Niam Tseg Ib Lub Nra Rau Tub Nyab. 9/29/2022
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My mil is currently going through this. We all have jobs, but we all have different days off because a lot of us work in healthcare, so someone is with her around the clock. It’s a lot of work. Feels like not having any days off from work, but this is reality now, we just have to make the best of it, and make it work. No one plans to get sick. But when it happens, it’s nice to have someone there to care for you. It takes a lot of patience from all the siblings. But if you want it to work, you all have to work as a team.
Very sorry mom. When My mom was dying in hospital I never cared if I loose my job I visit her and stayed with her I almost lost my marriage but that was ok because I only have one mom I can never replace her but I can replace a husband. I'm very sorry
Don’t worry everyone going to go through this.. for all you meka hmong please don’t cry one tear when your kids don’t come see you when you 85.. you as a mother will go through this and with your own kids.. all them nyab will go through it guarantee
This is a sad story…..I don’t think anyone want to send their parents to a nursery home. Everyone have different types of bills to be responsible for and it’s not easy to just quit your job to care for your parents at home cause we all don’t know if it will be short term or long term care. Everyone’s situation is different but please don’t stop visiting your parents 😢.
I don't know what to say about this kind of story, I feel the parents pain but also at the same time the kids have to work to make a living too so we can't blamed the kids 100%
😑I don't know why some of you think that it is a such burden to care for your parents and to love them when they are old and can't take care of themselves anymore.
I would take on any burdens to make my parents life a little more happier and more comfortable.
I have this conversation with my mom that one day she is really old come live with me I will take care of her. I'm a girl by the way. She said," oh you're a daughter you can't I will have your brothers take care of me." The old people's mind set on this I do not agree just because I'm a girl and I married away doesn't mean I'm not your daughter anymore. If my brothers cant take care of you I will. Parents needs to change that mind set and allowed any of thier children who is willing to accept or take that responsibility to care for them doest matter if they are your son or daughter. In this story the mom was only expecting the sons to take care of them why not asked your daughters? Then gets mad when your sons doesn't care for you.
I don't think that having alot of children, is gonna benefit anyone, we old people can't always think that having alot of kids because we want to depend on them when we get old..this old school thinking is so wrong. First the children didn't ask to be born, we want them for ourselves, second we can't be a burden to them,if they can't care for us,because they also have their own family. Third is the way life cycles that everyone has to go through, I think that all old school thinking is wrong, I am also old myself, when I need my children and if they can't be there for me,that's ok.i don't curse them like all this old school hmong people do, I heard alot of stories like this and all they do is curse their children, why ? They didn't ask to be born, we want them for ourselves and we have this mental illusion that when we get old they will care for us..no,,,,wrong thinking. even ourselves we don't even take care of our parents ,how can our children take care of us....why we keep cursing our children when they can't take care of us....ask yourself people? Are you the one who wanted those kids,or do those kids ask to be born to you.its you that make them...stop relying on your children..we in America, live by yourself, die by yourself...when it's time for you, it's time to go.don't worry, go be with God...
Agree!!!
Their old school thinking only right if we still live farming like back in the days but not life in the America agree with you 100%
This! 💯💯💯
Agree
Let’s do American ways. When your kids are 18 kick them out and let them go survive on their own lol 😂
I told my daughter when she turns 18 she should move out and she was hurt and sad by that lol 😂 🤣🤣
I’m sure these (adult kid in the story) couples lived with their parents even after marriage. That’s way past due their moving out time.
It’s ok, go kill yourself at work and pay your forever bills but you’ll lose your only parents and live with regret for the rest of your lives!!
Some people are not capable of stress and multitasking...Both my in laws were sick and bed bound. I managed to work 2 jobs and also manage to trail other people's kids around at the same time plus my commute to work was 2 hours....you just need to lay things out and set your priorities and have a schedule!!!!
OMG. 😢😢😭😭
I agree with the adult care, but at least visit your parents every other day. Teach your children to love and care for their grandparents or at least visit their grandparents once or twice a week.
