSS THE GLOBE.
TSA?
I wish we all had a forensic psychologist to represent us when we have to go to the cops for something ike stalking.
I've had two in my life. But this year I got a birthday card from one after 20 years. Wow, just crazy.
Do you think he or she was a secret admirer? The birthday card could have been a way for a man or woman to disclose that they care enough about you to remember your birthday. That’s my best guess. I don’t base my assumptions on shoddy legal system standards but on well educated guesses that make the most sense.
@@Acuity-1 secret admirer or not, when a woman shows you she's not interested, you gotta respect that.
Any other sign of interest after the woman states clearly her boundaries is stalking and obsession.
@@kantik2118
I agree.
21 million... WTF!!!😮
What is wrong with people.😢
You have to know, there are hybrids walking among us. They have no soul.
I have read in the United States 1 in 3 women will be stalked in their lifetime. It’s unacceptable that police are not handling this properly and siding with the stalkers/ scammers.
pr🙏📿
Keep your profiles private. Background check people if you date. I don’t even date anymore but when I did with a friend we would background check anyone. And even then it can still happen to you 💔
Sometimes it’s not even the person or people you would think to worry about that do it. I think that might be one of the scariest parts. Makes you really just want to stay to yourself
@@patl3897the hybrids have a soul 😮 the backdrop people n the stalkers are parasites n archons n sold their soul... hybrids are here for a reason then we get stalked n energy harvested ..so it's not one stalker it's thousands on one...
I got rid of My stalker.He came up to my face& said, YOU'RE AFRAID OF ME!!! Arent You!!???.I was,but i kept cool. I knew he was trying 2intimidate me & we were the only ones on the street.
Although,I was scared to death,i knew i needed to be confident & calm.Then,Ironically,my mouth went on cruse control or auto pilot.Out came the words,Yes,im afraid,BUT MY #38 ISN'T.!!We both were in shock🥺! Immediately, he made a U- turn& left. I never had problems any more & i never had any weapons,but it worked. Another time a guy followed me while going to bus stop to worked (3rd shift). I turned around,but kept my hand in my left pocket,& used my right hand to wave to him to come on- try me. He made a U-turn& left.Once again,no weapon,but i never saw him again.I guess its a mind thing?!!
I’m 67 and still getting stalked by strangers. I give them no voice, no time and no contact. They position themselves next to my balcony and living room window. However, I keep myself UNAPPROACHABLE bc once I reject them, they can turn very violent. Become so conscious that you don’t go unconscious again. ❤
My two female neighbors are obsessed with me. They wont leave me alone
@@annberlin5811 It's criminal to stalk. I exposed it with out speaking or lifting a finger. I split my Wifi network and created two WiFi names. "WiFiStalkerWhitePickup" and "StrangerStalkerWhitePickup." Now, all the neighbors know. Then I waited. Stalker left. Hoovered at 9 days in a Maintenance shirt they had not worn in a year. Haven't seem him since. Their conclusion may lead them to believe that you will Notify the law about their behavior. Educate yourself about Spiritual Warfare. You KNOW if you are torching Christ's light.
Thank you very much - it is always both educational and entertaining to listen to you 🙂
This is whats happening to me. I have ptsd and panic attacks from being here in this area and when he doesn't intimidate me he recruits others in the neighborhood
I feel for you, this is something we are going through also. :(
They will all go to jail 🤷🏿♀️ intimidation tactics don’t work on me idgaf & they ain’t nobody to back down from. They can get a life & leave me tf alone before they fuq around n find out. Let em crash out if they want to. What tf are they pose to be stalking me 🤷🏿♀️ seems like they need some mf help
Why does my harassment group want my life “forever changed” that’s disgusting. Nobody should be a part of any kind of hate campaign like that.
They’re obsessed & delusional. They probably want to be you like most stalkers do
"my harrisment group??🤦🏾♀️ Like Why Are you claiming them? As YOURS? Just say " the " harrisment group.
@@eyeamphree3337they didn't tell you you are reason of wars and failed sexual relationships damn I guess am the unlucky one
@@leewiliams5864you didn't know everyone gets one depending on what you broken in them
Having a stalker forever changed my life.
Me too being stalked and harassed changed me forever. He died, of alcohol in a graveyard which made the world a safer place. But the damage he did to me is untold
How did it end… I have an ex that’s scaring me.
@@ChristineBeecher-o8y As a single woman, I have to deal with a lot of male workers going around my lawn and even inside my house I have felt that a landscaper is creeping me out by showing up unannounced and asking me personal questions, showing up randomly and dragging a job out I've made the decision to tell him something to end it like I had a relative pass away I will be gone for a long time so I'm putting this project on hold / pay him and just get rid of him because he's creeping me out.
I can't exactly put my finger on it but I sure don't want it to escalate. I have had contractors become too familiar with me and I'll tell them something about a boyfriend or my fiance and that usually does the trick What is your ex doing to creep you out? Anything besides texting/calling?
Ew. I know how that is like. Ew yuck
@@ChristineBeecher-o8y he ended up being hospitalized for 4 months, medicated, having a no contact order in place and he has left me alone so far. He was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia.
What percentage of stalkers become violent?
I have a stalker 24/7/365 I've lost my life,I've listened to this program and yes the reversal role and frame takes place.also cyberbullying, cyber harassment , intercede in personal telephone projects,gossip about me,ruining my character,job,career,dream. I believe you
I've said to so many people don't keep yourself trapped on social media leave them they're not even worth the time as it is it's full of toxic posts and not great on your mental health because of how addictive it is, you'll get so much time back not being on social media.
It's been a while since i haven't been on any of them and now i have no fears that anything could happen because of them because it did and if i didn't get rid of them being harassed and stalked on a game i play would've been so much worse. Not being on them prevents anyone from trying anything or so much as thinking about me it prevents too easy access to us and they'll appeal to your pride and ego to keep yourself trapped into it all but you have to put it aside and do what you've got to in order to keep yourself safe.
