Was Angela really Sheila’s ONLY Real Friend?! - Why Did I get married? 2007 Movie recap
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YAAAY was just about to comment this
I am so glad you commented this. Otherwise I wouldn't know when to look forward to the next vid.
Thank you and grits Sheila Grits and they HOT 😴😴😐😐😐HE Had nerve
And also could you do Diary of a Mad Black Woman next? And after that Madea’s Family Reunion?
I need to watch this so bad and fully.
Angela is the friend that every person acts like they don’t want but actually really needs in their life! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yep
I’m Angela in my group 😂 and my friends cant stand me but I feel the love 💕
Facts
facts
Angela is that brutal honesty that a lot of people try to avoid for their own comfort. That's absolutely wild to me.
Angela was DEFINITELY a true friend to Sheila, because not only did she see through Trina’s BS facade, she even called out her and Mike for sleeping around with behind her so-called “best friend’s” back in front of everyone👏
Facts!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
But angela is also a hypocrite though because she cheated on her husband
@@christaylor7916Wasn’t he also cheating on her? And that’s why he thought he got an STD from someone else?
@@jessicawilliams3849 yes. But I'm saying that Angela is a hypocrite though
I always thought Angela just said that because she wanted Marcus to know how it feels. I don’t think she really cheated. Just my 2 cents.
Angela ate the entire movie! 😆 Her bob was bobbin’ , a true friend, and she was the comic relief in the group.
"her bob was bobbin" 🤣
Facts😂
Nah not the entire movie that scene where she was breaking down the time it takes for Marcus to get to point a to point b and the gas nah she was wilding everything else yeah but that one bit was crazy
@@jaed3183 😂 she knew that man's resting heartbeat she too much
I just realized the hair in this movie was on point, which typically goes against a TP film
when he laughed in her face while she had the lingerie on it broke my heart
Yeah me too I really felt bad 😢
I saw this movie in theaters as a teen and I actually laughed when he said that. I’m 29 now I’m in so mad at myself for laughing because that moment is so heartbreaking. Sometimes I fast forward through it on rewatching. I feel so bad.
@@Taneeka94 You were a teenager and didn't know any better/weren't aware. Please don't be mad at yourself for that. Look at you; you got older and grew and matured. Your empathy grew and aged beautifully. ❤❤
@@Taneeka94like it’s funny but not. Knowing it’s a film (and thinking the lingerie is ugly) it’s funny but in hindsight it’s like…that was rude and he didn’t have to laugh in her face. And to think folks act like that FORREAL is evil
@@kiki13451 What makes it worse is the fact that she was his WIFE and mother of his kids.
Shelia hitting Mike with the bottle will forever be a classic moment in film history lol 😂😂😂
In the play she shot him in the ass 😂
Edit she was bussing that thang 😂😂 I had to add that lmfao
And Angela looking over the table saying “God, I hope he’s dead!” 😂😂😂
Yes 🙌
"I'll get my medical bag"🤣🤣 and said it very casually
I always rewind that moment and play it slowly, just to see that bottle hitting that head hard
The fact that the dudes remained friends with Mike after that dinner scene when he aired out ALL THEIR PERSONAL SHIT that's supposed to be covered by bro code talk is wild to me. That scene made me limit what I tell my ppls in private. Cuz some ppl don't give a fuck, especially if they going down in flames. They gonna air out everything! Smh
Yeah Mike was trash for taking all of them down with him. As a friend, Mike would have been dead to me after that.
@@esjay-rh7wx that's what I'm saying! That's one super tight friendship circle, I guess cuz I could never. Like marriages & families could've broken up over that shit. Nahh...
Mike only did that because he was pissed that Angela exposed him for being the cheating bastard he is. That didn’t mean he had to go and air everybody’s dirty laundry. If that were me and Mike told all or my business, I will not be talking to him ever again.
@@niabelizaire3596Honestly if it was me, not only would we never speak again, we would be throwing hands frfr.
I was so confused that they remained friends. My mind still can’t comprehend how quickly they forgave him
Looking at Angela and Marcus's baby mama yell at each other and nearly get into a fight - twice - it's clear that Marcus has a type; women with bad tempers. Clearly he loves drama 🙄
Too many blk men like this...
Facts! He acted like he didn’t play a part in the women that he dated. Some people like messy relationships.
Pretty much!
Think of the messiest person you know, the one who is always in some drama. It's always a straight man.
@@thatmessy132 😂
Also I feel like Tyler flipped the script when it came to Marcus and Angela. We were introduced to them knowing Marcus wasn't shit and Angela was overbearing. How did it go from that, to Angela being the problem and the only one messing up the marriage? Are we forgetting he thought he burned her? The only reason she and Keisha were beefin' was because he was still sleeping with her. His whole little speech about Angela not knowing when she's won, what tf did she win? I feel like Marcus' cheating got swept under the rug and Angela's attitude became the bigger issue.
That, or they were both just flat out a trashy couple. Marcus was a cheater and there's no justifying that, but Angela was low key an abusive harpy for like.. 80% of her screen time, AND a cheater
Because a bm made this movie lmao. They ALWAYS make big deals about attitudes and think that is worse than cheating, being a deadbeat, etc. Bm pathology
Good point!!!!
She was a cheater too thooo…and she’s the one who ACTUALLY brought a disease back to the marriage
Well Tyler Perry hates women
Nobody was touching Angela’s bob 💅🏽
Nobody 🔥
It was a God sendin' bob.
