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all these women are recording their work out for what reason? to post on social media so thousands of people can stare at them because they think their hot stuff and too get adulation for it and told how pretty they are... were thousands of men will jerk off to them working out instead of just looking at them at the gym. maybe men wouldn't just stare and not speak to women in the real world if they were not so afraid of having a woman scream perv or some crap for simply showing interest in them in the real world. what the hell is wrong with their brains? for real send people this dumb all to an island. not to mention asking a man not to look at a naked women is asking him to fight every naturally born with instinct we have. if women like this were actually afraid and uncomfortable at the gym they would not wear skin tight or revealing cloths only then i would think they sincerely not want the attention. but if you were cloths that make you look naked then scream perv wen someone looks at you you have irrational mental issues.
As a woman, I'm always flattered when someone finds me attractive, especially since I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to the way I look. I hate it when these chicks say that they don't like it when people stare at them whilst at the same time, filming themselves for TikTok and wearing the most skin tight active wear possible 🙄.
Yup. You women are way more cruel and vicious towards one another than men are between ourselves. The chicks who do that are just playing a dominance game with you, to F with your head. No wonder why you're so self conscious about your body.
So. A couple years ago, I was working out 6 days per week... This one chick that I ended up talking with told me that she was excited to finally talk to me as she's been posting snap chats about me (with pics she took of me and videos) calling me her "gym boyfriend"... I was fine with it... But thought how badly it would be portrayed if I were to do the same thing. Facking hypocrites.
I've come to the conclusion that it's impossible to be a guy and not be a "creep" at the gym. I'm a straight guy and I tend to "stare at" whatever is in front of me, guy or girl, cuz that's where my head is facing. Some of these girls have overinflated egos sheesh
Really funny story. I'm in the gym one day and it's hella busy. I can only get half of the cable fly rack because a pair of women are using the other side. So, I'm doing my cable flies one pec at a time while these girls are doing some kind of pull-down right next to me. I'm really focusing, staring straight ahead ... then I realize that I'm staring right into the ass of one of these girls moving my arm downward in a lateral motion toward her while she is slightly bent over doing her pull-downs. This turned out in the best way possible. We both looked up to the mirror to check our forms at the same time and realized what it looked like, laughed, then readjusted to make it less awkward. But to your point, I had done a whole set before I realized that I had been staring directly at her ass the whole time.
c'mon, the dude that asked her out... what is wrong with that? Before online dating, that's how things went. You would walk up to a girl you're interested in and ask her out... good on him for mustering up the courage
He needs to work on his rizz tho first of all dont cold approac, second dont cold approach a woman whos doing something and lastly dont validate. Good luck bros 👊
@@R9naldo Nah cold approach is fine if done correctly. Ask if you can give them your number (don't ask for theirs) and that give them a choice without the pressure if they want to text you or not so theres no pressure. If they don't want your number just thank them for their time and move on. Its also great practice for just talking to the opposite sex.
Right?? Poor guy, he was literally so respectful and asked VERY politely lol it was a little cringy but he had the guts to go over there.. did nothing wrong. She could’ve been just as respectful and said no thank you instead of calling him a creep.
You know society has gone to sht when people go out their ways to destroy another person's life to earn some imaginary brownie points on a shitty app. As a straight male, I will comfortablely check out (but not stare for too long) at a guy with an admirable body shape, a funny t-shirt or doing something mildly interesting but whenever I spot female in the same scenario my head automatically turns away and my neck is locked to avoid "offending" someone. What a privilege I have.
Fucking well said... You've nailed it. They ultimately do it to justify their misandry and to virtue signal to strangers. Ultimately so that they can make themselves feel better. At the expense of making others feel worse for normal human behaviour. What a wonderful world we live in.
I could understand where the woman's coming from if you're giving them a thousand yard stare and maybe rubbing your nipple while licking your lips at the same time. I often look at a pretty girl with a passing glance, but I'm not going to stand on high alert because of some pretentious ****'s ego and double standards. Either take the compliment or go **** yourself.
Right?! In my experience, if the guy wearing a funny shirt realized I could not quite read his shirt, he'd make it so I could. Chicks love wearing clothing that is atention getting and complaining about getting it.
Last gymnasium I went to had sound alarm for making noise above a whisper, so I go to a Gold’s Gym and bought a training session, huge improvement from soy boi gym. And no homosexual police raid on the showers. LA fitness is notorious for lewd conduct in shower rooms. But the women who train at Gold’s gym are usually there in the evening. So I work out in morning 0555hr every other day then rest on the weekends. Tends to avoid the id10T crowd.
@@cfowler7936 These people do it to get likes from creeps on social media though, which is the issue with them getting angered by the creeps at the gym.
@@cfowler7936 The thing is most of the videos dont show their posture. You need a full body shot for that and obviously you need to make sure that you dont film nobody else. Or well you ask one of the coaches that are around to check your posture.
I used to go to a gym where you weren't allowed to take pics or film in the gym. That rule seemed ridiculous at the time but it makes lots of sense to me now.
Female here, yep I’ve checked guys out at gym lol. But sometimes like you said, after a hard set you are so exhausted you can stare and not know you are staring. Some of these women seem to be precious attention seekers and don’t really know what creepy is. It isn’t creepy to look or ask someone out. Creepy is that last guy who took video/photos or follows you so he can keep staring. The guy who looks because he finds you attractive and looks away because he doesn’t want to make you feel uncomfortable is a compliment!
Showing the world how men can't take their eyes off of you is so obvious, even as a guy it's self evident that they are bragging. If you're a woman and somehow don't understand this, I recommend watching Watamote
Yeh I get what you say but these attention seekers need to get out of the Gym. Either Go home or work outside because they are fine with making Everything and Everyone's time at the Gym Uncomfortable. It's this double standards that's not fair and wrong. Just because They're at the gym doesn't mean she need to make a big deal out of it and get them removed.
Sometimes people aren't staring, they're zoned out and lost in their own thoughts. They just happen to be looking in your direction. I know I've been guilty of this more than a few times. Most of the time I don't even realize that I'm doing it until I snap myself back to reality.
I do this all the time, either that or I'm waiting for equipment to become free or watching someone's technique (but I'm female so that's fine, it's also fine when I offer to help women struggling with something, to spot for someone, to ask where they got their clothes/bottle/towel..) stupid double standards!
You're in a gym, were you are stressing out muscle groups, and this requires significantly more blood to be diverted to those muscles, everyone will lose focus mentally.
@@iris4547 Yeah, that was pretty sad... Not entirely his fault though. He's just desperately trying to avoid having her pull out the rape whistle. And, even though he didn't get the whistle, he still got called a creep on the internet. Seems like his trepidation was justified.
Excuse me fellas, can I ask a quick question??? Let's say you're blind drunk(and possibly on other drugs, if you take them) at a dark night club taking a breather on a couch alone, and I'm there too, and so is a transvestite who you perceive to be a woman but who I know isn't, and then this creep sits down next to you and puts his hand on your thigh.... Would you like me to inform you that he's a man!?
I’m guilty of seeing a guy I found attractive at the gym. I approached him, initiated a quick convo and asked for his number. So, I guess that makes me the creep. But I mean, we did go out and started dating later on. Didn’t work out ultimately but we had fun and are still friends to this day 🤷🏼♀️
Kinda off topic but I really have a high level of respect for women like you who put themselves out there and actually ask men out instead of ALWAYS waiting for him to make the first move. You don't let society tell you that only a man should ask people out. You go after what you want and I respect that.
I'm a woman and I'm lucky that the gym I go to does not allow cameras at all. It means that there is no risk of creeps like the last guy in your vid. But it also means that there's no people with massive egos filming their workouts. We all get along fine in the gym, I've never been creeped on. And yer, we do look at each other every now and again, but I think it's usually curiosity about other people's work outs. If someone's lifting massive weights, doing some excersie I don't know or smashing it at boxersise then I'm gonna have a little look.
My biggest anxiety In life is the fact I’ll zone out and people think I’m staring at them or checking them out when I’m fact I didn’t even notice their existence
Ok, I know now how not to be a creep -don't be old -don't be ugly -be attractive I'm assuming also those gym videos go to social media where creeps look at them and share them with other creeps in their creepy circle of creepy friends the solution? Get money and get your home gym
That's what I was thinking. They upload these videos knowing full well that 80% of the people watching it and liking it are just going to be staring. What's the difference?
I've had some questionable lines that have actually worked: *Takes a drink of my drink "Fuck, that doesn't taste right. Try that and tell me if that tastes like Rohypnol? *Girl takes a sip "No, it doesn't." "You're coming home with me tonight." "Get your coat love." "HAHAHA, why have I pulled?" "No, I've got a knife." After the initial shock, she realised it was a joke. Still had sex with me afterwards though. I meant them as jokes but somehow it worked as a chat up line. Though fair play to him for shooting his shot. Could have been better, but at the same time it could have been worse. Hopefully he still keeps trying though, and doesn't run into any more bitches that dissuade his future attempts.
