I am just overwhelmed (in a good way) with all of these amazing comments. I had NO idea there were so many lovely neurodivergent people out there. This makes me so so happy. Thank you all for making me feel like I'm not alone. ♥
as one of those (hopefully) lovely nd people, i hope you know that you do just the same for a lot of people, and seeing someone who's autistic like me and living a happy, full and interesting life is,,,a thing that gives me a lot of Hope
dude i'm so glad you were able to get a diagnosis! im autistic myself so it's wonderful to see such an inspiring person deal with the same things i do, keep on painting man, we love you ❤️
I just got diagnosed with autism a couple weeks ago. Since then I've been finding out a lot of the youtubers I watch are either adhd or autistic (like me). I think we're all just subconsciously drawn to each other, and it's so nice to find others like myself. I'm glad you finally got the answers you need, and welcome to the community
perfectly describes the feeling of getting that diagnosis. the raw euphoria of knowing that there’s nothing “wrong” with you, and there’s something to do about the things that set you off. there’s nothing like it
I could be wrong, but having someone understand that you're socially drained and need to recharge but still find ways to enjoy their own environment in a special way without interrupting yours is true beauty. Happy anniversary.
Random but Donna’s smile is so gorgeous, literally lit up my day! Glad y’all enjoyed the trip and as a former special educator, I’m glad you got your diagnosis and found new ways to cope with the environment. It really does help to know that you’re just extra unique and need different things.
Fun fact: Dav Pilkey who wrote the Captain Underpants books grew up in the 70s too and has ADHD but simply wasn't tested at the time cause there was none. He coped through making Captain Underpants and Dogman, often being told to grow up or sit down and be quiet. Now he's got a much better life though and better accommodations where he can also be himself.
Oh I remember this story! I think it was in those little card flap things to protect book covers, but when he wrote one of his Captain Underpants books in 3rd grade iirc the teacher ripped it up in front of him and told him to go outside. But uhhh, yea that didn’t work.
I was lucky enough to be diagnosed at age 5. Knowing about my autism has definitely helped me a ton, and it warms my heart to see that you're finally able to stay conformable in such a crowded place like Disneyland knowing your autism as well. Here's to many more happy years.
My family doesn't want to test me, but I've had a suspection on Asperger's syndrome since I was like 3. You dude are my big idol as an awesome autistic artist who enjoys his life no matter his diagnosis. Thank you for being here for us🙏
Hi! I’m an Autistic + ADHD 13y/o boy. Aspergers is an outdated and disgusting term. It comes from Hans Asperger, a nazi doctor who would kill autistic kids with high support needs. The autistic kids who he didn’t kill because they had low support needs we’re deemed to have “Asperger’s Syndrome”. So yea.. please don’t use that term. “Asperger’s “ is just Autism.
I've asked to get diagnosed, and I took a screening test, but shortly after I asked about it and was informed we were no longer seeing that psychologist. For no reason. Fun as fuck /sar
I genuinely used to believe that all married couples hated each other, fought and screamed at each other all the time when I was younger. And that's because my parents were my only example...
@@o-kiku3939 I didn't want my kids to believe that lie, so I made sure to encourage their involvement in extra curricular activities so that they would be exposed to healthier couples. Dads who weren't drunk or raging, moms who weren't crying, but normal healthy people. So they'd know there are other options
Dude, getting a diagnosis and learning to accommodate yourself is so amazing. After I got diagnosed with adhd and sensory issues I started learning more about how to work around them. I got myself noise reducing earbuds and learned to take breaks and was able to actually have fun at a dance for the first time my sophomore year of high school. I’m so grateful screening is getting better and more people can understand their needs. (And I have a lot of trouble with travel too!)
This feels so validating. I’m physically unable to travel because i get seizures from stress, but seeing that others are overwhelmed from the same things I am helps so much. Idk why.
I’m neurodivergent, seeing an older person who is an artist have fun and thrive is amazing! It gives me hope honestly. We don’t usually see older neurodivergent people and it subconsciously makes me feel like people like us don’t survive in this society, which isn’t always true. Thank you for being you!💕
Im an artist, and right now im working through the process of getting an official diagnosis of ADHD. Theres documentation that says i could have inattentive ADHD that 'severely' effected my day-to-day. (Daydreaming, lack of focus control, timeblindness etc.) Im trying to express the happiness that the time i spent TRYING to get an answer was all worth it, and the fear of how the journey will continue, with my ART. Thanks for inspiring me to keep going and to not give up! ❤
I am also an autistic person that is not easy to make travel, it’s hard! But I managed to push through it. You are a very inspirational person and I pray I grow up like you, you are like a big brother to a little brother, or a dad to a kid. Life live Scott!
Today I had a bad day. I already could feel the tension that autism has on me. I was forced to go to a party with a bunch of people I don't know by my mother. When it got too loud I wanted to recharge by hiding and listening to music while doodling. She kept pressuring me to go talk to others but I just couldn't. After a meltdown she let me go home. And then this popped up on my for you page. I feel seen, even on this bad day. Thank you, Scot, for continuing to inspire and help me, a young and autistic person. I'm forever thankful. Edit: I was surprised by how many likes I've gotten. I'm happy that people like me get support and love. If you need to rant you can use this place to talk about having a bad day. I might not be back to support you but I think there's plenty of lovely people that will give you a small comment or two. Though this is not professional therapy. It's just a little bit of support when you need it. A word of love. Also, thank you Scot, for making such a small and safe space for everyone. Your TH-cam channel is incredible and your art motivates us all! You where able to create such a small and connection bridge for all of us! Thank you all again. 💖💖💖
As an Autistic artist, this made me tear up. Your videos have been really inspiring to me, so now I have even more reason to be inspired by you. Congrats on your anniversary and welcome to the Autism club! ^^
As a neurodivergent artist, I am so proud of you! I'm very happy you guys are traveling, experiencing joy, being yourselves. It warms my heart. Thank you, Scott and Donna, for being such sweet people 💖💖💖
As an autistic person, I also find everything so hard, especially traveling. I think sounds and flashing colors are so much more so much more ground breaking when traveling. So, I hope you find more ways to ways to cope with different situations.:)
This is why diagnosis is so important. So many times family members will think you are “regressing” because now that you have a diagnosis you are wearing headphones and taking more breaks and you didn’t do that before. But the truth is, having a diagnosis means you know your body’s needs and you are paying attention to them. You are not regressing because you aren’t forcing yourself to suffer like you used to.
Masking is a kind of defense mechanism and it caters to the allistic people we're surrounded by-- unmasking and taking care of ourselves can make them uncomfortable. It's a difficult situation to work through, but their discomfort isn't our responsibility. Allistic people tend to view "improving" and finding coping skills as seeming more like an allistic person-- more effectively masking-- but that isn't what generally improves quality of life.
This video made me very emotional and cry, honestly. I have autism and ADHD and struggle immensely with sensory issues, agoraphobia, and anxiety. Seeing you be kind to yourself and have a beautiful vacation while addressing your needs fills me with joy and hope. I'm so happy you were able to get diagnosed, so you could know that what you struggle with is not your fault. You inspire SO MANY people, including myself, and I'm very grateful you shared this wonderful video/story with us. ❤ Keep being yourself! We love it! (ᵔ◡ᵔ)
as someone who's autistic myself, this means the dang world to me, it's such a major relief to figure out why certain things are overwhelming and how to handle that. realizing you're not just "overly sensitive" or "broken" feels like a giant weight being lifted from your shoulders
I feel like it's a common theme for those with autism, myself included, to be artists in all sorts of different ways. Musicians, digital and traditional artists, etc. I use my art as a coping mechanism along with spending time with my grey rescue cat. Sensory overloads are never fun, so I often seclude myself and listen to music while drawing and spending time with my rescue cat.
