"In Like" vs. "In Love"
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After 22 years of marriage, we have times when we say, "I don't like you, right now." However, it is often followed by, "But, I still love you."
LM Oughterson This is such a great comment.
8-)
Wow, that is a great way to put it. Thanks, it'll help clarify some nebulous zones in this guy's 5 year-old couple.
Aww
No, I don't hate you
Don't want to fight you
You know I'll always love you
But right now I just don't like you
Bonus points for anyone that knows the song reference. :P
"Heck, sometimes I go to weddings and don't believe the things I'm hearing"
Jordan goes #savage
He's just sayin' what we're all thinkin' though...he just has the guts to actually say it instead of keepin' it to himself.
50%
Love is not a feeling, it's a promise.
Danny Pink!
Summer Christmas Was that a Doctor Who reference?
Faith Neufville it wasn't ment to be but ok 😂
Amber Slahlize effort, mostly. It's a promise to be apart of the relationship after the infatuation departs. It's a promise to fix something if it's broken, to work and work at it.
Amber Slahlize absolutly, it sometimes doesnt go both ways. in order for a relationship to work both have to make the promise. It's a seperate promise for a shared love.
I feel like our society tends to overuse the word love. Considering that there were 4 different Greek words for it, and we only have one says something. We love our family, but we also love Chick-Fil-A. We love Heartland [;)] and we love when we get paid. The Greeks understood this... Every word was a different kind of 'love'. When it's overused like this in our culture... The words become meaningless...
Basically, what I'm saying is that I love this video and I love how you had to point out the lies of being 'in love'. I love it when you do this. It's just... I mean, who couldn't love it...
Mason M. Haha. We did have other ways of saying it, but they took more than one word, so...
Mason M. You're absolutely right!
That's one thing I really dislike about English. It's often kind of clunky, and can lack nuance.
They actually made a video about that a while back
It's the same in german. Some people love everything and everyone and when day actually love someone you can't tell the difference.
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Jordan Taylor same
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Jordan Taylor caught me
Jordan Taylor You're not late this time!
Jordan Taylor did u know u share ur name with the guy doing the video???
I'm sorry, nobody can tell me I'm merely "in like" with macaroni and cheese. I have a deep, undying love for that stuff. I've stuck with it even when it has betrayed me by burning my mouth.
The Bookish Badger oh my goodness I love this comment
Love is like potatoes... wait, no. Potatoes are better.
Yeah
I'm going to have to use this
I was the 100th like on this comment.
Wow... words of wisdom. Thank you
I am the potato worrier
"Love does not want anything from the other, it wants everything for the other." -Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Well with this video...I think you explained what it truely is..."to be in love" . That's what real love is, kids!
"I guess I better get myself a person!" XD
BlIgGa HoL uP
I read this comment while that part of the video was playing lol
4:49 JORDAN DOESN'T LIVE IN A BLACK VOID?! EXPOSED
Chipio Industries . Lies he does live in a black void
Jasmine L, How do u explain messyges?
"I may not like you forever, but for now, I'm totally crushing!" Oh my Loki this is so me 😂
Yup. I'm not even sure I was in real love when I got married because 10 years later it's SO much more than it was in the beginning. I didn't even know how amazing my husband was back then. I knew he was super hot and that we had the same values and interests and compatible life goals but didn't really know how great he was at all I was a nieve little baby (21)
What is love???? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more. 😄
Jeremiah Makes Comments Well, I'm gonna have that song stuck in my head for the rest of the night
charchar234cj i bob my head slightly to left in response 😛
You sound so proud about that comment
Jeremiah Makes Comments Jack's films Yiay reference.
Jeremiah Makes Comments *shrugs and joins in on the head bobbing*
"having a crush on someone is a really fun time" hehe... he... hehe... he...
;-;
Ikr it isn't fun a lot of times..
.. so much anxiety..
Yeah, it's really not. At least in my experience.*shudders* Did it once and have worked diligently ever since to NOT develop a crush on any other guys.
@@sadiesofia7605 That's literally me right now.
" When you like a flower, you pluck it.
