Emotional Independence Attracts Your Ex Back
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ม.ค. 2025
- Why Emotional Independence Attracts Your Ex Back. It's extremely attractive to show emotional independence when re-attracting or attracting someone. The more confident you behave, the more likely you will make them desire to be with you. Coach Craig Kenneth and Coach Victoria explain how and why.
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the perfect video to comment this after my skype coaching today. can’t thank this guy enough for what he does. it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders going through my situation w him. not to mention, the creative healing course has truly helped me become so much more centered and i’m only 15% of the way through it. if you can afford it, this course will give you immediate results!!
This man is a legend.
No Contact works people. It's thee most difficult thing you will ever,ever do. Focus on yourself and put yourself 1st.
I kept Contact for a few weeks.. experiencing every emotion. Anger/resent/frustration
Mixed with everything else.
I eventually gave up and accepted it and was fine with it.
9 weeks later. I get a text...a text i didn't expect or want tbh.
Left it a couple of days before replying....we managed to sort stuff out and we're now together.
NEVER beg
NEVER plead
LEAVE them alone and put yourself 1st.
DO NOT put your happiness in the palm of someone else.
If they come back, great.
If do not come back, great.
Stay safe,stay strong people. ❤
Another helpful video. Thanks Coach Craig and Coach Victoria!
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
My ex sent me a Christmas card but it arrived on the 30th. Even if it had arrived on Christmas I still wouldn’t have reached out, something more direct in needed. Side note, nice sweater Victoria.
I would consider that as a direct contact. I would at least send a thank you.
Thats pretty direct
Even if it is indirect-direct; if you don't answer the bid for connection; they will feel bad and stop trying. Mirror them, answer with something similar.
I am very emotionally independent but my DA ex I would say, not overly, but on some level is actually not emotionally independent. I think DAs struggle with their own feelings and emotions so much that even if you are emotionally independent- just the idea of potentially having to deal with someone else’s feelings when they cannot handle their own is way too overwhelming for them.
Hey, I've been slowly watching all your videos, and you keep saying that the key to no-contact is being prepared and grown as a better person when she eventually (hopefully) comes back. I was just wondering, what videos specifically are the ones that can help us grow and prepare and learn to be a better person / work on ourselves? Is this a specific playlist on your youtube channel? Than you so much for letting me know!
Look at his playlists about mastering relationships and attachment styles
He’s also selling a course. At first I was a bit shocked when I saw the price and just closed the page lol, but after a while I thought “wait, I’ve spent thousands in therapy already and nothing has worked so far” and people seem really satisfied by the course so now I plan on offering it to myself. I think it’s one great thing I could do for myself instead of spending this money planning something for my DA ex like I always used to do thinking it would make him commit.
I've been no contact for two weeks and the avoidant used a friend to reach out to me lol
No contact blew her narrative of me being a stalker out of the water😅
Hey coach, i know this isn't really the topic of the video but is it ok to make your condolences to your avoidant ex if they lost a loved one months after the break up and you are in NC? Should i contact their parents or should i stay silent?
You know what the hard part of all this? It's confusing. I'm doing everything you're saying to do. But hitting the "get into a relationship" goal is not working. You say all this is attractive. Is it though? Is it really?
No / it should be but its not. My experience has been that men actually prefer emotionally co-dependent woman and women like us that are mature and give our partners space and respect are seen as “intimidating”. Its all a farce
This only works. If your ex and you break up come back together. Break up come back together. This does not work with an ex who has monkey branched or rebound. They don't care. There's nothing emotionally you can do to attach them. I know it happened to me. And really it was the best thing he did. I got the best deal out of it. I'm with an emotionally secure man who actually loves me for me and I am an independent woman
My experience does not align with your view. I had an ex who monkey branched to someone she met during her summer job when she was a student. He was much older than her (and me!). She left me for the new guy and i instinctively went no contact (didn’t watch vids back then).
She then made repeated attempts over the next five years to work her way back into my life. Letters, phonecalls, asking my family and friends how I was doing and eventually turning up on my doorstep.
I kept her where she belonged, on the outside looking in.
Agree it’s different with a monkey brancher or rebound, that it takes longer, but over time they also find their emotions for you returning, assuming you had a good relationship and the new person isn’t working out as well as they hoped.
She is also a lady why she doesn't like to live alone.
1st
Craig I love your channel but pleaseeeee can you stop cutting off Victoria with the long winded attempt at jokes
No
@@CoachCraigKenneththey just hating on you brother
Lol dry office humor it seems and she doesn't seem to mind
Victoria has an amazing sense of humor. We laugh all the time. We became friends because she came out to the comedy show I host every week for years
@@CoachCraigKenneth 😂😂😂😂 savage Craig