Sista Laments After Realizing She Lost A Good Man Because She Chose Her Work Husband

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  • Ladies, never pass up on a great man. Many women pass them up then live to regret it later.

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  • @jessicaserrano3800
    @jessicaserrano3800 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    So the back story was no I wasn’t having sex with both of them. I went on a few days with him and that was it. He wasn’t applying enough pressure for me!! That’s it that’s all! Life goes tf on. TAKE ME OFF THIS PAGE RIGHT NOW

    • @turbo1997hsm
      @turbo1997hsm ปีที่แล้ว +67

      😂😂😂

    • @unadulteratedtruth8716
      @unadulteratedtruth8716 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      This is for educational use and should stay here as a cautionary tale for women who think they can juggle men at their whim.

    • @charlesr.dearsjr.3027
      @charlesr.dearsjr.3027 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Keep it 💯 sis. Men love honesty and transparency.

    • @dcbr1zzle
      @dcbr1zzle ปีที่แล้ว +39

      It's all good ain't nobody judging you. 😌

    • @unadulteratedtruth8716
      @unadulteratedtruth8716 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Ain't nobody getting this worked up and making videos however long after the fact about somebody they just went on a few dates with. People ain't crazy.

  • @marcojohnson8488
    @marcojohnson8488 ปีที่แล้ว +602

    If I hear my woman call another man her work husband I’m leaving that same day

    • @Mrjonezzz
      @Mrjonezzz ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Yea we’re over immediately.

    • @garlandshort8416
      @garlandshort8416 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      😂😂😂

    • @eliastate7263
      @eliastate7263 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      You should leave. The term itself is very disrespectful

    • @Dragonmuslimah73
      @Dragonmuslimah73 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Run dont walk

    • @marcojohnson8488
      @marcojohnson8488 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Dragonmuslimah73 😂😂💯

  • @thepassportog
    @thepassportog ปีที่แล้ว +278

    She doesn’t see him as a man, she only sees his dependable resources

    • @franklinbrandon5283
      @franklinbrandon5283 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Exactly

    • @Nyufly
      @Nyufly ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯💯💯💯 💪💪💪

    • @Magikk_Handles
      @Magikk_Handles ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I noticed the way his profession was mentioned too. I didn't hear anything else that made him a good man though. 🤔

    • @franklinbrandon5283
      @franklinbrandon5283 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Magikk_Handles we're only a wallet to them!!

    • @backmanbolee4853
      @backmanbolee4853 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 true to that.. women’s mind doesn’t operate on logic, just chaos. That’s why they love the bad immature guys..

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es ปีที่แล้ว +850

    For all those fellow good men that got passed up by these women who did not desire them...Don't look or take them back.

  • @xG1ZZM0x
    @xG1ZZM0x ปีที่แล้ว +281

    I bet women will still tell her, “It’s his loss SIS!”. 😂😂😂

    • @donaldlyons180
      @donaldlyons180 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂

    • @marvl6472
      @marvl6472 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      No Accountability for the kweens

    • @JasayMyName
      @JasayMyName ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣😂 facts

    • @bumblebee4024
      @bumblebee4024 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Only women *like her* will see it that way. Women like me - who just celebrated 33 yrs of marriage to a phenomenal man - don’t feel sorry for her in the least. She was a fool for letting a good man go.

    • @biggyman1539
      @biggyman1539 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      heeheehee 🤣🤣

  • @keshhan6412
    @keshhan6412 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Gentlemen, don't be mistaken and mislead by them. They are never sorry for hurting you and betraying you, they are only sorry for the convenience they lost.

    • @anthonywilliams9415
      @anthonywilliams9415 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Facts on top of fax 📠

    • @OnyemaechiAmuro
      @OnyemaechiAmuro ปีที่แล้ว

      *Black women...* 🙄
      ---
      *Moral of the story:* Dont date single moms.

    • @subzfit
      @subzfit 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Solid facts

    • @JWFitness1
      @JWFitness1 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Or sorry for getting caught

  • @unadulteratedtruth8716
    @unadulteratedtruth8716 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    She kept him as a friend when she thought she had the upper hand. As soon as HE moved on, all the sudden, seeing him happy makes her sick to her stomach!!!

