This is honestly some of the most honest and transparent marriage conversation I’ve heard in a while! Thank you for putting your story out there, it truly blessed me hearing some of your process with God in your marriage! I wish I could have coffee with Linsey and sit for hours, she seems so wise and nurturing ❤
@TaylorAWelch I feel like I'm watching a reply of my own life and marriage. We are on the other end of it too, but it was rough for a while. Lol. Thanks for the vulnerability!
I've been asking for a woman of faith to listen to for uplifting and encouraging walk it out as a woman type of wisdom. Again, not only as a mother and / or a wife but as a woman, a daughter of the king, my children are grown, and I'm not married. So thank Yah, and thank you.
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:00 *💬 Conflict resolution is a key topic in relationships, and healthy communication is essential in handling disagreements.* 28:00 *💍 In the early years of their marriage, the couple struggled with constant, intense arguments, highlighting the importance of learning conflict management over time.* 01:09:00 *🔄 They emphasize the importance of emotional intelligence and understanding each other’s different personalities for better communication.* 05:04:00 *🧠 Recognizing personality traits (like Myers-Briggs or Enneagram types) helps in tailoring conflict approaches, making arguments more productive and less emotionally charged.* 07:10:00 *🗣️ Misunderstandings arise from differing conflict styles; one partner prefers space, while the other feels the need to resolve things immediately.* 09:00:00 *⏳ The couple learned to respect each other's conflict needs, balancing emotional distance with the need for resolution in a way that worked for them.* 12:00:00 *💥 Early marriage struggles were tied to deeper fears of rejection and betrayal, influencing how each partner responded to conflict.* 17:19:00 *🛠️ Over time, they learned to resolve conflicts more quickly, especially after becoming parents, emphasizing the importance of moving past trivial disagreements.* 19:50:00 *🕰️ A key takeaway from an Uber driver’s advice: “If the argument won’t matter in 5 years, end it and move on” - prioritizing long-term peace over momentary issues.* 21:37 *🍽️ Decision fatigue causes stress in relationships, as one partner might offer to make decisions but then retract, leading to frustration and conflict.* 21:50 *😣 When decision fatigue sets in, it can escalate into an argument, especially when both partners are already overwhelmed by their respective responsibilities.* 22:05 *💬 Communication improves when partners learn to understand and ask each other about their feelings, creating space for clarification rather than escalation.* 22:45 *🏋️♀️ The stress of balancing work, kids, and relationships can lead to tension, but syncing expectations and creating plans for quality time helps avoid unnecessary conflict.* 23:41 *📅 Regular planning for date nights and household duties, including having backup days, helps maintain connection during busy times.* 25:05 *🔄 Healthy conflict involves syncing expectations early on and making sure both parties are on the same page to avoid unnecessary fights.* 25:33 *🧠 Healthy conflict leads to both partners getting closer, with minimal emotional damage, by fostering efficient communication.* 26:11 *🙏 Apologizing, even when not at fault, can help achieve healthier outcomes in conflict by prioritizing emotional resolution over proving who is right.* 26:39 *🔄 Boomerang behavior, where unresolved issues pile up over time, can cause bigger blow-ups if not addressed early and openly.* 28:12 *🌱 Partners grow together, adapting their roles and personalities over time, as seen with Taylor’s entrepreneurial journey.* 34:03 *📚 Assumptions in communication can lead to misunderstandings; actively stating assumptions and correcting them improves understanding.* 35:00 *🗣️ Verbal processing vs. calculated thought processes can create tension; asking for clarification before assuming meanings can prevent conflict.* 36:35 *🤔 Asking for feedback and creating space for it during non-conflict times makes it safer to communicate openly.* 37:42 *🔒 Making communication safe from judgment or retaliation helps partners feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings.* 39:47 *🔄 Growth and navigating big transitions as a couple, like moving and changing careers, requires mutual support and understanding.* 42:01 *🌟 Letting go of expectations and trusting in timing can lead to unexpected blessings, as shown in the couple’s story of having a child.* 43:52 *💼 Entrepreneurship is tough and requires resilience-sometimes everything falls apart, but it’s a cycle of trying again.* 45:00 *🧠 Knowing how to support your partner through difficult moments involves avoiding unnecessary stress and providing calming suggestions.* 46:07 *🚶♂️ Sometimes small personal routines, like taking a walk, help clear the mind and process stress effectively.* 46:36 *👩👧👦 Parenting dynamics shift when one parent is in "mom mode" or "dad mode," creating potential for communication struggles if roles aren't recognized.* 48:04 *🤦♂️ Caring for children alone can feel overwhelming, and small details (like feeding pets) can slip through when the focus is divided.* 50:18 *👨👩👧👦 Parenthood often challenges partners to appreciate the other’s struggles, like balancing business and family responsibilities.* 51:16 *🕊️ Communication, especially around expectations and responsibilities, is key to maintaining unity and reducing resentment in marriage.