6 Things Cuddling Does to Your Mental Health

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  • Whether it is a platonic cuddle, a cuddling in bed session, or a cute couples cuddling, the desire to cuddle is psychologically something many of us want. Cuddling helps reduce stress, cuddling helps your immune system, cuddling helps relieve pain, and so much more. The psychological benefits of cuddling can really help out mental health, if you're opened to it. When was the last time you cuddled with someone?
    Did you know that different hugs have different meanings? Watch this video to find out more: • 6 Types Of Hugs And Wh...
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  • @SlapStyleAnims
    @SlapStyleAnims 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2169

    As someone who’s touch deprived this video hits hard. Never cuddled before.

    • @elijahberg3606
      @elijahberg3606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Personally, i havent cuddled in a while. It’s very nice. Hope u cuddle ur first cuddle soon 💖😂

    • @imthicc69
      @imthicc69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Same

    • @ZeldaNerd222
      @ZeldaNerd222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Same

    • @jonny8344
      @jonny8344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Same

    • @SlapStyleAnims
      @SlapStyleAnims 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@elijahberg3606 hey at least you’ve done it before

  • @FizzyyFrog
    @FizzyyFrog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1529

    *As someone who’s cuddled a stuffed bear and a girlfriend. I can confirm, these facts are true.* 😌✨

    • @Lilly_175
      @Lilly_175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      If I snuggle with a teddy bear it makes me feel even more lonely

    • @ellajackson4272
      @ellajackson4272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      This comment is adorable lol

    • @Kataner
      @Kataner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      You noob, i cuddled a pillow before /vlh
      ..ignore that i said that

    • @redacted3828
      @redacted3828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It’s been three years since I’ve hugged someone

    • @devikaputti8723
      @devikaputti8723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@redacted3828 virtual hugs to you 🤗

  • @byzanti-knithi8464
    @byzanti-knithi8464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1487

    Ha, look guys, something we’ll never have!

    • @scrunchy4736
      @scrunchy4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Best comment I've seen all day

    • @NotZDH
      @NotZDH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Everyone here will find someone. We just need to wait a little longer

    • @ZeldaNerd222
      @ZeldaNerd222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Dang same

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      facts 😂

    • @Ell1e_th3_mushr00m
      @Ell1e_th3_mushr00m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yup 😭

  • @thomaslevy2119
    @thomaslevy2119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +996

    While dating my wife many years ago, she had her wisdom teeth removed and developed dry sockets. It is a very painful condition. I cuddled with her on the sofa and stroked her head for hours. She said it made the pain less. Now I know why.

    • @charlie-yp2oq
      @charlie-yp2oq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Awww that's so sweet :)

    • @macroni7479
      @macroni7479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I stroked my father's forehead when he had headaches...a long time ago...
      I don’t remember when the last time I stroked/massaged his forehead...
      He said I was good on it...
      In headaches I also did it on my self but it didn’t felt good for some reason perhaps...
      Maybe it was loneliness

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Now THAT is a good time to do it AND a heroic gesture.

    • @ArcticVII
      @ArcticVII 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is painful indeedddddd

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wait, are you saying that those dry sockets are permanent or did it last for a few days or weeks?

  • @melon_breadmay
    @melon_breadmay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1440

    6 Things Cuddling Does to You ƪ(˘⌣˘)ʃ
    1) It helps reduce stress 0:19
    2)Can help your immune system 0:59
    3) Relieves pain 1:40
    4) May help lower risks of heart disease 2:04
    5) Improves a mother’s bond with a child 2:52
    6) Can help reduce social anxiety 3:21 (my absolute favorite reference!)

    • @jakatak5764
      @jakatak5764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Ah the list of things I'll never have grows longer yet

    • @oDevane1o
      @oDevane1o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks and How

    • @ddboudica
      @ddboudica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you, time traveler

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What does cuddling do?🌸🌸🌺🌺

    • @seufimeaqui9034
      @seufimeaqui9034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      WAIT HOW IS THIS COMMENT 8 DAYS AGO??

