Nursing Home Drop-Off
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ธ.ค. 2022
- The plaintiff says after her father became ill, her aunt tricked him into going to a nursing home and left him there for two years. The plaintiff claims the defendant stole stimulus money from her ill father, so she’s suing her aunt for stolen money and emotional distress. The defendant alleges that the plaintiff failed to properly care for her father, and she’s countersuing for emotional distress.
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I can’t stand when the elders in the family think they can do whatever to the younger ones and think they can’t get called out on it.
Preach!!!
Welp...that's the way we've set it up. We teach kids out the womb that adults can never be wrong.
@@UncleDuTheWatchman yep. That's why I stopped that way of thinking with my kids. I let them know I'm wrong, take accountability and apologize.
It’s that and this lady is a thief. How her brother ever trusted her I’ll never understand.
Preach it
I knew I couldn't trust Auntie when I saw that baby hair going across her forehead 😅🤣
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And that faux furr
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I have an aunt like this. First one to leave the hospital when my grandma passed and cleaned out her house… then tried to take my dad off of life support (before my sister became his legal guardian), and he’s still here with us (alive and well, 8 years later).
Sad Black folks are like this... before my Mother died my siblings were taking things out of the home...so sad.
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@@Mimi-cg2cw Just Black folks?
So many family members like to cash in on death! My aunt does this .. but my Parents there are four of us.. we will not stand for the foolishness! Locks are currently getting changed and alarm code my sister and I will have all documents!!!
Wow!
Your own family will do you worse than a stranger. My God, that Aunt is lowdown smh. Stole the man's money to pay for a policy where she's named herself the beneficiary. Daughter needs to press charges.
Yep. It's called insurance fraud.
Happen to my dad. Nothing could be done he was married to my mom.
My dad always said, family will f**k you first
I absolutely agree.
#VULTURE
Yesss
The daughter kept her composure.. she did a wonderful job!!
80 with a braided lace front? Oh yeah, she trying to spend her fourth quarter balling out 😂😂😂😂
LMFAO
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Beyond sad and sickening, I believe everything the daughter said. She’s waiting to cash in on her brother’s death and she might just be the first to go.
Not if she can help it. Did you hear the daughter ask why she was feeding him solid foods when he’s not supposed to eat solids.
Amen! The leaning tree is not always the first to fall.
@@shundalee5669 Amen!!
@@shundalee5669mannnnnnn listennnnnn!!!
Maybe
The plaintiff brought tears to my eyes. She handled herself impeccably well and I believe everything she said.I know God will continue to bless her for the sacrifices she made for her father ❤
In Jesus Christ name amen 🙏🏽
Amen
I don't care for either of them.
Thats fruad
My mom died when I was 23. She was sick our entire childhood. My younger sister and I had to fight off our aunt's and uncles because they tried to take control of her affairs. Since I was the eldest child, I had to go to court and be awarded Executor of her estate because they were really trying to get her VA benefits, sell her house, the works. I didn't know much about any of this since I had just graduated college. Two days after I got the Executorship, they called me pissed off that I had ruined their plans.
Good for you
Hey water is thicker than blood
I would have gotten away with it if it wasn’t for you rotten kids !
I am glad the daughter won. She been through a lot losing her dad!
No matter your age, get your affairs in order NOW so family won't have to go through this!
Absolutely!
Exactly! I tell my parents this all the time. I dislike mess.
I agree. It's best to get your own insurance policy when you are well and pick your own beneficiaries. Sounds like dad was asking his sister to do things she wasn't authorized to do. Sadly, even if you want to help, it's best to let the spouse and/or children handle it. If think it's not being done properly, call a 3rd party.
AMEN 🎯🎯🎯
I’m so proud of the way JM drilled the defendant and asked her all the right questions to incriminate herself. As an older sibling I didn’t learn fast enough how that relationship becomes secondary to a spouse but especially kids. Look who is in court fighting FOR their Dad vs stealing. The Dad is wrong for ever being spiteful and switching his payee and power of attorney. Put your kids first always. This is elder abuse and I wish JM had brought that up because it’s a crime and the aunt needs to go to jail.