One very important point that Isaac forgot to mention is the fact that guys also check out other guys in the gym... You will always glance at a guy bigger and fitter than u.
You also forgot to mention their remarkable ability to make a big deal over nothing. Wow, a dude looked at you for a few seconds? What a crime against humanity. I notice ugly girls checking me out sometimes. I don't think "OMG HOW DARE THEY". It's just like....ok. The thought of publicly shaming them would never even enter my mind. Not that I'd even have that option as a man...
That type of behavior is not a sex thing, it's an arrogant/ignorant a-hole thing. I know lots of men who spend so much more time and energy dodging themselves than they would just owning the truth and being real. Sucky people suck, whether they have an innie or an outie does not factor.
@D I'm more annoyed with when they got off it a few times have a conversation for too long and get back on it again... It was like they made that equipment hostage... I was like hurry the fuck up, I wanna go home on this century. Lol
What I find the most hypocritical is how would any of these women know that people are looking at them if they're not looking around at people themselves.
I don’t consider someone who’s looking a creep. Recording a stranger, or blatantly following them around and straight up watching or staring to the point you aren’t actually working out, yes.
I fully agree. I filmed a girl recently at the gym not because I found her attractive but because she positioned herself in front of me and started wiggling her super skinny arms. At first I thought it's a prank or something, but it turned out to be her warmup routine. Now I regret it because she may have gotten the idea that I like her.
Not to mention, these girls are filming themselves. Whether with a tripod, a friend filming, or just a phone sitting on something. The pure act of them filming themselves draws attention to them. And what about the abundance of 'creeps' they're posting these workout videos on social media for, for them to do far worse than just stare at it.
Let's not kid ourselves, these women wear these skin tight clothing bevause they want to be seen, but when someone who doesn't meet her standards glances her way then she gets outraged.
Exactly I own a 69 Mustang that car is meant to be seen so why would I paint it shit brown if you dress the part expect the looks and don't complain when there not your type
I’m so happy filming and taking pictures is not allowed in my gym. Mainly because a gym is not a public place and privacy laws are in place, but also against creeps (m/f).
I'm Schizophrenic. Sometimes I just stare off into space and enter an alternate reality, especially when I'm listening to music. Which is usually what happens when I lift weights at the gym. One time this one girl walked in front of me and started doing squats without me cognitively noticing. I was literally in another dimension within my mind when she glared and yelled at me. The sheer awkwardness of snapping back to reality and having to explain that I'm schizophrenic, is something I will never forget XD
She started doing squats IN FRONT OF YOU. You are not to blame at all even if you aren't schizophrenic, she was probably trying to find a reason to be annoyed that day.
I think the common thread here is narcissism - these girls think that everyone is staring at them as a sort of confirmation bias. There are a couple of pieces of evidence that I used to come to this conclusion. The first is recording your workouts. Now I know there is benefits to recording yourself working out (e.g. check your form) but I think that some of them are clearly doing it for more than that (e.g. the girl who had a wireless lapel mic on her shirt to tell her creep story). The second is that they posted to TikTok. A normal person would maybe use the footage that just happened to catch this stuff to their gym's staff as evidence beyond what the CCTV can see. But no, they posted to TikTok to do the usual "omg guys look at me, pay attention to me, let me embellish or completely create motivations for others around me in the gym so I can be a victim!". Then, as usual in our society, anyone who has a nuanced opinion of these alleged creeps must be protecting, promoting and positively pleased for them.
I agree with you , back in the day nobody filmed even taking a picture was rare, I looked at virtually everybody, stared at some learning , watching giving tips ,how to use equipment, safety etc. Men and women in college I eventually worked in the weight room.
Ramitch, you said it well my friend. Here is my take on it, and it's not far from what your saying, These woman are under the impression that men will think they are more desirable if they are being stared or looked at. Think about it. When a women sees a man that has the ladies checking him out or congregating around him, or should he have a pretty women hanging onto or around him they suddenly find the man more desirable vs him being alone. This is a proven fact. But they mistakenly believe that men will rate them higher in attractiveness if she claims that the guys are constantly checking her out. Truth is that is not the case. We men will not rate a women one bit higher regardless if she's a loner or surrounded by a group of handsome men drooling over her. They post the video in hopes men will see this, and women too, and think oh my god she is so desirable, and I now think so much more of her. WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. Notice their fat ass is always in the video for all to see. I'm right as rain about this. I know how these type woman's brain works. They don't mind ruining someone's reputation in an effort to make others think they are so desirable in an effort increase her ranking among others.
This is what happens when society gives you points for being a victim... people go out of their way to claim victim hood, drowning out the true victims.
That’s really depressing. As a woman who’s about to re - join the gym it’s scary . I used to go to a very popular gym in London where we generally said hi to each other , asked how many sets you have left and it was normal to just walk around and smile at one another … sometimes I looked at someone because they simply had some cool trainers or were doing an exercise I wanted to repeat .. it’s all gone so weird now😢
Why are these people even filming themselves wearing the tightest clothing possible whilst exercising at a gym? They're going to put the best parts on social media. They need you to watch them, but only on their terms.
Seeking attention pretty simple. They need content so they can post it and get all these likes and ego pumping comments to inflate their oversized egos
13:45 Exactly, the guy probably found you really cute and been trying to muster up the courage to ask you out and maybe hang out or Something. But you go and post on tiktok and try to humiliate him for thinking he was "creepy" which he wasn't..He sounded genuine and maybe nervous. I know from expereicne how horrible women can be in these situations back in highschool and in my adult life when trying to socialize and ask a girl out. There's all kinds of em, from the nervous laugh girl that secretly thinks you're a creep, to the bitch who outright tells it to your face and worse things... Fucking hell whats with these women
It's part of the general thing where men are supposed to not be men anymore. How dare we have attraction. How dare we try to do anything about it when we do.
Eventually, the ladies will complain that they cant get a date as guys dont go up to talk to them at all. This is because they're afraid they'll be made out to be creepy.
i stare at people at the gym all the time... about 100% of the time, its when im driving home from kfc with my BBQ bacon stacker box and a 10 pack of wicked wings on the side.
It all boils down to integrity and courtesy. I film my big lifts strictly for myself and my coach (when I had one). TH-cam is literally the only social media I use so it stays in my phone. But even still, if someone is clearly in my shot, I ask them if it’s ok or just move.
@@robmarsh918 It's the same as on the street. When you notice someone trying to take a photo, you try to walk around them and not get in the shot. So long as you are not tying up a piece of equipment for half an hour setting up your camera and doing take after take, or treating the gym like your own personal film set then it should be fine.
I used to go to the gym very often (def can't now I destroyed my back and disabled), but I stopped when I first injured my back. Was there with my physio as their office was getting work done. I was in pain and pushing myself hard, I wanted to get better, sadly not a condition where that is possible. But apparently I was looking in the direction of someone, tbh I couldn't tell it was staring off in the distance whilst literal tears were filling my eyes from pain. I got slapped mid workout whilst working my back, ofc it scared tf put of me and made my hurt myself pretty bad. She started screaming at me whilst I'm in agony and shock, poor physio is trying to explain that no I'm currently disabled and in agony, and that I was just looking straight ahead and likely not even aware she existed, true. But no she went on a rant about how I'm a creep and disabled people shouldn't be in a gym anyway. Got banned from that gym and refused to ever go back. Seriously it's been I think 8 or so years, and I am actively terrified of stepping foot in a gym, and learnt fast that I no longer belong in a gym, does make me a little sad. As before I hurt myself, being an idiot and valuing my job over my health, I used to go to the gym daily after work. I guess the plus side is my body can no longer use any peice of equipment in a gym, does suck in alot of ways though as if I had kept going it might have allowed me to prolong how long I could walk properly (10mins of walking and I risk losing conciousness from pain).
@William Tell simple. Have you ever reported as a man to the police you got assaulted by a female? At best they will tell you to fk off. Worst its usually laughed at. Learnt that the hard way from my ex. When I called the cops after she beat tf out of me for snoring.
@William Tell Doesn't do shit, that''s why. I was in a road rage altercation with some dickhead 70 year old woman who stopped on a roundabout, got out of her car and then punched me through my window so I pushed her backwards and she fell down; she gets carted off in an ambulance, I called the cops, made a statement, was told she'd be charged with assault occasioning bodily harm >>> fast forward 6 weeks to check in as my lawyer advised me to - "Yeah it's still under investigation mate" ... So she obviously hasn't been charged with anything, but if the roles were reversed my face would be plastered on the front page of the news for sure.
wait YOU got banned? even if you were creeping (wich you obviously didn't like many others), the simple fact that she said disabled people shouldn't be in a gym, I would have banned her right away
@@KaosKrusher "being disabled or in pain isn't an excuse, you could have closed your eyes or turned your head" not exact words the manager used but the just of it is there. Alot more yelling was directed at me by the owner and the wonderful lady. Physiotherapist tried so hard and felt so bad about it all. I've learnt it's not worth risking anything like that.