This is so wholesome to hear from a fellow autistic artist. I was diagnosed around 6 years ago, and at my old school, the teachers would often try to tell me to "grow up" or "get over it" when obviously, that's not how autism works. I had grown up loving art and coping with it as it often calmed me down and put me in a better mood. I transferred to a new school last year, and im finally treated like a real person and not a glitchy robot. Even at my new school, i have learned to really love drawing and still draw to this day.
That sucks man. There are some people in this world that just can't accept "abnormality" and will force it down people's throats (even though when it's a condition). Glad everything worked out for you, keep doing what you love :)
When my son was diagnosed with autism at four years old, it shook my entire family, because most of his “symptoms” seemed normal to us. In the end, five more members of my family ended up being diagnosed with autism - including my 79 year old grandfather. I remember this stern, distant man, whom I had never had an emotional conversation with, crying as he talked to me about it, because for the first time in his life he didn’t feel broken. He suddenly understood so many things about his past and relationships, and was able to let go of a lot of guilt. I’m so grateful that we have a better understanding of these things, so that we can stop trying to fit everybody into a box labeled “normal” and start embracing our differences!
This. I think considering the genetic and inherited aspect of autism and adhd, and other neurodivergent neurodevelopmental diagnoses, so many families consider their behaviors as weird quirks or oddities meant to be suppressed and controlled, and then get surprised when after a couple generations of repression, manifests in a child who has symptoms much more obvious and difficult to cope with, than it was for their parents. I was the first to actually seek out ADHD diagnosis. But, despite me being "obvious"-- it turned out *everyone* in my small family had it.
Thank you so so much for sharing this. I am genuinely crying as a very similar thing has happened in my family. My diagnosis has led to the diagnosis of my family members, and I have watched both my parents accept themselves in ways they never have before. It warms my soul for others to know they aren’t “bad” or “abnormal” or the other harsh things we can tell ourselves. We are autistic, and it’s beautiful to live in a neurodiverse world. We just have different needs because we have different types of nervous systems, and we deserve to support that and be supported in that. I wish you and your family the upmost joy, self-acceptance, and healing. 💜
thats honestly so nice i remember getting that feeling a few years ago when i got diagnosed im only 16 but the stress of not understanding why i am the way i am builds up so fast when it happens everyday im so happy he was able to get diagnosed!
Being diagnosed with autism freed me as well. Every time I tell someone that I have autism they always want to say, “it doesn’t matter. Doctors always trying to diagnose people with something these days.” I have to stop them when they say this because being diagnosed was such an amazing thing for me. Everyone around me didn’t understand why I was so different and I didn’t understand why I was either. Finally I can accept that I’m different and love myself for that fact. Being autistic or displaying symptoms does not make me a lesser person. I think it makes me quite quirky, cute, and fun actually.
This feels like when I discovered I had serious ADHD and began taking medicine at THIRTY ONE years old. I can't believe what it feels like to just be me for once. This video made me so warm inside.
Sometimes a diagnosis can mean everything. I’m so glad you figured that out, and that now you have a better idea of how to cope with stressors in your life.
I don't normally comment a lot, but this video has me crying. I am 21 but was diagnosed with autism at age 7. A lot of my life was spent in ABA therapy trying to "cure" me. I still have a hard time being okay with needing sensory aids, being visibly autistic, and just hoping I'll somehow go against everything I learned in psych school and one day "grow out of" my autism. Seeing you in this video go out of your way to have your needs met, and it not being shown as wrong/a burden to your wife (another struggle I have is worry about effecting my relationship/friendships) really means everything. Seeing autistic people older than me really helps me feel less alone and helps me get through harder days. Thank you ♡
@@straberryshinigami15g97 I will force myself to be uncomfortable before I let myself "seem autistic". Forced eye contact, withholding stimming, putting up with bad sensory situations to the point where I feel like I'm internally exploding. Not talking about my "childish" interests, or pretending not to be excited about those things. Leaving comfort objects at home, even when they benefit me. Essentially, not wanting to seem "weird" or cause a scene or something/draw any extra attention to myself. Some of it is based on experiences I had growing up. My mum would tell me not to stim when I was a child because "only retards do that". And the whole point of ABA therapy is to make autistic people "blend in" to seem more neurotypical. So there's a lot of unlearning to do.
I’m sorry you’ve gone through this. Your needs are valid and you have a ring to accommodations, even if they’re the ones you make for yourself. Being visibly autistic is such a mess anyway, because while you should be able to be, in the wrong places it can be dangerous. But I just wanted you to know that I see you and you deserve to be happy and comfortable. I was diagnosed about 3 years ago. 💖
Fellow neurodivergent here, I can totally relate to travel troubles my family has always told me to suck it up and this made me feel way less alone thank you :)
Yeah undiagnosed autism is a huge problem. Some parents will refuse to see the signs and just let their kids struggle until they're old enough to get tested themselves. Some doctors will even refuse to test for it. I'm happy that you were able to have this revelation. It definitely feels like a weight's been lifted from your shoulders when you know what you have and it's officially recognised.
Im only 22 and in recent years ive thought about getting tested just because it would answer so many questions and might even be helpful, my parents just dont believe in that kinda stuff.
@@kushywushy2251if you're still thinking about that, i recommand doing it. It could help you very much in your life, and if not, you didn't lose anything.
Mine 🖐, no but fr though, i have came to my parents on the brink of suicide before and told them about everything from a-z knowing that something is up with my brain, and its all the same answer. Ends with mental health neglect and blaming me and my phone for everhthing
I used to think I was the only one with that problem.. I mean, I've shown some pretty obvious signs. I haven't been diagnosed with anything, but I know for a fact that the chance of me being neurotypical is low. For all I know, I could have autism and ADHD..
I'm going through the same thing right now, but for my little brother. All of the signs have been there, but in the past my mom has exploded whenever someone tried to suggest he might be autistic. But im not going to give up
I was diagnosed with aspergers a few years ago and after changing to special schools that helped giving me the mental ressources I needed I've never been better and just knowing why you feel the way you feel is a huge gift to get. I'm super happy you got this gift as well and just know that you are an incredible person and I've always loved watching your cozy videos, just for the way you make everyone connect with you in your art work and in your journeys through history and projects, through every brush stroke and pencil line. Never change
I HATE people who complain about the “sudden rise” in diagnoses. There’s not a new wave of mentally ill or neurodivergent people, we’ve always been here but the tools for visibility haven’t. I got diagnosed with autism when I was 14 and I’m still learning to understand myself. I recently met someone who wasn’t diagnosed until she was 40. We’re everywhere and always have been. I’m so happy that people of all ages can now recognize that they may be different, and get a diagnosis.