* 52:52 *🙅♀️ Women may feel unappreciated or misunderstood during busy seasons, especially when balancing multiple roles and responsibilities.* 54:00 *💡 Conflict can often stem from feeling misunderstood, with one partner focusing on tasks while the other may feel disconnected.* 55:23 *🧘♂️ Reflecting on why you feel triggered by your partner’s actions can reveal personal insecurities or unmet needs that need addressing.* 57:08 *🕊️ Unity and mutual support in marriage are essential, especially during challenging seasons, and both partners must recognize each other’s sacrifices.* 58:16 *💪 Expressing frustration or unmet needs is important for long-term harmony, especially during stressful family or work seasons.* 01:00:20 *🔄 Re-engaging with your partner in a calm, understanding way when conflict arises helps reinforce the sense that you’re a team, not adversaries.* 01:03:59 *🧑🤝🧑 Deep communication and awareness can transform misunderstandings and prevent emotional distance in a relationship.* 01:05:07 *💔 Once both partners become aware of their insecurities, it’s easier to heal and avoid repeating negative patterns in the relationship.* 01:06:06 *🏠 Emphasizing that material things don't matter as long as they have each other, sharing memories of tough times they've gone through together.* 01:07:42 *📅 They had to adjust expectations during a hectic season, where communication about their roles and sacrifices was crucial.* 01:08:35 *⚖️ Discussing a time when they struggled with balancing work and family, and the impact of decisions on their relationship.* 01:09:58 *💬 They learned to communicate better over time, including setting clear expectations and balancing work/family life without ultimatums.* 01:10:52 *🕒 Setting a predictable time for returning home became crucial for managing their family dynamics and avoiding frustration.* 01:12:15 *🧩 They began planning ahead instead of reacting to deficits, making sure both partners’ needs are met.* 01:13:36 *🙏 Discussing how hearing God's voice became a pivotal part of their lives, with stories of spiritual guidance during challenging situations.* 01:15:08 *👂 Lindsey shares how she initially struggled to use her spiritual gift and learned to listen and pray, rather than correct her husband.* 01:16:04 *🛡️ God showed Lindsey her role as the "first line of defense" in the marriage, sensing issues and praying about them instead of trying to control them.* 01:18:08 *💡 The importance of small daily decisions to learn and recognize God's voice, as Lindsey shared how she trained herself in spiritual listening.* 01:19:47 *✈️ A story of how God guided Lindsey through a stressful airport experience, showing her the power of faith and God's kindness in small details.* 01:20:59 *🙌 They reflect on how small prayers and faith-building moments prepared them for bigger challenges ahead, such as dealing with career and family transitions.* 01:25:32 *💪 They discuss the importance of building faith in the small moments to strengthen belief for bigger challenges, using past experiences to face current hurdles.* 01:26:40 *🙏 Faith can take time to manifest in the physical world, as seen in healing stories where individuals believed they were healed, even before medical scans confirmed it.* 01:27:06 *💡 Spiritual beliefs can strengthen healing, with some claiming that what happens in the spiritual realm may take longer to show in the natural world.* 01:27:31 *👻 Spirits thrive where they are fed; fear and anxiety, when nurtured, can attract negative spiritual forces.* 01:28:43 *📜 God’s promises are unwavering; His word cannot be undone, reaffirming His commitment to fulfill His promises.* 01:29:24 *🌱 Faith isn’t measured by the size of the challenge, but by the certainty in your belief-small faith can achieve great things, like moving mountains.* 01:29:52 *💪 Faith responds to trust, not the magnitude of the need. Trust in God remains constant, whether the challenge is large or small.* 01:31:59 *🌿 Prayer for a fresh revelation of God's love can ease anxiety and fear, allowing individuals to experience peace and strength in stressful situations.* Made with HARPA AI
Wow! Words cannot express how much this real honest and raw discussion refreshed my soul. Thank you both for being open and honest about the struggles. Also we need some more content from Lindsey- so much wisdom!! Thank you guys again ❤
The parallels between what you guys went through and what I'm going through are insane. He wants me to make the money in the future so he can be a stay at home dad when we have kids. He'd be an amazing homeschool teacher, but it still doesn't sit right with me. We go through so many cycles of doing good and then having huge fights. He told me long ago in past relationships he'd be the first to break up because of abandonment, just like what Taylor talked about. I've never once used the d-word or break up words-- I stay and fight like Lindsey. I am very much a verbal processor, as well. We are both gamers and artists but lately we don't play any of the same games so it's usually me craving closeness while he stays and games in all his free time and feels lonely. Difference in personalities, love languages (husband doesn't believe in them), constant unmerited critiques-- then I harbor insecurity, bitterness, resentment, cop and attitude, and a huge fight breaks out. It's a vicious cycle, but I know there's hope in Jesus. I followed Lindsey-- was hoping if there was a way to reach out and maybe get some advice. I'm 23 and trying to navigate this marriage.