I feel like this kind of stuff is exactly like if a women stares at a man muscles while they are doing bench presses, or whatever, but since it is a women doing it, it is fine, because woke people and society.
Nah it's just because men don't give a fuck about stupid shit like this.. women seem to think it's a form of assault but considering the lack of attention that alot of young men are getting from women, they welcome any of it.
PSA: Humans like looking at things they like. Also, if you don't want people staring at you stop wearing clothes that look like they were sprayed on. Other than a colour difference you're essentially naked.
I stopped going the gym, for a reason similar to this. Because I'm a larger guy who tried to change, I decided to join a gym, in doing so I had both women and men stare at me like I was a circus freak. Yet oddly if I'd of called it out, that would be classed as a well its a fatty on a treadmill who doesn't wanna watch. There was a difference between the sexes though, men used to sort of look and turn back, women however used to stare, with a face of disgust. But of course I'm a bloke, can't happen to me
Go back to the gym. The more people stare at you, and you get on with it like it doesn't bother you, the sooner it will stop bothering you. Just like you have to train your muscles by stressing them and making them hurt, is the same thing you need to do for your insecurities. The more you stress your insecurities, the less insecure you become. You're at the gym and someone is staring at you, finish doing what you're doing, then approach them and say: "Hi, my name's Ashley. I've just been doing a bit of cardio/weights/etc, to get in better shape." *Grab your belly "Just trying to get rid of this thing. You look in pretty good shape, is there anything that you would recommend?" That way, if you are doing something wrong, or there is a better way of doing the exercise, they are going to be more likely to approach you to give you advice. They then become vested in your progress.
Man, it SUCKS you felt so uncomfortable that you stopped going. However I hope you didn’t take that as a reason to give up on your fitness. Also, although I don’t doubt that people did stare, do you think it was also some gym anxiety that played into it. Usually when people are new to the gym and insecure about their weight, the common fear is feeling like everyone is looking at you when they aren’t. As a gym rat and personal trainer/coach, I can say a majority of people who go to the gym don’t care about others, and sometimes are to anxious themselves to judge others.
Every time I see someone taking charge of their health at the gym, i feel respect not disgust. I hate going when the meatheads go but I'm too old to care anymore
How to not be a creep; 1. Be over 6 foot 2. Earn a six figure salary 3. Have a perfect body/look like a model Fulfill the above criteria and zero women will complain about your attention. It's only a problem when you aren't a 10/10.
because if you have all that shes the one staring to see if you have a six inch pecker she can get (if you meet the first 3 criteria, if she deems that you dont meet the last one you are screwed)
I wish more people would see the camera and then just go stand in front of it and do their own workout. If they really wanted to up the troll-o-meter, fake outrage at being secretly filmed when they do "spot the camera". I'd watch a whole channel dedicated to that actually.
At my gym I’m the psycho who hits the heavy bag for an hour at a time, but the other day some chicks tried pulling this with the meager looking 20 year old guy.. they were yelling stop following us at him and he wasn’t even looking at them all red in the face so I went over without taking my gloves off and said “there you are dude, sorry I didn’t get your text had my gloves on, you done warming up let’s go!” And brought him over by me and told him the score, told him he didn’t do anything wrong but the only way to win this stupid game they’re playing is elevate yourself above them. Now I work out with the kid 3x a week
Statistic from years said most couples met at work or during hobbies. HR departement are founded, people are getting afraid being approached by strangers and single rate skyrockets...
The biggest creeps I've seen in the gym are women. This guy came with his gf and girls were still all over him, lol. Think Chris Hemsworth. I did offer him a blowie, too.
The problem with these TT videos is that they create a message to young women that going to the gym is an unpleasant or seedy experience, when most times it isn’t. Gyms should ban people from filming their workouts precisely because they can breach other users’ right to privacy. It also seems that the narcissism levels are off the scale, and these people really do think they are the centre of everyone else’s attention. When I’m at the gym I’m far more concerned with my workout than looking and staring at someone’s turd factory.
Posting their workout focusing their ass online for everyone to see, but then blaming someone who takes a glare in the gym. Thats some funny mental gymnastics 😂
Funny story happened 3 weeks ago. I tried out a gym close to me for the first time. I got new clothes, bottle, a Fitbit. I was raring to go. I used equipment like the rowing machine, bike, treadmill. I noticed this man kept staring at me. I was getting really weirded out because he was doing it from across the gym. He walks up to me and smirks saying "You still have your tags in your clothes. Thought you'd like to know" After I thanked his over and over, my face becoming red with embarrassment he just nods and continues to do what he was doing. So I had been using the gym with discounts tags dangling from behind the whole time. 😂
@@bradmcgrath358 Actually because I kept looking at him, I was stuck between me staring to much at him and him staring back at me. He was across the gym too. You sort of get stuck in this awkward stand off. I really can't explain it 😂 A lot of questions came up at once in my mind about why he was looking at me from so far away. I have a shaved head (donated my hair to a wig charity for kids with cancer) and people mistake me for lesbian or trans which I admit I thought that was the reason he was staring. I'm a little tubby, hence why I hit the gym and it's my first time so I was paranoid being honest. I did think a smidge that maybe he was staring for those "creepy" reasons, but I doubt that because, well, I'm working on myself to become better. I'm not a beaut. Like I said. I was more paranoid about being mistaken for being trans or whatever currently. Guess it depends on your insecurities what you think people are doing and thinking around yourself. But it was harmless, and a lesson to take with me to not care what people think. Especially at the gym. And to remember to remove the damn tags 😂
It's always so awkward when my gym routine causes me to fallow a girl around the gym. Like I'm sorry but I'm just doing my routine in the order that I do it every week and I do my routine that way because I like it. Not because I'm tryna cop a longer peek.
I've set up a home gym to avoid this kind of crap. I often would check out other peoples form. Especially when i first started so I could learn because I would be too embarressed to ask. It didn't matter if it was male or female. Later it became about trying to help others when they had bad form when I could see someone struggling. Life too short for harassment when trying to help yourself or others.
sorry, but I am a cis straight woman and if women at my gym were to take enough film, at some point they may catch me staring at their butt, legs, arms or some other body part. I am new to lifting and work out with some absolutely awesome, strong, skilled women. I watch them to learn good form and technique. Also, like everyone else, have those stare into space moments after a set, where it might look like am staring at something I'm not. Lastly, can we just stop for a moment and appreciate how beautiful the human body can be; have we got to the point where appreciation of a beautiful body cannot be separated from sexualising that body? As an ex-dancer, I grew up using my body to make art; really sad if we can no longer admire/respect the culmination of someone's hard work and effort. S**t I lift weights for a bunch of reasons; one big one is to look good naked......so.......
@@chadcadsonvii5258 exactly!! I wanna bet a lgbtq person made up that word to emasculate straight people because homophobes call them fruitcakes, fairy's and offcourse sissy's wich is probably also the word they derived it from. People need to stop normalizing that fake word.
"Don't look at me" she says, while filming herself doing squats in spray-on shorts and then posting it on a public, global site like TikTok where she wants as many people as possible to look at her.
Let me know in one of these men run up and grab them by the ass and run their tongue cross their cheeks. Or maybe they're following them around like a stalker. How the hell did we go from "look, but don't touch" to "oh my God, he violated me with his male gaze!"
this sort of thing really pisses me off as im legally blind in my right eye due to problems with the internal part of the eye that connect to the brain due to early life issues like neglect by my so called real parents which to me are dead but due to that i have had to learn to fully adapt to only having one eye which means i will without any real control change the way im looking within a few secs and have been called out as a perv a few times in the past a lot to be honest but with most people that do this after i explain and then show them the fact that my right eye will not even react to anything within a 90 degree range of movement but can see to an extent on the exact angle of 180 degrees they say sorry and everyone goes about their day but i have had a fair few of them think im lying in which case they try to have me charged at which point i have my lawyer present the entire history of the medical visits related to my eye to the court and the persons claim is thrown out
I had this guy once follow me around the gym. He wasn't wearing gym gear and wasn't working out. I'd move to different equipment around a corner and he'd follow me, but not even use anything or workout. He was staring at me the whole time and it does get quite intimidating/aggravating. I told one of the male staff members who started watching this guy. After a bit the member of staff asked the guy to leave. The kind of people that do this are like that guy who stalked that girl and went to the police about her father, saying that she refused to be with him 😬😬
it was like that at the gym i used to go to as well . women in barely any clothing would hog the front of every spot so if you looked forward in the direction you would face on the machine there they are half naked and right there . how do you not look at least a little bit, women do this on purpose they cant be that stupid to think nobody is going to look. Guys should not have to look backwards or all over or alter their workout plans because women want to play that game and get all offended
Wait let me get this straight, girls get offended when you look at them at the gym in person but post this on the internet so infinitely many more guys can objectify them. like wtf is this logic
@@lightbringer9940 Lmao And you don’t if she does. I usually like to lean toward being nice than being a dick with such things. So if my response makes me a simp, your response makes you an incel.
