I've been a sneaker collector since 2002 and after the birth of my first child, I've came to the conclusion that life is meant to be lived and not spent. I'm getting so much more from my family than any sneaker release I've ever been apart of. I still like shoes but I live more for the experiences that life rewards. Shout out to you and your growth. It's good to see more people taking time for themselves rather than impressing others. Keep going and growing. Lâche pas mò frè.
@@demikpreI was just thinking the same thing like why can’t you still wear nice kicks with a child. Dude was prob spending every last dollar and has an addiction to sneakers
This is called growth. Most people go through their whole life and never come to this realization. Some do it much later in life. For someone, your age to reach this level of maturity is commendable and I applaud you for talking to the youth of this generation to do the same. Thank you
It’s sounding like you figured out all this shit corny, you grew up. You don’t need approval from anyone, you’re not seeking validation anymore. I’m proud of you bro. 💯
@@Panda_J1 lol no they didn't, it was for try hards. you could just wear airforces or airmaxes, most kids didnt have Js. no one was picking on me for not wearing Js
Is corny because it doesnt belong to GOD material things , & rich lifestyle is satanic is not goin to make you happy if the grace of God isnt there follow Jesus 🙏🏽
I agree with a lot of what you said. But for me, it’s not a competition. I’m just buying what I like and wanted as a kid. I do it for me or at least that’s how I justify all my purchases lol. Grew up poor and couldn’t afford nice shoes or cool toys, so I’ve spent a lot of my adulthood catching up. It’s fun!
This the realest shit I’ve watch on TH-cam. I’m 22 and idk but I recently started to feel this way, like we buy materialistic shit for people. Now I started to buy shit for me and for myself only, only things I really like.
I think shoe companies should pull back drastically on releases. I’m burnt out on new updates from them day by day. It doesn’t have the same impact as it did in the past
Facts , when I was in high school 2011-2015 sneaker releases were just exciting . The sneaker game wasnt as mainstream and watered down. We got 1 or 2 great releases a month and it felt like each release meant somethin. I actually got a rush from getting a new shoe I wanted and adding to my collection. Now it’s just too many shoes releasing and the game is just lame af.
@@Dayxh8 too many people glazing over what celebrities wear too many people hopping on trends they never were interested in in the first place aka folks dressing like they was in the hood in the early 2000s but really frowned at my black people for having this shit on. Too many people following each other in circles in general since 2020
Facts. My brother works for adidas as a designer at FOG and even he’s been saying the market is kinda over saturated. He did say FOG is too slow at releases tho too nit picky
Mindsets change constantly, I got a wife and 3 kids and most of the time now I end up getting the sneakers I really want, knowing I can make 300-500 on them depending on the shoe and I’d rather use that money to take my kids to the zoo, or a theme park, or take my wife out to eat and I don’t regret a single thing. I enjoy sneakers, I appreciate them, but success means different things. I got a healthy wife and kids, I got financial peace, I enjoy my job that allows me to be with my family more. I’m 28 this year and I don’t give two shits about material things.
Me personally, im not trying to keep up with the joneses or competing with anyone. I like sneakers, always have. I buy what I like and don’t feel guilty about it. Everybody is on a personal journey. Not everybody’s path is the same. At the end of the day you have to do what makes you happy.
You’re just getting older bro. I was there. It’s a great feeling to not care about all that shxt that doesn’t matter. If you grow older and don’t have this realization, HUGE red flag.
I’m 25 now but even when I was 20 I felt this way. Like I would want this show so bad and once I got em they just became regular shoes to me. Like I remember I wanted the Yeezy 700 vantas so bad, I got em now and they’re just regular now
just had this conversation the other day. it's very true that our egos can honestly get in the way trying to keep up with the people we see on social media or that instant gratification that comes from purchasing something new and after you see it and wear it once, you're looking for what's next. we have to be more content and show gratitude to what we have in front of us and not what we see from other's highlight reel. great video bro!
Man, this video couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Just yesterday I felt the burnout of the always needing more sneakers that I started contemplating selling them all. I’ve been watching your channel off and on since I was 13. I’m 21 now and it’s crazy that you said “I wish I knew when I was 21.” That hit me hard. I think as sneakerheads we lie to ourselves and say “once I have these sneakers I’m done” but then we still need more. Not to brag but I have accumulated around a $20k collection and I still say that to myself. I would love to hear you keep talking about this topic because I don’t think it’s discussed enough. We have enslaved ourselves to consumerism. Always needing the best and biggest thing has such a strangle on our lives. Blessings brother❤️🤙🏽
It's all a part of growing up tbh. I've been a sneaker lover since the late 90's. I'm 45 now and still have a collection but it's not a priority in my life. Experiences and family is far more important.
You hit it right on the nail with this video. I’m 31 and recently I’ve also been dealing with these thoughts and changes in my life. I love sneakers always will but it’s true it’s this vicious cycle we get stuck in that we think makes us happy. But happiness can’t be bought! Fighting cancer made me realize the most important thing in my life was not the material shit. It was my time… my happiness!!
The cool part of your content is that I see growth...been watching your journey for years and you seem to get things at an earlier age than I did. Keep growing bro.
Yup! Im feeling you on this topic. Im done with sneakers. Been at it since 2016 and now all the 2016 releases are coming back. I take that as a sign to move on. Sneaker culture is the most toxic of all communities im a part of. Probably has a lot to do with age range, immaturity.
Don’t know if it’s just Sneakers but I’ve felt the same kind of burnout from social media including Instagram You talked about “not being there” and the never ending battle to compete for attention At the end of the day, if you’re reading this comment, you love sneakers. But the type of content creator I, personally tend to gravitate towards are those that intend to enrich the sneaker community by being open and transparent of their journey and sharing their perspectives and opinions. Mike, your content is amazing. Join the inner circle if you haven’t because the Disciplined app helped me focus on what’s in my control.
