40:02 True… certain young women that I know from my neighbourhood town Kuruman, started selling themselves because of hardship and no strong moral parenting. these things never happened since 2019
So Berita was the problem according to him and she was the narcissist, she was the one with issues and yet he is the one going around bad mouthing her every chance he gets for leaving him while she has silently moved on and happily so. She dodged a major bullet here 😂 thank goodness she didn’t harbor any seed for this man. A child by him would have tied her to his madness forever
Delulu is the Solulu😂😂😂 If you want clarity WATCH Podcast and Chill with Mac G, Berita spoke about her separation with Nota and she makes so much sense.
For me listening to the prodcast Nota was for ever blaming his X for almost everything went wrong in their marriage or relationship,it will be good to hear her side of the story
True. Everytime Nota has an interview, he always mentions this girl and bashes her all the time... he still broken. He is not supposed to talk about his marriage while he is not healed. You literally can feel his brokenness with how he always talks about her.
Different family dynamics. Respect for all 🎉 Nota you're in NO position to judge anyone...look at which side of the fence you on, smarty pants. You're just as imperfect as all of us! Catch that
When someone says that they cannot pinpoint anything that they did/said that led to the breakdown of their marriage, then that is already a red flag.....🚩🚩🚩I don't know, I get narcissistic vibes, from Nota .
the reddest of red flags. He is very learned and uses those terminologies and such to gaslight! 50% of all conflicts are your responsibility, and how does he not see it
I could be wrong but from listening to Nota, I feel he is a very good manipulator himself. Also, I believe strongly that we all see the world through our own lenses, same way Nota sees the world through how his parents and home was, but I feel he lives in his own bubble that has no room to actually consider how others view the world. It’s a very few instances where he agreed with Owamie’s point of views and that for me is very concerning.
You 💯right & it seems like he is always right and doesn't make mistakes & no accountability so the other person (the ex wife) was always wrong yena he did nothing. 🤷🤷
Nota is set in his ways, he's not listening to Owami. He's not understanding the other side. I think he's just so caught up in how lucky he feels having being raised by his parents. It's the "well I experienced this, therfore..." that puts me off. I want him to come back though. I want to see something.
The irresponsible comments about Beritas' family are unnecessary. He is so unruly for grown man. He cannot brag about his upbringing and then goes and disrespects other people like that !
@@lulamalemoen5500 you girls are used to manipulating men, I don’t play that. It’s my way because I know best, if you know better be the man & take the wheel!
There is an episode from podcast and chill where Nota talked about how they had a fight with his ex-wife in front of their parents while on holidays because Berita put glass on a stove that was on and it cracked. Owami if you can listen to that episode it was when Podcast and Chill had Nota at one one of the restaurants , please go and listen to how he was talking about his then wife. I actually knew on that day that their marriage will not last.Another thing is Nota wishes everyone was raised by his parents but it does look like that that relationship has affected him negatively, he talks about how his Mum hid the clothes all the time.There is also a contradiction in what he says, his mother worked and he want us to aspire to Afghanistan women. Lastly, he talks about how his mother taught him how to be a good husband a provider, guys have you listened to how Nota on one of the podcast talked about his Mercedes benzes and how Berita crushed them on to each other. Yoh guys the gaslighting😢
“No woman can take the pain of the woman that you love” He still loves his ex… I think divorce is as a result of both parties not tolerating each others mistakes…you can’t necessarily blame one party. Marriage is about both giving and taking and the balancing thereof…wishing Nota well for the future…I watched until the end and would have loved to listen to the missing last bit…lovely work owamie…I watch your videos all the way from Egypt 🇪🇬
😂😂😂 when he said “ he can’t make up for Beritas character flaws because she was not raised by his parents and that he wishes everyone was actually raised by his parents” 👀😂😂
@@Vv-fl2rmlapho we see his parent work in him😂😂😂😂😂 weeeeh ay we fine this side. Tholukuthi his parents have their own shenaginas under carpet ajd he would faint
Anyway Owamie when are you bringing Berita on To Hell and Back and Successfully Divorced? She seems cool I always see her at church and I feel like asking her kuri mare girl what happened?