This is such a fantastic, honest conversation! I love how candid you both were for us!! God bless you, Lindsey, Kate, Harrison, and your entire crew!! ❤
This was beautiful. I love seeing the way the two of you interact with each other. You're also both very good at articulating your process. Super helpful content, and also very encouraging to see what the marriage relationship can look like. Many thanks!
The beauty of the parallels between your marriage and mine are crazy . The lord is faithful in love and love is the most beautiful gift we’ve been given ❤️ wishing you and your wife peace, joy and happiness.
Thank you for putting the real and raw out there because it shifts perspectives like mine. Lindsey I resonate with you so much and can’t thank you for your wisdom here 🫶
Wow. You guys crushed this. Way to evolve your marriage and grow through all the hard seasons. Lindsey is amazing - and you guys are a power couple bc of what you withstood together and what you continue to build. ❤
I agree it is annoying when @ 1:14 “God will show you something that he won’t show anyone else in the world”. I have especially learnt to ignore others on matters concerning the nature of Christ/God , etc when closed minded religious addicts say “you can’t be hearing from God because that’s not what my Bible says”. I long ago stopped worshipping the RC church version of Christ & continually seek his face as do many others. The enduring search for greater truth of Christ far outweighs any man made dogma from only 2000 years ago even if I am the only one who knows it.
The enneagram is “channeled material” - attempting to put you into a box of human understanding, rather than God’s original design. You aren’t a “2” or an “8”!! This is deception, like horoscope.
100% This is demonic… we should only be looking to GOD for our identity, not to man’s fabrication of who we are. Many Christ followers have fallen prey to this trap.
NYC S, yes, correct. It has been used abusively in work situations to cause prejudice and harm to employees. Fortunately, it is going away. Christian counselors began to use it in the 1990’s because they were uneducated about psychology. It was a gimmick that became a glib American “toy” to be intrusive into people’s adaptive personality traits. It is rigid and occult, it has roots in Asian mysticism and was adapted by Jung’s daughter to make a quick buck as a marketing gimmick. It has caused a lot of damage, is divisive, invasive, and can add to trauma suffered by already traumatized people who are struggling to cope by adapting their personality traits.
brother... with all due respect, just wow, you have such amazing and beautiful wife. gosh bro you have won the lottery ticket of life lol you have the wisdow, the family, the power. you can tell how much The Lord loves you bro and i can tell what kind of man you are just by the way The Lord is shinning so bright in your life. just madd props my friend!
Love this concept ♒ it's funny going to another level 🎆🌌 19:16 that's the trick the atmosphere between family and duo. A ring is like the child before the child come into the world. Its the trial to maintain :3 controlling the atmosphere (the ring in no air and mantel of significants)
I can definitely relate my wife is a little insecure like Taylor and Lindsay me as well but I rely on God to get us through she's learning as well married 3 yrs have a beautiful 1 yr old baby boy .I'm also reading a book by my Pastor Fred Price on Marriage excellent read I recommend this to Christian couples and even non believers because they still will be able to relate and hopefully bring them to the Lord .We are working out our issues though .We clash on things that we didn't know could be a triggers to our sensitivities.Since I'm a Christian but really started walking with the Lord compared to proclaiming I'm a Christian and doing what I want to do but I also have to learn how to listen to the holy Spirit.Shes accepted but has to learn how to walk with Jesus but I'm praying she will rely on God like I practice but I also trying to learn to reflect God's character so I don't erupt because we are both wrong whether I was right on this situation.Pray for us and I pray for all my married friends amen
First of all Lindsey reminds me of me so much. She is my BFF already lol 😆 and Taylor reminds me of how my husband is at times. We have gotten soooooooo much better at fighting. But I know this was all God ❤❤ may all the glory be to him
This was a beautiful conversation. Nice job. “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.” - John 14:26
I wish l knew how to ice skate when l was young l gotta birthday Christmas day am about to be 48 Christmas day it's never two late two learn ice skating
37:40 How did you learn to derisk giving feedback and not flip out at the feedback? my partner says she feels this way and I really don't want her to and I need to learn how to derisk it.