We have enjoyed your videos and we have also shifted as people and consumers. Our priorities shifted plus, we got everything we wanted - those holy grails... we have them now. We still compliment people on their shoe game and we get compliments too! We are good now. Thanks Mike for ALWAYS dropping sincere videos and allowing us to grow with you. Congrats on your marriage, your new baby that is coming and even your physical body recovery when you had that injury. We will always rock with you!!!
I’m 36 and I realized that I don’t need to buy everything that I want. I think carefully, ponder for a little while, calculate if I decide to go through with it, and make sure I enjoy whatever I bought for a good while before I buy a similar item. I learn to enjoy what I have for a longer time instead of finding good deals or whatever is hot. Video Game, Shoes, electronics, clothes, household items, etc. all have to get vetted by me before I purchase it. Also, the lasting effect of enjoying the simple things in life like practicing a hobby, enjoying going out, exercising, good rest, good movies/shows, music, cleaning, decorating your place, etc. are really rewarding as well.
I've also been falling off on sneakers. Everyone is just releasing so many shoes and so many colorways. It's hard to keep on top of things, hard to pick and choose what you wanna prioritize when it comes to sneakers, and most importantly, everything is so over saturated. Everyone and their momma wears the same thing. There's not a spark anymore, a thing that makes you wanna tap into the sneaker game. Part of it is obviously that we've grown up and started liking other things or prioritizing spending money somewhere else but I think most of what I said still holds truth.
I needed to hear this dawg (I'm a 41 year old sneaker head) because I've been feeling the same exact way that you feel about unnecessary urges... eventually we'll focused on other things in our lives. It's funny how most human beings are afraid to accept change but we do it subconsciously...Every single second, minute, hour and day might I add 😂😂😂
Wow man thank you I’ve been a subscriber for years now this video opened up my eyes and I’m 23 with that same mentality of wanting to be a millionaire to buy everything but have learned that peace and happiness is what matters more .
Went through this in the past two years. It feels like a new sense of freedom not being stressed out on FOMO. I think it’s okay to appreciate a tangible item, but a person doesn’t need to own every single sneaker that comes out. It’s okay to like something and never owning it. Enjoy what you and “time” is the true luxury.
This is a great video and sends great message. Personally, I have experienced a similar wakening call. We all live in a capitalistic society, and the culture is shaping us into believe that we are destined to be a 'consumer' for the rest of the our lives. Just like what you mentioned, we all once dreamed we gonna be a billionaire, but at its core is that we want to be able to spend that much. Being able to consume a lot is not an applaudable achievement nor a noble goal. Instead we should all look inside and find what we could bring to the society as a creator or a supporter. Blindly consume everything and pay for the tag will eventually have us to flush all of our hard-end money down to the 'toilet' and back to the people who already had more than us from the beginning. Greed will never end, the dopamine release coming from copping a hyped sneaker can only last till the package is opened, and it will not be a sustainable source of happiness. What is hyped is something that determined by the mass consensus, but if any of us want to be more than just an average Doe, we need to always remember what other people thinks doesn't necessary have to be the same as what we think.
I told myself I’m just trying to stack my bread I done chilled out on buying sneakers I kept finding myself buying a new pair and then a couple weeks later it’s like “oh it’s a new pair out that I want” I noticed it’s a never ending cycle. I’m not gonna say I’m never buying sneakers ever again but I’m learning to be frugal with my paper and starting to learn more about investments and other things like that. I’m just cutting back and focusing on the big picture.
I only completed my sneaker collection after I had everything else in life. Family, house cars, it’s a fun hobby but if you have debt then focus on your own priorities. Cheers buddy!
7:40 I know exactly what you’re saying and for those who listened to what he had to say will understand I respect everything you said. Huge respect for you mike. Hope everything goes good in your life. Be you upload what makes you happy do day in a life’s, vlogs, rants like this . People who really mess with you will actually sit down and listen to what you have to say . Much respect
When I was young my parents couldn’t really afford to buy me sneakers so that’s what got me into collecting as an adult. At one point I had about 40 pairs in my closet & only had 5 on rotation. Ended up selling/trading everything & keeping 5. A lot more happier now
We on the same type of time bro it took a while but last year I conquered my wants and just said I need to buckle down cuz the material wants like you said is just a dead end bro. I’m all set with the fake validation I’d rather be on another level than look like I’m on another level, and pass the knowledge on cuz selfishness,greed and gluttony only gonna land you to the path to hell and I’m all set with that 💯
this video is something i never thought the younger generation would do. i've been working out since i was 20 which was decades ago, now old man but still workout like there's tomorrow and at my age there might not be a tomorrow. glad you are seeing life in a different way. in my late 20s and early 30s i did the sane and even though i still buy a shoe here and there which is like maybe twice a year but i'm not going to let it run my life like it did in the 90s and early 2000s. i see others on youtbe that never ever change and in 2010 they were doing the same thing in 2015 then again 2020 and it's bonkers. i did 11 years in the Army and from year 1 in 2000 and 11 years later when i left in 2011 and everything in between was all different. i am glad you woke up and see how sneakers make people slaves to the companies. waking up and seeing just enjoying life one day at a time is the best. people in the sneaker world always worried about stuff that isn't important. they always say " i need" when they don't understand that you don't need, you want is what it really is. i'm closer to the finishline then i am the stsrting line and i'm letting anyone waste a second of whatever i have left. i have in laws who drive landrover but owe a ton of money but i drive a x5 and paid for it full and i sleep knowing that my car might not be the fanciest but it's paid for. don't know if that made sense. enjoy life young king 🙏🏽
I believe people have influence on the decisions we make in sense that we can be drawn to things that we see satisfy others, but never really focusing on one’s self satisfaction. There is no economic utility to an individual if they’re drawn to things that only satisfy others than themselves.