The. These women wonder why there’s “no more nice guys!” Good men are TERRIFIED to say or do anything because of this snotty behavior. They can barely breathe without being accused of being offenders. It’s so sad.
And this, this is exactly why I stare at the floor/ceiling the entire time I’m at the gym. And it sucks because I get asked why I’m so antisocial and unfriendly at the gym. I’m not trying to be. 1) I’m there to work on myself 2) I want to be left alone and 3) I don’t want to feel like I’m a creep just because I happened to glance in a woman’s direction cause I don’t want to trip on something.
I stare at people at the gym when they completely show me up and I want to compliment them for being much fitter and stronger then I am and how I wish to one day be on that level myself but I'm too anxious to say anything. I'm a larger fella so it looks creepy even when I do it to guys.
How can be in the wrong for "looking too long"....they literally wear the tightest "active wear" possible which they could be wearing sweats. And theyre filming themselves to post it on social media. As long as they arent harassing them, following them around, etc....then they arent doin anything wrong imo.
The irony of posting something like this about someone looking at you for a bunch of people you don't know to stare at you on a screen is something else.
This is specifically why for the past 3 years I started going to the gym earlier and earlier. These days I go to the gym around 2 and leave at 3 something before women like this start flocking the scene. After lockdown when the gyms reopened, I took note of the types of people that come in the gym at the time we were forced to and it was enough for me not to want to go at 7, 6 or 5 in the morning. Attention seeking women go there to do their selfies and to blatantly garner attention. There was an incident where this heavy set, or thicc as they call them these days, white chick came to the gym in some really really short shorts and a super revealing top. As a man sure I saw but the type of workouts she was doing took the cake for me. She went to the most populate area and did squats, good for her, but every time she did a set her cheek were exposed and she had to constantly readjust her clothing. It wasn't until a female manager spoke to this chick that she reworked her clothing choice, not sure how that convo went but she sorted herself out. I see this with other grown women. Why wear something you know is going to get a reaction from people and will blatantly make you uncomfortable? Rather than having that thought, I just go to the gym when I know women in these types or clothes or just women in general are not there. Thus far size increased, cardiovascular improved, changed my work hours so I can go to work early and leave early giving my more time to sleep, and peace of mind. No distractions and whoever these women are supposedly dressing up for and desiring attention from I am sure they get it past 4 am when I am done. Like I said I saw these women all the time and it would be odd to say dress appropriately to not get unwanted attention, but who am I to tell women to use logic. DO what you want and the same result will happen. My only advice to other men, just go at a time that works for you.
Recipe: Take 3 parts social media, add victim mentality, a holier than thou attitude mixed with exhibitionism and a touch of paranoia. Top it with entrapment and moral outrage then serve it with a side of "all the problems in the world are caused by men" and you have the perfect recipe for Instagram likes.
As a woman I look around a lot at the gym. Often because I am impressed by the ability, showing how you got those biceps, legs, butt etc(regardless of sex). But I am usually working out and my eyes are wandering.
I feel amazed by the fact that these women perceive the world revolves around them. When I am at the gym resting between sets I might be looking at somewhere and my brain is dead, I think about nothing at all because I am just waiting. I observe the same behavior in other dudes.
Quick tip. as you're looking away gag in a very animated way. Make it look like you threw up in your mouth a little bit & had to choke it back down. No narcissist is going to post a video of someone almost throwing up at the sight of them.
One time I was in the gym with a friend and this young woman walked in wearing some uhh form fitting clothes let's say and sadly I stared a bit too long but in an effort to cover I set up my face like I was damn near disgusted and looked away. My friend knew what I was doing but said anyone else seeing my reaction would've totally thought I was sickened to my core or just gay lol
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all these women are recording their work out for what reason? to post on social media so thousands of people can stare at them because they think their hot stuff and too get adulation for it and told how pretty they are... were thousands of men will jerk off to them working out instead of just looking at them at the gym. maybe men wouldn't just stare and not speak to women in the real world if they were not so afraid of having a woman scream perv or some crap for simply showing interest in them in the real world. what the hell is wrong with their brains? for real send people this dumb all to an island. not to mention asking a man not to look at a naked women is asking him to fight every naturally born with instinct we have. if women like this were actually afraid and uncomfortable at the gym they would not wear skin tight or revealing cloths only then i would think they sincerely not want the attention. but if you were cloths that make you look naked then scream perv wen someone looks at you you have irrational mental issues.
Bad eggs?. We're fuckin rotten m8!
Everyone with access to TikTok is allowed to look at my ass.
But guys in the gym are not.
Well said.
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#1 Comment right there 💯👍
As a woman, I'm always flattered when someone finds me attractive, especially since I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to the way I look. I hate it when these chicks say that they don't like it when people stare at them whilst at the same time, filming themselves for TikTok and wearing the most skin tight active wear possible 🙄.
maybe she don't like that some strangers can get to see for free that she charges others to see
@@rodiusmaximus ^
That's very true.
As a woman with a beard I'm never complimented which is understandable.
Yup. You women are way more cruel and vicious towards one another than men are between ourselves. The chicks who do that are just playing a dominance game with you, to F with your head. No wonder why you're so self conscious about your body.
So. A couple years ago, I was working out 6 days per week...
This one chick that I ended up talking with told me that she was excited to finally talk to me as she's been posting snap chats about me (with pics she took of me and videos) calling me her "gym boyfriend"... I was fine with it... But thought how badly it would be portrayed if I were to do the same thing.
Facking hypocrites.
Jesus. That's insane :/
Hopefully she didn't kill your pet or anything crazy like that! Steer clear of obsessive psychos.
@@Rn-pp9et yeah. We had one date, and that was it.. She doesn't know where I live... I think. 😅
Run Run Run
If the roles were reversed you'd probably be on some list somewhere as a pest and crucified by society....
I've come to the conclusion that it's impossible to be a guy and not be a "creep" at the gym. I'm a straight guy and I tend to "stare at" whatever is in front of me, guy or girl, cuz that's where my head is facing. Some of these girls have overinflated egos sheesh
exactly eyes in front of head its not like we are lizards with 360 degree sight you look at whats in front of you.
Amen to that! Some of the Egos on these People are off the Charts.
Really funny story. I'm in the gym one day and it's hella busy. I can only get half of the cable fly rack because a pair of women are using the other side. So, I'm doing my cable flies one pec at a time while these girls are doing some kind of pull-down right next to me. I'm really focusing, staring straight ahead ... then I realize that I'm staring right into the ass of one of these girls moving my arm downward in a lateral motion toward her while she is slightly bent over doing her pull-downs.
This turned out in the best way possible. We both looked up to the mirror to check our forms at the same time and realized what it looked like, laughed, then readjusted to make it less awkward. But to your point, I had done a whole set before I realized that I had been staring directly at her ass the whole time.
c'mon, the dude that asked her out... what is wrong with that? Before online dating, that's how things went. You would walk up to a girl you're interested in and ask her out... good on him for mustering up the courage
Woman complain they are alone, same woman complain men talk with them.
He needs to work on his rizz tho first of all dont cold approac, second dont cold approach a woman whos doing something and lastly dont validate. Good luck bros 👊
@@R9naldo Nah cold approach is fine if done correctly. Ask if you can give them your number (don't ask for theirs) and that give them a choice without the pressure if they want to text you or not so theres no pressure. If they don't want your number just thank them for their time and move on. Its also great practice for just talking to the opposite sex.
Right?? Poor guy, he was literally so respectful and asked VERY politely lol it was a little cringy but he had the guts to go over there.. did nothing wrong. She could’ve been just as respectful and said no thank you instead of calling him a creep.
@@Jim-dy4wv naw I like the old days where men didn’t go to clubs but hit women on head with club and drag them to their new home.
I apologize to people at the gym if I stare at them I'm usually so cracked out on caffeine that I don't know what's going on
That's a very fair point
Dream come true that THEE Isaac Butterfield responded to my comment 🙇
@@Peteyzee98 it’s not just Isaac Butterfield it’s LORD ISAAC BUTTERFIELD. f you to the moon
@@IsaacButterfield Mate. That's a very fair point mate.
@@JuanMartinez-bv1ds True aye! Don't think I've ever seen it...wtf!
You know society has gone to sht when people go out their ways to destroy another person's life to earn some imaginary brownie points on a shitty app.
As a straight male, I will comfortablely check out (but not stare for too long) at a guy with an admirable body shape, a funny t-shirt or doing something mildly interesting but whenever I spot female in the same scenario my head automatically turns away and my neck is locked to avoid "offending" someone. What a privilege I have.
Fucking well said... You've nailed it.
They ultimately do it to justify their misandry and to virtue signal to strangers. Ultimately so that they can make themselves feel better. At the expense of making others feel worse for normal human behaviour.
What a wonderful world we live in.