  • @teepre23
    @teepre23 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    That work husband worked her goofy ass!🤣🤣🤣

  • @stacypatton84
    @stacypatton84 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Glad she shared this story... she would have ruined the good man anyway.

    • @Mr.Boring_Man
      @Mr.Boring_Man ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That was my take as well. Lol.

    • @HowardLKing
      @HowardLKing ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And they wonder why we do not want to get involved with their toxic delusional Jezebel asses...SMH 🤣🤣🤣

    • @sidneywilder2731
      @sidneywilder2731 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I said that too,if she hadn't did that good man wrong, she would've done another good man wrong, she was the problem

    • @12Gates.
      @12Gates. ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wait so women actually admit decent men exist now!? 😂😂😭😭😭

    • @jonjones7137
      @jonjones7137 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@12Gates. yep once they see him wifing up the new chick and upgrading her life....NOW.....they get it. She is just a simple pass-a-round chick

  • @latonyanewsome0
    @latonyanewsome0 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The crazy part is this man was willing to accept a child that wasn't his. She left him got pregnant with #2 and miserable while he's happy.

  • @midcharles7989
    @midcharles7989 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    In my early 20s I was dating this girl, I was good to her, but I didn’t have too much(car, house, good job) she cheated on me, fast forward to a few years ago she found me on Instagram and apologized, telling me I was good guy blah blah, and the dude she cheated on me with was cheating on her, was a deadbeat. I accepted her apology but tbh it felt good karma came back around

    • @Jarack123
      @Jarack123 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Trying to get huh? Shame on her.. don't ever take back a cheater.

    • @marcelljackson2868
      @marcelljackson2868 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Block her for real cause she throwing that bait out. She trying come back

    • @marquishoward3529
      @marquishoward3529 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@marcelljackson2868 they always do, when they find out the grass ain’t green on the other side

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      don't accept no apology move on that is an mistake

    • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
      @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cut her off and move on.

  • @jdh1969
    @jdh1969 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Two kids, all tatted up and single. The chances of her getting a good man now are slim to none.

    • @apostle100
      @apostle100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And slim died.

    • @colbalt95
      @colbalt95 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eh she still looks okay. There's a sucker born every minute.

    • @apostle100
      @apostle100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@colbalt95 - No doubt she'll still find a man, but jdh1969 said "...a good man". I'm sure Pookie would love a place to rest his head with a home cooked meal and some constant poon, but she'll resent him in time.

    • @HB-yk4ut
      @HB-yk4ut ปีที่แล้ว

      She is way past her expiration date. She was made a fool of and wants folks to feel sorry for her. Keep enjoying your one night stands!🤡

    • @anattaokonkwo
      @anattaokonkwo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tattoos have nothing to do with it.

  • @brothacurbstomp
    @brothacurbstomp ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I don't mess with nobody at work, it's a recipe for disaster.

  • @simmons4690
    @simmons4690 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'm not ashamed to say I was dumped by my high school sweetheart, my first love, why, she said I work too much and I studied all the time, she wanted to have a good time, all the time. She dropped out of college, went to work and dated a series of dusty dudes, broke, no ambition, baby daddy men. Do I care, at first I did, cause I knew her family, she has a married mother and father in the home, so it had nothing to do with up bringing, their hard working people. She now dresses like a stripper, club all the time and who knows what else and she wants us to be friends, but I told her I don't believe in going backwards and I bounce in the other direction.

  • @adamjayson2007
    @adamjayson2007 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Stories like this make me glad that I am a good man.

    • @adraincrawford7733
      @adraincrawford7733 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm with u when u right

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Continue to be just that. Someone will appreciate you

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why nothing good comes out of it no women respect good men just use them

    • @adamjayson2007
      @adamjayson2007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GoatHolyfield true that's why they end up alone.

    • @cashree2370
      @cashree2370 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm more happy he let her see what she missing don't block them but don't take emm back

  • @whateverhappened2
    @whateverhappened2 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    I applaud her honesty, few women are willing to admit to their mistakes

    • @Fatfacetony86
      @Fatfacetony86 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Nah, she don't get credit. They love telling their business anyway

    • @antwangordon6918
      @antwangordon6918 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onceagain6184 naw, men are forced to take accountability for everything. Society has the tendency to bail women out from their reckless behavior. Women are the consumer class. 70 cents of every dollar in this country is spent by women. So companies, government, and educational institutions pander to women. To sell products and services. There’s a market for keeping people single.
      Even real estate. More units are rented and sold if men and women live separately.