We can help ourselves by removing ourselves from these sites it was all so much better back in the 1990s and before where all we had was a telephone and some pen and paper and we didn't feel the need to tell anyone anything. I went back to doing a few things the way i did them then and you'll see that the only reason people are on social media is because of peer pressures and maybe for work or school but primarily peer pressures.
But there is no strict measures against peer pressures when there should be and even when people use it for specific purposes they allow people to form cliques and that's when things start to happen. So we have to set those measures for ourselves and there are multiple options to do that if you really do need to use social media use whatever options available whether disabling notifications checking manually to preventing yourself being automatically added to group chats use it because it'll save you a lot of issues. You have to keep it to only using it for a very specific purposes for yourself if you use it for a chat meeting only use it for that then log off keep it strict because there are coworkers on it and not all of them can be trusted.
Working on it ... people do these things cause it's free once they pay things change trust me I swear in god's name I will make it true
@Fosterh-b7l horrible and sickness
Psychological services feed off both the perpetrator and victim, You get told to get therapy to get out of the situation, yet services who already counsel the stalker have no accountability loop or any desire to engage their patient in a discussion around the behaviour you try to report to them. Women are told "safety Plan" Perpetrators are not provided with a behavioural change plan....
Yes, I am working on boundaries and trying not to think about the behavior I witness periodically. Like all of this would just go away if I gaslight myself into ignoring behavior. The stalker doesn't go to the doctor or therapy, he is not held accountable for anything and is emboldened in his fantasy. So I have to pretend I am not bothered as I wait for what he will get away with next. They know it's wrong though because of how sneaky they do things to avoid getting law involved.
@@emilysnyder4857 Hope your ok. Stay in touch if you like and we can help each other. I have been googling women safety courses which may be more relevant. Paying for a security guard or having a dog can help. I am going away for at least a few days from next week etc.
that is just it, i;ll tell you this, stay dangerous! 🙏📿 prayer is ur strongest weapon the universe know ur heart
I used to live in Los Angeles, which has the toughest stalking laws on the planet, but also ran up against the problem that the police aren’t trained to deal with stalking. My stalker literally ruined my life and ran me out of the state. The police were like, “Filming you isn’t against the law.” And “ How do you know it was her that slashed your tires?” The police are useless.
Police don't really help victims
MKUltra Mind control and hypnosis.
Hi. I am a fan. However, this video is unwatchable due to the imbalance of audio levels.
This could be easily resolved either within your video editor or with a separate audio editor.
Thanks.
Your talking about levels of stalking, don't try to defend stalkers who aren;t physical, mental stalking has a physical effect on people, folowing people has a mental effect which causes physical stress, lack of motivation, depression, hopelessness and all sorts of physically diminishing effects.
Stalking is a heinous heinous crime. Next to Court perjury, fraud, and assault.
Karma is real 🤷🏿♀️ they are delusional & spend all day writing someone else’s story but left their demise out of it.
It is the same here in New York… the legal system is not up to date with a criminal behavior that has to do with an abuse committed by mentally ill people… i’m going through this cycle with one sociopath/stalker and it’s beyond what one can comprehend and do. 😢… unless a tangible crime is committed, most of time authorities do absolutely nothing and even refuse to punish the “criminal”. As if psychological abuse that sociopaths can inflict is not on the same “level” as physical violence… it is horrible. Also “my” stalker is a definition of a pathological narcissist…. Nowhere is said narcissists won’t be stalking 😅
Hello fellow New Yorker 🙋 You are spot on with everything.
The police do nothing. Victims all over hear the same things, how the police cannot do anything and in my case it was dismissed as a neighbour dispute. 6 yrs now I am under constant surveillance, followed where ever I go, the verbal abuse when I leave my home, go to my garage, threats to me and my pets, cameras pointed into my home, damage to my home, assault, etc. All caught on video as he has done something under each window there is CCTV all around my home and I have a body camera. I make sure I never react in hopes of deescalating the situation. Getting a solicitor to start an injunction resulted in the police threatening the solicitor with arrest for harassing my stalker. You quickly understand there is nothing the stalker will do that the police will do anything about. I have told everyone: family, friends, co workers, that if something happens to me it's not an accident. This ruins your life. I wish I had you Isla with me when I report the stalking to the police. The police believe my stalker who says I'm stalking him despite all the evidence and incidents occurring all on my normal routes/places and home.
Your story hits home, very sorry about your situation and you're absolutely right about these weirdos and their behaviors affecting us in different ways. Well in my case, it took a series of recordings overtime and speaking to a Sargent to help me with my situation. The cops who shown up to my home before seemed to believe my narcissistic neighbor and it was very upsetting. I spoke with a Sargent from my local police and that's been a help. In my experience complaints especially involving harassment and stalking are taken way more seriously when a Sargent is involved perhaps you may want to try that too. Maybe it may be a help to you. After 4 years of constant harassment by my neighbors and several cops, I now have a protective order against neighbor. It's taken 4 years to get one sadly and it doesn't necessarily stop the psycho from harassing me. My neighbor still seeks out even with order of protection in place but she does that through 3rd parties like her children and boyfriend now involved creating havoc in my life without reason. Best way to completely get a piece of mind is no contact and possibly moving without a trace. These narcs are crazy of crazies it's pathetic!
This is frightening!! My friend is going through something frighteningly similar! The Police haven’t helped her at all!! In fact ‘ignoring’ her. She feels like she’s going crazy! Its been going on for YEARS! But now he’s hijacked her phone, social media and home cameras so the cameras are turned onto her. Listening to her phone calls, then displaying evidence of the subject of her calls by putting signs up in their car??
@@VeeBee81 It amazes me how these scumbags have so much free time to do harm, you wonder with some people! Tell your neighbor to invest in outdoor cameras if not done already. Document document document!
Thanks for highlighting stalking issues and raising awareness 🙏. It is much appreciated. Your video is great. It is really informative and straight to the point.
Was the police officer a misogynist, or was he gullible and easily taken in by charm? Both could be true - and misogynists will always side with the man so he needn't be very charming, but that's how narcissists get away with abuse, isn't it? They charm everyone not the current victim.
