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Disagree with the strong handshake, i see that as an insecure person trying to impress, i deliberately do a soft handshake because i`m not insecure and don`t need to impress anyone...
Quick Review: 1. Firm handshake and eye contact show interest and confidence 2. Folding arms means shielding oneself and one's boundaries 3. Wandering eyes while talking shows disinterest 4. A little eye contact from time to time while talking shows shyness 5. Fidgeting shows nervousness 6. Leaning in while conversating shows interest and fondness 7. Walking with head held high shows self-assurance 8. Slouching shows shyness, nervousness, or low self-esteem 9. Nodding a lot shows concern or fear of judgment Timeliness: Arriving early shows dedication and responsibility Arriving late shows disorganization in life Voice Modulation: Slow monotonous speech shows exhaustion Quick fast speech shows anxiety
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I have always had a firm hand shake, but people told me that it was too ferm. So I loosed up,and people looked at me strange. So I stopped doing that. Then I got more respect. Don't change your self for others, be yourself always. Happy Halloween 🎃
I don’t need any tricks to read anyone, ever! I feel you! I feel your emotions! I feel your feelings! I can even feel some people’s thoughts! Try lying to me! I will feel your lies in an instant! Yes, I am an empath, with people, with animals and with plants. Super green thumb here. It’s a gift/ curse. It’s not something you can turn off or on. I will feel your emotions and feelings regardless! I really wish I could turn it off. It would be nice to not be burdened with others feelings and emotions!
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Well, I am not so... either lucky, or well educated. However, I rather rely on my intuition than in life experience. As I concluded multiple times, if someone's goal is to cheat me somehow they can do it. Such perfectly trained people or such a naïve the writer of this short comment?
My personal take on 1st impressions is that I’ve experienced on both sides of the spectrum that the 1st impression isn’t everything. So I don’t judge ppl solely based on the 1st impression. Where they not having a good day? Going through something in their life. Or were they Reallllllly TRYING to put on the best face only to find out later that they don’t come across as such a good person? And when it comes to crossing arms I have realized that I do this when I’m standing and I am actually into a conversation or idea that someone is speaking about. I am engaged, taking it in, and thinking … not disinterested nor afraid of the convo/blocking/guarding myself So when I see others do this I am not so quick to judge negatively. Although I do realize and understand that the general interpretation of the general population crossing their arms equates to guarding or shutting down
Mind-blowing insights on instant reading! Unraveling the nuances of non-verbal communication is like discovering a hidden language. This video is a crash course in understanding the unspoken. Kudos for decoding the art of quick insights!
I agree.. It’s kinda been an Art with ME.. The handshake n All I knew n other things But non-verbal clues Show Up on the Face n Eyes.. Even if you are talking.. you can see what is happening.. normally I will say … this is the Case.. Sometimes.. just watching people .. they could be in deep thought or You can see glow.. We all are different ✌️
I found this limited in that it does not consider or mention people who are neuro-atypical, as many of the less desirable behaviors may result from this and not shyness, etc. as is often mentioned in this youtube. I think it is very important to inform people about how neuro-atypical people would or could behave in these same situations. Thanks.
Thank you for your comment, I was thinking the same thing this entire video! I have two boys with ASD and a daughter with OCD. Everything they did is a red flag according to this video. This is an over generalization for sure.
Peace to all. I differ from certain of your views. In our religion it is emphasized to lower our gaze and to walk modestly without showing pride and ostentation....so i lower my gaze in a quest to attain piety to please my Almighty God..and i walk lowering my head with light footsteps....but that doesn't mean at all that I m not confident or lack interest or am shy and not trustworthy. Food for thought.... Not all what you see can make judgements !!! Dr.Rubina Aslam Khan.❤
If you are downcast, it must be difficult to register any judgements, as you're not seeing, but totally in your own world? Treading lightly on our earth is a good thing!
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Lack of eye contact can also indicate that you cannot stand that person !!! lol. I do not make eye contact with fools !!! Please remember, NEVER APPROACH A BULL FROM THE FRONT, A HORSE FROM THE BACK or A FOOL FROM ANY DIRECTION !!!
