When you said that women need to make peace with being single for the rest of their life it really resonated with me. I used to be a pickmeisha and a few years ago something clicked for me and I realized I didn't give an F anymore about being single and that I'd be fine no matter what. Only then I deleted the dating apps, stopped entertaining dusties and BS with men and started putting myself first. Even now that I'm in a relationship, I'm not scared about losing my fiancé, so if he started on some BS I'd be out the door immediately and I don't need to make an effort to "impress" him because I don't care and in return he does everything in his power to make me happy. It's so freeing and such an important step in leveling up. Your content back then really helped me wake up and do better.
If you can't afford coffee or don't want to spend for it I don't want to meet you ever. That said just because you might have, doesn't mean I owe you anything.
One time a man offered a drinks date and i laughed in his face. Like gtfo of here with your drinks idea as if i dream of drinking cocktails with my price charming.
Part of me wonders if men have so much spite towards women, that they want her to think shes not worth anything and thats why they offer coffee or walking dates. Or the whole “women dont want a nice guy” so they think they should be a POS jerk by offering such awful dates.
They think women will fight for their love and approval just cause. They have a very high opinion of themselves and think they're the prize without bringing nothing and not investing in women. Women being more financially independent is protecting them from being used and dumped. These cheap dates are to get laid with as many women as they can and use those who accept this treatment, they will pull all the stops if they see the woman as a partner.
I always judge how a man treats me compared to how he would treat his dream woman. If I KNOW he would never treat his dream woman the same way he is treating me, for fear of losing her, I'm out because I'm not the one for him. I told this one guy that he's not afraid of losing me because he speaks so rough to me. I saved him the trouble by leaving him that day and never speaking to him again.
Luckily no man has been asking me for coffee for awhile. One man did and get this he was 61 years old…then lying saying the second date would be more glamorous what a JOKE.
@@alisond4914A little future faking from an old geezer no less! Lovely offer. I'm out of the market now, but good lawd, the bar is indeed in hell these days.
I went on the best dates in my early 20s. The quality of dates since 2020 has declined. A food related date is more than just a date. It’s a sure way to assess a man’s taste, style, manners, and etiquette. I know there are intentional people out there and I’m willing to wait. Better to wait to be treated right than to continue to kiss a bunch of frogs.
7:46 - 8:51 needs to be made into a short and shared. THAT is why a lot of women are willing to lower their standards into the sewers just so they can say that they “gotta man” - they’re not doing what you talked about in that segment. When they do what’s talked about in that segment, they DON’T accept below bare minimum from men. You dropped some valuable gems in this video, including explaining WHY dinner is the bare minimum, and no, it has NOTHING to do with being a “gold digger”.
Let's do a gas station date. It's where we both go to the gas station, pump our own gas, and wave at each other. Then if we feel the vibes we both go in and get sour patch kids candy....together 😂😂😂😂
Maybe I'm old, but being asked out to coffee used to mean affogato and waffles in the evening. Or going to a board game Cafe in the afternoon and having coffee and overpriced coffee cake while playing an obscure game for 2+ hours.
I'm a woman and I love walking around just talking. I've already suggested this to a man and we had a great date, the conversations are more fluid and we can explore the city (I live in Europe).😂❤
There’s nothing wrong with a walking or coffee date especially on the first three dates. It’s romantic and gives the two time to get to know one another.
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I’m never dating a man that refuses to spend money on me.
Period!
🏆🏆🏆🏆
Do you expect this treatment on the first date or later on in the relationship?
When you said that women need to make peace with being single for the rest of their life it really resonated with me. I used to be a pickmeisha and a few years ago something clicked for me and I realized I didn't give an F anymore about being single and that I'd be fine no matter what. Only then I deleted the dating apps, stopped entertaining dusties and BS with men and started putting myself first. Even now that I'm in a relationship, I'm not scared about losing my fiancé, so if he started on some BS I'd be out the door immediately and I don't need to make an effort to "impress" him because I don't care and in return he does everything in his power to make me happy. It's so freeing and such an important step in leveling up. Your content back then really helped me wake up and do better.
If you can't afford coffee or don't want to spend for it I don't want to meet you ever. That said just because you might have, doesn't mean I owe you anything.
A man tried to suggest that with me and I uninstalled the App on the spot.
One time a man offered a drinks date and i laughed in his face. Like gtfo of here with your drinks idea as if i dream of drinking cocktails with my price charming.
