How to fight with your spouse (without being a jerk) w/Lindsey Welch

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  • @stephannielinares1616
    @stephannielinares1616 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This is honestly some of the most honest and transparent marriage conversation I’ve heard in a while! Thank you for putting your story out there, it truly blessed me hearing some of your process with God in your marriage! I wish I could have coffee with Linsey and sit for hours, she seems so wise and nurturing ❤

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She is amazing. Thank you for watching 🙏

    • @jordonschultz569
      @jordonschultz569 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@TaylorAWelch I feel like I'm watching a reply of my own life and marriage. We are on the other end of it too, but it was rough for a while. Lol. Thanks for the vulnerability!

    • @DP-wr8cy
      @DP-wr8cy 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its a mirror of my relationship but my ex gf wasn't as submissive. Probably a 4 or 5

  • @TessaRoseHisbeloved
    @TessaRoseHisbeloved 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I've been asking for a woman of faith to listen to for uplifting and encouraging walk it out as a woman type of wisdom. Again, not only as a mother and / or a wife but as a woman, a daughter of the king, my children are grown, and I'm not married. So thank Yah, and thank you.

    • @TessaRoseHisbeloved
      @TessaRoseHisbeloved 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Will be sharing, and hopefully listening again with my brothers and sisters.❤

  • @katina_k_rogers
    @katina_k_rogers หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow! Words cannot express how much this real honest and raw discussion refreshed my soul. Thank you both for being open and honest about the struggles. Also we need some more content from Lindsey- so much wisdom!! Thank you guys again ❤

  • @LizT207
    @LizT207 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You can tell that they not only love each other, but like each other too.

    • @maskedfisherman333
      @maskedfisherman333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This statement makes no sense. You like someone before you love someone. Not the other way around.

    • @guayo18
      @guayo18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@maskedfisherman333 But after 10 years you may not "like" that person that much physically but you might lover her a lot... That happens you know?

  • @nicoleneary888
    @nicoleneary888 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The beauty of the parallels between your marriage and mine are crazy . The lord is faithful in love and love is the most beautiful gift we’ve been given ❤️ wishing you and your wife peace, joy and happiness.

  • @MsLinita21
    @MsLinita21 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you both for being so honest and bringing such helpful and meaningful content. You are such a blessing.

  • @alexgwaggoner
    @alexgwaggoner 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for putting the real and raw out there because it shifts perspectives like mine. Lindsey I resonate with you so much and can’t thank you for your wisdom here 🫶

  • @moniquessaved777
    @moniquessaved777 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so good! We definitely need a part 2! ❤

  • @MattAshByatt
    @MattAshByatt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really enjoyed this episode. So cool to see how you guys tackle everyday issues/hurdles. Inspiring and honest.

  • @kristenpaterson4261
    @kristenpaterson4261 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is so amazing! Thank you for being raw! I love this!

  • @bijal.launch
    @bijal.launch 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow. You guys crushed this. Way to evolve your marriage and grow through all the hard seasons. Lindsey is amazing - and you guys are a power couple bc of what you withstood together and what you continue to build. ❤

  • @DeannaDickinson
    @DeannaDickinson 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She slayed yo brother quit trying to correct her all the time and duh yeah women process through communication TALKING “

  • @HOARDSNCORDS
    @HOARDSNCORDS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a woman good for you. You seem to deserve it all. Praise Jesus. All the best.

  • @ramonachandler1925
    @ramonachandler1925 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience, so valuable and amazing!!🔥🔥🔥♥️♥️♥️

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching. We will do another one soon!

  • @2aligater
    @2aligater 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this honest and open conversation!! It’s very refreshing!

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👊🤝 so glad!!

  • @pottsjk
    @pottsjk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stan Tatkin "Your Brain on Love."

  • @kevin_ps_144.1
    @kevin_ps_144.1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks so much, you too.❤️🙏

  • @graeme.cabrera
    @graeme.cabrera หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was a beautiful conversation. Nice job.
    “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.” - John 14:26

  • @jayburgess7984
    @jayburgess7984 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    22:18 Totally been where Taylor just described.

  • @andrehaykaljr
    @andrehaykaljr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so good, appreciate y’all sharing 🙏

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My man. If you’re watching it, it means I have officially made it!!

  • @meganarriola7277
    @meganarriola7277 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So helpful!! Thank you! ❤

  • @VSastrocompasss
    @VSastrocompasss หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this concept
    ♒ it's funny going to another level 🎆🌌
    19:16 that's the trick the atmosphere between family and duo. A ring is like the child before the child come into the world. Its the trial to maintain :3 controlling the atmosphere (the ring in no air and mantel of significants)

  • @DeannaDickinson
    @DeannaDickinson 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your so proud of her that she had the courage to go out on a limb and speak up 😂😂😂

  • @esthernaidu6538
    @esthernaidu6538 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Lindsey is beautiful inside and out

  • @maskedfisherman333
    @maskedfisherman333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    At the beginning you can honestly still feel the tension between these 2. You can tell there is a bit of unresolved problems just by the fact that when they are in conversation, they still disagree on their statements. But it does seem they are working on it.