@@sliwka621 you sound sarcastic but yes, that’s the truth. It was under-diagnosed because no one knew what mental illnesses really were, or what social disabilities were. Autism isn’t a mental illness, but a social disability. You see it everywhere now because humans are becoming more aware of others and our research is getting better, and we understand more now. Our introspection and humane tolerance and acceptance has come this far, and so we listen and improve how we treat other people who, due to no fault of their own, see and experience the world differently.
I don't think it's bad to ask though whether: 1) in the past neurodivergent people might have had less luck with dating and relations and thus procreated less and 2) whether certain mental illnesses are 'caused' by 'modern society'. You're 100% correct that lack of diagnosis is a major factor, but I don't think there is any evidence that it's the only factor.
The thing is, you shouldn't put much stock into this. You're not special or belong to an "autistic club" (not saying this out of harshness)...that's the wrong thing nowadays I see about it, people trying to act like others need to cater for them. Also, it's really annoying online to see things like "autistic people respond to [insert random thing] by doing [insert random autistic stereotype]", and then others respond with "omg, that fits me so well, we're so autistic OMG 😱 😱 😱". So many young people literally diagnose THEMSELVES with autism or some other mental disorder and then base their whole personality around it, essentially lying to everyone since most often they don't actually have a severe disorder but just generalised anxiety and lack of self worth. My wife, a psychologist, said this phenomenon is really concerning to her as she gets so many patients that come in thinking they have autism, sociopathy, ticks, etc when it's usually not the case and they essentially did the mistake many do by searching symptoms online and then thinking that WebMD or whatever else on Google fits their symptoms (usually something drastic and horrible). It doesn't make you a lesser person to have a mental disorder, but it's wrong to try to "normalise" disorders because it's a denial that you have a problem and when you deny an issue then you simply don't deal with it...disorders are disorders for a reason. It's OK to get help, it's OK to have medication, but don't go flaunting your disorder and act like it's who you are. Who you are is not your disorder, it is how you live your life DESPITE your disorder
As someone with autism, it's amazing to see you overcome it. I can't overcome my autism, and I have the same issues that you do. Me seeing you being happy, makes me feel confident that I can pursue my dream: success
As a fellow adult diagnosed neurodivergent, I love hearing stories like this. Never too late to learn about yourself and enjoy life in a way that works best for you
Just an fyi there's a HUGE overlap between ADHD and autism, and until recently it was standard that they couldn't diagnose you with both but they can now.
When my Mom was pregnant with me, one of her best friends were also pregnant. I am barely a few months older than her child. (I was Born in November, My Mom’s Friends kid, Arlo, was Born in February.) I got the lucky draw, on the very low side of the Autistic spectrum. I can speak and share my feelings. Not always in the best way, of course. My autism is very similar to yours! Arlo was born with very bad Autism. He can’t speak, get himself dressed, or effectively show himself. He’s my age, but can only process things like a 6 year old. Arlo is one of the sweetest boys I’ve ever known, and I feel so lucky to grow up with him and give him at least one person who really loves him regardless of his condition. So happy that your Wife is able to do that for you. She loves you no matter what’s going on and that’s the kind of people we need in this world. Especially for ALL people on the Neurodivergent spectrum. You guys are so cute together, be yourself!!❤
This warmed my heart so much. My son is a high functioning 16 year old with Aspergers. I’m proud of him in so many ways but what really melts my heart is that he no longer worries himself of the opinion of others and he does what he *needs* to do to cope with crowds/smells/noises etc and makes no apologies for it. At such a young age he understands that he has “challenges” and by his own trial and error has learned what is good for him (noise cancelling headphones for example) and his needs to put things in place so he’s not caught out on surprises. I’m so happy to hear you and your beautiful wife had such a wonderful Anniversary and that you both enjoyed it to the max because *You* were brave enough to use the “tools” to help you have the best time. Lots of love to you both from England.xxx
As an autistic person, I can relate to this completely. Sensory overloads and panic attacks happen all the time when I travel and I’ve had to find ways to cope my whole life. Thank you for sharing this!
i am actually sobbing with happiness as an autistic person seeing one of us get to be successful and grow old. this is why representstion matters. scott, you're one of the most inspirational people and knowing you're autistic too makes me so incredibly happy. please keep being you.
I'm 24 yrs old and seeing autistic people your age accepting themselves and their needs makes me very hopeful and happy ❤️ I am autistic and am cognitively disabled too. My whole life I have been told that I was just a lazy person when I've always had a disability ! Getting diagnosed recently has been a huge relief for me. It is very difficult to live in this world not made for us... Seeing you with your headphones made me so happy. It's insane how simple videos like this can lift up my heart and make me feel a whole lot better about myself 😊
From one Autie to another, I’m SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! Everyone deserves to know their neurotype, it can be literally life changing and can help in ways you never imagined, just to understand yourself ❤
Congratulations on your diagnosis! 💜 from a fellow autistic artist. I was dx at 19(a lot of specialists didn't believe girls got Autism in my school years, or that it was extremely rare.) I started believing I was at 14 after doing research but it took 5 years before any professional validation. It's been almost 10 years since my Dx. And I still remember how validating and helpful it was. it's such a relief to have answers... to know there's a reason for all the differences you experienced in life prior to diagnosis. And to know how to find like-minded others. Welcome to the community! And happy anniversary to you both! 30 years, that's amazing. 🥰
This is so comforting. As an autistic artist, its nice to figure out yourself and finally listening to it. It’s hard to keep up this mask and what society expects you, and its nice to wind down and finally be yourself. Thank you, for being you :)
I was diagnosed because of my sensory issues. It was so bad I couldn’t even listen to music. Now I cope through my music, though I still get anxiety around crowds and just people in general, and to learn one of my favorite artists goes through it too, (minus the music part) is great because there is finally a content creator I relate to!
you’ve inspired me to do so many things, like pick up water coloring and journaling! I have Asperger’s (it is on the ASD) and it warms my heart to learn that my favorite creator and role model is also autistic! please keep doing what you’re doing- I imagine you’ll be able to touch so many souls like you’ve done to me
I have been scrolling through a lot of garbage shorts lately but when I got to this I was surprised and happy at the same time! This is the best short ever!
I just got diagnosed with autism at 20 (as did my mother at 50) and it is such a confusing and emotionally tumultuous time. But there’s also so much relief, pride, and peace in that knowledge. I’m so glad you’ve been given the words to explain your experiences better and I hope you find the best accessibility aids for you! Reducing shame and internalized ableism is hard, but it’s so worth it.
Also love that you have such a loving partner who accepted and accommodates you rather than causing shame. You two seem really loving and such a beautiful example of a healthy couple.
as an autistic person this brings me so much comfort, you're one of my favourite artists and the reason I picked up watercolour watching this video brought me to tears, thank you
One thing I’ve learned about Disney as an autistic person is that they have these neat places called quiet rooms! There a really calming place near the first aid areas and they’ve always helped me during mealtdowns and sensory overload in the parks :)
The way my family has worked there for years even retiring and I'm just now hearing about this!!!! Ahhh this is amazing I'm going soon with my gf I'm autistic and she has ptsd so this is going to be a life saver!!!!
