Holy smokes. Mom is coming out the gate telling all of her daughters business. But mom that just looks bad on you, you're the one who raised her. And played a part in playing games with a newborn baby. Lord help that child.
Y’all all wrong at some point in life you take responsibility for your actions she’s not a teenage doing all this she fully grown 4 children only have one of them and with a man that’s not even the father while the father of the other children buying mattresses & she’s sitting up there provoking the mother an “older lady” y’all definitely bums I see the mother isn’t an angel but she is a parent to her deceased son daughter while her daughter is sitting up there filming her and provoking her all in front of her deceased brother daughter I’m just not understanding she definitely picking men over her mom there’s proof of that
@@nichellewalker51 right! My mother was preggo at 14 with me selling and doing drugs at 16 and went on bout her life didnt try to be a mom until i was 20 and had my own newborn. I went the opposite direction. People gotta take responsibility for their own actions you and your parents are still two different people
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
The mom is batsht crazy, but you can tell the kids also antagonized her, knowing that would rile her up. If it was me, she would be dead to me, and I would never speak with her again. Especially after calling CPS dozens of times. She's the type that will randomly call them for the years to come, just because she can.
Sad case. Judge was right - daughter, boyfriend and baby would have been better in a homeless shelter. When you have to videotape your roommates (or mother's) erratic behavior, that's a sign to get out ASAP.
The daughter should have been a decent person and put relationships on hold instead of bringing her simpy boyfriend who is not the father of the child and was not invited to live with her at her mother's house. She already gave away 4 kids so the mother was probably upset that she will probably have another kid with her new bf who can't even provide for himself while she is being burdened with additional expenses that she probably can't afford because she is raising her deceased sons kid.
Unlike Harvey's statements at the end of this case, I don't think that the defendant should be the bigger person and let her mother the plaintiff have a relationship with the defendant's child. The plaintiff showed little to no regard nor respect for her daughter in this court case. There was absolutely no reason to bring up how many children her child had put up for adoption, how many exes she had, who the biological father of her child was, etc. The court case was about property damage/theft, harassment, and outstanding rent. Sometimes cutting someone off from your life is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself and your family. In this case, there is a very real chance that with her mother no longer impacting her life anymore the defendant will be able to work with her therapist to get the help she needs, and hopefully, the end result will be a positive, healthy, responsible, and loving parent to her child and girlfriend/wife to her partner.
I would not let that woman near any child of mine. It’s not compulsory to allow your child to have a relationship with an abusive person who is only going to cause harm to the child just like she has to her own daughter. The child’s interest and wellbeing have to be put first always. One would not let a child have a relationship with a grandparent if one new the grandparent was a pedophile. The same applies here the grandmother is not fit for a relationship with a child.
I disagree, the mother invited her and her newborn to live with her at no expense so she they can reconcile but she brings a simpy dude who is not the father of her newborn or any of her previous kids that she gave up for adoption. It seems the mother did not want to be burdened with additional expenses of another man her daughter is shagging who will probably end up becoming baby daddy #5 or #6. The daughter and her boyfriend should've paid their share of the bills and the drama would've been avoided. Do you think the mom should be proud her daughter gave up 4 of her kids and is now with a man who can't even pay his own bills let alone provide for her and her kids? Should she be happy about the increase in utilities, food, personal care expenses that she will have to pay for when she can't afford it? As much as I disagree with the way she outed her daughter on national TV, I get her frustration
Thank you, I was looking for this kind of comment. Yes you should try to have a strong family bond BUT if the mother/grandmother/etc is toxic and mentally or emotionally abusive, that will not change. I don't care if you're my best friend of 20 yrs or a blood relative, if you are making my life complete fuckin hell and refuse to change or apologize, you have no right to be in my life anymore. Related or not, cut that cord for good. (The daughter is not a Saint either in this case, I'm well aware, but clearly there is no reason to have the psychotic mother involved in her life anymore)
@@bryanbryan5214 We don't know if the children were the product of a non-consentual night, if she was in an abusive relationship and was fearful, if she had the mental, emotional, & financial stability to raise them, if substance abuse played a part. We know very little about the situation or why she chose what she did - because it didn't relate to the case and it's her private business. All we can go on is she chose to give several of the children she bore up for adoption, and now for whatever reason she is ready to raise a child. That shows growth and shouldn't be looked down on.
I don't think so, I think she's just overwhelmed with her daughters lifestyle. Who would be happy with their daughter giving 4 kids away then having another one while being unable to support any of them. On top of that bringing her boyfriend who's not the father of any of her kids to move into her mothers house and expecting the mother to pay for everything? The daughter also antagonized her mom while living there for free. It seemed like the mom was trying her help her daughter get it together by inviting her to live with her but she didn't like the choices she was making. They both are entitled to live as they wish but you don't get to do that when your living in moms house and moms paying all the bills.
@@BloodNote Well obviously for him to be with that kind of woman he is definitely on something. It looks like the mom tries to mean well but she’s just bat shit crazy that it’s impossible. The daughter didn’t have a good influence in her life so she’s pretty scummy as well
This made me cry. That mother is absolutely disgusting messing with her grandbabys thing’s because she’s fighting with her daughter absolutely disgusting, its always good to have grandparents but in this case she should be nowhere near that grandma 💔
After the daughter tells us that her mother went ballistic after she had done a wash of baby clothes, the mother smiles smugly, proud of herself. OMG what sort of mother would do that to her daughter and grandchild? The defendant needs to get away from her toxic mother and NEVER look back...
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
Everyone says the granddaughter should have a relationship with her but I would never let that happen. Too much drama & shes obviously using her other granddaughter. And most importantly how did everyone forget the grandmother stole from the unborn granddaughter. Why the hell would a parent want their child to go threw all that??