I could understand where the woman's coming from if you're giving them a thousand yard stare and maybe rubbing your nipple while licking your lips at the same time. I often look at a pretty girl with a passing glance, but I'm not going to stand on high alert because of some pretentious ****'s ego and double standards. Either take the compliment or go **** yourself.
Just live your life don't let the weak programmed people dictate how you live yours
Right?! In my experience, if the guy wearing a funny shirt realized I could not quite read his shirt, he'd make it so I could.
Chicks love wearing clothing that is atention getting and complaining about getting it.
Last gymnasium I went to had sound alarm for making noise above a whisper, so I go to a Gold’s Gym and bought a training session, huge improvement from soy boi gym. And no homosexual police raid on the showers. LA fitness is notorious for lewd conduct in shower rooms. But the women who train at Gold’s gym are usually there in the evening. So I work out in morning 0555hr every other day then rest on the weekends. Tends to avoid the id10T crowd.
You know what is creepy? Filming your work out.
Really creepy.
I've seen girls do it before and always get management to get them to stop.
People do it to learn from their mistakes (readjust posture, etc) but yeah some people smirking at themselves as they flex is weird
@@cfowler7936 That's what mirrors are for
@@cfowler7936 These people do it to get likes from creeps on social media though, which is the issue with them getting angered by the creeps at the gym.
@@cfowler7936 The thing is most of the videos dont show their posture. You need a full body shot for that and obviously you need to make sure that you dont film nobody else. Or well you ask one of the coaches that are around to check your posture.
I used to go to a gym where you weren't allowed to take pics or film in the gym. That rule seemed ridiculous at the time but it makes lots of sense to me now.
Female here, yep I’ve checked guys out at gym lol. But sometimes like you said, after a hard set you are so exhausted you can stare and not know you are staring.
Some of these women seem to be precious attention seekers and don’t really know what creepy is. It isn’t creepy to look or ask someone out. Creepy is that last guy who took video/photos or follows you so he can keep staring. The guy who looks because he finds you attractive and looks away because he doesn’t want to make you feel uncomfortable is a compliment!
Showing the world how men can't take their eyes off of you is so obvious, even as a guy it's self evident that they are bragging. If you're a woman and somehow don't understand this, I recommend watching Watamote
Yeh I get what you say but these attention seekers need to get out of the Gym. Either Go home or work outside because they are fine with making Everything and Everyone's time at the Gym Uncomfortable. It's this double standards that's not fair and wrong. Just because They're at the gym doesn't mean she need to make a big deal out of it and get them removed.
Sometimes people aren't staring, they're zoned out and lost in their own thoughts. They just happen to be looking in your direction. I know I've been guilty of this more than a few times. Most of the time I don't even realize that I'm doing it until I snap myself back to reality.
Same. They could also be looking past the person. I have done that many times and then realize that someone might think I am staring at them.
Totally get that, have people ask me what I'm looking at when zoned out. However, I don't remember sh*t as I was lost in my mind
Yeah get it all the time usually just staring right through someone I don't even realise someone is there most the time.
I do this all the time, either that or I'm waiting for equipment to become free or watching someone's technique (but I'm female so that's fine, it's also fine when I offer to help women struggling with something, to spot for someone, to ask where they got their clothes/bottle/towel..) stupid double standards!
You're in a gym, were you are stressing out muscle groups, and this requires significantly more blood to be diverted to those muscles, everyone will lose focus mentally.
Good on that one guy for shooting his shot, takes balls to approach a stranger like that, especially in this culture
can see he drank the woke kool-aid though. he was asking permission to ask each question.
He went full retard. Never go full retard!
@@iris4547 Yeah, that was pretty sad... Not entirely his fault though. He's just desperately trying to avoid having her pull out the rape whistle. And, even though he didn't get the whistle, he still got called a creep on the internet. Seems like his trepidation was justified.
He seemed like a dude who's watched pick up artist videos and actually took them seriously.
It’s only creepy when it’s a guy they think is ugly. Once it’s a guy they find attractive it’s cute.
On the other hand, women can stare at a dude they like all day and noone bats an eye.
Not gym girl narcissists. They'll do anything for a little bit of attention.
yeh it's total bullshit and they should and will be called out everytime women try this shit
Excuse me fellas, can I ask a quick question???
Let's say you're blind drunk(and possibly on other drugs, if you take them) at a dark night club taking a breather on a couch alone, and I'm there too, and so is a transvestite who you perceive to be a woman but who I know isn't, and then this creep sits down next to you and puts his hand on your thigh....
Would you like me to inform you that he's a man!?
@@timothybellette8178 most likely yes
I’m guilty of seeing a guy I found attractive at the gym. I approached him, initiated a quick convo and asked for his number. So, I guess that makes me the creep. But I mean, we did go out and started dating later on. Didn’t work out ultimately but we had fun and are still friends to this day 🤷🏼♀️
And can you can tell me why it didn’t workout? I might date a 23 year old single mom from the gym
@@theworldisimmense Brother, do you really want to raise another man's child ? That's weak.
Kinda off topic but I really have a high level of respect for women like you who put themselves out there and actually ask men out instead of ALWAYS waiting for him to make the first move. You don't let society tell you that only a man should ask people out. You go after what you want and I respect that.
I'm a woman and I'm lucky that the gym I go to does not allow cameras at all. It means that there is no risk of creeps like the last guy in your vid. But it also means that there's no people with massive egos filming their workouts. We all get along fine in the gym, I've never been creeped on. And yer, we do look at each other every now and again, but I think it's usually curiosity about other people's work outs. If someone's lifting massive weights, doing some excersie I don't know or smashing it at boxersise then I'm gonna have a little look.
My biggest anxiety In life is the fact I’ll zone out and people think I’m staring at them or checking them out when I’m fact I didn’t even notice their existence
Ok, I know now how not to be a creep
-don't be old
-don't be ugly
-be attractive
I'm assuming also those gym videos go to social media where creeps look at them and share them with other creeps in their creepy circle of creepy friends
the solution?
Get money and get your home gym
That's what I was thinking. They upload these videos knowing full well that 80% of the people watching it and liking it are just going to be staring. What's the difference?
@@JustapErson Bro I bought a bench and adjustable dumbbells and it is the best, no more worrying about creeps checking me!
You forgot no.4 - have money
@@MyPepex Same! I exercise at home now. Is way better!
The attractive dudes are the creepiest!! Just shows you don’t get it at all. 😂😅
We need to normalize asking people out irl again. Good for that one guy for reaching out to someone he found attractive. I do
I've had some questionable lines that have actually worked:
*Takes a drink of my drink
"Fuck, that doesn't taste right. Try that and tell me if that tastes like Rohypnol?
*Girl takes a sip
"No, it doesn't."
"You're coming home with me tonight."
"Get your coat love."
"HAHAHA, why have I pulled?"
"No, I've got a knife."
After the initial shock, she realised it was a joke. Still had sex with me afterwards though.
I meant them as jokes but somehow it worked as a chat up line. Though fair play to him for shooting his shot. Could have been better, but at the same time it could have been worse. Hopefully he still keeps trying though, and doesn't run into any more bitches that dissuade his future attempts.
I thought that was so cute!
@@Kazamajin08 I'm not reading your nonsense novel of a comment. Try again.
@@humbleheathen69 I'm sure he's gutted
@@KhanCarnivore utterly. I know its hard sometimes but the truth hurts.
It almost makes me want to go back to a commercial gym to find some of these women and troll them.
One very important point that Isaac forgot to mention is the fact that guys also check out other guys in the gym... You will always glance at a guy bigger and fitter than u.
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Always be 'mirin bruh!
Guilty, here!
Never underestimate a woman’s ability to rationalize her bad choices and avoid accountability and blame
JD is on every videos I watch, hey comfort stranger!
Just like a child
You also forgot to mention their remarkable ability to make a big deal over nothing. Wow, a dude looked at you for a few seconds? What a crime against humanity. I notice ugly girls checking me out sometimes. I don't think "OMG HOW DARE THEY". It's just like....ok. The thought of publicly shaming them would never even enter my mind. Not that I'd even have that option as a man...
That type of behavior is not a sex thing, it's an arrogant/ignorant a-hole thing. I know lots of men who spend so much more time and energy dodging themselves than they would just owning the truth and being real. Sucky people suck, whether they have an innie or an outie does not factor.
Never underestimate a person's ability to gaslight you into rationalizing someones bad behaviour so they avoid responaibility for said bad behaviour.
It's okay to record people at the gym as long as they don't notice you hiding in their locker.
🤣🤣
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Or the backseat of her car, with chloroform and a rag...
and you don't have to hide well during halloween because you can play it off
Or notice that you are disguised as a BENCH. 😎
I stare at people all the time at the gym. Only to see if the person will ever get done on that exercise machine yet who fuckin takes forever on it. 😅
Yep..
thats where i thought the guy with no rizz was going after asking how many sets she had left
I stare a people occupying two out of the 3 squat racks for themselves.
