My husband passed away recently and my heart is in so much pain. I am glad he is not suffering anymore, but I miss him so much. I want to let go of the grief that surrounds me and just be happy for the 20+ years we had together.
My ex walked away from my life 6 months ago and we have a daughter together. She hasn't died but I know about how grief is sooo intense.. I don't know if I can get through this.
im letting him go even if its too hard for me. he just ignored me and devalued me, and took advantage of me. its time to let go and find someone better ❤
In moments like these, we learn to value ourselves from the very beginning, so it never goes as far again as to hurt like this. Next time, we see the signs right away, and say NO. This one is not for me. Much love friend....
This helped tremendously. I energetically sent him so much love and light. I hope to reunite with him later when the time is right but if not, I send him all the love and healing. He has healing to do also. 🧡With all the love in the universe….I set him free.
i started crying omg, we didn't even date yet he hurt me so much and I don't want to let go, I don't feel ready, and when you said he'll feel farther away I panicked. I don't know what to do. I don't want him to forget me because I know we had something even though he's too immature to admit it.
Sis I’m in a similar situation, too. I’m talking to this guy and we’ve been into each other for a while but none of us actually made a move until like three weeks ago. This week he’s been super distant and avoiding me, and basically ignores me. He doesn’t put in any effort and it feels like it’s just me in it at this point. Makes me feel like I did something wrong and it hurts me so much. I’m so confused but I guess that’s life, we don’t always get what we want :/
You have to let go to grow, trust the universe that it will bring you someone highly compatible with you, going through something similar, actually it’s pretty horrible, I fucked up with this girl that I absolutely adore and she won’t hear me out, you just have to give it time
It's a thing y'all. People are going around destroying others. They are really nice to you until you serve their purpose to them then they start finding everything wrong with you & ghost you. But we are completely loving & sane. They are the ill ones to bring such ugliness into this beautiful world & our hearts. I know how each of you feel. My heart doesn't even feel like it fits in my chest anymore. It's been 8 months since he ghosted me. I'm trying to focus on the lesson & wisdom from this experience & not the pain & shame. Some days better than others. God PLEASE strengthen & heal us all. ❤💔❤ If no one's told you today, I LOVE YOU....
I love this meditation. It is helping me get over someone I never even met in real life that I had a limerence attachment to. I realized I spent so many years fantasizing about this person without have an actual relationship with them. So thank you for this meditation 💕
I’ve tried lots of these on here but I can honestly say this one actually worked and did what I wanted it to do. Woke up this morning a new man thank you no anxiety and no overthinking ❤
Even as I move forward I imagine her smile and miss the deep connection we had. I look back and see my previous loves and know I’m growing and healing from this relationship too. It’s bitter sweet and I wish nothing but the best for her. ❤
I’m sad because I tried so hard to make things work in my marriage and my husband says he doesn’t want to try at all. We’ve been together for 20 years. I know things weren’t perfect but I love him and care about him and my daughters. I wanted him to grow professionally, mentally and spiritually together but I’m all alone in these. To make things worse we’re still living together but we will get the divorce pretty soon. My heart hurts to much because I know he doesn’t love me anymore. My mother says I need to let him go and start a new life. I hope the Lord lightens my path. I wish the same for all of you who are suffering of a broken heart. Blessings 💐
The reason this helps is because someone talking is validating your emotions from such and walking you through the acknowledgement and steps of letting the emotion go
I tried this yesterday when the moon is in cancer. He let me go but I cannot set him free. It was such an amazing experience to be able to hear this. Honestly, I saw the cord illuminated even before you said to visualize the light on it. Thank you.
“He let me go but I cannot set him free." It’s hard to wonder why they would let a good woman go. I just seen his post about why men let the good/nice woman go, and keep the mean/boundary setting ones. It made me realize how they really see us.
Thank you for this! For my current situation, I found actually cutting the light cord was much more helpful. Then I surround myself with pink & gold light and I wish them well. And forgive myself for letting someone’s energy effect me so much.
The tears streamed down throughout the whole session. I actually said good bye to 2 masculines. A friend of almost 3 years, long distance, who I was romantically interested in. The second was a new person I met serendipitously and we spent a tremendous amount of time together in a 2 month span even though the connection seemed impossible then he abruptly ended it when I asserted some boundaries. I even see it now when I type it out. I needed to cut the cord with both of them. I have learned my lessons and I need to focus on self love and eventually attract better, more emotionally available men.
This was so hard to do. As I was thinking and releasing him I start puking out of no where listening to this. I feel it purging him out. Praying his spirit leaves me immediately.
Why am I seeing this no one ever truly loved me in my relationships. When you love someone you don't cheat, your not controlling, your the number one priority in there lives, and you respect there family. When there's no respect also that ain't love. People need to stop lying to themselves about what love truly is.
I am so grateful god has helped me move forward in my life and I learned so much what real love is I will no longer settle for anything that is true love🙏🏾🙌🏽❤️💎
I’ve tried many different cord cutting meditations, and this one is the absolute best. Thank you so much ❤️🌸😇 I will be doing this meditation everyday until I feel emotionally back to normal.
This is my story. A very very close girl friend of mine who was previously in love with me has moved on with someone else. While I was still dwelling in my past relationship and feeling emotionally uncertain & unavailable, she has always been there for me but I was too busy being stuck. Stuck with not being able to let go of the past situation and stuck with the fear towards committing to something in the future. In the end, the inability to give her what she wants at the time (a relationship) ultimately pushed her away, and I was devastated. It sucks so bad that I'd had to realize that I actually do love her only after it's too late... after she's seeing someone new. I have been living with so much regret and pain ever since that I've not been able to function and sleep well for the past 2 months. Every time I think of her, all the negative emotions: guilt, regret, sadness, anger towards myself, just overwhelm me and I'd be so depressed and demotivated to do anything. It's so hard for me to pull through because deep down inside I know it's my own fault that I'm in this current position. I feel so lost and unlike my usual self that it has affected my relationships with other people, eg. family and friends. And honestly, IDEK why I'm writing this here. I guess I'm just using this as an expressive outlet for what I'm feeling at this point. I do hope this guided meditation can help me find peace with my own mistakes and regrets.
Very true! This is exactly what happened to me. It’s your mind playing tricks on you. I thought the same thing when she started seeing someone, that maybe I loved her more than I thought. But realized it was a protective barrier to thinking maybe I could still have her as I’ve been having her. But I knew deep inside what the truth was and now I’m trying my hardest to detach from her. We were close as sisters for 3.5 years. It’s so hard!
Either decision you make comes with regrets. If you had a relationship with her, probably you would have regretted that you weren’t ready for it and took her for granted. Be at peace with your decision, accept and let go. Emotions are transient. Every time I ruminate obsessively, I take deep breaths and focus on my breathing to stop this habits. Turn regrets to gratefulness, be grateful for those times she was with you. Be the person you want to marry because when we like someone most likely it’s coming from lack. Hope this helps.❤
I just have to add to the chorus and say how excellent this meditation is. I've done a ton of them, and landed here trying to let go of the last pieces of someone when some emotions reared their head again after months. Did it last night and I feel remarkably better and more distant from the whole situation today. I think the soft, forgiving dissolving of the light versus cutting is the key for me. Pulling away tends to whiplash me back in; this was a far softer, gentler acceptance, forgiveness and release. Really appreciate the help, definitely subscribed
Thank you... that was my intention. The cutting always felt too harsh and frankly when we are in that start of having to let go but not really wanting to.. it's hard to CUT... but doing it in this way feels right and more loving... thank you for your kind words. I'm so happy you enjoyed it.
@@MellisaDormoy 100%. And cutting feels especially harsh when you harbor no ill will toward that person. We didn't work out but I wish them the best... And had we continued, I would not be with the person I'm very happy with now. Soft and forgiving is completely congruent
This was a very simple but effective meditation, I ended a relationship after 14 months even though I cared so much, I knew he didn't feel as I did and he became agitated. Letting go was hurting so much, I cried through the meditation but I feel so much lighter now. Thankyou ❤
Absolutely... it does hurt to let go, but after some time, we truly can look back and see how the situation helps us grow and strengths us to say YES! to ourselves and NO to someone who causes us pain. Much love friend....You are healing.
Tonight I detach forever, it can't hurt me anymore, this is a dream and I dream it alone, my heart can never b broken by some man again. Never will I cry over a man., because my love is a gift and if it is not taken or given back it doesn't hurt or disturb me. I am free. I love you all who are sad and need to detach. ❤ we run our dream , nobody can hurt us anymore.
