If you date a man who is a good person but not a strong Christian, it is going to be difficult to submit to his leadership. He may also inadvertently cause you to fall into sin. Even if you marry a lukewarm Christian man, it may be hard to respect him. You won't be able to be the helpmate because you have to fill the leadership void. When problems happen, you can't go to him for godly counsel because he is not close to God.
And it's also difficult to have a believing husband who doesn't submit to any leadership! There is no bargaining/reasoning with them when they are out of line.
You're supposed to go to God for Godly counsel and besides yes you need a man that knows how to pray and understands that his power and wisdom comes from God! That put everything on the man. Honestly, I used to think this but it's a fallacy
I'm 100% with Wiley on NOT telling. I got involved in a friend's relationship in college, and when I told the friend, he became angry and stopped being friends with me.
The problem with religion for being religious is that it allows you to quantify who God is with your five human senses, and that is fundamentally incorrect. Religion puts us in control of God by putting him in a box. puts a person at a disadvantage and limitation. God is primarily a spirit and those that choose to worship God must worship him in spirit and in truth. So it is far more beneficial to be spiritual than just religious. Being spiritual requires bone to serve God, to know who God really is and what he's been in your life; you talk to God BUT God talks back to you!! Additionally, being spiritual requires us to sacrifice ourselves or things in our life because with the Holy Spirit comes a level of accountability. That dynamic is completely void with the constraints of Religion. When you move and lead by the Holy Spirit, God is in control and you have to follow him through Faith (we walk by faith and not by sight).
Something needs to be corrected and that is the segment where women can choose and be patient with the guy who is moral and ethical but not spiritual. That is a bad precedent to set because a good man does not mean he can become God's man. A good man will still live in his vices, not see the need to fight against sin, literally doesn't even has power to fight against temptation and he can stay that way till Christ comes if he chooses to. A good man could only have morals and ethics in one area of his life, where God's man has the capacity to have it in every aspect of his life because he is not doing it on his own strength but God's.
In what way does it help ? Being spiritual is a word used for every and anything it's vaste. What morals does being spiritual brings ? 😂 None ! A part from acknowledging the fact that we are spiritual beings
@@AngelaElikya I assume the original commenter means spiritual as in relating to a follower of Christ and I stand to be corrected if I am wrong. In what way does it help??? People that follow Christ choose to stay committed despite whatever they go through such as losing attraction, financial hardships, and other reasons people get easily divorced. The only reason for a divorce as a follower of Christ is because of infidelity or death of an spouse. Many people use spiritual in different ways but maybe that is what the original commenter meant.
@@AngelaElikya I know but I said what I said because she said people who are spiritual in their marriage helps. In my opinion... being a follower of Christ is the only form of spirituality that can keep a marriage together that is why I assumed she meant as a follower of Christ.
He was the answer to a lot of the classmates parent… “send my child help while away at college, surround them with Godly friends “!! That’s what he was🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This is a real dude right here! The God in him comes out not so high & holy but real & relevant. People want to hear & see that Christians are just human too. “I’m on the team of right”…that part!💯
If you’re so caught up in drama and not focused on Christ then that persons heart posture is already outside of Gods alignment. The problem with many churches these days is GOD IS NOT the focus. Period.
Saw my sister getting cheated on. Dude approached me, looking all guilty, asking if I was gonna tell my sister. I told him, "No, you're gonna tell her." That was the end of it for me. I never told my sister.
People love to say marriage is work like its a job they don't like. We've had a wonderful marriage. Accountability, open communication, the Holy Spirit, and each other is a great formula for a functional and wonderful covenant. It doesn't feel like work when you sever curses of generations, get deliverance, and allow the threefold cord to flourish. It's the 3-fold cord that is not easily broken. The question the young man asked was very pointed when he said he is confused about what he is looking for. God expressedly lets you know what you should look for. It's simple. You either saved or you not. And saved gets with saved and unsaved gets with unsaved. And its not enough to "go to church" and "have beliefs". You gotta really be in relationship with the Lord and be filled with and led by the Holy Spirit. You cannot functionally address what life throws at you without His Spirit. That in and of itself will give so much clarity you'll begin to have more answers than questions. It's great to seek answers, but nobody wants to be in a perpetual 360 of never being sure. There's clarity and true answers in relationship with God.