    • @TheLadymac1982
      @TheLadymac1982 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Fatfacetony86 do you want women to take accountability or not?! Y’all get on here saying women need to take responsibility & when they do y’all make fun of them as if y’all ain’t out here harming & deleting women & children.

    • @antwangordon6918
      @antwangordon6918 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@onceagain6184 Wow, I can see my original comment. So basically TH-cam hid it because they know it’s the truth. I didn’t say anything inflammatory about women at all. Stop projecting your insecurities. People can’t see my comment so you tried to project a false narrative as an attempt to discredit me.

    • @Fatfacetony86
      @Fatfacetony86 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@TheLadymac1982 Yeah she learned her lesson, but she had to hurt someone in the process

  • @druth5134
    @druth5134 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    They all pass up good men . I don't feel bad for none of them.

    • @DefiesAllStereotypes
      @DefiesAllStereotypes ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me neither!

    • @HowardLKing
      @HowardLKing ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me either, it's more of Us who has been hurt then them. 😖😌😰🙏🙏🙏

    • @mrquackers8986
      @mrquackers8986 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      like joker said: "you get what you effing deserve!!"

    • @Jay7682
      @Jay7682 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed

  • @darrionreed1240
    @darrionreed1240 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Never fails females always say it's a work schedule when it comes to good men but have all the time in the world for a pookie and ray ray

  • @evos469
    @evos469 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    She made time for her baby daddy, fellas. Stay on your grind and remember the wrong women are a dime a dozen.

    • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
      @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly.

    • @cmaccmcqueen7639
      @cmaccmcqueen7639 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh yeah they always make time for the baby daddy. Even after they are broke up with the baby daddy

    • @cmaccmcqueen7639
      @cmaccmcqueen7639 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah they always make time for the baby daddy. Even after they are broke up with the baby daddy

  • @alegna1983
    @alegna1983 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    People out here looking for good good men and then you have this. The longer you are emotionally attracted it is destined to become physical.

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      and when you hit the wall it is over should of picked better at the beginning

    • @Think1stMedia
      @Think1stMedia ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That's why many men don't like their woman to have male friends.

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Think1stMedia but you're being Insecure he just a friend🤓

  • @iceman_2360
    @iceman_2360 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Can't feel sorry for these women. We'll see posts time and time again of women becoming some guy's upteen baby mama then shame the men who don't want to be a stepdad when they're ready to settle down. I hope these good men continue to win in life.

    • @melanatedsoulja7067
      @melanatedsoulja7067 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Facts..another lie they love to tell too is that" there is no good men out here or they are taken" but they never tell you how these good men DON'T want them!!

    • @desmondjefferson2127
      @desmondjefferson2127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are! Women like this week used to be thin and pretty KNOW I don't look back. They had their chance and I have NO BUSINESS dating any woman post wall or with kids.

  • @REGGIE_BXNY
    @REGGIE_BXNY ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I remember 24 years ago when I was a newlywed, a chick at my job started flirting with me, gave me her number and said to call her if I had anything juicy to say. She also told me that men in our company had a wife at home and a company wife. I held the number for a few months because I was young and struggling with temptation. Thank God I threw her number in the trash. My wife and I have been together for 28 years now and will have our Silver Anniversary next spring. We had 3 beautiful children together. It was not always easy but I have been faithful to her throughout our marriage. It seems like more women hit on you after your married than before your married. I thank the Lord that I never give in to that 304’s advances.

  • @dboygreat
    @dboygreat ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Feeling real dumb aren't we? Never understood why some women turn away a good man for a fool

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and she's the big dummy coming from fred
      Sanford

    • @jonjones7137
      @jonjones7137 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Cause friends, family, social media, and other hating azz females tell them too. At 28 to 35 and 2 babies in.....they wake the heck up.

    • @clearvision3316
      @clearvision3316 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Nice guys get railroaded.