Elder abuse frfr,SMH😦
Thank you! Parents be so quick to put any and everybody over their kids but their kids are who they need *ALWAYS* .
Jail....exactly my thoughts too...
She's a fifth of the worst kind....her own
Family......
Her sort don't feel shame......probably been doing it for a long time.......
His sister stayed in his ear with lies and manipulation..its a shame.
The love of money is the root of all evil!
Money SOLVETH ALL things sayeth “the good book”
@@treshasstarr1513
Yeah, and I dont love money. But, I kind of agree with ya and wish somebody would give me some to validate that fact!😄😂😀🤣🤣😁😃
@@Lanie-sl9ne if u don’t love money it don’t love u either, u ain’t gon have none…..how are bills paid?🧐🧐🧐🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
See because I love money I attract it, it loves me back, and I’m not evil….it’s the LACK OF MONEY IS THE ROOT OF EVIL my dear
@@treshasstarr1513 period sis
The IRS was sending those checks to old address on file. They were even sending checks to deceased people. So it's a strong possibilty the aunt got her brothers money.
It is not a possibly. The aunt confirmed she received her brother's stimulus payments. Watch the video again.
She got the money on his behalf. She paid herself back, then she paid on an insurance policy that’s has her as the sole beneficiary.
@@K_Cole0128nd by law that would be correct. I work for SSA/SSI and if aunt showed proof that she paid out of pocket for father through that timeframe. Case closed, that’s how it goes.
@@angeleyes3386No😂😂
She confirmed she got the money cause she signed the paperwork to be his payee
This is the perfect example of why my mother taught her kids to stick together like glue and we have a great sibling relationships. As the oldest I am to split the difference after her funeral we have to agree on how that’s going to be done. She will never be in a nursing home because we are to take care of her. We have had trials and tribulations as a family but we always stick together and allow nothing to penetrate our relationship
This beautiful. I pray your family keeps that bond
I am so proud of my first cousins they take good care of my elderly aunt they all take care of her in their homes never a mess never ugly words to one another they always put her care first that's because they love her 💕💕💕
I have a large policy and I have 3 kids my son is the beneficiary but the money will be split between my 3 kids after my funeral. I also have an extensive gold jewelry collection .
@@1010QUEEN7we had an all she had was nieces and nephews and all looked after her until she died at 99 years old
@@cindyking1778 that's real love she was so blessed few people get a chance like that ❤❤❤
This ain’t nothing but pure evil. It’s always the ones who do NOTHING to care for a person who comes with their hand out when a person falls sick or passes.
This sneaky husband and wife been together so long they look alike 🤦🏾♀️ Don't let some of those Elders fool you... Some of them the older they get the greedier they get I have two Aunts like that.. got everything but still want everything and don't want you to have nothing
Sad asf
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It's the good thing the daughter found out now instead of being blindsided after the Dads death. Hope she went out and got her own policy
Right!
The daughter should have been had the insurance business fixed
@@1010QUEEN7 the father should have his own affairs in order
Hell
People know they’re getting older and will pass
I’m def happy some of this mindset and it’s people are leaving
@@Dee-cu8yr right I been fixed mine and my husband one since we were in our 20s
She can call the insurance company and fix the benificiary to herself after she submits proper paperwork for power of attorney.
When I say I’m screaming at judge repeating and calling that man Pinocchio… I cannot sit up 😂😂😂😂
I was screaming! He was looking so dumbfounded 🤣🤣
I am cryinggggg 😭😭😭😭😭 I been looking for someone to comment this 😂😂😂😂😂
Not you can’t sit up. 😂😂😂
That had me screaming 😂😂
@@inukoko2012 girl I couldn’t lmaooooo he’s crazy for that 😂😂😂
At first I was side eyeing the daughter for not getting her father but glad I watched and listened. That auntie is something else.
Man this case is awful...people act as though they'll never be old one day and need to rely on others. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Simple as that...
Stop
They all act like who ever that poor man, no one really cared about him just wanted what they could get when he does, so sad.
Ment when he die.
The way judge Mathis sneaks jokes in😂 to lighten the mood
“Whose name is Pinocchio?”
I feel the daughter I went through the same thing with my mom and her shady, trifling sister.