Everything you wrote is correct AND many folks say marriage is work like it's a job they don't like because that's lowkey how they feel. A fulfilling marriage requires sacrifice, selflessness, forgiveness, and a lot of other things that the flesh does not like. It's the epitome of denying self daily. Doubly true when you maybe weren't walking by the Spirit when you chose your spouse. And almost all marriages have patches (longer or shorter from one couple to the next) that require work (defined here as stuff you don't really want to do).🤷🏾♀️
@Klgray7373 I gave the explanation that I did because the person I'm responding to doesn't seem to understand why people describe marriage as work "like it's something they don't want to do"
Ohhh Brother Wiley, the good, moral dude who has not surrendered to Christ is a Jesus work. Give that man to Jesus first and if he comes back, in Christ, then you might have a keeper. Any man or woman who has not surrendered to Christ needs Jesus. OUR GOOD ain't good enough. We need Jesus to be good. Receive Jesus and He puts His Goodness on us as a gift...thats salvation and we need it.
Mic drop 👏🏽, when Marcus said we are a bond not a brand! The gems he dropped were wonderful! I love his energy and uniqueness with his delivery with humor and sound perspective.
Shout out to Mr. Wiley! He was the coolest and funniest professor I had at TSU. He used to have the whole class crackin up !😂, but he didn't play about being late to his class. If you were even 1 minute late you could not come in! 😅
Plain and simple, You woke up. You came to your senses. Men by nature have an inborn nature to conquor, to hunt... but they have to be taught how to cultivate and temper their passions. Its called balance and honor.
THIS IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!!! Manly man, speaking from a POSITIVE masculine energy. No down talking on anyone! No, you're not a man if this, not a woman if that. This is what's needed to help bridge the gap.... give hope to marriage. No focus on anything superficial. SEASONS IN MARRIAGE
Marcus reminds me of some good scrumptious SOUL FOOD By eating just one healthy sizeable platter, you'll be filled for the entire day. In other words, he is full of so much soulful wisdom, experience, and knowledge. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP HIS FAMILY ALWAYS!!!!
I told my best friend her man was pushing up on me hard and we've never been the same. She said I should have never told her, I should have warned him that if he don't tell I will, but never tell her. She stopped talking to me cold turkey for almost 10 YEARS!!!! Smh. She was a great friend and changed up immediately on me. I learned a lesson that day! NEVER EVER AGAIN!
He is so wise❤❤❤ spiritual vs religious...#YOU GOTTA SHOW UP FOR THE TEAM YOU CLAIM.. WHATS IN YOUR HANDS THAT YOU CAN PUT TO USE ON YOUR TEAM ❤❤❤❤ FORSAKE NOT THE ASSEMBLY. YOU MUST SHOW UP PUT YOUR HANDS TO WORK
Not telling- I’ve been a situation like that, where I had saw a friend’s boyfriend coupling up with someone else, I had to let him know, I saw him. But I left it up to him to tell her. I never mentioned it to her because I didn’t know how she would take it, or if she would believe me, because she was so in love with him. She discovered later on, but they have been married now for years. It wasn’t my place.
Its VERY difficult to remain faithful to the word of God with a fellow Christian, so how much more difficult would it be to link up with a non-believer (Extremely). You couldn bring them up, but they may alao led you in to sin. BECAREFUL with that.
I agree it’s best that the guilty party tell their significant other because sometimes they get mad at you and it does have an impact on decision making
I got it. I wouldn’t tell it either. It’s not my place. What’s done in the dark will come to the light. God will make sure n God don’t need your help with that.
I was in a similar situation. I didn't tell. It's a difficult position to be in. The couple later divorced when the wife found out. She was upset with me at 1st, but I didn't feel it was my place to say anything. You never know a person mind set. I didn't want to be responsible for delivering bad news and a "bad situation happen" .The man who was cheating was my family member. His wife was close to me but I was conflicted and didn't say anything. They are divorced now.