The lack of wisdom and experience in Nota is glaring... Having information does not make you wise. A person who says everything was the other person's fault is a big RED flag and manipulator.
i love Notas brain... however he is a narcissist, hes not acknowleding where he went wrong, his rather saying nonsense about "i wish my parents raised my wife". no sir you not taking any accountability and its really oky for people to choose for themselevs, we not in 1960 anymore and alot men should realise it. Smart people learn from others mistakes, i choose not to have kids yet beacuse i dont wannt to be a baby mama and thats oky and not selfish
I really enjoyed both episodes. I got to see another side of Nota. Thank you queen ninja for these beautiful interviews. Ha khensa Nhlamulo ku va mi hi nyike nkarhi wa nwina kuri hi mi tiva kahle.
Berita come and fetch your husband.. now every Zimbabwean 🇿🇼 is catching strays 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️…. Sometimes I prefer completely ignorant people because some of these half truths being passed as facts by Nota be convincing some folks 🙆🏽♀️. The impact of extraordinary economic events such as the hyper inflation of Zim is complex and layered and can not be oversimplified by layman opinions. With that said ,I am glad Owami recognised his need to vent and bleed about his marriage and allowed him the space to do so. On Nota’s part too there was a lot of respect for Owami which I greatly appreciated, I hope you heal dude, you and Berita were beautiful when you were together sadly it didn’t work.☺️💫.
🙄 and people are applauding him and seeing him as this smart guy.He was all over the place from part 1. I can’t believe he saw the oppression that women go thru in Afghanistan as normal!! I honestly think he needs help. Typical narcissistic traits he holds. Thanks goodness Owamie was so patient.There’s so much to be said about his mental health, that term he used about his ex wife “borderline personality disorder,”I strongly believe applies to him
But Nota you need to take accountability. Also did not like when you described your then wife's family in a condescending manner. Yes, you're privileged to be raised by parents who are involved in your life but that does not mean you must look down on your ex-wife. You need to work on your conflict resolution skills, you can't shut down or run away everytime you encounter conflict
You’re probably a bad therapist with a bogus qualification because a legit therapist would never diagnose someone they haven’t consulted against their code of ethics & hippocratic oath!
Nota, much like Penuel, has a gift to think on his feet, until Owami, the Ninja said "if I approach you and I say let's date, will you date me"? Nota "no" Owami "you see, you have a choice" Nota, smiles sheepishly, coming very close to confessing "you caught me there" 😂😂😂 Nota can never accept when he is wrong 😂😅
I'm sorry nota but when a divorce happens I always think that 70% is the mens fault, honestly when your divorce happened, Nota.....all the red flags on you, I'm sorry to say this but I'm also glad that you spoke the side of your story but the way you lay your words my brother is so brutal....
Shame he really loved his ex wife, it's unfortunate that they weren't compatible. But I love how he talks about his father and mother, seems like he has good role models.
Well done on your composure in this interview Owami❤ its not easy staying that chilled listening to Nota🤣🤣🤣 Your comment though..."Well he married a Xhosa woman" Ei 💔 I know you took it back but knowing thats how you also see us stings abit. Anyway, love you Queen Ninja
I don't even think he is aware he is lying. He is so full of himself. He tries to subtly plant seeds of doubt throughout his conversation, it is so funny to watch
I'm struggling to believe this. His ex wife comes across as a very spiritually aligned/emotionally aware person in her music. But then again, nothing is ever as it seems.
If you intelligent enough you will hear all the undertones in this conversation to who the actual narcissist was in the marriage..Iam relieved that she left oh God...dating a narcissist is hell can't imagine marriage and they loooove empaths soft gentle souls.
Guys maar, how can you not like Nota though. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was just about to say I volunteer to be the next wife but there he goes wanting a virgin🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, eish plus it will be difficult to compete with the love he has for Berita.... 😂 All the best Nota
I'm sorry to say this about Nota, we all love him but there was a time when he was trending for bad reasons and the way he carried himself proved that he was going through something, as a nationwe thought that he was not mentally ok...seeing a physiologist was not a bad idea at all....hence the divorce was not a surprise at all....I may be wrong but that's my opinion and I totally agree with myself....I thank you
Eish😂😢I’m listening to nota and I’m on my knees thanking God for owamie’s wisdom, maturity and calmness. Iyooo having a conversation with nota will take you to mental institution
A totally agree with Nota. My parents are married. But I grew up listening to my mother talking bad things about my father. I have never had her say one good things and that's affects u as an adult and how you respect your father
He's very knowledgeable, level headed and open minded in all other topics. But when it comes to his marriage and his ex-wife, he is just not accountable and takes a ledt turn in every topic surrounding that and their families. There's just no way he was right in everything that happened in that marriage. He apeaks like this about her in all podcasts he goes to. Yet she was quiet, spoke on Podcast and chill and Kaya FM and has been quiet since. Questionable!