I don’t often hear about older people with autism, probably for the reason you said, they didn’t have testing for it all that time ago, so it’s nice and comforting in a way to hear your story. Makes me feel a little less anxious about my future as a fellow autistic person, I hope I grow to be even half as cool as you :-)🤘🏻
You have no idea how much I needed this today. I travelled home from London with my mum on the tube and trains which were packed and had really bad sensory overload all day (I'm autistic too). I'm so glad it's not just me that feels like this
Thank you so much. I am autistic and I oftentimes get overwhelmed by trying to seem “normal,” but to see you just enjoying yourself and taking care of your needs is inspiring and gives me hope. I look up to you so much as both an artist and a human being, and it makes me feel like I have worth, and I have hope for the future. Thank you so much, Scott. This truly means the world.
This is so comforting as someone in the diagnosis process. It reassures me that autism doesn't have to stop me from doing the things I love, I just need to be kind to myself and find coping mechanisms. Thanks, Scott. Happy anniversary to you and Donna, and here's to many more happy adventures! ❤
Seeing other people that have something in common with me (in this case autism) experience happiness makes me tear up, it's just. It's so nice and comforting at the same time like "hey you know what, it's not so bad after all. you'll be fine". Happy anniversary to you two
I'm very late but as a 14 year old girl with both autism and adhd this brings me so much happiness that you found a way to cope even before you knew you had autism... it brings me so much joy to see people like you be happy and know what they need... (I'm sorry I have dyslexia aswell I'm not very good at writting it's gonna be edited a lot)
@@yugicha302 I've been autistic my whole life. Getting diagnosed gave me the explanation as to who I am. A reason for all the shit that happened. The diagnosis didn't give me autism. It gave me the truth.
As an artist and Disney fan who experiences sensory overload, this warms my heart. I have always admired your work and looked up to you as an artist. I thought I was strange for being overwhelmed by the things I like (Disney world) and so did my friends who came with me. I appreciate you sharing your story and reminding me that I am not alone. Thank you :)
A couple days ago I was on the verge of tears in art class because we had to work with clay. The texture, the wetness, the way it gets in my fingernails, it was a tangle inside of me. My friend who has no concept of stuff like this, her words of advice of me just slightly poking the clay because I didn’t like it was, “you don’t like the texture of clay?? I LOVEEE the texture!!!” i was like wtf thanks ig
As somebody who’s also on the spectrum, it’s so sweet to see you so open about this 🥺 it makes all of us see that we’re not alone! Coping can be really hard, especially with loud noises. Scott, I really thank you!! You’re an amazing inspiration for me already
that's so sweet, I am happy to see people living their lives and feeling loved and comfortable as themself. It really empowers me to strive for the best I could in life
This is so wholesome. As a fellow autistic person it’s really cool to hear that someone so inspirational to me goes through the same stuff I do. I’m glad you could have a great vacation!!
isn't it amazing how the diagnosis just... makes so many things suddenly Okay? you don't have to "just deal with it" anymore, because for the first time ever you know that this ISN'T something that everybody else handles without saying anything. it's hard to realize that you really have just had it harder than most of the other people in your life. but it's also comforting, to know that you're not just... weak. I'm so glad that you can have this experience without shame. you deserve to be happy being yourself and it's so unbelievably amazing watching somebody who is a little older being... happy and autistic and alive. Thank you.
Don’t want to ruin a nice comment section, but autism definitely doesn’t make your life necessarily “harder.” Everyone has stuff they are dealing with and although autism is certainly something, I wouldn’t put it as far as making your life more difficult than everyone else’s around you
@@America17760 this isn't the oppression olympics and nobody is trying to quantify anybody else's pain. Autism absolutely does make your life harder, not because of any inherent qualities, but because we don't live in a society that is in any way built to accommodate autistic people or any of their specific needs. To note: if you're worried that you're going to "ruin" something by stating your piece about it, please remember that you always have the option to not say anything at all.
@@TheUnofficialNinja I understand autism makes ones life harder, I think what I merely need to say is that you should have worded it more correctly to maybe say that autism brings unique challenges, instead of saying that it makes ones life harder than others around them.
@@America17760 if something is a challenge for you but not for somebody else, that means you have a harder time doing it than the other person. I'm not willing to compromise my language to make neurotypical or allistic people more comfortable. (to be clear, I don't know if You're neurotypical/allistic, but that's the common use for rhetoric like that - the same as using "differently abled" or things like people-first language.)
That was an adorable narration Scott. It's really an incredible feat you achieved. I wish you all the best for your future travels from the bottom of my heart 💕
You have no idea how happy it makes me to see self-acceptance like this. Just letting go and accepting your needs and meeting them. You are a stranger to me, but I felt an intense relief hearing you didn't feel like just toughing it out anymore.
I've become borderline agoraphobic because of sensory overload and can't go out by myself. This video truly is inspiring because I cope with my art too, and seeing your art after those gorgeous primary sources makes me wanna get out there and travel a little. I want to expand my art and I sometimes struggle because I don't really get to use real life as inspiration. Sometimes I just wanna draw and relying on emotions as a source is tiring.
I'm 37 and just learned I'm autistic, as well. One of my earliest stories that looking back was an early sign of my autism was about a trip we took to WDW. It was a bad experience. But I have always loved Disney and ended up working at Disneyland as an adult. Now I'm a nanny for kids with special needs and one of my specialties is taking kids with autism to Disneyland. I spent about a year with one kid taking him every day in the summer and at least 2-3 days/week after school. I helped him acclimate to the atmosphere, crowds, new foods, etc. I got really familiar with the quiet spots to give him breaks and working the fast pass and DAS system to his benefit. And he LOVED it! It was the ultimate dream job for me!! I used to think based on other people's comments that places like theme parks were the worst for kids with special needs. Now I find them to be the BEST places because they actually function on very specific routines and are more predictable places to be than other places. I feel safer at Disneyland than at the grocery store on many levels. I get annoyed when parents don't let me take their kids to places like that because THEY find it overwhelming and think it's too much to send their kid with someone else. 🤦🏼♀️ My other specialty is helping people who think they won't like Disney come to a new appreciation of it by giving them a personalized tour. Disney is my special interest and a way of life. 💗 Disney (and any other theme park) is usually overwhelming because people usually only go once every few years or once in a lifetime. So it IS overwhelming trying to figure out how things work, where everything is, planning schedules to fit everything in, etc. When you go frequently and take your time learning how to make the most of everything offered, it's truly enjoyable. I try to use that knowledge to benefit others who can't go frequently.
You might not remember this, Scott, but I attended one of your livestreams and mentioned how my autism made me an easy target for bullying because I would rather draw than listen to class or talk to others. You said something along the lines of “as someone also on the spectrum, I understand how you feel” and I immediately burst into tears, haha! Nice to know we’re not alone in this. Take care.
I am just overwhelmed (in a good way) with all of these amazing comments. I had NO idea there were so many lovely neurodivergent people out there.
This makes me so so happy. Thank you all for making me feel like I'm not alone. ♥
as one of those (hopefully) lovely nd people, i hope you know that you do just the same for a lot of people, and seeing someone who's autistic like me and living a happy, full and interesting life is,,,a thing that gives me a lot of Hope
dude i'm so glad you were able to get a diagnosis! im autistic myself so it's wonderful to see such an inspiring person deal with the same things i do, keep on painting man, we love you ❤️
You will never be alone! You are a very good person and you have inspired me to continue with my art, Thank you Scott!