In the animal kingdom it os a threat. And, with some cultures it is the same. So biased. If I do not know you, I don't allow it toward me and I do not do it unless I want to read your soul. Some of us very perceptive and do not want to see what we see.
Psychological tricks are fascinating, but here's a question: if we start 'reading' everyone instantly, are we enhancing our connections or just becoming more manipulative? 🤔 It’s a fine line between understanding others and using that knowledge to influence them. Makes me wonder, are we really learning about others, or just sharpening our tools to control them?
I agree that a weak handshake can denote shyness, or dishonesty. But if a person who just doesn't like you, does that come under the category of dishonesty? Or would it be something else, especially if you've never met before? I've gotten a few of those 'dead fish' handshakes from people who, for some reason, didn't like me on sight. And even when I notice this, & a lot of times it's apparent in their faces (averted eyes, or worse, unadulterated dislike in those eyes), I still give a firm handshake, a smile, then try my best to avoid them :). #2--Folded arms. Definitely agree. But it can certainly also mean anger (personal experience :) #3--Gotta watch those eyes! 😶 #5--Invading Personal space. Good to know in case I ever get a 'Close talker' :) But then, that could be me! :o I Am a little 'touchy-feelly'. Wish more people were instead of this 'coolness' if not downright coldness, that prevails today. #9--I wholeheartedly agree with you there. A pet peeve of mine. People who are constantly late (assuming they show up at all these days), are 'lacking enthusiasm', at best. A person who leaves a 'trail' of tardiness is telling you that you are not important. #12--Clothing? Certainly an indicator. But so many place so much emphasis on what a person wears--Jordans, Calvin Klein, Coach purses..., how nice of a car they drive--a BMW, a Lexus, a Mercedes... I say, who cares? Too much emphasis on the superficial even if they know a devil lurks inside. I've met more interesting, down to earth people wearing tennis shoes and jeans, driving an old car or pickup truck than I ever have in the aforementioned. I'm not all that concerned about "the outside of the pot". What's inside is what should speak the louder, and it's usually not the case. Psychology has always held my interest... I'm so glad you mention to not jump to conclusions. So many people do. And to engage in conversations to get to know another better. So many people don't. A good 'basics' presentation 👍
@@joanyow7952 Of course! I do that almost daily. I'm sure most of us do. I just don't like people who judge superficially--the clothes, the car, the Race... (And of course I don't like thieves, liars, slackers...)
I agree I have a picture of me in a park when I was about 6 with my arms crossed, because a highly iratating child had comadered my bike , little did he know my explosive temper,not proud of it but he truly got off lightly , probably me dragging him off or my dad stepping in ,I still look at the photo with anger , needles to say The school bully got more than he bargained for,Never let Anybody try to override you 🇬🇧@@Karen-e1f
At age 18 when I was being introduced around as the new junior secretary, a couple of the men squeezed my hand until my palm folded painfully. I'm sure that they were generally nice middle-aged guys who had momentarily forgotten that they needn't impress me with their 'manly' handshakes. The second time it happened, I pulled away and let the hurt be known. Years later on, I became a longtime friend of several guitar and saxophone players, and well knew why they avoided handshakes with strangers who might unwittingly mash their fingers. Instead, light fist-bumps sufficed as friendly greetings.
No. 5 I would also add if someone invades your personal space causing you to step back is a form of intemidation and bullying to see if you move back and give in to submission.
Yes, it is sad that people prefer to con others rather than work hard for what they have. The last year I have been played for material gain - so I decided to play THEM. Bitter sweet really - I think I should go no contact rather than pretend I am stupid and then watch their disappointment when I "change my mind" ;) @@tj87889
Well one thing is chronic back problems. My girlfriend always says you're slouching some what n I'm like chronic pain has changed my posture. But it's true trying to keep your posture as much as possible.
Excellent observations which are all true. But the apply only as a general rule that assumes that both parties interest is to come across as open minded and that there is a mutual interest in connecting emotionally with each other.In many of the business situations I am in - I do have zero interest in the other being able to read me. Yes - I deliberately block the other to be able to asses my opinion, my impression of him and the next move I will take. I call it applied psychology - rather then a text book - one fits all type of approach. Which - psychiatrists and in particular Marriage Counselors - who often are sympathizing with one of the partners of the couple they are supposed to counsel and turn the counseling session into "a dog obedience style of lecturing". If you do not do what "normal people do" you cannot expect the other to be happy with you. You must obey - is their conclusion.