Nota needs help. He is so broken. In marriage, you need to be in the same mind and unfortunately Berita did not want the same reality just like him and her views are valid. She cannot always be patronised because she does not perceive life the way he does. Her needs are valid. He just needs to accept that they were not compatible.
Nota reminds me of every divorced woman who go on platforms to narrate their marriage story. If we are to call him a narcissist for, are we gonna a call the women narcissist too😂😂😂😂? I'm on cross roads with judging him. Berrita looks innocent because she's sweet and soft and Nota looks guilty cause he's the loud one. I honestly think the marriage just didn't work. No villain and no victim
What he is saying about classism in South Africa is true. After watching how some west-africans operate, I realise that South Africans are not classist. I hope we don't get there
I learnt something today from Nota. I'm in Zimbabwe and yes classicism is very rife. I noticed when I was in South Africa that classicism is not as bad as in Zim.
@@maritawanazw Yes, I remember working with a Zimbabwean lady who was going her articles. She said in Zim future-chartered-accountant don't have to greet security guards & cleaners
Its the classic narci calling his victim a narci ke sana. Talking about a mirrored image of self on a partner. Berita will take time to heal from this delulu.
I just Love how Nota always refers everything back to His Parents, this really shows How good His Parents did in raising them, He doesn’t have any traumatic experience from His family background, Hr Only have good memories and I think coming from a black child, I applaud His parents for How well they did in raising this gentleman.
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You are exclaty who you are painting her to be , narcissistic man you ...shame you are sick ..take you meds
@@rudzanimagoro2225vaginosis is making you cranky, this is for those with husbands that deserve gifts…
@@rudzanimagoro2225 SHut up u talking nonsense vha songo ri dissapointa vha venda
40:02 True… certain young women that I know from my neighbourhood town Kuruman, started selling themselves because of hardship and no strong moral parenting. these things never happened since 2019
Dakiw3 good 7 clippa for cap you disconnected rubbish
The way you two are disagreeing is very peaceful and calm.....talk of maturity ❤❤❤
So Berita was the problem according to him and she was the narcissist, she was the one with issues and yet he is the one going around bad mouthing her every chance he gets for leaving him while she has silently moved on and happily so. She dodged a major bullet here 😂 thank goodness she didn’t harbor any seed for this man. A child by him would have tied her to his madness forever
True
Was thinking the same, he comes across as a very angry person
He's such a narcissistic. Never wrong. He sounds like a very intelligent man, though not emotionally intelligent
@@nancymang extremely narcissistic!
🤦🏾♂️Nina
Nota is a good example of this saying:
"Just because you're knowledgeable doesn't mean you're intelligent."
You couldn’t have said it any better
Book smart, street smart, socially aware but definitely not emotionally intelligent.
Yep! Especially emotional intelligence
Exactly😊
@@mpinganadax3923 💯
Delulu is the Solulu😂😂😂
If you want clarity WATCH Podcast and Chill with Mac G, Berita spoke about her separation with Nota and she makes so much sense.
😂😂I’m sorry but its “ Delulu is the Solulu” for me🤣
For me listening to the prodcast Nota was for ever blaming his X for almost everything went wrong in their marriage or relationship,it will be good to hear her side of the story
Watch Mac G's podcast, she spoke out about her marriage and separation to Nota. She is so graceful and never spoke ill about him.
True. Everytime Nota has an interview, he always mentions this girl and bashes her all the time... he still broken. He is not supposed to talk about his marriage while he is not healed. You literally can feel his brokenness with how he always talks about her.
Podcast and Chill and Kaya 959
@@simamkelencapayi5457i'll go now , i doubt she was
@@Misslalagirlyou dont fully understand what your talking about, at the moment
I don't how to say this but this guy is not Ok. He needs help but he obviously won't get it. He lives in his own world
I just don't see how he never did anything wrong. This man uyahleba, uyabalelana, unako noku hlanya and uzibona eyi prize.