Simon Sinek mentioned on a podcast his experience having a heart-to-heart conversation with his ex-girlfriend quite some time after they had broken up. During the relationship, they both had gone through a lot of really rough pain; and because work kept them geographically separated, they were not able to draw closer together to console each other. The mindset with which Sinek entered that post-break up conversation was, “Feedback is a gift.” Thus, every time she told him her raw, unfiltered opinion about very painful matters, his response was, “Thank you for telling me.” Somewhat long explanation but wanted to give a contextual example of what Taylor is talking about - having a mindset of gratitude even when hearing feedback we don’t like.
There are no examples in the Bible of women asking their husbands before doing things. I.e. Deborah judging the nation of Israel. So submission isn't like it is sometimes portrayed today. What the Bible doesn't contain is as important as what it Does
At the beginning you can honestly still feel the tension between these 2. You can tell there is a bit of unresolved problems just by the fact that when they are in conversation, they still disagree on their statements. But it does seem they are working on it.
@TaylorAWelch 😆. Im married and in my 30s, going on 11 years. Your story reminded me of my marriage where we fought so bad i kept threatening my wife with divorce and took my ring off multiple times. Just like your wife she had strong faith and i 100% believe if it wasnt for her being close to God I would not be here. Whithin the last year my faith has grown so much and just like you ive been fighting my intellectual side because even though i always seeked the true God, i was lost in other beliefs for a bit. I've been watching your episodes for a few weeks now and look forward to seeing how you keep growing in God. 🙏
This is strait evil. I hope god really touches his heart and helps see the truth. He's in fear of Judgment. Not everyone who says Lord will enter the kingdom of heaven.
@@phoenix-heartentertainment7293 you just have to watch what’s in the video not little snippets. You’re very judgmental for someone who didn’t watch the whole video :)
In Christianity there would be no fighting as the woman is to submit to her husband in every way. He is her head as Christ is the head of man. When a woman truly follow God there is no arguing. Choose a woman who truly follow God and your life will be better.
@@TaylorAWelch Would you argue with God? The same way a woman of God would not argue with her man. If you belive the bible is the word of God it is written in both the old and the new testament.
I love the vulnerability, honesty, and realness. It's refreshing.
This is honestly some of the most honest and transparent marriage conversation I’ve heard in a while! Thank you for putting your story out there, it truly blessed me hearing some of your process with God in your marriage! I wish I could have coffee with Linsey and sit for hours, she seems so wise and nurturing ❤
She is amazing. Thank you for watching 🙏
@TaylorAWelch I feel like I'm watching a reply of my own life and marriage. We are on the other end of it too, but it was rough for a while. Lol. Thanks for the vulnerability!
Its a mirror of my relationship but my ex gf wasn't as submissive. Probably a 4 or 5
You can tell that they not only love each other, but like each other too.
This statement makes no sense. You like someone before you love someone. Not the other way around.
@@maskedfisherman333 But after 10 years you may not "like" that person that much physically but you might lover her a lot... That happens you know?
I've been asking for a woman of faith to listen to for uplifting and encouraging walk it out as a woman type of wisdom. Again, not only as a mother and / or a wife but as a woman, a daughter of the king, my children are grown, and I'm not married. So thank Yah, and thank you.