As messy and petty as Angela was, She actually cared about Shelia. She didn't tell Shelia for her own gratification or for her own benefit. She told her because she actually cared about her. Not to say the others didn't care about her or loved her, but Angela knew how Mike got down and how he's a piece of garbage that mistreated Shelia. She stood up for Shelia when Mike was picking on her about her weight or other things and still called him out on his bullsh*t when Shelia finally left his azz. Other thing I didn't like how they downplayed Patt's husband feelings and Vulnerability. Mike was wrong for airing out the death of their child. He deserved that bottle to the head
And unlike his homeboys, Angela was the only one that called out Mike for his shit.
Part of me wonders if the reason Angela was also upset for Shiela and angry at Mike was because Marcus cheated on her and that's why she cheated. Basically she knows how it feels to have your partner cheat on you (though her marriage is quite different), so it was a blend of love for Sheila and she would want someone to tell her.
Angela only cared about herself. Which is why she gave her husband VD, didn't tell him and got treated behind his back.🤦🏽♀️
@@AnAdorableWombat1As wrong as she was, Marcus cheated on her multiple times so by her logic it was “payback”. I’m yet to see anything that makes me think she’s a selfish person.
She had to done her own hair because you know Tyler ain’t paying for no hair
Sad but true
I lowkey think he does that on purpose sometimes because he can afford better wigs.
You know Madea saves all the good wigs for herself
@@KitKat-pz9hpfr, madea gets a 360 lace w/edges
I could not be married to Tyler Perry…the second his Madea voice comes out I would get whiplash and have to go 😂
Imagine while y'all having sex and he slips into that voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣
and if you use google map, it took her 21 hours to get to Colorado, makes me upset all over again 😂
😂😂😂 The marraige wasnt even worth it
Shawty really drove up a mountain to save a trash a$$ marriage that had BEEN crumbling before her eyes 😭😭 but ig if she would’ve did the logical thing and left, then the movie wouldn’t be as good!!
Oh my goodness! Wow!
She was driving to her new relationship 😘
@@theorderofthebees7308that’s what I was saying when I watched it last year! I was like “oh Sheila on the way to see her new boo!” When I think of it like that I feel much better.
Patricia and Diane are a lot alike. They’re both dismissive of their partners needs and don’t want anymore children .I also noticed that they both agreed not to tell shelia which shows they both avoid tough conversations even with their partners which is quite crazy because out of the four husbands they’re the most loyal/faithful. I personally believe their life is centered around their career and not marriage and family, and should have been the main ones asking why did I get married ?
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Great points!
But for Patricia it seemed like she was drowning herself in her work as a distraction from grief. In Diane's case she just didn't want to cater to Terrys wants for a child because she'd already stressed she didn't want one so she used her work as an escape. So in Diane's case I definitely think her and Terrys marriage needed a more in depth analysis in the story and even a reconsidering of it's outcome.
@@JuanitoEsBonito I agree but they still have similarities that you just pointed out ,they use work to distract them from their issues at home. I’m not saying they are wrong but neither of them are ready to be married or married the wrong person hence how the second movie played out.Both relationships need a more in-depth analysis because what is Patricia real issue with Gaven because Gaven wasn’t the one who killed her son, he just felt like she was stupid for not checking the seat belt, she never gave a real answer of why she didn’t want to be married to Gaven anymore.
@@JuanitoEsBonitoI feel like that applies to every relationship except Sheila's and Mike's. Like everything got quickly swept under the rug or solved very quickly without really digging deep of their issues and actually try and solve them.
If it wasn’t for Angela Sheila wouldn’t have found out her husband was cheating. Diana and Pat would’ve had her sitting there oblivious to what was really going on:
I feel like Mike would've eventually revealed it himself. I just know he woule have divorced her and spitefully revealed it.
Finally someone pointed out how toxic Terry is! He said decisions should be a 2 party thing but apparently that didn't matter when he wanted another kid. They weren't compatible but aside from her being more attentive to their daughter their incompatibility centered on her bodily autonomy.
Yes, sex and family planning are huge parts of a relationship but the solution isn't have sex and babies you don't want. The thing that adds to this is that from what we're told Diane hasn't actually changed. She apparently didn't have that much sex with him from the beginning of the relationship so when did he think that was going to change?
Also I didn't like how the resolution the movie gave us was Diane humbling herself when the topic is her bodily autonomy to the point where her accepting that her husband cheated on her to get the babies he wants is a good thing. Like no. That is nasty victim blaming nonsense.
The resolution to their story should have been a divorce since the relationship wasn't healthy for either of them.
😂 how was terry toxic because he wanted love from his wife 😂 yall women take no accountability for!! I bet if Terry would’ve cheated on her ass yall would’ve said he was tragic
@@rodrickjones3414rodrick you’re very obviously slow and lack reading comprehension. If he cheated he would’ve been dead wrong. Women don’t lack accountability. Be better.
Yeah, after watching it as an adult I was completely on Diane’s side when I wasn’t as first, it wasn’t until I was married/have a baby now that I understood the problem.
It’s clear Terry wants another kid, and Diane is at a good point in her career where she wants to focus on that first. He’s upset because she’s prioritizing her needs above his wants for another child. He KNOWS she doesn’t want to have kids, so she makes sure a that doesn’t happen with the tubes tied. I can understand not having a conversation beforehand but she told him several times she doesn’t want a kid. 🫠
I have to disagree here as well. I don't think they are toxic and really needed a divorce, more counseling than anything, but from my perpective, as portrayed by the movie and the backstop, Diane was more in the wrong.