Your comment made me tear up "we run our dream, nobody can hurt us anymore" makes it feel like a fantasy where we are in control like a videogame that is peaceful, ❤️ sending love your way
@@mariacastrovidela dearest Maria, muchas muchas gracias para tes palabras. They really touched me aswell. I wrote this comment after I realised that the man I waited for 2,5 years and planned to marry, played and fooled me since day 1 and doesn't even like me and is after many girls. I was in despair and tears while I wrote it. I felt that I couldn't survive this lonely trap of onesided love and found this meditation. I listened to it while sleeping and didn't have nightmares since months, of losing him, I slept and woke up in peace. And found that I was detached from him. I accepted his 100th breakup for the 1st time. And let him go. My dear Maria, listen to it, I will aswell tonight. Yes life is indeed like a game, a dream, reality is were we came from and were we will go after this realm called life. We are in peace, we come from peace, nothing can harm us. Protect your energy, dear hermanita. Mucho amor de europa austria, Viena. 🤍🪆🙏🪄🛸🤍🇦🇹
thank u for this, it helped me understand and accept the fact that some people are not there to stay in my life. its amazing because i listen to this once a day before going to bed, and once i woke up in the morning. i forget about him and even all the memories we had. 😊 thats how powerful this is! im feeling stronger now
New subscriber! This worked for me. It was scary to trust and let my guard down to accept this, but at this point; I’ve tried everything. I loved very hard, so hard. Letting go is always hard, yet holding on of hard as well. Both options hurt. I feel so on control now. I physically felt an out of body experience. More than thanks for this new beginning. I will have this on repeat. Thank you
It’s not the fact that he went with someone else that hurts me. It’s the fact that he led me on for so long, got me hooked, dangled it some more and then when I was ready to move forward with him, he discarded me like I meant nothing. No closure. No apology. Have never felt such intense pain in my life. Now when anyone asks me out I just politely decline. I don’t feel safe or that I can trust again. 💔
I feel that. I was always told one thing and actions were the exact opposite. She just quit responding one day. And so did i. I still love her dearly but im not bending. Everytime she rejected me i improved myself
@@RandyGriffith-cp9bg That’s exactly what I got. He asked me “do you want a relationship?” and said things like “I really care about you.” We’d spend time together but he never really made a move and it was weird. It’s like he wanted me and he didn’t at the same time. But then he backpedaled and started to fire off crazy non stop friendzoning texts for no reason. Who knows. Maybe I’m fat and ugly. Maybe he has a secret wife and 20 children. But I don’t know why I thought it was such a sure thing and opened my heart to someone like that. Why bother with asking me out and all the months of flirting? I’m so jaded now. If they want to go mess with someone’s head, just go on the dating apps. I was a real person in the real world with real feelings. Now I’m broken. I guess that was his goal?
She left me for someone else when that guy ditched her. I was starting to see someone she came back into the picture, convinced me to drop the person I was seeing and then yeah discarded me Still haven’t had the break up closure talk she just said she’s done and yeah talking every second every day to nothing and it’s twice she’s discarded me. Yeah there’s something wrong with me. I would take her back in an instant and I think she knows that she’ll always treat me like shit. I miss her every day
@@MackAlton That's rough man. Sorry to hear that. I know what it feels like. At some point, I guess you have to choose yourself and love yourself enough to walk away. It hurts, I know. I know I'd be the same if he came back, I'd let him break my heart all over again. Clearly I'm defective!
Phone starting ringing at the end of this mediation and I ignore the call for once. I felt so centered and healed on letting go of the connection. I will definitely come back to this as a tool to keep dissolving that energetic bond.
I want this pain to end. I tried and tried all the laws to get this person back. Nothing worked and I was disregarded and treated like trash thinking faith and law of assumption and attraction could work. The more I loved this person the more he ran further and the more he got cold. I’m tired of hurting and feeling anything. I’m praying to become numb and hoping this meditation can help me. Thank you for this.
I have done all the same and the more I tried the more distant she became, I just can't understand what happened I have been trying to give myself closure because after 9 years I had become so attached to her and it's not like it's just her I cared for her son very much and really cared about him to it's like I have lost my family and my will to continue, I went months of not eating and sleeping before I found my 1st sleep hypnosis video and I think it probably saved my life. The most difficult thing for me is that she was the first person in my life who actually made me feel loved and I know that she still has love for me but she has a lot of mental health issues and she really needed to work on them I thought that I was helping her for all these years so when she said she needed to do it herself I really believed her and she very well could be but I can't stay like this any longer it's been a year since she got her own place and over 6 months since I have seen or heard anything from her and when she changed their phone numbers I felt betrayed because she asked for no contact and I agreed so after over a month all her mail was still coming here and most of it was very important and couldn't be forwarded so I texted her to ask what I should do with it and when I hadn't heard back after another 10 days I decided to call only to discover she changed her#. I went from bad to catatonic and began to question our entire relationship rereading all the texts we had sent through the entire relationship trying to figure out what happened and if I had missed something, she's been in therapy since before we met but only in the past couple years did she start making any progress because of covid they started doing like facetime and because a large part of her problem was agoraphobia by the time she would get to her appointments she wouldn't be herself because she suffers from BPD/MPD and I thought our relationship had actually been getting better I have never been able to talk about my feelings or even able to admit them but in the end she was saying that we were trauma bonded and that she didn't feel like I loved her and it didn't matter what I did to try to show her that, like letting her go was so hard for me and I thought she could see how much I was struggling with not having her in cuddling with me made it so hard to sleep and since the no contact all I do is worry about her and him and if she's caring for him well because she had been hospitalized 3 times during our relationship and the last time was only a couple months prior to her moving out I just don't know how to stop caring and worrying when I know how difficult certain things are for her like I know the car registration and inspection are due and when I met her she had been driving illegally for 5 years and had gotten her license revoked and it was so much work to get all that taken care of so she could get her license back that I worry that she won't get it done and her life will fall apart all over again
Your words 💯 hit the spot in the heart. I was hoping you would talk for the whole hour because your words are healing and voice is soothing ❤🙏 thank you. P.s. much love to all in the comments. Thank you for sharing your experience. We are never alone
Your voice is truly heaven sent! 🙏 thank you for all that you do! This meditation has been life changing for me! I’m in the process of trying to heal from a break up and this is helping find me find that much needed closure I seek♥️
Thank you so much. I know the feeling and I am so very happy this is helpful to you! You ARE healing... every single day, even when there are set backs, and thoughts... you're healing. Much love ♥
We are still dating but we had so many hardships in our relationship. We both cried and hurt each other. It was very unstable and painful which ended up with me forming an unhealthy bond with him. I am trying to forcibly detach myself from him right now so I can start a new chapter either with him by my side if he follows in my footsteps and tries to heal and grow with me or without him if he decides to keep his bad toxic habits. Whatever the outcome will be I am ready to receive it with open arms❤😊
Night and day difference actually. I honestly did not expect to experience much change and it's a totally different way to cut cords than I learned but I feel completely different today and began to as soon as the cord disolved. It was also interesting that I saw each step before it was described at all. It was a golden cord of pure light before she said it and I knew right away that it needed to dissolve and it did from the middle of it out. It made me cry. I did not want to say goodbye but when she said only what isnt serving will dissolve I was ok with that. It has been about 24 hours and I feel like myself again and at peace. I do feel disconnected but only in a good way.. I can still reach out and feel his energy if I want tom send him love if I want to but I'm no longer agonizing over it constantly, or at all actually...so far. will up date. thank you (if you read these) I can't thank you enough. It has been a living hell. I loved my Husband very very much but we're not right for each other. We were trauma bonding. It's been so so hard.
Update: still going strong. Seems this really did help me a ton! HUGE HUGE DIFFERENCE! Like night & day difference. I think I have also really benefited from deliberately recognitioning my association with him from positive to more negative (not in a critical way but just in like that he wasn't good for me/not a good match/he is just not emotionally healthy enough for a relationship.
@@hilostateofmind This is truly wonderful to hear and yes, I read all my comments. In a relationship like this I can tell you that with time and emotional distance we are able to see more clearly and still forgive, love and wish them the absolute best but know they are not ready and need to work on their own emotional stuff. It takes a lot to be able to see that and love ourselves enough to say no more... Sometimes us being there just doesn't allow space for that healing and growing. Much love to you. Keep moving forward and you will see.... wonderful things are happening.