Will be sharing, and hopefully listening again with my brothers and sisters.❤
🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:00 *💬 Conflict resolution is a key topic in relationships, and healthy communication is essential in handling disagreements.*
28:00 *💍 In the early years of their marriage, the couple struggled with constant, intense arguments, highlighting the importance of learning conflict management over time.*
01:09:00 *🔄 They emphasize the importance of emotional intelligence and understanding each other’s different personalities for better communication.*
05:04:00 *🧠 Recognizing personality traits (like Myers-Briggs or Enneagram types) helps in tailoring conflict approaches, making arguments more productive and less emotionally charged.*
07:10:00 *🗣️ Misunderstandings arise from differing conflict styles; one partner prefers space, while the other feels the need to resolve things immediately.*
09:00:00 *⏳ The couple learned to respect each other's conflict needs, balancing emotional distance with the need for resolution in a way that worked for them.*
12:00:00 *💥 Early marriage struggles were tied to deeper fears of rejection and betrayal, influencing how each partner responded to conflict.*
17:19:00 *🛠️ Over time, they learned to resolve conflicts more quickly, especially after becoming parents, emphasizing the importance of moving past trivial disagreements.*
19:50:00 *🕰️ A key takeaway from an Uber driver’s advice: “If the argument won’t matter in 5 years, end it and move on” - prioritizing long-term peace over momentary issues.*
21:37 *🍽️ Decision fatigue causes stress in relationships, as one partner might offer to make decisions but then retract, leading to frustration and conflict.*
21:50 *😣 When decision fatigue sets in, it can escalate into an argument, especially when both partners are already overwhelmed by their respective responsibilities.*
22:05 *💬 Communication improves when partners learn to understand and ask each other about their feelings, creating space for clarification rather than escalation.*
22:45 *🏋️♀️ The stress of balancing work, kids, and relationships can lead to tension, but syncing expectations and creating plans for quality time helps avoid unnecessary conflict.*
23:41 *📅 Regular planning for date nights and household duties, including having backup days, helps maintain connection during busy times.*
25:05 *🔄 Healthy conflict involves syncing expectations early on and making sure both parties are on the same page to avoid unnecessary fights.*
25:33 *🧠 Healthy conflict leads to both partners getting closer, with minimal emotional damage, by fostering efficient communication.*
26:11 *🙏 Apologizing, even when not at fault, can help achieve healthier outcomes in conflict by prioritizing emotional resolution over proving who is right.*
26:39 *🔄 Boomerang behavior, where unresolved issues pile up over time, can cause bigger blow-ups if not addressed early and openly.*
28:12 *🌱 Partners grow together, adapting their roles and personalities over time, as seen with Taylor’s entrepreneurial journey.*
34:03 *📚 Assumptions in communication can lead to misunderstandings; actively stating assumptions and correcting them improves understanding.*
35:00 *🗣️ Verbal processing vs. calculated thought processes can create tension; asking for clarification before assuming meanings can prevent conflict.*
36:35 *🤔 Asking for feedback and creating space for it during non-conflict times makes it safer to communicate openly.*
37:42 *🔒 Making communication safe from judgment or retaliation helps partners feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings.*
39:47 *🔄 Growth and navigating big transitions as a couple, like moving and changing careers, requires mutual support and understanding.*
42:01 *🌟 Letting go of expectations and trusting in timing can lead to unexpected blessings, as shown in the couple’s story of having a child.*
43:52 *💼 Entrepreneurship is tough and requires resilience-sometimes everything falls apart, but it’s a cycle of trying again.*
45:00 *🧠 Knowing how to support your partner through difficult moments involves avoiding unnecessary stress and providing calming suggestions.*
46:07 *🚶♂️ Sometimes small personal routines, like taking a walk, help clear the mind and process stress effectively.*
46:36 *👩👧👦 Parenting dynamics shift when one parent is in "mom mode" or "dad mode," creating potential for communication struggles if roles aren't recognized.*
48:04 *🤦♂️ Caring for children alone can feel overwhelming, and small details (like feeding pets) can slip through when the focus is divided.*
50:18 *👨👩👧👦 Parenthood often challenges partners to appreciate the other’s struggles, like balancing business and family responsibilities.*
51:16 *🕊️ Communication, especially around expectations and responsibilities, is key to maintaining unity and reducing resentment in marriage.*
52:52 *🙅♀️ Women may feel unappreciated or misunderstood during busy seasons, especially when balancing multiple roles and responsibilities.*
54:00 *💡 Conflict can often stem from feeling misunderstood, with one partner focusing on tasks while the other may feel disconnected.*
55:23 *🧘♂️ Reflecting on why you feel triggered by your partner’s actions can reveal personal insecurities or unmet needs that need addressing.*
57:08 *🕊️ Unity and mutual support in marriage are essential, especially during challenging seasons, and both partners must recognize each other’s sacrifices.*
58:16 *💪 Expressing frustration or unmet needs is important for long-term harmony, especially during stressful family or work seasons.*
01:00:20 *🔄 Re-engaging with your partner in a calm, understanding way when conflict arises helps reinforce the sense that you’re a team, not adversaries.*