That disgusting, trifling,shady Aunt and her puppet on a string WILL REAP WHAT THEY HAVE SOWED. JUST PURE GREED.
I hope they will
Have some respect...that puppet's name is Pinocchio🤣🤣🤣
I thought that I was the only one that went through such a terrible and painful ordeal like this except it was my mom that collected on my dad's life insurance and didn't give me a dime of it instead she spent it on her new husband that she married six months after my father's death. I took care of my dad for four years. She claimed she couldn't even come up with two thousand dollars the remaining balance of his funeral expenses but as soon as she got remarried to Lucifer she bought him a brand new F 150 truck and herself a brand new equinox. Her husband is only 9 years older than me and he forbids her to have a relationship with me so she says. She is 69 years old. All I have to say is karma is a b*tch...reap what you sow. Stay blessed 🙏
You poor thing, that's beyond sad😞 My Aunt stole from my father while he was in hospice. People are Evil🤬
@@aprildouglass4265 Soon as she gets sick or needs some kind of help, he will drop her off to you or a nursing home. She will be sorry.🖤🖤
Auntie perjured herself so many times smh
Mom and daughter look like sisters. If “Black doesn’t crack” was a person. 🖤♥️💛🧡
Or she just had the child hella young
@@dance4life1208 Yes that could be true. But she is still beautiful and her daughter is too 🖤❤️💛🧡
There y'all go having kids at 12 again.
@@wadilotus who’s the perv who’s impregnating 12 year olds….? They need to be castrated.
@@wadilotus What are you talking about? My oldest is 27 and I’m 47 so your lame jokes ain’t lame jokin’ Sugar Honey Ice Tea. 😘
That aunt is definitely low down and they are waiting for her father to die to take the money. Very sad
Ain't no money to be had just listen to the testimony. Hope he have life insurance they're arguing over little money. The daughter is the guardian. People are funny about money regardless of the amount
The policy that you “stole the money, I mean took the money”… lol Uncle Mathis, you’re slick.
Good one nothing ya mook😒
I’m a nurse and this is real 💩that Aunt and Uncle will end up in the nursing home with no one to care for them but the staff and in nursing homes it’s very tough and less staff and not to many families sad glad she was able to take care of her mom and dad.
I agree bcz I'm a CNA in a nursing home and we are definitely short staffed all the time.
@@lovingmyself8416 working in a nursing home is the hardest job 🙏❤️
@@kaykaye8967 Yessssssss and you never have a set routine bcz everyday isn't the same.💕
Auntie is the one in the family that shows up when she smells money. Every family has at least one.
Judge Mathis knew that wasn’t that man name 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 My stomach hurts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Right lmbo!!!😭😩💯
I could not stop laughing at work 😂😂😂
This is sad, elder abuse/neglect is disgusting
Irresponsible parents are disgusting who created these elder abusers? 🤔
@@DJ-vj4vi What does have to do with anything?
Exactly I hope they reported her for that. I worked for a credit card company and one of my customers was getting robbed blind idk from who but she was. They had online shopping, GrubHub cash app payments. Mind you she was in her 80’s in a wheelchair and told me on a recorded line that she didn’t know what that was. I started the elder abuse for her because it was concerning to me
One of the reasons I went into caregiving. I feel obligated to care for our elders. Keep them safe and comfortable. They have done there Part in society it’s time we take care of them❤
But what folks seem to so Easily forget is that ONE DAY they’re gonna get Old too.
She’s going to kill her brother for 10,000 dollars that’s crazy.
I thought the policy was like 500k or more
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Are you Serious?! Folks will Murk you for 10 DOLLAS much less 10 Thousand 😂😂😂😂
It's a terrible situation when a person becomes a dollar amount versus medical care and support from the family...😣
It’s a sad day when it happens to elders and children.
It’s a sad day when it happens to elders and children.
Auntie said she want to be where the money reside 😅
😭 I just watched that video and can’t stop singing it 😂
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@@scottrogue946 where the money reside where the money reside 😂
Hella funny 😆
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Auntie was trifling!!! She gone pay herself with her brother's money! Then lie to him and tell him his daughter was stealing it, on top of taking out an insurance policy and naming herself as the beneficiary. Ooooh, she wrong!!!