I agree with you...at least visit and take them out.
Thov txim rau cov Niam thb txiv laus nawb peb yeej hlub Nej kawg tabsi tabsi peb tuaj nyob lub ntuj tshiab lawm ce peb txhua tus yuav ua tsis tau li cov niam txiv tshaw lawm los Nej txhob tus2 siab thiab. Peb cov tuaj yug me nyuam rau lub teb chaws mikas no mas haj yuav tau mus nyob tsev laus sai tshaj li Nej cov Niam Txiv laus tam sim no. Peb cov me nyuam twb tau muaj cuab yig twb tsis nrog peb nyob thb yuav peb lawm. Nej txhob tu siab hee2 thb os
Yes, we should just do a 1 day funeral on Sundays only. I love the idea......
WOW! It’s sad and It’s so true…if you don’t love your parents, your kids will not love you back when you’re old as well. Always love your parents, and your kids will love you back because you showed them already…karma is real…😩👍🤠!
Using your logic, can we then say that this old couple prob didn't love their inlaws and that's why now their kids don't love them?
@@maryly09 probably…you never know…😩
It’s sad but we must understand that it’s easier said then done during this century we Hmong can’t think like this mother please understand don’t want to stress anyone if we really care and love someone, you should do this
This is such a sad story! I hope the kids are listening. No amount of money is worth your parents. What goes around will come around. The world 🌎 is full of never ending karma.
Perhaps, it already went around and now it came back around to HER and her HUSBAND and that's why their kids didn't love them as they claimed bc maybe they didn't love their inlaws too?
@@maryly09 LOL
Hmong philosophy on life and living is slowly changing. Good to hear different views, hope we can find a balance.
As a mother I would never want to burden my husband and I on my children, I have 6 children. We have over 1/2 a million dollar life insurance on us, I told my husband if I die first do not ask my children for a dime, use my life insurance for me, I do not want me dead and children suffering financially. My husband and I will go into a nursing home when we are not able to wipe ourselves anymore. Our Hmong people need to STOP the way we think, stop putting a burden on your children, stop guilt tripping your children, stop thinking your children owe you something, they never asked to be born. All we should want is for our children to be able to make a decent living so they don't depend on us because one day we will be dead.
💯% agree
I'm glad to see a few of us thinking like this. 💯
I agree to a point. If money is not an issue, then we should all take care of our elders. I was recently in an accident and broke my arms and ribs. My adult (single) daughter had to take care of me like a baby. She fed me, bathed me, dressed me, took me to dr appts, gave me my meds etc, for 3 months. And it was her choice (and I’m so thankful) to care for me because I was in so much pain. And also because money was not an issue. I understand that caring for a sick person is not fun, but no one wants to be sick either. So we must try to make it work. That’s what family is for. I love my family ❤
I have to disagree with her. Life in America is not the same as back in the days that’s why we shouldn’t expect our kids to take care of us. Our kids are not professional care taker and yes everyone work daily to take care of their own family too. If you only have kids to take care of you when you’re old please don’t. And why we don’t need to have many kid these days. I mean we do love our parents to death but they live their life we have our own too lol.
Some parents can't take care of themselves when they are old and a lot of them don't like living in nursing homes. Often they feel depressed. Why would you want to put your parents through it and sacrificed their happiness just to make your life easier. I would take on any burden for my parents just to make them feel a little happier and a little more comfortable towards their old age, end of life cycle.
We can always make time for our parents. Your kids make times for their friends to drink only
Txaus tu siab kawg os Peb ua neej nyob ces yuav raug ib tug zuj zus xwb Tsi dim txoj kev laus lis os
Don't hold grudges against your nyab hlob. If it was her who was sick, your son probably would abandon her sooner. If any of your daughters is in your tub hlob's shoes, remember to embrace and care for them as you did for your eldest son.
Raise your children with no expectations of them caring for you when you're old and you won't have regrets.
