Is Being Gay a Choice? A Gay Man's Perspective (and a Challenge to Parents!)

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  • @isaacrosenthal2372
    @isaacrosenthal2372 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm bisexual and it's the same way with me. I didn't choose my sexuality, it's something I am and was born with.

  • @prmgr0767able
    @prmgr0767able 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi James- THANK YOU for this video. I am 72 years old, and still in the closet. I never had the guts to come out. I am SO HAPPY for you, that you did come out. And, I am SO GLAD that you DID say that it is not a choice. ( Holding back my temper, now, at those who say that.) I watched a video years ago, from Mark, E, Miller, who posed the question to str8 people- '' WHEN DID YOU CHOOSE TO BE STR8?'' What a GREAT POST that was. I do enjoy watching you, and Daniel, and seeing you both together. THANK YOU for your post. Wishing you the best- Hugs....

    • @iamxjamesross
      @iamxjamesross  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for being here and supporting the journey! It is easy to forget how lucky we are to live in a time when it is not as socially unacceptable as it once was. I am sorry you had to live life that way. ❤️

  • @danielxmiller
    @danielxmiller 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm glad I'm gay. Gay and proud 🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈

  • @TedSawyer-v5o
    @TedSawyer-v5o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's SCIENCE!! for gawds sake!! Look at the SCIENCE!!! Gay people aren't going away.

  • @michaelschmidt7014
    @michaelschmidt7014 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi James, I am now 73. I first had feelings for guys at age 5 or 6 nothing sexual I just knew I enjoyed their company more than girls also I had always been told don't play with the girls. My earliest recallection was at age 6 my parents had a caregiver for me and my brother. One evening, before my parents picked us up, at the dinner table I was seated next to my caregiver's son who was about 12. I purposely brushed my arm against his as I just had this exceptionally warm feeling overtake me, I also noticed he did not move his arm away. I didn't know what to say or do at that time in my life I just knew it felt good and right. I didn't know anything about gay or straight I just knew that being around certain boys made my day.

  • @brucejohnson618
    @brucejohnson618 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thanks james, i am 76 and never out to anyone, GOD never gave me an answer so i got lonely at times. you tube has some
    answers now. your video is great helping younger people and i hope many see this. thanks again. now i just look at computer
    screens and hope some have cute shirtless guys like you and dan.

    • @prmgr0767able
      @prmgr0767able 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same here,bBruce, at 72 years old. James and others have made me feel better, in this cruel world. Love to you....

    • @iamxjamesross
      @iamxjamesross  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Bruce! ❤️ sending love to you, I hope one day you are able to express yourself how you truly feel inside!

  • @candor_xo
    @candor_xo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i wanna go back in lol

  • @rosies69
    @rosies69 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have 5k subs and not alot of views? Also i agree. My parents STILL think its a phase but in planning to get married to a man and getting estrogen soon 😂

    • @danielxmiller
      @danielxmiller 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's got tons of videos with thousands of views so not sure what you're talking about and where the negativity is coming from. Also this video was just posted today.

  • @digidol52
    @digidol52 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This "choice" question drives me nuts, straight people might as well say why don't you choose blue eyes, they would suit you? Depending on which country you live in being gay ranges from being inconvenient to highly dangerous and life-threatening. So why would anyone "choose" that?

  • @Chris_144_
    @Chris_144_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Babes God loves all of us! Stop thinking just because some old book says xyz we can’t embrace our own divinity as gay and queer children of God. Jesus loves the gays.