6 Ways To Be Instantly More Attractive

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  • @george8214
    @george8214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    59. Married for 30 years. Grown child. My life is WAY different than yours but I can still pick up bits and pieces from your posts and I’ll look forward to the next one!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you George!

  • @positivelydark
    @positivelydark 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have recently made the change from dressing in your normal jeans, t-shirt, and sneakers to button down oxfords or nice polos, chinos, and nice shoes. The difference in how I am treated, especially by women, has been amazing. While I was basically ignored and invisible in jeans and a t-shirt, now I get compliments and women look at me all the time. Dressing this way also makes me feel more confident and attractive, which has helped change my mood and my confidence, for the better. If you have not made the switch from jeans and t-shirt to a nice oxford shirt, chinos, and nice leather shoes, try it. You'll be amazed at how much better people treat you and the attention you'll get from women. BTW, I'm 53.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely true!

  • @SeanA.Skeete-wd4vi
    @SeanA.Skeete-wd4vi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    "Dress better than average". I like that. I am a substitute teacher here in Atlanta and the "compliments" come at me nonstop even from my teenage students of both genders. As always John you're batting 1000😊❤🎉!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you very much!

  • @chuckcribbs3398
    @chuckcribbs3398 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    John, you are 100% right about dressing neatly. Look at the workplace. It’s become sloppy and way too “it’s all about comfort.” I’ve been updressing per your suggestions and it really does make a difference. My wife has been very complimentary!

    • @noName-kn1lx
      @noName-kn1lx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think businesses need to rein this in. Tired of dealing w employees who look like they rolled out of bed.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good man! Thank you for sharing!

  • @calmingguitar1308
    @calmingguitar1308 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Another good video. With that textured polo combined with chinos and loafers, no wonder you got some compliments and heads turned Thanks for posting this video, love it!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much!

  • @scott88
    @scott88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have been watching your videos for quite some time. Over that last two years I have completely redone my wardrobe. I feel way more confident and feel a lot more comfortable now. More than I did when I was in my 30's (in my mid 40's now). It doesn't take much to look better. And.....IMO I would rather spend my money on looking better and dressing better than others. It goes a long way thats for sure.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing! Cheers!

  • @AlabamaSkunkApe
    @AlabamaSkunkApe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Make your bed - every day. Right when you wake up. Off to a great and productive start of the day!

  • @ronm6585
    @ronm6585 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thanks for sharing John.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My pleasure! Thanks for watching Ron!

  • @guyh.4553
    @guyh.4553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Can't remember which Commander it was but he was a Navy SEAL. His belief was "Make your bed 1st thing in the morning, that way you've done one good thing for the day and you're prepared to start the day out right." And that is why the military instills that into every soldier at basic. 😊😊😊

    • @Pentonavalsolutions
      @Pentonavalsolutions 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ADM Mc Raven.

    • @larrypresnall5360
      @larrypresnall5360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      William H McCraven. Read his book years ago!

    • @larrypresnall5360
      @larrypresnall5360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I see someone beat me to it. Still a great book tho!

    • @guyh.4553
      @guyh.4553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Pentonavalsolutions THANK YOU! That is who I was thinking of but couldn't remember. 😁😁😁

  • @chrisb3902
    @chrisb3902 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great video John!!!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

  • @mikereese15
    @mikereese15 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great tips as always. And you nailed it. So many of these things just build a sense of pride in you which overflows into so many other things. And thanks for the links.

  • @MarkGray-u4i
    @MarkGray-u4i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just puchased the collar stays from your link. Thanks, John. The "Snowball Effect" is 100% correct. You'll feel empowered, just by the doing. Keep it up and becomes a habit! Great advice, John!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @englishdave8635
    @englishdave8635 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love those slick collars, they make your shirts look great. I have 2 sets now, and don't wear a shirt without them. and you don't even know you have it on. thanks for putting me onto these John

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true! Thanks for commenting!

  • @northernmichigan4108
    @northernmichigan4108 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great advice, well done.

  • @dialedindetail5899
    @dialedindetail5899 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My main interests of passion are cars, watches and fashion so I definitely lean in 10:01 to those subjects. I know what you saying about the low bar. When I go out where I live I am usually the only guy in the room not wearing a T shirt and the only one who not only knows what a pair of chinos is but owns many pairs.
    Love your stuff dude!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much!