But women usually cry when something is wrong, even if they are wrong, we just have to understand them, love them, and communicate in a gentle way
Seriously! If the person next to me is hurt and crying I can't help but feel thier pain. You'll find me crying too lol. Please understand us. 😅
Different family dynamics.
Respect for all 🎉
Nota you're in NO position to judge anyone...look at which side of the fence you on, smarty pants.
You're just as imperfect as all of us! Catch that
I think Nota loves you hey, the way this guy doesn't give a rat's ass about most people in SA. He really likes you. Love it for you sis.
He gravitates to her because of how hardworking she is and taking herself from the ground up.
@@mhlox654 Yep
@@mhlox654I was about to comment this. He respects her
He does hey
These comments on top below ngeke gys 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂anikho right yaz nina
Thanks Nota, as a woman you just made me realise my mistake😢. I could never understand what I was doing wrong.
When someone says that they cannot pinpoint anything that they did/said that led to the breakdown of their marriage, then that is already a red flag.....🚩🚩🚩I don't know, I get narcissistic vibes, from Nota
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Bro literally said he there is nothing he did wrong😮
He's a clear narcissist. Takes no accountability and believes his own story that he has created in his mind
the reddest of red flags. He is very learned and uses those terminologies and such to gaslight! 50% of all conflicts are your responsibility, and how does he not see it
@@Peighter You are spot on.
He even uses therapy terminology to paint Berita as the wrong one. Scary
I could be wrong but from listening to Nota, I feel he is a very good manipulator himself. Also, I believe strongly that we all see the world through our own lenses, same way Nota sees the world through how his parents and home was, but I feel he lives in his own bubble that has no room to actually consider how others view the world. It’s a very few instances where he agreed with Owamie’s point of views and that for me is very concerning.
You 💯right & it seems like he is always right and doesn't make mistakes & no accountability so the other person (the ex wife) was always wrong yena he did nothing. 🤷🤷
@@vuyomtshali that threw me off so much that I didn’t even wanna comment on it.
I feel he’s the narc
His a textbook narc.
A whole Narc
Nota is set in his ways, he's not listening to Owami. He's not understanding the other side. I think he's just so caught up in how lucky he feels having being raised by his parents. It's the "well I experienced this, therfore..." that puts me off. I want him to come back though. I want to see something.
The irresponsible comments about Beritas' family are unnecessary. He is so unruly for grown man. He cannot brag about his upbringing and then goes and disrespects other people like that !
I agree his not receptive to different views
@@lulamalemoen5500 you girls are used to manipulating men, I don’t play that. It’s my way because I know best, if you know better be the man & take the wheel!
There is an episode from podcast and chill where Nota talked about how they had a fight with his ex-wife in front of their parents while on holidays because Berita put glass on a stove that was on and it cracked. Owami if you can listen to that episode it was when Podcast and Chill had Nota at one one of the restaurants , please go and listen to how he was talking about his then wife. I actually knew on that day that their marriage will not last.Another thing is Nota wishes everyone was raised by his parents but it does look like that that relationship has affected him negatively, he talks about how his Mum hid the clothes all the time.There is also a contradiction in what he says, his mother worked and he want us to aspire to Afghanistan women. Lastly, he talks about how his mother taught him how to be a good husband a provider, guys have you listened to how Nota on one of the podcast talked about his Mercedes benzes and how Berita crushed them on to each other. Yoh guys the gaslighting😢
LMFAO. Imagine! No normal person will want women to live like Afghan women, unless they really look down on women as a whole.
Congrats Berita for learning and choosing yourself I wish you well on your journey, love and light sister
“No woman can take the pain of the woman that you love”
He still loves his ex…
I think divorce is as a result of both parties not tolerating each others mistakes…you can’t necessarily blame one party. Marriage is about both giving and taking and the balancing thereof…wishing Nota well for the future…I watched until the end and would have loved to listen to the missing last bit…lovely work owamie…I watch your videos all the way from Egypt 🇪🇬
SABC come see how we do it here, you can come listen and learn
It's Nota calling his ex wife a narcissist 😂😂 I think I've heard it all for the year
🤯🤯🤯
It's giving projection
He's delulu. He's just describing himself.