And Number 13 is the tone that's in one's voice as well as the way they portray their words in regards to what they are saying and bow they are displaying and/or explaining it is also another method that could help one understand a little more easier and/or clearer about the other.
I like People whose Nationality is mankind.This world is like a stage so always be kind with everyone Psychologically and B sincere and Positive under all circumstances.We can change ourselves not the world.
I feel it when my pupils are dilatated it gives me a sense of warmth to my body.Some situations we have to observe too as the surrounding or personal situations who can give a wrong sign to the other person
I don't like soft mushy weak handshakes. I am a woman but I have a firm handshake because I feel like it transmits my dynamic energy and passion. Please don't break my hand, though. 😊
Wow, this video was so insightful! I never knew there were so many psychological tricks to read people instantly. I can't wait to try them out in real life and improve my understanding of others. Thank you for sharing these valuable techniques!
Greetings are very important to allow adjustment between conversants. Often if they are too short, an interviewer will spend too much attention to the superficial, and the interviewee will feel anxious about the shallowness of his invitation.
It six when you have a gift like that i can tell if anyone is acting out the norm or lieing or body language and they know exactly who they are that the reason the avoid me be i can just tell ive lost almost every friend ive ever had just because i can't trust them or know that they know i know something is off with them and they get pissed about me being able to have that ability and im about to lose a few more friends i known since a young boy who i thought would never lie to me or keep something from me i can't stand a lier i do not tolerate at all a lie or someone acting differently toward me i can read these fools like a hot rod or off road magazine 👀
I once looked into someones eyes and immediately had to look away as I saw evil. Sure enough that boy went back to the pen on a 25yr sentence. When he finally got out i saw him again and the evil was gone.
I want to know more about " Empath " to talk in person with some people for an exchange of wat is known about empath , focus of mind and thought to know what else could I unlock and enable , what am I really capable of . I am a very dedicated scientist for I spend a lot of time in deep thought. @@LL-nq9fs
Hmm, imho certain aspects of reality are omitted here; which do in fact affect many people... like : ADHD & Aspergers and ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) all of which have various behavioral issues involved that maybe misunderstood by anyone who is unaware of these conditions...
I ceased all attempts at successful, interpersonal, social, interactions on the 8th of August 2000 at 18:34. Some individuals are incapable of assimilating the customs and and protocols associated with being able to be accepted by social herds and successfully social humans. I am such individual. However, when I ceased all attempts at being accepted by the socials, I mitigated the negatives associated with social isolation. I found there are few actual benefits to being social, but enormous benefits to social isolation.
I found this video extremely helpful as I am facing into a very stressful situation which is way beyond my comfort zone in a few days time! So I am going to watch this video again to really familiarise myself on what to expect from the other person and how to handle myself in the meeting! Thank you!🙏🏻! Px
I cary a radio and when not working i set and listen to that. Some times with a note book.and cup of tea. This is thought of figit. Or indifrence?. On my part ..This gets some folks jacked up. But lm calm when i get called. And ready. 😊
Well, interesting mostly for beginners at the einterview. Instead of concentrating on thehem, they shift attention on the interviewer. It helps both releasing the stress and asking question just about the interviewerś behaviour. Many thaks. Paul.68
This video shows what is normal in everyday life for the majority of people. However, it would better to include a disclaimer for the neurodiverse community which is larger than has been thought. Someone who is neurodiverse, such as: autistic, ADHD, suffering with anxiety or depression, will often not make eye contact or may not be comfortable with touching. As the world becomes more inclusive of differences in cognition or congenital brain function, videos such as this will only address standards that no longer be fit for purpose.
I have a problem with men not reading my signals. Arms crossed annoyed look on face avoiding eye contact. They will walk up & put their hand on my arm or offer to shake hands when all I want is to be left alone. The flip side is the more attracted to a lady I am the more nervous I get then they don't see the attraction they see me as lacking confidence.
right eye left eye. all the same to me. look at both unless wanting to intimidate or soothe. look into both and confuses people but also is then about love as you are comfortable with both sides of them and their brain
I suspect this documentary expresses US body language and why following it explains US failure in relations with the rest of the world. One word RESPECT, before you give a Bear-Hugg
Can someone explain to me why a person can be said to have beautiful eyes , but when those same eyes are staring at you from a glass jar the beauty somehow disappears ?