I just got diagnosed with autism a couple weeks ago. Since then I've been finding out a lot of the youtubers I watch are either adhd or autistic (like me). I think we're all just subconsciously drawn to each other, and it's so nice to find others like myself. I'm glad you finally got the answers you need, and welcome to the community
you’re an inspiration to all. keep doing what you love ❤
Y’all ever watch someone and just feel the warmth and happiness they radiate? Made my day so much better watching this
this comment has no replies because you're speaking facts!
God, it's me again...
I just start smiling whenever I see his shorts he just gives off so much positive energy I love him T-T
Same, Scott's videos always cheer me up
Me too, I literally starting tearing up because this is so sweet
"Donna seemed to really like it too...Drank tea." That makes sense. Donna and tea get along very well.
Tea for life
perfectly describes the feeling of getting that diagnosis. the raw euphoria of knowing that there’s nothing “wrong” with you, and there’s something to do about the things that set you off. there’s nothing like it
*smacks table softly to prevent loud noises*
I KNE- I knew it >:)
same, except i didn't do it softly and startled myself (as usual)
I could be wrong, but having someone understand that you're socially drained and need to recharge but still find ways to enjoy their own environment in a special way without interrupting yours is true beauty. Happy anniversary.
Right, literal goals❤️😭
As an autistic and adhd artist this made me tear up 🤧
Very happy for you!!
Am i right it makes you feel you can actually do art if he can do it you can and im autism too its awesome to see other autism artist
Where do we ask for him to draw our logo
Same! I too have adhd and I'm autistic too!!
Same. I too, have autism and an artist.
Same
Random but Donna’s smile is so gorgeous, literally lit up my day! Glad y’all enjoyed the trip and as a former special educator, I’m glad you got your diagnosis and found new ways to cope with the environment. It really does help to know that you’re just extra unique and need different things.
y’all are so sweet i am going to cry.
Nah dude i am crying
Im joining you guys :'D
Fun fact: Dav Pilkey who wrote the Captain Underpants books grew up in the 70s too and has ADHD but simply wasn't tested at the time cause there was none. He coped through making Captain Underpants and Dogman, often being told to grow up or sit down and be quiet. Now he's got a much better life though and better accommodations where he can also be himself.
Oh I remember this story! I think it was in those little card flap things to protect book covers, but when he wrote one of his Captain Underpants books in 3rd grade iirc the teacher ripped it up in front of him and told him to go outside. But uhhh, yea that didn’t work.
As an autistic person this was so nice to see, it can be really hard coping. Thanks Scott, for showing it's okay to be yourself :)
How does this have no comments? lol
But that aside, great message, I totally agree.
Edit: Even though I'm not autistic myself
I’m also autistic and agree with this person :]
Same
I too am autistic and I approve this message
Me too
I was lucky enough to be diagnosed at age 5. Knowing about my autism has definitely helped me a ton, and it warms my heart to see that you're finally able to stay conformable in such a crowded place like Disneyland knowing your autism as well. Here's to many more happy years.
My family doesn't want to test me, but I've had a suspection on Asperger's syndrome since I was like 3. You dude are my big idol as an awesome autistic artist who enjoys his life no matter his diagnosis. Thank you for being here for us🙏
Hi! I’m an Autistic + ADHD 13y/o boy. Aspergers is an outdated and disgusting term. It comes from Hans Asperger, a nazi doctor who would kill autistic kids with high support needs. The autistic kids who he didn’t kill because they had low support needs we’re deemed to have “Asperger’s Syndrome”. So yea.. please don’t use that term. “Asperger’s “ is just Autism.
Same, I'm like 60% sure that I have autism, but my mum says it's just a 'pHaSe'
I've asked to get diagnosed, and I took a screening test, but shortly after I asked about it and was informed we were no longer seeing that psychologist. For no reason. Fun as fuck /sar
This man is so wholesome.
I agree, this man needs to be protected at all costs
I live to see this man's uploads
Fr it's so cute x
🫂
I know got to be literally one of my favourite TH-cam shorts just because it so wholesome
It makes me so immeasurably happy just to see a married couple that don't hate each other to no end.
fr it’s like some old married couples think it’s funny to do the “i hate my spouse” stuff 😭
Yep! These 2 are adorable!
Maybe autistic people make good partners.
I genuinely used to believe that all married couples hated each other, fought and screamed at each other all the time when I was younger.
And that's because my parents were my only example...
@@o-kiku3939 I didn't want my kids to believe that lie, so I made sure to encourage their involvement in extra curricular activities so that they would be exposed to healthier couples. Dads who weren't drunk or raging, moms who weren't crying, but normal healthy people. So they'd know there are other options
This is the most heartwarming video ever.
I Agree
Dude, getting a diagnosis and learning to accommodate yourself is so amazing. After I got diagnosed with adhd and sensory issues I started learning more about how to work around them. I got myself noise reducing earbuds and learned to take breaks and was able to actually have fun at a dance for the first time my sophomore year of high school. I’m so grateful screening is getting better and more people can understand their needs. (And I have a lot of trouble with travel too!)
This feels so validating. I’m physically unable to travel because i get seizures from stress, but seeing that others are overwhelmed from the same things I am helps so much. Idk why.
I’m neurodivergent, seeing an older person who is an artist have fun and thrive is amazing! It gives me hope honestly. We don’t usually see older neurodivergent people and it subconsciously makes me feel like people like us don’t survive in this society, which isn’t always true. Thank you for being you!💕
Im an artist, and right now im working through the process of getting an official diagnosis of ADHD. Theres documentation that says i could have inattentive ADHD that 'severely' effected my day-to-day. (Daydreaming, lack of focus control, timeblindness etc.) Im trying to express the happiness that the time i spent TRYING to get an answer was all worth it, and the fear of how the journey will continue, with my ART. Thanks for inspiring me to keep going and to not give up! ❤
I am also an autistic person that is not easy to make travel, it’s hard! But I managed to push through it. You are a very inspirational person and I pray I grow up like you, you are like a big brother to a little brother, or a dad to a kid. Life live Scott!
Today I had a bad day. I already could feel the tension that autism has on me. I was forced to go to a party with a bunch of people I don't know by my mother. When it got too loud I wanted to recharge by hiding and listening to music while doodling. She kept pressuring me to go talk to others but I just couldn't. After a meltdown she let me go home. And then this popped up on my for you page. I feel seen, even on this bad day. Thank you, Scot, for continuing to inspire and help me, a young and autistic person. I'm forever thankful.
Edit: I was surprised by how many likes I've gotten. I'm happy that people like me get support and love. If you need to rant you can use this place to talk about having a bad day. I might not be back to support you but I think there's plenty of lovely people that will give you a small comment or two. Though this is not professional therapy. It's just a little bit of support when you need it. A word of love. Also, thank you Scot, for making such a small and safe space for everyone. Your TH-cam channel is incredible and your art motivates us all! You where able to create such a small and connection bridge for all of us! Thank you all again. 💖💖💖
Sending Big Hugs from the Hobbit Hole. ♥♥♥
Thank you very very much! You're a great man, with an even greater heart!!! 💖💖💖
Sorry dude, hoping that in the future it gets better
It was simply a bad day, and mum didn't realise how bad it was. Thank you for the love and concern though, it really made my day. 💖💖💖
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i’m not sure why but this is so sweet it made me cry
It’s too wholesome I am amazed at this man and his overflowing kindness
As an Autistic artist, this made me tear up. Your videos have been really inspiring to me, so now I have even more reason to be inspired by you. Congrats on your anniversary and welcome to the Autism club! ^^
This made me cry too!!! i feel so happy seeing rep and i’m just ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Cmon fellow autistic artists let’s go
Same! I love art so much. It’s calming to me.