    • @scott88
      @scott88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh...I have chinos in almost every color of the rainbow. Trying to find some pink chinos....having a hard time finding my size.

  • @seanc546
    @seanc546 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm getting that slick collar! I hate how some of my dress/button-down shirts wind up looking if I'm not wearing a tie.

  • @ronpruitt3832
    @ronpruitt3832 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am pretty sure that I first heard of slick collar on one of your videos a couple years ago. I ordered a set but they only had two sizes back then. It doesn’t matter as I really only use the large size. They work great with my dress shirts. You don’t even realize you are wearing it until you start to take your shirt off. It is a great item to have. All my life I had limp plackets. Not anymore. These are highly recommended.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very cool! Yeah it’s funny, you take your shirt off and the thing goes flying across the room because you forgot you were wearing it! :)

  • @michaeltootikian4402
    @michaeltootikian4402 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent video John

  • @toobasaurus23
    @toobasaurus23 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for a great video, and the collar link.
    I've been looking for something exactly like that for a long time.
    Love from Australia 🇦🇺

  • @mariolafrance5806
    @mariolafrance5806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi John. Love those tips. The "dress better than average" stroke me in particular. It's so simple but so damn effective. Thanks !

  • @Angelbonilla1982
    @Angelbonilla1982 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    John always gives good advice!,🎉🎉

  • @KEITHZEALEY
    @KEITHZEALEY 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Solid advice. So little effort is needed to stand out in all aspects of life.

  • @lorisbarbieri7771
    @lorisbarbieri7771 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great advice as always! Thanks again.

  • @bcwrangler
    @bcwrangler 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video John! I enjoyed the acknowledgment from the ladies you're standing out.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much appreciated!

  • @anwarosman7804
    @anwarosman7804 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you verry much i like this Channel

  • @Dswank2419
    @Dswank2419 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All good words to live by, step it up boys! Thanks

  • @chrischater8645
    @chrischater8645 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video. Where'd you get the white polo?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right here on Amazon… amzn.to/3Q4ToAi

  • @markw4263
    @markw4263 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just ordered some of the collar thingies - they sound perfect for polo shirts (which my girlfriend likes but I don't). Thanks for the lead!

  • @greglewis20
    @greglewis20 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done video and content.
    I hang dry shirts and pants.
    I just spent three days attending Charlei Kirks People’s Convention in Detroit.
    I met young people from every state in the union.
    Most guys wore suits and ties and most women wore dresses.
    Amazingly, The guys shoes were coordinated with the color of their suits.
    Don Trump Jr. had on worn Adidas white tennis shoes and jeans that were way too long.
    He was one of many speakers including his father.

  • @alwayspooh1588
    @alwayspooh1588 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Again with the absolute stunner at 8:53 of the video!!! That lady is beauty personified! Who is she???

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ha! Wish I knew!

    • @alwayspooh1588
      @alwayspooh1588 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@40OverFashion Aaah man! Me too!

  • @scott88
    @scott88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hobbies are key (at least for me) of what makes me happy. I strive everyday to get just a little better at them. Even if its just for 10 minutes a day. It helps me feel that I got something accomplished (other than work stuff).

  • @1bigoptimus
    @1bigoptimus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    John these are all fantastic ideas. I've had similar situations like your mall experience. It's so easy to dress better than average because most guys don't really try, or worse don't dress there age. The other ideas are all great as well and things I live by. Great content. Keep it up.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much! Will do! Thanks for watching!

  • @MarkGray-u4i
    @MarkGray-u4i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Always adding value, John. Thanks brother.

  • @michaelhogue2891
    @michaelhogue2891 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Where did you get that Polo shirt your wearing with the Blue Chino's?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right here from Amazon… amzn.to/3QjT7tA

  • @anwarosman7804
    @anwarosman7804 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you

  • @tjman4943
    @tjman4943 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What shirt are you wearing in this one? I'd liketo find it or something similar

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry, that shirt is probably four or five years old from Nordstrom. The brand is their house brand called, calibrate.

  • @jonathanl2748
    @jonathanl2748 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video (As always)! I sure wish more guys would watch this channel as this is important info.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate that!

  • @emiliogarcia4367
    @emiliogarcia4367 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey John,
    Great videos, been watching them for a while. Quick question where did you get the white knit polo on this video? Thanks! Emilio

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is the Amazon link... amzn.to/3WshNUD

    • @emiliogarcia4367
      @emiliogarcia4367 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Brother

  • @bryansipes3601
    @bryansipes3601 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good points friend.

