You must balance the 3. Infact there is no measure to it, just be sure you are intentional about it. If you are too strict, you will lose them. If its all about spirituality you will bore them, if you are just their friend you can indulge them and overlook their flaws. So m, balance is key. But if you can build their spirit man, it makes your work easier. God will help us indeed. Thank you my family.
This parenting-hood e no easy at all oo 😊😊or you learn to paddle or you sink, but by the grace of GOD and with the help of the Holy Spirit as our guide(for both parents&children that are willing to yeed to HIS instruction,leading and directions)we will overcome and navigate through and get to our destination safely in JESUS name amen ❤❤
One thing i have noticed is that we assume that this generation will hate you if you tell the truth, so we try to hide the truth from them in the name of i don’t want them to run away. Some of our teenagers in church who have graduated came to teens church to speak to the younger teenagers and they told us that those who tell them the truth are their secret admirers who they look up to in secret. While those who rob their heads are just their meal tickets. When they need real counseling, they know who to talk to indeed.
Thumbs up for all the people that shared their thoughts. Sincerely, i like the idea that it was a spontaneous discussion and not acting a prepared script. Nice if you can be having such conversations regularly, but taking one issue of parenting per time. However, subsequently, l think for clarity sake, you should talk in turns as we couldn't hear clearly at some points. Thank you for all you do to make the world a better place. God bless
I patiently watched this from the beginning to the end 😂😂 Really,there has to be a balance to being friendly, being firm and spirituality. There's a purpose for the three of them and there are stages where you'd begin to see the advantages of the balance either as a parent or as a child. While growing up,my siblings and I only got to experience the strict and spiritual parts of our parents. Now that we're all grown up, I see the way they're trying to be friends with us but somehow it gets so awkward and we don't have that length of time to bond so well anymore.
Thanks for putting this together, this very helpful. unfortunately I don't understand Yoruba because I am Ghanaian..I will be grateful if the next session can have subtitles or be done in English! God bless you richly.
This was soo heartwarming to watch. I realised that all of them act in the roles that depict their natural characters. I can relate with them in their acting roles and im seeing that naturally their roles are not far from their natural characters! So refreshing indeed to see them so casual and not on set!
Yes, balancing the 3 keys is the best. Spirituality, chastisement, and being their friend. God will give us the grace to do it perfectlyfor our children both spiritual and biological.
@@TDMCHotTv they are all older than him-correct me if I am wrong. It is just courtesy as a well trained man to allow them talk without interjecting while also learning from them. I wonder what is there to take back if you understood my point. It is a plus for him- he is respectful
There is a place of a rod and also a place of staff in parenting. We all need divine wisdom to know when to apply it right. May we not be blamed at the end in Jesus name
I understand whar Fejosbaba is talking about,when i was in secondary school there is yhis guy i love,that was how my spiritual father told me not to date the guy but i later regret i went snd came back heart wounded and loss all my self esteem. It was a great lesson learnt.
There are times you will be a voice in the lives of some children not necessarily because their parents aren't up to the task. Even in the place of prayer, God provides solution for you through people to speak per time into the lives of those children. Being spiritual and balancing is key, God help us.
God bless you Bro Kayode Babalola for helping your friends to balance up in a very matured way. Your understanding of subtle rebellion, spirituality of life issues and danger of being influencer with wrong approach of placing sentiment over reality......Femi .....
This is so beautiful and educational. The last scenario Aunty Opeyemi talked about emphasises the effectiveness of what Yoruba used to say, "Oju kan ni o n bi Omo igba oju ni o n to". Sometimes we just need to be a responsible Aunt, Uncle, Brother, Sister, Grandparents to help our world.
This is absolutely amazing, these are all my favorite creators and actors so nice to see them in this setting speaking their minds. Watching from the USA ❤
Some parents are not available. They occupy themselves with ministry activities. Some are not trustworthy. Anything their children tell them will be heard or used as an example on the pulpit. Some don't show good attitudes at home so the children is living by examples
Hummm thats one thing that still draw me back from relocating now. Father will go to work, same thing with mum. The children will be left with strangers or laptop or smart phone. This children, when you dont spend quality time with them and not spiritually sensitive at the same time you will regret going there be os of greener pasture or for better life. When the money comes and the. Children dont make you happy no prace of mind on them that money will be a waste. And another thing i want to talk about is that there is no uniform way of raising kids. Even the kid with same parents will need spiritual insight, wisdom to know how to tailor them in the way of the Lord. May God help us all. We shall not fail in our assignments on earth ijn. You all spoken well.
33:48 is a perfect example of Martin’s father in Season 1 of Abbatoir. Mr. Duro Sanya contracted Baba Gbenro to raise Martins 😢😢😢 May His soul rest in peace in Jesus Name. Amen. ❤❤
Opeyemi....the mother of the girl was not Deeper Life, she disguised at that point but her secret was eventually discovered, she herself was more or less a bad influence on her daughter
Pls sirs and mum I can see your discussion is very important and very good. But your language is more than the english so am not really getting you well. From Ghana
You may wish to check Funke Felix Adejumo page. But most importantly, you have to customize your prayers for each child based on your individual observations of each child and templates for raising godly children e.g. Eph 6. It is also helpful to have one day dedicated to each of your children so you can make detailed and heartfelt prayers for them mentioning their individual's name. God will help us.