@D I'm more annoyed with when they got off it a few times have a conversation for too long and get back on it again... It was like they made that equipment hostage... I was like hurry the fuck up, I wanna go home on this century. Lol
@@michaelvanderlaan5629 ok i'll stop using all the racks ...lol
What I find the most hypocritical is how would any of these women know that people are looking at them if they're not looking around at people themselves.
I don’t consider someone who’s looking a creep. Recording a stranger, or blatantly following them around and straight up watching or staring to the point you aren’t actually working out, yes.
I fully agree. I filmed a girl recently at the gym not because I found her attractive but because she positioned herself in front of me and started wiggling her super skinny arms. At first I thought it's a prank or something, but it turned out to be her warmup routine. Now I regret it because she may have gotten the idea that I like her.
Social media has caused IQ levels to drop dramatically
Or it gave to many idiots a voice
@@shnook8484 could be but I think these platforms breed a kind of laziness or weakness of character
Naw communist taking over governments through media and political and academic paths have made people dumb.
@@bababooey827 Thats part of it
I disagree, I think it merely exposed more than ever exactly how fucking stupid some people are.
Not to mention, these girls are filming themselves. Whether with a tripod, a friend filming, or just a phone sitting on something. The pure act of them filming themselves draws attention to them.
And what about the abundance of 'creeps' they're posting these workout videos on social media for, for them to do far worse than just stare at it.
Now realizing I posted this comment too early
Exactly..i would look too if someone was filming themselves lol. Ive never seen anyone do that in the gym so i would find that so weird xD
Those creeps online can give them likes tho. 😂
Let's not kid ourselves, these women wear these skin tight clothing bevause they want to be seen, but when someone who doesn't meet her standards glances her way then she gets outraged.
Exactly I own a 69 Mustang that car is meant to be seen so why would I paint it shit brown if you dress the part expect the looks and don't complain when there not your type
Pretty much. Or they are gluttonous to play victim for them likes.
They are literally videoing themselves...
well yeah, they need guys to glance over. How else will they generate content for their Tiktok?
Exactly
I’m so happy filming and taking pictures is not allowed in my gym. Mainly because a gym is not a public place and privacy laws are in place, but also against creeps (m/f).
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2 Types of guys at the gym
1. The one who outright looks.
2.The one smart enough to use the mirror to look.
I look and i dont care.. come at me bit@h
The GOAT
You missed the 3rd type of guys, the ones who could give a f less, is there to get that pump.
I'm Schizophrenic. Sometimes I just stare off into space and enter an alternate reality, especially when I'm listening to music. Which is usually what happens when I lift weights at the gym. One time this one girl walked in front of me and started doing squats without me cognitively noticing. I was literally in another dimension within my mind when she glared and yelled at me. The sheer awkwardness of snapping back to reality and having to explain that I'm schizophrenic, is something I will never forget XD
At least you’re self aware
Imagine playing minecraft in your brain while deadlifting double your body weight without noticing 😂
She started doing squats IN FRONT OF YOU. You are not to blame at all even if you aren't schizophrenic, she was probably trying to find a reason to be annoyed that day.
Sometimes when I'm tired and talking to people I look down at probably around chest height. Very awkward when I don't realise I'm doing it.
I'll have to remember that one. 😁
I think the common thread here is narcissism - these girls think that everyone is staring at them as a sort of confirmation bias. There are a couple of pieces of evidence that I used to come to this conclusion. The first is recording your workouts. Now I know there is benefits to recording yourself working out (e.g. check your form) but I think that some of them are clearly doing it for more than that (e.g. the girl who had a wireless lapel mic on her shirt to tell her creep story). The second is that they posted to TikTok. A normal person would maybe use the footage that just happened to catch this stuff to their gym's staff as evidence beyond what the CCTV can see. But no, they posted to TikTok to do the usual "omg guys look at me, pay attention to me, let me embellish or completely create motivations for others around me in the gym so I can be a victim!". Then, as usual in our society, anyone who has a nuanced opinion of these alleged creeps must be protecting, promoting and positively pleased for them.
I agree with you , back in the day nobody filmed even taking a picture was rare, I looked at virtually everybody, stared at some learning , watching giving tips ,how to use equipment, safety etc. Men and women in college I eventually worked in the weight room.
Absolutely
Ramitch, you said it well my friend. Here is my take on it, and it's not far from what your saying, These woman are under the impression that men will think they are more desirable if they are being stared or looked at. Think about it. When a women sees a man that has the ladies checking him out or congregating around him, or should he have a pretty women hanging onto or around him they suddenly find the man more desirable vs him being alone. This is a proven fact. But they mistakenly believe that men will rate them higher in attractiveness if she claims that the guys are constantly checking her out. Truth is that is not the case. We men will not rate a women one bit higher regardless if she's a loner or surrounded by a group of handsome men drooling over her. They post the video in hopes men will see this, and women too, and think oh my god she is so desirable, and I now think so much more of her. WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. Notice their fat ass is always in the video for all to see. I'm right as rain about this. I know how these type woman's brain works. They don't mind ruining someone's reputation in an effort to make others think they are so desirable in an effort increase her ranking among others.
if you're so scared and offended when you're being looked at then don't leave the house...
... if you don't want people looking at you, don't video yourself and then post it online...
The most ridiculous part is that they don’t want people looking at them but they film themselves working out for people to look at…
Weird that gyms even let you film because you will always end up filming random people and they probably don't want that.
This is what happens when society gives you points for being a victim... people go out of their way to claim victim hood, drowning out the true victims.
Women creep all the time. Then you call them out on it and they call you insecure and saying things like "So what if they looked."
I love how all these women are complaining but they putting all this stuff online for everyone to see forever its really is a weird world we live in
You can look at a girl for literally a couple seconds and she pull the “toxic masculinity makes me feel unsafe” card
That’s really depressing. As a woman who’s about to re - join the gym it’s scary . I used to go to a very popular gym in London where we generally said hi to each other , asked how many sets you have left and it was normal to just walk around and smile at one another … sometimes I looked at someone because they simply had some cool trainers or were doing an exercise I wanted to repeat .. it’s all gone so weird now😢
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Remember guys. Its only weird to them if they aren't attracted to you.
Why are these people even filming themselves wearing the tightest clothing possible whilst exercising at a gym? They're going to put the best parts on social media. They need you to watch them, but only on their terms.
Right. like at 15:06, we got a better view of her than the guy that glanced at her.
Seeking attention pretty simple. They need content so they can post it and get all these likes and ego pumping comments to inflate their oversized egos
13:45
Exactly, the guy probably found you really cute and been trying to muster up the courage to ask you out and maybe hang out or Something. But you go and post on tiktok and try to humiliate him for thinking he was "creepy" which he wasn't..He sounded genuine and maybe nervous. I know from expereicne how horrible women can be in these situations back in highschool and in my adult life when trying to socialize and ask a girl out. There's all kinds of em, from the nervous laugh girl that secretly thinks you're a creep, to the bitch who outright tells it to your face and worse things...
Fucking hell whats with these women
Women are horrible in general lol. It's the good ones that make life worth living.
It's part of the general thing where men are supposed to not be men anymore. How dare we have attraction. How dare we try to do anything about it when we do.
No matter what people do someone will be upset
Eventually, the ladies will complain that they cant get a date as guys dont go up to talk to them at all. This is because they're afraid they'll be made out to be creepy.
i stare at people at the gym all the time... about 100% of the time, its when im driving home from kfc with my BBQ bacon stacker box and a 10 pack of wicked wings on the side.
I think the biggest problem is literally anyone taking a camera to the gym...
It all boils down to integrity and courtesy. I film my big lifts strictly for myself and my coach (when I had one). TH-cam is literally the only social media I use so it stays in my phone. But even still, if someone is clearly in my shot, I ask them if it’s ok or just move.
@@robmarsh918 It's the same as on the street. When you notice someone trying to take a photo, you try to walk around them and not get in the shot. So long as you are not tying up a piece of equipment for half an hour setting up your camera and doing take after take, or treating the gym like your own personal film set then it should be fine.
I used to go to the gym very often (def can't now I destroyed my back and disabled), but I stopped when I first injured my back. Was there with my physio as their office was getting work done.
I was in pain and pushing myself hard, I wanted to get better, sadly not a condition where that is possible. But apparently I was looking in the direction of someone, tbh I couldn't tell it was staring off in the distance whilst literal tears were filling my eyes from pain.
I got slapped mid workout whilst working my back, ofc it scared tf put of me and made my hurt myself pretty bad. She started screaming at me whilst I'm in agony and shock, poor physio is trying to explain that no I'm currently disabled and in agony, and that I was just looking straight ahead and likely not even aware she existed, true. But no she went on a rant about how I'm a creep and disabled people shouldn't be in a gym anyway.