Spot on! When theres so many whom show a good sense of humanity so well, Role models on a day-2-day basis, I side that Some people truly should have to prove that they are qualified to "Care" for the young. Literally -such as Daycare providers. Being an adult shouldn't entitle anyone to being an authority, much less a person full of resentment/ Hysteria/ vindictive personality traits/type: becoming only but a Toxic influence in a child's life. 😔😝🤨😑
My "mother" has never met my children! She never will. They are older now and they do know what she's done to me. They now no longer have any desire to meet her. It's not sad if your parent is an abusive, manipulative, narcissist. Cut all ties and get as far away as possible.
My God! What a toxic relationship. The plaintiff is talking about her daughter like a dog. If I was the daughter, I’d move away and start over.... And what grandmother brings her 11yr old granddaughter to be a witness in this toxic mess??!! She’s going to ruin that child like she did her daughter!
i wouldnt want my daughter living with me and 4 kids and no husband,my house would be completely taken over..now a new boyfriend and he is not the father of any of the kids .what a mess.even tho the daughter is a beautiful looking girl ,good luck to all ...
I remember this one. I've seen families that are full of constant drama and arguments. I swear these people thrive on it. They CANNOT handle a situation where everything is calm and uneventful. THAT makes these people nervous! A lot of society is what I call "functioning mental cases".
I disagree with Harvey, grandma is definitely not stable and certainly has no regard for the baby's care. I mean, she disconnected power and air conditioning, hid the child's bathtub and then kept her crib?! Mom and baby are better off staying far, far away from that toxicity.
Right! Not every grandparent is deserving of the being in the presence of their grandchild. The mother is absolutely valid for not wanting her child to have a relationship with her.
This makes me feel really fortunate to be so close with my mom and her family. They are literally the most important people in my life and I would be lost without them.
This case has me in my feels. Reminds me of how my mother acted. Father too. In cases like these, family estrangement is a must. My kids don’t have to see and feel what I had to growing up and that’s enough for me.
when you come out of the gates putting the other party on blast, all you're doing is making yourself look bad. far moreso when it comes up completely unprovoked.
I am so thankful to God that I have an a amazing mother that would NEVER treat me like this. Me and my mother have a wonderful relationship that I wish everyone could have. ❤️❤️
I'm the defendant in the case and reading all your comments really got my attention. My 14 year old niece who was sitting in my mothers car during the court case by herself (she was 12 at the time) is the one who showed me this on youtube. My 3 older kids were by the same father. I was with that man from 18 years old until I was 26. My 3 kids with him were taken out of the home due to domestic violence. He would beat me with a belt, as an example of the physical abuse that was in the home. My mother is also the one who called cps on me to have them taken away from me thinking the state would give them to her. "My mother" wasnt allowed to have custody of them because of her significant history with CPS from when my brother and I were younger. My brother is dead that's my nieces father. My mother didnt want me living their rent free. She also refused to watch my newborn baby so I could go to work. Having my boyfriend (mark) move in was the only way to make her happy with weekly money (he has his own spot and couldnt afford 2 rents so he moved in with me there with my mothers approval because she wanted the money) so for those of you who says "dead beat plantiffs" you are very far from the truth. She got her rent every month. Until she robbed my baby's bathtub so I couldnt bathe her daily. To the point I had to call the cops and make a break in report (cops made a comment that they left the big screen TVs and all electronics but took a babies bathtub) she smiled at the cop while signing the report. At that point, rent stopped until I was able to bathe my baby. Then she turned off the electric multiple times. Cops had to get involved and they told her she legally had to leave it on. She decided to go outside, lift the window and smash the ac unit with a hammer..all while mark was at work. I was at the house everyday, he was working 70+ hours a week so we could get our own place. He wasnt around for any of this drama. It was his air condition unit which is why he was on the court papers. That mentally ill woman stole all my shampoo, conditioner, anything she could when I left the room. I put a camera in it and had her filmed robbing my stuff. I then changed the lock to the door and she lost her mind over it and broke the door so it wouldnt even close. She treated my father this way and my brothers this way who are both dead today and she cries her eyes out daily at the way she treated them but treats me worse than she ever treated them. So for everyone saying I keep reproducing and have all these male partners, your wrong. First 3 babies with the same guy - eliana (the baby who was a newborn when this happened) was a different father, yes. Thank God. My mother still begged me to get back together with the first babydaddy even though I was lucky to get out of the relationship alive. 🤯😭
Your mother is a psycho, and a liar. I can see it, it was pretty obvious. No one deserves the abuse and she will die a lonely old hag! Sad! Cut ties and don’t look back! She obviously is not all there and creates more mental anguish than it’s worth!
If you are sensitive to social media commenting which prompted you to write a Wikipedia of your families dirty laundry. Just keep in mind you had the choice to agree or not agree to appear on the show.. u could have not agreed and had your case heard locally
@@UsernameUnkwn21 I can completely understand why she would want the opportunity to tell her side of the story. Her mother is obviously a one-woman shitstorm. I'm glad she got herself and her baby out of that abusive situation.
Just Joan that is just plain nasty. It was obvious the mother is deranged from the jump. Sadly the dynamic you describe from childhood, Stephanie, is still there. Get away from this woman. Don’t let her know where you live. Stay off social media. She can’t call in false accusations if she doesn’t know who to call. God bless you. Love that sweet baby girl and make a good life for you both.
Same. I love my family, but I didn't realize how dis-functional they were till moved in with my boyfriend (now fianceé). It was so weird to get use to the quietness at first. I was so use to fighting and yelling on a daily basis that it felt weird not to.
i don't think it would be a good idea to let the baby have a relationship with the grandmother... that would require a relationship between two people that apparently hate each other and that would be traumatic for the child furthermore, i'm not surprised that they didn't pay rent after she threw the AC out the window. family or not landlord is required to make the tenant's space livable. 85-90 degrees is way too hot for an infant to be constantly in. especially an infant who isn't used to that type of temperature. also, she said her daughter and baby could move in for free. why does the boyfriend/father figure need to pay? oh, she's mad her daughter brought her boyfriend to live there too. oh well! either accept that he's there and let him stay free as well or tell them all to leave if u don't want him there. obviously she didn't want him there and her daughter did, so all this could've (maybe) been avoided if one of those two things happened. if u don't want someone in ur house, make them leave, but don't get upset when the person they came with leaves too, especially if they're in a romantic relationship. i may get some hate, but those were just my two cents 🤷🏾♀️
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
Vicious!! I know that clueless narcissist "mother" had to also be emotionally abused/neglected to end up this disgusting but man I'm really struggling to have any sympathy for her! Defendant girl you're a warrior! Keep breaking that cycle!