Thank you very much for this! I was having an very painfull night and this gave me the deatachment that i needed! I'll listen this every night untill i feel totally free again!
I wish this brings me happiness and peace as time goes on, and I hope it does the same for him. Everyone deserves it but I'm struggling so hard bc of him lately, it's time to move on
i had a great relationship with my ex boyfriend for over a year and things got really toxic, even though I wanted us to work so bad he fell out of love and agreed that he is incapable of handling our relationship anymore because his mental health is getting worsened. I had to accept breaking up with him even though i wanted to give more efforts and fix whatever was broken. But it was impossible from his side so i had to let it go and accept the reality. it's been 3 months and I've realized after the break up how much i needed myself, how much emotionally dependent i was on that person. i needed constant reassurances and validation from him, he was like my therapist and he handled all my mood swings and helped me go through my bad times. After our break up, i realized i never truly took care of myself emotionally and i was stuck in a loop of bad habits and him being in my life was an escape from reality. now I'm focusing on myself and trying to let him go even though i still love him. we don't talk anymore, there is so much in life i wanna talk about with him, but I've also accepted the reality that we were simply not meant to be together.
It almost seems that you're finding yourself and falling in love with you again. It's like that needed to happen so you could get to a better place yourself. Much love friend!
Thank you so much for this beautiful ❤️ meditation ☺️ I'm forever grateful 🥲🥲🌸 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 I Did it'The first time and cried through the whole thing,then I repeated it again 💜 I do feel better and I know in Time The ache in my soul will dissipate. I never had such a deeper connection on a energetic level with anyone, I know what I felt they did the same but The chose another partner. I embrace the changes I need to make with unconditional universal love I let go of all that doesn't serve me ☺️. Thank you again for this beautiful meditation 💖 Blessing's to All 🤗🙏❤️
The connections we have and feel are very real, even if life changes and they make other choices... we still experienced things we were meant to for our own soul growth. My experience served to show me and teach me how to love myself in a way I didn't know how to before in life. I am forever grateful for the beauty of the relationship and the wonderful and fun experiences... in hindsight I also see where we were very different. ALSO, I kept all the GOOD THINGS and have incorporated them into my life now... I guess it was within me all along... :) I hope you find these same wonderful things!
Wow this was incredible i suddenly felt lighter in my heart as u saw the light diminish thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏 you don't know how grateful I am to you 💯💯
Teaches me if only my attachments were in christ not people or things of this world so let go of all worldly attachments time to shut off go within and release the weight
I lost myself in this person and forgot who I was in Christ. So now I must renew my mind and return to my first love...Jesus. But I don't fool myself. I need Jesus and therapy and I'm soooo ok with that.
Your situation is not easy. It's difficult when you love someone and it just doesn't seem to be working. I've been there. Sometimes the best thing we can do is simply pray they are surrounded in white, loving light and let them do their thing, the way they insist upon doing it. Relationships are complicated and complex living things, always changing... it's our job however to make sure we stay in a safe, calm place and get to know, love and trust our inner selves completely and allow God within to guide us each step of the way.
@@MellisaDormoy Thank you very much! I appreciate your response! I'm not sure what we're doing yet but I have faith the Lord has it all in His control! Tahe care and I hope you have a great day!
I've been looking for a video to try to let myself move on. I tried to make it through just the beginning It is just beyond painful. But I'm gonna keep trying, but it's not just about her and very traumatic I realize she was just trying to help me. People without our problems you're both hurt terribly bad when we were younger. I don't know why it's so hard to let it go. It's like an all paid of ever experienced who is from what I can remember. But if I've started the process, so grateful for that. I hope she's not going to the same.
Two weeks ago, during eclipse season, my ex broke up with me. I haven't been well since, but I know this is for the best. Before the breakup, I prayed to God to remove him from my life if he wasn't good for me, and God answered my prayer. It's astonishing to think that, even though he didn't treat me well, I still grieve the relationship. I mourn the person he could have been and the future we once promised each other. There's a lingering feeling of unease about how he ended things, despite everything I did for him and the behaviors I tolerated. But I guess it's time for me to learn to let go of all grudges and fully release him, so I can continue and move on with my life. I wish myself and him well.
The eclipse season took mine as well :( I miss him lots but he said he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore. I’m ready to let go as well you’re not alone in this ❤️ it hurts to let go but holding onto hope that he will come back hurts more than
The greatest gift I gave myself in this same situation was not to look for someone else but to look within. There is so much love within our own hearts and we must learn to love ourselves and value ourselves first.. then others naturally do the same bc they see we accept nothing less.
I feel so lost right now it’s been since August and he has moved on like nothing happened. I’m trying to release him but it’s hard …. It’s so difficult 😞😢
I feel in love with 4 different ppl and I've just been threw to much pain in my heart 💝💝💝💝 and honestly this actually is helping 🙏🏾 me in a big way although I don't want to repeat this cycle anymore I don't want toxicity in my life anymore I want ✌🏾 peace 🕊️ and harmony and love 💕 and affection and attention and loyalty and no cheating honest communication I just hope and pray 🙏🏾☺️💪🏾 that the man that enters my life is tall and light skinned and has his life together even tho we're both going threw our crisis in life we build and succeed and thrive with eachother and have a understanding of one each other and also were it's not just 1 sided although I pray 🙏🏾☺️💪🏾🤞🏾 that all of us can break 💔🙏🏾 this soul tie with anyone that u fell for God is good God Bless 🙏🏾🎉❤😢😊
My ex walked away from my life a out 6 months ago and we have a daughter together. It's been killing me. Need meds to even get out of bed. Most horrible thing I gone through.
I'm sorry this happened to you. The pain we feel in our hearts when separated from someone we love can seem almost unbearable, especially when the wound is fresh. One of the most important things to remember is that this is also a choice point in your life. Just by listening to these videos though you are choosing to work through this and heal... however slow it feels and knowing there are days where just getting out of bed is the accomplishment of the day... be gentle to yourself, kind to yourself. Feel the emotions and know that you are still OKAY and you will BE OKAY... much love my friend.
Am so sorry love is devastating I done all I could for my partner ,but he didn't see it.From the being it's been cheating,lies after lies.I broke up finally and realized 3 yrs.wasnt worth it but I still loved him it's days that I would just cry in bed and even couldn't sleep,so listen to some off these meditations and ask guardian angle Michel to sheild your heart.Hope this helps ❤️
I have gone through a long unrequited love for 6 years. I’ve tried everything to stop liking them, I started dating this girl and now I want nothing more than to stop the love I have for them. I love this girl and want a future with her. I just really hope this works because I’m so confused, I love the girl so much and want to marry her but the other person is still in my heart and I hate myself for that. I know they were the first person I loved in my life and that’s a big thing for people but why can’t I get over it. It’s stupid. I just want to be happy
Sorry you're going through this Willow. I know it's rough... but remember that feelings are never stupid.. they are what they are and they just want to be felt. I think sometimes we move on too quickly and get emotionally involved with a new person when our hearts are not really even ready for it because we haven't had full closure with the first. And closure is a personal thing.. doesn't have to be mutual... just in your own heart. The best advice I was ever given was to learn to love myself deeply and never try to fill it with another person... all people will fail because we are only human. If we learn to love ourselves unconditionally then other people just ADD to our happiness but we are not dependent on them. Heartache is the worst... but as I got older, I also sometimes realized that when I got into situations with unrequited love, it was because the Universe was kinna showing me "hey... I'm giving you a mirror... I'm magnifying what you need to work on..." and then I stopped dating all together and just focused on myself. I took classes, learned lots of new stuff, meditated and prayed everyday, did fun stuff with my sons... and eventually you learn that while it's FUN and AWESOME to have a partner, you can also be fully happy no matter what!... So that's my encouragement to you today my friend... Listen to some affirmations and KNOW deep down that you can DO/BE anything you desire... focus on THAT... and let your heart heal and feel love FROM YOU... you can do it.
