You have to train a woman!
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Truth is….Women want you to train them…they will never say it…but they want a man who wants to train them…my ex didn’t say this to me until after our relationship was totally over
Because they themselves don't know it consciously.
Today’s breed resists. Of course they’re miserable because of it.
Been married for 25 years and I agree. And I learned this the hard way.
You have to train everyone how to treat you or they will treat you the way they want.
But…training women and being dominant all the time is f*ing exhausting dude….does that make me a bitch?
Hahaha I agree fucking completely. The whole thing is a fucking pile of bs
I dated a girl with BPD for years.. she NEVER stopped trying to be an alpha. She's said i didn't want an equal but wanted a slave. Some women just can't be ok with traditional gender roles and will fight it every step of the way
Very true . I was married to a BPD woman
Savage John! Lmao. 😂
Successful entrepreneurs have no time to train a woman. Their parents should've done that......
Necessity should lead women to auto correct. If it does, not. "plenty more fish in the pond"
NEXT!
Good words.
If you are sound in yourself, she will learn from you, Men or Women, both are venerating animal. Inspire her to be independent and self - respecting.
Your philosophy is true. The problem today is many women resist a man’s dominance. Of course they’re miserable for it and usually end up with a simp doing so. I’m 60 years old and I can tell you every relationship I had worked great when a woman wanted to learn from me.
Looking like a new man with the different beard! 🐺
Both men and women are trained regardless whether we’re aware of it or not
Training is part of leadership. If you don't train a woman, she will end up training you and by that point it's already over.
i agree.. greetings from tokyo japan 🇯🇵
Taught sounds a lot better brother.
But it’s not accurate.
How did you get to the point where you’re ok with authority I have authority trauma and it’s sucks because I have realized that there is alot of childish aspects to it but it’s hard to change!
I invite to have a mma match against me.. let me know if your up. Stefan Adrichem
Can you elaborate on how to do this more? Im acutally dealing with this firsthand and want to do it right, because she's never been in a real relationship before.
You can’t train an adult.
She’s spent her entire life acting a type of way and you’re not going to change her belief system and behavior.
Sometimes they will act differently in order to get marriage and kids. She’ll eventually go back to her default settings.
@@funny_thoughtprovoking5341 what if she takes responsibility and holds herself accountable by doing so along with the boundaries you set and standing your ground?
@@theChadRamroqamen
@@theChadRamroq that’s fair. If she’s respecting boundaries, that’s a green flag lol
@@funny_thoughtprovoking5341solution = no marriage. Marriage is not necessary for the next generation to be born
Train..instruct..affirm ?
why did you quit Omad?
Yeah I'll always be angry and bitter and resentful that I didn't have my first girlfriend until my early 30s, me and her are not together anymore though.
I know I've spoken to another guy like this who has a similar story who says he never had a girlfriend until he was 30, he has the mindset that if he was born a woman he would not have been alone and single that long.
I remember one guy said this to me and he really pissed me off when he said to me:
"Why would you be bitter once you got what you wanted?
Even if it took that long why does it matter? You can still enjoy the fruits of your labor now"
Because I didn't get into my first relationship until later than normal that's why I feel angry bitter and resentful.
And plus being a guy, how the dating game has always been different for men for women in which I know I'm not the only guy that has this mindset and that is men always have to be the ones to put in all the work and effort in order to land a girlfriend or in order for a heterosexual relationship to happen or start.
It's like men are the only ones that have to know or learn so many skills and behaviors on how to attract a mate but not the other way around.
I get more mad and angry that people in society say that men are not supposed to view that as work or a burden as in men always having to be the ones to take the lead and Court women and lead the interaction, I will never understand why men are supposed to enjoy and embrace that role.
Should be obvious as to what I'm talking about, yeah and I get even more pissed off that people and Society say that women also have to learn dating skills on how to meet men or how to attract men when it never will make sense to me since women don't have to do jackshit to make a relationship happen.
Speaking of my lifelong hatred of men always having to make the first move all the time.
Didn't happen for me around the time people normally have their first relationship.
I get very angry and pissed off whenever people and Society have the mindset that it's better to be a man.
I remember another guy said and he only added fuel to fire which made me more angry and pissed off when he said:
"Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together"
Let's just say he pissed me off so much that it's not appropriate for me to say what was on my mind when I read that comment.
Yeah I don't understand why a lot of people have the mindset as to why it's better to be a man at the end of the day.
Yes it does truly feel unfair being a man at times.