@@esthermani6376 delulu for real
This is the hostesses demographic. Kunzima
Owamie is sooo patient 🤞, i can't nooooo
Why do narcissists always compare crying with manipulation?
😂😂😂 when he said “ he can’t make up for Beritas character flaws because she was not raised by his parents and that he wishes everyone was actually raised by his parents” 👀😂😂
@@Vv-fl2rm imagine 😂😂😂😂😂
@@Vv-fl2rmlapho we see his parent work in him😂😂😂😂😂 weeeeh ay we fine this side. Tholukuthi his parents have their own shenaginas under carpet ajd he would faint
Please ask... Yena akere he's perfect
They lack emphathy thats why. Am not accusing anyone by the way. I havent started watching. Started with the comments. 😂
So Nota ku relationship yakhe was perfect, she was manipulative n a narcissist wow owryt Nota kuyevakala bhuti
Nota and Khanya (the ultimatum) are the same … lol they live in their own worlds😅
Lesson number , don’t tell men you parents problems!! 😩😩😩
Anyway Owamie when are you bringing Berita on To Hell and Back and Successfully Divorced? She seems cool I always see her at church and I feel like asking her kuri mare girl what happened?
That girl is pretty. I always wondered how she looks in real life 🥰
The lack of wisdom and experience in Nota is glaring... Having information does not make you wise. A person who says everything was the other person's fault is a big RED flag and manipulator.
i love Notas brain... however he is a narcissist, hes not acknowleding where he went wrong, his rather saying nonsense about "i wish my parents raised my wife". no sir you not taking any accountability and its really oky for people to choose for themselevs, we not in 1960 anymore and alot men should realise it. Smart people learn from others mistakes, i choose not to have kids yet beacuse i dont wannt to be a baby mama and thats oky and not selfish
Of note
Ohhh hell no it started of good, but Nota will always be Nota. How does one advocate for teens to be in relationships🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
21:13 so Nota was perfect in his marriage and wife was the imperfect one.
Very disturbing, he needs to remain single.
I really enjoyed both episodes. I got to see another side of Nota. Thank you queen ninja for these beautiful interviews. Ha khensa Nhlamulo ku va mi hi nyike nkarhi wa nwina kuri hi mi tiva kahle.
Himpela
Shbubuuu what are you doing to us, this is premium content Queen
Berita come and fetch your husband.. now every Zimbabwean 🇿🇼 is catching strays 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️…. Sometimes I prefer completely ignorant people because some of these half truths being passed as facts by Nota be convincing some folks 🙆🏽♀️. The impact of extraordinary economic events such as the hyper inflation of Zim is complex and layered and can not be oversimplified by layman opinions.
With that said ,I am glad Owami recognised his need to vent and bleed about his marriage and allowed him the space to do so. On Nota’s part too there was a lot of respect for Owami which I greatly appreciated, I hope you heal dude, you and Berita were beautiful when you were together sadly it didn’t work.☺️💫.
Nhai nhai
Im enjoying this debate Shibubuu....
30:00 I agree with Nota fully ......we need to teach our boys and girls how to manage healthy romantic relationships
I hope this video will trend, I also want the world to hear his side of the story about his divorce
I Love Nota but I have so many questions.... Thank you Ninja ❤❤❤
Did this person just quote Afghanistan as some country we should be aspiring to have. Agh 😢🙄
Lmfao he looooves lying this one
😂
A whole Afghanistan and India? Yoh 😂😂😂
🙄 and people are applauding him and seeing him as this smart guy.He was all over the place from part 1. I can’t believe he saw the oppression that women go thru in Afghanistan as normal!! I honestly think he needs help. Typical narcissistic traits he holds. Thanks goodness Owamie was so patient.There’s so much to be said about his mental health, that term he used about his ex wife “borderline personality disorder,”I strongly believe applies to him
@@nonzimambeta3144 its not even funny. making light of very real issue that Afghan women have!
He is describing himself by saying his wife is borderline narcissistic..
The disclaimer 😂😂 you don't want to get sued
😅😅😅
She wants to make sure no one misses it😂😂
LMFAO
But Nota you need to take accountability. Also did not like when you described your then wife's family in a condescending manner. Yes, you're privileged to be raised by parents who are involved in your life but that does not mean you must look down on your ex-wife.