When you LOVE a flower, you water it, nuture it, let it grow." - Buddha
*I agree COMPLETELY.* I've said this multiple times to multiple people, including my significant other who started saying "I love you" after a very short time of being together, almost without knowing me.. you made a difference between being *in like* and *in love* , while I stress the difference between *being in love* and *to love* .
As I see it, it's
I like you < I have a crush on you < I have a really big crush on you < I'm in love with you
And these are all feelings, states of mind. Then, a lot later, on a plane that's beyond feelings, comes "I love you". This is an action (to love is, in fact, a verb), not a sentiment - that is who you are.
Have you ever read "The Four Loves" by C.S. Lewis? If not, you'd like it!!
This is true. Some people don't like love because they are confusing it with like. You can stop liking so fast. Sometimes I really want something, but as soon as I get it, I don't really like it anymore. But if it was love, I wouldn't just want to get rid of it.
What I have learned from Blimey Cow, acting is 80% Jordans eyebrows, 20% Jordans hands.
"Love is not something you feel" is quite the quote that will never anger anyone, especially not on the Internet.
This is basically the rant I've been giving to my friends since middle school.
Great ending by the way. :D
Check out "Love is a Verb" by John Mayor.
Oh. My. Gosh. I absolutely... erm... like (?)🤣🤣🤣 this song!!!! I was like "AMEN, JOHN" when I listened to it for the first time.
*I have never crushed a like button so hard*
This makes a lot of sense. Thank you, Jordan, Josh, and Kelly. This was enlightening.
I think I understand just what I feel now.
Love (as a Christian),
Jay
This is by far one of the best Blimey Cow videos I have ever seen.
Thank you so much for sharing this! It's something the world strives to brush under the carpet and slap a glamorous package on to cover the mess. Many people do not get this :)
"I think I wanna cease putting your needs ahead of my own now... bye."
^^TRUTH
Excellent video, Blimey Cow! You hit the nail right on the head; love isn't a feeling, but an action. Thanks a lot, and keep up the good work!
"We'll check back in a few years... 50%" im dead
I love how this video said this because it is just so true. I just finished my first college psychology class and they actually talked about this. They call it Triangular Love Theory. There is passionate, companionate and Intimate love. Passionate is all about the excitement while companionate love is all about the conscious decision to stick it out and they often say that "break ups" often happen somewhere in the transition between the two. This is because they have seen their love always as passionate and as that changes they believe the love is gone because the "excitement" is gone, when in reality it is just changing into companionate love (which in my opinion is much better). It's called Triangular love theory, by Robert Sternberg. You should all check it out :)
This is what my mum keeps saying.😄 I've been trying to tell others as well.
I think The fact that people don't know the difference between 'in like' and 'in love' is one of the reasons there is so many divorces and breaks up in this day and age. People rush into relationships and then when things get tough or they lose those crush feelings they bail or think they've fallen out of love. Relationships take effort! From both parties. Love isn't just a feeling it's an action.
Every single person in the world should see this
Love is a verb
LUV is a verb
Wunderful "I don't care what you've read, don't care what you've heard...!" 😃
down with the dc talk. ;)
Wunderful and a noun!!
An action verb.
Even when my partner admitted that he loved me, I stated not to get ahead of himself for this could only be infatuation or obsession. I felt kind of bad for saying it, but it's the truth.
Blimeycow has always been great, but within the last month or so they have been putting out somr amazing and relevent content consistly every video it just keeps getting better imo. ☺
Love is not a whim. Love is not a flower that fades with a few fleeting years. Love is a choice wedded to action, a choice that you must choose every day of your life.
This was really the video I've needed. I've been in and out of the like with this one guy for a couple years and was always confused if I was in love with him or not. This definitely cleared it up for me. Thank you so much Jordan, and Josh and everyone who helps make these videos.😊
You're such a genius... Your videos are getting better every time
Yes, this is what I'm talking about! I've always said this, and no one has ever agreed! This is such a good video! Way to go, guys!!
I think this is the best video you've made yet. Thank you.