I like that you didn't jump in. I would like to challenge you to put yourself in the person's shoes! How would you feel and like for a similar situation to be handled?
Love the intro guys, way to change it up!! I see ya Ryan, new shirt color nice cut!! Evolve evolve!!!! This was great conversation. Another one in the books!!!
That whole conversation around the 1 hour mark infuriates me, the hosts have so much grace for their friend who straight up cheated on their wife and even had the nerve to ask why she was still tripping about it a year later. But in the same breath wanna act so hard towards the girl who Marcus caught in the club with a guy who we don't even know if she physically had sex with that dude. It's always the hypocrisy of men for me. Neither gender who steps out is in the right but it's always the difference in how they handle it which is so hypocritical. A man could cheat all upside a woman's head and their best friend like tyshawn and them will be like man she need to get over it It's been a whole year she needs to get over what is the most painful thing that could ever happen to her in her relationship; Yet if a woman has a lack of judgment and makes a mistake, all hell breaks loose and they go shoot up the place like that man in California did a few months ago. They'll do anything but extend any kind of grace forgiveness and they damn sure won't ever just get over it like they expect us to. I think what Marcus did was the perfect response. Whenever you have an issue with someone, you always confront that person directly. You don't go around behind their back and talk to someone else about it. The fact that he talked to her was perfect because it shook her ass up. She knew she had to come clean with her man regardless because she didn't know if Marcus was going to tell it or not and the fact that they're still married years later is a testament to how he handled it and it shows that that perspective that wake up call from Marcus was what she needed to realize she had a good one. Cuz let's not act like there aren't plenty of men out here that need that same wake up call. Plenty of men need to realize the good women that they have and to stop stepping out on them. And if my man's friend had had to be the one to find him in the club like that and then confront him about it and give him that same wake-up call without me knowing but it worked out for the better. I would never be mad at that. It's the wisdom he had to see the bigger picture and handling accordingly. I like these hosts but they really have a lot of maturing in their mind to do. Take heed to what your guest is saying.
What I have learnt about this podcast is to focus on the guests and do my best to avoid any other thoughts on the hosts, otherwise I will miss out on the guests. Just a tip that works for me, otherwise I’d long have stopped watching and something is clearly bring me here and I find the guests sharing valuable insights
I was cheated on while in a 8 year relationship. My entire church knew and didnt say anything. It took someone else to tell me. We are now divorced. If they wouldve told me, i wouldve prepa myself for that nasty divorce i had to go 1
I was in a similar situation, and I said something to my friends husband (victim), and not my friend, for the same reason he is speaking on, why cause problems in thier marriage and I put him in his place. Well, 5 years later they got a divorce, which tells me he continued to do the samething.
God's purpose wasn't for anyone to taste various fruits. The struggle is because of this, not respecting your body. Cheating is a lack of integrity. I want to encourage the ladies to be mindful taking this advice from this 51 year old man. Do not be unequally yoked and do not associate with bad company. Don't settle. God provides.
Great testimony about you and your wife. ❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽. In New York, Baker's shoes were expensive lol, wow, back in the day unless you were getting a deal or Clarence. Your wife made it work and knew how to spend only $40 and come back with $60 that is amazing. I believe in saving and spending wisely. That is great. So happy for you and your marriage. 💯🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽💯👑🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️👑👑
Great, great, great! I’m a mother of sons and grandsons. I shared with my son who’s married and my grandson who wants to be. This is relevant wisdom for the culture of today. Marriage is surgery for sure!
Marcus is hilarious he has been at my church numerous times at One Community church in Plano TX and he never disappoints!! He always has a great message in his comedy. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
Truly blessed with the nuggets: knowledge Brother Marcus was sharing! Keep it up fellas !!! You both are The Real Deal for our community!!! May God continue to use you both in Jesus Almighty Name Amen!!!😀🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪🥰🥰
I've told my friends, who are Christians, to tell me if they see my husband or boyfriend out with someone else in a compromising position. Save me from possible disease and from someone who lacks integrity. I have friends who have said do not tell them. I'll just send pictures anonymously.