    • @rickymcdonald2669
      @rickymcdonald2669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Move to Kankakee IL and you would see black women by the boat loads chasing married men or pookie and Ray Ray. Good brothers have to hit the highway to Chicago if he's not pookie or Ray Ray.

    • @dboygreat
      @dboygreat ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jonjones7137 misery truly loves company

  • @d-kreate5468
    @d-kreate5468 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Fellas when women truly desire you they’re not going to let your schedule interfere with interaction. She never wanted that man, she just liked what he could do for her and thought she could play him in the background, while she dated the man she was really sexually attracted to and now that the “good” man is not in her orbit anymore and totally off the market, she feels like she played herself, which she did. She knew exactly what she was doing, as an already single mom. She knew single mothers are not desired on these streets and she CHOSE the wrong dude knowingly.

    • @jimjones3287
      @jimjones3287 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @paulacurrie2441
      @paulacurrie2441 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She never wanted that man and he never wanted her either. He could see upfront what you just summed up in your comment and that's why he, per her written comment, "didn't apply the pressure".

  • @calebhenderson6507
    @calebhenderson6507 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    And they said kevin was the only person who cared about saving marriages.. Phil is legit trying.

  • @oneman5753
    @oneman5753 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This is why I say folks being like "he'll come when I'm ready". Nope. Sometimes things come along when we think we're not ready and we just need to jump on the program.

  • @capcomman1
    @capcomman1 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Lessons that I've learned in past relationships. If she still is talking to a old flame as a "friend",having many male friends ,or have any exes that are street dudes. Stay the hell away from those women .Idc how good the sex is or you really like that woman. Leave her alone . You'll thank yourself later, trust me. No pity from me when I see these women passing up good men for sure

    • @szasz9260
      @szasz9260 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For sure

  • @adsmith364
    @adsmith364 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    All I can say is, I hope these young chicks and single ladies are listening to this. For some reason we don't often tell our younger ladies the mistakes we made. Help a girl out thats willing to listen and learn and will do better.

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      dumb mistakes will keep you single for a life times chasing after pookies and Ray rays that don't have any sense

    • @edgardovilla199
      @edgardovilla199 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Women have have dropped the ball on their daughters. Instead of helping them out, the mothers will encourage them to do bs.

    • @trevorkinchen6124
      @trevorkinchen6124 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The two key words that's almost never in a woman's vocabulary LISTEN AND LEARN. Those 2 Ls could one day get you a W, try it sometime

    • @jbubba1053
      @jbubba1053 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Also single women keep other women single. If you got a good man don’t listen to your lonely friends telling you to leave him

    • @ViralAgent1
      @ViralAgent1 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@edgardovilla199 meanwhile, fathers are putting their sons up on all kinds of game.
      Because, unlike women, men actually care about future generations.

  • @MarcheRenoir
    @MarcheRenoir ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Men: She wasn't actually dating 2 guys. She was engaging in INTIMATE BACK FLIPS with a variety of men in dark and lonely spaces. Now she's CRYING IN THE LIGHT and soliciting sympathy from RANDOM STRANGERS on the internet..!

    • @StrokaReviews
      @StrokaReviews ปีที่แล้ว +11

      When being a 304 goes completely wrong.

    • @marquishoward3529
      @marquishoward3529 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I swear I was thinking the exact same thing

  • @derrickscott6
    @derrickscott6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    That's the reason why so many Men don't want to be bothered with them. They always want to play games and think it's fun until reality kicks in

    • @sidneywilder2731
      @sidneywilder2731 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts ,that's why men avoid them, always playing games,dating multiple men ,how could one take them serious

  • @BigKeith510
    @BigKeith510 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Sounds like the brotha dodged a major bullet.

  • @bagz2shuz
    @bagz2shuz ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Nobody wants you until somebody wants you. Women in particular are guilty of this. All of a sudden when the man is happy and has moved on, they see how good he is and how dumb she was. And the bad part is they don’t even want you…they just don’t want anyone else to have you. They want to play and get ran thru and then present that “goodwill” 🐱 like it’s still what’s good. Fellas, check the carfax on those 🐈 s.

    • @Mad-UpperCuts
      @Mad-UpperCuts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spot on.

    • @stewartfm2319
      @stewartfm2319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex said the same thing! don't want me with anybody. Else. Smh

  • @hpt_huxtable7085
    @hpt_huxtable7085 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I wish him and his fiancé the best. Life is about choices.