  • @movingart8026
    @movingart8026 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Another solid video! 💯

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!

    • @movingart8026
      @movingart8026 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@40OverFashion You're very welcome!

  • @southerngirl773
    @southerngirl773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great advise!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for watching!

  • @peterquinlan9411
    @peterquinlan9411 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the white knit polo, where did you purchase it ?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check out my Amazon video from last week… th-cam.com/video/w_q8FGiQqCw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VYWrKnIo8vQKzUH2

  • @carltonmcgee8878
    @carltonmcgee8878 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice tips. Acessories are an instant upgrade to ones attractiveness. While on the train a young lady sitting next me recognized my watch and complimented me on how nice it is. I told her that I collect watches, and this is a collector's piece. She thought that was interesting because she stated that she doesn't know anyone that collect watches. Peace.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There you go! Thanks for sharing!

  • @m.allenbruce8327
    @m.allenbruce8327 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My car stays clean. No one is allowed to eat or drink anything in my car. My shoes are always shined and my sneakers are always clean.

    • @ozzyolof9209
      @ozzyolof9209 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My boss would “judge”his employees by the way they looked after their cars

  • @G.Charles73
    @G.Charles73 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're a f'in DILF Johnny! That's awesome! If the younger chicks are tossing you compliments, you are on-point. Keep going on your mission brother, your progress is an inspiration to all of us.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate that! Thank you!

  • @wallylasuer6886
    @wallylasuer6886 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for help and content, 100% truth

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Wally! Cheers!

  • @hoozat007
    @hoozat007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The collar thing looks good. I just ordered a set through Amazon - I’m in Canada and the “flat-rate international shipping charge” was more than the product.

  • @RedRoyce
    @RedRoyce 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Like always good info! I was wondering how things are going with the TRT? Could you do an update? It would help many I'm sure who are on the fence about it. I'm 64 and yes my labs showed low but not below 300 so my GP said no. I said I was more then a report on paper and had all the tells of low T. Do I go to a clinic now? A question I'm looking into. Anyway it would be great to hear your update if you could or would like to. Thanks for all your help for us men.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely! Thanks for the suggestion! I’ll make an update soon. If you’re late 40s or older, and your T level is in the low 300s, I would consider talking to someone else.

  • @TheGreggmelvin04
    @TheGreggmelvin04 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the topic & information.
    #Legend

  • @davidwhelan5735
    @davidwhelan5735 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's a great shirt where is it from?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s actually from Amazon… amzn.to/3Q4ToAi

    • @davidwhelan5735
      @davidwhelan5735 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you.

  • @chrialivest
    @chrialivest 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As usual, interesting content.
    Always appreciated.
    #Legend family

  • @jaimerodriguez3408
    @jaimerodriguez3408 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To be fair that outfit you showed looks very good. I’m sure I would’ve stared at you if I was there. I own two Henley shirts that you don’t see anywhere, and when I wear them to the mall I get lots of looks from girls, so you’re right about that. Great video!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much!

  • @grozwano
    @grozwano 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great great video

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

  • @1533ramsay
    @1533ramsay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm with you on this video. I hate t-shirts.

  • @mort6913
    @mort6913 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Solid advise. 👍

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching! Much appreciated!

  • @mikram2613
    @mikram2613 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And people make sure you change the sheets once a week and when you get up in the morning lift the sheet put a stick under it and run the fan keeps the bed nice and fresh

  • @danielj3010
    @danielj3010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How good do you feel dressing well? The bar is set so low, so why not?

  • @spicykimchi1
    @spicykimchi1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    After that girl said, "Damn! He's fine," Kip Winger came out of nowhere, singing, "She's only 17!" And then you interrupted with, "Come on, man. That '80s song hasn't aged well. Now get back to work at the food court, Kip. That Sbarro's pizza isn't going to serve itself!"

    • @Toneloke-3000
      @Toneloke-3000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Kip is worth 3 million he's not working any food court. Still making music Still touring

    • @spicykimchi1
      @spicykimchi1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Toneloke-3000 I figured that Winger was doing well. I was actually going to use Gene Simmons with "Christine Sixteen," but he's obviously richer than Kip. Er... "Jailbait" by Motorhead? I sure that there are more rock songs about underage girls, but I'm drawing a blank.

