I strongly believe baby daddy was having someone abroad.He chose himself,he was okay ukuthi bahlukane.He did not even ask her to maybe wait for him.All of a sudden,sezomshada ahambe nabo,why engenzanga that ekuqale.Anonymous don't gamble stay where you are.But i wish you carry on co parenting healthy for the sake of ingane.
This highly rank marriage thang ingakho kubole kanje ezweni umuntu afebe eshadile, I believe we must follow love, peace and happiness if marriage happen atleast u have it all..not because ubaba wengane or umama wengane..we gamble khethile khethile
Women don’t know what they want sometimes. You have a man who loves you , respects you and treat you well. You should not have started dating someone else if you wanted to be with that man who left you here to prioritise his career leaving you with a baby.
If the baby daddy wasn't someone who's monkeyed who has he's things together, nobody would advise her to go back to him but since he's financially sound people are going to say she must go back
Akolalela amazwi kaBaba uGedleyihlekisa Mhlanganelwa Zulu uma ethi "Bazokhala..some will regret" ngombono wami its not anymore the devile she knows but its much rather the devil she knew,nanokuthi entering into marriage for the wrong reasons..ukushada because of ingane akukaze kwaba umqondo omuhle
For as long as we don't know what was said in that Mutual separation haaay we can have a field 🤞😂 But for mina: I answer kasisi lies within what they discussed in their mutual separation,because it may happen that u Guy did say "we can't do this because of I distance" and when the distance is out of the picture? Different case 🤷♂️😅while on it we don't even know who initiated the separation conversation 🤷♂️😄 Also we need to stop thinking the baby daddy ran away,he did communicate with usisi that he is moving 🤷♂️ gave her the honest reasons to where he is going to,also what he will be doing that side 🤷♂️
This is why I refuse to date baby mamas. Once the baby daddy comes back to his senses and decides to "claim what is his" its over. The fact that she is confused it means she still loves the guy. If she was completely over the baby daddy then she would not even entertain the baby daddy
All I will say is baby daddy is what no one can replace, as men we need to stand up and never be a stepdad don't ever go into a relationship with someone who has a child man. Let us fix the country why did you leave the baby daddy or why you leave the baby mama. Go back or stay single or be isithembu
It is a risk on both side , should she stay with the current who might not be even thinking of marrying her on the other side she is at risk again should she not be with her baby daddy she might always have that "what if" ay this is tricky she must weight her options but if it was me I would stay with my current .
This man doesn't have a job in Europe. If his been back to SA for a year, There is no job that wait for u a year. Please don't go back keep it pushing sis. His selling u lies again
I strongly believe baby daddy was having someone abroad.He chose himself,he was okay ukuthi bahlukane.He did not even ask her to maybe wait for him.All of a sudden,sezomshada ahambe nabo,why engenzanga that ekuqale.Anonymous don't gamble stay where you are.But i wish you carry on co parenting healthy for the sake of ingane.
This highly rank marriage thang ingakho kubole kanje ezweni umuntu afebe eshadile, I believe we must follow love, peace and happiness if marriage happen atleast u have it all..not because ubaba wengane or umama wengane..we gamble khethile khethile
Women don’t know what they want sometimes. You have a man who loves you , respects you and treat you well. You should not have started dating someone else if you wanted to be with that man who left you here to prioritise his career leaving you with a baby.
If the baby daddy wasn't someone who's monkeyed who has he's things together, nobody would advise her to go back to him but since he's financially sound people are going to say she must go back
Akolalela amazwi kaBaba uGedleyihlekisa Mhlanganelwa Zulu uma ethi "Bazokhala..some will regret" ngombono wami its not anymore the devile she knows but its much rather the devil she knew,nanokuthi entering into marriage for the wrong reasons..ukushada because of ingane akukaze kwaba umqondo omuhle
For as long as we don't know what was said in that Mutual separation haaay we can have a field 🤞😂
But for mina:
I answer kasisi lies within what they discussed in their mutual separation,because it may happen that u Guy did say "we can't do this because of I distance" and when the distance is out of the picture? Different case 🤷♂️😅while on it we don't even know who initiated the separation conversation 🤷♂️😄
Also we need to stop thinking the baby daddy ran away,he did communicate with usisi that he is moving 🤷♂️ gave her the honest reasons to where he is going to,also what he will be doing that side 🤷♂️
This is why I refuse to date baby mamas. Once the baby daddy comes back to his senses and decides to "claim what is his" its over. The fact that she is confused it means she still loves the guy. If she was completely over the baby daddy then she would not even entertain the baby daddy
I agree fully infact being involved with another man's baby mama is ...
The fact that she's conflicted, she should just take the b/daddy back because she's not over him
All I will say is baby daddy is what no one can replace, as men we need to stand up and never be a stepdad don't ever go into a relationship with someone who has a child man. Let us fix the country why did you leave the baby daddy or why you leave the baby mama. Go back or stay single or be isithembu
It is a risk on both side , should she stay with the current who might not be even thinking of marrying her on the other side she is at risk again should she not be with her baby daddy she might always have that "what if" ay this is tricky she must weight her options but if it was me I would stay with my current .
This man doesn't have a job in Europe. If his been back to SA for a year, There is no job that wait for u a year. Please don't go back keep it pushing sis. His selling u lies again
Usisi akabeneqiniso ku current boyfriend amtshele akubeke konke ukuthi nangu ubaba wengane ubuyile amubekele inhlelo azanazo ngabo.Umangabe ucurrent boyfriend ebenawo ama plans ngekusasa labo naye uzokuveza lokho.
Bare in mind baby daddy was dating other women in Netherlands
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Take the baby daddy back
Go to the Netherlands dear he’s going to marry you a create a family unit with you, the current bf hasn’t mentioned the future