I have recently been having to let this man go about almost a year ago i had almost lost this man to a car crash with him being in a coma for months just to find with while l he was almost on his death bed that he been secretly dealing with a family member behind my back now this hurts sense my blood was crying in the hospital too and dont talk over a man who both lied to us especially when me and her were close long story short he finally woke up from his coma with a TBI i couldn’t help but feel pity and still have him in my life boy was i wrong….. its like he got worse and treated me bad even though he should be lucky im still here which now i am gone. No one will every understand my pain when it comes to how he is not the same from suffering a tbi and also him lying to me in the past or even treating me bad… moral of the story I deserve sooo much better 🥺💔 it hurts so had I would get angry at god and question him on why he let me meet him cause this hurts so bad i pray that god can help me forgive him for myself honestly
I thought we was twin flame. Ever since ive met him ive been fighting for his attion. Sad part is i deeply on a soul leavel desired him, wanted him so bad. Strong pull towards him... But he looked for ways to hurt me. The worst hurtful situation he could do to deepl cut at my heart. Not one singnel time has he ever Felt bad or ashamed of how he misled me then purposly hurt me.never showing any care or symptoms of the pain he influcked on me.. i never let any person treat me this way.. i dont know why i let him keep hurting me let him come back so he could hurt me worst then befoer. He has always replaced me woth leaving with another person. Laughing at the hurt in my face. Never cared . Convining others i had caused the ending. why i dont know why i couldnotlet go??? Any one know???
The person that I want to break my bond with is someone whom I meet at office everyday. So it gets even more difficult to break the bond. But I'll try. I'm trying.
Agreed.. it's harder when you cannot break full contact. Sometimes it's helpful to see that person as your spiritual sister.. and not in the context of intimate relationship you just had.
Unfortunately sometimes that is the way it goes. But love is never lost. You can never reproach yourself for giving your all... remember that every closed door is only leading you to THE RIGHT DESTINATION.... it hurts at times because we get attached... but remember it's a journey we all have to live. Much love friend....
I is go through the same thing yearly it’s like a recycle ♻️ honestly given up on dating or meeting anyone just gonna accept my fait I’m one of those people who’s gonna be single forever .. so I’ll just be single successful and happy that’s all I can so tired of being hurt people leave me over the smallest things I’ve even had family walk out on me
Time to live your life to the fullest and focus on YOU. When you get into that state of being the very best version of yourself, you will attract the PERFECT person! I swear that is how these things work.
I cried so hard but I had to let go of him as he is happy with his lady I loved him for 3 years but it wasn't to be might have to do this daily for a while
You deserve someone who will love you and only you. It's so hard to let go of someone we love bu I always tell myself when things don't work out, it's bc God is pointing me in another direction. It feels so hard right now... but after you heal, good things are in store. BETTER more loving things... and it's all worth it. We are learning and growing all of us, and pain is unfortunately part of our growth so we can get to where we need to be. Much love friend...
She was a very good woman wearing nice dresses, well educated, abs never partied in her life. She met new friends and became someone horrific wearing micro skirts, clubbing, drugs, and constantly cheating. I was deeply hurt as she hid that life from me and pretended to be the same girl I initially met. So glad I didn’t marry but I need to heal.
Dear haters, The way you hate me gives me motivation. I get motivation from the way you hate my confidence. I love the way you know me better than I know my self. You give me motivation when you call me ugly because your still watching even though I’m apparently not your type. Your still there no matter what. You give me motivation when I try to get ready and you hate and mess up my make up. I love the way you wait until get my clothes you hate then too. I love it when you try to make me broke. I love the way you make me want to look trampy all the time. I love it when you make me aloner it helps me think better. I love the way you inferior with my family. It’s like you have no family to be watching my family day and night. I just love you Thank you 🙏 Keep watching me I love to entertain you daily
It pisses me off. Every time she needed me i was right there. Not once was she there for me. I was lied to used and taken advantage of and she still say she loves and cares about me. What a crock. Everytime she rejected me i improved myself. Only thing i got out of even being friends with her was a bunch of growth. At least thats something
The fact that i realised he might have been married and was just using me for entertainment hurts looking back at all the signs i missed, constant phonecalls he would ignore, unavailability on weekends..it hurts because he pretended to want to be with me only to get physical n once he got that he dumped me n blamed it on me that i was "too emotional too early" n this was because i was simply laying boundaries, it hurts but i know I'll be okay
My Dear, that's a hurtful lesson and I am sorry it happened to you. You are wiser now thought for it. Next time, you'll demand better, ask WHY and put yourself and your ideals first. It hurts our hearts when someone uses us but that's their lack of integrity and values... I pity those types of people in a way because they are lying to themselves and the ppl in their lives too. They are stuck spiritually not moving forward but moving in a self-serving cycle. You on the other hand, are wiser and you know what to look for now and can be diligent. Set your boundaries Queen. Make them clear. If someone doesn't like them, they are not for you.
I messed up a lot in the relationship, showed a lot of my imperfections, at the end she left me at my lowest, she did help and care for me for a lot of it, and I ended up hurting her the most at the end of the day, after she left and blocked me on everything, she started posting stuff about me and it turned out she wasn’t all I thought she was, she even found herself a new person to fufill the needs I didn’t give, it was a lot, but now I j need to let go.
We ALL mess up a lot in relationships... and it's normal to show imperfections in relationships because we are being REAL and AUTHENTIC... We are all imperfect just trying to grow and become better. When you get with someone who is ready to learn and grow with you, then you'll be with the right person... relationships are ALL ABOUT GROWTH and being able to be vulnerable with that person.. to share your WHOLE HEART.. and if you can't, then babe you're with the wrong person!
You have a most compassionate voice. I guess I am too angry yet.to send blessings his way! He promised to help.me with my rent and now says he cant! He is a.liar . I have.given him my love but he just.never appreciated He has hurt and deceived other women as well. We have been in and out with eash.other.for 18 years. I want.to move on I want to be with someone who really wants.to have a healthy living wage relationship This cord with him has to be CUT!
I had to let her go. She was the love of my life. We dated in 2022 she broke up with me and dated three or more narcissistic tools. Yet I bought her everything she wanted. Now no contact from her and I need to find someone who makes me a priority as I do them. Goodbye Lisa. I gave you my heart and you continued to break it.
I got my learning from this relationship... Do not stop loving yourself in order to love someone else.
this should be a bumper sticker.
isnt it ironic we find videos that are safe and perfect many years after we tried SOOOO much to heal
My husband passed away recently and my heart is in so much pain. I am glad he is not suffering anymore, but I miss him so much. I want to let go of the grief that surrounds me and just be happy for the 20+ years we had together.
Sending you lots of love and healing. ❤️🩹
So very sorry for your loss
My ex walked away from my life 6 months ago and we have a daughter together. She hasn't died but I know about how grief is sooo intense.. I don't know if I can get through this.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you love & healing
Praying for you. Sending you love and positive energy @Raquel Borden
im letting him go even if its too hard for me. he just ignored me and devalued me, and took advantage of me. its time to let go and find someone better ❤
In moments like these, we learn to value ourselves from the very beginning, so it never goes as far again as to hurt like this. Next time, we see the signs right away, and say NO. This one is not for me. Much love friend....
This helped tremendously. I energetically sent him so much love and light. I hope to reunite with him later when the time is right but if not, I send him all the love and healing. He has healing to do also. 🧡With all the love in the universe….I set him free.
i started crying omg, we didn't even date yet he hurt me so much and I don't want to let go, I don't feel ready, and when you said he'll feel farther away I panicked. I don't know what to do. I don't want him to forget me because I know we had something even though he's too immature to admit it.
Sis I’m in a similar situation, too. I’m talking to this guy and we’ve been into each other for a while but none of us actually made a move until like three weeks ago. This week he’s been super distant and avoiding me, and basically ignores me. He doesn’t put in any effort and it feels like it’s just me in it at this point. Makes me feel like I did something wrong and it hurts me so much. I’m so confused but I guess that’s life, we don’t always get what we want :/
You have to let go to grow, trust the universe that it will bring you someone highly compatible with you, going through something similar, actually it’s pretty horrible, I fucked up with this girl that I absolutely adore and she won’t hear me out, you just have to give it time
It's a thing y'all. People are going around destroying others. They are really nice to you until you serve their purpose to them then they start finding everything wrong with you & ghost you. But we are completely loving & sane. They are the ill ones to bring such ugliness into this beautiful world & our hearts. I know how each of you feel. My heart doesn't even feel like it fits in my chest anymore. It's been 8 months since he ghosted me. I'm trying to focus on the lesson & wisdom from this experience & not the pain & shame. Some days better than others. God PLEASE strengthen & heal us all. ❤💔❤ If no one's told you today, I LOVE YOU....