Got banned from that gym and refused to ever go back. Seriously it's been I think 8 or so years, and I am actively terrified of stepping foot in a gym, and learnt fast that I no longer belong in a gym, does make me a little sad. As before I hurt myself, being an idiot and valuing my job over my health, I used to go to the gym daily after work. I guess the plus side is my body can no longer use any peice of equipment in a gym, does suck in alot of ways though as if I had kept going it might have allowed me to prolong how long I could walk properly (10mins of walking and I risk losing conciousness from pain).
@William Tell simple. Have you ever reported as a man to the police you got assaulted by a female? At best they will tell you to fk off. Worst its usually laughed at. Learnt that the hard way from my ex. When I called the cops after she beat tf out of me for snoring.
@William Tell Doesn't do shit, that''s why. I was in a road rage altercation with some dickhead 70 year old woman who stopped on a roundabout, got out of her car and then punched me through my window so I pushed her backwards and she fell down; she gets carted off in an ambulance, I called the cops, made a statement, was told she'd be charged with assault occasioning bodily harm >>> fast forward 6 weeks to check in as my lawyer advised me to - "Yeah it's still under investigation mate" ... So she obviously hasn't been charged with anything, but if the roles were reversed my face would be plastered on the front page of the news for sure.
wait YOU got banned?
even if you were creeping (wich you obviously didn't like many others), the simple fact that she said disabled people shouldn't be in a gym, I would have banned her right away
@@KaosKrusher "being disabled or in pain isn't an excuse, you could have closed your eyes or turned your head" not exact words the manager used but the just of it is there. Alot more yelling was directed at me by the owner and the wonderful lady. Physiotherapist tried so hard and felt so bad about it all.
I've learnt it's not worth risking anything like that.
@@azazeldeath -_-'
that manager is a true moron ...
5:09 Can't shake the feeling, the one confronting the guy has a deep sick hatred internally for males period.
If you are uncomfortable, tell the person, and have a good laugh and forget about it. There are far worse injustices in the world.
I feel like this kind of stuff is exactly like if a women stares at a man muscles while they are doing bench presses, or whatever, but since it is a women doing it, it is fine, because woke people and society.
and we wonder why young blokes are starting to get pissy
Nah it's just because men don't give a fuck about stupid shit like this.. women seem to think it's a form of assault but considering the lack of attention that alot of young men are getting from women, they welcome any of it.
Truth!
@@cooperholand Well, I care. It's really fuckin creepy, I don't go to a public gym anymore because of it.
PSA: Humans like looking at things they like.
Also, if you don't want people staring at you stop wearing clothes that look like they were sprayed on. Other than a colour difference you're essentially naked.
I stopped going the gym, for a reason similar to this. Because I'm a larger guy who tried to change, I decided to join a gym, in doing so I had both women and men stare at me like I was a circus freak. Yet oddly if I'd of called it out, that would be classed as a well its a fatty on a treadmill who doesn't wanna watch. There was a difference between the sexes though, men used to sort of look and turn back, women however used to stare, with a face of disgust. But of course I'm a bloke, can't happen to me
Go back to the gym. The more people stare at you, and you get on with it like it doesn't bother you, the sooner it will stop bothering you. Just like you have to train your muscles by stressing them and making them hurt, is the same thing you need to do for your insecurities. The more you stress your insecurities, the less insecure you become.
You're at the gym and someone is staring at you, finish doing what you're doing, then approach them and say:
"Hi, my name's Ashley. I've just been doing a bit of cardio/weights/etc, to get in better shape."
*Grab your belly
"Just trying to get rid of this thing. You look in pretty good shape, is there anything that you would recommend?"
That way, if you are doing something wrong, or there is a better way of doing the exercise, they are going to be more likely to approach you to give you advice. They then become vested in your progress.
Man, it SUCKS you felt so uncomfortable that you stopped going. However I hope you didn’t take that as a reason to give up on your fitness. Also, although I don’t doubt that people did stare, do you think it was also some gym anxiety that played into it. Usually when people are new to the gym and insecure about their weight, the common fear is feeling like everyone is looking at you when they aren’t. As a gym rat and personal trainer/coach, I can say a majority of people who go to the gym don’t care about others, and sometimes are to anxious themselves to judge others.
Your health is waaaaay more important than those idiots at the gym. Screw those people, tbh.
Every time I see someone taking charge of their health at the gym, i feel respect not disgust. I hate going when the meatheads go but I'm too old to care anymore
Cheers guys. Given me some encouragement too go again
Heaven forbid if the poor guy suffers from those “Staring Seizures”.
that old guy looked seriously pissed off with her actions in front of him
How to not be a creep;
1. Be over 6 foot
2. Earn a six figure salary
3. Have a perfect body/look like a model
Fulfill the above criteria and zero women will complain about your attention. It's only a problem when you aren't a 10/10.
because if you have all that shes the one staring to see if you have a six inch pecker she can get (if you meet the first 3 criteria, if she deems that you dont meet the last one you are screwed)
And make all that known or obvious, of course
I can confirm that 1 and 2 aren't even required
Idek Rodger Elliot didn't look half bad himself and was practically loaded. Look at how he ended up.
Love it that you defended the person who seemed nervous it's great of you
Love the fact that these chicks film their workouts and if a guy did it it would be called secret filming.
I wish more people would see the camera and then just go stand in front of it and do their own workout. If they really wanted to up the troll-o-meter, fake outrage at being secretly filmed when they do "spot the camera". I'd watch a whole channel dedicated to that actually.
At my gym I’m the psycho who hits the heavy bag for an hour at a time, but the other day some chicks tried pulling this with the meager looking 20 year old guy.. they were yelling stop following us at him and he wasn’t even looking at them all red in the face so I went over without taking my gloves off and said “there you are dude, sorry I didn’t get your text had my gloves on, you done warming up let’s go!” And brought him over by me and told him the score, told him he didn’t do anything wrong but the only way to win this stupid game they’re playing is elevate yourself above them. Now I work out with the kid 3x a week
"People can't look at my snatch in real life, it's creepy, they have to go online to see it."
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Statistic from years said most couples met at work or during hobbies. HR departement are founded, people are getting afraid being approached by strangers and single rate skyrockets...
The biggest creeps I've seen in the gym are women. This guy came with his gf and girls were still all over him, lol. Think Chris Hemsworth. I did offer him a blowie, too.
Wears revealing clothes........ Gets upset when anyone looks at them.
The problem with these TT videos is that they create a message to young women that going to the gym is an unpleasant or seedy experience, when most times it isn’t. Gyms should ban people from filming their workouts precisely because they can breach other users’ right to privacy.
It also seems that the narcissism levels are off the scale, and these people really do think they are the centre of everyone else’s attention.
When I’m at the gym I’m far more concerned with my workout than looking and staring at someone’s turd factory.
Posting their workout focusing their ass online for everyone to see, but then blaming someone who takes a glare in the gym.
Thats some funny mental gymnastics 😂
I’d argue that glancing is about 0-3sec any longer and it starts to get weird
Funny story happened 3 weeks ago. I tried out a gym close to me for the first time. I got new clothes, bottle, a Fitbit. I was raring to go. I used equipment like the rowing machine, bike, treadmill. I noticed this man kept staring at me. I was getting really weirded out because he was doing it from across the gym. He walks up to me and smirks saying "You still have your tags in your clothes. Thought you'd like to know" After I thanked his over and over, my face becoming red with embarrassment he just nods and continues to do what he was doing.
So I had been using the gym with discounts tags dangling from behind the whole time. 😂
we don't hate we're glad you're getting fit and want to see more people like you
but your first thought was he was creep. at any point did you apologise to him for that?
Haha funny
@@bradmcgrath358 There's no need for her to apologize for a thought in her head.
@@bradmcgrath358 Actually because I kept looking at him, I was stuck between me staring to much at him and him staring back at me. He was across the gym too. You sort of get stuck in this awkward stand off. I really can't explain it 😂 A lot of questions came up at once in my mind about why he was looking at me from so far away. I have a shaved head (donated my hair to a wig charity for kids with cancer) and people mistake me for lesbian or trans which I admit I thought that was the reason he was staring. I'm a little tubby, hence why I hit the gym and it's my first time so I was paranoid being honest. I did think a smidge that maybe he was staring for those "creepy" reasons, but I doubt that because, well, I'm working on myself to become better. I'm not a beaut.
Like I said. I was more paranoid about being mistaken for being trans or whatever currently. Guess it depends on your insecurities what you think people are doing and thinking around yourself. But it was harmless, and a lesson to take with me to not care what people think. Especially at the gym. And to remember to remove the damn tags 😂
It's always so awkward when my gym routine causes me to fallow a girl around the gym. Like I'm sorry but I'm just doing my routine in the order that I do it every week and I do my routine that way because I like it. Not because I'm tryna cop a longer peek.
I have decided, I will never join a gym. I daydream a lot so I'll definitely get in trouble for starring at nothing 🤦♂️
I've set up a home gym to avoid this kind of crap. I often would check out other peoples form. Especially when i first started so I could learn because I would be too embarressed to ask. It didn't matter if it was male or female. Later it became about trying to help others when they had bad form when I could see someone struggling. Life too short for harassment when trying to help yourself or others.