If you don't want your bs crazy mama coming in to court to tell all your secrets, better get a receipt when you pay cash for the rent. And then come into court admitting you didn't pay the rent.
I can only imagine how the plaintiff would treat non relatives. This was such a toxic situation. The plaintiff and defendant could use a mental health assessment. 🤓🤓
Damn her mom threw her under the bus ASAP... she didn't even hesitate to say "this is her 4th her other 3 were adopted out and this isn't his kid either" ... Welp .....
I just ran across this People's Court episode recently. Grandma was such a horrible human being, and I use the term human being very loosely. I could feel the daughters bitterness through the TV screen. I'm glad you got out of that woman's house. I believe everything that you said. Don't ever ever see that woman again in all of your life. She is evil personified. Here's to a better future for you. May you have peace of mind.
This mom is off the wall. What is it her place, to say on national television, that her daughter gave 3 kids up for adoption, and that he isn't the father of the baby?!
The mom and daughter here remind me of a dialled back version of an ex-roommate's family, they were even more toxic than these people if you can believe it. My roomate's mom in particular was truly a monster like I've never seen. They were a deranged, screwed up, and violent family, and I don't say that lightly. Part of the reason it was so bad is that *all* of the family is abusive to each other and they all act like they're just the abused and not abusive. Like my roomate used to tell me she was told by her grandpa she was "The White Sheep in a family of Black Sheeps" but she was near, if not just as bad as her mother and she didn't even know it cause she never self reflected, and god forbid you tried to make a good point she didn't like. She'd hate dealing with her mom cause she was controlling, then she'd literally treat us how her mom treated her 24/7 and try to control us, and it was her way or the highway. At *best*, my roomate was a Dark Grey sheep, nowhere near white. They were all abusive to each other and anyone who had the misfortune to know them as anything more than a casual acquaintance. Worst part? They all acted like children and me and my partner were more mature and solve issues with conversations, not screaming arguments and fists, despite the mother being in her 50s, the roomate being 31, and us being in our early 20s at the time. And all the families walled off secrets I knew about was a horror show all of its own that I won't even get into, but at a minimum I discovered a ways into my lease that the mother was on an FBI watchlist, if that tells you anything. It was so bad that looking back now it feels like it had to be a fever dream but it wasn't. I imagine my roomate's family in a court room would be just as bad as these two if not worse. If this is how this family is willing to act in court, I imagine they're even worse than the videos caught behind the scenes with probably years of baggage, just guessing from my experiences with similar seeming people. Too many red flags for my liking and I hope that baby is okay.
She got her previous 3 adopted and then she gets pregnant again and the simp is right there next to her....and im here alone fearful of starting relationships and bringing drama into my life.
I mean looks like mom just fed up that her child has 3 kids and now a 4th and still can’t get her life together 🤷🏽♀️, daughter also pushes her buttons
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
As crazy as the plaintiff is , maybe the daughter wanted to have her commited and keep the house? Anyone who gives away 3 children, then has more is suspicious.
What an ignorant statement. You don’t know a thing about the circumstances surrounding the other three children. Ever hear the saying “ There but for the grace of God go I”? It means be thankful your life didn’t bring you to such a place. Do better.
The defendant states above in the comments that the kids were taken away bc they were in an abusive environment with the kids’ dad. She was being abused too. Now she’s trying to have a better life but she still needs to make better choices. I would tell her- Continue counseling, don’t have anymore kids for a long time, get some job skills, stay away from your mother.
@jenniferfriesen7691 so she gave up 3 kids and had another 1... even though she didn't have a home or stability Yall love to throw around GOD but fail to use any common sense. She abandoned her children and brought another 1 in... already have men living around this child... Why keep having kids? She is a horrible woman. My heart breaks for the children. They'll probably wonder why she threw them away and had another baby for the rest of their lives.
Who would be jealous of someone who has three previous children who have been adopted and now a new born with another man, living with yet again a different man and can’t afford to pay 75 dollars a week to rent a room?
With a mother like that, you don't need no enemies. She's a nut case! My grandmother did the same thing to her youngest son. She'd give or loan something, then turn around and call the cops. My uncle was sent to juvenile prison because my grandmother kept calling the cops on her own son, he was a teenager not even an adult. Crazy af.
The statement about the daughter hoping to get the mother to do something so they could get her kicked out of her home is something I have seen before. I know someone trying to take over their mother's house right now, even down to getting a copy of the deed and the value of the house.
All I can say is I'm so sorry for this young woman for having a mother like that. It's obvious she doesn't love her daughter and is consumed by her demons.
Idk, her mom is wild, but shes a grown women with kids all over the world living free not paying a dime. She didnt even offer to pay utilities. I mean 3 addition ppls utilities on this women isn’t right either
One thing that would never ever come of my mouth is "I'm done" in regard to my kids and grandchildren. I've been through a lot with my daughter's but never my son. All now from 34 to 40 years old. Six grandchildren. Nothing, and I mean nothing would make me the kind of "mother " this woman is. She put her ugly feelings ahead of a 5 month old baby!
I am so disgusted by the daughter that continues to mooch in her mothers house not paying rent not paying any of the bills and yet believe she’s entitled to live there with her kids and her baby daddy it’s ridiculous and it’s no wonder your mother is so angry over it
The daughter is just as crazy as the mother. The dysfunction is obvious. The daughter has 4 children, 3 have been adopted out, she's with a man who isn't the father of her infant. This whole case made me feel erratic.
I’m only two minutes in and this mother has already spilled all of her daughters, personal secrets that have absolutely nothing to do with the case how many children she has the fact that she gave them up for adoption that she was pregnant with somebody else’s baby and is dating somebody else what does that have to do with rent, she did it on purpose. She’s trying to shame her daughter on national television what a despicable woman.