01:03:59 *🧑🤝🧑 Deep communication and awareness can transform misunderstandings and prevent emotional distance in a relationship.*
01:05:07 *💔 Once both partners become aware of their insecurities, it’s easier to heal and avoid repeating negative patterns in the relationship.*
01:06:06 *🏠 Emphasizing that material things don't matter as long as they have each other, sharing memories of tough times they've gone through together.*
01:07:42 *📅 They had to adjust expectations during a hectic season, where communication about their roles and sacrifices was crucial.*
01:08:35 *⚖️ Discussing a time when they struggled with balancing work and family, and the impact of decisions on their relationship.*
01:09:58 *💬 They learned to communicate better over time, including setting clear expectations and balancing work/family life without ultimatums.*
01:10:52 *🕒 Setting a predictable time for returning home became crucial for managing their family dynamics and avoiding frustration.*
01:12:15 *🧩 They began planning ahead instead of reacting to deficits, making sure both partners’ needs are met.*
01:13:36 *🙏 Discussing how hearing God's voice became a pivotal part of their lives, with stories of spiritual guidance during challenging situations.*
01:15:08 *👂 Lindsey shares how she initially struggled to use her spiritual gift and learned to listen and pray, rather than correct her husband.*
01:16:04 *🛡️ God showed Lindsey her role as the "first line of defense" in the marriage, sensing issues and praying about them instead of trying to control them.*
01:18:08 *💡 The importance of small daily decisions to learn and recognize God's voice, as Lindsey shared how she trained herself in spiritual listening.*
01:19:47 *✈️ A story of how God guided Lindsey through a stressful airport experience, showing her the power of faith and God's kindness in small details.*
01:20:59 *🙌 They reflect on how small prayers and faith-building moments prepared them for bigger challenges ahead, such as dealing with career and family transitions.*
01:25:32 *💪 They discuss the importance of building faith in the small moments to strengthen belief for bigger challenges, using past experiences to face current hurdles.*
01:26:40 *🙏 Faith can take time to manifest in the physical world, as seen in healing stories where individuals believed they were healed, even before medical scans confirmed it.*
01:27:06 *💡 Spiritual beliefs can strengthen healing, with some claiming that what happens in the spiritual realm may take longer to show in the natural world.*
01:27:31 *👻 Spirits thrive where they are fed; fear and anxiety, when nurtured, can attract negative spiritual forces.*
01:28:43 *📜 God’s promises are unwavering; His word cannot be undone, reaffirming His commitment to fulfill His promises.*
01:29:24 *🌱 Faith isn’t measured by the size of the challenge, but by the certainty in your belief-small faith can achieve great things, like moving mountains.*
01:29:52 *💪 Faith responds to trust, not the magnitude of the need. Trust in God remains constant, whether the challenge is large or small.*
01:31:59 *🌿 Prayer for a fresh revelation of God's love can ease anxiety and fear, allowing individuals to experience peace and strength in stressful situations.*
Made with HARPA AI
Taylor and Lindsey touch on some big triggers that affect marriages, this is real and raw. Thank you both!
Wow! Words cannot express how much this real honest and raw discussion refreshed my soul. Thank you both for being open and honest about the struggles. Also we need some more content from Lindsey- so much wisdom!! Thank you guys again ❤
The parallels between what you guys went through and what I'm going through are insane. He wants me to make the money in the future so he can be a stay at home dad when we have kids. He'd be an amazing homeschool teacher, but it still doesn't sit right with me. We go through so many cycles of doing good and then having huge fights. He told me long ago in past relationships he'd be the first to break up because of abandonment, just like what Taylor talked about. I've never once used the d-word or break up words-- I stay and fight like Lindsey. I am very much a verbal processor, as well. We are both gamers and artists but lately we don't play any of the same games so it's usually me craving closeness while he stays and games in all his free time and feels lonely. Difference in personalities, love languages (husband doesn't believe in them), constant unmerited critiques-- then I harbor insecurity, bitterness, resentment, cop and attitude, and a huge fight breaks out. It's a vicious cycle, but I know there's hope in Jesus.
I followed Lindsey-- was hoping if there was a way to reach out and maybe get some advice. I'm 23 and trying to navigate this marriage.
This is such a fantastic, honest conversation! I love how candid you both were for us!! God bless you, Lindsey, Kate, Harrison, and your entire crew!! ❤
This was beautiful. I love seeing the way the two of you interact with each other. You're also both very good at articulating your process. Super helpful content, and also very encouraging to see what the marriage relationship can look like. Many thanks!
Again, Taylor, you are telling my whole story. I hear you and your wife speak together it shows me you I can grow as much as you have.
The beauty of the parallels between your marriage and mine are crazy . The lord is faithful in love and love is the most beautiful gift we’ve been given ❤️ wishing you and your wife peace, joy and happiness.
Thank you for putting the real and raw out there because it shifts perspectives like mine. Lindsey I resonate with you so much and can’t thank you for your wisdom here 🫶
This was SO GOOD! Thank you for sharing authentically (as always). You give us wisdom for relationships. God cares!