  • @ecto.astronomer6702
    @ecto.astronomer6702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    The fact that y’all managed to put Gregory and Glamrock Freddy in here just made my oxytocin go up

  • @sweetandsourdish3723
    @sweetandsourdish3723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    It’s been so long since I last had a hug or gave out one to anyone. If the pandemic ever comes to an end, I want to start giving out as many hugs and cuddles as I can. ❤️

    • @amayazingamaya9622
      @amayazingamaya9622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      While I know it's quite the same one thing I learned from my therapist is that you can take a "waist trainer" (the ones that you wrap around not slid on) and wrap it around your shoulders! It really helps for me I just feel strangely happy! And you can get them for like 15 bucks at Walmart!

    • @sharptip5399
      @sharptip5399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I will give you a hug

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get a free hugs shirt

    • @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals
      @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amayazingamaya9622 I sleep with as many pillows as possible

    • @amayazingamaya9622
      @amayazingamaya9622 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals I sleep with as many blankets at possible XD

  • @little_cosplays_hehe4195
    @little_cosplays_hehe4195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    POV: *You’re that one friend that hugs someone every 5 seconds* so that’s why I hardly get sick :D

    • @SillySamWho
      @SillySamWho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      As An Introvert… I Am Lonely And Want A Hug From Someone. Don’t Care If I Get Sick And Die, Rather Hug Someone Before I Die

    • @oktoay5865
      @oktoay5865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i don't think that's how it works lol

    • @SillySamWho
      @SillySamWho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@oktoay5865 Let Them Be Lmao

    • @lucidfangirl1030
      @lucidfangirl1030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But, but...ur exchanging germs!

    • @imaginarychip4916
      @imaginarychip4916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SillySamWho dam

  • @alexandermast9274
    @alexandermast9274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Cuddling is actually the worst thing for my mental health because it’s addictive, and if the relationship ends I then experience withdrawal symptoms 24/7 until my next relationship

  • @mellowbluesmusic
    @mellowbluesmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    to everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus
    to everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve.
    to everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. when you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time.
    to everyone who is drawing, you got this. you're art is amazing. keep your head up (or down, depends on where your paper is) and remember that you matter.
    i love you all

    • @Lalo-dh8xq
      @Lalo-dh8xq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      thank you

    • @yuzitoki
      @yuzitoki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      what did the volcano say to the mountain?
      i lava you ♡♡♡
      happy valentines day my love 🌹~ you deserve so much love because you are such a amazing person. you are enough to others and to yourself. keep doing the things you love and don't ever quit. most people celebrate valentines day with their significant others or loved ones, but there's time where others needs to be remined to also love themselves, take care themselves, and treat themselves. so im here to tell you to do that because you deserve a lot of love. i may be a stranger to you and i don't know what you have gone through in your life, but i just want you to be happy and positive, okay? we all gone through a lot of different struggles, but just take a deep breath and a break. sat that a side for now and enjoy life. do the things you've always wanted to do. eat the food you've been craving for. do the things that makes you happy because you really deserve to be happy. my friend, i lava you~ 🌹♡♡

    • @sahar1213
      @sahar1213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      thank you for spreading positivity! it's nice seeing people who care in a world of strangers

    • @asm7983
      @asm7983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Neat

    • @Sergmanny46
      @Sergmanny46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too artificial and generic.

  • @VERsingthegamez
    @VERsingthegamez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    It's why I still cuddle with my baby blanket. Feels comforting.

    • @ThatFemboyfurry-hw1gf
      @ThatFemboyfurry-hw1gf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I still have a stuffed animal (it's a horse), but I miss my shark, because it was big and I could wrap my whole body around it and I was happy doing that. IM GETTING ANOTHER SHARK.

  • @--Small_Bean--
    @--Small_Bean-- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I actually hate being touched, which means when someone hugs me I feel uncomfortable, but if I open up to someone hugging me I'm fine, it just depends on the person. I actually don't let my own family hug me, it's rare for me to let them hug me, I've only gotten use to 1 person hugging me, and they are a close friend like a sibling. I can hug stuffed animals because they make me calm down, even let my emotions out!

    • @lepico3685
      @lepico3685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate

    • @Acelyn_11
      @Acelyn_11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There’s only 1 person I don’t mind hugging and that’s my best friend. And there’s one person I actually like hugging and that’s my boyfriend. He’s the only person that I allow into my personal space because I trust him more than anyone. He’s the main reason why I stopped cutting myself with razors and stopped bottling my emotions and I’m forever grateful.
      Bad thing is I rely on him and have separation anxiety, and going too long without seeing him kind of messes everything up for me 😅

    • @AmySwells-wk4fj
      @AmySwells-wk4fj ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @utahraptor1578
      @utahraptor1578 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel this so much

  • @graciegoo-mlp-1182
    @graciegoo-mlp-1182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Cuddling does make you feel good but also for me personally makes me more nervous. Are they hearing my breathing? Am I swallowing too loudly? Are they comfy? Are they okay with this? I don’t know if it’s just me but cuddling is pretty scary even with the closest of people.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Yes, cuddling can be quite intimate that it makes you feel vulnerable.