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“And it ain’t his baby either that’s somebody else baby “ 😭😭😭😭
Which had absolutely nothing to do with the case !!! Smh
A lot of things is said that has nothing to do with the cases. Mother was on point! 4 kids and you only have 1 that says it all.
“Oh, I love my daughter.”
Bryan, so the innocent children suffer for really what is none of this mother's business.
@@diane3304 how would the child suffer? By knowing the truth which he isn’t bio dad?
I have never felt so normal in my life!!!!!
Exactly!! My issues are minor compared to this toxic mess
I say that every time I go to a state/county fair.
Amen!!!!
Yes!!! Exactly!
Well to bad you look odd.
The fact that the mothers said, “Oh please!” when the judge said they both need counseling is telling
She said please like she thought the Judge would provide it.
She said Please,I think she was agreeing with the judge
@@mekhahboohunter5694 I heard “Oh please!” And the body language said they thought it was ridiculous
Mommy sounds like she's about to keel over from emphysema.
@@mekhahboohunter5694 no, it was sarcasm
2 minutes into the case & mom is ALREADY in savage mode 😳😂😂😂
I'm not even mad at mom. Since the 4th baby isn't the boyfriend's it sounds like he grifted his way in mom's house. Mmm mm mm
Told all her daughter's business.....had me looking like those emojis in your comment
You know she savage cuz her purse stayed perfectly on her shoulder the whole time
I was like 🤣🤣"Well damn"!!
😂😂😂😂
Holy smokes. Mom is coming out the gate telling all of her daughters business. But mom that just looks bad on you, you're the one who raised her. And played a part in playing games with a newborn baby. Lord help that child.
Agreed what a shrew
I was thinking the same thing!
A dysfunctional mother who raised a dysfunctional daughter........ And what do you thing the grandchild will become?
Y’all all wrong at some point in life you take responsibility for your actions she’s not a teenage doing all this she fully grown 4 children only have one of them and with a man that’s not even the father while the father of the other children buying mattresses & she’s sitting up there provoking the mother an “older lady” y’all definitely bums I see the mother isn’t an angel but she is a parent to her deceased son daughter while her daughter is sitting up there filming her and provoking her all in front of her deceased brother daughter I’m just not understanding she definitely picking men over her mom there’s proof of that
@@nichellewalker51 right! My mother was preggo at 14 with me selling and doing drugs at 16 and went on bout her life didnt try to be a mom until i was 20 and had my own newborn. I went the opposite direction. People gotta take responsibility for their own actions you and your parents are still two different people
This Plantiff is a mess. She coming in acting all innocent when she's crazy as heck herself.
I would never live with her.
Ngl, I’m getting serious a meth or opioid addiction vibe from the mom.
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
Batsh#$ crazy!!
This is why adults need their own space.
When you don't get the love you needed from your parents, you will desperately try to fill that void all of your life.
I agree with you from experience
Yeah, a lot of guys were filling her void on a regular basis. Hence 4 kids...
@@Princess-eq5ei learn to love yourself first then you will be ready for a healthy relationship with someone else.
@@GUCC1197 thenku
@@Princess-eq5ei hugs💖 unfortunately I have had the same experience
The mom is batsht crazy, but you can tell the kids also antagonized her, knowing that would rile her up. If it was me, she would be dead to me, and I would never speak with her again. Especially after calling CPS dozens of times. She's the type that will randomly call them for the years to come, just because she can.
The entire family is insane
@Digby Dooright I had to rewind it twice!!!!
Some families aren't meant to live together.
Literally said your fist sentences then scrolled for this message . Who does this to a baby
You are surprised she called CPS? The mom gave up her first three babies? She will have 4 or 5 more before all is said and done.
Sad case. Judge was right - daughter, boyfriend and baby would have been better in a homeless shelter. When you have to videotape your roommates (or mother's) erratic behavior, that's a sign to get out ASAP.
Unfortunately some homeless shelters are horrible. Living in the streets are better then a few.
the daughter and her boyfriend are bums
The daughter should have been a decent person and put relationships on hold instead of bringing her simpy boyfriend who is not the father of the child and was not invited to live with her at her mother's house. She already gave away 4 kids so the mother was probably upset that she will probably have another kid with her new bf who can't even provide for himself while she is being burdened with additional expenses that she probably can't afford because she is raising her deceased sons kid.
The homeless shelter isn't a good place to life or stay ever.
No a baby in a homeless shelter wouldn’t have been better
The boyfriend is crazy for choosing to be part of their lives😳
He was picked up from the side of the road so beggars can't be choosers.
@@elliebellie7816😭😭😭
This
@@elliebellie7816💀😭
He has no money!
I'm sorry but I wouldn't want the grandkid NEAR that PLAINTIFF. She cray-cray.
@fingolfin Neither is the daughter & her boyfriend. She gave three away already. She wants NO RESPONSILITY !!!
@@scarletredmagic6724 He could look at the baby as his own. You don’t have to be biological to be a daddy
@@scarletredmagic6724 dude if you adopt a child and you’re asked if it’s your first child…the answer is yes.
Unlike Harvey's statements at the end of this case, I don't think that the defendant should be the bigger person and let her mother the plaintiff have a relationship with the defendant's child. The plaintiff showed little to no regard nor respect for her daughter in this court case. There was absolutely no reason to bring up how many children her child had put up for adoption, how many exes she had, who the biological father of her child was, etc. The court case was about property damage/theft, harassment, and outstanding rent. Sometimes cutting someone off from your life is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself and your family. In this case, there is a very real chance that with her mother no longer impacting her life anymore the defendant will be able to work with her therapist to get the help she needs, and hopefully, the end result will be a positive, healthy, responsible, and loving parent to her child and girlfriend/wife to her partner.
Why does it matter? She doesn’t have her other 3 kids. What’s so special about having a relationship with this one?