We truly a club 💗
This dude is honestly such a wholesome man istg he never fails to make my day better 😭
Is your pfp a drawing on a nose?
@@sprigslashvital291 That prolly makes more sense, I thought it was the bellybutton
@@sprigslashvital291 yes 💀
As a neurodivergent artist, I am so proud of you! I'm very happy you guys are traveling, experiencing joy, being yourselves. It warms my heart. Thank you, Scott and Donna, for being such sweet people 💖💖💖
As an autistic person,
I also find everything so hard, especially traveling. I think sounds and flashing colors are so much more so much more ground breaking when traveling. So, I hope you find more ways to ways to cope with different situations.:)
This is why diagnosis is so important. So many times family members will think you are “regressing” because now that you have a diagnosis you are wearing headphones and taking more breaks and you didn’t do that before. But the truth is, having a diagnosis means you know your body’s needs and you are paying attention to them. You are not regressing because you aren’t forcing yourself to suffer like you used to.
calm down
@@PoopMadness no I have family stuff
Really good points. 👍
Masking is a kind of defense mechanism and it caters to the allistic people we're surrounded by-- unmasking and taking care of ourselves can make them uncomfortable. It's a difficult situation to work through, but their discomfort isn't our responsibility. Allistic people tend to view "improving" and finding coping skills as seeming more like an allistic person-- more effectively masking-- but that isn't what generally improves quality of life.
@@aswanson3341 I JUST POSEST A VIDEO ABOUT MASKINGS. IM PHD U NOT MY VIDEO REVIEWER BU THJE AUMISTM CONBESNION, BE ZIUTE
This video made me very emotional and cry, honestly. I have autism and ADHD and struggle immensely with sensory issues, agoraphobia, and anxiety. Seeing you be kind to yourself and have a beautiful vacation while addressing your needs fills me with joy and hope. I'm so happy you were able to get diagnosed, so you could know that what you struggle with is not your fault. You inspire SO MANY people, including myself, and I'm very grateful you shared this wonderful video/story with us. ❤ Keep being yourself! We love it! (ᵔ◡ᵔ)
Can I ask what it is that makes you nervous to leave the house? (the agoraphobia)
@@Alexa-qv7kr I don't wanna get shot.
@@Alexa-qv7kr agoraphobia is more like the fear of large spaces or crowds
as someone who's autistic myself, this means the dang world to me, it's such a major relief to figure out why certain things are overwhelming and how to handle that. realizing you're not just "overly sensitive" or "broken" feels like a giant weight being lifted from your shoulders
I feel like it's a common theme for those with autism, myself included, to be artists in all sorts of different ways. Musicians, digital and traditional artists, etc.
I use my art as a coping mechanism along with spending time with my grey rescue cat. Sensory overloads are never fun, so I often seclude myself and listen to music while drawing and spending time with my rescue cat.
This is so wholesome to hear from a fellow autistic artist. I was diagnosed around 6 years ago, and at my old school, the teachers would often try to tell me to "grow up" or "get over it" when obviously, that's not how autism works. I had grown up loving art and coping with it as it often calmed me down and put me in a better mood. I transferred to a new school last year, and im finally treated like a real person and not a glitchy robot. Even at my new school, i have learned to really love drawing and still draw to this day.
That sucks man. There are some people in this world that just can't accept "abnormality" and will force it down people's throats (even though when it's a condition). Glad everything worked out for you, keep doing what you love :)
When my son was diagnosed with autism at four years old, it shook my entire family, because most of his “symptoms” seemed normal to us. In the end, five more members of my family ended up being diagnosed with autism - including my 79 year old grandfather. I remember this stern, distant man, whom I had never had an emotional conversation with, crying as he talked to me about it, because for the first time in his life he didn’t feel broken. He suddenly understood so many things about his past and relationships, and was able to let go of a lot of guilt.
I’m so grateful that we have a better understanding of these things, so that we can stop trying to fit everybody into a box labeled “normal” and start embracing our differences!
This. I think considering the genetic and inherited aspect of autism and adhd, and other neurodivergent neurodevelopmental diagnoses, so many families consider their behaviors as weird quirks or oddities meant to be suppressed and controlled, and then get surprised when after a couple generations of repression, manifests in a child who has symptoms much more obvious and difficult to cope with, than it was for their parents.
I was the first to actually seek out ADHD diagnosis. But, despite me being "obvious"-- it turned out *everyone* in my small family had it.
Thank you so so much for sharing this. I am genuinely crying as a very similar thing has happened in my family. My diagnosis has led to the diagnosis of my family members, and I have watched both my parents accept themselves in ways they never have before. It warms my soul for others to know they aren’t “bad” or “abnormal” or the other harsh things we can tell ourselves. We are autistic, and it’s beautiful to live in a neurodiverse world. We just have different needs because we have different types of nervous systems, and we deserve to support that and be supported in that.
I wish you and your family the upmost joy, self-acceptance, and healing. 💜
thats honestly so nice i remember getting that feeling a few years ago when i got diagnosed im only 16 but the stress of not understanding why i am the way i am builds up so fast when it happens everyday im so happy he was able to get diagnosed!
More of my family members realized they were also autistic when I was diagnosed as well.
Being diagnosed with autism freed me as well. Every time I tell someone that I have autism they always want to say, “it doesn’t matter. Doctors always trying to diagnose people with something these days.” I have to stop them when they say this because being diagnosed was such an amazing thing for me. Everyone around me didn’t understand why I was so different and I didn’t understand why I was either. Finally I can accept that I’m different and love myself for that fact. Being autistic or displaying symptoms does not make me a lesser person. I think it makes me quite quirky, cute, and fun actually.
This feels like when I discovered I had serious ADHD and began taking medicine at THIRTY ONE years old. I can't believe what it feels like to just be me for once.
This video made me so warm inside.
I’m 31 and I also just found out. Finding out has been a huge relief. I’m glad for you. You have a new follower.
Sometimes a diagnosis can mean everything. I’m so glad you figured that out, and that now you have a better idea of how to cope with stressors in your life.
I don't normally comment a lot, but this video has me crying. I am 21 but was diagnosed with autism at age 7. A lot of my life was spent in ABA therapy trying to "cure" me. I still have a hard time being okay with needing sensory aids, being visibly autistic, and just hoping I'll somehow go against everything I learned in psych school and one day "grow out of" my autism. Seeing you in this video go out of your way to have your needs met, and it not being shown as wrong/a burden to your wife (another struggle I have is worry about effecting my relationship/friendships) really means everything. Seeing autistic people older than me really helps me feel less alone and helps me get through harder days. Thank you ♡
what do you mean by visibly autistic ?/gen
Thanks so much! ♥
@@straberryshinigami15g97 I will force myself to be uncomfortable before I let myself "seem autistic". Forced eye contact, withholding stimming, putting up with bad sensory situations to the point where I feel like I'm internally exploding. Not talking about my "childish" interests, or pretending not to be excited about those things. Leaving comfort objects at home, even when they benefit me. Essentially, not wanting to seem "weird" or cause a scene or something/draw any extra attention to myself. Some of it is based on experiences I had growing up. My mum would tell me not to stim when I was a child because "only retards do that". And the whole point of ABA therapy is to make autistic people "blend in" to seem more neurotypical. So there's a lot of unlearning to do.