Amen!!
Tu siab kawg os . Me niam tij awd.
hai tu siab kawg os tu me niam tai 😭😭😭😭😭
This is such a sad story, made me cry. I cannot imagine the pain of not having your significant other by your side.
Txoj kev laus cas yuav tu siab ua luaj. Xav kom yus muaj txoj hmoo es txhob nyob txog thaum yus noj taus ua tsis taus.
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os tus niam tais aw.
Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu kuv siab tshaj plwas
Zaj neej neeg no zoo heev li os peb cov no lo yeej zoo li yam li no thiab os ua tu niam tia no tsaug nawb
She’s too cute. Lol I pray for you keep doing what you do 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Neb cov me nyuam ces cas yuav nkim neb lub zog ua luaj li pab hlub neb kawg os cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim rau
I do feel bad but we are in America and we all have bills to pay. Unlike in Laos, we have to go to work in order to have a roof over our head. I wish the elders would be a little flexible and allow other to do PCA for them and still live with the children. Elderly get very sensitive and they only want the children to care for them.
Super sad...😢 😿 😭 I'm so sorry your kids gotta do you and your husband wrong. I'm sure they got an excuse but, to not even care or throw you two in the nursing home is wrong. Yes, there's karma. I feel your pain and anger. Why have so many children and they all end up just not want to take care of you. Praying for you and may God provide, protect and keep you safe, sister.
Tu siab heev os tus niam tais, kuv yog koj los tej minyuam no tsis xav yuav yus ,Lawv saib lawv txoj hauj lwm muaj nqi tshaj yus tus muab txoj sia rau lawv ces. Lub neej nyob rooj teb no ces cov yug tsis muaj los ho txhob tu2 siab thiab tsis muaj los kav liam txhob ntshaw2 thiab os mog.
I agree that it is a burden to you youngsters but imagine if someone separated you away from your loved ones without your permission. You'd be hurt. Imagine your old parents.
These older generation parents will also have to understand that its not because the kids dont love them. This is why my husband and I tell our kids if its to where we are completely down then take us. For we will not stress our kids....
Just a cycle of life. Just prepare yourself so you don't have too much expectation so you won't be so disappointed.
Such a sad story, we might live in America but karma is real. Everyone will become old one day, love and honor your parents for one day you will reap what you sow.
Let's look at from another perspective. I grew up in America, I don't expect my kids to look after me like that unless they want to but that job is a huge burden for anybody. I have my kids because I want them, I want to have the next generation that is enough for me. If you say it is bad then it is. If you don't say or think it is bad then it's not. I believe that Hmong parents have cursed Hmong kids enough. As parents, we should never cursed our children but instead bless them. You must understand that the children did not ask to be born and the burden should not be theirs to carry. And I understand when back in Laos, Thailand, Vietnam or China. Those are different time in our lives in America.
Easy for you to say cuz you born in this country and was ready and have 401k, retirement saving but these parents they were here with no education and financial knowledge. All they have were their kids, that's why they put their times and effort for the kids in hoping that the kids will take care of them.
Wow txaus ntshai kawg thiab nawb leej niam tej lus tom kawg na lawv.
Cov niam cov txiv aw… Thov zam txim lau.
Nursing home isn’t even bad. Og are just hard headed. How can your adult children raise their kids and you at the same time while working full time? Don’t be a burden to your children and plan on going to nursing home or save money to use for in home care paying someone else to do it. Don’t be hard headed and play the guilt card on your children.
น่าสงสารคุณแม่และคุณพ่อ มีลูกก็หวังดูแลพ่อแม่ยามแก่ ถ้าเป็นแบบบนี้ก็ไม่มีลูกคงจะดีกว่า 😭 มันทำปวดใจทุกใจ
Tu. siab kawg li o tab si niam tai lo yeej kuskes kawg li thiab o
this story is very sad 😞. Hate to see this happened to folks that still have their elderly parents alive.