I would not let that woman near any child of mine. It’s not compulsory to allow your child to have a relationship with an abusive person who is only going to cause harm to the child just like she has to her own daughter. The child’s interest and wellbeing have to be put first always. One would not let a child have a relationship with a grandparent if one new the grandparent was a pedophile. The same applies here the grandmother is not fit for a relationship with a child.
I disagree, the mother invited her and her newborn to live with her at no expense so she they can reconcile but she brings a simpy dude who is not the father of her newborn or any of her previous kids that she gave up for adoption. It seems the mother did not want to be burdened with additional expenses of another man her daughter is shagging who will probably end up becoming baby daddy #5 or #6. The daughter and her boyfriend should've paid their share of the bills and the drama would've been avoided. Do you think the mom should be proud her daughter gave up 4 of her kids and is now with a man who can't even pay his own bills let alone provide for her and her kids? Should she be happy about the increase in utilities, food, personal care expenses that she will have to pay for when she can't afford it? As much as I disagree with the way she outed her daughter on national TV, I get her frustration
Thank you, I was looking for this kind of comment. Yes you should try to have a strong family bond BUT if the mother/grandmother/etc is toxic and mentally or emotionally abusive, that will not change. I don't care if you're my best friend of 20 yrs or a blood relative, if you are making my life complete fuckin hell and refuse to change or apologize, you have no right to be in my life anymore. Related or not, cut that cord for good.
(The daughter is not a Saint either in this case, I'm well aware, but clearly there is no reason to have the psychotic mother involved in her life anymore)
@@bryanbryan5214 We don't know if the children were the product of a non-consentual night, if she was in an abusive relationship and was fearful, if she had the mental, emotional, & financial stability to raise them, if substance abuse played a part. We know very little about the situation or why she chose what she did - because it didn't relate to the case and it's her private business. All we can go on is she chose to give several of the children she bore up for adoption, and now for whatever reason she is ready to raise a child. That shows growth and shouldn't be looked down on.
She destroyed the air conditioner and then bought a new one? What is going on!? Is she crazy? This case is nuts!
She bought a new one, then took it back to the store the next day. Lol
Narcissism is the answer. The grandmother is the narcissist.
I don't think so, I think she's just overwhelmed with her daughters lifestyle. Who would be happy with their daughter giving 4 kids away then having another one while being unable to support any of them. On top of that bringing her boyfriend who's not the father of any of her kids to move into her mothers house and expecting the mother to pay for everything? The daughter also antagonized her mom while living there for free. It seemed like the mom was trying her help her daughter get it together by inviting her to live with her but she didn't like the choices she was making. They both are entitled to live as they wish but you don't get to do that when your living in moms house and moms paying all the bills.
@@mohammedkhaliq1475 100% agree
Narcissist with controlling problems
Seriously, that goof at the end saying they should establish a grandmother relationship... with a psycho? Is he nuts?
Sometimes he hast to just say something but that was stupid
Usually the nut doesn’t fall from the tree..it’s generational..
I love it when he asks me how it feels to lose lol
"I have dentina... Dimention." 😅 🤣🤣That boyfriend better run. That whole family is a mess. 😂
If you couldn’t tell he has his own problems, the guy looks doped up
@@joejoerobinson8724 obvious he got issues but they seem worse 😂
@@BloodNote Well obviously for him to be with that kind of woman he is definitely on something. It looks like the mom tries to mean well but she’s just bat shit crazy that it’s impossible. The daughter didn’t have a good influence in her life so she’s pretty scummy as well
He seems like a mess himself. Who moves in to a woman’s mother’s house who just had a baby who didn’t belong to him? They are all weird.
BAHAHA....dentina
This made me cry. That mother is absolutely disgusting messing with her grandbabys thing’s because she’s fighting with her daughter absolutely disgusting, its always good to have grandparents but in this case she should be nowhere near that grandma 💔
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree . Both mother and daughter are a whole mess.
Mother tired of baby girl constantly getting pregnant and giving the babies away
I honestly don’t understand that this is how some people chose to live their lives.
Exactly! The boyfriend went from offering $400, then $300 & then $0. He couldn't rent a 1 bedroom for that. Come on now.
And come on national TV to tell us about it.
The daughter should of just left then.
Narcissism and the taboe of going no contact on family members. The mother abused the daughters situation to feed her narcissism.
Maybe because your world is limited to what you're exposed to.
All this for a sum of money that is really small considering everything. I wouldn't go air my family's dirty laundry on national TV for about 1,500$.
It's $1,500. The $ goes before the numbers.
Plaintiff reminds me of one of those parents that does things for you so they can control you/ make you miserable.
Yes exactly! My mom's exactly the same way. And still tries to control me even though I'm 44 and have my own apartment
After the daughter tells us that her mother went ballistic after she had done a wash of baby clothes, the mother smiles smugly, proud of herself. OMG what sort of mother would do that to her daughter and grandchild? The defendant needs to get away from her toxic mother and NEVER look back...
The mom is a nutbag
Harvey is wrong about lettting that woman be a grandmother to that child. That woman is crazy.
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
The mother is repulsive. She needs go back under a rock & just keep smoking & drinking.
It's risky to do so because the mom, and daughter get vicious with each other. The baby doesn't need to see that.
@@donnahanfordnichols6573 they're both repulsive....must be a woman thing.
Catherine Sisk letting
Everyone says the granddaughter should have a relationship with her but I would never let that happen. Too much drama & shes obviously using her other granddaughter. And most importantly how did everyone forget the grandmother stole from the unborn granddaughter. Why the hell would a parent want their child to go threw all that??
I would not want my child anywhere near the Mother.
I'm not sure who "everyone" is. Most people seem to be in agreement that the daughter needs to stay away from the mom!
@@heathernks8 I think OP is talking about the audience of people outside in the video
Spot on! When theres so many whom show a good sense of humanity so well, Role models on a day-2-day basis, I side that Some people truly should have to prove that they are qualified to "Care" for the young. Literally -such as Daycare providers. Being an adult shouldn't entitle anyone to being an authority, much less a person full of resentment/ Hysteria/ vindictive personality traits/type: becoming only but a Toxic influence in a child's life. 😔😝🤨😑
My "mother" has never met my children! She never will. They are older now and they do know what she's done to me. They now no longer have any desire to meet her. It's not sad if your parent is an abusive, manipulative, narcissist. Cut all ties and get as far away as possible.