@@angeleyes3386 l understand where you're coming from. But I know with the friends I have, if they catch a disease and somehow find out that I knew they were being cheated on, they would be far more upset with me.
Honestly, i have to question a Christian married man , who thinks its okay to look at half naked woman , and then precedes to answer her that he likes what he sees. Thats not a Godly nor wise way to live as a Christian man; From my experience, thats a person who's looking for trouble and doesn't mind finding it!!
We have to be the person we want. If we want a Christ-like person who not just believes but lives it, we need to be Christ-like ourselves. I think we want to be with someone we’re not able to be ourselves. In reality we attract who we are.
the Holy Spirit. Be led by the Holy Spirit to find a fellowship that is serious about the gospel. There's a difference between relationship and religion.
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“My marriage is a bond not a brand” THIS IS THE MOST AWESOME thing I’ve ever heard!!!
That stood out to me as well. ✅️
If you date a man who is a good person but not a strong Christian, it is going to be difficult to submit to his leadership. He may also inadvertently cause you to fall into sin. Even if you marry a lukewarm Christian man, it may be hard to respect him. You won't be able to be the helpmate because you have to fill the leadership void. When problems happen, you can't go to him for godly counsel because he is not close to God.
agree, is not going to work
So good!! And so true!!
Agreed.
And it's also difficult to have a believing husband who doesn't submit to any leadership! There is no bargaining/reasoning with them when they are out of line.
You're supposed to go to God for Godly counsel and besides yes you need a man that knows how to pray and understands that his power and wisdom comes from God!
That put everything on the man. Honestly, I used to think this but it's a fallacy
Wow. Our marriage is a bond not a brand. That was Powerful‼️‼️‼️
loved it!
Yep, Mr. Wiley is a real one. He was my speech teacher at TSU and he always was funny, kept it real, provided real life lessons the entire semester.
" if youre team God, He got places for his players to go" goood
I'm 100% with Wiley on NOT telling. I got involved in a friend's relationship in college, and when I told the friend, he became angry and stopped being friends with me.
I was married for 34 years to one man, whom I loved dearly. My hubby passed away 6 years ago. Yesss… sir the vision. You preaching now. I love it.
Sorry for your lost beloved. Willing this type of podcast support your new chapters💚💖
The problem with religion for being religious is that it allows you to quantify who God is with your five human senses, and that is fundamentally incorrect. Religion puts us in control of God by putting him in a box. puts a person at a disadvantage and limitation. God is primarily a spirit and those that choose to worship God must worship him in spirit and in truth. So it is far more beneficial to be spiritual than just religious. Being spiritual requires bone to serve God, to know who God really is and what he's been in your life; you talk to God BUT God talks back to you!! Additionally, being spiritual requires us to sacrifice ourselves or things in our life because with the Holy Spirit comes a level of accountability. That dynamic is completely void with the constraints of Religion. When you move and lead by the Holy Spirit, God is in control and you have to follow him through Faith (we walk by faith and not by sight).
Y’all are getting the best people! 😮🙏🏽
You guys are such a blessing. You are doing the community such a service. This isnt just content its SOUL FOOD!!
Amen. Food for Life
I sho got a good man!! Praise the Lord! His actions and words will match and show over time. Sistas, be patient with a good man.
Sis, good for you does he have a brother,cousin or friend who is single?🙂
Jesus cursed the fruit tree because it didn't bear fruit when it was time. We don't need to be patient; there are other trees.
Something needs to be corrected and that is the segment where women can choose and be patient with the guy who is moral and ethical but not spiritual. That is a bad precedent to set because a good man does not mean he can become God's man. A good man will still live in his vices, not see the need to fight against sin, literally doesn't even has power to fight against temptation and he can stay that way till Christ comes if he chooses to. A good man could only have morals and ethics in one area of his life, where God's man has the capacity to have it in every aspect of his life because he is not doing it on his own strength but God's.