  • @ericfletcher6443
    @ericfletcher6443 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    It's better to prepare for an opportunity, and never have it come, than to have an opportunity come, and not be prepared.
    -- Les Brown

  • @CreativeWayz
    @CreativeWayz ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I've worked too hard to have to settle for taking care of another man's kids bro not doing it....

  • @n003326
    @n003326 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    🧢 on “couldn’t find time due to our work schedules”. If there’s one thing i’ve learned it’s women will find and make time for someone they really like.

    • @SL-ud7tf
      @SL-ud7tf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep, blaming work schedules when she was busy with 2nd baby daddy aka her work husband, I bet they took breaks together and stay behind late to "work". That brother be thanking God hard for protecting him, when he sees her post.

    • @Jay7682
      @Jay7682 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

  • @MarcheRenoir
    @MarcheRenoir ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ladies: When y'all gone learn? FREE COOCHIE is the ADMISSION PRICE for trauma. The more you give it away? The more you're going to OWE YOUR THERAPIST..!

    • @ktv9247
      @ktv9247 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naw not even if she gave to real ones she'd be aight 💯

  • @jaymvx3
    @jaymvx3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She unfriended him when she saw his proposal, 😂 good for her. Truth be told he most likely forgot they were "FB friends" nor will he notice or care that they're no longer social media friends.

  • @andrewfitzpatrick9741
    @andrewfitzpatrick9741 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She did not fumble him, dude realized his worth and found better. Those are crocodile tears.

  • @russelljohnson2008
    @russelljohnson2008 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love to see women like this crying. Makes up for all the times I got mistreated by them in the past.🥳

  • @QuentinAD
    @QuentinAD ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Love to hear these stories 🙂

  • @bracebrooks967
    @bracebrooks967 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This is a major problem in the U.S, as far as good men getting overlooked and under-appreciated, but it's an even bigger problem in the black community. I hope some young ladies do learn from this, and not make the same bad decision.

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can forget about that you just have dumb women that's the truth

    • @ruachpneuma5638
      @ruachpneuma5638 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bingo

    • @Ekenei
      @Ekenei ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Believe it or not, they keep making the same mistakes. It is a generational curse for many of them

    • @Mr_International_
      @Mr_International_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm convinced BW have an obsession with seeing their daughters fail. It's sickening. BM will eventually put their sons on game and encourage them to date out.

  • @cpthetrucker9067
    @cpthetrucker9067 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yeah...this didn't even get out the GATE good. She got pregnant by the guy she wanted to. It wasn't a mistake..it was a choice. NOW she got alleged buyer's remorse. 🙄🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @adraincrawford7733
    @adraincrawford7733 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have no sympathy for these kinds of women. I feel nothing

    • @mrquackers8986
      @mrquackers8986 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      like joker said: "you get what you effing deserve!!".....

  • @edwardlandersonlll9096
    @edwardlandersonlll9096 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lot of these women are beginning to realize how foolish they've been and how right brother Kevin Samuels was!

  • @FBACERTIFIED
    @FBACERTIFIED ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I'm glad she just being honest though but see she reap what you're sow this what these black women like her don't understand GOD is not going to allow you to mistreat good men and then give you another good man to mistreat he'll give you one just like you.

  • @cavindent6973
    @cavindent6973 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She's going to cry in the car when the camera is off.

  • @anthonyjohnsonsr.5220
    @anthonyjohnsonsr.5220 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Real talk brothers, the one thing we do have going for us is there's plenty of options nowadays.

  • @turbo1997hsm
    @turbo1997hsm ปีที่แล้ว +6

    And this is why I rather stay single, work on myself, and continue to be successful

  • @golden5269
    @golden5269 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Say it again Phil! No man is perfect, but my husband is the perfect imperfect man for me and I’m his perfect imperfect woman. We have been the perfect imperfect couple for 22 years in January. I love him as he is.

  • @marvl6472
    @marvl6472 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    They all need a wake up call instead of getting mad at Brothas who try going the appreciation route

  • @williamwinston9671
    @williamwinston9671 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She deserves exactly what she's gettin!

  • @riri445_
    @riri445_ ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is truly sad.
    At least she is showing accountability and see that in fact that she made a mistake.