yeah man sneakers just normal to me now, it's cool and all but there's so much stuff out there and things in life that's just more worth; been following you for a couple of years now, appreciate these types of videos
I figured this out when turning 21 and now at 25 with good savings and not chasing others wants but my wants and more importantly my needs, it feels great. Still a ways to go, but to know I have a good emergency fund and I have all I need and no excess material items is enough for me. Keeping a calm mind is important
Hey Sneaker Life, I too have been feeling this fatigue with sneakers and materialistic desires. The magic of buying these things is the story they tell and the work you put in to ultimately afford them, not the item itself. Specifically for the sneaker market, it’s been bastardised into a whole business of reselling and yes we have experienced that in the past but it’s just gotten out of hand to the extent that normal consumers who want to enjoy sneakers for what they are and not treat them as a quick cheque or a commodity can’t even do that. I can speak for the rest of your audience that we have grown and matured, and this video letting us know we aren’t the only ones who’ve experienced the diminishing magic of innocence and our love for sneakers is very reassuring. Bless 🙏
Haven’t watched you in years bro I got out the shoe game a while ago, this was on my recommended it’s started playing the preview and I tapped on the video and listened the whole way through. Glad I stumbled back on your channel this was dope! Keep being great 🙏🏼
Man bro I love these videos I’ve been watching you for more than 6 years and I’ve been going through the same thing for years. I’ve been also collecting shoes since 2012 and I’m 26 now with a 3 year old now it just feel like the material shit never ends. Like no matter what I do like buy sneakers, cars, and clothes there always going to be something new and it never ends. I thank god I’m fortunate enough to afford it but honestly it’s hard to stop and invest on my self like make content like you.
I agree brother I buy sneakers cause I love the art. I love art and when I bought my first few sneakers I said wait this is ridiculous way too high and a waste of money. Now I buy sneakers for comfort, art, and a good sale. I’m all for living a good life. I tell people all the time enjoy it but be wise. If you make mistakes learn from it and fix it. Life is precious enjoy it with your love ones. That is worth more than any object.
Welcome to the real world brother. Unfortunately many people don’t escape this culture. I can afford shoes so I recently bought 10 pairs but I don’t have a need to flex. Just for my own happiness
Wow Mike this was a really insightful video. I’ve been watching you since I was about 17 years old and I’m 23 now. I’ve been thinking to myself similarly to what you were talking about how as a youngin we want to make all this money to get new stuff and it’s a never ends, I am at the point my younger self so desperately wanted to be; full time job, moved out and have more kicks and clothes than I ever did yet it still feels semi-hollow. The notion that we should be more focused on what pleases us at our core instead of what social media engineers us to desire is a great point
I was a sneaker guy. Then I started to think about it... im a grown man caring about tennis shoes and i only wear sport coats and loafers now. Started selling them all
Not too long ago I adopted this mindset. I have only purchased 1 pair of sneakers all year. Saving money has allowed me to get a better car and apartment.
Bro, you nailed this one. I love this bro. No matter what content you post and share, love how blunt and real you. Keep it up bro. Start a podcast too! 🙏🏼🙌🏼 sneaker related or just life topics in general
man this is the best video I’ve ever watched today. I can relate to what you said about constantly buying things like sneakers, clothes and what not then aiming for more. I’ve been to that cycle as a sneaker lover too. It was a nice ride until I realized one day that it was so stressful because you’ll get addicted to it and you never stop wanting for more. As a 31 years old I realized peace of mind is more important than spending to the things you never really “need” just to feed your ego. Lesson learned is, just be wise and contented 🙂
Dang! What you just said is so inspirational! I think LIFE IS A PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS! As long you attain peace and not stepping on others! Love your videos bro!
I got out of the sneaker game a while back because of a lot of the reasons you mention here. I recently started to get back into it but have made a point to avoid the "influencer" types that need to turn EVERYTHING into a dick measuring contest. Fortunately, it's easy to identify them so you just as quickly ignore them. I was into kicks before social media was around and it was a lot more genuine and enjoyable that way. I feel bad for kids getting into sneakers or anything else and then getting turned off because some d-bag influencer makes them feel inadequate for not having a LV tote bag especially for their red Octobers....only rule of sneakers is buy and rock what YOU want. It's very liberating when you finally realize that.
Man bro, in all honesty I'm not even a dedicated fan of yours , but I know you from when I was into the shoe game. This video hit me at the right time because I'm literally at that point in life where I'm like what's next? What does all this success really mean. Money... all relative. Having peace and freedom means so much more than a dollar to me at this point in life
Recently just got the same awakening , thank God . I tried the shroom which helped open my mind , I’m turning 23 today and I literally said all I want for my birthday is “peace of mind” great vid 💯
I just found you channel today. I've watched I think 3 videos and maybe it's because we the same age but man I can relate a lot to your experiences and thoughts. I'm very new to sneakers and I just want to wear what I think looks nice and have no desire to buy the next hype release or resell or look a certain way because people say you need to. Refreshing
Ive been there ,its just a sign of you getting older and having priorities. I feel like things have shifted from the actual shoe to how much money or clout someone has when reviewing a shoe . Blessings your way ✅🫡
Yeah man, I feel you. I went from over 80 pairs to about 30. And that still feels like too much. If I don’t wear a sneaker for over a month, I sell it. Too many other things to do - buy records, books, travel. But to your other point - people always been pushing fake lifestyles, social media just makes it more frequent and in your face. Glad social media wasn’t around when I was a teen.
Great video! I've been involved since '04. Had I kept everything, I'd have well over 1,000 pairs. I've been fortunate to make some great friends, built solid networks, & have some great memories. Most of us flexed for genuine appreciation for the hobby. We didn't trip on who had what. It was always mutual respect. Like most good things, it was all hijacked over by these frauds over the years. I still collect, but not like I used to. To be honest, if I had it to do over, I probably wouldn't Lost sight of what's really important in life. Much respect to you to figuring it all out, now & your evolving outlook on what's important.