@@BeautifulHal0 same here
Hugs to you.
I love this meditation. It is helping me get over someone I never even met in real life that I had a limerence attachment to. I realized I spent so many years fantasizing about this person without have an actual relationship with them. So thank you for this meditation 💕
All of this!!!
I’ve tried lots of these on here but I can honestly say this one actually worked and did what I wanted it to do. Woke up this morning a new man thank you no anxiety and no overthinking ❤
Even as I move forward I imagine her smile and miss the deep connection we had. I look back and see my previous loves and know I’m growing and healing from this relationship too. It’s bitter sweet and I wish nothing but the best for her. ❤
I’m sad because I tried so hard to make things work in my marriage and my husband says he doesn’t want to try at all. We’ve been together for 20 years. I know things weren’t perfect but I love him and care about him and my daughters. I wanted him to grow professionally, mentally and spiritually together but I’m all alone in these. To make things worse we’re still living together but we will get the divorce pretty soon. My heart hurts to much because I know he doesn’t love me anymore. My mother says I need to let him go and start a new life. I hope the Lord lightens my path. I wish the same for all of you who are suffering of a broken heart. Blessings 💐
I hope you are feeling better now that some time has passed ❤
The reason this helps is because someone talking is validating your emotions from such and walking you through the acknowledgement and steps of letting the emotion go
I tried this yesterday when the moon is in cancer. He let me go but I cannot set him free. It was such an amazing experience to be able to hear this. Honestly, I saw the cord illuminated even before you said to visualize the light on it. Thank you.
“He let me go but I cannot set him free."
It’s hard to wonder why they would let a good woman go.
I just seen his post about why men let the good/nice woman go, and keep the mean/boundary setting ones. It made me realize how they really see us.
Thank you for this! For my current situation, I found actually cutting the light cord was much more helpful. Then I surround myself with pink & gold light and I wish them well. And forgive myself for letting someone’s energy effect me so much.
Wonderful! Well done! ♥
The tears streamed down throughout the whole session. I actually said good bye to 2 masculines. A friend of almost 3 years, long distance, who I was romantically interested in. The second was a new person I met serendipitously and we spent a tremendous amount of time together in a 2 month span even though the connection seemed impossible then he abruptly ended it when I asserted some boundaries. I even see it now when I type it out. I needed to cut the cord with both of them. I have learned my lessons and I need to focus on self love and eventually attract better, more emotionally available men.
This was so hard to do. As I was thinking and releasing him I start puking out of no where listening to this. I feel it purging him out. Praying his spirit leaves me immediately.
Why am I seeing this no one ever truly loved me in my relationships. When you love someone you don't cheat, your not controlling, your the number one priority in there lives, and you respect there family. When there's no respect also that ain't love. People need to stop lying to themselves about what love truly is.
i feel the same why😵💫 just not fair at all always getting hurt but wen u move on here they come trying come back its a no for me im done done😒
Exactly! ! I don't think I even knew what love means ?
Love don’t love nobody!
You don't have to respect their family. Some people are not worthy of respect.
I am so grateful god has helped me move forward in my life and I learned so much what real love is I will no longer settle for anything that is true love🙏🏾🙌🏽❤️💎
I’ve tried many different cord cutting meditations, and this one is the absolute best.
Thank you so much ❤️🌸😇
I will be doing this meditation everyday until I feel emotionally back to normal.
This is my story. A very very close girl friend of mine who was previously in love with me has moved on with someone else. While I was still dwelling in my past relationship and feeling emotionally uncertain & unavailable, she has always been there for me but I was too busy being stuck. Stuck with not being able to let go of the past situation and stuck with the fear towards committing to something in the future. In the end, the inability to give her what she wants at the time (a relationship) ultimately pushed her away, and I was devastated. It sucks so bad that I'd had to realize that I actually do love her only after it's too late... after she's seeing someone new. I have been living with so much regret and pain ever since that I've not been able to function and sleep well for the past 2 months. Every time I think of her, all the negative emotions: guilt, regret, sadness, anger towards myself, just overwhelm me and I'd be so depressed and demotivated to do anything. It's so hard for me to pull through because deep down inside I know it's my own fault that I'm in this current position. I feel so lost and unlike my usual self that it has affected my relationships with other people, eg. family and friends. And honestly, IDEK why I'm writing this here. I guess I'm just using this as an expressive outlet for what I'm feeling at this point. I do hope this guided meditation can help me find peace with my own mistakes and regrets.
I feel the same way.
Very true! This is exactly what happened to me. It’s your mind playing tricks on you. I thought the same thing when she started seeing someone, that maybe I loved her more than I thought. But realized it was a protective barrier to thinking maybe I could still have her as I’ve been having her. But I knew deep inside what the truth was and now I’m trying my hardest to detach from her. We were close as sisters for 3.5 years. It’s so hard!
Either decision you make comes with regrets. If you had a relationship with her, probably you would have regretted that you weren’t ready for it and took her for granted. Be at peace with your decision, accept and let go. Emotions are transient. Every time I ruminate obsessively, I take deep breaths and focus on my breathing to stop this habits. Turn regrets to gratefulness, be grateful for those times she was with you. Be the person you want to marry because when we like someone most likely it’s coming from lack. Hope this helps.❤
@@xtina1412Beautiful advice! Thankyou🙏🏽
I just have to add to the chorus and say how excellent this meditation is. I've done a ton of them, and landed here trying to let go of the last pieces of someone when some emotions reared their head again after months. Did it last night and I feel remarkably better and more distant from the whole situation today. I think the soft, forgiving dissolving of the light versus cutting is the key for me. Pulling away tends to whiplash me back in; this was a far softer, gentler acceptance, forgiveness and release. Really appreciate the help, definitely subscribed
Thank you... that was my intention. The cutting always felt too harsh and frankly when we are in that start of having to let go but not really wanting to.. it's hard to CUT... but doing it in this way feels right and more loving... thank you for your kind words. I'm so happy you enjoyed it.
@@MellisaDormoy 100%. And cutting feels especially harsh when you harbor no ill will toward that person. We didn't work out but I wish them the best... And had we continued, I would not be with the person I'm very happy with now. Soft and forgiving is completely congruent
This was a very simple but effective meditation, I ended a relationship after 14 months even though I cared so much, I knew he didn't feel as I did and he became agitated. Letting go was hurting so much, I cried through the meditation but I feel so much lighter now. Thankyou ❤
Thank you babe ❤️ I was screaming In silence at the pain. Letting go for your own happiness hurts but thank you for making this easier
Absolutely... it does hurt to let go, but after some time, we truly can look back and see how the situation helps us grow and strengths us to say YES! to ourselves and NO to someone who causes us pain. Much love friend....You are healing.
I'll have to come back to this video in a month or so, im still not ready to let go of him :(
Tonight I detach forever, it can't hurt me anymore, this is a dream and I dream it alone, my heart can never b broken by some man again. Never will I cry over a man., because my love is a gift and if it is not taken or given back it doesn't hurt or disturb me. I am free. I love you all who are sad and need to detach. ❤ we run our dream , nobody can hurt us anymore.