Tu siab that we all have to go thru this in the US.
hmong people so negative and ungrateful. Need to let go of the habit that ur kids suppose to take care of you. Everyone is trying to make a living and get through life. There is a reason why we have nursing home. Having kids means u have karma. Not your kids karma to take care of you
The cycle never ends bcus old folks too negative and foom foom. All these negative talk needs to stop.... stop being so narrow minded.
Agreed.
Cas kv muaj ib tug me ntxhais xwb kv tu2, siab kv mloog kj txoj neej neeg no lo kv niam tu2 siab na cas neb twb muaj me nyuam coob2 lo neb tseem txhom2 nyem thiab
Leej twg yog tsis xav yuav tej niam txiv laus2 ces, txhob tos lawv tej kauv tes kauv taw.
That’s so evil for taking the father n didn’t tell the mom. 😢
I agree. Very sad.
agree with you
Agree with all the comments.... we are all doing our best. Kids sound like they did their best. Parents need to stop comparing the old to newborns ... kids to elders.
Old people do not understand the hardship of working Americans. as for me I rather live in assisted living than burden my children.
I understand this lady’s frustration and disappointment but I don’t think this is completely fair. Life in America is different than life in Laos. Here we work 9-5 jobs and have bills up to our eyes to pay. We can’t stay home and take care of our elderly parents until their dying day. This should be a lesson for us to prepare for our retirement and our golden years where we don’t rely on our kids to take care of us.
Exactly. That's why there are people that are paid to take care of the elderly. Their job and profession is to care for them. Don't expect your kids to quit their jobs to take care of u, esp when they have good jobs. And even if they get paid to care for u, they're not trained, its not their profession and they're not passionate about it. After u die, sure they can always go find new jobs, but it's not guarantee it'll be as good.
Agree with you
yes we need to understand we live in usa. twb muaj neeg ua txoj hauj lwm los tu cov laus thiab yuav tsum xav tias txhob tu siab rau yus tej me nyuam heev22 thiab os
Disagree. You will understand when you are in her place
Disagree...parents gave blood sweat and tears for their kids to survive and have a good life. Not to be treated Like this in the end. Sad and very selfish kids. Knowing your father will take his last breath any day. It's one of the most scariest thing in our lives. Love your elders till the end.
Tug nyab siab tshaj plwas li lawm os mi viv ncaus aww 😭😭😭😭😭
Kj tham tau tu siab heev Li os viv ncaus aw😭😭😭
Tu siab ua luaj os mloog ces Kia muag poon
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os cov me nyuam aw…..yog nej txawj Xav mas nej niam cov lus nej yuav ev Tsis taus kiag li nawb tsawm tshuav nej ov cas yuav Tsis hlub yus niam yus txiv li lawv hais ib lo xwb ces nej yuav npam tas nrho lau
Some og’s will say “meyuam lawm quav lawn zis, yog tsis muaj niam txiv ces tsis muaj menyuam”
Some og’s will say “menyuam yog koov hmoov, menyuam yog ntuj tso”
There’s a saying that “I wanted you so I give birth to you, you own me nothing, I owe you everything”
I hope Hmong og’s remember that they choose to have kids, your kids owe you nothing. You owe everything to them. Those kids are your responsibility until they turn 18. Yog lawv paub xav ces yus Ua tsaug rau lawv xwb. Yog lawv tsis paub xav es kam liam xwb.
Don’t get me wrong, kids will need to respect and love their parents too. Yog Koj paub qhuav qhia ces lawv yeej tsum zoo xwb. But yog lawv Tsis zoo ces txhob tu siab rau lawv os. In America kwv nyuaj nyuaj li.
Ua niam ua txiv feem coob yeej txawj qhua qhia me ntuam tjiab zav kom me ntuam tau qhov zoo tab sis thaum lawv muaj neej lawm lawv txawv tus thaud nrog yus nyob es tsis tau muaj thiab mloog lus. Yog tus yus yug ua taus ces zoo phem los yeej yuav cov laus rab sis yog lawv tawv tsis taus ces kawg mus li zaj neej neeg no.