    • @anna.augustinova
      @anna.augustinova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'm the same. Even though I desperately crave hugs, I can't hug even my closest friend because it makes me so anxious. I suffer from GAD and SAD, so that's probably why. It really sucks. :( I hope one day I'll be well enough to hug someone without feeling anxious, scared or uncomfortable.

    • @aushi6953
      @aushi6953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      don't worry as someone who who hugs their friend a lot I am 100% sure that the person you're cuddling with doesn't even notice those things,they are just very happy to cuddle with you✿

    • @SoldierOfFate
      @SoldierOfFate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Among my group of friends I can trust, I'm often seen as the mentally and physically toughest (I work a job that grinds you into the ground and they know I do killer workouts) so you can guess how generally hesitant I am to give/receive hugs because I don't want to be labelled as weak.
      Worse yet, displaying such emotions back in high school would earn you terms such as gay and faggot.

    • @CelestialSushi
      @CelestialSushi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Adding to Aushi's comment, if they do notice those things, they probably don't mind, or they could even find them comforting. Many ASMR videos that people find relaxing feature breathing sounds

  • @kittycatzuka
    @kittycatzuka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    When you have trust issues, and are touch *adverse* as well as touch starved, it's hard to let yourself be vulnerable enough to approach someone you're close to for a hug or cuddle.

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      'Let me try to lift you' it's a good excuse.
      If someone is very adverse to the skin to skin contact try holding the same object with someone, faking a game, or use the 'measure' contest excuse (nail to nail, fingers, palms, forearms etc)

  • @Amogus-yl3mq
    @Amogus-yl3mq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    That last one I really resonate with, I have really bad anxiety, and I’m really shy, one day in one of my classes , someone in the class just started hugging everyone in the class, idk why exactly, but when they got to me and hugged me, I felt a lot of my stress just go away, and felt a lot more motivated to talk to people, I was overall just happier for the rest of the day

  • @Sofia_Luvvz111
    @Sofia_Luvvz111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i was so touch starved until i met my girlfriend, sometimes when we just started dating if we hugged or cuddled, my chin would literally shake uncontrollably from happiness. < 3

    • @bladegriggs4090
      @bladegriggs4090 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How are y'all doing now?

    • @Sofia_Luvvz111
      @Sofia_Luvvz111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bladegriggs4090 she dumped me lmao

  • @stixxyies2671
    @stixxyies2671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My new friends and I always hug. I never got hugged like this many times and now that it’s happening, it makes me so happy it became something I like needed everyday. This video is so true

  • @kinny6823
    @kinny6823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I’ve never had a cuddle partner, so I look forward to these! 🥺

    • @isaacdillon630
      @isaacdillon630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don’t technically either, but I got pokemon plushies I cuddle with, including a sobble one

    • @proffoctopus66yearsago22
      @proffoctopus66yearsago22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@isaacdillon630 I have a Pikachu plushie I cuddle with....

    • @isaacdillon630
      @isaacdillon630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@proffoctopus66yearsago22 there you go, plushies are the best!

    • @Finalizor
      @Finalizor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

    • @kinny6823
      @kinny6823 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isaacdillon630 Aww sweet! I have a RilakKuma lol

  • @sthefanochavarria4474
    @sthefanochavarria4474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Be grateful if you have someone to cuddle with in valentines day...

  • @selalewow
    @selalewow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    30 years and counting with my cuddle buddy 🥰

  • @nintendoman1394
    @nintendoman1394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t get hugs that often. I don’t give as many hugs out as I used to because I’ve been overbearing in the past and have ruined friendships because of it. But no one gives me hugs so I’m stuck being super touch deprived. So much so that when one of my friends gave me a pat on the back when I was tired, I teared up. I haven’t cried since 2019. And then when I hugged this same person a couple weeks later, I almost full on burst into tears. I never thought I’d cry from stuff like that. I’m very sad and lonely and that friends graduated last semester so I don’t see them nearly as much anymore. But when I do it’s great!!