When both people are spiritual in their marriage it helps 🙏🏾
In what way does it help ? Being spiritual is a word used for every and anything it's vaste. What morals does being spiritual brings ? 😂 None ! A part from acknowledging the fact that we are spiritual beings
@@AngelaElikya I assume the original commenter means spiritual as in relating to a follower of Christ and I stand to be corrected if I am wrong. In what way does it help??? People that follow Christ choose to stay committed despite whatever they go through such as losing attraction, financial hardships, and other reasons people get easily divorced. The only reason for a divorce as a follower of Christ is because of infidelity or death of an spouse. Many people use spiritual in different ways but maybe that is what the original commenter meant.
@@jodezod follower of Christ have a name it's Christian, not spiritual we are Christians.
@@AngelaElikya I know but I said what I said because she said people who are spiritual in their marriage helps. In my opinion... being a follower of Christ is the only form of spirituality that can keep a marriage together that is why I assumed she meant as a follower of Christ.
@@jodezod got you 👌
He was the answer to a lot of the classmates parent… “send my child help while away at college, surround them with Godly friends “!! That’s what he was🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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This is a real dude right here! The God in him comes out not so high & holy but real & relevant. People want to hear & see that Christians are just human too. “I’m on the team of right”…that part!💯
Marcus is hilarious!!! There were so many funny moments that Tysean and Ryan didn’t seem to catch, maybe because of the age difference.
Right, they missed a lot of humor
Great episode! Love Marcus Wiley. He's hilariously truthful. Great advice and wisdom. Marriage is definitely not for the faint at heart.
It's very difficult for me to ignore false teaching so I'd love to understand and move forward in fellowship
If you’re so caught up in drama and not focused on Christ then that persons heart posture is already outside of Gods alignment. The problem with many churches these days is GOD IS NOT the focus. Period.
#Facts
Say it sis ❤ Agreed
AMEN!!!;💥
Saw my sister getting cheated on. Dude approached me, looking all guilty, asking if I was gonna tell my sister. I told him, "No, you're gonna tell her." That was the end of it for me. I never told my sister.
People love to say marriage is work like its a job they don't like. We've had a wonderful marriage. Accountability, open communication, the Holy Spirit, and each other is a great formula for a functional and wonderful covenant. It doesn't feel like work when you sever curses of generations, get deliverance, and allow the threefold cord to flourish. It's the 3-fold cord that is not easily broken. The question the young man asked was very pointed when he said he is confused about what he is looking for. God expressedly lets you know what you should look for. It's simple. You either saved or you not. And saved gets with saved and unsaved gets with unsaved. And its not enough to "go to church" and "have beliefs". You gotta really be in relationship with the Lord and be filled with and led by the Holy Spirit. You cannot functionally address what life throws at you without His Spirit. That in and of itself will give so much clarity you'll begin to have more answers than questions. It's great to seek answers, but nobody wants to be in a perpetual 360 of never being sure. There's clarity and true answers in relationship with God.
Beautifully written 🤍
Everything you wrote is correct AND many folks say marriage is work like it's a job they don't like because that's lowkey how they feel. A fulfilling marriage requires sacrifice, selflessness, forgiveness, and a lot of other things that the flesh does not like. It's the epitome of denying self daily. Doubly true when you maybe weren't walking by the Spirit when you chose your spouse. And almost all marriages have patches (longer or shorter from one couple to the next) that require work (defined here as stuff you don't really want to do).🤷🏾♀️
@@justlikecarbonyou still described WORK. Sacrifice & selflessness IS work. Stop there. Full stop.
@Klgray7373 I gave the explanation that I did because the person I'm responding to doesn't seem to understand why people describe marriage as work "like it's something they don't want to do"
Facts 🎉
Ohhh Brother Wiley, the good, moral dude who has not surrendered to Christ is a Jesus work. Give that man to Jesus first and if he comes back, in Christ, then you might have a keeper. Any man or woman who has not surrendered to Christ needs Jesus. OUR GOOD ain't good enough. We need Jesus to be good. Receive Jesus and He puts His Goodness on us as a gift...thats salvation and we need it.
Mic drop 👏🏽, when Marcus said we are a bond not a brand! The gems he dropped were wonderful! I love his energy and uniqueness with his delivery with humor and sound perspective.