Great video bro… it’s so hard to find videos like these now a days but we most definitely need more of this. I’ve get this way for so long and I’ve mediated on these same points you made so it’s crazy to sit here watch someone else say it. Again great video!
Wow, your perspective at your age is very profound. I totally agree with you also. Being a slave to money or materials is not a great idea and that doesn’t mean you can’t have nice things, be wealthy and enjoy life. It looks different for everyone, but we all should be true to ourselves and not to what we think we should be doing based on what others think.
Been watching you for years man, I love the genuine interactions we have on instagram. The people who want to watch you are going to, I am at the same point, what I want is to build my dream home and garage and tinker on things I like and learn new things like build a go kart or learn how to do BMX tricks. Try something new you've always wanted to learn or do and document the journey with us, we'll be right here watching family.
Mike as come a long way and he's motivated me so much. It doesn't mean anything to you but I'm proud of you. Thank you for this video hey. Really needed it Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦
Hey man, I’m 29 too, and what you’re feeling and experiencing is not uncommon. I have made the same changes as you regarding changing what you value-going from caring all about the latest and greatest sneaker to now my 401K and Roth IRA contributions and allocations. Life is weird that way, but it’s a part of our evolution, I guess. Moral of the story keep being great my brotha!
Im 23, I been collecting since I was 13. I always thought I wouldn’t grow out of sneakers. But recently I’ll say after 2020 I started falling out of love for the game. The shoe game became too saturated and it became a flex game. I’ll say the last pair of js I genuinely was excited for was bred 2019s
I’ve been watching your videos for the longest Mike and I completely feel And agree with everything you said please keep posting this kind of content 🙏🏾 we need it.
I’m now 32 had my fun and excitement with sneakers in my mid 20s but now I just really don’t care. I’ll always love shoes but it’s not that important to me anymore. I look at kids nowadays and they get hyped over some silly stuff I’m happy I actually have a story behind every sneaker I own. (OG Jordans etc)
Im 25 turn 26 this month & I totally get where you’re coming from.. after you get the sneakers that you been wanting & been a sneakerhead for 10+ yrs it gets to a eye opening frozen moment kinda thing like what am I doing? Am I ever gonna stop? It all starts with the man in the mirror fellas lets all make some change
The Bible tells us you cannot serve two masters. For those who chose to pursue money over God, they will never achieve real lasting joy. Material items will never be enough; happiness for a moment but not everlasting joy.
I feel this. Nowadays, I only allow myself to grab 3 pairs of J’s a year, it’s enough to be happy and invested in the hobby, but I’ve learned how to get over the FOMO associated with the culture. I’ve learned that if I miss out, there’s always another pair that I’ll really like.
If you can't be happy with what you have now, you will never be happy with more. It reminds me of the verse "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through Christ who gives me strength"
Man I first found your page back when the Columbia 11s came out and I was up early with my parents phones and tablet ready for the drop. Over the years life happens and you realize sneakers aren’t life and spending 200$ or more every week on shoes just either always wear my boots for work or Salehe bembury crocs to go out.
Luke 16:13-15 - “No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and be enslaved to money.” We all fall short of his glory but it’s never too late to back on the right path. Praying for ya man 🙏🏻
From one Mike to another I definitely get you. I love these type videos just as much as the sneaker videos. I’m definitely gonna hop in the community!!!
28 years old in the same spot. Sneakers just don’t feel the same anymore. Like it’s nearly impossible to cop a sneaker with any kind of attention. Just constantly taking Ls even on the smallest “hyped” releases
Well said, in the exact same head space currently. Financial freedom and freedom to dictate my day to day life however I please. Enjoy this type of content from you bro
I’m 29 and about to be 30 in a week and i agree with everything you’re saying, with being young and wanting to be a millionaire or make x amount of $$, with the fake hustle/influence space/wanting everything to be perfect, old ppl telling you to do this that and the third but only realizing it when you really go thru it yourself.
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I've been a sneaker collector since 2002 and after the birth of my first child, I've came to the conclusion that life is meant to be lived and not spent.
I'm getting so much more from my family than any sneaker release I've ever been apart of. I still like shoes but I live more for the experiences that life rewards.
Shout out to you and your growth. It's good to see more people taking time for themselves rather than impressing others. Keep going and growing.
Lâche pas mò frè.
You guys are whole weirdos 😂 just have a kids wear fly sneakers, not sure why all these fake deep, come to Jesus realizations
@@demikpreI was just thinking the same thing like why can’t you still wear nice kicks with a child. Dude was prob spending every last dollar and has an addiction to sneakers
@@demikprebro I was gonna say the same thing these people are weird just wear some dope shoes and call it a day.
@@Theycallmekenney😂😂😂😂😂😂 like what so hard about that 🤣
real real
This is called growth.
Most people go through their whole life and never come to this realization.
Some do it much later in life.
For someone, your age to reach this level of maturity is commendable and I applaud you for talking to the youth of this generation to do the same.
Thank you
It’s sounding like you figured out all this shit corny, you grew up. You don’t need approval from anyone, you’re not seeking validation anymore. I’m proud of you bro. 💯
fr, sneaker heads are corny, back in the day it was a culture but now its just people spending money to feel cool
@@JorgeGarcia-nl2dsit was always about been cool and not looking poor. In high school people used to get picked on for not having the latest Js.