It's mainly about getting that promised hefty retirement pension which a lot of them aren't actually getting any more they've just jiffed them out of it here in the UK which was already a con because most people won't even be able to stay in the job for 10 years because it messes them up so much even if they were already messed up when they joined and jobs like that attract narcissists, but they still believe they could make it.
They have to keep getting prompted to get it though so you can see why they're always trying to but you can guess how many make it that far, the same thing is happening in the medical and teaching industries too.
I can so relate to her❤. I had to leave my home and put it for sale due to stalking, harassment and constant surveillance. It was easy for them to hack my devices as i lived next door. It did not end there...story to be told at a later time. This individual is a typical case of predatory stalker. He takes pleasure by intimidating and dominating. It is his way of life however in my case he never succeeded 😊
Girl bye
They do in the USA also the police dismiss it and think the woman is overreacting. It's not a big deal. They are not only not trauma-informed but they also re-victimize the woman. The police won't take it as a crime and even in court, in my case, allow the woman's reputation down. In my case, they made it out as if I didn't have the right to break-up with him without discussing it with him.
It's still happening. I tell more and more people about it, I write about it and post it so that it is publically known what is going on. Thanks for this. post! Great information!
The ways to address these ppl are extremely difficult to enact if your stalker is a work colleague with decades of seniority over you. Ugh.
I have/am done ALL these ‘tips’ -Despite multiple violations of my Order of Protection, my stalker has violated so many times, I have moved, changed my job, my son’s school 2x & he still won’t stop. He’s destroying my life & nothing I can do.
My neighbor/stalker admitted to the police everything he did. He admitted to sending obscene texts and accosting me whenever I left my house. The police declined to press charges because "his name will be put in the paper" and also the village has to pay for every case prosecuted. So it just wasn't worth it to "law enforcement" (I have to laugh at that term). When police acknowledge you have been victimized and yet refuse to help, there's little recourse left for the victim.
I am being badly stalked by a group of criminals in the UK and another in USA bc of being a public victim. It has been the worst experience of my life.
Same here. The crooks are hacking my phone right now. Also, Blocking me from every turn. Following me everyday. Just won't leave me alone. Dress in disguise so won't get discovered. But, they leave trails every time.
I have a TRIO of stalkers and harassers within my community. So much for "loving your neighbour as yourself"...but they aren't Christian, and that speaks volumes regarding what the Bible says and what the world says about "mental health issues"...As my personal and most current stalkers/harassers have been doing such to me for several years now...to the point of having dead animals found on my property amongst other "items" and traces of such, to which I do not want to post exact details of here...not sure if these people are trying to intimidate me or they are just trying "scare tactics"...as wolves always come in packs. They are never just ONE individual, they are many. But most victims only "see" one individual who does the actual "physical foot work" so to speak. The rest of them hide behind their computers or phones and do that type of "foot work"...like texting, harassing, gas lighting, spamming, hacking, theft, ID theft, scams, doxing, messaging of another sort etc... on social media accounts of many kinds, to which I also have been victim to.
SICK AND TIRED OF THEM!
Love thy neighbour means obey the law, that's clearly something they struggle doing!
I sometimes wonder how much my "Christian Values" are what attracted the stalker to begin with. I checked on him a few weeks after his Mom died because he had no visitors and was clearly abandoned by family. In time I became aware of the reasons why he had no other connections. But it's done a real number on me now that I have been coping with their stalking over a year. I am definitely not qualified to help here and regret getting involved... In fact I think he was provoked when I told him I don't watch horror movies because God told me a long time ago not to. This person watches horror movies all the time and I think he didn't like my opinion about his favorite slasher films. So now he is an actor in some stalker movie of his own. I feel like it's a spiritual battle with people who stalk someone. Like they are targeting you for trying to be a decent person.
Fight stalking.....My privacy has been compromised for 11+ years using technology and devices. Since I have no way to prove it, the bastards continue to do so with impunity. ( Czech Rep. )
So many people refuse to take themselves off social media even when they know that's the problem, get yourself off them love they aren't worth the time and there's already laws coming into effect that nobody under 16 can use social media and for schools to stop any phones being on the premises or taken from them before class because of how addictive social media is. Once you get used to them it seems your life will change too much if you aren't on them but it doesn't it's just one less site to be on.
Keep yourself secure too don't slack off on security change passwords on all the most important sites every 2 months at least, i got lazy and they just get in no matter how big you make your password it's like they're just let in if you don't change it. Keep it all clean and safe too and only stick to official sources don't use any mods or custom content just use the game vanilla and you'll be completely save.
@@Harteo3917what pisses me off is I was not on it on any of that everything I was doing buy paper, but I do think people are getting pissed off about it everyone wants email this that I can't wait to change it all one more time for good and I am not giving it out, hardly
You know the crazy thing is the whole reason I was like the only one not on Facebook from the start of it was because of getting stalked in the past in the first place, this has been the worst distress!
They won't be able to if you make sure to reset or reinstall every device you have don't even back anything up because it's all compromised now just reset and clean reinstall. Change passwords on everything too and make sure all sites you use has a seperate login don't use any of your accounts to login to things.
@@Leannot35 Yeah i stopped being on any of them and then i got terribly harassed and stalked in an online game which only proved why it's the best decision because if i was still on them they would have found me on them too. I think i'm still having some problems with a girl back in high school who showed some creepy behaviors like 15 years ago now because weird she found me on twitter right before it started to happen, how i have no idea or how she knew which was my characters in the game.
All i know is the situation would've been 100 times worse if i didn't leave them all right before that because they would've harassed and stalked me on there too, then they would've saved me pictures and spread them around, then probably tried to find out where i live. Thankfully not being on them provided no clues to anything.