As this comment and FYN pointed out, the assumption is that Diane needs her job. However, from how the movie is portrayed, she's already successful at her job. That sounds to me that Terry already sacrificed years of no intimacy and that was ok because he had his own goals to accomplish. However, they have a child now and he may have switched his focus, yet Diane still pursued her career, to the DETRIMENT of their family dynamic. That seems like the angle the story is trying to portray, how too much of a passion outside the home can hurt the home. She quit trying to balance the two. Then to lie to her husband about something that's clearly a family matter is big as well. Theres nothing wrong with pursuing your interests, but when it turns into an obsession and others you love are hurt by it, it is a problem. They on vacation and she only turned work off for her friends, yet she sleeps with her husband every night, yet and still does not provide him any intimacy on top of that. I hear many women ditch men when they dont get their intimacy needs met in a few months, its been years for him. On top of that, She was the one the that neglected her family duties to both her husband and daughter.
Terry also had critical issues to the failing of the marriage as well, don't get me wrong, and trying to force a baby on his wife hoping she would slow down and be more nurturing and domestics very wrong, however, this doesn't seem to prevent him from what's doing what's needed to keep their family foundation together so that's why I say her flaws are more damaging, and why the ending is the way is it in my eyes. However, counseling and clear, strong communication to reach a compromise could clear this up, not a whole divorce. They clearly love eachother, so the compatibility doesn't seem off, their life stages is what seems to be off. This could cause a divorce but in this case, I think it could be fixed. I havent seen the movie in awhile and I know the sequel adds a some more to their story line (actually, iirc, their storyline was the most boring), but in terms of this movie, I think Diane was more in the wrong, ut their marriage was completely salvageable.
@@rodrickjones3414you read that entire analysis and somehow the point still went over your head. I’m seriously concerned
I used to be with a man who treated me the way Sheila was the treated. I didn’t realize it was emotionally abusive until after we split up. once he was gone, my life instantly got better and the weight started melting off. 🤣
My aunt was in a similar situation she dated a horrible man but thankfully found love again and has been married for 13 years ❤.
@@rashidapittman8513thanks for sharing that!! it gives me hope. 😭 it’s so hard to trust that all men won’t do the same thing 😭
Stress causes weight gain and so do DEPRESSION I'm happy u moved on
Good job Good for you
🎉👏🏿🎉👏🏿🎉👏🏿 so happy for you!!!
Terry represents so many men who marry smart, ambitious women with demanding jobs but then get mad when their wives are dedicated to those demanding jobs. Terry should have married Sheila or someone like Sheila, who was a stay-at-home wife.
Same
It’s like that Trevor Noah quote.
@@quirkyblackenby Yes I remember that; Trevor's mom was right.
Terry wouldn't be attracted to a Sheila type imo
Terry wouldn’t be attracted to any woman 😉
Angela’s bob set the standard for bobs!!! 🙌🏾
It truly did!
Terry really thought he did something by telling Diane's secretary not to call. He really thought that Diane defending a teenager facing capital murder was less important than his constant whining. No wonder she was interested in Phil in the second movie. Angela was the only one honest enough to call out the bs that everyone else excused.
I can’t lie a man wanting some affection from his wife or at least attention isn’t whining but I mean that’s just me personally
Diane’s husband annoys me. Always whining and nagging for attention. Diane should’ve just divorced him at the end. Now wonder she was never in the mood for s**.
@@danasjah thats fair and valid but his issue was he made it about her not giving him another child and having a demanding job. He married a freaking lawyer it is well known they work 60- 80 hrs a week.
Plus he wanted to add another child when shes already emotionally neglecting the daughter they already have.
@@kashiialcuin1688 I most def see what you mean I just understand it from both sides.
Huh???? She is married and her marriage takes precedence. She should not be a wife!
Has anyone ever noticed how Mike had an attitude and rolled his eyes once Sheila walked in the kitchen??!?!?? He was so pissed he couldn’t cheat 🤦🏾♀️
Mike wanted Trina i mean Tricka
Angela was a true friend. She would've been the only friend I stayed friends with. Diane and Pat? Nope. Y'all really were going to sit up there and not let me know my "friend" and husband are having an affair??? Consider our friendship done.
Facts! I would’ve kicked them birds to the curb! I hate fake people.
Exactly!!!
SOME PEOPLE will get mad at you and Blame their relationship problems on you and end the entire friendship instead of their own Relationship/ Marriage
@@Jingleball7734Then those aren't friends. If we cant be honest from a genuine place and accept this honesty.... then what are we doing in each other's lives?
@@Jingleball7734The alternative is willingly letting your friend be betrayed constantly and you sat there like a bystander. At least if the friendship ends you could go on knowing it was the right thing to do and that decision was all on them.
Angela was a TRUE friend that had her best interest at heart. Despite her own shortcomings she definitely was always there for her friends and family in every sense of the word. She was however, vindicative and controlling but was my favorite character ❤
Angela was an alcoholic and the “crazy” one out the group, but she wasn’t wrong and I loved that she kept calling them out.
If it was up to me I would’ve have the side piece leave because she ain’t even married, was supposedly Sheila’s “best friend”, and had the NERVE to act like she was a victim while she was doing all the foulness.
I understand they needed a drama element so I get it, but realistically I’d give her friends the side eye. Ain’t no way my friends would allow this situation with Trina to go down.