Shout out to Mr. Wiley! He was the coolest and funniest professor I had at TSU. He used to have the whole class crackin up !😂, but he didn't play about being late to his class. If you were even 1 minute late you could not come in! 😅
Damn, ain't that illegal?
I had him for Speech class as well. He really didn't play with tardiness!
Blessed and I'm from Houston and I've been listening to him for years on the radio and I went to TSU.
Plain and simple, You woke up. You came to your senses. Men by nature have an inborn nature to conquor, to hunt... but they have to be taught how to cultivate and temper their passions. Its called balance and honor.
THIS IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!!! Manly man, speaking from a POSITIVE masculine energy. No down talking on anyone! No, you're not a man if this, not a woman if that. This is what's needed to help bridge the gap.... give hope to marriage. No focus on anything superficial. SEASONS IN MARRIAGE
I respect the way Marcus handled that situation...He a real one!!!
I Love This, "Our Marriage is A Bond not A Brand"❣️ Good Church Guy 😁
I’m cleaning my house listening to y’all have a blessed Sunday !
Marcus reminds me of some good scrumptious SOUL FOOD By eating just one healthy sizeable platter, you'll be filled for the entire day. In other words, he is full of so much soulful wisdom, experience, and knowledge. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP HIS FAMILY ALWAYS!!!!
So true. You have to keep a curiousity about your spouse
Swirched 🤣
I told my best friend her man was pushing up on me hard and we've never been the same. She said I should have never told her, I should have warned him that if he don't tell I will, but never tell her. She stopped talking to me cold turkey for almost 10 YEARS!!!! Smh. She was a great friend and changed up immediately on me. I learned a lesson that day! NEVER EVER AGAIN!
He is so wise❤❤❤ spiritual vs religious...#YOU GOTTA SHOW UP FOR THE TEAM YOU CLAIM.. WHATS IN YOUR HANDS THAT YOU CAN PUT TO USE ON YOUR TEAM ❤❤❤❤ FORSAKE NOT THE ASSEMBLY. YOU MUST SHOW UP PUT YOUR HANDS TO WORK
Omg I love him! I really needed this interview right now
Not telling- I’ve been a situation like that, where I had saw a friend’s boyfriend coupling up with someone else, I had to let him know, I saw him. But I left it up to him to tell her. I never mentioned it to her because I didn’t know how she would take it, or if she would believe me, because she was so in love with him. She discovered later on, but they have been married now for years. It wasn’t my place.
When you’ve found THE ONE, the love will draw you so deeply in, so that all you’ll ever want to do is, only be with and please that person.
Man, I did not want this interview to end
I respect this dude I watched him on Dear Future Wifey hr has a powerful testimony his candid honesty combined with humor is amazing
Love Marcus D-so much practical wisdom! Love your comedy, as one person raised in church to another-keep on keeping on!!
I agree, Do Not Tell your person tell their partner you saw them. Unless it's an abusive situation that relationship will naturally run it's course
This was an excellent episode! MDW is the Real Deal!!! He’s authentic!! I’ve seen him at my church in Indianapolis.
I love the honestly about marriage. This is the rawness we need
Its VERY difficult to remain faithful to the word of God with a fellow Christian, so how much more difficult would it be to link up with a non-believer (Extremely). You couldn bring them up, but they may alao led you in to sin. BECAREFUL with that.
I agree it’s best that the guilty party tell their significant other because sometimes they get mad at you and it does have an impact on decision making
I’m calling it! 200K before December ❤💚❤
I got it. I wouldn’t tell it either. It’s not my place. What’s done in the dark will come to the light. God will make sure n God don’t need your help with that.
Keep it real and transparent Marcus 👏🏾👏🏾
Heyyyyy Marcus!!!! Super geeked to see you on one of my favorite platforms to tune in to!
Ok Ryan swirched up on us with the collar shirt!! 😂 Love it!
Love one another and praying with each other and trusting God at all times
Love Marcus D Wiley 👏🏾👏🏾great conversation
I was in a similar situation. I didn't tell. It's a difficult position to be in. The couple later divorced when the wife found out. She was upset with me at 1st, but I didn't feel it was my place to say anything. You never know a person mind set. I didn't want to be responsible for delivering bad news and a "bad situation happen" .The man who was cheating was my family member. His wife was close to me but I was conflicted and didn't say anything. They are divorced now.
