Being boy crazy is a sign of a person who is mentally unstable or has gone through terrible trauma. I've had several "friends" like this. I do NOT want their lives and don't want them in my inner circle and world. I used to be this person too. I had to quickly course correct due to learning some heartbreaking lessons and being humbled. I went to therapy and got to the root of my toxic mindset during the pandemic. The constant thirst for men and their attention... past 30, absolutely no excuse for that kind of mindset or behavior.
I had several close family members and "friends" who used to harass me about getting married or having children. Nothing about focusing on my education or finances which would have been more essential to my life then having babies while being poor. Meanwhile, they had NOTHING to show for their obsessive devotion to XYs except poverty, mental illness and abuse. Now, I realized that they were envious of my youth, health and freedom. Now I realize that many of these people that were giving me "advice" were mentally unwell, brainwashed, toxic and insecure. I'm grateful that on some level I could tell that their advice wasn't to be trusted even at a young age.
My mom is like this. When she told me one day (I was 16 then) to put on more clothes while at the house, I just knew I could not live with her and I would never be like her. And this was not even a new guy this was a man she was dating and living with for more than 6-7 years.
This was my "Best" friend in high school. SOOOO male centered. She still is and we are almost 50 now. I let her go 20 years ago because I couldn't with her disappearing for months? years? at a time for some man. And messing with married men, men in relationships, loser, abusive men. Nope. I told her the truth and wished her well.
I’m on the verge of ending friendship with someone like this. Like whatever we do or meet up is all about men. I want to talk about life our work goals or kids, etc. But I start talking about that. It always comes back to men and how disappoint she is and how they ghost her. It’s so annoying.
This popped up in my feed and it’s my first time seeing this channel. I had a friend who was this way and I had to end the friendship after a few years. I feel guilty sometimes because we had great friendship chemistry. I know it hurt her feelings that I didn’t want to be friends anymore. But I was in a point in my life where I was working on myself and my own history of getting into toxic relationships. I knew she couldn’t come with me on that journey. This video is so validating that I made the right choice.
Being boy crazy is a sign of a person who is mentally unstable or has gone through terrible trauma. I've had several "friends" like this. I do NOT want their lives and don't want them in my inner circle and world.
I used to be this person too. I had to quickly course correct due to learning some heartbreaking lessons and being humbled. I went to therapy and got to the root of my toxic mindset during the pandemic.
The constant thirst for men and their attention... past 30, absolutely no excuse for that kind of mindset or behavior.
I had several close family members and "friends" who used to harass me about getting married or having children.
Nothing about focusing on my education or finances which would have been more essential to my life then having babies while being poor.
Meanwhile, they had NOTHING to show for their obsessive devotion to XYs except poverty, mental illness and abuse. Now, I realized that they were envious of my youth, health and freedom.
Now I realize that many of these people that were giving me "advice" were mentally unwell, brainwashed, toxic and insecure. I'm grateful that on some level I could tell that their advice wasn't to be trusted even at a young age.
My mom is like this. When she told me one day (I was 16 then) to put on more clothes while at the house, I just knew I could not live with her and I would never be like her. And this was not even a new guy this was a man she was dating and living with for more than 6-7 years.
This was my "Best" friend in high school. SOOOO male centered. She still is and we are almost 50 now. I let her go 20 years ago because I couldn't with her disappearing for months? years? at a time for some man. And messing with married men, men in relationships, loser, abusive men. Nope. I told her the truth and wished her well.
I’m on the verge of ending friendship with someone like this. Like whatever we do or meet up is all about men. I want to talk about life our work goals or kids, etc. But I start talking about that. It always comes back to men and how disappoint she is and how they ghost her. It’s so annoying.
Yeah she’s never gonna change
@@sass1826 yea I’ve accepted it. We’re too old for it. I’m 32 and she’s 41. 🫤
This popped up in my feed and it’s my first time seeing this channel. I had a friend who was this way and I had to end the friendship after a few years. I feel guilty sometimes because we had great friendship chemistry. I know it hurt her feelings that I didn’t want to be friends anymore. But I was in a point in my life where I was working on myself and my own history of getting into toxic relationships. I knew she couldn’t come with me on that journey. This video is so validating that I made the right choice.
JUST dropped a friend that was boy crazy and sess addicted. She finally betrayed me for a man:/
Lord I have stories.
My mother kicked all her children out for a really horrible man. Its an addiction like crack
So sorry that happened to you
These are true facts
I would categorise you as a big sister ❤
I would put you in the hypergamy guru/ social climbing guru category
❤❤❤