Your comment made me tear up "we run our dream, nobody can hurt us anymore" makes it feel like a fantasy where we are in control like a videogame that is peaceful, ❤️ sending love your way
@@mariacastrovidela dearest Maria, muchas muchas gracias para tes palabras. They really touched me aswell. I wrote this comment after I realised that the man I waited for 2,5 years and planned to marry, played and fooled me since day 1 and doesn't even like me and is after many girls. I was in despair and tears while I wrote it. I felt that I couldn't survive this lonely trap of onesided love and found this meditation. I listened to it while sleeping and didn't have nightmares since months, of losing him, I slept and woke up in peace. And found that I was detached from him. I accepted his 100th breakup for the 1st time. And let him go. My dear Maria, listen to it, I will aswell tonight. Yes life is indeed like a game, a dream, reality is were we came from and were we will go after this realm called life. We are in peace, we come from peace, nothing can harm us. Protect your energy, dear hermanita. Mucho amor de europa austria, Viena. 🤍🪆🙏🪄🛸🤍🇦🇹
thank u for this, it helped me understand and accept the fact that some people are not there to stay in my life. its amazing because i listen to this once a day before going to bed, and once i woke up in the morning. i forget about him and even all the memories we had. 😊 thats how powerful this is! im feeling stronger now
New subscriber! This worked for me. It was scary to trust and let my guard down to accept this, but at this point; I’ve tried everything. I loved very hard, so hard. Letting go is always hard, yet holding on of hard as well. Both options hurt. I feel so on control now. I physically felt an out of body experience. More than thanks for this new beginning. I will have this on repeat. Thank you
I feel this so much. How are you doing now?✨
It’s not the fact that he went with someone else that hurts me. It’s the fact that he led me on for so long, got me hooked, dangled it some more and then when I was ready to move forward with him, he discarded me like I meant nothing. No closure. No apology. Have never felt such intense pain in my life. Now when anyone asks me out I just politely decline. I don’t feel safe or that I can trust again. 💔
I feel that. I was always told one thing and actions were the exact opposite. She just quit responding one day. And so did i. I still love her dearly but im not bending. Everytime she rejected me i improved myself
@@RandyGriffith-cp9bg That’s exactly what I got. He asked me “do you want a relationship?” and said things like “I really care about you.” We’d spend time together but he never really made a move and it was weird. It’s like he wanted me and he didn’t at the same time. But then he backpedaled and started to fire off crazy non stop friendzoning texts for no reason. Who knows. Maybe I’m fat and ugly. Maybe he has a secret wife and 20 children. But I don’t know why I thought it was such a sure thing and opened my heart to someone like that. Why bother with asking me out and all the months of flirting? I’m so jaded now. If they want to go mess with someone’s head, just go on the dating apps. I was a real person in the real world with real feelings. Now I’m broken. I guess that was his goal?
She left me for someone else when that guy ditched her. I was starting to see someone she came back into the picture, convinced me to drop the person I was seeing and then yeah discarded me
Still haven’t had the break up closure talk she just said she’s done and yeah talking every second every day to nothing and it’s twice she’s discarded me. Yeah there’s something wrong with me. I would take her back in an instant and I think she knows that she’ll always treat me like shit. I miss her every day
@@MackAlton That's rough man. Sorry to hear that. I know what it feels like. At some point, I guess you have to choose yourself and love yourself enough to walk away. It hurts, I know. I know I'd be the same if he came back, I'd let him break my heart all over again. Clearly I'm defective!
And yep… I cry… thank you so much…. I’ll keep practicing my letting go, thank you
Oh god its so hard. I have never been in so much pain. I pray god removes my fear and suffering
Phone starting ringing at the end of this mediation and I ignore the call for once. I felt so centered and healed on letting go of the connection. I will definitely come back to this as a tool to keep dissolving that energetic bond.
I started crying too, so glad i found this and will return soon, thank you 🙂
I want this pain to end. I tried and tried all the laws to get this person back. Nothing worked and I was disregarded and treated like trash thinking faith and law of assumption and attraction could work. The more I loved this person the more he ran further and the more he got cold. I’m tired of hurting and feeling anything.
I’m praying to become numb and hoping this meditation can help me. Thank you for this.
I have done all the same and the more I tried the more distant she became, I just can't understand what happened I have been trying to give myself closure because after 9 years I had become so attached to her and it's not like it's just her I cared for her son very much and really cared about him to it's like I have lost my family and my will to continue, I went months of not eating and sleeping before I found my 1st sleep hypnosis video and I think it probably saved my life. The most difficult thing for me is that she was the first person in my life who actually made me feel loved and I know that she still has love for me but she has a lot of mental health issues and she really needed to work on them I thought that I was helping her for all these years so when she said she needed to do it herself I really believed her and she very well could be but I can't stay like this any longer it's been a year since she got her own place and over 6 months since I have seen or heard anything from her and when she changed their phone numbers I felt betrayed because she asked for no contact and I agreed so after over a month all her mail was still coming here and most of it was very important and couldn't be forwarded so I texted her to ask what I should do with it and when I hadn't heard back after another 10 days I decided to call only to discover she changed her#. I went from bad to catatonic and began to question our entire relationship rereading all the texts we had sent through the entire relationship trying to figure out what happened and if I had missed something, she's been in therapy since before we met but only in the past couple years did she start making any progress because of covid they started doing like facetime and because a large part of her problem was agoraphobia by the time she would get to her appointments she wouldn't be herself because she suffers from BPD/MPD and I thought our relationship had actually been getting better I have never been able to talk about my feelings or even able to admit them but in the end she was saying that we were trauma bonded and that she didn't feel like I loved her and it didn't matter what I did to try to show her that, like letting her go was so hard for me and I thought she could see how much I was struggling with not having her in cuddling with me made it so hard to sleep and since the no contact all I do is worry about her and him and if she's caring for him well because she had been hospitalized 3 times during our relationship and the last time was only a couple months prior to her moving out I just don't know how to stop caring and worrying when I know how difficult certain things are for her like I know the car registration and inspection are due and when I met her she had been driving illegally for 5 years and had gotten her license revoked and it was so much work to get all that taken care of so she could get her license back that I worry that she won't get it done and her life will fall apart all over again
To the women that tore my heart apart and led me on for months and months😢 I pray this helps heal my heart and my pain disappears.
Your words 💯 hit the spot in the heart. I was hoping you would talk for the whole hour because your words are healing and voice is soothing ❤🙏 thank you. P.s. much love to all in the comments. Thank you for sharing your experience. We are never alone
Your voice is truly heaven sent! 🙏 thank you for all that you do! This meditation has been life changing for me! I’m in the process of trying to heal from a break up and this is helping find me find that much needed closure I seek♥️
Thank you so much. I know the feeling and I am so very happy this is helpful to you! You ARE healing... every single day, even when there are set backs, and thoughts... you're healing. Much love ♥
I cried and yawned so much. Released and redirected what I needed to. Thank you. 🖤🤞🏻
Yesss I felt so different after this thank tou
We are still dating but we had so many hardships in our relationship. We both cried and hurt each other. It was very unstable and painful which ended up with me forming an unhealthy bond with him. I am trying to forcibly detach myself from him right now so I can start a new chapter either with him by my side if he follows in my footsteps and tries to heal and grow with me or without him if he decides to keep his bad toxic habits. Whatever the outcome will be I am ready to receive it with open arms❤😊
Thankyou for this one my space for my self is coming more and more everyday.
I needed this, I started crying though
Night and day difference actually. I honestly did not expect to experience much change and it's a totally different way to cut cords than I learned but I feel completely different today and began to as soon as the cord disolved. It was also interesting that I saw each step before it was described at all. It was a golden cord of pure light before she said it and I knew right away that it needed to dissolve and it did from the middle of it out. It made me cry. I did not want to say goodbye but when she said only what isnt serving will dissolve I was ok with that. It has been about 24 hours and I feel like myself again and at peace. I do feel disconnected but only in a good way.. I can still reach out and feel his energy if I want tom send him love if I want to but I'm no longer agonizing over it constantly, or at all actually...so far. will up date. thank you (if you read these) I can't thank you enough. It has been a living hell. I loved my Husband very very much but we're not right for each other. We were trauma bonding. It's been so so hard.
Update: still going strong. Seems this really did help me a ton! HUGE HUGE DIFFERENCE! Like night & day difference. I think I have also really benefited from deliberately recognitioning my association with him from positive to more negative (not in a critical way but just in like that he wasn't good for me/not a good match/he is just not emotionally healthy enough for a relationship.
@@hilostateofmind This is truly wonderful to hear and yes, I read all my comments. In a relationship like this I can tell you that with time and emotional distance we are able to see more clearly and still forgive, love and wish them the absolute best but know they are not ready and need to work on their own emotional stuff. It takes a lot to be able to see that and love ourselves enough to say no more... Sometimes us being there just doesn't allow space for that healing and growing. Much love to you. Keep moving forward and you will see.... wonderful things are happening.
Spot-on with where all my hurt is/was
Thank you very much for this! I was having an very painfull night and this gave me the deatachment that i needed!
I'll listen this every night untill i feel totally free again!
I am so happy to hear this gave you some peace my friend.