I like that you didn't jump in. I would like to challenge you to put yourself in the person's shoes! How would you feel and like for a similar situation to be handled?
That’s exactly what my mother taught me. Talk to the guilt party on the side and let it be
Love the intro guys, way to change it up!! I see ya Ryan, new shirt color nice cut!! Evolve evolve!!!!
This was great conversation. Another one in the books!!!
Both him and his wife are beautiful inside and out. I love them together 😍
Sometimes staying together for the kids , isn't go for the kids, does damage
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Marcus Wiley!!! This was a wonderful episode. Hope you have him back!
I love Wiley! Happy that he came on the platform ♥️
Yes I am truly blessed by this episode. Thanks guys.
I agree with this gentleman he’s very intelligent very wise. I wouldn’t want my friend to come & tell me something like that,
Marcus is always a great guest. These two host were wrapped real tight!! Loosen up guys. Great interview.
That whole conversation around the 1 hour mark infuriates me, the hosts have so much grace for their friend who straight up cheated on their wife and even had the nerve to ask why she was still tripping about it a year later.
But in the same breath wanna act so hard towards the girl who Marcus caught in the club with a guy who we don't even know if she physically had sex with that dude.
It's always the hypocrisy of men for me.
Neither gender who steps out is in the right but it's always the difference in how they handle it which is so hypocritical. A man could cheat all upside a woman's head and their best friend like tyshawn and them will be like man she need to get over it It's been a whole year she needs to get over what is the most painful thing that could ever happen to her in her relationship;
Yet if a woman has a lack of judgment and makes a mistake, all hell breaks loose and they go shoot up the place like that man in California did a few months ago. They'll do anything but extend any kind of grace forgiveness and they damn sure won't ever just get over it like they expect us to.
I think what Marcus did was the perfect response. Whenever you have an issue with someone, you always confront that person directly. You don't go around behind their back and talk to someone else about it. The fact that he talked to her was perfect because it shook her ass up. She knew she had to come clean with her man regardless because she didn't know if Marcus was going to tell it or not and the fact that they're still married years later is a testament to how he handled it and it shows that that perspective that wake up call from Marcus was what she needed to realize she had a good one. Cuz let's not act like there aren't plenty of men out here that need that same wake up call. Plenty of men need to realize the good women that they have and to stop stepping out on them. And if my man's friend had had to be the one to find him in the club like that and then confront him about it and give him that same wake-up call without me knowing but it worked out for the better. I would never be mad at that. It's the wisdom he had to see the bigger picture and handling accordingly.
I like these hosts but they really have a lot of maturing in their mind to do. Take heed to what your guest is saying.
What I have learnt about this podcast is to focus on the guests and do my best to avoid any other thoughts on the hosts, otherwise I will miss out on the guests.
Just a tip that works for me, otherwise I’d long have stopped watching and something is clearly bring me here and I find the guests sharing valuable insights
They are still growing and they are also single men I can't remember their age but 1 day they will submit 😜
Agreed. They acting so shocked and yet same mouth defending themselves for telling a cheating friend to leave his wife. Wild hypocrisy smh
I was cheated on while in a 8 year relationship. My entire church knew and didnt say anything. It took someone else to tell me. We are now divorced. If they wouldve told me, i wouldve prepa myself for that nasty divorce i had to go 1
Excellent interview! One of the best I’ve listened to on your show.
A good man does not mean that we’re necessarily yoked spiritually. I’m not just looking for a good man. We’ve got to be equally yoked spiritually
As a single woman I want a Godley man. He needs to have HIS on personal relationship with Jesus Christ. I can't save him.
I agree with this but also 1 Corinthians 7:16
True 🙏🏾
Blessed for sure.... a real conversation
I loved it so much! Powerful!!!Thank you guys
ShoutOut to my Communications Professor from Texas Southern University💯
I was in a similar situation, and I said something to my friends husband (victim), and not my friend, for the same reason he is speaking on, why cause problems in thier marriage and I put him in his place. Well, 5 years later they got a divorce, which tells me he continued to do the samething.