This is an INCREDIBLE conversation. Lindsey is a Rockstar and Taylor certainly seems to be a great adversary & partner
Really enjoyed this episode. So cool to see how you guys tackle everyday issues/hurdles. Inspiring and honest.
Lindsey needs her own channel for this stuff … all of it … just wanna her all she has to share
Hi Lindsey, you should have a show too!
Wow. You guys crushed this. Way to evolve your marriage and grow through all the hard seasons. Lindsey is amazing - and you guys are a power couple bc of what you withstood together and what you continue to build. ❤
You guys are literally parallels of me and my partners story, like literally everything you guys are mentioning, it’s actually scary lol. Luv it 🙏🏾
I agree it is annoying when @ 1:14 “God will show you something that he won’t show anyone else in the world”. I have especially learnt to ignore others on matters concerning the nature of Christ/God , etc when closed minded religious addicts say “you can’t be hearing from God because that’s not what my Bible says”. I long ago stopped worshipping the RC church version of Christ & continually seek his face as do many others. The enduring search for greater truth of Christ far outweighs any man made dogma from only 2000 years ago even if I am the only one who knows it.
Thank you both for being so honest and bringing such helpful and meaningful content. You are such a blessing.
This is so good! We definitely need a part 2! ❤
The enneagram is “channeled material” - attempting to put you into a box of human understanding, rather than God’s original design. You aren’t a “2” or an “8”!! This is deception, like horoscope.
100% This is demonic… we should only be looking to GOD for our identity, not to man’s fabrication of who we are. Many Christ followers have fallen prey to this trap.
NYC S, yes, correct. It has been used abusively in work situations to cause prejudice and harm to employees. Fortunately, it is going away. Christian counselors began to use it in the 1990’s because they were uneducated about psychology. It was a gimmick that became a glib American “toy” to be intrusive into people’s adaptive personality traits. It is rigid and occult, it has roots in Asian mysticism and was adapted by Jung’s daughter to make a quick buck as a marketing gimmick. It has caused a lot of damage, is divisive, invasive, and can add to trauma suffered by already traumatized people who are struggling to cope by adapting their personality traits.
I love this honest and open conversation!! It’s very refreshing!
👊🤝 so glad!!
brother... with all due respect, just wow, you have such amazing and beautiful wife. gosh bro you have won the lottery ticket of life lol you have the wisdow, the family, the power. you can tell how much The Lord loves you bro and i can tell what kind of man you are just by the way The Lord is shinning so bright in your life. just madd props my friend!
She slayed yo brother quit trying to correct her all the time and duh yeah women process through communication TALKING “
This is so amazing! Thank you for being raw! I love this!
What an amazing lady! Such a beautiful soul!
Thank you for sharing your experience, so valuable and amazing!!🔥🔥🔥♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for watching. We will do another one soon!
Thanks so much, you too.❤️🙏
Love this concept
♒ it's funny going to another level 🎆🌌
19:16 that's the trick the atmosphere between family and duo. A ring is like the child before the child come into the world. Its the trial to maintain :3 controlling the atmosphere (the ring in no air and mantel of significants)
22:18 Totally been where Taylor just described.
so good, appreciate y’all sharing 🙏
My man. If you’re watching it, it means I have officially made it!!
I can definitely relate my wife is a little insecure like Taylor and Lindsay me as well but I rely on God to get us through she's learning as well married 3 yrs have a beautiful 1 yr old baby boy .I'm also reading a book by my Pastor Fred Price on Marriage excellent read I recommend this to Christian couples and even non believers because they still will be able to relate and hopefully bring them to the Lord .We are working out our issues though .We clash on things that we didn't know could be a triggers to our sensitivities.Since I'm a Christian but really started walking with the Lord compared to proclaiming I'm a Christian and doing what I want to do but I also have to learn how to listen to the holy Spirit.Shes accepted but has to learn how to walk with Jesus but I'm praying she will rely on God like I practice but I also trying to learn to reflect God's character so I don't erupt because we are both wrong whether I was right on this situation.Pray for us and I pray for all my married friends amen
What a woman good for you. You seem to deserve it all. Praise Jesus. All the best.
So helpful!! Thank you! ❤
Your so proud of her that she had the courage to go out on a limb and speak up 😂😂😂
First of all Lindsey reminds me of me so much. She is my BFF already lol 😆 and Taylor reminds me of how my husband is at times. We have gotten soooooooo much better at fighting. But I know this was all God ❤❤ may all the glory be to him
I was going down the rabbit trail before l was lost little bit l didn't know how to find myself back out of that muck and mire muddy waters before
Whats the test for the personality type you guys take?? I'd love to test myself 🙏
I'm trying to find it too... i'll let you know if I do.