    • @Toneloke-3000
      @Toneloke-3000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@spicykimchi1 LOL cherry pie comes to mind

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahaha! Love it! “Daddy said she’s too young, but she’s old enough for me”

    • @davegoetz8157
      @davegoetz8157 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't forget "Tonight I'm Gonna Rock You" off of the Spinal Tap movie.

  • @Tom-xj2eh
    @Tom-xj2eh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good video . Looks like that weight lifting program of yours is paying off, my respects.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate that! Still working on it!

  • @kenhowell8403
    @kenhowell8403 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Couldnt agree more about keeping your car and home clean. Mine arent immaculate but they are neat. It just shows that you have some self respect and you aremt waiting for mom to come and clean.

  • @richardfear6716
    @richardfear6716 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh your so true my house is spotless and car I make my bed everyday and funny I look like you lol

  • @loungejay8555
    @loungejay8555 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:22 I had no idea such a thing existed. I need one of those.

  • @alfacentauri3686
    @alfacentauri3686 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Classic point on the attitude to your profession. Are you just cutting stones or are you part of building a cathedral?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great perspective!

  • @kiwioutdooradventuresnewze4999
    @kiwioutdooradventuresnewze4999 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow was going to buy collar stays but when it came up $160 for shipping and after a laugh I think I will just have to put up with floppy collars

  • @defendingyourbrand6547
    @defendingyourbrand6547 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m gonna go wash my car now John! My Achilles heel.😂

  • @officialcamify
    @officialcamify 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Topics you choose and make videos are always good. Other youtubers like alpha m and alex costa should learn from you cause their videos are kind of repitative. You are my favourite TH-camr same as Ashley Weston ❤

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate that! Thank you!

  • @sparkyblazeup1
    @sparkyblazeup1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here in Oklahoma the dress code seems to be a t-shirt, overly long jeans and a baseball cap, even on special occasions.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep, same over here.

  • @bills2north
    @bills2north 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damn! The other day I held the door open for a lady & her friend she said, "Oh Thank-you, and what wonderful jacket!". I think they were in their mid-80's!!! 😂❤

  • @Shreadington
    @Shreadington 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks to your channel my style game is on level 10. My teenage daughter will come up to me and say, dad do a pose. She'll take a picture then send it to a friend that asked for a picture of me! It's an uncomfortable validation but like you, if young girls notice, I'm sure older ones do to. I recently just learned the DILF term as well lol. Thanks for the great content.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is awesome! Haha! Live well my friend!

  • @bobmetcalfe9640
    @bobmetcalfe9640 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As well as trying to be interesting, you should also be interested. The sling gets you more brownie points than talking.😁

  • @downpeppertreelane387
    @downpeppertreelane387 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would add to go out and try different food venues in person, instead of simply using Door Dash at home. Mix it up, find happy hours, and sit at the bar area, which is usually social...

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely! Very well said!

    • @noName-kn1lx
      @noName-kn1lx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Door dash?? Soggy expensive food eating at home? 🤮🤮

  • @omarcortes5754
    @omarcortes5754 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    They were right, you are fine. And guys, don't be nasty. Keep your house as clean as possible.

  • @stevejones7574
    @stevejones7574 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just tell them you're a pilot!🤣🤣

  • @Cuandoman
    @Cuandoman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hilarious thumbnail. The ever classic "throw a hot girl up here" method.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gotta play the game.

  • @johncoote5134
    @johncoote5134 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dress better than average - easy here in the U.K.
    buy cheap buy twice
    Buy classic - buy quality
    Mix match build
    Soooooooo easy

  • @bryngolden9133
    @bryngolden9133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Making your bed and having a clean house/ car is a proven stress reducer.
    No one wants to be around a stressed individual

  • @davidbowman2035
    @davidbowman2035 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just spotted the "Goodfella's" photo.😀

  • @jessdomingo3422
    @jessdomingo3422 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We feel sorry for you, John. Sometimes, being so good-looking like yourself is such a drag. Forgive those young girls because they only have good taste in classy men. 😊On a more serious note, again, many thanks for the insightful content as usual. Bringing another angle to being more attractive is truly enlightening. By the way, I took a screenshot of your outfit at the mall you mentioned. I will also try to wear it to the mall. Will be happy to get compliment even from the not so young. 😅

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ha! Much appreciated!

  • @alwayspooh1588
    @alwayspooh1588 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I see too many people with a lack of pride these days - their clothes, their car, their grooming, their front gardens, their speech. People need to take pride in these things. Like Jordan Peterson said: if you want to tidy up your life, start with your bedroom!!