Eb niam tais os niam tais cas oeb ntshaw ntshaw tej laus los zov peb tsev kom sov los hlub peb tej me nyuam los nrog peb noj peb tej zaub tej mov los lawv twb tsis nyiam peb es lawv twb los tsis txog peb lub tsev kheev lam muaj cov laus li nej los zov tsev los ua peb luag ntshe peb twb tsis tu siab ua luaj no 😭😭
Both sides are hard the same. It’s true what the son says and also true what the mother says 🤷🏻♀️
Nrog kj tu siab heev os tus niam tais aw
Peb cov ua niam ua txiv laus laus tsis txhob muab lub ntxim pov rau miv tub mivnyuam ev vim lub tebchaws mekas no yog lub tebchaws khwv ciaj khwv tuag xwb. Lub neej nyob tiv nuj tiv nqi thiab xwb es nej ua niam ua txiv yuav rau ntxim rau mivnyuam hnyav ua luaj. Nej xav kom nej cov mivnyuam ua neej zoo muaj nyiaj kom luag saib taug nej ces lawv kuj khwv khwv tsis muaj sib hawm los ua lwm yam lawm los pob? Ua cas nej yuav muab lub nra hnyav rau nej cov mivnyuam nris ua luaj?
yog kawg.
Some day we all will be there...txhob rawm maj txiav txim rau ib tug...
Hais yog tshaj plaws li os
@@lubsiabzooyang2806 we will all get old, but we will all not have the same mentality
Yog kawg
Its not that we dont love em. They dont understand. As long as u tell em the truth. Y do they always say we kids dont love em?
Tu siab heev li os 😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭mloog tau tu siab tiag2 li os
People here complaining that our Hmong elders needing to prepare for their own Retirement. Like DUDE, Hmong people has only been here since 1975 after the Vietnam War ended. A lot of these old folks are either in SSI or only work $10 dollar job to survive. Retirement is out of the question. Maybe us younger folks now for sure will know better to save for retirement, but definitely not these older folks. People are so freaken bias and narrow minded.
Money we can always work for as long as we live but a person’s life can never be found and replaced. Yes we all have bills to pay but there’s so many options in teb chaw mekas.
Options like nursing homes and assisted living
@@TV-lp4qi Agree. It's not like the children are completely abandoning them. They're still making sure there are people who can tend to the parents' needs, but sounds like the mom only wants the son and nyab to take care of them. There are so many resources in America. We need to learn how to utilize them and not take everything so personal as if it's an abandonment.
@@TV-lp4qi there are other options that help pay children to care for their elderly parents or spouse that’s sick and dying. Nursing home and assistance living is the last option if only the parents agreed to go.
@@cua1879 yes resources such like Paid Family Leave (PFL) Act.
@@MrsYaj-ei2io its only avail in certain states.. and youd have to work a certain amount of hra before you qualify
Thov thiab lau cov tub nyab txawm khwv npaum twg tsis khoom tu tus laus los thov txhob muab ob tug laus sib cais mog yus twb tsis xav ncaim yus tus khub ib pliag li txhob muab niam thiab txiv sib cai li ntawd npam nawb mog
Vauv los yog Tub. Nyab los yog ntxhais. Tus twg tus tsis hlub yus os?😊
Ca tu siab ua luaj no os lawv ca nej twb nyb lub teb chaw vam meej e nej g hlub cov lau li o
Peb hlb koj kawg viv ncaus 😭😭😭
Neb yug tau coob twb tsis muaj chaw tuag, kuv yug 2 tug xwb ces txhob cia siab.
What do u guys mean when u guys keep saying "tsis muaj chaw tuag???" Where exactly do u guys expect to die then? At home? But her husband did die at their elderly home. So idky she kept saying nws twb tsis muaj lub chaw tuag???