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Disagree with the strong handshake, i see that as an insecure person trying to impress, i deliberately do a soft handshake because i`m not insecure and don`t need to impress anyone...
You have not experienced life to make such generalized statements
@@varghesegeorge1085 yes i have...
Quick Review:
1. Firm handshake and eye contact show interest and confidence
2. Folding arms means shielding oneself and one's boundaries
3. Wandering eyes while talking shows disinterest
4. A little eye contact from time to time while talking shows shyness
5. Fidgeting shows nervousness
6. Leaning in while conversating shows interest and fondness
7. Walking with head held high shows self-assurance
8. Slouching shows shyness, nervousness, or low self-esteem
9. Nodding a lot shows concern or fear of judgment
Timeliness:
Arriving early shows dedication and responsibility
Arriving late shows disorganization in life
Voice Modulation:
Slow monotonous speech shows exhaustion
Quick fast speech shows anxiety
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@@nassermj7671 most welcome!
Thank you! I wish every video came with a quick summary like this.
Thank you🧡
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For me I like people with good intentions for the world people. I think I'm just out of reality lol 😂😂😂 most people don't work on themselves.
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NOT INTERESTED IN BEING SELF-ACTUALIZED ❤❤❤
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Most people are selfish scumbags
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Good people are actually extremely rare
Sure seems that way. The ones we think are, usually playing at something.😮@@marcalampi5036
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Well 3 out of 4 ain't bad
Same to u
Why do people put annoying music when they are talking. Its distracting and difficult to follow.
Thanks for the tip!
Absolutely agree, in fact I recently commented on this very thing recently - if the situation was in reverse I can’t imagine it would be ignored.
Agree it's annoying
I didn't even notice until I saw this comment.
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I have always had a firm hand shake, but people told me that it was too ferm. So I loosed up,and people looked at me strange. So I stopped doing that. Then I got more respect. Don't change your self for others, be yourself always. Happy Halloween 🎃
I don’t need any tricks to read anyone, ever! I feel you! I feel your emotions! I feel your feelings! I can even feel some people’s thoughts! Try lying to me! I will feel your lies in an instant!
Yes, I am an empath, with people, with animals and with plants. Super green thumb here. It’s a gift/ curse.
It’s not something you can turn off or on. I will feel your emotions and feelings regardless! I really wish I could turn it off. It would be nice to not be burdened with others feelings and emotions!
Me too Sheila. It's unbearable at times. Much love to you from Kerry in England ❤
One's energy introduces one b4 one even speaks
The world is a stage, and each must play his part. That’s what it amounts to.
People can be good actors.
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“ They wear their masks and play their part.”
Arthur Schopenhauer
And it is up to us to contribute a verse.😊
I can read people like a book. I can see if they like, are intimidated by, or envy me. Also, I can instantly tell if they're LYING!
Es freut mich wirklich, dass du versucht hast, dich in die Lage deines Partners zu versetzen, und dass es letztendlich zu einer positiven Veränderung geführt hat. Das Lachen ist oft der beste Weg, um Spannungen abzubauen. Was die High Heels betrifft, kann ich verstehen, dass das weiterhin eine Herausforderung darstellt. Vielleicht könnt ihr gemeinsam nach Lösungen suchen oder überlegen, wie ihr auch in solchen Momenten humorvoll miteinander umgehen könnt. In jedem Fall klingt es nach einem guten Schritt in die richtige Richtung!
Same. I could spot disingenuousness at three years old. I only need my eyes, not my ears. Listen to their body language.
Well, I am not so... either lucky, or well educated. However, I rather rely on my intuition than in life experience. As I concluded multiple times, if someone's goal is to cheat me somehow they can do it. Such perfectly trained people or such a naïve the writer of this short comment?
Compare some of the stuff they mentioned in this video with your own moods. Some of it is spot on for me. Body language can say a lot about someone.