I already had to go through this in my past, but it is much more tiring when you're older, and seems harder
Im 61 yrs old ....and being gang stalked
I'm currently being stalked and have no clue who they even are. I'm a male 31and it's a group of guys all riding in the same pickup. They follow me every day when I leave for work (I've made purposeful turns and u-turns to be sure they were actually following me), they stop about a block away from my house just screaming shit at me (can't tell what though they're too far away), and they drive by my house really slowly at 3am every single night (I have cameras). Even with all the photos and videos nobody will believe me because I have a penis. Do you have any advice for me? I know if anything goes down I have the right to self defense (I'm in the US) but I'd rather it not get to that point. But all it's going to take is them finally trying to jump me or do whatever they're following me for and I wouldn't stand a chance one vs 4-5 people. Idk what to do at this point beyond be extremely cautious and watch my back
Keep collecting all evidence get cameras and use your phone when out and about to record and document times and dates then rename each video with the dates and times, then organize your videos according to location. You'll have to be persistent with it for several months so you can record them showing up multiple times and following you multiple times make an absolutely thorough file on them don't cheap out and win because they're giving you no choice.
Don't so much as talk to them just let their behavior speak for itself and when you hand in the evidence they'll see from the videos they're the only people doing things. I had to do all this on an online game and i even tricked them by staying at a location i normally don't go to and the guy mainly responsible for sending people after me kept showing up every few months and he only lasted 1 month before he did. He did this whenever he knew he was losing me and was about to start things again after a few weeks of going silent so that i'd relax so he could maximize his effect.
He just stood there pretending he was doing nothing but it was the very fact he showed up where i was even when he has other places to go and stood his character as close to mine as he could even on my new account creepy. You have to catch them out on these things too because they can't disprove they weren't doing anything because of the mere fact they kept showing up after you've been making it clear you want nothing to do with them. Make sure to keep a copy of the file somewhere because you don't want anyone going on your phone and deleting all the evidence.
Shit,I keep thinking no one was respectful of me n I'm getting stalked cause I do not have a penis...so funny you said that,cause I kept thinking if I had money or something else.. then this would stop .but I see it's just the people doing this is narcissistic n we're not .
Too nice IS TOO NICE. TRUST. IT.
Hello, I believe that I am being gang stalked by my neighbors and employer. I moved into a new home back in 2022 with my siblings and things seem to be going good. After moving into my new home, I transferred to a different department within the organization where I work. I enjoyed my new position and was excited to learn new skills. I believe things went wrong when the empty house next door just randomly had a screaming man on the porch. It was late at night and his yelling was so loud it woke us up. We thought it was a homeless man/ squatter because the house had been empty for a while after a crew had been fixing it some months after we moved in. We are new to the area and didn’t know anyone in this city. After the first night of him yelling, we did not hear anything else for a bit until they moved in the next year. Every other night there was yelling and screaming, banging, or him arguing with his female friend late at night. He would be burning things at night to were the neighbors noticed him doing the same thing. He also had a car wash which was okay, I had no issues until he started making mud puddles in the yard due to his car wash. One day my mom told me the neighbor had asked her to put a rock in a hole that was in the yard which she replied that she would ask me because she did not live with us. The next day I guess he felt he did not have to ask me and did it anyway. I went out and asked him to move it because I wanted to put dirt in the hole instead of having a dangerous rock there. He said he would move it but never did. I believe after calling the city the one time, that's when he started looking in our windows and telling neighbors things about us. I believe there was someone that worked for the city who told him that we called because I heard him talking about who called referring to us. After that I did not feel safe in my neighborhood because the neighbor would tell everyone that we called but when I tried to talk with him about the issue he was not nice. He would say things like “I am not letting a young bit@% run me.” After that I knew he was not a person that was safe to talk to. Just the constant yelling all hours of the night was torture and on top of him recruiting other friends//neighbors to taunt us by standing in the yard to see if I would come out and say something to them but I was told to ignore them. After a few times of noticing him looking in the window I always was very cautious of him. Ive even caught him mocking/bully me as I walked down the street like doing things behind my back and rally neighbors to name us as snitches of the neighborhood. When this neighbor finally moved out we had some peace for a bit until new neighbors moved in and I noticed they would say things about us being snitches without us ever being introduced to each other. After that, I knew something was strange when I would hear the new neighbors talking about us like we were just watching them. I remember I had asked their kids to not play in the mulch bed around the tree in our yard, I’m not sure what the kids told their parents but they were upset about me telling them that and telling other neighbors like I was yelling at their kids. After that day I would hear little reference about me and my family and them saying things that we did or said. I was sitting in my room one day and heard a mans voice say something in reference to me but didn’t think anything of it. One day I text something on my computer and pointed it to the mirror and heard which I believe was my first neighbor who came out and told others whet I typed on my computer. I knew after that someone had place listening devices/cameras in our home and had been spying on us. As a child Ive always had really good hearing which I believe is due to my terrible eyesight. I can sometimes hear conversations in other rooms or far away. If I don’t feel safe, I make sure I am very aware of my surroundings. One night while sitting in my living room I overhear the neighbor having a conversation with someone reading my health information in my Mychart. After I heard that I called my supervisor and told her that I did not feel safe in my home. I just did not know who to call and I also work from home and heard them viewing my computer screen while working from home scheduling patients. I called off from work for about almost a month due to knowing my computer was being screen recorded. After noticing my family was being watched, I was able to hear them through the listening devices placed in our home. I do believe there are people within the health organization where I work that are giving people access to my phone, work computer etc.. Ive also noticed that they have hacked into my social media accounts and have been stalking my friends list to befriend some of my social media friends. I also have been labeled as being a spy due to the country I served as a volunteer. Ive heard them post personal videos of me and my family on certain websites making it visible for others to see. My first day going back to work I can hear others talking about me dealing with a mental health issue. When I was in the hospital, I could hear them watching me and other employees saying how much they hated me and calling me a spy. I was on my way to the YMCA to take a shower because I was tired of being watched when using the bathroom and taking showers. I did not take a shower for a week because I was tired of it. I ended up going to my doctor office because my job had sent paperwork for me to fill out due to me calling off. I’ve already expressed to my sister about what was going on but she just did not believe me. I believe the information I was telling her was scaring her and she wanted to due what was best for me ; so she recommended I see a psychiatrist. I ended up going to the psych ward for a few days and still heard them spying on me inside the behavior health unit. I even heard employees saying terrible things about me and also putting things in my food, or spitting in my water. It got intense when I heard the name of the person who was in my Mychart and took a screenshot of the person name. Everywhere I go it’s like people know me. I went to a festival not too long ago and I got a boba tea, I believe the person put bleach in my boba tea because I heard say she will make it extra sweet. I can’t do anything because whatever I think, they can hear every thought in my brain. I believe my employer may have hired neighbors to stalk me and my family or me and my family are being targeted for evil reasons maybe sex/organ trafficking…. I hear my neighbors calling everyone I know ruining my reputation and preventing me from moving or making me the odd person out at my new employment. They have made friends with family members or people from my childhood to join them.They track every Lyft or Uber. i don’t trust people anymore and have to take medication for anxiety and depression due to this. I don’t have anyone to talk to so I am putting what I have been going through on here. I hear everything and try to protect my family the best way I know how. I believe everyone knows about my family and we are being put on display for the pleasure of other evil people to make our life difficult. I hate that I moved in this neighborhood and by me thinking I could tell someone what was going on, now I have to hear evil things being said or done to me and my family. I know this post is all over the place but I am typing it out because I am not able to do anything because I am being monitored all day every day.