  • @MrWoezoe
    @MrWoezoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Nothing beats a good hug. I love hugging my friends, or my parents. Covid made it hard and it made me realize once more how much I appreciate hugs.

  • @PixelaGames2000
    @PixelaGames2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Growing up I was never really into hugging
    This is mostly because when I was born I was a premy (premature baby) and my mother couldn’t hold me because I was way to fragile
    And this is most likely why I’m not too into hugging
    I’ve gotten more comfortable with hugging but i still need some work on that
    Plus my family isn’t super affectionate not to say that there neglectful there most definitely not
    My family just simply respects each other’s personal space
    I hope that someday when I do find a partner that they’ll cuddle me every now and then and hopefully this will help me get better at showing affection

    • @atriyakoller136
      @atriyakoller136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have heard a lot of people say that they weren't into hugs because their families weren't affectionate, but mine was really into physical contact and I hated it. I was even labelled as untouchable by my family because of my reaction to hugs and especially kisses. I wonder why, that started happening when I was around 5 and continued until I was 20-22.

  • @ilikethewordyeahsoyeahyeah6209
    @ilikethewordyeahsoyeahyeah6209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I haven't had a hug in quite a long time. I used to hug my mother but since we haven't talked in so long, i haven't really been able to hug anyone else. Human contact is everything to me because when you don't have it often, you feel like there's something missing in your life.

    • @TheMonacleSpy
      @TheMonacleSpy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Worry not. That aching pain of being touch starved could mean that you've experienced a lot of hugs from loved ones before and is a natural response to their absence. Trust me when I say that there are people out there who also long for hugs and cuddles and you will find them. Don't be afraid to be vocal about it to people you meet. It is a basic human need that everyone has and someone might be more than happy to oblige.

  • @triptipatel5796
    @triptipatel5796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    A big hug to you dear Psych2Go team from us Psych2Goers!🤗 Love you all so much💕. Keep encouraging us with your amazing vids and the soothing voice of Amanda!🥰

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Thanks for the kind words! Keep on watching. We're happy that you're supporting our content. Big hugs to you.

    • @triptipatel5796
      @triptipatel5796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Psych2go Always❤

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Who is she?💯💯💯💯

    • @triptipatel5796
      @triptipatel5796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@melaniemartin4319 If you're talking about amanda, she's the VO artist of Psych2Go.

    • @Friendship1nmillion
      @Friendship1nmillion 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go So , when sick { in hospital 🏥 Or at home 🏡 } will hugging/cuddling a soft toy { plush toy } boost our immune system ? 🤔🤳🇦🇺🇳🇴

  • @l7felessYt
    @l7felessYt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Clicked faster than someone could say "Let's take a moment to appreciate how much effort Psych2Go put in his videos".

  • @owens.studios
    @owens.studios 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Cuddling is OP. More desirable than a hug

  • @exiledPostman
    @exiledPostman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I hug a lot of the dogs on my mail route. They actually wait patiently for me to get to their mailbox just because they're expecting the hugs and pets and belly rubs. I look forward to this every single day.

  • @SomeGuy-gc8zs
    @SomeGuy-gc8zs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    As a rule, I don't like to be touched. As a matter of fact, it typically makes me pretty angry. So I feel like my partners are surprised when I turn out to be a gigantic cuddle bug just for them, and I've noticed the benefits. I'm an angry person, just in general, but consistent physical affection alleviates the vast majority of it, as well as making it much easier for me to get good sleep, maintain focus, meet goals, and just get out of bed in the morning. It's a severely underrated part of a very close friendship or romantic relationship. If it can bring me down from a constant internal chant of "BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD, SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE" to "overgrown puppy," it's probably a good thing.

    • @leterdieu
      @leterdieu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TECHNOBLADE NEVER DIES. I had to do it

    • @rojaws1183
      @rojaws1183 ปีที่แล้ว

      A bit of both Khorne and Nurgle is a good combination.