Money will definitely make so called family’s true colors come out. That aunt knows she’s dead ass wrong. Reminds me of my Grandfather’s sister 😌
Sure will!
My grandfather died and left all of his money to his mistress. My family is suing. His mistress doesn't want to share any money with his kids.
@@starrjohnson1327 😯😯😯 WOW!! OMG
@@starrjohnson1327 grandfather was cold
My heart goes out to Doyle. Hearing this case about the plaintiff caring for her parents and losing a parent instantly made me think about him.
What happened to him ???
@@prettiestsoul1114 He loss his parents sometime this year.
“Pinocchio why you laughing?” JM is too much 😭😭😭🤣
This case was so heartwarming. I love how the plaintiff really got a chance to let it out on her aunt and she did it in such a articulate way, and i love how judge.Mathis sat there and allowed her to say everything she's been holding in for god knows how long. This ruling was 100% right, especially morally.
I often re-watch that part. Sometimes Judge Mathis can over talk others, but much respect to him for allowing her vent.
This was absolutely where my heart really went out to her. The pain in her voice.
I’ve never seen a mother and daughter look so much alike❤
Look like sisters ❤
They are so close her daughter really held her down the whole case she is just as strong as her mama
Gotta see me and my mom we're identical 🥰
I don't see it at all
Prayers for the Daughter's Peace...The Aunt never answered her question thru her cry "What caused her to treat her so badly" ...I feel her pain and thank God she is sane thru the dealing with the insanity of selfish blood relatives
I commend the plantiff for taking care of her mother and father because that's a very hard thing to do. Many just throw their parents in a nursing home or (ALF) Assistant living facility and say call when they pass away so then to collect the insurance. Either way this is a hard case to hear. Very sad
children is not required to take care of their parents and you forget ppl don’t throw their parents in a nursing home for nothing
I never said that children are required to take care of their parents but I commend her for doing what she did because many others wouldn't have which I've seen myself. Second, who knows what a person's mentality and mindset or reasoning is when they get to the point of putting their parents in a home. I've seen many cases that go both ways. Some don't want to responsibility and then there are others who legitimately cannot take on that big a responsibility for a myriad of reasons. I've seen both
Indeed, I have seen after I worked in a nursing home for 4 years. It is preposterous.
@@adrianprince7266 Exactly, and most nursing homes take your money, which is why my grandmother always told me that she would rather pay someone to take care of her because she never would have seen her money.
@@Hi-nl2jg YES, we should take care of our parents when they can no longer take care of themselves.. If they were good parents
No matter how large or small a family is, there is always one greedy snake 🐍 to show out! Smh.
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Everyone has family members that are greedy, messy, and disrespectful.. No age limits apply.
The father seemed to be a difficult person. The love of money is so strong.
The stroke may have affected his judgement. I have experienced strokes. It took years for me to feel like myself again. Definitely affected my decision making.
Very difficult. So sad....
"He still mad...She still the beneficiary! You aint got nun coming!" Judge Mathis is on it today!😂🤣😅😆I hollered!!😛😂🤣😆🤑🤑
"You can get SSI for not getting bathed" lmfao. Thats her mother? I thought they were sisters...wow
Anyone else catch JM’s wink toward the plaintiff around 6:03? JM knew the aunt was triflin once she mentioned SSI 🤣🤣🤣
I feel for the daughter because it's going to get even worst if the father dies. The family is going to be torn apart over BS. I just went through this. SMH
I have an aunt just like this with my dad, she thinks she owns him.
@@simplyme9016 That’s not good. I will never understand why family changes on you. I never thought I would feel the hate I feel for certain family members they way I do. They change up and want to fight over their belongings and money smh!
If auntie was the beneficiary auntie should've paid the premiums.
No one but children, spouses, or parents should be beneficiaries, unless their are none.
Any one else (cousins, "friends") would happily pay and knock you off in a minute.
@Dece Miraj although i agree with you, those ppl should have a policy that they pay for and not leave it up to someone else
@@decemiraj9978 ok
@@urluvizmyluv1999 lol just read your comment in it's entirety, you said exactly what I was saying 😆
She was $80
That insurance policy is a joke...$10,000. By the time the family buries the father, they will not get anything. In fact, it will probably cost more to bury the father nowadays! If the insurance money is all they are fighting over, it is a moot point. They all need to get together as a family and spend the rest of the days the father has in peace and harmony...for his sake.