@@Panda_J1 lol no they didn't, it was for try hards. you could just wear airforces or airmaxes, most kids didnt have Js. no one was picking on me for not wearing Js
Is corny because it doesnt belong to GOD material things , & rich lifestyle is satanic is not goin to make you happy if the grace of God isnt there follow Jesus 🙏🏽
You should never tell someone you don’t know that you’re proud of them
I agree with a lot of what you said. But for me, it’s not a competition. I’m just buying what I like and wanted as a kid. I do it for me or at least that’s how I justify all my purchases lol. Grew up poor and couldn’t afford nice shoes or cool toys, so I’ve spent a lot of my adulthood catching up. It’s fun!
this a fact!!
i also do it because at this moment it’s just me, once i have a kid i’ll slow down
@@noeldimaggiojr101 same. But if I have a kid, I’ll prob push all the cool toys I had as a kid on them 😂
I’m on the same boat man
You weren’t poor. Your parents just didn’t want to buy you stuff. Now you have less self control and budget habits than your parents did.
This the realest shit I’ve watch on TH-cam. I’m 22 and idk but I recently started to feel this way, like we buy materialistic shit for people. Now I started to buy shit for me and for myself only, only things I really like.
I think shoe companies should pull back drastically on releases. I’m burnt out on new updates from them day by day. It doesn’t have the same impact as it did in the past
Who you telling
Man bro who you telling
Facts , when I was in high school 2011-2015 sneaker releases were just exciting . The sneaker game wasnt as mainstream and watered down. We got 1 or 2 great releases a month and it felt like each release meant somethin. I actually got a rush from getting a new shoe I wanted and adding to my collection. Now it’s just too many shoes releasing and the game is just lame af.
@@Dayxh8 too many people glazing over what celebrities wear too many people hopping on trends they never were interested in in the first place aka folks dressing like they was in the hood in the early 2000s but really frowned at my black people for having this shit on. Too many people following each other in circles in general since 2020
Facts. My brother works for adidas as a designer at FOG and even he’s been saying the market is kinda over saturated. He did say FOG is too slow at releases tho too nit picky
Mindsets change constantly, I got a wife and 3 kids and most of the time now I end up getting the sneakers I really want, knowing I can make 300-500 on them depending on the shoe and I’d rather use that money to take my kids to the zoo, or a theme park, or take my wife out to eat and I don’t regret a single thing. I enjoy sneakers, I appreciate them, but success means different things. I got a healthy wife and kids, I got financial peace, I enjoy my job that allows me to be with my family more. I’m 28 this year and I don’t give two shits about material things.
Me personally, im not trying to keep up with the joneses or competing with anyone. I like sneakers, always have. I buy what I like and don’t feel guilty about it. Everybody is on a personal journey. Not everybody’s path is the same. At the end of the day you have to do what makes you happy.
You’re just getting older bro. I was there. It’s a great feeling to not care about all that shxt that doesn’t matter.
If you grow older and don’t have this realization, HUGE red flag.
I’m 25 now but even when I was 20 I felt this way. Like I would want this show so bad and once I got em they just became regular shoes to me. Like I remember I wanted the Yeezy 700 vantas so bad, I got em now and they’re just regular now
@@UzitheSaintthat sucks still love my shoes!
@@UzitheSaintI still want them vantas lmao
The secret of happiness is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.
just had this conversation the other day. it's very true that our egos can honestly get in the way trying to keep up with the people we see on social media or that instant gratification that comes from purchasing something new and after you see it and wear it once, you're looking for what's next. we have to be more content and show gratitude to what we have in front of us and not what we see from other's highlight reel. great video bro!
Man, this video couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Just yesterday I felt the burnout of the always needing more sneakers that I started contemplating selling them all. I’ve been watching your channel off and on since I was 13. I’m 21 now and it’s crazy that you said “I wish I knew when I was 21.” That hit me hard. I think as sneakerheads we lie to ourselves and say “once I have these sneakers I’m done” but then we still need more. Not to brag but I have accumulated around a $20k collection and I still say that to myself. I would love to hear you keep talking about this topic because I don’t think it’s discussed enough. We have enslaved ourselves to consumerism. Always needing the best and biggest thing has such a strangle on our lives. Blessings brother❤️🤙🏽
It's all a part of growing up tbh. I've been a sneaker lover since the late 90's. I'm 45 now and still have a collection but it's not a priority in my life. Experiences and family is far more important.
YOU'RE on your way to greatness, you got it now.
I love Your Growth Bro, I relate so much to what You are Saying. Happiness and Peace over everything.
You hit it right on the nail with this video. I’m 31 and recently I’ve also been dealing with these thoughts and changes in my life. I love sneakers always will but it’s true it’s this vicious cycle we get stuck in that we think makes us happy. But happiness can’t be bought! Fighting cancer made me realize the most important thing in my life was not the material shit. It was my time… my happiness!!
You figured it out, bro. And before many others do (and some never do). Your life’s gonna be beautiful, man.
The cool part of your content is that I see growth...been watching your journey for years and you seem to get things at an earlier age than I did. Keep growing bro.
Yup! Im feeling you on this topic. Im done with sneakers. Been at it since 2016 and now all the 2016 releases are coming back. I take that as a sign to move on.
Sneaker culture is the most toxic of all communities im a part of. Probably has a lot to do with age range, immaturity.
Don’t know if it’s just Sneakers but I’ve felt the same kind of burnout from social media including Instagram
You talked about “not being there” and the never ending battle to compete for attention
At the end of the day, if you’re reading this comment, you love sneakers. But the type of content creator I, personally tend to gravitate towards are those that intend to enrich the sneaker community by being open and transparent of their journey and sharing their perspectives and opinions.
Mike, your content is amazing. Join the inner circle if you haven’t because the Disciplined app helped me focus on what’s in my control.
When I was more excited buyin some Birkenstocks sandals instead of the reimagined bred 4s that’s when I knew something changed😂
same!
BIG FACTS. Love my brownies.