It only pisses me off even more when people say "thats the way it is, or so what?".
it just fills me with a lot of anger and rage.
Sorry you feel that way, honestly. I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. The issue you're facing is quite common I think in society. It is hard, there's no doubt about it. Sounds like the people who are telling you the stuff you mentioned are trying to make you feel better and I understand why (not saying I agree with it, I'm just acknowledging it). It also seems that you're upset with the natural order of things? As you mentioned that it's men that have to put in all the work. I know this isn't what you want to hear but to some extent, it's just nature. This also happens basically with all other animals as well.
Don't focus too much on what society tells you. You have to remember that no one knows your life like you do, and the stuff you go through every day.
If I was in your shoes, I'd likely to try get more dates / relationships so I can experience that part of my life. If you had 5 relationships hypothetically within the next 1-2 years, you would have gotten a lot of experience and would likely feel less upset about your whole situation. If I was you I probably would do something like, averaging 5 relationships in my head and spread it across 5 years, and it makes it look like I started dating at 25. I know that sounds stupid, but just a bit of a mental hack that might make me feel better, it might help you as well. I know it's not ideal but we all make mistakes and you did the best that you could at the time with the knowledge that you had.
Sure you could have done things differently and you messed up along the way but which one of us hasn't. One thing I've learned is that we all regret doing one / not doing one thing that the other person did and vice versa. For you, you regret not dating early enough, for others they have dated early enough, but they have other regrets that perhaps you don't.
The reason I'm mentioning this even though it's a bit off topic is because I think it helps a lot mentally when we read things that we can relate to, helps us feel better because we know that we aren't the only ones who are facing this issue, that others are struggling with it as well, I'm hoping I guess you can relate to at least some of what I've wrote.
Also it seems that you view approaching women as a chore? I've had this experience before where I didn't want to approach because I couldn't be bothered putting in the effort as it felt fake and that I had to force myself to not be myself. But I guess I was looking at it wrong. Now I look at it as getting over my fear of approaching women, and facing our fears feels fking awesome, we feel a lot better once we do. Perhaps this might be the right perspective for you?
Don't go against the grain in life my friend, I've done this and I've seen many people continue to do this. It just makes us incredibly miserable. When we focus on how things should be, versus how they are. In your case, not being happy with how men need to put in all the effort and women don't. Understand that's the game of life. The thing is that (and John mentions this a lot) there's no point in trying to change things that are outside of your control, because they are impossible to change. I know a guy I used to work with, he used to be pissed off all the time because the workplace he worked at was a dead end and he saw so much room for improvement, as a result he was miserable. You know what others at work did instead? They didn't care, they took that place for a ride and put in the minimal effort and genuinely enjoyed the role because they knew it was not a serious job. The difference between the 2 people there was simply their perspective.
It's hard when you care, but the thing is you will eventually stop caring, but after many MANY years. You don't want to wait until that point, I'm talking about 10-20-30 years until you get to that point, either that will happen or you will remain bitter. Both are horrible options, the best option is right now accept things for how they are and not how they should be.
Perspective is powerful af, it's the ability to see things differently and I think you really need that right now.
One last thing I wanted to mention, talking to a psychologist would be really beneficial for you, they'll help you give you that perspective you need and put your in a better state of mind.
There's more I could dissect from your post, which I can if you want me to. More than happy to help. I wish you the very best man, I really do hope you figure it out.
@@ac3233 when you say all other animals, I assume what you're saying is that in most animal species the males are the ones that put in all the work or most of the effort when trying to attract a mate or trying to acquire a mate.
Females just have to passively exist and do nothing and just automatically by default get into relationships or mating opportunities
@@ac3233 yeah it just fills me with more anger and rage whenever people in society have the mindset that it's better to be a man at the end of the day even though men still have to do all the work in dating
@@nobodysperfect06 Look, it's all subjective and it doesn't even really matter whether it's better to be a male or female.
Life is hard for both genders just in different regards. For example, women are constantly insecure about how they look, where guys do not care, living in insecurity is an absolutely miserable way of living, and I'm not saying this is 100% accurate but it's mostly true. Women wear make up, men don't.
There's cons and pros to anything, I don't think there's any benefit of thinking about what other people's mindset in society is because that's their mind, how they think isn't important, what you think is.
Remember you are living in your brain, not theirs. The quality of your life shouldn't be dependant on how other people think but how you think. What are your thoughts on everything I've said so far?
@@nobodysperfect06 Yep, I'm saying most animal species "the males" are putting in all the work to attract a mate.