They’re talking about the enneagram personality test . I haven’t done it either.
Stan Tatkin "Your Brain on Love."
This was a beautiful conversation. Nice job.
“But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.” - John 14:26
I wish l knew how to ice skate when l was young l gotta birthday Christmas day am about to be 48 Christmas day it's never two late two learn ice skating
Lindsey is beautiful inside and out
I'm in my single season l get way too lonely sometimes
This is so good ❤
Means so much, thank you!
Please pray for me my back hurts so much
I need a better attitude and a better behavior
I'm an 8 too bro!
What a stunning wife
37:40 How did you learn to derisk giving feedback and not flip out at the feedback? my partner says she feels this way and I really don't want her to and I need to learn how to derisk it.
Not responding with whether I agreed or not with their opinion but being grateful they shared it with me
Simon Sinek mentioned on a podcast his experience having a heart-to-heart conversation with his ex-girlfriend quite some time after they had broken up. During the relationship, they both had gone through a lot of really rough pain; and because work kept them geographically separated, they were not able to draw closer together to console each other.
The mindset with which Sinek entered that post-break up conversation was, “Feedback is a gift.” Thus, every time she told him her raw, unfiltered opinion about very painful matters, his response was, “Thank you for telling me.”
Somewhat long explanation but wanted to give a contextual example of what Taylor is talking about - having a mindset of gratitude even when hearing feedback we don’t like.
I'd look into the history of enneagram. Just going to put that out there. Shalom.
Yup.
50:01 My wife when I explain why I didn't do something.
I was like a wolverine lost in chaos
I'm going through a dry season
I'm Washington terrace Raleigh
I don't know how to win every argument
I wish l have what it takes
I could never be married to this guy 😂
There are no examples in the Bible of women asking their husbands before doing things. I.e. Deborah judging the nation of Israel. So submission isn't like it is sometimes portrayed today. What the Bible doesn't contain is as important as what it Does
6:41 I'm a 9w1
I was dumb and restarted
Taylor - you forgot Bass Pro 😂
I seem little bit bitter
I don't look 48
At the beginning you can honestly still feel the tension between these 2. You can tell there is a bit of unresolved problems just by the fact that when they are in conversation, they still disagree on their statements. But it does seem they are working on it.
It’s called being in love silly goose
@TaylorAWelch 😆. Im married and in my 30s, going on 11 years. Your story reminded me of my marriage where we fought so bad i kept threatening my wife with divorce and took my ring off multiple times. Just like your wife she had strong faith and i 100% believe if it wasnt for her being close to God I would not be here. Whithin the last year my faith has grown so much and just like you ive been fighting my intellectual side because even though i always seeked the true God, i was lost in other beliefs for a bit. I've been watching your episodes for a few weeks now and look forward to seeing how you keep growing in God. 🙏
I'm too skinny
🤣🤣🤣 At how the audience gasped for air at her clawing his face! Oh my gosh… I can relate. I used to be that wife. But we learn and do better. 😌🧖♀️
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Why is your reality the TRUTH??? Btw Tyler I love you, not dissen you 😂😂so people she had the CO😢TO GO OUT OB A LIMB AND SPEAK TO YOU 😂
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This is strait evil. I hope god really touches his heart and helps see the truth. He's in fear of Judgment. Not everyone who says Lord will enter the kingdom of heaven.
Start praying that God will teach you how to watch a whole video and only comment at the end. That’s a good prayer.
@@phoenix-heartentertainment7293 you just have to watch what’s in the video not little snippets. You’re very judgmental for someone who didn’t watch the whole video :)
Don’t worry when you’re pointing with your index finger. 3 other fingers point back. Watch the whole video.
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*straight . Just imagine if God judged your salvation based on your lack of spelling skills. Ridiculous right? Well, that’s how you sound.
In Christianity there would be no fighting as the woman is to submit to her husband in every way. He is her head as Christ is the head of man. When a woman truly follow God there is no arguing. Choose a woman who truly follow God and your life will be better.
That’s just silly
@@TaylorAWelch Would you argue with God? The same way a woman of God would not argue with her man. If you belive the bible is the word of God it is written in both the old and the new testament.
@@DayZOldschool saying the husband is like God is called stupid theology lol
@@TaylorAWelch God has put Christ over man, man over woman and woman over children. Its the word of God. Call it how you dare
@DayZOldschool.... wait, so you're looking for the robot wife, right?