    • @danielj3010
      @danielj3010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very simple, eat well, dress well, and exercise.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It really isn’t that hard!

    • @MarkGray-u4i
      @MarkGray-u4i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a professional in home sales person, I have found you can tell what's going on, on the inside of the house, by seeing whats going on in the outside of the house. A car up on blocks with an oil puddle and an unmowed lawn... that's what's going on inside too. Same with mankind. Sloppy dresser, overgrown hair, long nails and a dirty car... that's what's going on inside the man as well. Not to judge anyone, just a heads up on how we are perceived.

  • @alwayspooh1588
    @alwayspooh1588 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How to be more attractive: own a Ferrari, have lots of money - instant female attention! I quote Good Charlotte: girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money!!! Only (kind of) kidding. Great video John, and very relatable advice. Have a great day.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good one! Thanks for watching!

  • @Carl-x8y3c
    @Carl-x8y3c 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have found in my life that alot of men ask me what job do I do. I think some men judge me on what work I do. Conversation is very superficial. It's fine to like what you are wearing and feel good in it. But a person doesn't need to be dressing to make themselves more appealing to someone. That's shallow. I take a person how I find their personality and nature to be , not by what they are wearing.

  • @bobrew461
    @bobrew461 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6:03
    i wash my nice shirts by hand.

  • @francis.valencia
    @francis.valencia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Damn, he WAS fine. 🤣

  • @mrmillmill
    @mrmillmill 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There are people that are miserable though and its deeper than the desire to be attractive.

  • @grozwano
    @grozwano 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Clean shoes and in good condition

  • @davedove67
    @davedove67 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Look like you made an effort, instead of looking like you have given up.

  • @mynala110
    @mynala110 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You don’t want to have a limp placket 😂

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha! Nope! :)

  • @w.adammandelbaum1805
    @w.adammandelbaum1805 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Every girl is crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man"...with cash and net worth.
    You look like this guy, you won the gene pool in a Mayberry sort of motif.
    There are other venues than SoCal where women would find this gent "nice looking" but their lower forty wouldn't be getting irrigated any time soon. Blandsome.
    Still a good purveyor of useful content for those who aren't on the interoffice memo distribution list of style.

  • @alpabopo
    @alpabopo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most of this tips are very useful for men under 30. If you’re 30 + years old and you don’t know that you need to keep your place, car and clothes clean and organized, then it’s a lost cause.

  • @Project-Masculinity
    @Project-Masculinity 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get
    6 pack
    6 Foot tall
    6 Months single
    6 hundred HP car
    6 Figure Income
    6 inch’s down below

  • @e-dub6586
    @e-dub6586 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cant stand a messy car. I barely have anything in it. You would think i just bought it.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You and me both!

  • @gerdwollanck5990
    @gerdwollanck5990 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If the first thing someone is interested in is what i do for a living, i'm out.Tthen i immediately know how superficial the questioner is. yawn. He made a bad first impression.

  • @wallyg77
    @wallyg77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    DILF ALERT 😅😅😅😅

  • @robertreynolds2726
    @robertreynolds2726 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The number one way to be more attractive is to show them the money. You can be an overweight slob, but if you have money you won't have any problems

    • @w.adammandelbaum1805
      @w.adammandelbaum1805 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ah, truth among the bullshit.🤗

    • @michaelblazin4093
      @michaelblazin4093 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No it does not. Women want social validation. That is the currency that matters. She won’t get any standing next to that guy.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong. Keep telling yourself that if you want. It’s just an excuse.

    • @w.adammandelbaum1805
      @w.adammandelbaum1805 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michaelblazin4093 seen a bunch of rich slobs with hot women and I've seen some handsome guys toting farm animals. While it's better to be rich and well turned out, and it's better to be poor than ugly, still one learns from what is experienced in their environment. Women can get their validation from the car she is riding in that the slob owns, the jewelry he bought her, the champagne she's swigging. Those of us that don't make a living pushing feel good fashion advice aren't making excuses, they're observing reality.

  • @manuelluna5695
    @manuelluna5695 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bullshit, this is not for me. 😂

  • @Romero610
    @Romero610 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The only attraction they care about is the money. You can dress like crap, be out of shape, but if you got the cash, you get the ladies. It’s all about the coin bro. Money isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.