I feel children don't just grow to prefer outsiders, the reason might majorly be on the parents reaction to their words. Some parents don't allow their children express themselves. They believe they should have nothing to say
You must balance the 3. Infact there is no measure to it, just be sure you are intentional about it. If you are too strict, you will lose them. If its all about spirituality you will bore them, if you are just their friend you can indulge them and overlook their flaws. So m, balance is key. But if you can build their spirit man, it makes your work easier. God will help us indeed. Thank you my family.
SPMH I was looking for you and PVO in this conversation. I wish you guys were there so we can learn from all of you.
This parenting-hood e no easy at all oo 😊😊or you learn to paddle or you sink, but by the grace of GOD and with the help of the Holy Spirit as our guide(for both parents&children that are willing to yeed to HIS instruction,leading and directions)we will overcome and navigate through and get to our destination safely in JESUS name amen ❤❤
One thing i have noticed is that we assume that this generation will hate you if you tell the truth, so we try to hide the truth from them in the name of i don’t want them to run away.
Some of our teenagers in church who have graduated came to teens church to speak to the younger teenagers and they told us that those who tell them the truth are their secret admirers who they look up to in secret. While those who rob their heads are just their meal tickets. When they need real counseling, they know who to talk to indeed.
Wow 😲
Godddddd!!!! This is FELLOWSHIP❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤...REAL FELLOWSHIP ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🔥🔥😭😭😭😭
Thumbs up for all the people that shared their thoughts. Sincerely, i like the idea that it was a spontaneous discussion and not acting a prepared script.
Nice if you can be having such conversations regularly, but taking one issue of parenting per time.
However, subsequently, l think for clarity sake, you should talk in turns as we couldn't hear clearly at some points.
Thank you for all you do to make the world a better place.
God bless
I patiently watched this from the beginning to the end 😂😂
Really,there has to be a balance to being friendly, being firm and spirituality.
There's a purpose for the three of them and there are stages where you'd begin to see the advantages of the balance either as a parent or as a child.
While growing up,my siblings and I only got to experience the strict and spiritual parts of our parents. Now that we're all grown up, I see the way they're trying to be friends with us
but somehow it gets so awkward and we don't have that length of time to bond so well anymore.
Lot of truth is going down here
Thank you for sharing ❤
Thanks for putting this together, this very helpful. unfortunately I don't understand Yoruba because I am Ghanaian..I will be grateful if the next session can have subtitles or be done in English! God bless you richly.
True I am Malawian I am seeing they are enjoying and I love these actors
This was soo heartwarming to watch. I realised that all of them act in the roles that depict their natural characters. I can relate with them in their acting roles and im seeing that naturally their roles are not far from their natural characters!
So refreshing indeed to see them so casual and not on set!
The english you're looking for is probably "OUTSOURCE"
This is a wonderful session.
Yes, balancing the 3 keys is the best. Spirituality, chastisement, and being their friend. God will give us the grace to do it perfectlyfor our children both spiritual and biological.
I just love the way Damilola Mike Bamiloye is just maintaining his Steeze 😂
Respecting his elders
Respecting his elders ?
I think you should take it back
@@TDMCHotTv they are all older than him-correct me if I am wrong. It is just courtesy as a well trained man to allow them talk without interjecting while also learning from them. I wonder what is there to take back if you understood my point. It is a plus for him- he is respectful
@@olajideshittu8100 not sure you understand my point. It is a plus for him
There is a place of a rod and also a place of staff in parenting. We all need divine wisdom to know when to apply it right. May we not be blamed at the end in Jesus name
Yes sir..
Amen
My favorite filmmakers of all time
Fejosibaba, Damibaba, and John Oguntuase love you from the motherland
To me i will say Friendship should be higher. If I love you then I will not want to dishonour you or go against your will.
Please a movie on parenthood
I understand whar Fejosbaba is talking about,when i was in secondary school there is yhis guy i love,that was how my spiritual father told me not to date the guy but i later regret i went snd came back heart wounded and loss all my self esteem. It was a great lesson learnt.
Parenting cannot be outsourced!!! I love this conversation
The spirituality was a major tool used by my Late Mum , then the friendship and firmness and it works.
There are times you will be a voice in the lives of some children not necessarily because their parents aren't up to the task. Even in the place of prayer, God provides solution for you through people to speak per time into the lives of those children.
Being spiritual and balancing is key, God help us.
God bless you Bro Kayode Babalola for helping your friends to balance up in a very matured way. Your understanding of subtle rebellion, spirituality of life issues and danger of being influencer with wrong approach of placing sentiment over reality......Femi .....
Wow.
I really love this discussion.