A female neighbor stalker is what I have.
It’s terrifying.
She got renewed in the lease, and she now thinks the landlord sided with her.
My current situation; best advice to you is to document document document however some are slick and know how to trigger their victims low key. Narcs are the ultimate low lives real talk!
I have stalkers getting people to repeat shit I talk about as if it’s supposed to make them look anything but delusional & pressed. Idk why they can’t just leave me tf alone they are straight up irritating
@@haitiqueen0119they really don’t have shit better to do with themselves
@@eyeamphree3337 You're not kidding- I've come to that realization already. It's very sad and all too common out here. People you don't give a damn about and show it are drawn to you. Makes no sense 🤷
Yes women are definitely stalkers. It’s super creepy when they do it
The agencies are involved... that what most people dont understand...
I have one now and have had them before. Mostly men that are neighbors. The current one is a property manager and has sent me a text message addressing himself as Daddy in the office. Now he is parked right in front of my condo right in my front door.he is married. I am a single woman. I've only had one conversation with this creep. There seem to be a lot of these types in society today. I'm so tired of it
I reported it I had a witness ,I moved to several states I changed my name and still fighting , it has taken its toll on me I'm angry all the time I have been diagnosed with PTSD, this is a fricking nightmare. She has the worst of the situation and the Courts will say move, how many times do you need to move?
I’m not moving. They want to run you around and scatter you.
None 🤷🏿♀️
So many people say their stalkers keep finding them and that's being most likely you're being tracked either on your car, an object they planted, or something they put on one of your household devices. They don't keep their accounts safe either and keep using the app feature to login to stuff that isn't safe at all, you have to learn how to keep completely secure and don't put the slightest bit of information about yourself online don't even give clues in usernames use generated ones.
I recently made a new youtube because of problems i had on a game and they knew my last one as you can tell completely made up name lol i just choose one i like nobody even knows if i'm male or female not on here not on anything zip all and it's kept me safe.
I’m currently dealing with this, I barely even know this guy, he’s relentless and it’s been over a year, I have no idea where he gets the energy and motivation for this , I’m exhausted
They’re obsessed & delusional
Excellent video. There should be community classes online safety like not using your email or mobile phone number for anything online, that is easily hacked and is basically public, even in email.
Hi Dr Sohom, is the only/main difference between narcissism and psychopathy the levels of empathy shown by the individual i.e would this be the defining metric used to differentiate between the two? Could a simple definition for a Lehman such as myself be that a narcissist can show empathy after the fact and a psychopath is born without the ability to empathise?
Check out my video on narcissist versus psychopath. It has all the answers you seek, traveller
@@APsychForSoreMinds will do, Ty👍🏻
I was stalked by a jealous boyfriend in my early 20's.
He turned manipulative and violent.
I have the highest level of being staked. She is tracking my phone and installed some tracking devices in my vehicle, she’s using other people, most likely paying them, she has them CONSTANTLY watching me and it’s not just one person is watching it’s multiple people are watching. She got me arrested for nothing three times. I think nobody ever has been stalked to that degree. I got the RV and she installed the tracking device (which is most likely as small as a Tile tracker) and she has people CONSTANTLY following me everywhere 24/7. This is a pure INSANITY, I’m going crazy myself already, it’s a living hell. She even found connections with the cops and using them to lock me up.
IN Australia, staying at a family members property and it started day one after I had been doing a property condition report and looked at something under the carport - 2 wood beams that went through to the other side. I was called names, then I was called a very horrible name. Then there were notes in the door etc and an incident at the front door. My phone camera interfered with and someone in my kitchen, then creepy out near the side gate holding his phone up to take an image of me - during the time my phone was stuffed with. Followed cyber security advise and went to a tech, techy did not know enough to understand the phone hacking and said it was the hard drive. It was not. My. phone worked properly the next morning. I spent money going away and staying away for days and weeks. I got work and was about to settle down to work and then he just tapped on the window at the time I had to get up... It was weird and created distress, then the person at the reception desk was rude when. I arrived and someone else .... I resigned from my job with a trauma head ache and curled up in bed that afternoon acknowledged psychological damage from my past relationship that started from an assault.....
Someone was texting me last night just out of the blue, very alarming things, how they saw me in my neighborhood taking out the trash! I have no idea who it was and how they got my phone number!!! I called the police and got a female officer and she was very responsive, she told me this could be the beginning of something or maybe just a one time thing! I’m pretty upset not knowing what to expect…
My stalker literally stopped because I asked him to 😳 I wasn’t expecting it to work but I told him that he was making me very uncomfortable and that I needed him to stop and he said that it would pain him to do so but he would do it for me 😳 I’ve never seen him since! Might be worth trying in the early stages for anyone else struggling with this, though some will just be determined to continue no matter what unfortunately. Perhaps worth trying to directly communicate if it’s safe to though.