You need to work on your conflict resolution skills, you can't shut down or run away everytime you encounter conflict
Dude I’m listening and I’m like what is he saying???? Iphi e accountability on his end hai guys
This was a good interview, it flowed so well even though he would off ramp here & there Owamie reeled in so effortlessly. Well done 👏🏽🎉
As a therapist, I strongly doubt he is not the cause of his marital problem. He is highly manipulative and judgmental
You’re probably a bad therapist with a bogus qualification because a legit therapist would never diagnose someone they haven’t consulted against their code of ethics & hippocratic oath!
Nota comparing his partner to a MAID.😭😭😭
COMPARISON IS THE THEIF OF JOY ‼️🥹🥹😭😭
Yoh- he is a walking redflag.
Nota, much like Penuel, has a gift to think on his feet, until Owami, the Ninja said
"if I approach you and I say let's date, will you date me"? Nota "no"
Owami "you see, you have a choice"
Nota, smiles sheepishly, coming very close to confessing "you caught me there" 😂😂😂
Nota can never accept when he is wrong 😂😅
That’s grape logic… You don’t say yes to everyone that approaches!
I'm sorry nota but when a divorce happens I always think that 70% is the mens fault, honestly when your divorce happened, Nota.....all the red flags on you, I'm sorry to say this but I'm also glad that you spoke the side of your story but the way you lay your words my brother is so brutal....
The quality 🔥🔥 an entire production house
Great from production team 🔥kindly adhere to the 180 rule, it is kind of disturbing every time we cut to Nota
Didn’t Nota say on the previous video he had never met his ex wife’s family. Jiki jiki he knows how the ex’s parents fought. Menemene uNota.
Shame he really loved his ex wife, it's unfortunate that they weren't compatible. But I love how he talks about his father and mother, seems like he has good role models.
Well done on your composure in this interview Owami❤ its not easy staying that chilled listening to Nota🤣🤣🤣 Your comment though..."Well he married a Xhosa woman" Ei 💔 I know you took it back but knowing thats how you also see us stings abit. Anyway, love you Queen Ninja
I listened to this just to see what lies this guy will give us this time and listen he proved me right I got what I was looking for here 🤣🤣🤣
I don't even think he is aware he is lying. He is so full of himself.
He tries to subtly plant seeds of doubt throughout his conversation, it is so funny to watch
Khame ndimamele le ndimanga ingu Nota 🍿🍿
@TheeMsutu a crazy person 😂
😂😂😂
he said he was TRICKED into getting married?!?!!?!? nah this man is on something else! TRICKED!
I'm struggling to believe this. His ex wife comes across as a very spiritually aligned/emotionally aware person in her music. But then again, nothing is ever as it seems.
If you intelligent enough you will hear all the undertones in this conversation to who the actual narcissist was in the marriage..Iam relieved that she left oh God...dating a narcissist is hell can't imagine marriage and they loooove empaths soft gentle souls.
i think amadoda are not okay upstairs
Such a nice guy so sad for him
He really loved her 😢 it’s sad
Not my jaw dropping when he says Berita is a narcissist. Tjo tjo Nota?!
And Owamie asking from who? 😂😂😂
43:11 😂 Your face speaking volumes
Nota will never beat the allegations shame. I feel sorry for Berita. Akakhulanga lomuntu.
Guys maar, how can you not like Nota though. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was just about to say I volunteer to be the next wife but there he goes wanting a virgin🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, eish plus it will be difficult to compete with the love he has for Berita.... 😂 All the best Nota
What the hell did I just watch ? Owamie I commend you for sitting there listening to that nonsense without breaking out of character 😭
Seriously!i dont know how she did it.ne ko tshega gore🤣🫠
Nota,onale maka nyana 😅😅.
I'm sorry to say this about Nota, we all love him but there was a time when he was trending for bad reasons and the way he carried himself proved that he was going through something, as a nationwe thought that he was not mentally ok...seeing a physiologist was not a bad idea at all....hence the divorce was not a surprise at all....I may be wrong but that's my opinion and I totally agree with myself....I thank you
His fricles are 🔥🔥🔥
He is right about the part where, he said he is dangerous.
Nota yoh 😞bo berita le bona i judge her.
Yoh kuningi
Eish😂😢I’m listening to nota and I’m on my knees thanking God for owamie’s wisdom, maturity and calmness. Iyooo having a conversation with nota will take you to mental institution
A totally agree with Nota.