Thanks for all our experience sir/ma.
God bless you all .
This is so beautiful and educational. The last scenario Aunty Opeyemi talked about emphasises the effectiveness of what Yoruba used to say, "Oju kan ni o n bi Omo igba oju ni o n to". Sometimes we just need to be a responsible Aunt, Uncle, Brother, Sister, Grandparents to help our world.
It is good learnt some things though not hearing everything
Thanks for this discussions, I do not take it for granted
This is absolutely amazing, these are all my favorite creators and actors so nice to see them in this setting speaking their minds. Watching from the USA ❤
This is eye opening.
Thanks for putting this together ❤
What an interesting conversation packed with lot of lessons.
Thank you for putting this out sir.
Some parents are not available.
They occupy themselves with ministry activities.
Some are not trustworthy. Anything their children tell them will be heard or used as an example on the pulpit.
Some don't show good attitudes at home so the children is living by examples
Yes, the way parenting was done then is different now else you might loose them completely. The use of phone and gadget is also another factor.
Hummm thats one thing that still draw me back from relocating now. Father will go to work, same thing with mum. The children will be left with strangers or laptop or smart phone. This children, when you dont spend quality time with them and not spiritually sensitive at the same time you will regret going there be os of greener pasture or for better life. When the money comes and the. Children dont make you happy no prace of mind on them that money will be a waste. And another thing i want to talk about is that there is no uniform way of raising kids. Even the kid with same parents will need spiritual insight, wisdom to know how to tailor them in the way of the Lord. May God help us all. We shall not fail in our assignments on earth ijn. You all spoken well.
It's the shock on damilola's face @ 14:36 when he heard about the 10years old girl story.
Seriously, bad parenting is one of the major issues we have. Some parents neglect parenting for social media to do it for them. It's sad
It is Sister Ope’s last story for me. I was just laughing. but really sometimes this generation needs this once a while. 😂😂😂😂😂
😂This was the highlight of the discussion!
31:19 @ Bro Kayode, 'outsource' is the word you were looking for
While growing up, 1980s the common one i see is raising with just two keys, spirituality and firmness .i.e chastisement when it is necessary.
33:48 is a perfect example of Martin’s father in Season 1 of Abbatoir. Mr. Duro Sanya contracted Baba Gbenro to raise Martins 😢😢😢
May His soul rest in peace in Jesus Name. Amen. ❤❤
My question is why can't we train our children same way our parents train us ? for those of us that has good parenting growing up
I learnt a lot here o, thanks for your discussion
Enjoying this Godbless every one here
This is so so interesting i enjoyed every bit of it,wish it continues we need part two ooo God bless opeyemi Akintunde
❤God bless u all
Wow.
Hello sir, kindly repost with English subtitles. Watching from Uganda 🇺🇬. Thank you. God bless you.
"Outsource " is the word Kaybabs was looking for
Learnt a lot ❤
this is amazing and inspiring, we need part 2 pls
Interesting and full of lessons
Thank you for sharing this no-holds barred conversation
God bless you sirs and ma
So lovely conversation
My favourites
Awesome conversation
Thank you
Thanks so much for these
See correct gist 😂❤❤
Learning a lot
But ewo ninu yin lo ni ki Bro Folarin from Abattoir kunle
God bless you all
God bless you sirs
💯
The colleges over here teach the kids how to get along with thr alphabet gang.
Thanks for this
Wow, this fantastic the Lord bless you for this. But please try to use English so that those of us outside Nigeria can understand better. Stay blessed
Wow
Opeyemi....the mother of the girl was not Deeper Life, she disguised at that point but her secret was eventually discovered, she herself was more or less a bad influence on her daughter
Wonderful discussion
Please can we have access to download it later? Thanks
Yes it will be opened after premiere
@JohnOguntuase thank you sir 🙏
@@JohnOguntuase outsource is the word Mr Kayode was looking for....😅
🔥🔥🔥🔥
I wish am hearing Yoruba
Though it’s also concerning in Nigerian churches. Please African parents be careful. I Ben the church has been infested
Pls sirs and mum I can see your discussion is very important and very good. But your language is more than the english so am not really getting you well. From Ghana
Same here oo
D baba just dey mind his business, he just dey listen
Please for the sake of us who don't understand Yoruba.
You can't outsource parenting
What kind of prayers can we say over our children? Please can you share links/examples.
You may wish to check Funke Felix Adejumo page.
But most importantly, you have to customize your prayers for each child based on your individual observations of each child and templates for raising godly children e.g. Eph 6.
It is also helpful to have one day dedicated to each of your children so you can make detailed and heartfelt prayers for them mentioning their individual's name.
God will help us.
For the sake of those that are not Yoruba please can it be translated
But you know some children prefer to speak and listen to an outsider. Why?
I feel children don't just grow to prefer outsiders, the reason might majorly be on the parents reaction to their words. Some parents don't allow their children express themselves. They believe they should have nothing to say
I can hardly understand what they are saying.
The youba's is too much