    • @camxdidxthat
      @camxdidxthat ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2 baby daddies and a marriage proposal later.

  • @bakulubaka8661
    @bakulubaka8661 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Yes Philly, these women be having men on their rotation, with no shame.

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and you will be the foolish man to place yourself in that position

    • @bakulubaka8661
      @bakulubaka8661 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tmantman6896No I don't think so.

    • @mafamac4069
      @mafamac4069 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's why you have to have them in rotation as well. it's literally that simple plus you will be more secure in yourself because you hv a strong pulling game

    • @coldhardtruth333
      @coldhardtruth333 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mafamac4069 you’re also toxic. ..

  • @JARRSTARRTV_RADIO
    @JARRSTARRTV_RADIO ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks Uncle Phil! I been passed over for 75+ time! I'm age 72 with my U. S. Passport and enjoying life with Latina Sisters all over Central and South America! I thank my American Sisters for rejecting me over 60+ years! VIVA TO BEING A PASSPORT BROS!

    • @ironbody2682
      @ironbody2682 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow 😮 for over 60 years??
      I wouldn't think women were like this even way back in the day!

  • @JusTheKing.
    @JusTheKing. ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Show this video to women when they swear up and down that they want a good man.
    The straight truth is that women on average are drawn to chaos and dark energy. It goes all the way back to Eve and the serpent.

    • @bigmoneyscratcher5575
      @bigmoneyscratcher5575 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This is true woman is in love with evil it is from beginning they alway turn them down n say they are boring

    • @rickymcdonald2669
      @rickymcdonald2669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Preach my Brother preach

    • @rashelwilliams3619
      @rashelwilliams3619 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I said the same thing kinfolk 🤜🏾🤛🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @patrowland3107
      @patrowland3107 ปีที่แล้ว

      They'll believe a lie before they believe the truth!

  • @Think1stMedia
    @Think1stMedia ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Because of situations like this, that is why many men don't date women with male friends.

  • @bamaboi6845
    @bamaboi6845 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The tattoos is a red flag for me

    • @smooth4life554
      @smooth4life554 ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially on the titties it’s so trash

  • @plantbased15
    @plantbased15 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She would have probably messed it up anyway if she did get dude.

    • @redred9382
      @redred9382 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He said yessss I love it 😂😂😂

  • @CLOWNBOT00
    @CLOWNBOT00 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Seeing Phil over there radiating with Joy brings me great happiness! 🌈 🙏😂

    • @joejames9974
      @joejames9974 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When unc is happy we are happy

    • @joejames9974
      @joejames9974 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onceagain6184 and also I want to thank the people who like my comment y'all know what I mean by being supportive of this channel and to those who like this moron comments y'all just as stupid and negative as he are her is so you can get the Fked

    • @SL-ud7tf
      @SL-ud7tf ปีที่แล้ว

      When he called her Ronald 🤣

  • @blakewilliams5627
    @blakewilliams5627 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I hope she applies this new found knowledge to her kids, so they don’t make the same mistakes.

    • @cruisecontrol6938
      @cruisecontrol6938 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Doubt it. That's why we have these generational gaps of knowledge

    • @michaelbetts8379
      @michaelbetts8379 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If she has a daughter she probably want . Some women want they daughter to fell and keep the cycle going

  • @pontiac00
    @pontiac00 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    These women don't know the definition and what a good man is, fellow move on and stay away of these type of women, thats how these type acts, goofy and stuff is a joke to them, you need to be single for the rest of your life you women like this,

  • @doyousucka
    @doyousucka ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I dont even feel sorry no more.....they think they can make mistakes and run back...nahh stay where u at

  • @Lantian99
    @Lantian99 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    These women are waking up too late. 🤷🏾‍♂

  • @Ktronprime
    @Ktronprime ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fact that women are comfortable with openly saying "work husband"... Says alot

  • @MyNameIsUnavailable
    @MyNameIsUnavailable ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She don't miss him.
    She misses the opportunities he provided. Don't confuse the two.