My God! What a toxic relationship. The plaintiff is talking about her daughter like a dog. If I was the daughter, I’d move away and start over.... And what grandmother brings her 11yr old granddaughter to be a witness in this toxic mess??!! She’s going to ruin that child like she did her daughter!
shes having kids like a dog and a litter
And broadcasting her daughter's situation ("this child isn't even his" ) like it's nothing. That daughter should run as far and fast as she can.
I damn sure wouldn't want my daughter around that toxic woman . Hell no !
i wouldnt want my daughter living with me and 4 kids and no husband,my house would be completely taken over..now a new boyfriend and he is not the father of any of the kids .what a mess.even tho the daughter is a beautiful looking girl ,good luck to all ...
I remember this one. I've seen families that are full of constant drama and arguments. I swear these people thrive on it. They CANNOT handle a situation where everything is calm and uneventful. THAT makes these people nervous! A lot of society is what I call "functioning mental cases".
Hi Joseph so right…very needy people
You can’t hold the mom responsible, she has dimension.
Lol!
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Cackle
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I disagree with Harvey, grandma is definitely not stable and certainly has no regard for the baby's care. I mean, she disconnected power and air conditioning, hid the child's bathtub and then kept her crib?! Mom and baby are better off staying far, far away from that toxicity.
Right! Not every grandparent is deserving of the being in the presence of their grandchild. The mother is absolutely valid for not wanting her child to have a relationship with her.
Indeed... right in every word you say!
Holy smokes what a mother to have! I wouldn't want her around my child!
I wouldn't want her around my Rottie--- she might bite her.
First of all I wouldn't want her around me. Forget the child once it stops at me that is final
This makes me feel really fortunate to be so close with my mom and her family. They are literally the most important people in my life and I would be lost without them.
This case has me in my feels. Reminds me of how my mother acted. Father too. In cases like these, family estrangement is a must. My kids don’t have to see and feel what I had to growing up and that’s enough for me.
She doesn't love her daughter.
Exactly.
when you come out of the gates putting the other party on blast, all you're doing is making yourself look bad. far moreso when it comes up completely unprovoked.
I am so thankful to God that I have an a amazing mother that would NEVER treat me like this. Me and my mother have a wonderful relationship that I wish everyone could have. ❤️❤️
I love how she has her purse on the whole time lol
Drug addict behavior
And a cross necklace
I'm the defendant in the case and reading all your comments really got my attention. My 14 year old niece who was sitting in my mothers car during the court case by herself (she was 12 at the time) is the one who showed me this on youtube.
My 3 older kids were by the same father. I was with that man from 18 years old until I was 26. My 3 kids with him were taken out of the home due to domestic violence. He would beat me with a belt, as an example of the physical abuse that was in the home. My mother is also the one who called cps on me to have them taken away from me thinking the state would give them to her.
"My mother" wasnt allowed to have custody of them because of her significant history with CPS from when my brother and I were younger. My brother is dead that's my nieces father.
My mother didnt want me living their rent free. She also refused to watch my newborn baby so I could go to work. Having my boyfriend (mark) move in was the only way to make her happy with weekly money (he has his own spot and couldnt afford 2 rents so he moved in with me there with my mothers approval because she wanted the money) so for those of you who says "dead beat plantiffs" you are very far from the truth.
She got her rent every month. Until she robbed my baby's bathtub so I couldnt bathe her daily. To the point I had to call the cops and make a break in report (cops made a comment that they left the big screen TVs and all electronics but took a babies bathtub) she smiled at the cop while signing the report.
At that point, rent stopped until I was able to bathe my baby. Then she turned off the electric multiple times. Cops had to get involved and they told her she legally had to leave it on. She decided to go outside, lift the window and smash the ac unit with a hammer..all while mark was at work. I was at the house everyday, he was working 70+ hours a week so we could get our own place. He wasnt around for any of this drama. It was his air condition unit which is why he was on the court papers.
That mentally ill woman stole all my shampoo, conditioner, anything she could when I left the room. I put a camera in it and had her filmed robbing my stuff. I then changed the lock to the door and she lost her mind over it and broke the door so it wouldnt even close.
She treated my father this way and my brothers this way who are both dead today and she cries her eyes out daily at the way she treated them but treats me worse than she ever treated them.
So for everyone saying I keep reproducing and have all these male partners, your wrong. First 3 babies with the same guy - eliana (the baby who was a newborn when this happened) was a different father, yes. Thank God. My mother still begged me to get back together with the first babydaddy even though I was lucky to get out of the relationship alive. 🤯😭
I pray 🙏🏿 things will get better soon
Your mother is a psycho, and a liar. I can see it, it was pretty obvious. No one deserves the abuse and she will die a lonely old hag! Sad! Cut ties and don’t look back! She obviously is not all there and creates more mental anguish than it’s worth!
If you are sensitive to social media commenting which prompted you to write a Wikipedia of your families dirty laundry. Just keep in mind you had the choice to agree or not agree to appear on the show.. u could have not agreed and had your case heard locally
@@UsernameUnkwn21 I can completely understand why she would want the opportunity to tell her side of the story. Her mother is obviously a one-woman shitstorm. I'm glad she got herself and her baby out of that abusive situation.
Just Joan that is just plain nasty. It was obvious the mother is deranged from the jump. Sadly the dynamic you describe from childhood, Stephanie, is still there. Get away from this woman. Don’t let her know where you live. Stay off social media. She can’t call in false accusations if she doesn’t know who to call. God bless you. Love that sweet baby girl and make a good life for you both.
How could you be so miserable as to deny your young granddaughter the necessities of life?
Exactly. I give my grands everything I can
Someone has to pay for it
I want to call my mom and tell her i love her and im blessed to have a mother like her. Im 26🥺 this is just so sad.