It's the scariest thing I've ever been through. I'm afraid to like anything on social media. He stalked everything I liked. Sent me murder videos. He had hundreds of fake profiles. Im afraid to go to certain pages because I don't know if they are safe.
I’ve been stalked since 1988 from one lad in my year! Back then it was laughed off! Then when left school one time he’s ringing me 20/30 times a day, he’s stalked on and off all my life to one point he got a job at my work!! Past couple of years ago… I still see him where I live and have a panic if I see him in the shop. Over 30 plus years I’ve lived with it.
I'm under stalking since june 2024, after a man who think he is powerful was cursed me at my work place ,i was working in a condominium that man is a resident. Even though i moved to another state, I'm still under stalking ,but I'm praying God and stay vigilant
Why are stalking incidents increasing?
Great question, I’d love to hear from the experts.
My opinion (from experience) is some stalking is financially motivated.
@@pearpoyep they’re broke
I am in Oregon, and my police have not done anything AT ALL for me. I have 6 years of documentation, 6 years of stalking...now the stalker has shot over my property (on video, no less).
Cops won't take a stalking report, despite a law being on the books. I have spent hours trying to get them to take a report, but nope.
I'm literally going to have to catch a bullet before they do anything...and that's not ok.
What do I do? To whom fo I turn???
So very sorry! Been there and suffered that! Talk about being alone. I am praying to the heavens you are able to move and far away! Best of luck and blessings your way 🙏
I’m stressed from this…
Thank you ❤
U know it’s bad when they move in right next to you , I’ve had it happen to me 🙄 and it absolutely 💯 gave me severe anxiety.
Thankfully she got evicted within 4-5 months of living next door
I was bullied by everyone due to the stalker wacko bullshit.
I have been stalked for several years. The Palo Alto police and dispatch are complicit with the stalker. I was brutally assaulted by a police clerk who had case my vehicle on 5/9/24. I lost over 2 liters of blood and the police refused to take my report. They were condescending, gaslighting and dismissive while I was bleeding out in the ambulance.
Then on 07/17 someone broke in and sexually assaulted me. The police harassed me, gaslighting and harassing me for the nine hours I was in the hospital.
Meanwhile someone broke into my vehicle and stole a bunch of my clothing and took a tool and smashed up the outside of the vehicle.
Police still have not taken my complaints seriously.
*cased
The Palo Alto Police don’t take it seriously even though it has been extremely violent, dangerous and aggressive.
I had my wallet and identification stole in December 2020, I went with a friend to the police station and the Palo Alto police refused to take a report.
Unfortunately several Palo Alto police and emergency dispatchers ARE criminals and have no interest for public safety. They only care about protecting criminals and I have documented the dispatchers and officers committing multiple infractions and felonies. The common one is 136.1 intimidated and harassment of a victim or witness to a crime. They have repeatedly exploited the legal system and violated the law and policy for police.
They seem to have paid several people to harass me at a nearby business. The guy in the red truck CA plates 8xxx596 he harasses me nearly every night. I rarely call the police because they pay this guy to harass me. And they gaslight me. They have sprayed many poisonous chemicals on my vehicle, spray my roof with a drone pair, and other excessive insane stalking behaviors. It sounds crazy because They Are.
I have caught this guy in the act of cutting the metal on my vehicle. There are cameras and the police know. They are in on it.
I don’t need mental help, I need the police to not be patsy criminals.
My oldest daughter has had a guy stalking her for 7 yrs literally a couple years after high school.
She’s getting married to my grandson’s dad and they’ve been together eight years so he’s been there from the beginning of all of this starting and at first he believed that she was out there in the streets doing all these things this guy was saying.
I told him this dude never has any photos of her doing anything no photos of them together.
He’ll go away a couple of months then he’s back. I think the longest he disappeared was nine months and then he came back.
The last time he sent something to her sister and I don’t even know how he got her phone number, but I don’t think he knows it’s her sister.
He thinks she just a girl friend
Because he sent her a video from three years ago and it’s been edited her and her sisters were all at a party dancing together, but in this video, she’s dancing with a guy, but you can’t see the guy face.
All of them were there together, so they know that there was no guy dancing. They were dancing together.
My daughter never posted anything and it was the sister who had the video. But he has a snippet of the video and somehow he put some dude with no face in it dancing behind her.
Her sister lives in a whole otherstate and has never been here.
Like we know the original video was 3 yrs ago and there’s no guy in it just the girls.
She stays armed with her concealed weapon
She does weapon training. She’s always aware of her surroundings and it’s just crazy that it’s been going on this long.
Police can’t do anything because she can’t prove exactly who it is and even if she could, she has prove that they’re the ones sending all the messages and getting the numbers
I get stalkers all the time, at least two twice a month that I know of, at first it was mostly men but now! It's both men! Women! And couples
@Fosterh-b7l I'm sure you do, it's honestly getting out of hand
What to do when stalked by complete strangers 24/7 everywhere and all the time. It's like strangers have access to your phone calls, texts, emails, online calender, know everything.