I don't think that anyone should be filming in a gym....I can't understand people who need to record every moment of their lives
sorry, but I am a cis straight woman and if women at my gym were to take enough film, at some point they may catch me staring at their butt, legs, arms or some other body part. I am new to lifting and work out with some absolutely awesome, strong, skilled women. I watch them to learn good form and technique. Also, like everyone else, have those stare into space moments after a set, where it might look like am staring at something I'm not. Lastly, can we just stop for a moment and appreciate how beautiful the human body can be; have we got to the point where appreciation of a beautiful body cannot be separated from sexualising that body? As an ex-dancer, I grew up using my body to make art; really sad if we can no longer admire/respect the culmination of someone's hard work and effort. S**t I lift weights for a bunch of reasons; one big one is to look good naked......so.......
Agreed, but please don't use their stupid words, "cis" is not a word, language is a tool and a weapon don't arm the enemy.
@@chadcadsonvii5258nice one mate I was away to say same thing!! Common sense prevails over made up words yippee 🤪🤪👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@@chadcadsonvii5258 exactly!! I wanna bet a lgbtq person made up that word to emasculate straight people because homophobes call them fruitcakes, fairy's and offcourse sissy's wich is probably also the word they derived it from.
People need to stop normalizing that fake word.
where in the world are gals like you at. things have gone mad in the past few years. you are a rare one for sure.
I look at other women at the gym too! Like wow!! I wish I looked like that! 🤩😜
I can't wait till one of these girls get sued for defamation.
It'll get thrown out immediately
@@nthgth and the plaintiff probably arrested lmao
I built a home gym because gyms are so god damn toxic.
gyms aren't toxic, people are toxic.
Hmm should build my own church and starbucks then
no expectation of privacy while in public
That last one is so obviously fake, you can tell because none of them can act.
I guess men are supposed to wear blind folds at the gym...... 🙄
"Don't look at me" she says, while filming herself doing squats in spray-on shorts and then posting it on a public, global site like TikTok where she wants as many people as possible to look at her.
That’s exactly what I was thinking
Let me know in one of these men run up and grab them by the ass and run their tongue cross their cheeks. Or maybe they're following them around like a stalker. How the hell did we go from "look, but don't touch" to "oh my God, he violated me with his male gaze!"
@@evildoughboy7773 because it’s 2022 and the age of victim hood
this sort of thing really pisses me off as im legally blind in my right eye due to problems with the internal part of the eye that connect to the brain due to early life issues like neglect by my so called real parents which to me are dead but due to that i have had to learn to fully adapt to only having one eye which means i will without any real control change the way im looking within a few secs and have been called out as a perv a few times in the past a lot to be honest but with most people that do this after i explain and then show them the fact that my right eye will not even react to anything within a 90 degree range of movement but can see to an extent on the exact angle of 180 degrees they say sorry and everyone goes about their day but i have had a fair few of them think im lying in which case they try to have me charged at which point i have my lawyer present the entire history of the medical visits related to my eye to the court and the persons claim is thrown out
I simply wear baggy clothes and headphones instead of dressing to impress. It works
10:50 judging by the look on his face he was probably thinking ''what sh!ty form!''
I had this guy once follow me around the gym. He wasn't wearing gym gear and wasn't working out. I'd move to different equipment around a corner and he'd follow me, but not even use anything or workout. He was staring at me the whole time and it does get quite intimidating/aggravating. I told one of the male staff members who started watching this guy. After a bit the member of staff asked the guy to leave. The kind of people that do this are like that guy who stalked that girl and went to the police about her father, saying that she refused to be with him 😬😬
it was like that at the gym i used to go to as well . women in barely any clothing would hog the front of every spot so if you looked forward in the direction you would face on the machine there they are half naked and right there . how do you not look at least a little bit, women do this on purpose they cant be that stupid to think nobody is going to look. Guys should not have to look backwards or all over or alter their workout plans because women want to play that game and get all offended
Wait let me get this straight, girls get offended when you look at them at the gym in person but post this on the internet so infinitely many more guys can objectify them. like wtf is this logic
As a 32 year old woman with kids, I can now appreciate Cat Calling because it's like, hey you! You looking fine... Well obviously I'm not fine now.
Ooh boi, don't tell She-Hulk that.
32 is not old. I’m sure you look amazing 😊
@@robmarsh918 simp she doesn't deserve that compliment
@@lightbringer9940 Lmao And you don’t if she does. I usually like to lean toward being nice than being a dick with such things. So if my response makes me a simp, your response makes you an incel.
Where I live guys can get a $500 ticket for "cat calling" a woman.
The. These women wonder why there’s “no more nice guys!” Good men are TERRIFIED to say or do anything because of this snotty behavior. They can barely breathe without being accused of being offenders. It’s so sad.
And this, this is exactly why I stare at the floor/ceiling the entire time I’m at the gym. And it sucks because I get asked why I’m so antisocial and unfriendly at the gym. I’m not trying to be.
1) I’m there to work on myself 2) I want to be left alone and 3) I don’t want to feel like I’m a creep just because I happened to glance in a woman’s direction cause I don’t want to trip on something.
There are compilations of women perving on guys they find cute and posting them on social media without their approval. Rules for thee, but not for me
I stare at people at the gym when they completely show me up and I want to compliment them for being much fitter and stronger then I am and how I wish to one day be on that level myself but I'm too anxious to say anything. I'm a larger fella so it looks creepy even when I do it to guys.
Just go up to them and ask them for advice.
@@Kazamajin08 anxiety does not allow me to easily approach people the same way other people can.
How can be in the wrong for "looking too long"....they literally wear the tightest "active wear" possible which they could be wearing sweats. And theyre filming themselves to post it on social media.
As long as they arent harassing them, following them around, etc....then they arent doin anything wrong imo.
You can't thirst trap on your socials in sweats
The irony of posting something like this about someone looking at you for a bunch of people you don't know to stare at you on a screen is something else.
This is specifically why for the past 3 years I started going to the gym earlier and earlier. These days I go to the gym around 2 and leave at 3 something before women like this start flocking the scene. After lockdown when the gyms reopened, I took note of the types of people that come in the gym at the time we were forced to and it was enough for me not to want to go at 7, 6 or 5 in the morning. Attention seeking women go there to do their selfies and to blatantly garner attention. There was an incident where this heavy set, or thicc as they call them these days, white chick came to the gym in some really really short shorts and a super revealing top. As a man sure I saw but the type of workouts she was doing took the cake for me. She went to the most populate area and did squats, good for her, but every time she did a set her cheek were exposed and she had to constantly readjust her clothing. It wasn't until a female manager spoke to this chick that she reworked her clothing choice, not sure how that convo went but she sorted herself out. I see this with other grown women. Why wear something you know is going to get a reaction from people and will blatantly make you uncomfortable? Rather than having that thought, I just go to the gym when I know women in these types or clothes or just women in general are not there. Thus far size increased, cardiovascular improved, changed my work hours so I can go to work early and leave early giving my more time to sleep, and peace of mind. No distractions and whoever these women are supposedly dressing up for and desiring attention from I am sure they get it past 4 am when I am done. Like I said I saw these women all the time and it would be odd to say dress appropriately to not get unwanted attention, but who am I to tell women to use logic. DO what you want and the same result will happen. My only advice to other men, just go at a time that works for you.
Recipe: Take 3 parts social media, add victim mentality, a holier than thou attitude mixed with exhibitionism and a touch of paranoia. Top it with entrapment and moral outrage then serve it with a side of "all the problems in the world are caused by men" and you have the perfect recipe for Instagram likes.
Whenever I see someone filming in the gym I go Karen. I don't want to be shamed online for looking around
I’ve had a girl doing squats with a wedge in front of me and I was resting and I just watched… who cares
These women are all creeps for recording others without their permission.
I'm confused why some of these people are complaining about people supposedly staring at them if they're literally recording themselves...
As a woman I look around a lot at the gym. Often because I am impressed by the ability, showing how you got those biceps, legs, butt etc(regardless of sex). But I am usually working out and my eyes are wandering.
I feel amazed by the fact that these women perceive the world revolves around them. When I am at the gym resting between sets I might be looking at somewhere and my brain is dead, I think about nothing at all because I am just waiting. I observe the same behavior in other dudes.
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Quick tip. as you're looking away gag in a very animated way. Make it look like you threw up in your mouth a little bit & had to choke it back down. No narcissist is going to post a video of someone almost throwing up at the sight of them.
One time I was in the gym with a friend and this young woman walked in wearing some uhh form fitting clothes let's say and sadly I stared a bit too long but in an effort to cover I set up my face like I was damn near disgusted and looked away. My friend knew what I was doing but said anyone else seeing my reaction would've totally thought I was sickened to my core or just gay lol
When they hurt themselves, don’t run over to help, you’ll be accused of “being a creep”.