SAD, NOT ENOUGH TO EVEN COVER
Nobody ever want to pay the monthly payments but wanna be entitled to the benefits once the person pass.If the sister is paying the policy a course she the beneficial the responsibility of the daughter is to get her own policy for her father and make sure her siblings included everyone judging the sister Yes she wrong for taking his stimulus that's common sense but you want a policy then pay for one she dont have to include them in nothing she paying out her pocket cause once he pass they will be looking for her to handle the expenses WHY cause they didn't have one.
I know a women that took the burial money and let the state bury her husband. So that money was useless.
At 20:14 When the daughter was talking about how the aunt and the husband was feeding the father food and drinks by mouth when he was not supposed to look at the husband smirk and judge Mathis putting his head down he probably put 2 and 2 together right there
And that should have been reported to adult services ..sounds like she was trying to help him kick the bucket
@@Meca1986 facts
Exactly. He probably has a feeding tube so when the aunt said they weren't feeding him and she went to the store to get him food is suspect. When someone has a stroke their mind is affected so he might not have understood why they weren't feeding him by mouth.
🥺DAMN that's messed up and feeding him food by mouth when he wasn't suppose to have it!! Tf💔
I hope the daddy sees this and the daughter cancels the policy and leaves those two alone.
That would be a good one 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Praying for this young lady. When elders start ailing and passing..that money makes people start showing who they really are!!! Shameless!
I knew once the aunt starting talking in the beginning that an insurance policy was gonna come up . Smh them old heads be the most evil and money hungry 🫡
This touches home with me because my dad's sister took all control of my dad's checking and life savings and left us with nothing! And when she died our inherence was giving to her kids
Wow so close
Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that. Did you sue?
@@condesabeatriz9303 I was going to but the whole situation had made me ill I just prayed and gave The Most High my burden. It has always said God doesn't like Ugly in the heart. No Weapon Against Me Shall Harm Me! Amen
Vengeance is HIS! No Worries sis, you will be redeemed🙏🏾💛
I would've lost my mind yoo.
Whew that was emotional and that young lady was too emotional to be lying. She’s really hurt by her Aunt.
WHYYYYY does it always come from family?? they do you the DIRTIEST!! I got teary eyed when Tawanna started to speak to her aunt with JM listening in. You can hear the pain and exhaustion in her voice. She doesnt deserve this at all. She knows her dad is in his bad days health wise... and all she wants is to see him out. Burial insurance taken out by the aunt.... oh lord
I’m so happy at how this case turned out! Judge Mathis got all the details out of that auntie to make sure she told on herself! It broke my heart to see how hurt the plaintiff was cause you can tell it’s not about the money to her. I hope that nasty aunt was charged with fraud.
You can tell the Aunt wears the pants in the relationship got a “Yes Man” for a husband… he ain’t got no type of back bone sitting there smirking
This is sad. I believe a little bit of what they're both saying is true. What I really want to know is how far they think that 10k in life insurance is going?. If it's for his kids , it's so that they can bury him without going into debt.
$10,000 they wont even bury him for that much smh. They all thinking they can get some money and what is stopping the daughter from getting her own policy?
Uncle Pinocchio will always go along for the ride. A puppeteer like the plaintiff said 😆
This case made me emotional when she started talking to her Aunt.
I don't like seeing families in court, but I understand they're the ones we usually trust the most. They all appear to be in it for the money! Sad.
This man Judge Mathis just be scribblin on that paper🤣💯
The defendant is pure evil, she talking in circles but JM see thru all of the fraud
My mother said that she wasn't leaving anything behind for anybody to fight over and she didn't. My mother gave her All while she was here and that's factual. To GOD be the glory for keeping us all rightminded and upstanding.
That's a good policy also. May she rest in peace.
That's actually sad
She knew she couldn't trust her kids. Oh my Lord
@@floridagirl386 LOLLL quite possibly but she was a woman if her word.