Such a hard situation. Kids want to do good for their parents but nowadays both son and daughter-in-law work. It can be hard to properly take care of the elders and give them the proper quality of life. I do disagree with the son and daughter-in-law teaching the kids to be disgusted of their grandparents that’s just wrong. Also if you gonna take one take both, find a place that would accommodate both. It’s so sad.
too much burden on kids. dont get me wrong. i took care of my father for 5 years before he passed. he was bed bound from a stroke. my personal life paused for that duration.
Agree!
Yeah but those heartless trash should at least be honest and put them old folks together. I really hate these kind of selfish people and think is okay to do whatever they please. Hope karma get them at the end.
Yes that is correct. You also have to understand that your parents life was paused for 18 years for caring you until adulthood. 5 years should not compare to 18 years.
no one will understand until they wear the shoes. please quit your jobs and risk loosing all you worked hard for. i didnt stop working. i made many sacrafices. i didnt say that i hated taking care of my father. everyone will get old and eventually need care. hopefully we can learn from our elders and be more understanding when we get to that stage.
@@pengvang5831 But your parents chose to have you and it's their job to take care of their kids. Kids don't get to choose whether they want to be born.
That being said, kids should do what is reasonable to care for their elderly parents
I understand that this mother is sad and she has every right to be. Shes only telling and seeing it from her side and not from her son and nyabs side. The mother in law should not expect her kids to take care of her. They cant. In this country there are bills to pay . The OGs have a saying 'Niam txiv tuag ces vaj tse ntuag" and the reason nws ntuag is because the kids sacrifice so much to take care of their dying parents and they have to spend thousands of dollars on their funeral. I'm sure I will be sad too when I'm old but that is the cycle of life. I would not want my kids to quit their jobs for me or to get divorce because of me or to sacrifice their financial future for me. What kind of a mom would I be if I only cared about myself and not my children's welfare.
Tus me niam tais aw txoj kev txom nyem 6 ntu laus ces 3 sawv daws yeej dhia g dhau os .Es txhob tu2 siab tas2 6 tej menyuam thiab vim lawv nyob lawv 1 lub ntuj txawv yus ces lawv txoj kev xav thiaj txawv yus txoj .Es txhob cia siab 6 lub ntiaj teb no tias txom nyem tiam no ces lwm tiam mam rov los yug dua .nws zoo g txawv kav tsij nriav Vaj tswv lub ntuj tshiab nyob mus kav 1 txhis xwb mog
Hi...
Qhov yuam kev ces tsuas yog cov xwb ntxwv twb luj lawm yug tsi xyeej los has cov xeeb ntxwv paab ces yeej tau hab. A cause peb cov laug yuav tau to taub has tas cov miv nyuas yuav tau ua hauj lwm them nuj nqe. Tab sis ua tuab zoo sib has hab yuav tau siv sij hawm moog saib tug laug hab kom tug laug txhaj tseem ncu tau yug os. 😢😢
So sad. Makes me not looking forward to my older years.
So sad😢😢😢😢😢
Pog laus yuavtsum totaub tej menyuam tej kev cheemtsum thiab.
Im crying. Sad story. Please love your mom. Dont do this to her.
Parents can raise several kids until they turn 18 and still manage to juggle with their jobs. Some even help pays for their kids’ college tuition, pay for their wives, and raise them naughty ass grandkids!! Now as they age and none of the kids can care for them! Sad!!
It's very sad but I don't blame the kids. We all have bills to take care of. Lives have changed and not like Thailand anymore.