  • @jazzydavis2103
    @jazzydavis2103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    this is remembering me how i about to be alone on valentine 😂😂😂

    • @KUR4H
      @KUR4H 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same though

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too!●●●●

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Soon, you will meet the love of your life in our psych2go comments :)

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yep same

    • @jordothe1st835
      @jordothe1st835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been alone on Valentine's day just because I'm shy and I don't trust people even when I like someone.... Maybe that's why I've never had my heart broken

  • @Howhughes2013
    @Howhughes2013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I wanna say I’ve known my cuddle buddy for awhile but didn’t know how to approach them. Also thought they were in a happy relationship, and was hoping things would’ve worked out. Oh well. I hope they are doing okay, and am excited to see them prosper. There presence and happiness is a present in my eyes.

  • @CrimzPhoenix
    @CrimzPhoenix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    How am I here before the video’s released?

  • @rileyeatzacid
    @rileyeatzacid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My friend once came up from behind me and gave me a big hug and squeezed me tight, and it made me happy, and it made my stress go away🥺☺️😊

  • @frenchbassguy
    @frenchbassguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My favorite ASMR is informative ASMR, so this is perfection! More just like this please!

    • @JessicaDarling2
      @JessicaDarling2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you found the ASMR Psychologist yet? She’s amazing ✨👌🏻

    • @frenchbassguy
      @frenchbassguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JessicaDarling2 I will check her out, thank you!

    • @clarencehammer3556
      @clarencehammer3556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is the meaning of ASMR. I have seen that term a lot lately and have no idea what it means.

    • @frenchbassguy
      @frenchbassguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clarencehammer3556 Searching for ASMR on Wikipedia is a good place to start. Basically it's a pleasant tingly feeling due to certain sensory inputs

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      More to come!

  • @sillylilly123
    @sillylilly123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my family has always been really cuddly, and that might be one of the reasons why we’re all so close and happy !! ♡
    i wish every family did this, it shouldn’t be cringe or weird, just loving and comforting :(

  • @abaronofchivalry5176
    @abaronofchivalry5176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is nice. These days there is so much "mental health" bs, but this channel fortunately has none of that, and puts actual mental health facts into a simple to understand format. I'm sure a lot of people thank you for this.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your comment :) This means a lot

  • @mariomaster101official
    @mariomaster101official 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    2 videos in an hour this is awesome

  • @issy8266
    @issy8266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've been missing my boyfriend so bad lately :( he is currently going through rough times and I sadly ended up leaving and cant communicate with him lately :( , I always hugged him and gave him all my love I always made sure to give him all the cuddles and kisses and lately I miss doing that I'm currently hoping to see him soon

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hopefully they'll cherish your return! :)

    • @issy8266
      @issy8266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justalpha9138 "hopefully" but he's dating his bsf now lol

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@issy8266 Well that's a bummer. :/ Just take the time you need and try again with someone else. It's worth it

    • @issy8266
      @issy8266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justalpha9138 yeah lol it was a big bummer and he was my first boyfriend but things happen for reasons lol

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@issy8266 Just remember that this wasn't your fault, and that this was a choice that THEY made, not you. I'm sure that with if you keep on trying that you'll find someone who genuinely does care about you more than anything and anyone else, and I've got my mom and stepdad to thank for this.

  • @thunderboy8183
    @thunderboy8183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I needed this I even sometimes cuddle my pillow good to know there is actually benefits to it

  • @niranutcake
    @niranutcake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Psych2Go: hugging decreases blood pressure
    My heart while hugging: *I AM SPEED*

  • @ButeraMelina
    @ButeraMelina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love cuddeling but i haven't had friends in such a long time and never had a boy or girlfriend so I'm not used to it and can't see why anyone would cuddle with me

  • @Coleslaw-wj1qw
    @Coleslaw-wj1qw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Quality content that doesn’t force the vid over 8 minutes for an extra ad, I love this channel

  • @talonflame_brawlstars.7208
    @talonflame_brawlstars.7208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jee, this video certainly spoke to me. I really love hugs from people I love, especially when they are warm-hearted and genuine!

  • @jsnxbskscnskcnskcjbzjzjbvd
    @jsnxbskscnskcnskcjbzjzjbvd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hugs are frickin' magical.

  • @BLOODY__FATALITY
    @BLOODY__FATALITY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is exactly how I feel when I hug my new girlfriend. She melts all my stress away and makes my heart so happy. I feel so safe and happy with her in my arms. I can't wait til we're at the point where we can cuddle together. It's going to be so blissful! Ahhhhhhh. Emotions are so weird but she makes me so happy.