Being stalked terifying it happened to me it ruins your life
Can you please talk about if a woman has a big dog ( like a protection/guard dog) how it can decrease the chance of any type of assault by men , like how it change there thinking ? Thank you in advance 🙏
It wont. Especially if they are a predator type. They simply kill any animals you leave outside your home :(
Im.going through this buy for me it's an entire group of people and one of them.made a voodo doll and the one guy is a police officer .I'm going to drop names maybe you can suggest
Some of this is so very true! Like beyond for real true. Sketchy of new people they could work for the stalker! The system dose not protect you! It's the victim who's life gets turned upside down! It's all bad and sad for the victims and almost nothing is disrupted to the guilty malicious stalker/abuser. The court system is actually the stalkers friend if you share a child, the courts hand the victims over on a golden platter!!! The stalker disregards protection orders and clear the area before police arrive and since they are not there any more the police do nothing but say well if they come back give us a call again! Like your ganna end up dead before the system protects you!!! 1 year and you have to fight for another one. Needless to say this isn't my real name! I left my abuser in 2018 and in 2024, I still have to look over my shoulders, question people new and old and their intentions and if they work for the stalker!! Worry about every move I make vandalism to my vehicle, slander on my name and character! Like this shit isn't ok!!! 😢 seems I get to live like this forever! Constant fear, anxiety, panic attacks, distress! It all really takes a toll on the victims!! 😢
I have been gangstalked twice. Jesus saved me both times. Glory to Jesus✝️
I have a stalker and it’s scary because I don’t know who they are and they randomly stopped putting messages by my car and they have been peaking in that’s when I knew someone was stalking me
Yes it can be a tricky one when they are a neighboor because you want to fit in and get on with them. So many clips on u-tube dont give you practical tips so THANK-U 4 this. If I was her I probably would have bought myself a big beautiful protective dog. Yes narcissists feed on positive and negative attention. ❤ best to not say anything to them. There is this attitude amongst cops that oh its just a "domestic" which undermines the psychological b.s people are putting up with day in and day out. Try and stay safe people. 🙏 🤲 ❤
Her story is so similar to mine. The police do not take it seriously and the stalker I believe is paying off some of them. I had a young officer tell me about the stalker that he is so nice and polite. Clearly, this officer was young and dumb. I guess it’s all around the world in that police force is not trained regarding stalker behavior.
Same thing happened to me when we went to court: he tried to make it like I was stalking him. He lies at the drop of a hat about everything and anything.
I pray that this blows up in his face. I’m praying for justice. I also have to move just like she had to.
I hope he picks the wrong person to mess with one day and finally gets what he deserves. I hope he ends up in jail for the rest of his life.
The five things you need if you are being seriously stalked
1. Friends like Smith and Wesson
2, kevlar
3. Bear Spay
4. Large breed aggressive dog
5. Attitude
thank you Das
My stalker is the 👮
That's dangerous. Even if you move they can look up your driver's license and get the new address 😮
They are on every level of our govt, including doctors, therapists, EMT;s,lawyers, and yes all police and state cops, not all are stalkers, but they do know about the program.
@@patl3897 💯
So sorry 😞 my ex-husband stalked me while we were married and paid people to follow me too; he knew police 👮 👮♂️ officers in high ranking so he got away with a lot plus did them favors they were always buddies with him so even when I reported him, I was not believed but they arrested him anyways and we divorced in 2016. Then in 2019 I married another covert narcissist who also stalked me and almost made me end my own life at a hotel room we stayed at for a business event in Maryland. Only by the grace of God, I managed to leave that toxic marriage and I will never allow another man to abuse me like that! Self-love and self-respect will not allow you to let these men abuse you! Develop self-love so you never let anyone abuse you! See the red flags 🚩 🚩 or learn them so you recognize them right away when you start a new relationship!
We had a stalker who was deemed incompetent by the judge and was told to have patience if she tries to contact us again!
Yup. Dealing with this now with a neighbor. Called the cops and the guy had an answer for everything and the police seemed to believe him and I looked like the crazy one, like she was saying.
Had a stalker/ in law that was in my husband’s business hating on his ex wife when they were married. Moved into my apartment complex and was attacking my marriage, coming to my house regularly from early morning exex . Psychos are very crafty, pressing predators.
I’m a stalker, or was at least in 2011. It was over some freshman girl I met in high school. I was a senior and had 3 friends(first time I had close friends like that). I met her in a music class(was supposed to take French 3 instead). I was for the most part socially awkward. I had social anxiety but I wasn’t diagnosed with anything else at the time. I only talked to her a couple times in person but I talked more to her on Facebook. It wasn’t until after I graduated when I first became aggressive. She posted something about her ex who was in Texas, probably at the time. She said her summer wasn’t so boring when she had her ex to talk to. When I first saw that on her feed, I went CRAZY. I sent her a long message pretty much threats. You know, like if I see her again, I would delete them. I went to a mental hospital because I told my therapist what I wanted to do to her. A few days later after she had blocked me, I pretended to be someone else and added her as a friend so I could see what she was posting. I saw one message on her feed that said, “haha yesterday was his brain damage”. That ticked me off too. I may still very well be a stalker because I still see what she’s doing online. Her friends know about me, too. I don’t know why I keep torturing myself by keeping her in my head. I think one reason would be that I want to see if she has a boyfriend. I think I want that anger so I could use to justify what I would do. She gave me a few chance to be friends with her again but she would always throw that first message I sent to her back in my face about how I wanted to delete her. I told my friends and some of hers about what I said. They were wondering why in the heck I would say that. I can’t tell you what I would do if I see her again. I know it’s bad but I feel like I just gotta know if she has a bf or not. I went to the mental hospital again this year but this time, because I wanted to delete myself. I still do. I want to save enough pills so I can delete already. I do need help but I think it could only get bad from here. I’d be lying to you if I said I would stop stalking right now. If you want me to be put down, please give me the medication to do it my way. That’s the only positive I think could come from this because men’s mental health is treated as a joke, so just let me go out my own way. The good in me is trying to warn people to do something now before it’s too late.
Dr have you ever heard of a person being hired to stalk on behalf of someone else?
For instance, when you no longer respond to the fake profiles (changed SM settings)
So my ‘hired’ stalker was actually an actor, pretending to want a relationship with me, things didnt add up, he had 2 phones, he kept going to the loo, coming back with more questions.
When messaging and phoning me he was asking things that related to a previous stalker who had done an SA on me at work. The real stalker got a warning from the GMC so cannot contact me direct-he is a very wealthy psychiatrist!
There is more I could tell you-any help would be much appreciated. Thanks
People often hire people to do semi criminal activities to full on criminal activities on the dark web.
Psychiatrist was stalking you? His goal is probably to make you “sound or appear” mentally ill. Either as a sadistic power tripper, some narcissistic “egotistical injury” he believes you caused, or to steal your assets or an inheritance.
@@pearpoyes it was all of the above
I plan to not respond, be silent, indifferent. As he is a "Intimacy seeker" type. Any response he craves.
