I was a former victim of a forced adoption as a baby during the baby scoop era of the early 70s and subsequent childhood abuse trauma via the adoptive parents
Thank you for sharing. Being with other adoptees is crucial for your healing process. This is a lifelong journey. Join our Free Support Groups here: Adult Adoptee Support Group- Virtual celia-center-adoption-constellation.mn.co/landing/plans/307068
Why? You don’t have to. Let peace and love come in. You get to make something of the life you been gifted. That includes your adoption. You’re here for a reason, live.
Unresolved attachment trauma can lead to borderline personality traits. The earlier you can treat your mental health, the better. Even in young adulthood, you can heal past traumas. Do not be ashamed, your mental health vulnerabilities are your strengths and your badge of courage is understanding them, making sense of them and creating a new narrative of your life. If you need a referral to an adoption therapist in your state, please email me jeanette@yoffetherapy.com
This person is toxic. You don’t need to take her word for truth. You can consider her ideas, but don’t look at them as law. If something she says is helpful to you, put it into action, but I think there are better ways to view our situation and placement in this life than what she talks about. I’m adopted too, but I have direction. I believe we all have a story to tell. We all have something to offer the world. And being adopted gives us a unique understanding and perspective on the world and others that not a lot of people have. We have gone/will go through a lot in our lives because of the terrible thing that’s happened. But we get to do something with the cards we’ve been dealt. Our suffering is useless unless we make something of it. Unless we learn and grow and use it to go help others. We can make such an impact if we choose to work through our heart and heal and share what we’ve learned with the world. I give you adoptees hope. There is life in the suffering. Please choose to make something of your suffering. We all want you to grow and heal and reach your potential. Let yourself grow and heal.
Ouch. Those are strong words. Is this the only video you have seen? I think you will find hope all throughout my channel. Healing takes time, many adoptees are not even aware of their vulnerabilities as you are. I am glad to hear you have found hope. Take good care.
She's Not toxic to me , she's describing my experiences during childhood and early adulthood, meet the client where they are we are all at different stages , autonomy is another stage if someone has the capacity .
I needed to hear this, I'm an adult adoptee. I am interested in positive experiences because I don't see or hear many sadly. Would I be able to DM you privately?
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I was a former victim of a forced adoption as a baby during the baby scoop era of the early 70s and subsequent childhood abuse trauma via the adoptive parents
Thank you for sharing. Being with other adoptees is crucial for your healing process. This is a lifelong journey. Join our Free Support Groups here: Adult Adoptee Support Group- Virtual
celia-center-adoption-constellation.mn.co/landing/plans/307068
I call myself an abductee
Why? You don’t have to. Let peace and love come in. You get to make something of the life you been gifted. That includes your adoption. You’re here for a reason, live.
@@eleahhaan8369 if someone is raped you don't have to call it that way ?
LMAO!! It's the dark humor for me! I was dropped (relinquished) off so abductee doesn't work! But still hilarious!
Do you think it causes boarderline personality or resembles it
Unresolved attachment trauma can lead to borderline personality traits. The earlier you can treat your mental health, the better. Even in young adulthood, you can heal past traumas. Do not be ashamed, your mental health vulnerabilities are your strengths and your badge of courage is understanding them, making sense of them and creating a new narrative of your life. If you need a referral to an adoption therapist in your state, please email me jeanette@yoffetherapy.com
@@Jeanette-icallySpeaking thank you
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Same here because nobody hasn’t helped me find my real family
Dnt bother trust me on that x
I’m not in a community. I am just adopted.
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Should be illegal
But what's the alternative, a life in care?
This person is toxic. You don’t need to take her word for truth. You can consider her ideas, but don’t look at them as law. If something she says is helpful to you, put it into action, but I think there are better ways to view our situation and placement in this life than what she talks about. I’m adopted too, but I have direction. I believe we all have a story to tell. We all have something to offer the world. And being adopted gives us a unique understanding and perspective on the world and others that not a lot of people have. We have gone/will go through a lot in our lives because of the terrible thing that’s happened. But we get to do something with the cards we’ve been dealt. Our suffering is useless unless we make something of it. Unless we learn and grow and use it to go help others. We can make such an impact if we choose to work through our heart and heal and share what we’ve learned with the world. I give you adoptees hope. There is life in the suffering. Please choose to make something of your suffering. We all want you to grow and heal and reach your potential. Let yourself grow and heal.
Ouch. Those are strong words. Is this the only video you have seen? I think you will find hope all throughout my channel. Healing takes time, many adoptees are not even aware of their vulnerabilities as you are. I am glad to hear you have found hope. Take good care.
Providing help and education to those in need is not toxic. Perhaps you should look at your own behavior before calling others out…
She's Not toxic to me , she's describing my experiences during childhood and early adulthood, meet the client where they are we are all at different stages , autonomy is another stage if someone has the capacity .
I needed to hear this, I'm an adult adoptee. I am interested in positive experiences because I don't see or hear many sadly. Would I be able to DM you privately?
Thank you for this Bella!! Needed this today!! 🤍🙏🏽😢 (Colombian "Adaptee")
You're so welcome!