It depends on the friends; the word is used so loosely sometimes. Some people swear they have loyal ones, and they aren’t. My hometown girlfriends probably wouldn’t want to get involved, but even they would’ve told him he was wrong for the fat jokes or spoke to me in private. My college girlfriends though? 😂 They’d be on Mike! They aren’t strapped too tight. 😂
If you allow your friend to be played and embarrassed in front of everyone, you aren’t a true friend.
Angela was the only one that kept it real frfr
Not with Marcus 🤣🤣
@@devantejackson5085true true
Now you got me feeling bad lmao.
@@AmiriHipHop 😂😂😂 I hope you enjoy it 😂😂❤️
@@packnetadaija I enjoyed the hell out of it actually 😫. #InstantDivorce #HotGrits
I don't think Michael J. White gets the props he deserves for his comedic timing!! Bruh really did his thing!
I love that guy! I couldn't believe that he was in episodes of Saved by the Bell and Martin.
You need to watch him in Black Dynamite if you haven't already .
@2EKgn16 oh yess that's one of my faves! My cousin and I quote it all the time!!
And how fine he is😍He was my crush growing up.
Yes!!!!
Also notice how when Diane is late from picking them up from school, terrys ASSISTANT is picking up the kids. Not him. Like duh she doesn’t want another one
Because he is a doctor, he has patiënts he needs to see. He shouldn't even worry about picking his child up if Diane didn't forget her own child in the first place. She didn't even offer any solutions, that was left for Terry to do. Why couldn't she send her own assistant to pick up her child in her place? Her husband's assistant needed to pick up her child because she forgot her own child. And you defend her? I didn't know a lawyer was more important than a pediatrician
@@iguessso1790 hahahahahahaha whaaaaaatttttttttt, this is the craziest thing ive ever seen, not you being sexist, im gonna make a tiktok about your comment lmfao
@@Jay.T4NA do your thing babes! Because a mother forgetting to pick up her child is super valid, right 😍. Totally not bad parenting
@@iguessso1790 WHATTTTTT bro, okay look at it this way okay, clearly Diane just isnt here for the super motherly lifestyle, so Terry wants another kid that he is too busy to take care of, and then hell fight with Diane about why she isnt taking better care of th kids SHE DIDNT EVEN WANT. you are trippppppin also dont call strangers babes, its not a vibe lol anyway, if i wanted more kids and my wife didnt, i would have to oull my weight more, if i couldnt work less then id stop asking for more kids. its just sense.
@@Jay.T4NA first of all, don't call me bro if babes is off limit. If she never wanted kids, she shouldn't have married a man that wanted a child. When she got pregnant in the first place she should've had an abortion if she really didn't want to have children and divorcing her husband. Her personal feelings about a decision she made, shouldn't be an excuse for her to neglect her child. She could've prevented this in multiple ways, multiple times.
Then you could excuse every person that neglects their child on the basis that they didn't want the child to begin with. That's not realistic and very dangerous for children with neglectful parents
Wtf Terry, Marcus, and Gavin even bothered to associate and tolerate somebody like Mike is equally beyond comprehension.
I'm shocked they were still all friends after that dinner.
@@minatodroger7890I’m shocked that in the second one they were all buddy buddy
They had five years to let it calm down
They’re so far up each other’s asses it’s not even funny nor does it faze me 😭
Man….every time Sheila broke down, I broke down with her 🥺
I wouldn’t say that Diane and Patt were “evil” friends, but they weren’t doing Sheila any favors by remaining silent while Angela vocalized her unfiltered opinions, regardless of the setting.
There's some grits on the stove and they hot ❤❤
The irony of Patricia saying that Terry and Diane know how to communicate, when Marcus and Angela have been doing the most communicating out of everyone. Terry clearly doesn't give a damn about his wife's needs and wants.
Facts. Hated terry
Disrespecting your partner, verbally, is not communicating
or that Diane and Terry are made for each other ptssss..
Could say the same about Diane.
@@onnie.6815I mean they clearly feel disrespect. It's not positive communication but it's still communication. They know exactly how each other feels.
Nah Dianne was terrible lmao. She didn’t even need to be married. The only thing we got from Dianne is she was career driven which is fine. But she clearly didn’t communicate how she never wanted another kid or probably the first one. That’s something a married couple should have talked about long time ago. They should have broken up I agree especially when we see what happens in part 2 with her. Also that “boom” is legitimately forever classic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Also, I can't stand how Terry gets so offended by Diane going "Really? Huh!". I never thought she had actually cheated, it was just so clear she was mocking him.
Agreed, I took that as a "Oh really? No shit Sherlock!" 😂
This doesn't take away from the fact that Diane was simply selfish in this marriage. In a marriage there's "Us" not "I"
Exactly, like that was literally being “yeah no shit…” He took that shit up the ass.
Trina was such a pick me
So was Sheila though
@@KangwithoutaKangdomno she was his wife. Trina was a slut
@@KangwithoutaKangdom…how
@@KangwithoutaKangdomno she wasn’t she literally was trying to fix her relationship with her husband 😂
@@tearichardson8458Being married does not automatically make you not a pickme. She tolerated all manners of abuse and disrespect just to say she was married. She's the supper saiyan of pickmes to be so forreal, because no one with any type of self worth would be so oblivious. She knew what was going and was hoping her husband chose her. Still a pickme, regardless...
Angela was the only one who even cared for Sheila.