Gorgeous…..answered prayer for estrangement
I wish this brings me happiness and peace as time goes on, and I hope it does the same for him. Everyone deserves it but I'm struggling so hard bc of him lately, it's time to move on
Sobbed the whole way through.
i had a great relationship with my ex boyfriend for over a year and things got really toxic, even though I wanted us to work so bad he fell out of love and agreed that he is incapable of handling our relationship anymore because his mental health is getting worsened. I had to accept breaking up with him even though i wanted to give more efforts and fix whatever was broken. But it was impossible from his side so i had to let it go and accept the reality. it's been 3 months and I've realized after the break up how much i needed myself, how much emotionally dependent i was on that person. i needed constant reassurances and validation from him, he was like my therapist and he handled all my mood swings and helped me go through my bad times. After our break up, i realized i never truly took care of myself emotionally and i was stuck in a loop of bad habits and him being in my life was an escape from reality.
now I'm focusing on myself and trying to let him go even though i still love him. we don't talk anymore, there is so much in life i wanna talk about with him, but I've also accepted the reality that we were simply not meant to be together.
It almost seems that you're finding yourself and falling in love with you again. It's like that needed to happen so you could get to a better place yourself. Much love friend!
Thank you, it still hurts, but will be lesa and lesa, so helpful😢🙏❤️
Thank you so much for this beautiful ❤️ meditation ☺️ I'm forever grateful 🥲🥲🌸 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 I Did it'The first time and cried through the whole thing,then I repeated it again 💜 I do feel better and I know in Time The ache in my soul will dissipate. I never had such a deeper connection on a energetic level with anyone, I know what I felt they did the same but The chose another partner. I embrace the changes I need to make with unconditional universal love I let go of all that doesn't serve me ☺️.
Thank you again for this beautiful meditation 💖
Blessing's to All 🤗🙏❤️
The connections we have and feel are very real, even if life changes and they make other choices... we still experienced things we were meant to for our own soul growth. My experience served to show me and teach me how to love myself in a way I didn't know how to before in life. I am forever grateful for the beauty of the relationship and the wonderful and fun experiences... in hindsight I also see where we were very different. ALSO, I kept all the GOOD THINGS and have incorporated them into my life now... I guess it was within me all along... :) I hope you find these same wonderful things!
Thank you Mellisa, you just send out exactly what I need to listen to exactly at the right time! Bless you 🙏💚✨
This makes me so happy to hear. ❤️💖🙏 Blessings and love!
So beautiful and so profound! 🥺
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11:11 😇🌈📿🕉✡️❤️♾️🫂🌎🧿🙏🏻 Gratitude Gratitude Gratitude, Namo Universe, Namo Budhhay 😇🌈📿🕉✡️❤️♾️🫂🌎🧿🙏🏻
Wow this was incredible i suddenly felt lighter in my heart as u saw the light diminish thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏 you don't know how grateful I am to you 💯💯
Wonderful and thank you so much!
Teaches me if only my attachments were in christ not people or things of this world so let go of all worldly attachments time to shut off go within and release the weight
I COULD NOT agree with you anymore! ♥♥♥
I lost myself in this person and forgot who I was in Christ. So now I must renew my mind and return to my first love...Jesus. But I don't fool myself. I need Jesus and therapy and I'm soooo ok with that.
Thank you for sharing this. My husband and I haven't gotten a long for a long time but I won't say anything more. This will help immensely!
Your situation is not easy. It's difficult when you love someone and it just doesn't seem to be working. I've been there. Sometimes the best thing we can do is simply pray they are surrounded in white, loving light and let them do their thing, the way they insist upon doing it. Relationships are complicated and complex living things, always changing... it's our job however to make sure we stay in a safe, calm place and get to know, love and trust our inner selves completely and allow God within to guide us each step of the way.
@@MellisaDormoy Thank you very much! I appreciate your response! I'm not sure what we're doing yet but I have faith the Lord has it all in His control! Tahe care and I hope you have a great day!
I've been looking for a video to try to let myself move on. I tried to make it through just the beginning It is just beyond painful. But I'm gonna keep trying, but it's not just about her and very traumatic I realize she was just trying to help me. People without our problems you're both hurt terribly bad when we were younger. I don't know why it's so hard to let it go. It's like an all paid of ever experienced who is from what I can remember. But if I've started the process, so grateful for that. I hope she's not going to the same.
Two weeks ago, during eclipse season, my ex broke up with me. I haven't been well since, but I know this is for the best. Before the breakup, I prayed to God to remove him from my life if he wasn't good for me, and God answered my prayer. It's astonishing to think that, even though he didn't treat me well, I still grieve the relationship. I mourn the person he could have been and the future we once promised each other. There's a lingering feeling of unease about how he ended things, despite everything I did for him and the behaviors I tolerated. But I guess it's time for me to learn to let go of all grudges and fully release him, so I can continue and move on with my life. I wish myself and him well.
The eclipse season took mine as well :( I miss him lots but he said he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore. I’m ready to let go as well you’re not alone in this ❤️ it hurts to let go but holding onto hope that he will come back hurts more than
lord help me detach from him faster. and focus of self love more. i deserve someone better. 🎉❤😢😢😢
The greatest gift I gave myself in this same situation was not to look for someone else but to look within. There is so much love within our own hearts and we must learn to love ourselves and value ourselves first.. then others naturally do the same bc they see we accept nothing less.
Thank you sooo much.excellent and wonderful.
So nice of you!
Thank you
I feel so lost right now it’s been since August and he has moved on like nothing happened. I’m trying to release him but it’s hard …. It’s so difficult 😞😢
The guy I was attached to has your last name and he hurt me in August too I finally found the strength to let him go I hope you find peace as well
We should talk to get threw it 😩😭
Did you ever find out the truth about him
Keep on trying 💗🙏
I am so looking forward to this...your voice is so relaxing.
Oh, thank you SO MUCH Helen! ♥♥♥ Many blessings and much love!
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I feel in love with 4 different ppl and I've just been threw to much pain in my heart 💝💝💝💝 and honestly this actually is helping 🙏🏾 me in a big way although I don't want to repeat this cycle anymore I don't want toxicity in my life anymore I want ✌🏾 peace 🕊️ and harmony and love 💕 and affection and attention and loyalty and no cheating honest communication I just hope and pray 🙏🏾☺️💪🏾 that the man that enters my life is tall and light skinned and has his life together even tho we're both going threw our crisis in life we build and succeed and thrive with eachother and have a understanding of one each other and also were it's not just 1 sided although I pray 🙏🏾☺️💪🏾🤞🏾 that all of us can break 💔🙏🏾 this soul tie with anyone that u fell for God is good God Bless 🙏🏾🎉❤😢😊
Thank you ❤
Love your soothing voice. Thank you.
Alex, Tuva and family I hope you are happy together. Much love and happiness.
Wish him to be happy, i have to let him go, cuz he is not for me
My ex walked away from my life a out 6 months ago and we have a daughter together. It's been killing me. Need meds to even get out of bed. Most horrible thing I gone through.
I'm sorry this happened to you. The pain we feel in our hearts when separated from someone we love can seem almost unbearable, especially when the wound is fresh. One of the most important things to remember is that this is also a choice point in your life. Just by listening to these videos though you are choosing to work through this and heal... however slow it feels and knowing there are days where just getting out of bed is the accomplishment of the day... be gentle to yourself, kind to yourself. Feel the emotions and know that you are still OKAY and you will BE OKAY... much love my friend.
Am so sorry love is devastating I done all I could for my partner ,but he didn't see it.From the being it's been cheating,lies after lies.I broke up finally and realized 3 yrs.wasnt worth it but I still loved him it's days that I would just cry in bed and even couldn't sleep,so listen to some off these meditations and ask guardian angle Michel to sheild your heart.Hope this helps ❤️
I have gone through a long unrequited love for 6 years. I’ve tried everything to stop liking them, I started dating this girl and now I want nothing more than to stop the love I have for them. I love this girl and want a future with her. I just really hope this works because I’m so confused, I love the girl so much and want to marry her but the other person is still in my heart and I hate myself for that. I know they were the first person I loved in my life and that’s a big thing for people but why can’t I get over it. It’s stupid. I just want to be happy
Sorry you're going through this Willow. I know it's rough... but remember that feelings are never stupid.. they are what they are and they just want to be felt. I think sometimes we move on too quickly and get emotionally involved with a new person when our hearts are not really even ready for it because we haven't had full closure with the first. And closure is a personal thing.. doesn't have to be mutual... just in your own heart. The best advice I was ever given was to learn to love myself deeply and never try to fill it with another person... all people will fail because we are only human. If we learn to love ourselves unconditionally then other people just ADD to our happiness but we are not dependent on them. Heartache is the worst... but as I got older, I also sometimes realized that when I got into situations with unrequited love, it was because the Universe was kinna showing me "hey... I'm giving you a mirror... I'm magnifying what you need to work on..." and then I stopped dating all together and just focused on myself. I took classes, learned lots of new stuff, meditated and prayed everyday, did fun stuff with my sons... and eventually you learn that while it's FUN and AWESOME to have a partner, you can also be fully happy no matter what!... So that's my encouragement to you today my friend... Listen to some affirmations and KNOW deep down that you can DO/BE anything you desire... focus on THAT... and let your heart heal and feel love FROM YOU... you can do it.