    • @bladegriggs4090
      @bladegriggs4090 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are y'all doing now?
      @BLOODY_FATALITY

    • @Mike-wu5ef
      @Mike-wu5ef 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      PROGRESS REPORT

  • @claritybrown7613
    @claritybrown7613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When your love language is physical attention and that’s how you show affection:
    YYYEEEEEAAAAAHHHHH THIS VIDEO WAS MADE FOR MEEEE!!!!!
    (P.S nice job in including Gregory & Glamrock Freddy as well as Kenma,and the reference to Jschlatt’s death. There was definitely other references but I couldn’t find out where from)
    Keep doing what your doing, your channel is amazing and very helpful/interesting to watch!!!

  • @then.c.c.9590
    @then.c.c.9590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For me a hug is one of the best ways to demonstrate you love someone, its a great relief, it can make you happier or at least get distracted from pain (as our dear friends says in the video) and yes you feel loved, I am a great fan of hugs, but from now on I think I will give more hugs haha

  • @juliaobernesser349
    @juliaobernesser349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I only very recently got into hugging. For most of my life, hugging was an obligations. Had to do it to every relative at family gatherings to say goodbye. Since it was like shaking hands at a business deal I felt nothing. That is until I met this one friend, who simply loves hugs. They have got to be the first person I've ever felt a warm hug from. From then on I like giving hugs to recreate that same feeling. Another thing I've noticed as well, is I have a lot more confidence in my Body, which I think amplifies the happiness of Hugs.

  • @spectrum7064
    @spectrum7064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I bursted out laughing seeing schlatt at the heart attack section

    • @ranxlotl6342
      @ranxlotl6342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg i was looking for this comment

  • @iheartleighwhannell
    @iheartleighwhannell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whenever I cuddle with my friend, I always feel so much better after :)

  • @ivyashfox4837
    @ivyashfox4837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    recently I hugged my friend and now ill just goo up to him and be like hey I need a you hug.
    he gives great hugs.

  • @hashirogreenstar5025
    @hashirogreenstar5025 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!
    Tysm for the videos and omg the references!

  • @Spade_FoxDerg
    @Spade_FoxDerg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love that FNaF SB reference

  • @OneBoredCatbug
    @OneBoredCatbug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I still don't know why I reject hugs all the time, obviously not from family members, but when friends suggest it I feel like I'm supposed to say "no don't hug me"
    I don't even know if it's a social norm thing or if it's just me being scared.

  • @deeznutzzzzzzzz
    @deeznutzzzzzzzz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the BEST feelings I've ever felt. ❤

  • @judygraessle7358
    @judygraessle7358 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    All points are accurate and we were created to bond physically. It's just the way we are. Good for us!

  • @truebruhmoment4667
    @truebruhmoment4667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man, I haven't had an actual hug since I was 8 years old.
    I sure do hope it doesn't makes me Stressed all times and want to destroy humanity or something!

  • @cryoon_520
    @cryoon_520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is why I love cuddling!!
    especially with my mum~🥰

  • @elsagomez9573
    @elsagomez9573 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has GOT to be one of my favorite art styles

  • @outcast4087
    @outcast4087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally fell for a classmate girl because of a hug. Because of a single hug. It was just a way for her saying goodbye, she did that to all her friends. But to me it felt so warm and gentle, that I had a crush on her for almost three years!
    A one-sided crush, though. She already had a boyfriend, a close mate from her theater group.
    So yeah, I think hugs definetely have a very, very strong effect on me.

  • @the.comfort.system
    @the.comfort.system 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Gotta respect when they're are references from popular things today (Security breach from point 1 and Schlatt from the Dream SMP in point 4 is a good example)
    Also even though it's tomorrow: Happy Valentine's Day!! You deserve to have a good day

    • @JR-theRAT
      @JR-theRAT 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was looking for this comment

    • @poofyxcloudchan1670
      @poofyxcloudchan1670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was looking for thisssss!

  • @captainzachary2477
    @captainzachary2477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nice upload schedule, keep up the good work everyone 😊

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for the support!

  • @gabrieljordan9977
    @gabrieljordan9977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your voice is so relaxing, lady!