Them hey dudes hit different too lmao i got like 4 pair
True. I spend more time in my Crocs than sneakers unless I'm at work in casual shoes but I'm in formal shoes due to work
It was New Balance for me. 😂
We have enjoyed your videos and we have also shifted as people and consumers. Our priorities shifted plus, we got everything we wanted - those holy grails... we have them now. We still compliment people on their shoe game and we get compliments too! We are good now. Thanks Mike for ALWAYS dropping sincere videos and allowing us to grow with you. Congrats on your marriage, your new baby that is coming and even your physical body recovery when you had that injury. We will always rock with you!!!
I’m 36 and I realized that I don’t need to buy everything that I want. I think carefully, ponder for a little while, calculate if I decide to go through with it, and make sure I enjoy whatever I bought for a good while before I buy a similar item. I learn to enjoy what I have for a longer time instead of finding good deals or whatever is hot. Video Game, Shoes, electronics, clothes, household items, etc. all have to get vetted by me before I purchase it. Also, the lasting effect of enjoying the simple things in life like practicing a hobby, enjoying going out, exercising, good rest, good movies/shows, music, cleaning, decorating your place, etc. are really rewarding as well.
I've also been falling off on sneakers. Everyone is just releasing so many shoes and so many colorways. It's hard to keep on top of things, hard to pick and choose what you wanna prioritize when it comes to sneakers, and most importantly, everything is so over saturated. Everyone and their momma wears the same thing. There's not a spark anymore, a thing that makes you wanna tap into the sneaker game. Part of it is obviously that we've grown up and started liking other things or prioritizing spending money somewhere else but I think most of what I said still holds truth.
Love you my brotha!!! Wishing you and mary continued growth and success as always
I needed to hear this dawg (I'm a 41 year old sneaker head) because I've been feeling the same exact way that you feel about unnecessary urges... eventually we'll focused on other things in our lives. It's funny how most human beings are afraid to accept change but we do it subconsciously...Every single second, minute, hour and day might I add 😂😂😂
Wow man thank you I’ve been a subscriber for years now this video opened up my eyes and I’m 23 with that same mentality of wanting to be a millionaire to buy everything but have learned that peace and happiness is what matters more .
Went through this in the past two years. It feels like a new sense of freedom not being stressed out on FOMO. I think it’s okay to appreciate a tangible item, but a person doesn’t need to own every single sneaker that comes out. It’s okay to like something and never owning it. Enjoy what you and “time” is the true luxury.
This is a great video and sends great message. Personally, I have experienced a similar wakening call. We all live in a capitalistic society, and the culture is shaping us into believe that we are destined to be a 'consumer' for the rest of the our lives. Just like what you mentioned, we all once dreamed we gonna be a billionaire, but at its core is that we want to be able to spend that much. Being able to consume a lot is not an applaudable achievement nor a noble goal. Instead we should all look inside and find what we could bring to the society as a creator or a supporter. Blindly consume everything and pay for the tag will eventually have us to flush all of our hard-end money down to the 'toilet' and back to the people who already had more than us from the beginning. Greed will never end, the dopamine release coming from copping a hyped sneaker can only last till the package is opened, and it will not be a sustainable source of happiness. What is hyped is something that determined by the mass consensus, but if any of us want to be more than just an average Doe, we need to always remember what other people thinks doesn't necessary have to be the same as what we think.
I told myself I’m just trying to stack my bread I done chilled out on buying sneakers I kept finding myself buying a new pair and then a couple weeks later it’s like “oh it’s a new pair out that I want” I noticed it’s a never ending cycle. I’m not gonna say I’m never buying sneakers ever again but I’m learning to be frugal with my paper and starting to learn more about investments and other things like that. I’m just cutting back and focusing on the big picture.
I only completed my sneaker collection after I had everything else in life. Family, house cars, it’s a fun hobby but if you have debt then focus on your own priorities. Cheers buddy!
what youre speaking about is so true, life is not about chasing the next big thing is about finding your own way to be happy
7:40 I know exactly what you’re saying and for those who listened to what he had to say will understand I respect everything you said. Huge respect for you mike. Hope everything goes good in your life. Be you upload what makes you happy do day in a life’s, vlogs, rants like this . People who really mess with you will actually sit down and listen to what you have to say . Much respect
When I was young my parents couldn’t really afford to buy me sneakers so that’s what got me into collecting as an adult. At one point I had about 40 pairs in my closet & only had 5 on rotation. Ended up selling/trading everything & keeping 5. A lot more happier now
"I didn't want to be a millionaire... I wanted to spend a million dollars".
Brilliant! My God it was brilliant.
We on the same type of time bro it took a while but last year I conquered my wants and just said I need to buckle down cuz the material wants like you said is just a dead end bro. I’m all set with the fake validation I’d rather be on another level than look like I’m on another level, and pass the knowledge on cuz selfishness,greed and gluttony only gonna land you to the path to hell and I’m all set with that 💯
Your mind is maturing, I can tell you exactly where you are headed and it’s freedom
this video is something i never thought the younger generation would do. i've been working out since i was 20 which was decades ago, now old man but still workout like there's tomorrow and at my age there might not be a tomorrow. glad you are seeing life in a different way. in my late 20s and early 30s i did the sane and even though i still buy a shoe here and there which is like maybe twice a year but i'm not going to let it run my life like it did in the 90s and early 2000s. i see others on youtbe that never ever change and in 2010 they were doing the same thing in 2015 then again 2020 and it's bonkers. i did 11 years in the Army and from year 1 in 2000 and 11 years later when i left in 2011 and everything in between was all different. i am glad you woke up and see how sneakers make people slaves to the companies. waking up and seeing just enjoying life one day at a time is the best. people in the sneaker world always worried about stuff that isn't important. they always say " i need" when they don't understand that you don't need, you want is what it really is. i'm closer to the finishline then i am the stsrting line and i'm letting anyone waste a second of whatever i have left. i have in laws who drive landrover but owe a ton of money but i drive a x5 and paid for it full and i sleep knowing that my car might not be the fanciest but it's paid for. don't know if that made sense. enjoy life young king 🙏🏽
I believe people have influence on the decisions we make in sense that we can be drawn to things that we see satisfy others, but never really focusing on one’s self satisfaction. There is no economic utility to an individual if they’re drawn to things that only satisfy others than themselves.