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s called being in love silly goose

    • @maskedfisherman333
      @maskedfisherman333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @TaylorAWelch 😆. Im married and in my 30s, going on 11 years. Your story reminded me of my marriage where we fought so bad i kept threatening my wife with divorce and took my ring off multiple times. Just like your wife she had strong faith and i 100% believe if it wasnt for her being close to God I would not be here. Whithin the last year my faith has grown so much and just like you ive been fighting my intellectual side because even though i always seeked the true God, i was lost in other beliefs for a bit. I've been watching your episodes for a few weeks now and look forward to seeing how you keep growing in God. 🙏

  • @kirsty7608
    @kirsty7608 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree it is annoying when @ 1:14 “God will show you something that he won’t show anyone else in the world”. I have especially learnt to ignore others on matters concerning the nature of Christ/God , etc when closed minded religious addicts say “you can’t be hearing from God because that’s not what my Bible says”. I long ago stopped worshipping the RC church version of Christ & continually seek his face as do many others. The enduring search for greater truth of Christ far outweighs any man made dogma from only 2000 years ago even if I am the only one who knows it.

  • @jf5154
    @jf5154 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a stunning wife

  • @guayo18
    @guayo18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    50:01 My wife when I explain why I didn't do something.

  • @PedroZubia-u7u
    @PedroZubia-u7u 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm an 8 too bro!

  • @lizdenas
    @lizdenas 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'd look into the history of enneagram. Just going to put that out there. Shalom.

  • @callanfaulkner7104
    @callanfaulkner7104 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so good ❤

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Means so much, thank you!

  • @ryanfischer2319
    @ryanfischer2319 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Taylor - you forgot Bass Pro 😂

  • @micheletubaj7924
    @micheletubaj7924 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I could never be married to this guy 😂

  • @jahthejestah
    @jahthejestah หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Whats the test for the personality type you guys take?? I'd love to test myself 🙏

    • @PedroZubia-u7u
      @PedroZubia-u7u 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm trying to find it too... i'll let you know if I do.

    • @megzartlife
      @megzartlife 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They’re talking about the enneagram personality test . I haven’t done it either.

  • @jayburgess7984
    @jayburgess7984 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    6:41 I'm a 9w1

  • @tyrelladkins5499
    @tyrelladkins5499 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    37:40 How did you learn to derisk giving feedback and not flip out at the feedback? my partner says she feels this way and I really don't want her to and I need to learn how to derisk it.

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not responding with whether I agreed or not with their opinion but being grateful they shared it with me

    • @graeme.cabrera
      @graeme.cabrera หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Simon Sinek mentioned on a podcast his experience having a heart-to-heart conversation with his ex-girlfriend quite some time after they had broken up. During the relationship, they both had gone through a lot of really rough pain; and because work kept them geographically separated, they were not able to draw closer together to console each other.
      The mindset with which Sinek entered that post-break up conversation was, “Feedback is a gift.” Thus, every time she told him her raw, unfiltered opinion about very painful matters, his response was, “Thank you for telling me.”
      Somewhat long explanation but wanted to give a contextual example of what Taylor is talking about - having a mindset of gratitude even when hearing feedback we don’t like.

  • @DeannaDickinson
    @DeannaDickinson 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why is your reality the TRUTH??? Btw Tyler I love you, not dissen you 😂😂so people she had the CO😢TO GO OUT OB A LIMB AND SPEAK TO YOU 😂

  • @sandradennise8058
    @sandradennise8058 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @candiceparsons1010
    @candiceparsons1010 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤️‍🔥

  • @alchemaniac42
    @alchemaniac42 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥🔥🔥🙏👊

  • @phoenix-heartentertainment7293
    @phoenix-heartentertainment7293 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is strait evil. I hope god really touches his heart and helps see the truth. He's in fear of Judgment. Not everyone who says Lord will enter the kingdom of heaven.

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Start praying that God will teach you how to watch a whole video and only comment at the end. That’s a good prayer.

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@phoenix-heartentertainment7293 you just have to watch what’s in the video not little snippets. You’re very judgmental for someone who didn’t watch the whole video :)

    • @codygonzalez9486
      @codygonzalez9486 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t worry when you’re pointing with your index finger. 3 other fingers point back. Watch the whole video.

    • @Mario-Chunks
      @Mario-Chunks หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TaylorAWelch😂😂😂 👏👏👏

    • @Mario-Chunks
      @Mario-Chunks หลายเดือนก่อน

      *straight . Just imagine if God judged your salvation based on your lack of spelling skills. Ridiculous right? Well, that’s how you sound.

  • @DayZOldschool
    @DayZOldschool หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In Christianity there would be no fighting as the woman is to submit to her husband in every way. He is her head as Christ is the head of man. When a woman truly follow God there is no arguing. Choose a woman who truly follow God and your life will be better.

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That’s just silly

    • @DayZOldschool
      @DayZOldschool หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TaylorAWelch Would you argue with God? The same way a woman of God would not argue with her man. If you belive the bible is the word of God it is written in both the old and the new testament.

    • @TaylorAWelch
      @TaylorAWelch  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@DayZOldschool saying the husband is like God is called stupid theology lol

    • @DayZOldschool
      @DayZOldschool หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TaylorAWelch God has put Christ over man, man over woman and woman over children. Its the word of God. Call it how you dare

    • @Lauren-28
      @Lauren-28 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @DayZOldschool.... wait, so you're looking for the robot wife, right?