  • @spylo405
    @spylo405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for making a video of 6 benefits I’m missing out on

  • @pinapplegaming5781
    @pinapplegaming5781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is very helpful thanks:))

  • @BrandonP8176
    @BrandonP8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I don't have a girlfriend to cuddle with. I guess I'll just cuddle with a teddy bear lol. 🧸

    • @anna.augustinova
      @anna.augustinova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've read somewhere that hugging inanimate objects releases oxytocin as well. :)

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well its because in 2022, nobody cuddle anymore.

  • @Kiyuutta
    @Kiyuutta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hugs and cuddles are my favourite thing ever ❤️ I hope to find someone who feels the same way someday~ Here’s a reminder to be sure to cherish those around you 💕

  • @malcerne7496
    @malcerne7496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For me, who has some serious physical contact (and pretty much anything that could be considered dirty in any way) aversion, this video surely has a whole new meaning.
    I often feel like I should hug more... have more contact with people and stuff like that.
    However, since I can remember, my stress levels go peak, and I pretty much freak out even with the slightest touch from anyone, even the people I care about, and I push myself away as fast as I can.

  • @anna.augustinova
    @anna.augustinova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    6 more reasons for feeling depressed. I have no one to cuddle with.

  • @A_Silly_Fella
    @A_Silly_Fella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I haven’t been hugged by someone in so long (besides my family and it’s just not the same) I’m a desperate sad lil boi who resorts to holding his own hand in bed at night (and in class when bored or stressed) and sleeps with either a heated plushie in the fetal position (maximum heat feeling efficiently in that position) or a pillow I can rap my arms and legs around lol I’m desperate for physical affection and I’m too afraid and introverted to ask someone for some AND when I was in elementary school I acted all edgy and cool to hide my feelings of sadness and I gained a reputation for not liking being touched or hugged so now no one touches me and if they do I’ve developed a bit of a reflex to swat them away before even thinking about it :,)

  • @EnderBro666
    @EnderBro666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the sb reference,this video is amazing!

  • @skystewart9583
    @skystewart9583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you people so much

  • @madduxnagel6935
    @madduxnagel6935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know cuddling is usually supposed to be reserved for lovers, but as someone who both desperately craves physical affection and is awful at dating, sometimes I wish I could cuddle a close friend platonically just to have someone I care about hold me close. I dunno, that's probably weird, at least, it usually is for the other person. Wish it was more acceptable, the safest and most loved I've ever felt has been while cuddling with friends

    • @furahahwang8995
      @furahahwang8995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand you completely.. I didn't grow up with many hugs because both of my parents were either fighting or work all the time. I was deprived with physical touch-- and as I grew up, I was craving for physical affection. I didn't date or had any relationships because I was struggling with mental health problems.. And I wished the same as you-- to cuddle a close friend platonically. So, you're not alone, my friend.

  • @shypeoplearehawt8155
    @shypeoplearehawt8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Speaking from experience on multiple occasions. when it comes to the topic of cuddling with someone. The usual 2 types that I think about when it comes to cuddling with someone is
    #1 romantic which usually leads to sexual cuddling also for some guys out there giving them quite the awkward boner
    #2 purely platonic cuddling just both sides very affectionate

    • @Equivocal-squiggle
      @Equivocal-squiggle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What makes it awkward, if I may ask? That would make me smile and blush.

    • @shypeoplearehawt8155
      @shypeoplearehawt8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Equivocal-squiggle My apologies for taking so long to respond to your comment. but anyways my question for you is, are you? ♀ or ♂ Cuz depending on that helps give insight to the answer

    • @shypeoplearehawt8155
      @shypeoplearehawt8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Equivocal-squiggle Btw regardless if that's your official real name or just a name for your TH-cam profile anyways I like your name it's cool

    • @shypeoplearehawt8155
      @shypeoplearehawt8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Equivocal-squiggle Wishing you your loved ones As well as everyone else Out there in the 🌏 World Awesome safe Nites & Days where ever you are. Along with all kinds of good health same forever lasting success

    • @shypeoplearehawt8155
      @shypeoplearehawt8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Equivocal-squiggle To answer your original first comment. That's mainly Cuz of physical contact of possibly rubbing up against each other, Especially these other things like. if the individual they're having cuddles with has such a soft, very silky, smooth body. if the person smells very nice. also even more so if one of the people is Spooning the other person Who hypothetically just happens to have a Massive jiggly Big 🍑 Booty. Cuz things like that increase even more of the potential awkwardness of the others if trying their absolute best to not be attracted to the other

  • @eluhhhhhhhhh
    @eluhhhhhhhhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hii

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to hear!