I have recently been having to let this man go about almost a year ago i had almost lost this man to a car crash with him being in a coma for months just to find with while l he was almost on his death bed that he been secretly dealing with a family member behind my back now this hurts sense my blood was crying in the hospital too and dont talk over a man who both lied to us especially when me and her were close long story short he finally woke up from his coma with a TBI i couldn’t help but feel pity and still have him in my life boy was i wrong….. its like he got worse and treated me bad even though he should be lucky im still here which now i am gone. No one will every understand my pain when it comes to how he is not the same from suffering a tbi and also him lying to me in the past or even treating me bad… moral of the story I deserve sooo much better 🥺💔 it hurts so had I would get angry at god and question him on why he let me meet him cause this hurts so bad i pray that god can help me forgive him for myself honestly
What is the purpose of so much music after the meditation?
Wonderful meditation! Just what I needed.
I thought we was twin flame. Ever since ive met him ive been fighting for his attion. Sad part is i deeply on a soul leavel desired him, wanted him so bad. Strong pull towards him... But he looked for ways to hurt me. The worst hurtful situation he could do to deepl cut at my heart. Not one singnel time has he ever Felt bad or ashamed of how he misled me then purposly hurt me.never showing any care or symptoms of the pain he influcked on me.. i never let any person treat me this way.. i dont know why i let him keep hurting me let him come back so he could hurt me worst then befoer. He has always replaced me woth leaving with another person. Laughing at the hurt in my face. Never cared . Convining others i had caused the ending. why i dont know why i couldnotlet go??? Any one know???
it sounds like a classic case of narcissist read up about narcissism
Beautiful voice. Thank you for this... I really needed it.
Thank you so much... I'm glad it helps... so important because it's not easy. much love..
17 long years.. hope this works x
Thankyou 💫🌛💫
Thank you so much
The person that I want to break my bond with is someone whom I meet at office everyday. So it gets even more difficult to break the bond. But I'll try. I'm trying.
Agreed.. it's harder when you cannot break full contact. Sometimes it's helpful to see that person as your spiritual sister.. and not in the context of intimate relationship you just had.
Sorry mate! I know how you feel. I been there and still there.
I gave all my heart but didn't see any effort from the other side it pained me. It was better letting her go.
Unfortunately sometimes that is the way it goes. But love is never lost. You can never reproach yourself for giving your all... remember that every closed door is only leading you to THE RIGHT DESTINATION.... it hurts at times because we get attached... but remember it's a journey we all have to live. Much love friend....
I is go through the same thing yearly it’s like a recycle ♻️ honestly given up on dating or meeting anyone just gonna accept my fait I’m one of those people who’s gonna be single forever .. so I’ll just be single successful and happy that’s all I can so tired of being hurt people leave me over the smallest things I’ve even had family walk out on me
Time to live your life to the fullest and focus on YOU. When you get into that state of being the very best version of yourself, you will attract the PERFECT person! I swear that is how these things work.
@@MellisaDormoy I really hope you’re right ‼️‼️
Sounds like New Age BS to me. 🙄🙄
@@coyoteprophet9734 maybe to you
I cried so hard but I had to let go of him as he is happy with his lady I loved him for 3 years but it wasn't to be might have to do this daily for a while
You deserve someone who will love you and only you. It's so hard to let go of someone we love bu I always tell myself when things don't work out, it's bc God is pointing me in another direction. It feels so hard right now... but after you heal, good things are in store. BETTER more loving things... and it's all worth it. We are learning and growing all of us, and pain is unfortunately part of our growth so we can get to where we need to be. Much love friend...
Painted Lady - Gayathri 🦋
This was so helpful. Thank you
She was a very good woman wearing nice dresses, well educated, abs never partied in her life. She met new friends and became someone horrific wearing micro skirts, clubbing, drugs, and constantly cheating. I was deeply hurt as she hid that life from me and pretended to be the same girl I initially met. So glad I didn’t marry but I need to heal.
This is a wonderful video. Thank you.
Dear haters,
The way you hate me gives me motivation.
I get motivation from the way you hate my confidence.
I love the way you know me better than I know my self.
You give me motivation when you call me ugly because your still watching even though I’m apparently not your type.
Your still there no matter what.
You give me motivation when I try to get ready and you hate and mess up my make up.
I love the way you wait until get my clothes you hate then too.
I love it when you try to make me broke.
I love the way you make me want to look trampy all the time.
I love it when you make me aloner it helps me think better.
I love the way you inferior with my family.
It’s like you have no family to be watching my family day and night.
I just love you
Thank you 🙏
Keep watching me
I love to entertain you daily
I felt this made me feel like better what I'm feeling now thanks
@@ladyrubyonpoint thanks 🙏
It pisses me off. Every time she needed me i was right there. Not once was she there for me. I was lied to used and taken advantage of and she still say she loves and cares about me. What a crock. Everytime she rejected me i improved myself. Only thing i got out of even being friends with her was a bunch of growth. At least thats something
She was the teacher you needed for that growth. Thank her for the lessons and go forward toward the life and love that us waiting on you😊
Thank you Mellisa - your voice is comforting and energising at the same time
Brilliant
The fact that i realised he might have been married and was just using me for entertainment hurts looking back at all the signs i missed, constant phonecalls he would ignore, unavailability on weekends..it hurts because he pretended to want to be with me only to get physical n once he got that he dumped me n blamed it on me that i was "too emotional too early" n this was because i was simply laying boundaries, it hurts but i know I'll be okay
My Dear, that's a hurtful lesson and I am sorry it happened to you. You are wiser now thought for it. Next time, you'll demand better, ask WHY and put yourself and your ideals first. It hurts our hearts when someone uses us but that's their lack of integrity and values... I pity those types of people in a way because they are lying to themselves and the ppl in their lives too. They are stuck spiritually not moving forward but moving in a self-serving cycle. You on the other hand, are wiser and you know what to look for now and can be diligent. Set your boundaries Queen. Make them clear. If someone doesn't like them, they are not for you.
@MellisaDormoy Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot !
I'm giving up on all relationships from dating apps.
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I messed up a lot in the relationship, showed a lot of my imperfections, at the end she left me at my lowest, she did help and care for me for a lot of it, and I ended up hurting her the most at the end of the day, after she left and blocked me on everything, she started posting stuff about me and it turned out she wasn’t all I thought she was, she even found herself a new person to fufill the needs I didn’t give, it was a lot, but now I j need to let go.
We ALL mess up a lot in relationships... and it's normal to show imperfections in relationships because we are being REAL and AUTHENTIC... We are all imperfect just trying to grow and become better. When you get with someone who is ready to learn and grow with you, then you'll be with the right person... relationships are ALL ABOUT GROWTH and being able to be vulnerable with that person.. to share your WHOLE HEART.. and if you can't, then babe you're with the wrong person!
You have a most compassionate voice. I guess I am too angry yet.to send blessings his way! He promised to help.me with my rent and now says he cant! He is a.liar . I have.given him my love but he just.never appreciated He has hurt and deceived other women as well. We have been in and out with eash.other.for 18 years. I want.to move on I want to be with someone who really wants.to have a healthy living wage relationship This cord with him has to be CUT!
Soooo did it work ?
I had to let her go. She was the love of my life. We dated in 2022 she broke up with me and dated three or more narcissistic tools. Yet I bought her everything she wanted. Now no contact from her and I need to find someone who makes me a priority as I do them. Goodbye Lisa. I gave you my heart and you continued to break it.
Thank you 🙏❤️
My wife left me 20 years married 😔,, 18 year old daughter. 💜🙏✨
Thanks for your video 🙏.
@@ThesearchforBeautifulsouls 🌹
letting go
Thank You VERY Much. 😊
My pleasure!! I hope you love it! ❤️❤️
Close one door and stop trying to figure out how to open it up so you can focus on the door that has opened.
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