I’m sorry you’ve gone through this. Your needs are valid and you have a ring to accommodations, even if they’re the ones you make for yourself. Being visibly autistic is such a mess anyway, because while you should be able to be, in the wrong places it can be dangerous. But I just wanted you to know that I see you and you deserve to be happy and comfortable. I was diagnosed about 3 years ago. 💖
just so you know you are enough
you gonna find yourself accept the fact someday ☺️
This is so heartwarming. You're my new role model
Fellow neurodivergent here, I can totally relate to travel troubles my family has always told me to suck it up and this made me feel way less alone thank you :)
Yeah undiagnosed autism is a huge problem. Some parents will refuse to see the signs and just let their kids struggle until they're old enough to get tested themselves. Some doctors will even refuse to test for it. I'm happy that you were able to have this revelation. It definitely feels like a weight's been lifted from your shoulders when you know what you have and it's officially recognised.
Im only 22 and in recent years ive thought about getting tested just because it would answer so many questions and might even be helpful, my parents just dont believe in that kinda stuff.
@@kushywushy2251if you're still thinking about that, i recommand doing it. It could help you very much in your life, and if not, you didn't lose anything.
Mine 🖐, no but fr though, i have came to my parents on the brink of suicide before and told them about everything from a-z knowing that something is up with my brain, and its all the same answer. Ends with mental health neglect and blaming me and my phone for everhthing
I used to think I was the only one with that problem.. I mean, I've shown some pretty obvious signs. I haven't been diagnosed with anything, but I know for a fact that the chance of me being neurotypical is low. For all I know, I could have autism and ADHD..
I'm going through the same thing right now, but for my little brother. All of the signs have been there, but in the past my mom has exploded whenever someone tried to suggest he might be autistic. But im not going to give up
This was the most wholesome thing I’ve ever seen 😭
I want to like your comment, but the devil might come after me 😭
I was diagnosed with aspergers a few years ago and after changing to special schools that helped giving me the mental ressources I needed I've never been better and just knowing why you feel the way you feel is a huge gift to get. I'm super happy you got this gift as well and just know that you are an incredible person and I've always loved watching your cozy videos, just for the way you make everyone connect with you in your art work and in your journeys through history and projects, through every brush stroke and pencil line. Never change
You're the most wholesome youtuber ever. Every video is fun and creative, and it makes me feel warm in my heart. Thanks for that.
I HATE people who complain about the “sudden rise” in diagnoses. There’s not a new wave of mentally ill or neurodivergent people, we’ve always been here but the tools for visibility haven’t. I got diagnosed with autism when I was 14 and I’m still learning to understand myself. I recently met someone who wasn’t diagnosed until she was 40. We’re everywhere and always have been. I’m so happy that people of all ages can now recognize that they may be different, and get a diagnosis.
Sure not just a trendy thing to be mentally I'll, must have been underdiagnosed all this time and for no good reason whatsoever.
@@sliwka621 you sound sarcastic but yes, that’s the truth. It was under-diagnosed because no one knew what mental illnesses really were, or what social disabilities were. Autism isn’t a mental illness, but a social disability. You see it everywhere now because humans are becoming more aware of others and our research is getting better, and we understand more now. Our introspection and humane tolerance and acceptance has come this far, and so we listen and improve how we treat other people who, due to no fault of their own, see and experience the world differently.
I don't think it's bad to ask though whether: 1) in the past neurodivergent people might have had less luck with dating and relations and thus procreated less and 2) whether certain mental illnesses are 'caused' by 'modern society'. You're 100% correct that lack of diagnosis is a major factor, but I don't think there is any evidence that it's the only factor.
Well, there’s certainly been a rise in mental illness if you ask me.
The thing is, you shouldn't put much stock into this. You're not special or belong to an "autistic club" (not saying this out of harshness)...that's the wrong thing nowadays I see about it, people trying to act like others need to cater for them. Also, it's really annoying online to see things like "autistic people respond to [insert random thing] by doing [insert random autistic stereotype]", and then others respond with "omg, that fits me so well, we're so autistic OMG 😱 😱 😱". So many young people literally diagnose THEMSELVES with autism or some other mental disorder and then base their whole personality around it, essentially lying to everyone since most often they don't actually have a severe disorder but just generalised anxiety and lack of self worth. My wife, a psychologist, said this phenomenon is really concerning to her as she gets so many patients that come in thinking they have autism, sociopathy, ticks, etc when it's usually not the case and they essentially did the mistake many do by searching symptoms online and then thinking that WebMD or whatever else on Google fits their symptoms (usually something drastic and horrible). It doesn't make you a lesser person to have a mental disorder, but it's wrong to try to "normalise" disorders because it's a denial that you have a problem and when you deny an issue then you simply don't deal with it...disorders are disorders for a reason. It's OK to get help, it's OK to have medication, but don't go flaunting your disorder and act like it's who you are. Who you are is not your disorder, it is how you live your life DESPITE your disorder
As an autistic person, all I can say is... Welcome to the family. We have cookies and other assorted safe foods!
Are they soft or crunchy? Asking for me, because textures.
Any you would like!
@@Sizeofabigbitch we have both!
@@bye1551 good, we need variety but also exactly what we want
I’m not autistic I just really want some cookies.
(Can I plz have cookies 🫤)
Feeling like you have to just “tough it out” is the bane of my existence, I hope I can get to the point I can accept I don’t have to do that too.
As someone with autism, it's amazing to see you overcome it. I can't overcome my autism, and I have the same issues that you do. Me seeing you being happy, makes me feel confident that I can pursue my dream: success
As a fellow adult diagnosed neurodivergent, I love hearing stories like this. Never too late to learn about yourself and enjoy life in a way that works best for you
As a fellow neurodivergent artist(but I have ADHD not autism)it made me so happy to see this
Just an fyi there's a HUGE overlap between ADHD and autism, and until recently it was standard that they couldn't diagnose you with both but they can now.
@@BliffleSplick Thank you for the info
Same here. I have severe ADHD and this really made an emotional connection with me
@@BliffleSplick Actually my brother was diagnosed with both in the 80's.
Good for him!
When my Mom was pregnant with me, one of her best friends were also pregnant. I am barely a few months older than her child. (I was Born in November, My Mom’s Friends kid, Arlo, was Born in February.) I got the lucky draw, on the very low side of the Autistic spectrum. I can speak and share my feelings. Not always in the best way, of course. My autism is very similar to yours! Arlo was born with very bad Autism. He can’t speak, get himself dressed, or effectively show himself. He’s my age, but can only process things like a 6 year old. Arlo is one of the sweetest boys I’ve ever known, and I feel so lucky to grow up with him and give him at least one person who really loves him regardless of his condition. So happy that your Wife is able to do that for you. She loves you no matter what’s going on and that’s the kind of people we need in this world. Especially for ALL people on the Neurodivergent spectrum. You guys are so cute together, be yourself!!❤
This warmed my heart so much. My son is a high functioning 16 year old with Aspergers. I’m proud of him in so many ways but what really melts my heart is that he no longer worries himself of the opinion of others and he does what he *needs* to do to cope with crowds/smells/noises etc and makes no apologies for it. At such a young age he understands that he has “challenges” and by his own trial and error has learned what is good for him (noise cancelling headphones for example) and his needs to put things in place so he’s not caught out on surprises. I’m so happy to hear you and your beautiful wife had such a wonderful Anniversary and that you both enjoyed it to the max because *You* were brave enough to use the “tools” to help you have the best time. Lots of love to you both from England.xxx
As an autistic person, I can relate to this completely. Sensory overloads and panic attacks happen all the time when I travel and I’ve had to find ways to cope my whole life. Thank you for sharing this!