😂😂
In the parking lot?!😂 Not only a terrible date but a sketchy one as well.
A man refused to buy me lipstick from the Sephora and I ghosted him on the spot while pretending to go to the washroom
Girl I don’t blame you 😂
💋💋💋
😅💯
😂😂😂😂
Lol ❤🎉🎉🎉 good 😂😂😂
And they get mad when you decline both 😂
Dinner is the bare minimum
On the first date?
Part of me wonders if men have so much spite towards women, that they want her to think shes not worth anything and thats why they offer coffee or walking dates. Or the whole “women dont want a nice guy” so they think they should be a POS jerk by offering such awful dates.
They think women will fight for their love and approval just cause. They have a very high opinion of themselves and think they're the prize without bringing nothing and not investing in women. Women being more financially independent is protecting them from being used and dumped. These cheap dates are to get laid with as many women as they can and use those who accept this treatment, they will pull all the stops if they see the woman as a partner.
I have heard that most men hate us, which I didn't think was true but lately I'm seeing some truth to that statement.
I always judge how a man treats me compared to how he would treat his dream woman. If I KNOW he would never treat his dream woman the same way he is treating me, for fear of losing her, I'm out because I'm not the one for him. I told this one guy that he's not afraid of losing me because he speaks so rough to me. I saved him the trouble by leaving him that day and never speaking to him again.
They know better than to even ask me such thing! And if it ever happens it’s an immediate block and delete
Luckily no man has been asking me for coffee for awhile. One man did and get this he was 61 years old…then lying saying the second date would be more glamorous what a JOKE.
I had a 61 year old ask me to coffee but I’m in a thing now where I don’t let anyone pay for anything because I’m asexual you can’t get sex from me
@@alisond4914A little future faking from an old geezer no less! Lovely offer.
I'm out of the market now, but good lawd, the bar is indeed in hell these days.
I'm absolutely done with these hobos.
I went on the best dates in my early 20s. The quality of dates since 2020 has declined. A food related date is more than just a date. It’s a sure way to assess a man’s taste, style, manners, and etiquette. I know there are intentional people out there and I’m willing to wait. Better to wait to be treated right than to continue to kiss a bunch of frogs.
It's worse. They linger around you in public spaces. Literally lingering in your presence at a time you can't escape them. Like the bus or train. Lol
And they gain social points by being seen with us.
@@Khaegch-favh✅
7:46 - 8:51 needs to be made into a short and shared. THAT is why a lot of women are willing to lower their standards into the sewers just so they can say that they “gotta man” - they’re not doing what you talked about in that segment. When they do what’s talked about in that segment, they DON’T accept below bare minimum from men.
You dropped some valuable gems in this video, including explaining WHY dinner is the bare minimum, and no, it has NOTHING to do with being a “gold digger”.
Let's do a gas station date. It's where we both go to the gas station, pump our own gas, and wave at each other. Then if we feel the vibes we both go in and get sour patch kids candy....together 😂😂😂😂
lol 😂
Now THAT’S funny! 😂😂😂
Girl, don't give them fresh ideas! 😂
I might as well bring a dog leash if I go on a walk with a man 😂
Leave that dude he is NO fun 😂 booty bandits aren't worth the energy
Loving all your videos❤️❤️❤️
Those guys are just no fun 🎉
Maybe I'm old, but being asked out to coffee used to mean affogato and waffles in the evening. Or going to a board game Cafe in the afternoon and having coffee and overpriced coffee cake while playing an obscure game for 2+ hours.
OMG who’s accepting these dates?
Women lol
Women with very low self esteem just happy to be getting any kind of attention
The kinds of women those men don’t really want.
15:04 lmao @ him eating a steak with his hands 😭😭
I'm guilty of loving hot sauce & well done steak 🙈🙈🙈
Honestly I’d do coffee and ice cream dates but not walks or sitting in the car or in a free place doing nothing.
Nope
I'm a woman and I love walking around just talking. I've already suggested this to a man and we had a great date, the conversations are more fluid and we can explore the city (I live in Europe).😂❤
Goooood for youu!
You get it. The others don’t.
@@kisht7469. Yeah and we will prefer not to 😅😴🚮
@@gailainsley6939 Then don’t. No one’s forcing you to.
@@kisht7469 Then don’t bring us up 😂😴🚮
There’s nothing wrong with a walking or coffee date especially on the first three dates. It’s romantic and gives the two time to get to know one another.
Some people will never get it. Smh