My parents are married.
But I grew up listening to my mother talking bad things about my father. I have never had her say one good things and that's affects u as an adult and how you respect your father
Nota is the narcissist, not Berita. We've seen how badly you treated that woman!!
He's very knowledgeable, level headed and open minded in all other topics. But when it comes to his marriage and his ex-wife, he is just not accountable and takes a ledt turn in every topic surrounding that and their families. There's just no way he was right in everything that happened in that marriage. He apeaks like this about her in all podcasts he goes to. Yet she was quiet, spoke on Podcast and chill and Kaya FM and has been quiet since. Questionable!
I think ndiyamthanda u Nota 😊
Next thing you'll be on To Hell and Back. Women, we don't learn shem😅
Love yourself my dear 😂
@@thatobaloyi6194😂😂😂 I swear I'm not laughing
Nota is the most knowledgeable man on absolutely every subject. Nobody knows more than him 😜🤣
No, Nota is good at generalizing everything. I can´t with this man. No human being in this world is infallible, no one....only Jesus was.
Nota is the king of shade, the way he is shading his ex-wifes family is on another level 🤣🤣🤣 but it's also concerning at the same time
He married his ex-wife to floss to her about his privileged family and he definitely looks down on his ex-wife and her family. What a narcissist
@@mashrohingya9397 I agree 100%
That time she is not even bothered, never even speaks about him and has moved on swiftly 😊 love it for her
Nota lying she saw a desperate woman and took advantage.
I wish we could get the ex wife's side of the story because something is not make sure, seems there is lack of accountability here😅
This guy is simply saying , keep your family together even when it is killing you😮😮😮
Nota needs help. He is so broken.
In marriage, you need to be in the same mind and unfortunately Berita did not want the same reality just like him and her views are valid. She cannot always be patronised because she does not perceive life the way he does. Her needs are valid.
He just needs to accept that they were not compatible.
blesse are the pure at heart for they will see God abd Nota is good at heart . that girl was coming for the Green book and she got it.
Who would want to fight you Nota? You don’t listen.
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Learn how to have disagreements and loving a person the way they want to be loved.
Nota reminds me of every divorced woman who go on platforms to narrate their marriage story. If we are to call him a narcissist for, are we gonna a call the women narcissist too😂😂😂😂? I'm on cross roads with judging him. Berrita looks innocent because she's sweet and soft and Nota looks guilty cause he's the loud one. I honestly think the marriage just didn't work. No villain and no victim
Hayi Notha, wena you did nothing wrong. You are perfect but she is Narc. 3 fingers are pointing at you bro.
Enkosi Owamie ntombi!!!
...she filed because she was running out of tricks, they were catching up to her.
Nota a well informed man ❤
What he is saying about classism in South Africa is true. After watching how some west-africans operate, I realise that South Africans are not classist. I hope we don't get there
I learnt something today from Nota. I'm in Zimbabwe and yes classicism is very rife. I noticed when I was in South Africa that classicism is not as bad as in Zim.
@@maritawanazw Yes, I remember working with a Zimbabwean lady who was going her articles. She said in Zim future-chartered-accountant don't have to greet security guards & cleaners
Its the classic narci calling his victim a narci ke sana. Talking about a mirrored image of self on a partner. Berita will take time to heal from this delulu.
I just Love how Nota always refers everything back to His Parents, this really shows How good His Parents did in raising them, He doesn’t have any traumatic experience from His family background, Hr Only have good memories and I think coming from a black child, I applaud His parents for How well they did in raising this gentleman.
Nota is wild for this - he absolutely hated his ex wife
The moment he said he was perfect in his marriage, I stopped being interested in his explanation
Bathong Nota, this guy airing the ex wife’s parents dirty laundry is uncalled for.
The biggest misconception is someone has to yell at you or beat the shit out of you for it to be abuse
“My dad drove a Mercedes Benz” but he didn’t grow up “rich”💀
A Mercedes Benz is not rich. I think it’s perspectives. On what one regards as rich.
The way I laughed at most of the stuff he said😂😂😂… the level of delulu
At this point,madam speaker should have barita on the pod
😂😂😂😂from your side " NOTHING"😂😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣 Nothing to me
This guy needs to move on, by this time he should be talking about his new girlfriend and how his gyming