Holy cow. Mom looks like a train wreck. Daughter never had a chance. This is more of a deterrent than "this is your brain on drugs".
Isn’t this a reposted case? This case made me realize how fortunate I am to bond so well with my boyfriend’s mom and family.
Yes.
Same. I love my family, but I didn't realize how dis-functional they were till moved in with my boyfriend (now fianceé). It was so weird to get use to the quietness at first. I was so use to fighting and yelling on a daily basis that it felt weird not to.
Yeah
I think it is a repost but a bunch of the cases have this story line
They’re all repostings, unfortunately
i don't think it would be a good idea to let the baby have a relationship with the grandmother... that would require a relationship between two people that apparently hate each other and that would be traumatic for the child
furthermore, i'm not surprised that they didn't pay rent after she threw the AC out the window. family or not landlord is required to make the tenant's space livable. 85-90 degrees is way too hot for an infant to be constantly in. especially an infant who isn't used to that type of temperature.
also, she said her daughter and baby could move in for free. why does the boyfriend/father figure need to pay? oh, she's mad her daughter brought her boyfriend to live there too. oh well! either accept that he's there and let him stay free as well or tell them all to leave if u don't want him there. obviously she didn't want him there and her daughter did, so all this could've (maybe) been avoided if one of those two things happened. if u don't want someone in ur house, make them leave, but don't get upset when the person they came with leaves too, especially if they're in a romantic relationship.
i may get some hate, but those were just my two cents 🤷🏾♀️
This is really sad 😢 that mother is toxic
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
The daughter is toxic af
Vicious!! I know that clueless narcissist "mother" had to also be emotionally abused/neglected to end up this disgusting but man I'm really struggling to have any sympathy for her! Defendant girl you're a warrior! Keep breaking that cycle!
I don’t know if she is .. I hope for the sake of her child.
Defendant isn't a warrior. She can't keep her legs closed. 4 kids and 3 adopted. This guy isn't the father of any of them.
I get that mothers and daughters rub each other the wrong way, I have two daughters, but I would rather die than lose them.
This is just an abusive parent. This isn’t just two people who don’t get along.
Am I the only one who appreciates the voiceover at the beginning of each case.
"I have dimentiona- i have dimension." Yes, lady, yes you do.
Mommy thank you for loving me and being the best friend that a woman could ask for. Rest Easy Mommy and Ill see you soon 💔
With a mother like that I would rather be parentless! Maybe the daughter is the way she is because the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree 🤷♀️
I love how these crazy ass people strap on a crucifix just before coming to court. As if that makes them a good person.
The mom woke up and chose violence that day. She aired out so many things that had absolutely nothing to do with the case 💀
She was spilling ALLLL the tea😂
If you don't want your bs crazy mama coming in to court to tell all your secrets, better get a receipt when you pay cash for the rent. And then come into court admitting you didn't pay the rent.
I can only imagine how the plaintiff would treat non relatives. This was such a toxic situation. The plaintiff and defendant could use a mental health assessment. 🤓🤓
She telling all the ☕️ and I’m here for it drinking it all up 🤣🤣
Damn her mom threw her under the bus ASAP... she didn't even hesitate to say "this is her 4th her other 3 were adopted out and this isn't his kid either" ... Welp .....
If this is how this mother shows love, I would be afraid to see how she acts when she hates someone
I just ran across this People's Court episode recently. Grandma was such a horrible human being, and I use the term human being very loosely. I could feel the daughters bitterness through the TV screen. I'm glad you got out of that woman's house. I believe everything that you said. Don't ever ever see that woman again in all of your life. She is evil personified. Here's to a better future for you. May you have peace of mind.
This mom is off the wall. What is it her place, to say on national television, that her daughter gave 3 kids up for adoption, and that he isn't the father of the baby?!
Wow. “At least I have the other one, I DONT WANT THESE” what the hell kind of horrible human being says that?!?
The mom and daughter here remind me of a dialled back version of an ex-roommate's family, they were even more toxic than these people if you can believe it. My roomate's mom in particular was truly a monster like I've never seen. They were a deranged, screwed up, and violent family, and I don't say that lightly. Part of the reason it was so bad is that *all* of the family is abusive to each other and they all act like they're just the abused and not abusive. Like my roomate used to tell me she was told by her grandpa she was "The White Sheep in a family of Black Sheeps" but she was near, if not just as bad as her mother and she didn't even know it cause she never self reflected, and god forbid you tried to make a good point she didn't like. She'd hate dealing with her mom cause she was controlling, then she'd literally treat us how her mom treated her 24/7 and try to control us, and it was her way or the highway. At *best*, my roomate was a Dark Grey sheep, nowhere near white. They were all abusive to each other and anyone who had the misfortune to know them as anything more than a casual acquaintance. Worst part? They all acted like children and me and my partner were more mature and solve issues with conversations, not screaming arguments and fists, despite the mother being in her 50s, the roomate being 31, and us being in our early 20s at the time. And all the families walled off secrets I knew about was a horror show all of its own that I won't even get into, but at a minimum I discovered a ways into my lease that the mother was on an FBI watchlist, if that tells you anything. It was so bad that looking back now it feels like it had to be a fever dream but it wasn't. I imagine my roomate's family in a court room would be just as bad as these two if not worse. If this is how this family is willing to act in court, I imagine they're even worse than the videos caught behind the scenes with probably years of baggage, just guessing from my experiences with similar seeming people. Too many red flags for my liking and I hope that baby is okay.
Glad you got away from that!
The mom keeping her purse on is giving me vibes of my late grandma 🤣
Love your interaction with your hubby. You and he both did good!
And that ain’t his baby! This line told me mama sick of the bullshit 😂
This is just ridiculous, I will pray for them
Who needs enemies when you have a mother like this 😢 my goodness!
She got her previous 3 adopted and then she gets pregnant again and the simp
is right there next to her....and im here alone fearful of starting relationships and
bringing drama into my life.