Rosalind my mom said and did the same thing! She said im not leaving a dime for nobody to fight over! My mom was like that when she was living..Im going to eat what i want and buy what i want..Save it for what!! she would say..I had a good mother and she loved her four kids and she also told us and taught us to help each other and stick together no matter what! We have never turned our backs on each other no matter what
Everybody will need somebody before you leave this life. FACT
Your children are not obligated to take care of you. Nobody is obligated to take care of you but YOU! Especially if you did not raise your children. ✊🏾
Facts. There be bad parents expecting their kids to pick up the pieces when they can’t and it’s not fair. I’m doing everything in my power RIGHT now while I have an able body to make sure I don’t end up being a burden on my kid
If he was spiteful enough to keep changing the POA and payee I question the type of father he was. He better thank his lucky stars the daughter is fighting for him.
@@opulence_prime Indeed. But, the same thing happened in my husband's family. His grandfather kept going back and forth with the payee. when he died, it was a random person...I believe there was some mental decline though.
True but why are the kids fighting for the money of the parent they are unwilling to take care of?
You can't make a promise, to not put somebody in the nursing home that's unfair to put that pressure on anyone
True, but ig the mom didn’t want him to be abused by the nursing home workers
@@Price8903 instead his sister abused him🥴
@A P I get it but I've seen it with my own eyes outside folk will hoolllller and condemn about a home, but unless they're in that position to they shouldn't put that pressure on a person especially if they work etc....., and some love ones health be so bad on a facility is viable
One of the top 10! Honor thy Mother and thy Father. You’ll reap what you sow. Seen it many times.
My family is also like this. Back and forth, underhanded and sneaky. That's why I separate myself
Same
Same.
Money is the Root of All Kinds of Evil. Many Families have parted ways because of it. Unfortunately 😳
I worked as a social worker I two nursing homes and I overseers money from the patients personal needs accounts.During that time I understand how vicious family members can be.I have people having fake places call me ,fake receipts and people purchase $1000 worth of clothing thinking they don’t need to bring the items to the nursing home so they can get reimbursement .Family drop off their loved ones for rehab and refuse to take them home when rehab is complete Only call to check up in the money
I’m a worker for SSA (20 years and counting). I’m just curious in this situation, do you feel like daughter is user or aunt?
Not the trifling aunty and her husband grinning the whole time.
So what they all full of shi Including the daughter
I wish I could give the daughter a hug😢❤
Don't worry her daughter got her back sis ❤
My favorite judge on daytime television
I literally laughed sooooo hard with this woman said “you just a Pinocchio!” I gotta use that one man 😂
The defendant’s hair though 🫶🏽
I feel the plaintiff pain. I have an aunt on my dad’s side who doesn’t like me for no reason at all. When my dad calls I’m coming. In life we only have one mother and one father. I try to do all I can for my parents. And it’s sad that it’s your own family who treats you like dirt over money 🤷🏾♀️. I pray for this young lady. I know your hurt
Damn you're pretty 😍
Wow his own sister 😢 money is really the root of all evil
The LOVE of money is the root of all evil. Money isn't!
Wow! I dealt with something similar with my dad’s side of the family when he was sick and after he passed. My conscience wouldn’t allow me to do someone the way they did me
That wig on Auntie 🤣🤣🤣 no but for real this one hurts.
What a family. The defendants were deplorable. Glad judge called em liars.
She better release that pressure...very emotional I can relate sis😢🥃🌹💪🏾
The daughter ain't s**+ either cause why is her dad still in the nursing home????
Exactly she waiting for that money 😂
This is a heartbreaking episode, families fighting over money while neglecting their love one. Such a sad affair 😥
I'd NEVER do that to someone that I love!!! The ONLY time that my family has put someone in a nursing home during my life, aside from a brief stay to recover from a surgery or something like that, was my grandmother who had Alzheimer's and it was done VERY reluctantly when we just couldn't care for her ourselves anymore. We all made sure to visit her regularly, me especially and we didn't just abandon her or anything like that. She only had short-term memory problems, so she'd forget a conversation you held with her, but not us. We used that to our advantage to hide her condition from her: none of us could bring ourselves to tell her the truth about her illness so we pretended that she was only there for weeks rather than a few years. It was hard, but I think it was for the best: she wouldn't have taken being there for years well and she deserved to not be burdened by the knowledge of her memory issues. She was there for a few years before she passed. Somehow, just a few days before she died, she found out the truth about how long she'd been there. We never found out how. All we know is that she called me that night (and I'm ALSO not sure why she didn't just call my dad, her son) demanding to know why she'd been in the home for years. It was the last time I talked to her. The next day while I was at work, she left me a beautiful message about how much she loved me. And she was gone the day after that.