We can talk all we want and say all we want until it's our day and our time when we are old, bed ridden, and no one to care or love us, is when we will say what this lady says. It doesn't matter whether its the new generation, old generation, or future generation. You will only know when it's your turn. We as parents always say " don't expect our kids to feel the same way we do, but in honesty, YES YOU DO!!!" why? because you gave them life, fed them, cleaned them, loved them and when in return, they don't care for you at all, of course you're going to gripe, complain, get upset, frustrated, etc. AS if you will sit there and just say "IT'S OK!!" Please!! if that was the case then I guarantee EVERY SINGLE PERSON wouldn't even tell your kid "rau siab kawm ntawv nawb (stay steady in school & don't do anything bad), txhob mus hla txoj kev muaj tsheb los ntau ntau (don't dross that road that has a lot of cars coming), ua tau mov es los noj mov kom tsau tsau plab thiaj loj nawb (eat until your full so you can grow up), all this saying..... I only laugh because you will only know when it's YOUR TURN!!! Our parents always did say " yus tias yus paub paub li tab sis yus yug tau ib cov menyuam yus mam paub!" So darn true!!
I agree with you 100%.
Why don't u hire nurse to take care your parents in your home instead separated your parents. This is very mean to separated your parents.
Sad story sister 😭😭😭😭
Wow, sad story. Karma is just around the corner. Sucks her children dont know how to value their parents.
This dude told his own father that they were just going to the clinic/hospital, but ended up at the senior home. Karma is going deep on this guy.
😢
This is an American story!
I believe that if u truly love your children, u wouldn't wish ill on them, u wouldn't curse them, u wouldn't want to burden them with wiping your poop and your pee. U wouldn't want your children's lives to suffer. I feel sad for u, grandma, but your way of mentality is too old fashioned and can't be used in this day and age. Time has changed and we have to adapt to the changes. It's not like they abandoned u guys completely.
Totally agree
Only stupid parent wish ill on their child.
We live in America. We got to learn to be like meska
I don't know why all of you people had to say what you said. These elderly don't need to suffer because you all think that they're burden. Let them have some peace while living so they can rest in peace. You can find a job at any time but you'll never find your parents. I hope you all happy after your parents are gone....
You are truly blessed if you have the type of parents that you can quit anytime (and move hundreds/thousands of miles) to care for them and a profession that you can easily find a different job anytime.
When you have a lot of money, you have access and things like a job is just an inconvenience.
Good for u if u can do that and are financially capable of quitting your job like that. But don't shame others if they can't do it. Not every one's financial obligations are the same.
Some ppl dont have the luxury of quitting their jobs and being able to find another job whenever they want. Someone ppl are just lucky to find a job and have to hold on to it. What good is it if they sacrifice everything for their parents but go into financial ruin. As a parent it is your responsibility to take care of your kids..
Grandma, u said your kids didn't love u and treated u guys this way, so one day their kids will do the same to them. Perhaps, u and your husband treated your inlaws badly too and maybe that's why today your kids treat u guys this way? Just saying.
Here in America no need to have kids...you are on your own...that's why American people only want 1 -2 kids some don't even want 1...but we can't change the older generation mind set...so we gonna have to respect our parents mind set and the new generation can change their mind set.
Nyob America tsis zoo li nej cov laus xav.
Neej 1 co teb tsis yog tus niam tais no cov lus lawm os nws tsis yog tuaj nplog teb tuaj nas nws ua hauj lwm 1 yam li nej thiab lov
I understand where the kids are coming from, I get it, but there's also PCA that can tend to the elderly right at the home of the patient. You ain't gotta separate your parents.
Cov laus los txhob phem phem thiab tej hluas thiaj xav hlub tub nyab mus hauj lwm ib hnub los txog twb sab sab los tseem yuav tau los npaj zaub mov npaj muab niam pog txiv yawg da dej cuag ib tus minyuam tus neeg laus loj nyhav leej twg yuav nqa tau os hmoob aws yus cov ntxhais yus ho cia nyob pw tsheej tag kis tsis txib ua noj es pheej muab lub txim rau tus nyab
Yog neb hlub neb cov menyuam neb yuav tsis muab neb cov menyuam rau txim los tu neb thaum neb tsis taus lawm. Lub txim nyhav kawg nkaus kom yus tej menyuam los so yus quav yus zis. Nyob tebchaw meskas no lawv thiaj muaj tsev laus los tu yus. I will never torture kids like this.