So true! We're celebrating our 20th in a few weeks and it is hard work! Not a decision to be made lightly! 😊
I rewatched you hitting the wall at least ten times. Has to be the highlight of my Monday😂😂
The best part about this, is Jordan knows what he's talking about, being married now and all.😄
THIS ENDING WAS BEAUTIFUL XD Oh my gosh Jordan you are the beeest. I completely agree!
Our church touched about this not too long ago, they said, love is a choice not a feeling.
Blimey Cow is AWESOME
When I was younger and I heard people say "true love" I thought it was sort of like fate. like this magical bond that is between two people and is made when they are born. I am older now and experiencing what I know is true love. it is loving someone completely and accepting them as they are in every way even their flaws because having that person with you makes life more bearable.
"It's a full time job putting someone else's needs in front of your own, even when you don't want to."
There is so much truth in that statement.
Thank you so much for clearing this subject up for all of us!
First of all, it's easier to generalize something that we've been shown or taught over and over again. We don't tend to take the time to separate our feelings and what's really going on inside of us and the world around us so we can better understand what we mean.
I also think for a long time we didn't have all the studies we have now and we accepted what Social Stereo Typing threw at us, like in Commercial Advertising.
Now people have learned from history and others who have gone through certain experiences and can help the next generation of people to have a clearer picture of what might lie ahead of their lives.
I think however that people, especially a couple who are serious about being together for the rest of their lives could then at that point of time say, "I Love you!".
Also practicing in the home with Family members could still be applicable to the "Love" situation.
well, i think love is a feeling, too... i mean, if you love them, your affection for them outweighs the hate for them or neutralness to them... in the end, you just want what is best for them and are willing to do just about anything for them. i agree, a crush is not love. and i dont think a lot of couples or even married couples are actually in love, and definitely aren't soul mates... i guess im just kind of cynical, though.
This is perfect. I really like the way y'all put it. Keep making awesome videos!
The whole "Love" definition you give, I agree with. Even did a topic on it for my women's group.
But I will disagree with you on "Like". Now hear me out.
Like is something you use for a lot of people. Or your dog. Or this tuna sandwich. You really don't fall out of like. I have a friend that used to be my best friend. We don't talk any more. I still like her.
See my point?
However, LUST might be the more appropriate word for this topic. Lust is a feeling. Love is a choice.
And I don't LUST this tunafish sandwich. Lust is fleeting like the candlelight. Hot and bright at first but the slowly dies and flickers out.
I really enjoy your videos.
My homeschool kids love it as well. Because ai make them love it. Lol
Wow, I have a friend like this. And I'm in the back (aka third wheeling) like "hahahahaha...food is great!"
Yes! There are times I do not like my husband, but I still love him. Great message guys!
I love how he presents serious topics in a humorous and yet Christian way
I love how he can explain deep stuff like this and give really good relationship advice, all while making jokes and goofing around :)
YASSSSSSS!!! BEST VIDEO EVER!! Thankyou, Blimeycow, for explaining this to all of the crazy teenagers that think they are "in love" with their bf/gf.
It's not Monday where I am. My whole life is a lie
I'm "In Like" with all your videos!!
This must've been really awkward for Josh
Fenrir TheDarkWolf - Why would it be awkward for Josh???
Pookys Mom having to kiss his sister and hug her really closely like that I mean it'd just be a bit awkward
Fenrir TheDarkWolf - That was Kelly, Josh's wife. Probably not too awkward for him to kiss and hug his own wife :)
All this time I thought Kelly was their sister....*backing away slowly* ok then.....😳
I don't see a ring on any of their fingers...
I've always thought of Love as a choice. You have to actively wake up and decide to love your spouse every day.
THIS SPEAKS SO MUCH TRUTH
Classic Blimey Cow subject! Great video!
I agree so much about people floating through life, wanting someone just because they think they should, or they think it'll make them happy. That's just not my ideal way of living, I'd like to make my own happiness, if I do meet other people I enjoy, they will just be an optional additional happiness to my life!
Really needed this right now, thanks!
I Love your t-shirt,
or whatever it is!😂
Btw: great and true video! 😉😎
Jordan's face at 1:38 is priceless!!!