I remember I was like 11 or 12 when this movie came out and I felt so grown watching this movie 😂😂
Ikr 😅
I was 12,13 then. Now I'm 29,30😂
I was 9 😂😂😂
@@Wowitzkay I remember because I was only 19 when it dropped and to this day that dinner table secrets scene still gives me chills especially now that I'm turning 36 soon.
Angela was the ONLY one who kept it real the whole time!! That’s the type of friend that everyone really needs: not afraid to stand up for you, always tell it like it is and not sugarcoat anything. 💯
Agreed, we all need an Angela in our friend group. And Angela is also a friend who will offer to give you some money when your loser husband just cleaned out your joint bank account and left you penniless, as Mike did to Sheila.
I think you should do the sequel of this movie. 😂😂😂😂😂 Tyler did sound like Madea during that argument.
Katt said it best. He can only act when he playing a woman 😂😂
Tyler ALWAYS sounds like Madea when he is "upset" in a movie
He didn’t ask trina to pack their things. He told her to do it and like a submissive sidechick she got up and went to pack their $hit. Tbh back then not only the guys but also sheila, Diane and Patricia pissed me off . It was obvious that her husband was cheating with her best friend and he kept belittling her in private but also in public. And they didn’t hold him accountable
The fact that everyone left Sheila there after Mike abandoned her though....you just made me think about that 🙃
I went thru this in a certain way, I couldn't describe the pain and hurt...maybe I need to watch this movie so I can heal. It hurts 😢🤦🏾♀️💔❤️🩹. Id never go back to him but to let it go and move on and not sit and think of who what where and why's anymore.
@@forthenostalgiathey didn't abandon her. Sheila told them she chose to stay there
@@blackbutterfly233ify
Well I think they mean abandoned her at the table
Jill ACTED in this movie . I mean they all did but JILL👏🏽
Janet and Malik did the damn thing in part 2
Angela is the type of friend every Women need fr lol she see through the bs and don’t sugarcoat shi😂 “good thing I brought my Vaseline and sneakers” that shi always gets me😭😭
I never understood the need for Vaseline when fighting. What is it for
@@lumkamsomi2836 okay so some people tend to use Vaseline right before a fight to reduce the damage lol so basically you put Vaseline on your face/body so when someone punch you it slides off because Vaseline is kind of slippery LMFAOO hopefully that made sense cuz chile I’m not good at explaining shi😭💀
@ItsSage555 thanks. It makes perfect sense.
Marcus: “Don’t call my house”
Also Marcus: *Sleeps with Babymama*
When I first watched this movie, I thought both of those little kids were Marcus with his baby momma.Then I rewatched it and hear Angela mention not liking Keisha speaking bad about her around her daughter.
You let your husband's baby momma (who you don't get along with) watch your child? Couldn't be me.
Right?? I always found that confusing. I'm surprised the baby mama even agreed to watch Angela's child. Why was that even an option?!
@@esjay-rh7wx I never understood that either
Omg this make soooo much more sense. I was always so confused about why Marcus walked off and left the kids in the car with Angela because I thought they were his kids. I would imagine the reason why they’re with the baby mama is because they’re all Marcus’ kids (I think?). I still wouldn’t be comfortable letting them stay with her since they’re beefing.
@@esjay-rh7wxLikely because they thought it was a good idea for all the kids to stay together. Its wierd but for some people they expect and want that.
Angela was her ONLY friend.🤦🏾♀️
Yes, Angela was absolutely Sheila's true friend. I'm sure she saw her and Marcus's current situation in them. She had contracted an STI fooling around and realized Marcus was fooling around as well, seeing as though he hadn't said anything. She knows the danger behind those shenanigans, which is why I believe she really wanted to tell Sheila. And yes her bob was absolute life and I always think about that bob when I want one.
Angela's cheating was definitely out of revenge
@@joshuamcdowell9745That was my theory as well, that she did it to get back at him. So her wanting to tell Shiela was a mix of love for her friend and experience
my thought is always “why tf is trina there??” it’s a marriage retreat not a girls getaway. y’all not goin be around no single men. this plot would’ve worked better if they were all invited to a work party for mike & she worked with mike & had a bf (here angela starts peeping) then trina & her bf were invited by shelia & it all spilled out at the dinner. imo
That's what I'm saying! If it was a girl's trip with just Patricia, Diane, Angela and Shelia, then I could see why Trina would've went. However, if its a marriage retreat, there shouldn't be any plus ones.
Literally what i thought when i first saw this movie. If i had a friend's husband invite my single self to a COUPLE'S retreat, I'm denying that immediately. Still wouldn't go under the excuse of "oh it's to find you a man." NOPE!
Sheila, bless her heart, should've peeped something was wrong at that moment.
Yes!!!
Terry character is not as bad as Mike but he’s close - demanding children from you wife sabotaging her relationship with her job - he’s not overtly sad asshole but all his other actions are awful. He feels entitled
@@theorderofthebees7308 literally! not only entitled but controlling too. he knew she was always a career woman & he wanted to change her
Diana and Pat were living in a world of their own. It didn’t seem like either of them cared for Shelia or Angela (slightly). They remind me of those nucleated friends in a friend group…everyone else is just a “secondary” character or good company.
You make a real great point. Both of them had that aloof air and were from a different social class which they glorified in.
@@2EKgn16 Exactly! They definitely had established themselves in their respective careers as well as their “uppity” behaviour. They bonded over that fact.