It was absolutely insane for Harvey to suggest that the mother (plaintiff) have a relationship with her granddaughter! That lady is crazy as heck!
I mean looks like mom just fed up that her child has 3 kids and now a 4th and still can’t get her life together 🤷🏽♀️, daughter also pushes her buttons
I mean the mother might be a bit much but notice how the video of her with the stick was apparently what enabled her to get the restraining order against the daughter. Some judge was more disturbed by the DAUGHTER'S actions than the mother's which really goes to show that the daughter must've been the one more out of line there. Because the way that video was described by Mommy Dearest suggests that there's a lot more to it than just those few seconds that we saw.
@@WarGrowlmon18 the mom is a toxic narcissist
They’re all absolutely unstable and should seek help for whatever is going on upstairs….this is extremely sad
Mom came to air her daughters dirty laundry 😂
I’d think a homeless shelter or a van would be preferable to staying in that house.
Lmao Mama emptied the clip ! 😂😂😭 let all her daughter business out. The daughter should be so embarrassed 😳
Why should the daughter be embarrassed? Her MOTHER should be embarrassed for behaving this way.
Why do moms like that always look like THAT
The mom seems narcissistic.
That mother was horrific. Mentally ILL/Alcohol? I wouldn’t want her anywhere near my children.
Wow! I'm soooooo happy my mom doesn't treat me this way!! I would never treat my mom that way either!!!
As crazy as the plaintiff is , maybe the daughter wanted to have her commited and keep the house? Anyone who gives away 3 children, then has more is suspicious.
Exactly
What an ignorant statement. You don’t know a thing about the circumstances surrounding the other three children. Ever hear the saying “ There but for the grace of God go I”? It means be thankful your life didn’t bring you to such a place. Do better.
The defendant states above in the comments that the kids were taken away bc they were in an abusive environment with the kids’ dad. She was being abused too. Now she’s trying to have a better life but she still needs to make better choices. I would tell her- Continue counseling, don’t have anymore kids for a long time, get some job skills, stay away from your mother.
@jenniferfriesen7691 so she gave up 3 kids and had another 1... even though she didn't have a home or stability
Yall love to throw around GOD but fail to use any common sense.
She abandoned her children and brought another 1 in... already have men living around this child...
Why keep having kids?
She is a horrible woman.
My heart breaks for the children. They'll probably wonder why she threw them away and had another baby for the rest of their lives.
Listening to this case is stressing me out.
They are both Toxic and self destructive
Well sometimes mothers are jealous of their daughters because they wish they could be young again.
Who would be jealous of someone who has three previous children who have been adopted and now a new born with another man, living with yet again a different man and can’t afford to pay 75 dollars a week to rent a room?
@@shannonelizabeth9499 mostly agree, ps any relatoi to a suzan?
"Mock" has the patience of a saint with this terrible Mommee Dearest Plaintiff.
Oh Lord Dear God...
Did you really type out her Long Island accent.....
I freakin love it😄😄😄🎸🎸🎸🎸
No, Grandmother is out of her mind. No relationship with the grandchild until old enough to not be damaged by grandmother.
With a mother like that, you don't need no enemies. She's a nut case! My grandmother did the same thing to her youngest son. She'd give or loan something, then turn around and call the cops. My uncle was sent to juvenile prison because my grandmother kept calling the cops on her own son, he was a teenager not even an adult. Crazy af.
"I have dimentiana"
"You have what?"
"Dimension"
The mom is crazy but why is the daughter acting like a victim? No one is forcing her to live there. Grow up!
What a cold-blooded mother. So sad.
The statement about the daughter hoping to get the mother to do something so they could get her kicked out of her home is something I have seen before. I know someone trying to take over their mother's house right now, even down to getting a copy of the deed and the value of the house.
A mother and child are a package deal. If a family member is toxic to the mother, then they are toxic to the child/ children. Respect is key.
She gave up 3 kids already? She shouldn’t be allowed to have kids anymore whatsoever. That’s so terrible. What a horrible human being
For some people, it's great to visit or stay at mom's home. But, in this situation, I don't blame the daughter for never seeing her mom ever again.
I can't imagine my mother acting like this
All I can say is I'm so sorry for this young woman for having a mother like that. It's obvious she doesn't love her daughter and is consumed by her demons.
Idk, her mom is wild, but shes a grown women with kids all over the world living free not paying a dime. She didnt even offer to pay utilities. I mean 3 addition ppls utilities on this women isn’t right either
One thing that would never ever come of my mouth is "I'm done" in regard to my kids and grandchildren. I've been through a lot with my daughter's but never my son. All now from 34 to 40 years old. Six grandchildren. Nothing, and I mean nothing would make me the kind of "mother " this woman is. She put her ugly feelings ahead of a 5 month old baby!
Joan Crawford had nothing on this mom. What a horrific human.
I'm a mother of two daughters... I would NEVER treat my daughter's like this.. Ever. So sad.
I am so disgusted by the daughter that continues to mooch in her mothers house not paying rent not paying any of the bills and yet believe she’s entitled to live there with her kids and her baby daddy it’s ridiculous and it’s no wonder your mother is so angry over it
My in-laws were good people. Thank the lord
Harry is wrong. A child needs to be protected from this crazy grandmother.
The daughter is just as crazy as the mother. The dysfunction is obvious. The daughter has 4 children, 3 have been adopted out, she's with a man who isn't the father of her infant. This whole case made me feel erratic.
I’m only two minutes in and this mother has already spilled all of her daughters, personal secrets that have absolutely nothing to do with the case how many children she has the fact that she gave them up for adoption that she was pregnant with somebody else’s baby and is dating somebody else what does that have to do with rent, she did it on purpose. She’s trying to shame her daughter on national television what a despicable woman.
These are 2 grown adults living off mother dearest. They both need to have their own apartment, studio, or a barn. unacceptable.
The daughter needs to grow up & LIVE ON HER OWN!! Your mother doesn’t owe you a free ride no matter what the trauma was!
Judge, "what's that?". Defendant," my mother trying to hit me with s stick." 😂
LOL... "She said I had dimension."