I thought you were just gonna make fun of those couples who go 0-60 in no time. But this video was deep. Great job guys!
"what am i? a relationship expert?"
This is so accurate. I needed this. Been trying to figure out what exactly "love" is for months. My mind is slightly clearer. Thanks :)
The best video about love I've EVER seen *tears of happiness~!!!!
This video makes me so happy. Thank you so much!!
I loved that fourth wall break at the end.
Jordan's going to be an amazing husband. ^^
Abigail Nolan he already is
He already is
When he said, "Float around in life" I immediately thought, "jellyfish." 1:49
This video is actually totally accurate. Someone finally put it into words. Thank you!
YES! THANK YOU! AMEN! This is spot on (Plus, it ties in nicely with last week's video on Instant Gratification :)
So true: Love is not a feeling it's a commitment!
More people need to see this :D
It's such a pleasure to watch your videos.Very artistic and talented💜👏
i am binge watching all his videos, what has she done to me
Blimey Cow, can you do a video on words and phrases bound to come up in every hymn ever? Stuff like "cruel cross" and "spotless lamb" which kinda make sense, but not really.
Kathy Aird Maybe those phrases just make sense to me because I grew up in the church, but "cruel cross" means Jesus was crucified unjustly and "spotless lamb" means Jesus never sinned against God or man and was completely innocent of any wrong doing.
Kathy Aird I've never heard of either of those in hymns before. Ever notice that many hymns give Jesus different names, like Savior, Healer, Lord, Redeemer, His Son, or even just Christ?
Purple Poet11
Jesus is all those things! Amen
Welcome back to another episode of Jordan, the Floating Torso
I was just wondering if there would be a new video when the notification popped up. I knew I could count on you guys!
Spot on, Jordan. Love isn't easy, and it's not even always mutual. I fell in love with my best friend about a year and a half ago, and I thought I'd gotten over her, but I've realized it's not that easy. I'm watching her get into relationships, and it hurts me so badly, but I love her so I'm not going to ruin things between us as friends by being openly jealous. Fact is, she'll never love me and I'll always love her, but I'll have to move on. It doesn't mean I've stopped loving her (I don't think I could ever do that), but there's someone else out there who I'll fall in love with again and they'll love me too. It just stings something awful right now.
"Love is not a feeling, it's an act of your will" ~Don Francisco
i love the way u talk......particularly while acting .......with that golden wig on😂😂😂
Another great video guys! Thanks!
Lol. It's cool: this was posted on my birthday and it's just what I needed to hear!!
I really like your channel! Greatings from Poland
Thank you for saying this!
I'm about to ship this back in time to my middle school self to save me from waking up in the night in embarrassment. *shivers in disgust*
I don't know why I'm watching this.
McKellar because its blimey cow. And blimey cow is beautiful
Explosive Yeast um........sure.
Why would anyone dislike this?
Stylish Buffalo -not the sharpest spoon in the drawer :/
Their finger slipped!!
they are in dislike with this video
Blimey Cow *is in disbelief*
You call yourself a homeschooler?!
Pffffft. I'm totally judging you for not capitalizing the first letter of that sentence.
;P
Blimey Cow blimeycow I don't usually do this but since you replied to me I highly recommend you subscribe to my channel just so I feel somewhat famous 😂 loved your vids since I was a bean man
Real smooth.
THAAAAANK YOU. Finally, someone gets this stuff
Jordan's reactions just make my day....
The first shall be last! (Yeah Chris, I just did that!)
Malachi Ham he actually still beat you by seconds
Joshua Guice it says that but I refreshed after commenting and he still wasn't there so I don't know.
Malachi Ham ahhhhhhem
Yours Truly, Chris uh oh the avocado king has come
Luv your channel so much!
That is the best explanation about love and romance I think I've ever heard!
This is actually the best video I've ever seen
"I guess i gotta get myself a PERSON..." -BHK
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. This is a huge, and I mean HUGE pet peeve of mine. It's nice to know I'm not alone.
Thank you. Just thank you
These are great, guys!