Angela was Sheila’s only friend. Pat and Diane were fake as hell and really none of them should have been friends. Pat acted so holier than thou and acted as though she and Gavin were the model couple. If we really get into it none of these couples should have been married
I'm so glad you called out terry for telling Diana assistant not to call her he was so out of line I personally do think that Terry wanted mold Diane into a 50s housewife
She neglected their daughter, brought her work on vacation, and didn’t have sex with her husband…and you think terry is wrong?
@@CourtneySturkeyyes
@@NG-ez2bx wow
I cant speak for the character, but he prolly would have been happier with some blalance. She clearly has no work/life balance and it is negatively effecting her family. I get this case is important, but she is abpartner at her firm! She can get someone to handle it during a week long vacation. Terry was wrong and so was Diane.
I understand where Diane is coming from with Terry, but as a mom, she needs to pit her daughter first at times. Not give up on your career for your kid. You need focus on yourself too, but at this point, I am worried it is not just Terry that feels neglected, but her daughter too. Her child should not feel that her mother abandoned her and does not love her.
Honestly, while Terry handled the conversation in an iffy way, I see where he was coming from. Again, she should not have to sacrifice her career or identity, but when you don’t even want to see where your partner is coming from and feels neglected, she should try to compromise a bit.
While it is your body, your partner needs to be part of the conversation so he knows kids are not a part of the equation anymore, at least biologically.
This! I can see where he’s coming from. If my husband got a vasectomy (even though reversible), I would be heartbroken because he KNEW i wanted kids. She KNEW that having another kid was important to him and still did it. At that moment, she was selfish. She could’ve at least talked to him. Then to forget about your child and husband is absolutely horrible. If I was Terry, I would be fed up too. Not to mention the lack of affection, constant fighting, no family time, no alone time, and no sexual?? Yes it is her body and she has every right to want her career, but she has to understand that her child comes first before any job.
Jill Scott definitely was one of best parts of this movie I love her so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️
i can not take tyler petty seriously when his madea popping out 😂
Did you write petty on purpose? 😂
Thank you for calling out Terry's toxic ass. Everyone talks about Angela being a real friend, and she is, but nobody ever calls that man's BS out. He has no respect for his wife's thoughts, feelings, bodily autonomy, accomplishments. It's all about what he wants but then he's calling her selfish. She's a lawyer, she's been busy since college, he knew who he was marrying, he thought he could get her to give up her life like everyone expects women to do and he's pissed because she didn't.
All well and good, but when you put your career before your own family to the point of actively neglecting your child, you're selfish.
@@marukouga135 As someone who worked in child welfare, that child isn't being neglected. Terry is more hands on like a mother stereotypically would be and Diane is more hands off like a father stereotypically would be. From both movies, it was clear that Diane didn't want to have a child at all and he talked her into it. Terry wanted a child, she gave him the child he wanted. She has very obviously a career focused person and it was explicitly stated that she was *always* like that. Instead of marrying someone who wanted kids, Terry married someone who didn't and then guilt-tripped her into it and harassed her about it. That's not only toxic, it's a horrible example to set for a child.
@@krazzeeaj The child is very much being neglected because said child was completely forgotten by her own mother. Furthermore, she knew her husband wanted a family and still decided to marry.
@@marukouga135 Her not prioritizing Terry and their daughter to his standard isn't the same as neglect. I used to investigate actual neglect cases for a living.
Furthermore, his wanting children isn't even remotely on the same level as her not wanting to sacrifice their body and career to have another child that she doesn't want. The way Tyler Perry framed the play and the movies, she didn't jump at the the chance to abandon her ambitions and dreams for what a man wants so she's wrong, which is bullshit. He has no regard for her as a person. Quite honestly, if someone doesn't want to have a child, forcing them to is more detrimental to everyone involved, especially the child.
@@krazzeeaj Actively marrying someone that has a desire to have children when you don't is wrong. She knew he wanted a family but married him anyway. You would be right in that not prioritizing her daughter in the same way isn't neglect, but she failed to prioritize her daughter at all by not meeting her emotional needs which is neglect. Plus he never said he wanted her to abandon her career. He simply wanted her to stop neglecting their marriage and child.
The only marriage that should have made it was Sheila and Troy.
Terry & Diane: Diane knew she never wanted kids. Terry knew he wanted children. They should’ve drawn the line in the sand when they were dating and never made it to marriage.
Angela & Marcus: If this couple went to therapy and then found out that it wasn’t helpful after trust was originally broken and disrespectful communication began to enter the relationship, they should’ve split.
Patricia & Gavin: if individual and couples therapy was not had after the loss of the child, they should’ve split. Maybe down the road they could’ve healed separately and found their way back to each other. However, they were both slowly dying in their grief.
Sheila & Mike: 😂😂😂 From the first moment we were introduced to this couple, we knew they needed to get a divorce.
The best take on these "couples"
None of these people needed to be married because they are all too selfish and egotistical to be with other people.
Ain’t no way Diane escapes with no criticism 😂
Rightttt
I'm not even finished but I can tell ole girl dislike for Terry giving her tunnel vision. Ain't no way you forget your man's birthday and you not part of the problem.