Always depends on context. I fold my arms when im cold i.e.
My intuition will tell me at an instant . Most cases l avoid association due to age & poor foresight. Keep close to God's Word is the best. Amen.
My personal take on 1st impressions is that I’ve experienced on both sides of the spectrum that the 1st impression isn’t everything. So I don’t judge ppl solely based on the 1st impression. Where they not having a good day? Going through something in their life. Or were they Reallllllly TRYING to put on the best face only to find out later that they don’t come across as such a good person?
And when it comes to crossing arms I have realized that I do this when I’m standing and I am actually into a conversation or idea that someone is speaking about. I am engaged, taking it in, and thinking … not disinterested nor afraid of the convo/blocking/guarding myself
So when I see others do this I am not so quick to judge negatively. Although I do realize and understand that the general interpretation of the general population crossing their arms equates to guarding or shutting down
I think every1 has his her way of thinking I go wit da gut if it's a good feeling I proceed if it's a bad feeling I stay away
Gut feelings are never wrong, always listen to your gut feelings, they are 100% accurate!
Mind-blowing insights on instant reading! Unraveling the nuances of non-verbal communication is like discovering a hidden language. This video is a crash course in understanding the unspoken. Kudos for decoding the art of quick insights!
I agree.. It’s kinda been an Art with ME..
The handshake n All I knew n other things
But non-verbal clues
Show Up on the Face n Eyes.. Even if you are talking.. you can see what is happening.. normally
I will say … this is the
Case..
Sometimes.. just watching people ..
they could be in deep thought or
You can see glow..
We all are different ✌️
@@ForeverTogether219 exactly!🙌
Yes the more I attempt to find micro expressions and body language. The more I find we do say so much through these things
@@skepticalgenious exactly🙂
Body language speaks volumes..Inspiring ❤😊
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I found this limited in that it does not consider or mention people who are neuro-atypical, as many of the less desirable behaviors may result from this and not shyness, etc. as is often mentioned in this youtube. I think it is very important to inform people about how neuro-atypical people would or could behave in these same situations. Thanks.
Thank you for your comment, I was thinking the same thing this entire video! I have two boys with ASD and a daughter with OCD. Everything they did is a red flag according to this video. This is an over generalization for sure.
Peace to all.
I differ from certain of your views.
In our religion it is emphasized to lower our gaze and to walk modestly without showing pride and ostentation....so i lower my gaze in a quest to attain piety to please my Almighty God..and i walk lowering my head with light footsteps....but that doesn't mean at all that I m not confident or lack interest or am shy and not trustworthy.
Food for thought....
Not all what you see can make judgements !!!
Dr.Rubina Aslam Khan.❤
If you are downcast, it must be difficult to register any judgements, as you're not seeing, but totally in your own world? Treading lightly on our earth is a good thing!
Macht weiter so! Ihr Engagement, andere durch Wissen zu befähigen, macht einen Unterschied, und ich freue mich, zusammen mit vielen anderen, auf Ihre zukünftigen Inhalte.
Thanks a lot!
Crossing arms can also signal you are focused. There is a lot of research showing that crossing the arms helps focus while you are thinking
Thanks, that seems true!
Lack of eye contact can also indicate that you cannot stand that person !!! lol. I do not make eye contact with fools !!! Please remember, NEVER APPROACH A BULL FROM THE FRONT, A HORSE FROM THE BACK or A FOOL FROM ANY DIRECTION !!!
Amen hahaha
In the animal kingdom it os a threat. And, with some cultures it is the same. So biased. If I do not know you, I don't allow it toward me and I do not do it unless I want to read your soul. Some of us very perceptive and do not want to see what we see.
Psychological tricks are fascinating, but here's a question: if we start 'reading' everyone instantly, are we enhancing our connections or just becoming more manipulative? 🤔 It’s a fine line between understanding others and using that knowledge to influence them. Makes me wonder, are we really learning about others, or just sharpening our tools to control them?
I agree that a weak handshake can denote shyness, or dishonesty. But if a person who just doesn't like you, does that come under the category of dishonesty? Or would it be something else, especially if you've never met before? I've gotten a few of those 'dead fish' handshakes from people who, for some reason, didn't like me on sight. And even when I notice this, & a lot of times it's apparent in their faces (averted eyes, or worse, unadulterated dislike in those eyes), I still give a firm handshake, a smile, then try my best to avoid them :).