I would never to that to ANYONE! PERIOD! They’re something else
You guys are trash for what you did to your grandmother. You and your family should be ashamed of yourselves. Vile human beings.
The daughter moved with him in section 8 housing but the aunt was responsible to pay at the time it ALMOST sounds like she wanted him to lose the place and get put back in a nursing home 2 blocks from her where she doesn't even walk to and visit.
I've always wondered how someone could be in dispute about someone else's money! If her dad did not receive his stimulus payments then either or is liable.
It's sad how people act over money.The daughter should have her own insurance policy on her dad
My aunt was my father beneficiary. I took care of all his affair, when he died my aunt let me take care of all the funeral arrangements. Whatever money was left over she gave it to me and my kids.
This brought tears to my eyes because I too am taking care of my 88 yr old father now who also had a stroke in 2016 and as a result has dementia and can't speak as well, but can still move around and do things for himself.
My mom passed away last year in October 2021 from dementia. My siblings and I were at odds the same way due to the superiority complex they suffer from unbeknownst to them because of their own denial. They thought my mom was putting on so when she passed away, reality finally set in on those who felt this way.
My mom married my father at the age of 26. My dad was already married before with 7 children. When my 7 older siblings biological mother passed, my mom stepped in and raised them as her own and went on to birth myself and 2 other siblings making it 11 of us. My mom had 1 of my older brothers at age 18. But, my parents married and raised us all as 1.
But, the point is, after my mom no longer could care for my dad, we all had a role to play. Most of my sisters live out of state. I actually was living with my parents at the time so I had no problem caring for them, the issue was that I wasn't good enough in their eyes. I am a single mom with 3 kids of my own and I work 2 jobs to keep the bills paid. I am still here with my dad and will not allow him to go into a nursing home because I feel like he should not have to be in a facility. My mom took very good care of my dad, almost 60 yrs together as well as all of us and she would want us to continue on with his care and getting along with one another. My dad is also a bishop so we have a Christian upbringing also. My dad deserves to be cared for by us to the best of our ability, no question. I have my children helping out as well so they understand the labor of love. I just pray for the strength and courage to keep going because it is not easy.
I commend this young lady and her daughter for the courage and love to be able to do what they're doing. Sometimes we do have to make sacrifices in our lives for others, especially when it comes to our mothers and fathers, we wouldn't be here without our parents, so to be able to care for them during their last days is an honor.
Sorry for so much writing, but I truly felt this story because I'm living through a similar situation as well and I just want this young lady to know that she is not alone. I am praying for her and to hold on, a change is coming ❤️🙏🏾
Beautifully said😘we can learn alot by your comment, I know I did I thank God I have both my parents reading this really make you appreciate your parents 🥰Beautifully said and you keep making you father proud Queen✌🏾🤎
Your doing a wonderful job. Your Mom and Jesus are watching you and smile because your a blessing! Keep being about our Fathers BUISNESS by caring for your Dad!
Bless you.
Stealing stimulus money from a family member is completely downright wrong
Well I'm so glad that her soooo..caring aunt
Got what she deserved..
It's disgusting behaviour 😤
But so glad judge saw right through her as we all did...good for you
Twanna.....xxx
If he's still in the nursing home he likely still is not being taken care of because nursing homes are just warehouses for the aged and sick which is disgusting by itself.
It seem like neither one of them really wanted to deal with the dad in the beginning- then soon as some money & senior citizen benefits was involved daughter came running back & sis came running for her own self
That's what I got from this case. The fact that the father couldn't trust either of them is sad.
Exactly what I’m saying everyone’s saying the aunt no they both after his money let’s be real 😂
This is chilling…it just gave me chills man….I HATE elder abuse and greed.. I’m super glad their truth came out.