  • @witwhat11
    @witwhat11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That could NOT have been her because she was NOT meant for him! So, she was removed for that King’s pathway so he could find his TRUE Queen…that’s it ✌🏾

  • @back2thebasicsx
    @back2thebasicsx ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dating two men at the same time 😑😒🤦🏾‍♀️. Chiiiiilllllleeeeee, pleeeez sit down somewhere. Why waste a man’s time like that. Your work husband🤦🏾‍♀️.

    • @MoeFro78
      @MoeFro78 ปีที่แล้ว

      👀💣💥🔥🖤🤎🖤🤎🖤🤎🤸🏾‍♂️💯💯💯

  • @eliastate7263
    @eliastate7263 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Phil,
    Your commentary is priceless! There are so many who needs to hear it. I just want to say keep up the great work, brother!

  • @wokequil9423
    @wokequil9423 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    There is no incentive to be a good man in the black community. Focus on yourself & those who respect you be that in America or elsewhere.

    • @damianmccallie3980
      @damianmccallie3980 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That Real facts bro.

    • @gunznroses
      @gunznroses ปีที่แล้ว +26

      No incentive at all. We get treated the worse. Become a decent black man and your options go down.

    • @mrquackers8986
      @mrquackers8986 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      yep, they dont want us then say "what can that asian woman do that a black woman cant?" or "why you with that younger woman?, u cant handle a real woman"

    • @cruisecontrol6938
      @cruisecontrol6938 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mrquackers8986 aayyyyyeeeee holler at ya boi ! Whoooooooooooooh them asian girls.. bruh. They hungry

    • @marquishoward3529
      @marquishoward3529 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Real facts

  • @bushybwoy
    @bushybwoy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The only thing she said was he was a "good provider", so was it that he was a good man or did he just make a good salary? You can never trust what these women say.

  • @welcomehavefun910
    @welcomehavefun910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im glad she's devastated that she lost a good man.
    Most of these females be out there clowning thinking they are smart.

  • @cedriclockett942
    @cedriclockett942 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was turned down the other day just because of my height. It shocked where I told her thank you and have a good life.

  • @eugenedantzler4485
    @eugenedantzler4485 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Y'all wanna hear how I fumbled a good man?" ... ( Brother Phil YES!) Lmfao

  • @bluebloodroyalty8012
    @bluebloodroyalty8012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Phil when you said Yes that cracked me up but god saved that man she’s not a good woman and didn’t deserve him just like millions of females just like her

  • @eliastate7263
    @eliastate7263 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Exactly right because they would do the same thing again if they thought they could get something better.

  • @D4lF4l
    @D4lF4l ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I fell for the whole work-husband thing then changed jobs and started working away from home that's when I saw the light.
    Give thanks for the light

  • @livedirect2122
    @livedirect2122 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A lot of times women see good men as weaker which is not always the case. It takes a lot of strength to be your own man no matter what society says you should or should not be. It takes a lot of strength to be good. They don't deserve us.

  • @jamesross1798
    @jamesross1798 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women low key live life seeing how much they can screw up and rebound. But most never do.

  • @soulfulman1971
    @soulfulman1971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My grandmother used to always tell me not to get a woman solely on looks and that she may not be beautiful, her conversation will be. She used to say, "Sometimes the more you talk, the better you look".

  • @samuelgates5935
    @samuelgates5935 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She can have a "work HUSBAND" but don't want a in the home husband.
    Just a baby daddy😵‍💫😵‍💫🤕🤣🤣🤣

  • @ashuradailyy
    @ashuradailyy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Honestly i love your channel, you speak nothing but truth without disrespecting anyone.

  • @Da5thSith
    @Da5thSith 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have bumped into an ex at Walmart with her children & when she saw me she tried to hug me but I stepped back & gave her a hand shake. She started talking about the past & how we should hook up again. I looked her dead in her eyes & said Hell No but thanks for the offer & walked off.

  • @voyagetravel1840
    @voyagetravel1840 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To call a man at work your work husband is not only disrespectful its just down right childish af who does that ?

  • @brandonpotter4915
    @brandonpotter4915 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All I can do is laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @atgn-0088
    @atgn-0088 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I can't even be that mad at her. She made a mistake, owned up to it, didn't try to blame anyone else and has hopefully learned from it.

    • @cpthetrucker9067
      @cpthetrucker9067 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      She didn't make a mistake: she made a choice. May she live forever with her alleged buyer's remorse.