#2--Folded arms. Definitely agree. But it can certainly also mean anger (personal experience :)
#3--Gotta watch those eyes! 😶
#5--Invading Personal space. Good to know in case I ever get a 'Close talker' :) But then, that could be me! :o I Am a little 'touchy-feelly'. Wish more people were instead of this 'coolness' if not downright coldness, that prevails today.
#9--I wholeheartedly agree with you there. A pet peeve of mine. People who are constantly late (assuming they show up at all these days), are 'lacking enthusiasm', at best. A person who leaves a 'trail' of tardiness is telling you that you are not important.
#12--Clothing? Certainly an indicator. But so many place so much emphasis on what a person wears--Jordans, Calvin Klein, Coach purses..., how nice of a car they drive--a BMW, a Lexus, a Mercedes... I say, who cares? Too much emphasis on the superficial even if they know a devil lurks inside. I've met more interesting, down to earth people wearing tennis shoes and jeans, driving an old car or pickup truck than I ever have in the aforementioned. I'm not all that concerned about "the outside of the pot". What's inside is what should speak the louder, and it's usually not the case.
Psychology has always held my interest...
I'm so glad you mention to not jump to conclusions. So many people do.
And to engage in conversations to get to know another better. So many people don't.
A good 'basics' presentation 👍
sometimes you have to deal with people you do not like.
@@joanyow7952 Of course! I do that almost daily. I'm sure most of us do. I just don't like people who judge superficially--the clothes, the car, the Race... (And of course I don't like thieves, liars, slackers...)
If a young child crosses their arms, it might be a really bad sign.😢
I agree I have a picture of me in a park when I was about 6 with my arms crossed, because a highly iratating child had comadered my bike , little did he know my explosive temper,not proud of it but he truly got off lightly , probably me dragging him off or my dad stepping in ,I still look at the photo with anger , needles to say The school bully got more than he bargained for,Never let Anybody try to override you 🇬🇧@@Karen-e1f
At age 18 when I was being introduced around as the new junior secretary, a couple of the men squeezed my hand until my palm folded painfully. I'm sure that they were generally nice middle-aged guys who had momentarily forgotten that they needn't impress me with their 'manly' handshakes. The second time it happened, I pulled away and let the hurt be known. Years later on, I became a longtime friend of several guitar and saxophone players, and well knew why they avoided handshakes with strangers who might unwittingly mash their fingers. Instead, light fist-bumps sufficed as friendly greetings.
No. 5 I would also add if someone invades your personal space causing you to step back is a form of intemidation and bullying to see if you move back and give in to submission.
Not in Japanese culture they like to be close to the person they are talking to. You also have to look at cultural norms as well
Treat each one with respect.
Always! 🙏
Eye contact for me, has always been really hard. I have a lot of trust issues due to rejection
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I do eyes contact but I don't trust people anymore lots of people cheated and scammed me.
Yes, it is sad that people prefer to con others rather than work hard for what they have. The last year I have been played for material gain - so I decided to play THEM. Bitter sweet really - I think I should go no contact rather than pretend I am stupid and then watch their disappointment when I "change my mind" ;) @@tj87889
Same!
Get used to rejection it happens to us all
Clothes really do make the person - time to rethink my wardrobe choices!
Well one thing is chronic back problems. My girlfriend always says you're slouching some what n I'm like chronic pain has changed my posture. But it's true trying to keep your posture as much as possible.
@3:32 the way that person bent their fingers back at the knuckles, gave me chills. I tried to do the same and can't!
Right, my knuckles hurt now 😂
That's it I'm wearing a tuxedo to my next job interview
Excellent observations which are all true. But the apply only as a general rule that assumes that both parties interest is to come across as open minded and that there is a mutual interest in connecting emotionally with each other.In many of the business situations I am in - I do have zero interest in the other being able to read me. Yes - I deliberately block the other to be able to asses my opinion, my impression of him and the next move I will take.