Blessings Mike. The best things in life are free 🕊️
Agree with you. I’m 43 and feel almost everything is fake these days.
2:40 “succumb” is the word you’re looking for.
Thanks for being a real one Mike
yeah man sneakers just normal to me now, it's cool and all but there's so much stuff out there and things in life that's just more worth; been following you for a couple of years now, appreciate these types of videos
I figured this out when turning 21 and now at 25 with good savings and not chasing others wants but my wants and more importantly my needs, it feels great. Still a ways to go, but to know I have a good emergency fund and I have all I need and no excess material items is enough for me. Keeping a calm mind is important
Hey Sneaker Life, I too have been feeling this fatigue with sneakers and materialistic desires. The magic of buying these things is the story they tell and the work you put in to ultimately afford them, not the item itself. Specifically for the sneaker market, it’s been bastardised into a whole business of reselling and yes we have experienced that in the past but it’s just gotten out of hand to the extent that normal consumers who want to enjoy sneakers for what they are and not treat them as a quick cheque or a commodity can’t even do that. I can speak for the rest of your audience that we have grown and matured, and this video letting us know we aren’t the only ones who’ve experienced the diminishing magic of innocence and our love for sneakers is very reassuring. Bless 🙏
Jesus is what you’re seeking brother. Pray about it, seek his face.
I needed to hear this. Thank you
Haven’t watched you in years bro I got out the shoe game a while ago, this was on my recommended it’s started playing the preview and I tapped on the video and listened the whole way through. Glad I stumbled back on your channel this was dope! Keep being great 🙏🏼
Man bro I love these videos I’ve been watching you for more than 6 years and I’ve been going through the same thing for years. I’ve been also collecting shoes since 2012 and I’m 26 now with a 3 year old now it just feel like the material shit never ends. Like no matter what I do like buy sneakers, cars, and clothes there always going to be something new and it never ends. I thank god I’m fortunate enough to afford it but honestly it’s hard to stop and invest on my self like make content like you.
I agree brother I buy sneakers cause I love the art. I love art and when I bought my first few sneakers I said wait this is ridiculous way too high and a waste of money. Now I buy sneakers for comfort, art, and a good sale. I’m all for living a good life. I tell people all the time enjoy it but be wise. If you make mistakes learn from it and fix it. Life is precious enjoy it with your love ones. That is worth more than any object.
Welcome to the real world brother. Unfortunately many people don’t escape this culture. I can afford shoes so I recently bought 10 pairs but I don’t have a need to flex. Just for my own happiness
You have come full circle Mike 🫡 Welcome 👍🏼✌🏼
Wow Mike this was a really insightful video. I’ve been watching you since I was about 17 years old and I’m 23 now. I’ve been thinking to myself similarly to what you were talking about how as a youngin we want to make all this money to get new stuff and it’s a never ends, I am at the point my younger self so desperately wanted to be; full time job, moved out and have more kicks and clothes than I ever did yet it still feels semi-hollow. The notion that we should be more focused on what pleases us at our core instead of what social media engineers us to desire is a great point
I respect your honesty and transparency.
I was a sneaker guy. Then I started to think about it... im a grown man caring about tennis shoes and i only wear sport coats and loafers now. Started selling them all
Not too long ago I adopted this mindset. I have only purchased 1 pair of sneakers all year. Saving money has allowed me to get a better car and apartment.
Bro, you nailed this one. I love this bro. No matter what content you post and share, love how blunt and real you. Keep it up bro. Start a podcast too! 🙏🏼🙌🏼 sneaker related or just life topics in general
man this is the best video I’ve ever watched today. I can relate to what you said about constantly buying things like sneakers, clothes and what not then aiming for more. I’ve been to that cycle as a sneaker lover too. It was a nice ride until I realized one day that it was so stressful because you’ll get addicted to it and you never stop wanting for more. As a 31 years old I realized peace of mind is more important than spending to the things you never really “need” just to feed your ego. Lesson learned is, just be wise and contented 🙂
Dang! What you just said is so inspirational! I think LIFE IS A PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS! As long you attain peace and not stepping on others! Love your videos bro!
I got out of the sneaker game a while back because of a lot of the reasons you mention here. I recently started to get back into it but have made a point to avoid the "influencer" types that need to turn EVERYTHING into a dick measuring contest. Fortunately, it's easy to identify them so you just as quickly ignore them. I was into kicks before social media was around and it was a lot more genuine and enjoyable that way. I feel bad for kids getting into sneakers or anything else and then getting turned off because some d-bag influencer makes them feel inadequate for not having a LV tote bag especially for their red Octobers....only rule of sneakers is buy and rock what YOU want. It's very liberating when you finally realize that.
Man bro, in all honesty I'm not even a dedicated fan of yours , but I know you from when I was into the shoe game.
This video hit me at the right time because I'm literally at that point in life where I'm like what's next? What does all this success really mean. Money... all relative.
Having peace and freedom means so much more than a dollar to me at this point in life
Recently just got the same awakening , thank God . I tried the shroom which helped open my mind , I’m turning 23 today and I literally said all I want for my birthday is “peace of mind” great vid 💯
I just found you channel today. I've watched I think 3 videos and maybe it's because we the same age but man I can relate a lot to your experiences and thoughts. I'm very new to sneakers and I just want to wear what I think looks nice and have no desire to buy the next hype release or resell or look a certain way because people say you need to. Refreshing
Ive been there ,its just a sign of you getting older and having priorities. I feel like things have shifted from the actual shoe to how much money or clout someone has when reviewing a shoe . Blessings your way ✅🫡
Yeah man, I feel you. I went from over 80 pairs to about 30. And that still feels like too much. If I don’t wear a sneaker for over a month, I sell it. Too many other things to do - buy records, books, travel. But to your other point - people always been pushing fake lifestyles, social media just makes it more frequent and in your face. Glad social media wasn’t around when I was a teen.