@@micahwilliams1332 exactly! She should've never married and lied to him about having the same goals in marriage
@@micahwilliams1332she got a whole murder case on her ass and is stressed out about her damn husband wanting more kids when she can’t even take care of one. It ain’t her fault that woman needs a damn break!!! 😂
Angela could pick up on a cheating husband when she saw Mike with Trina because of her own relationship with Marcus and cheating issues. The other two ladies had faithful husbands but had similar issues with rejecting their husbands' desires to have more children and being very career focused. I think Tyler Perry was trying to create some parallels between the four couples.
Now you have to do “A family that prays”! 😂 love your videos ❤
Yes. Sanaa Lathan was a savage in that movie.
Hell ya!!
I love the family that preys!! Tyler perry also played a character in that one too!!
@@therealmarlonbellamy savage is way too lite..straight demon😈 never seen her like that before 😳😅😂
@@cniccolew.1469 It was her first departure from her usual homie lover friend roles. She used her father’s abandonment to treat people like 💩.
Angela was the only real one to Shelia I will say this until the day that I die like everyone else was just trifling for not telling her like I would want my friends to tell me what’s going on with my husband as soon as I hit the door 🥺❤️
I got curious about the physical map, but google maps launched on mobile devices in 2006. IMO Angela was the only one who stood ten toes down about Sheila. They let Mike verbally abuse her in front of everyone
They never held him accountable
What kind of friends are those? Don't speak about my friend in front of me!
U ain't nevah lied bout that Bob!!!!! That thang was BOBBING HUNTY!!!! Pure perfection!!!!! Especially back then. The way it mooooves
In the play mike and Shelia did have kids he was a bad dad too. Terry wanted multiple kids from the start. She knew that and still hung around, she hid getting her tubes tied taking away Terry’s choice for his vision of his own future. The majority of Terry and Diane’s fights were because she prioritized her career over her family and marriage. Her and Terry had different values
What play?
Better to have a friend who is not afraid to be brutally honest with you than to have friends who would rather let the devastation go on.
Angela was right but her approach at times was wild icl
Also Terry and Diane were NOT good for each other
"Oh no you gon get yo ass in this kitchen" 🗣😂
Where I can see you!😂
I love how Angela's bob is also a paid actor because the bob is bobbing.
In defense of Diane and Pat not telling Shelia some women don’t take kindly to information their husband has been cheating on them n their response is To no longer be friends with the person who did it -
Yup
so you’d rather have your friend walking around looking stupid??
No but females will side with their man FIRST !! . Rather the cheating is truth or not and will end any friendship @@HERDuh565
@@HERDuh565 it's not about your friend looking stupid. I had a friend and I told her I saw her husband with someone else. They were hugging and kissing. My friend cursed me out and told me to mind my business. She is no longer my friend. She chose her husband. Until he left her for the woman I told her he was with. Yes, some women don't want another woman telling her about her man/husband. You have to know your friends and know will they be okay with you telling them or not.
Off topic, but Angela better be glad Marcus didn’t chain her up and send her through a portal to hell and back for giving him an STI😭
Spawn reference🤝😂
Honoka, baby. That’s Scorpion’s fatality from MK9😂😭
But he was cool with it if it was his baby mama
19:36 The "BOOM" heard around the world.
It always baffled me that everybody told the messiest dude, their problems
I want to know how Mike and Shelia was divorced when Shelia never left Colorado. No one knew where she was and Mike turned her cell phone off so no one couldn't reach her. How was she able to sign off on the divorce all the way in Colorado?
And Diane was capping when she was writing her list. I'm sorry. She had like two things on the bad side. In the sequel, she ended up having an emotional affair with another lawyer. If the good really outweighed the bad, why the hell did she cheat...emotionally? Diane was full of it. And Angela's list outweighed the bad too? That was questionable too like huh? That toxic ass marriage.
Thats a good question. How did he even know where she was to send the paperwork
@@forthenostalgiashe could’ve sent it to him or had Diane help her with it
There are ways to get a divorce from an absentee partner if no one is able to locate them
It always gave that Angela brought Sheila into the friend group which is why they all seemed to be more loyal to mike. The rest of the women may act like they were trying to be neutral but they were implicitly siding with mike.
The intro was well thought out. "No get cho ass in here" lol I'm with Angie I'm not letting no single woman be alone with my man an his friends.
You might need to change your man, then.
@christopherbrown5409 I wasn't showcasing my own issues miss
@@ItsJustTuesday then why won't you let a single woman be alone with your man OR his friends? Who gave you ownership of his friends, anyway, and who are you to impose on another woman's autonomy? Also, what makes you think partnered women don't have agendas like what you're inferring?
Or he'll be bringing his axx to the kitchen with me. Women like her have that "I'm young, with no kids..I do what I want" attitude..it's code for hxx in peace so they don't feel guilty about messing with someone else man.
@@christopherbrown5409 spoken like a true cheater.
i watched this for the first time last night and oh my god i never felt so much hate at a character like i did with mike
As an adult I feel like Sheila didn’t heal from her situation. She just got into a new situation. Like she’s telling her friends she doesn’t want help but she’s working at his store. Then we get to the second movie and he’s aggressive lol.
She said she wanted to be independent and learn to take care of herself, and then within 8 months she's remarried, a stay-at-home wife again, and then in the second movie a stay at home mom. This chick can't be independent worth a damn, she learned nothing.