I call it applied psychology - rather then a text book - one fits all type of approach. Which - psychiatrists and in particular Marriage Counselors - who often are sympathizing with one of the partners of the couple they are supposed to counsel and turn the counseling session into "a dog obedience style of lecturing". If you do not do what "normal people do" you cannot expect the other to be happy with you. You must obey - is their conclusion.
Hmmm...I am autistic and watching this video got me thinking how much people can misinterpret my bodylanguage.
And Number 13 is the tone that's in one's voice as well as the way they portray their words in regards to what they are saying and bow they are displaying and/or explaining it is also another method that could help one understand a little more easier and/or clearer about the other.
I like People whose Nationality is mankind.This world is like a stage so always be kind with everyone Psychologically and B sincere and Positive under all circumstances.We can change ourselves not the world.
I feel it when my pupils are dilatated it gives me a sense of warmth to my body.Some situations we have to observe too as the surrounding or personal situations who can give a wrong sign to the other person
I had issues with keeping eye contact due to trauma . But I get it
The eyes are the windows to the soul
True !
I got two thumbs up, liked the video.
If you don’t like reading books, stay out of the library. If you don’t want to read people, stay away from people.
I focuss on talk must match the walk.
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I don't like soft mushy weak handshakes. I am a woman but I have a firm handshake because I feel like it transmits my dynamic energy and passion. Please don't break my hand, though. 😊
Interesting!
I feel very uncomfortable with handshakes. I find it strange that anyone would judge my character by that.
You should also include owning. When owning means jealousy and not interested
Thanks for the tip!
in our culture, not making eye contact with teachers are considered as respecting them.
Interesting video; Please look up "disinterested", which means not biased.
As the Stoics said: "Focus on what truly matters." - Life is short. Spend your energy on what aligns with your values and purpose.
Love this quote!
Wow, this video was so insightful! I never knew there were so many psychological tricks to read people instantly. I can't wait to try them out in real life and improve my understanding of others. Thank you for sharing these valuable techniques!
Greetings are very important to allow adjustment between conversants. Often if they are too short, an interviewer will spend too much attention to the superficial, and the interviewee will feel anxious about the shallowness of his invitation.
It six when you have a gift like that i can tell if anyone is acting out the norm or lieing or body language and they know exactly who they are that the reason the avoid me be i can just tell ive lost almost every friend ive ever had just because i can't trust them or know that they know i know something is off with them and they get pissed about me being able to have that ability and im about to lose a few more friends i known since a young boy who i thought would never lie to me or keep something from me i can't stand a lier i do not tolerate at all a lie or someone acting differently toward me i can read these fools like a hot rod or off road magazine 👀
I once looked into someones eyes and immediately had to look away as I saw evil. Sure enough that boy went back to the pen on a 25yr sentence. When he finally got out i saw him again and the evil was gone.
Thats insane haha
@@PsychologyWave it was pretty wild. I have been able to do that a few times but that was the first time
Widely known, but always valuable data, thank you !
Glad it was helpful!
This was excellent. Thank you!
Thanks, glad you liked the video!:)
Very helpful and insightful
Thank you 🙏
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This,truly is helpful❤❤❤
It's hard to believe somebody face to face if you are jealous.
So true, very apt analysis
Thank u so much 😊!
Since covid the handshake is out and the fist bump is the in thing 😂 !
Only if you believe the hype. First bumping is for the fearful not the confident.
Sometime i. Don’t I shake hands firm but I conduct my self the same as if I did
I've decided to change my (a)tire. I'm getting my snow (a)tires on next week. Did I miss the point?
Thanks for this video! Hope to see more videos soon
I have to avoid looking at someone's face and eyes , when I look to long I know what that person is thinking and how they feel .
It's a feeler or seer gift..God gives..I have developed it over many years and had lots of inner healings so I can sense them more accurately.
You're an empath
I want to know more about " Empath " to talk in person with some people for an exchange of wat is known about empath , focus of mind and thought to know what else could I unlock and enable , what am I really capable of . I am a very dedicated scientist for I spend a lot of time in deep thought. @@LL-nq9fs
Then I want to learn how to be all I can be , very powerful in a very Good and never use my powers for bad. @@michellebobier-groves7821
If that handshake one is true, no woman has any real confidence. Truth. I say this because most women I have met, usually give a soft handshake.