  • @twistedraws1096
    @twistedraws1096 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never really got hugged by my friends, and one day I made a new friend who loves giving hugs so I was freaking out at first but now its such a nice thing to look forward to since I don't see her much!

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000
    @lonewolfnergiganos4000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Me, who never had cuddles: *hmmm very interesting*

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me neither especially not from family

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed.

  • @ScribbleSpirit
    @ScribbleSpirit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh yes, I'm such a cuddle bug!! This video means so much to me 🥺🥺

  • @clownman2594
    @clownman2594 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really really REALLY like this new art-style!

  • @rapcyll
    @rapcyll 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hugging my best friend is one of the best feelings I can feel in my life

  • @OTOOO.MASHI_YUNAAII38n2
    @OTOOO.MASHI_YUNAAII38n2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    HAPPY VALENTIIINESSSS SWEETTTIEESSSSS!!!! W

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy Valentines!

    • @OTOOO.MASHI_YUNAAII38n2
      @OTOOO.MASHI_YUNAAII38n2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go AWWWEEEEEE TYSMMM PSYCHYY!!! >W< hope you're doing well, tysm for helping us through difficult times

  • @melon0637
    @melon0637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm totally not sure since this is just speculation and everything
    But I think I started a hugging trend in my batch (to clarify its pre-covid), when I transferred to another school for high school I was so huggy (there would be a rotation of classmates every year so during the second year I wasn't sectioned to my first year classmates).
    I hugged a lot of people during the first year, no one commented on it so I thought it was normal when I frequently hug my friends (I'm very comfortable with physical closeness and openness, I thought it was normal no one like hated me for it) and I never noticed that I made such an effect until I started reminiscing about school during covid, I remember a teacher shortly talking how she disliked how there was this trend in our batch on hugging every time (prob cuz it was inappropriate and this warning was third year)

  • @adoggo1848
    @adoggo1848 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love how many references there are in the video, its a pleasant surprise if you know them

  • @massivelygamer3011
    @massivelygamer3011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This got recommended in ASMR vid feed and now I feel worse I'm at my peak of suffering (high school ) never had a girlfriend for more then 1 day (got bullied for having an online girlfriend) and now I sit in my room play games and think about whatever ADHD train track takes me this is my story of how I sunk down this rabbit hole what's yours

  • @Nofaceguy117
    @Nofaceguy117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish I could cuddle my platonic partner but ey lives in a different state than I do. It’s good that I have friends and family to hug instead. 🙂

  • @ourtimousaaw1278
    @ourtimousaaw1278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "when was the last time you hugged someone?" uh...do pillows count?

  • @odipadio655
    @odipadio655 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the voice is so calming, i deadass fell asleep to this video

  • @hollowblack42
    @hollowblack42 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice timing!

  • @sy.mindie3893
    @sy.mindie3893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn it now I crave for one

  • @mcty_simps
    @mcty_simps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love cuddling ^^

  • @KoolantisKool
    @KoolantisKool 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love the refrences

  • @thejaded
    @thejaded 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I honestly need a hug, like I'm not too sad or anything. It'd just be nice for someone to just do it.

  • @Figs21
    @Figs21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What are some good things to say to console somebody?

    • @user-jz6li7hw1o
      @user-jz6li7hw1o 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How!???

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you try before? How do you want someone to console you when you have a bad day?

  • @Pablo-V
    @Pablo-V 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Me, who hasn't been touched for like 7-8 years: Guess I'll die 🤷‍♂

  • @cdisk8065
    @cdisk8065 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    great video as always

  • @AiNoYa_
    @AiNoYa_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love the fact that i just took a pause in a 2h long cuddle session, just to see that notification. i guess now i know i have a reason to ask for more...

  • @MiniMagit
    @MiniMagit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After watching this video, I'm gonna go cuddle a cactus just so I can feel something

  • @randombystander991
    @randombystander991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To anyone who watched this and plans to go around hugging people: please be sure of other person's consent. Some people, like me, don't like being touched.

  • @DanielForbes-rp6eo
    @DanielForbes-rp6eo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for what you do

  • @theminicosmos
    @theminicosmos 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    cuddles are the best 🥺🥺 they make me feel safe and warm and all fuzzy inside 🥰🥰