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To all the brothers and sisters who are facing hardship because of this situation, know that if you have repented sincerely to Allah, it is as if you never committed the sin. If you are an upright individual now, practicing, changed your ways etc then do not let your past hold you back. However, people today do not want to practise Islam fully because of whims and desires so be careful who you choose to marry. It is not permissble for someone to ask you about your past sins and it is not permissible for you to disclose them. If someone asks such a question, for both of your sakes, do not continue to consider them for marriage because it indicates this is a very important issue for them and for you, you shouldn't have to go through that type of questioning.
I think it may be best if the AMAU team turns off the comment section for this video. Seems like another one where brothers don't want to accept what is being said. Just like the "is it Sunnah to marry more than 1 wife" video.
Yes don’t ask her to expose her sins but tell her early on I’m a virgin and I want a virgin wife and this is one of my requirements and u have no need to expose anything but u should know I require this Mention this alongside ur other requirements like that she observes her 5 pillars and wears hijab etc This way he gets a virgin wife and she doesn’t expose her sin
Correct me if im wrong, so as a man I cannot ask my future spouse about her virginity and she can conceal it? If thats the case then I remain chaste as a virgin man yet my future spouse could be potentially non-virgin? us brothers are gonna get scammed for our mehr
Don’t worry Akhi, just state it as one of your dealbreakers when speaking to a potential spouse. Tell her that you don’t want a wife that has lost her chastity and has relationships in the past. Don’t forget to make dua and have firm faith that Allah will grant you a chaste spouse.
You have a right to ask and let her know its a deal breaker. She can either tell you or if she don't want to do that (and it may not be good for her reputation) she can deny you on other made up grounds. Whatever the case it is her duty not to accept your marriage proposal knowing that virginity is one of your conditions. The same applies to Men also. If a pure woman wants a pure man, and the woman puts forth that condition, the man must not marry her.
I may have misunderstood but did the sheikh just say make up an excuse for losing your virginity? Ie; lost it during a sport. In other words basically lie? Whoever has committed Zina I pray Allah forgives them but if someone states they only want a chaste spouse then make sure not to continue cause it’s going to destroy your marriage if it’s found out. Also, the use of virginity in this video was incorrect. The hymen does not determine a woman’s virginity, it’s determined by whether she’s had intercourse or not.
@@anonymousnoticer She can lie to protect her reputation but she cannot lie to deceive an individual into marriage. Meaning she will have to give any excuse to deny the proposal. Basically the only way it is permissible for her to get married to the Man is that she admits that she is not a virgin and the man drops his condition of virginity.
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Salaam ou aleikom, The audio of the poem at the intro, where can i find it?
When I see a new AMAU video I click so fast. May Allah reward everyone involved in this platform that is doing a huge service to the Ummah by the grace of Allah. Allahumma barik
subhaanAlllaah! this is such a huge issue in society today. May Allaah preserve Sheikh, this is a very relevant issue.
To all the brothers and sisters who are facing hardship because of this situation, know that if you have repented sincerely to Allah, it is as if you never committed the sin. If you are an upright individual now, practicing, changed your ways etc then do not let your past hold you back. However, people today do not want to practise Islam fully because of whims and desires so be careful who you choose to marry. It is not permissble for someone to ask you about your past sins and it is not permissible for you to disclose them. If someone asks such a question, for both of your sakes, do not continue to consider them for marriage because it indicates this is a very important issue for them and for you, you shouldn't have to go through that type of questioning.
the graphics, the audio. sound design
I think it may be best if the AMAU team turns off the comment section for this video.
Seems like another one where brothers don't want to accept what is being said. Just like the "is it Sunnah to marry more than 1 wife" video.
Allahu Musta'an. A very sad state of affairs where people don't want to accept the Haqq. May Allah forgive us.
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Yes don’t ask her to expose her sins but tell her early on I’m a virgin and I want a virgin wife and this is one of my requirements and u have no need to expose anything but u should know I require this
Mention this alongside ur other requirements like that she observes her 5 pillars and wears hijab etc
This way he gets a virgin wife and she doesn’t expose her sin
No you don't do that.
@ it’s my right to want a virgin wife . And it’s not haram I’m not asking her to expose her sins
Correct me if im wrong, so as a man I cannot ask my future spouse about her virginity and she can conceal it? If thats the case then I remain chaste as a virgin man yet my future spouse could be potentially non-virgin? us brothers are gonna get scammed for our mehr
Don’t worry Akhi, just state it as one of your dealbreakers when speaking to a potential spouse. Tell her that you don’t want a wife that has lost her chastity and has relationships in the past. Don’t forget to make dua and have firm faith that Allah will grant you a chaste spouse.
You have a right to ask and let her know its a deal breaker. She can either tell you or if she don't want to do that (and it may not be good for her reputation) she can deny you on other made up grounds. Whatever the case it is her duty not to accept your marriage proposal knowing that virginity is one of your conditions.
The same applies to Men also. If a pure woman wants a pure man, and the woman puts forth that condition, the man must not marry her.
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What a conversation
Allah Subxanahuu wa’ tacalaa informed us to not conceal sins who are you ?
@ we are literally told to conceal our sins who are you lool
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I may have misunderstood but did the sheikh just say make up an excuse for losing your virginity? Ie; lost it during a sport. In other words basically lie?
Whoever has committed Zina I pray Allah forgives them but if someone states they only want a chaste spouse then make sure not to continue cause it’s going to destroy your marriage if it’s found out.
Also, the use of virginity in this video was incorrect. The hymen does not determine a woman’s virginity, it’s determined by whether she’s had intercourse or not.
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Not just that, I man or woman can have a condition that the individual has not had sexual contact of any kind, not just intercourse.
Yes. In islam it's wajib to hide your sins. And lying is permissible in some cases.
@@ahmadfared1204 who are you to talk to the sheikh like that. What do you know about islam?
@@anonymousnoticer She can lie to protect her reputation but she cannot lie to deceive an individual into marriage. Meaning she will have to give any excuse to deny the proposal. Basically the only way it is permissible for her to get married to the Man is that she admits that she is not a virgin and the man drops his condition of virginity.