Hmm, imho certain aspects of reality are omitted here; which do in fact affect many people... like : ADHD & Aspergers and ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) all of which have various behavioral issues involved that maybe misunderstood by anyone who is unaware of these conditions...
1. Manipulators know all of that, even more.
2. I met ppl with same behavjour, but radicaly different intentions.
Thanks for posting
No problem ! :)
Thk you for your input!😊
No problem!
Good tips!
Glad you think so!
SUBHANA ALLAH LIKE MY EYES EASY TO READ THE PERSONAL OF THE ANY PERSON I ENCOUNTERED ALHAMDULILLAH YAH RABBIAL ALLAH AMEEN
Human is not that simple.
Thats right. Some of us wipe with the left.
With all of this guidance I become an social actor a mendacious influencer
I ceased all attempts at successful, interpersonal, social, interactions on the 8th of August 2000 at 18:34. Some individuals are incapable of assimilating the customs and and protocols associated with being able to be accepted by social herds and successfully social humans. I am such individual. However, when I ceased all attempts at being accepted by the socials, I mitigated the negatives associated with social isolation. I found there are few actual benefits to being social, but enormous benefits to social isolation.
I found this video extremely helpful as I am facing into a very stressful situation which is way beyond my comfort zone in a few days time! So I am going to watch this video again to really familiarise myself on what to expect from the other person and how to handle myself in the meeting! Thank you!🙏🏻! Px
I’m glad that the video helped u! Thank u
I cary a radio and when not working i set and listen to that. Some times with a note book.and cup of tea. This is thought of figit. Or indifrence?. On my part ..This gets some folks jacked up. But lm calm when i get called. And ready. 😊
Well, interesting mostly for beginners at the einterview. Instead of concentrating on thehem, they shift attention on the interviewer. It helps both releasing the stress and asking question just about the interviewerś behaviour. Many thaks. Paul.68
Thank you I enjoy this video very much then
Good to hear, thanks! :)
Excellent understanding of viewing people
This video shows what is normal in everyday life for the majority of people. However, it would better to include a disclaimer for the neurodiverse community which is larger than has been thought. Someone who is neurodiverse, such as: autistic, ADHD, suffering with anxiety or depression, will often not make eye contact or may not be comfortable with touching.
As the world becomes more inclusive of differences in cognition or congenital brain function, videos such as this will only address standards that no longer be fit for purpose.
I have a problem with men not reading my signals. Arms crossed annoyed look on face avoiding eye contact. They will walk up & put their hand on my arm or offer to shake hands when all I want is to be left alone. The flip side is the more attracted to a lady I am the more nervous I get then they don't see the attraction they see me as lacking confidence.
Thanks for this helpful tips
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Glad you like the video!
Nice video! Love it
wear sunglasses always don't get inside MY head because I don't trust you think about it look away
Nice and applicable.
Thank u!:)
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Maintaining eye contact in some culture is considered rude 😂
Haha in which culture?
Excellent tips...🙂
Thanks!
Stay away from people who verbally and openly judge you when they themselves are psychopaths
Disinterest , happens frequently. I fidget and i don't care what that says. I noticed on body language that none of that was what i felt . Most of it
Good stuff.
Also avoiding eye contact and fidgeting can be signs of autism too, not always shyness or disinterest
right eye left eye. all the same to me. look at both unless wanting to intimidate or soothe. look into both and confuses people but also is then about love as you are comfortable with both sides of them and their brain
I suspect this documentary expresses US body language and why following it explains US failure in relations with the rest of the world. One word RESPECT, before you give a Bear-Hugg
Good video keep.
Thanks!
Welcome!
It varies culture to culture as well
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Lack of eye contact could also be a sign of autism. Fidgeting could indicate ADHD.
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thank u for your help. i will avoid myself from some of them, i thought like it might be respectively ..
You're welcome 😊
Why, why is the interfering background music necessary???
head down and slouches PD Facial Expressions PD
Can someone explain to me why a person can be said to have beautiful eyes , but when those same eyes are staring at you from a glass jar the beauty somehow disappears ?
Tony Soprano .. "What constitutes a fidget?"
What a nice video! 🙃
Thanks Juul!