Great video! I've been involved since '04. Had I kept everything, I'd have well over 1,000 pairs. I've been fortunate to make some great friends, built solid networks, & have some great memories. Most of us flexed for genuine appreciation for the hobby. We didn't trip on who had what. It was always mutual respect.
Like most good things, it was all hijacked over by these frauds over the years. I still collect, but not like I used to. To be honest, if I had it to do over, I probably wouldn't Lost sight of what's really important in life. Much respect to you to figuring it all out, now & your evolving outlook on what's important.
Have the same thoughts... Great video 🔥
Great video bro… it’s so hard to find videos like these now a days but we most definitely need more of this. I’ve get this way for so long and I’ve mediated on these same points you made so it’s crazy to sit here watch someone else say it. Again great video!
Wow, your perspective at your age is very profound. I totally agree with you also. Being a slave to money or materials is not a great idea and that doesn’t mean you can’t have nice things, be wealthy and enjoy life. It looks different for everyone, but we all should be true to ourselves and not to what we think we should be doing based on what others think.
Real ass take my brotha. That’s personal growth and what all of us should put our mind towards
Been watching you for years man, I love the genuine interactions we have on instagram. The people who want to watch you are going to, I am at the same point, what I want is to build my dream home and garage and tinker on things I like and learn new things like build a go kart or learn how to do BMX tricks. Try something new you've always wanted to learn or do and document the journey with us, we'll be right here watching family.
I feel you brother! We are with you. Signed up to the link. My thoughts is saying God is calling you
Mike as come a long way and he's motivated me so much.
It doesn't mean anything to you but I'm proud of you. Thank you for this video hey. Really needed it
Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦
Hey man, I’m 29 too, and what you’re feeling and experiencing is not uncommon. I have made the same changes as you regarding changing what you value-going from caring all about the latest and greatest sneaker to now my 401K and Roth IRA contributions and allocations. Life is weird that way, but it’s a part of our evolution, I guess. Moral of the story keep being great my brotha!
Im 23, I been collecting since I was 13. I always thought I wouldn’t grow out of sneakers. But recently I’ll say after 2020 I started falling out of love for the game. The shoe game became too saturated and it became a flex game. I’ll say the last pair of js I genuinely was excited for was bred 2019s
I’ve been watching your videos for the longest Mike and I completely feel And agree with everything you said please keep posting this kind of content 🙏🏾 we need it.
Brother, what you are saying are really true, respect you brother, God will bless you more and more!
I’m now 32 had my fun and excitement with sneakers in my mid 20s but now I just really don’t care. I’ll always love shoes but it’s not that important to me anymore. I look at kids nowadays and they get hyped over some silly stuff I’m happy I actually have a story behind every sneaker I own. (OG Jordans etc)
Im 25 turn 26 this month & I totally get where you’re coming from.. after you get the sneakers that you been wanting & been a sneakerhead for 10+ yrs it gets to a eye opening frozen moment kinda thing like what am I doing? Am I ever gonna stop? It all starts with the man in the mirror fellas lets all make some change
The Bible tells us you cannot serve two masters. For those who chose to pursue money over God, they will never achieve real lasting joy. Material items will never be enough; happiness for a moment but not everlasting joy.
I feel this. Nowadays, I only allow myself to grab 3 pairs of J’s a year, it’s enough to be happy and invested in the hobby, but I’ve learned how to get over the FOMO associated with the culture. I’ve learned that if I miss out, there’s always another pair that I’ll really like.
If you can't be happy with what you have now, you will never be happy with more. It reminds me of the verse "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through Christ who gives me strength"
You’ve matured and your values have changed. Congratulations!
It’s called maturity bro. That wisdom is setting in my guy.
you said what i’ve been thinking for a while now. refreshing video
Man I first found your page back when the Columbia 11s came out and I was up early with my parents phones and tablet ready for the drop.
Over the years life happens and you realize sneakers aren’t life and spending 200$ or more every week on shoes just either always wear my boots for work or Salehe bembury crocs to go out.
Luke 16:13-15 - “No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and be enslaved to money.” We all fall short of his glory but it’s never too late to back on the right path. Praying for ya man 🙏🏻
Thank you for this video man. I appreciate this so much. This makes me feel better knowing that I’m not the only one anymore in this moment of my life
You’re on point bro I’m 31 & facts are you’re thinking correctly.
From one Mike to another I definitely get you. I love these type videos just as much as the sneaker videos. I’m definitely gonna hop in the community!!!
28 years old in the same spot. Sneakers just don’t feel the same anymore. Like it’s nearly impossible to cop a sneaker with any kind of attention. Just constantly taking Ls even on the smallest “hyped” releases
This spoke to me, i like fashion and sneakers but you need to balance it out with experience and family
Welcome to the enlightened. 🙏 - I will say at 39, the clarity becomes even that much more pronounced. Your time, your temple.
You’re maturing quicker then you think. Keep it up, you’re good.
I needed to hear this. Thanks broski.
Well said, in the exact same head space currently. Financial freedom and freedom to dictate my day to day life however I please. Enjoy this type of content from you bro
I’m 29 and about to be 30 in a week and i agree with everything you’re saying, with being young and wanting to be a millionaire or make x amount of $$, with the fake hustle/influence space/wanting everything to be perfect, old ppl telling you to do this that and the third but only realizing it when you really go thru it yourself.
So glad you're talking about this, I'm basically here at this point myself in my mid 30s.
Man I needed this. I be hard on myself trynna run this race of life. Trynna be perfect as much as I can be but it’s not even real.