People who overstep boundaries are masters at testing where they are. He had probably sussed out that she was a polite person and accommodating before he started climbing over her wall. If he had found the boundary was closer he would have slowly pushed it to that point til he got what he wanted
I feel like in this woman’s case there was a severe lack of empathy as well, hers of which was no doubt impaired by the stress of the situation too thereby harming her social reasoning problem solving ability; heck if I was a single gal and who knows what other prior experiences I have with guys and then yeah this dude next door right…. If there was a greater level of intelligent mentalizing aka that’s what I mean by empathy on this case from the cops that inevitably would have led to more assertive boundaries on there end this would have cleared up much better. I want to be mindful about what I say as a comment in response to this video overall out of respect for the woman involved. Understandably cops have a cognitive threshold for their caseload right, though in general I would say that the capacity for mentalization isn’t selected for enough as it pertains to cops for uniquely selecting for social problem solving. Great stuff again Sohom, inner peace to the woman and all around.
I'm in Japan, my ex-girlfriend has been stalking me and she has been watching my friends too. It's terrible
I am a TI and need help ! Somebody please😢
I understand everything shes talking about and can relate
I literally thought the man on Steph's Packed Lunch show was YOU!! Handsome buggers. 🙃 Your hair & outfit are almost identical, as well. ✅
Jesus God please somebody help me explanation mark this is no I can't do it anymore I cannot do this anymore I cannot it is not an appointment it is not an old friend this is a real hacker / Stalker.. I can't do this anymore he has been stalking me for a year I can't go online I can't do anything I can't have any apps I can't have anything and he's still here why won't he go away why I'm not important I don't have money what is going on I can't do this anymore I cannot not healthwise I can't I can't somebody please please help me no one will help me
Please get a grip. These are evil sobs trying to make you hysterical.
Girl bye nobody care about their goofy ass sitting around wasting their own time doing the most obvious lame shit. Let them crash out & fuq around n find out.
Stop being the victim, get out of the mindset you are in because this is just what he wants. He wants you, hurt, depressed, upset, weak, vaunerable, fearful, unhinged,. Stop thinking that he feels any empathy or has a conscience. His goal is CONTROL, and to cause you pain and suffering. If he knows he is succeeding then he is only going to do more. He wants to break you. Get mad, get pissed off and start thinking of mean things you can do to derail him. Do you know who it is? Is this happening on your phone or computer.? Easy turn the computer off shut it down. Get a laptop and start fresh, get another phone. Or leave them on but still get a laptop and new phone and use your old one letting hm think he is still screwing you up. Down load some rediculious apps, like stupid stuff or stuff that deals with men who hunt down cyber stalkers. Flip the game on him. Put stuff that you know he will see and call him out directly. "Hey stalker, this is for you and load a stupid song or commercial" then document every single incident in a timeline. Put up cameras to cover every part of your house and vehicle. Yes he is doing bad to you, but right now it's just things you can replace, it's just stuff. Protect yourself. He's doing this because he can, shut that door.
Could you make the sound quality of the video a little worse please? What's the audio equivalent of 'needs more jpeg'?
Stalked by Monterey CA sheriff. To whom can I complain?
Complain to the District Attorney then to the State Attorney General
Have i missed something? I don't see that it's embarrassing at all the have a stalker.
Know if you are under some sort of investigation. If so, they will do exactly what they want & get away with every sick bit of it. All I can do is plea the blood of the lamb, over my family, each & every one of us & suffer through the abuses, harassment etc
(my grammar hasn’t been the best just relaxing while texting on my phone my bad haha; undesirable autocorrects)
And I found it interesting that she said that stalking cases have almost tripled in the last decade and I have no doubt Sohom that you’ve correlated that to social media hey, yeah this digital sphere which is what I’m mindful about concerning the woman, it creates more delusions as people are not getting non-verbal and physically verbal direct feedback from each other. I feel like in this situation with the woman that’s obsessed with me, she relies more on non-verbals because she’s unable to mentalise which makes her obsessive thoughts worse as she tries to figure it out which is why yesterday I sensed this and just told her straight and she said she apologised if she overstepped any boundaries and then she just acted like she worshipped the ground I walked on and now I should just send her message and tell her I’m just a super regular ordinary dude that doesn’t deserve her respect haha. Peace Sohom, peace yal
@channel4 Why reference your support section at the end of the video, if you don't even have a 'stalking" section on your website... Please do better.
thanks.
Police dont take stalking seriousley my ex husband was very violent they did nothing when i was stalked
I would call the police but thats just waste of time justice saying barry and Valley to coast whos leaving itams like long logs and stones and kicking BALLs at me when i dealing with the stress of my very very ill mother in hosiptal am i a target or what or are gonna bye me a megabreak fast ❤😊😅
Police take abusers side in almost all countries saying that it's not in line with their training sounds iffy
I couldn't watch the video ..... terrible editing u talked over her story let her tell her story then talk thumbs down I found this frustrating to watch learned nothing
Have you stalked yet I know some like in your profession that is and sad to say I'm a targeted individual and have concrete proof been told there going to read of me ECT it's a federal program with some even congress has talked about it here in America but they can say so much because they don't want to scare the public
Audio is horrible and your constant interruptions prevented anyone from hearing her story. I have a stalker. Your "tips" are common knowledge to almost anyone who has a stalker. None of what you are saying makes any difference when women aren't taken seriously and things like restraining orders are not a deterrent--it's merely taken as a challenge by a delusional, dangerous stalker. You gave us no usable information beyond what most of us already know.
Didn't watch to the end. Pointless.
Very informative. Thank you.
However, video is on high speed, and it is very difficult to watch and to properly receive information. Especially if person is on the edge of nerves from stalking. It made me even more anxious to watch while to try and catch the meaning of what been said. Please try to speak slowlier and show videos in slower mode, to not elevate anxiety. Your viewers are not professionals to catch meaning of what you say in a half way 😁
Louisville KY lmpd. Official gang stalkers etc ..Diddy 😮
I don't think tip 4 is at all controversial. The more people looking out for you the better!