God's purpose wasn't for anyone to taste various fruits. The struggle is because of this, not respecting your body.
Cheating is a lack of integrity.
I want to encourage the ladies to be mindful taking this advice from this 51 year old man. Do not be unequally yoked and do not associate with bad company. Don't settle. God provides.
@EternalLoveOfJesusChrist Finally! Wisdom speaks. All of that 🙌🏽
Great segment and perspective’s shared. Thank you HI!
Great testimony about you and your wife. ❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽. In New York, Baker's shoes were expensive lol, wow, back in the day unless you were getting a deal or Clarence. Your wife made it work and knew how to spend only $40 and come back with $60 that is amazing. I believe in saving and spending wisely. That is great. So happy for you and your marriage. 💯🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽💯👑🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️👑👑
IM NOT TELLING. IM GOING TO THE GUILTY PARTY AND SAYING DO THE RIGHT THING. AGREE WITH HIM 100%.
Love Marcus D Wiley. God bless you guys
Best sign of manhood and brotherhood and Christian: talk to the guilty party if led and MInd yo business!
Great, great, great! I’m a mother of sons and grandsons. I shared with my son who’s married and my grandson who wants to be. This is relevant wisdom for the culture of today. Marriage is surgery for sure!
Noted!! I want my marriage to be a BOND not a BRAND. 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯💯🤸🏾♂️
@@yemedemure414 An example of brand in a marriage?
Marcus is hilarious he has been at my church numerous times at One Community church in Plano TX and he never disappoints!! He always has a great message in his comedy. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
Yes everybody relationship is different and what works for you is for you 🤷🏾♀️
I’m loving this interview… 💯👍🏾💯
I absolutely am so Grateful for Marcus.
The Transparency is amazing.
Truly blessed with the nuggets: knowledge Brother Marcus was sharing! Keep it up fellas !!! You both are The Real Deal for our community!!! May God continue to use you both in Jesus Almighty Name Amen!!!😀🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪🥰🥰
I've told my friends, who are Christians, to tell me if they see my husband or boyfriend out with someone else in a compromising position. Save me from possible disease and from someone who lacks integrity. I have friends who have said do not tell them. I'll just send pictures anonymously.
If they said don’t tell them, why send pictures anonymously. Respect their decision regardless to how you feel
@@angeleyes3386 l understand where you're coming from. But I know with the friends I have, if they catch a disease and somehow find out that I knew they were being cheated on, they would be far more upset with me.
This was another amazing sit downs, thank you
Honestly, i have to question a Christian married man , who thinks its okay to look at half naked woman , and then precedes to answer her that he likes what he sees.
Thats not a Godly nor wise way to live as a Christian man;
From my experience, thats a person who's looking for trouble and doesn't mind finding it!!
Blessed!
Very well crafted wisdom and due diligence!!
This intro on the replay is 🔥
Marcus & his wife would be Great Relationship Experts. Great Wisdom he shared🙏🏼💜
Looking polished gents. The polos make all the difference. Suits>dress shirt>polos>t-shirts
Marcus I saw you perform last week in Houston at the Community of Faith Church… Your show was Hilarious and very true… 💯💯💯👍🏾
We have to be the person we want. If we want a Christ-like person who not just believes but lives it, we need to be Christ-like ourselves. I think we want to be with someone we’re not able to be ourselves. In reality we attract who we are.
Facts!
😂🤣Marcus is one of my favorite comedians.😂😂They have something else in that cooler
I'm apart of thr NOT TELLING crew. Remember, people make up with each other faster than they male up with those who bring news.
How can we find a church that will teach truth and have community together?? How can we push past the wrong message and focus on fellowship??
the Holy Spirit. Be led by the Holy Spirit to find a fellowship that is serious about the gospel. There's a difference between relationship and religion.
Maaan..im mindin my business!
That man so right ! People say I'm wrong but I'm not telling.... He hit all my points
Blessed 🙌🏾 great episode fellas
BLESSED!!! This was Awesome… 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That section on who to vent to is exactly the principle Tony Gaskins was talking about. 💯