@@NG-ez2bxliterally did a whole 360 😭 I wasn’t even impressed by her losing weight because you didn’t even do it for yourself you did it for a man
It’s realistic though. Some people never change lol. Most continue to make the same mistakes from the first marriage
There’s other ways He could’ve wrote the side chick in the story. I get it, it’s a movie but seems a bit unrealistic! What woman is going to be ok with her man traveling with her friend lol
No way that lady “left her daughter on the the school steps twice” forgot her husband’s birthday, AND got her tubes tied without telling him and we talking about “her needs” 😂
I totally agree with you, this is one of Tyler Perry’s best films before he got lazy with the content. 😂
These ads be tripping, I’m listening to your commentary and all of a sudden I hear “FEBREEZE!!!”
Instant divorce AND hot grits, period.
Angela tryna sleep with Marcus was a set up to see if he’d confess or she thought he already got treated
Angela was Sheila’s only true friend. As tough as the truth is, I’d rather have a friend like Angela than the rest of the ladies. I’ll never forget watching this in the movie theater. My face was like this at the dinner scene 😮😵💫🥴🤔😂🎉😭
I also love how Tyler's name is "Terry" in the film because I finally realized he narrows down his first and last name into it 😂❤️
Terry and Diane pissed me off the most
Unpopular Opinion: to me I don’t think it was so much about her getting her tubes tied but that she didn’t tell him so he would know that it wasn’t an option to have another child. As much as Diane has her body autonomy to do as she pleases, you are married, you need to vocalize that and explain, “I’m getting my tubes tied. I do not want anymore kids” idk feels kinda common sense to vocalize that if you’re married.
Angela is the reason why silk presses are a thing😂 💁🏽♀️
She should’ve told Terry that she didn’t want a kid, it seems like she didn’t communicate to me
Something that really bothered me about the second movie in the series was that while it initially looked like Sheila got into a better relationship/better headspace…that dude ended up being weird too! I understand not wanting her to be around the ex after everything he put her through, but he was so mean and flat out threatening. It was just extremely insensitive to me because you saw firsthand how she got treated and then turn around and ignore all that.
Ngl I can't even concentrate while watching this movie without fixating on Angela's bob. That bob was everything.
I like what they did with Pats character in the sequel, she’s the one person that has a solution to everyone else’s problems except her own and that was very real
I’m sorry but I don’t think Terry is wrong for the way he’s feeling. After being neglected for so long and not being heard, someone is bound to hit their breaking point. She ignored him for long as he supported her in her career. You don’t have to step back into the ‘50s to be a good mother and wife. You can do both, but only when he starts looking elsewhere is she upset. Yes he may not care about what she wants now, but how long was he supposed to be in the background of his life while she did what she wanted. Marriage is about both people being happy, not just one. She doesn’t get to make life altering decisions on her own while ignoring the people at home waiting on her. I mean for forsake SHE FORGOT HIS BIRTHDAY and you’re saying he’s in the wrong for wanting some affection from his wife. If the roles were reversed she’d have been told to leave so many times that hearing Terry be bashed for wanting to be loved is really sad. He deserves to feel like he matters in his marriage. Everyone does.
THANK YOU!!! you're the only one (creator included) speaking some sense about Terry and Diane on this video!
I agree wholeheartedly. I do think he could’ve gone about the convo a bit better and not involved the nanny but the guy genuinely seemed to be at his breaking point and just wanted to have his wife be there not just for him but for their daughter. Part of me is surprised that he hadn’t asked for divorce earlier since he seemed to know Diane’s career was hurting not just the marriage but also the daughter and it appeared that the vacation was just his last push to at least have Diane stop and relax long enough for them to start a conversation on their problems.
Other people have mentioned it but apparently they never really had that much sex anyway. That’s why he got a paternity test on their daughter so idk why he’s suddenly upset about something that’s has been going on for years. If you need sex every day and your wife doesn’t and that’s THAT important then yall need to get divorced. It’s that’s simple.
@@quirkyblackenby it’s more than having sex everyday. He is being emotionally neglected by his wife. If she barely pays attention to him and they barely have sex, then one day she’s pregnant I can see why he’d ask questions. I’m not talking about the lack of sex in the relationship it’s the lack of effort and connection she puts while he’s begging her to give him attention.
I agree with you 💯💯💯💯 I don't understand how people are not understanding that..
Baby Angela’s bob was BOOOBBBBBBING! OKAY! 😂 Her bob reflected her character! She definitely was a true friend. ❤️❤️❤️
That club Shay Shay interview is recontextualizing every non-Madea role I've seen Tyler Perry in😭
😂 and honestly it’s sooo true now that I look at his roles outside of Madea
Also that dinner scene was iconic!
I think the women were all real friends to Sheila but they just had different opinions on how to handle the problem. The REAL enemies were the men for not checking Mike. On top of him cheating on Sheila he was also cruel to her and had no hesitation about embarrassing her and the other husbands said NOTHING! The only thing Terry cared about was if the drama kept him from getting sex from Diane
We weren't in the stone age. Google maps came out in 2005. 😂😂😂
I swear we were still Mapquesting until about 09 lol
@@forthenostalgiathis is true . There was gos but not free and the apps were boo-boo
I have a BEST Friend like Angela. Not afraid to tell it like it is, ready to kick ass, honest opinion and standing up for those who you love. Thank you, Tasha Smith. ❤ you beautiful Dark Chocolate Queen.
“Just chop the fibrous part” took me out cuz I was tryna figure out what Patty was tryna do with that asparagus too 😭😭
Tasha Smith is my favourite actress and I love her in this movie. I love her.🥰😍💞
Lol: "I don't give a DAMN about Fifi"!🤣
😂😂😂😂and fifi replying "it ain't me' with the whimpering