    • @I_AM_Legend_007
      @I_AM_Legend_007 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She’s didn’t make a mistake, she made a choice knowing the potential outcome

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she will never learn they never do just keeps making costly mistakes

    • @whoisthis4052
      @whoisthis4052 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She probably not telling us the real story, until we have the other guy , tell his side🤔

    • @sticktothescript107
      @sticktothescript107 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There is know mistake she choose and got what she deserve

  • @harvelle1
    @harvelle1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate her honesty and transparency. The truth and application of the truth will set one free.

  • @vahustle804
    @vahustle804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She’s not upset she lost a good man she’s upset another woman is receiving the love and attention isn’t on her anymore…go off queen!!!!

  • @Battlered713
    @Battlered713 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ……Your download of “The Wall” has started. Please do not turn off your computer until download has finished….

  • @D_day1969
    @D_day1969 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Damn you can tell she’s really hurt. Oh well at least she admits it most of these females can’t or won’t. But the same thing happened to me a woman passed me over, now she’s regrets it that I’m happy with a another woman. And now I’m living a great life. And she’s mad lol.

  • @sacredlove4411
    @sacredlove4411 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It goes both ways. It's just not women and it's just not men. Hats off to her for being accountable. May she have learned her lesson.

  • @MrSuperbold
    @MrSuperbold ปีที่แล้ว +10

    One thing that I have noticed about Filipino women that are really concerned about physical attraction. They want you to be able to provide some and they want respect.

  • @dboucher26
    @dboucher26 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She chose. That "good guy" would've always been her 2nd option. She's hurt because she's selfish and wish he would've remained available as her standby option. My ex unfriended my friend when he posted photos from my wedding, and the ex before her sent me a text admitting she regret losing me (my wife saw the texts because we use each other's phone all the time and there's nothing to hide). They usually hate when the ones they fumble move on.

    • @Jay7682
      @Jay7682 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True

  • @jamescbanks1080
    @jamescbanks1080 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People make time for those they truly like or care for str8 🆙 I think she’s capping about not finding time to hangout with the so called good man that she fumbled 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Flip495
    @Flip495 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The stars aligned the correct way in this instance..i don't think sis really ready to be tied down for the rest of life

  • @BMW19Lincoln
    @BMW19Lincoln ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thanks to your channel that it’s exposing the truth about good men and breaking the toxic stereotype the women keep tying to paint us being.

    • @dbreezy8716
      @dbreezy8716 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes...the X'ers and generations of men down the road have been blamed for oft times our father's generation's doing....baby boomer gen was a purely selfish gen and it shows in how this world is being ran by these old farts men and women....ladies you mentally need to GET OUT

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield ปีที่แล้ว

      It doesn't matter women are still going to blame us

    • @BMW19Lincoln
      @BMW19Lincoln ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GoatHolyfield They can blame us all they want however facts, data, statistics proves us right and their feelings wrong. Give it time and if they don’t adjust soon consequences will be knocking on their front door.

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BMW19Lincoln I know we're right men lie women lie but facts and data don't but women don't believe in anything that Makes them look bad they will just claim you're lying and just hurt and bitter which is why I don't argue with women it a waste of time they will simply just keep blaming us no matter how much facts we throw at them

  • @snakemanjones8272
    @snakemanjones8272 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good for her for seeing that she messed up chasing Tyrone. Now she needs to heal herself and take care of those kids and allow a man to come to her but only when she feel like she is ready for a good man. We all make mistakes and if we can just learn to forgive ourselves and work on ourselves we can still make something of this life we have.

    • @sa1lor_jarry139
      @sa1lor_jarry139 ปีที่แล้ว

      No. She either makes it good with the baby daddy or go buy a 🐕 and 💀 alone.

  • @risingphoenix1484
    @risingphoenix1484 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    No she did the right thing she saved him..... because she is a cheating loser that makes bad decisions..... leaving him alone so he could find the right woman for him was the best thing that can happen.

  • @roastedmarshmallows4859
    @roastedmarshmallows4859 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Who’s a goofy…you’s a goofy!”😂😂😂

  • @ohcamnam9383
    @ohcamnam9383 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Hello Ronald!" 😭🤣😂 Phil your funny 😄