This is actually incredibly heartwarming
i am actually sobbing with happiness as an autistic person seeing one of us get to be successful and grow old. this is why representstion matters. scott, you're one of the most inspirational people and knowing you're autistic too makes me so incredibly happy. please keep being you.
I'm 24 yrs old and seeing autistic people your age accepting themselves and their needs makes me very hopeful and happy ❤️ I am autistic and am cognitively disabled too. My whole life I have been told that I was just a lazy person when I've always had a disability ! Getting diagnosed recently has been a huge relief for me. It is very difficult to live in this world not made for us... Seeing you with your headphones made me so happy. It's insane how simple videos like this can lift up my heart and make me feel a whole lot better about myself 😊
From one Autie to another, I’m SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! Everyone deserves to know their neurotype, it can be literally life changing and can help in ways you never imagined, just to understand yourself ❤
I didnt know that way of saying autistic, thank you for letting me learn another word!
this is the most wholesome thing to ever exist on the internet
Ayyy! Welcome to the club my guy! Glad to see I have something in common with my favorite artist! ♥️
Congratulations on your diagnosis! 💜 from a fellow autistic artist. I was dx at 19(a lot of specialists didn't believe girls got Autism in my school years, or that it was extremely rare.) I started believing I was at 14 after doing research but it took 5 years before any professional validation.
It's been almost 10 years since my Dx. And I still remember how validating and helpful it was. it's such a relief to have answers... to know there's a reason for all the differences you experienced in life prior to diagnosis. And to know how to find like-minded others. Welcome to the community!
And happy anniversary to you both! 30 years, that's amazing. 🥰
it's so comforting to see other autistic people being kinder to themselves and being okay with needing different things to neurotypical peeps
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This is so comforting. As an autistic artist, its nice to figure out yourself and finally listening to it. It’s hard to keep up this mask and what society expects you, and its nice to wind down and finally be yourself. Thank you, for being you :)
I was diagnosed because of my sensory issues. It was so bad I couldn’t even listen to music. Now I cope through my music, though I still get anxiety around crowds and just people in general, and to learn one of my favorite artists goes through it too, (minus the music part) is great because there is finally a content creator I relate to!
you’ve inspired me to do so many things, like pick up water coloring and journaling! I have Asperger’s (it is on the ASD) and it warms my heart to learn that my favorite creator and role model is also autistic! please keep doing what you’re doing- I imagine you’ll be able to touch so many souls like you’ve done to me
I have been scrolling through a lot of garbage shorts lately but when I got to this I was surprised and happy at the same time! This is the best short ever!
This legend…. Deserves everything and everyone he has in his life. He truly is just wholesomeness incarnate
I just got diagnosed with autism at 20 (as did my mother at 50) and it is such a confusing and emotionally tumultuous time. But there’s also so much relief, pride, and peace in that knowledge. I’m so glad you’ve been given the words to explain your experiences better and I hope you find the best accessibility aids for you! Reducing shame and internalized ableism is hard, but it’s so worth it.
Also love that you have such a loving partner who accepted and accommodates you rather than causing shame. You two seem really loving and such a beautiful example of a healthy couple.
being able to finally understand the way you've been feeling your whole life really does make everything seem so much better!!!
as an autistic person this brings me so much comfort, you're one of my favourite artists and the reason I picked up watercolour
watching this video brought me to tears, thank you
One thing I’ve learned about Disney as an autistic person is that they have these neat places called quiet rooms! There a really calming place near the first aid areas and they’ve always helped me during mealtdowns and sensory overload in the parks :)
The way my family has worked there for years even retiring and I'm just now hearing about this!!!! Ahhh this is amazing I'm going soon with my gf I'm autistic and she has ptsd so this is going to be a life saver!!!!
@@Panda-oj9or Glad I could help, have a nice trip!
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I wish I had learned this when I went to Disney.
Do they? If I ever have a chance to go there again I'll check them out when I get sensory overload (:
I don’t often hear about older people with autism, probably for the reason you said, they didn’t have testing for it all that time ago, so it’s nice and comforting in a way to hear your story. Makes me feel a little less anxious about my future as a fellow autistic person, I hope I grow to be even half as cool as you :-)🤘🏻
You have no idea how much I needed this today. I travelled home from London with my mum on the tube and trains which were packed and had really bad sensory overload all day (I'm autistic too). I'm so glad it's not just me that feels like this
As an autistic and probably adhd dancer and sort of artist, this made me so happy. Keep spreading your love of art.
Dancing is an art, my friend. You’re not just a sort of artist ❤
@@salmonandsoup thank you 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you so much. I am autistic and I oftentimes get overwhelmed by trying to seem “normal,” but to see you just enjoying yourself and taking care of your needs is inspiring and gives me hope. I look up to you so much as both an artist and a human being, and it makes me feel like I have worth, and I have hope for the future. Thank you so much, Scott. This truly means the world.
A. Major congrats on 30 years with the girl of your dreams,
B. Really happy you enjoyed it in the best way you could
Keep being an absolute boss, lad
This is so comforting as someone in the diagnosis process. It reassures me that autism doesn't have to stop me from doing the things I love, I just need to be kind to myself and find coping mechanisms. Thanks, Scott. Happy anniversary to you and Donna, and here's to many more happy adventures! ❤
As a person with ADHD and anxiety, this is such a sweet thing to see. I get overwhelmed on trips as well, and seeing this made me feel not alone
Thank you for sharing this. I get overwhelmed with loud noises too (and yes, I am diagnosed with autism).😊
You are one of my many art idols and you have no idea how happy I was when I found out we both have autism.
Seeing other people that have something in common with me (in this case autism) experience happiness makes me tear up, it's just. It's so nice and comforting at the same time like "hey you know what, it's not so bad after all. you'll be fine". Happy anniversary to you two
as a fellow autistic person this just made me so happy. thank you for being a positive influence - your channel is a safe space.
That’s so sweet and super interesting! The fact they didn’t have testing for this in the 70s shows how far we’ve come!
I'm very late but as a 14 year old girl with both autism and adhd this brings me so much happiness that you found a way to cope even before you knew you had autism... it brings me so much joy to see people like you be happy and know what they need... (I'm sorry I have dyslexia aswell I'm not very good at writting it's gonna be edited a lot)
Getting diagnosed with autism was the biggest relief of my life.
Why though? Isn't it "an error" in human body if someone has it?
@@yugicha302 I've been autistic my whole life. Getting diagnosed gave me the explanation as to who I am. A reason for all the shit that happened. The diagnosis didn't give me autism. It gave me the truth.
@@chiedzawith2ds Well, I hope you good then, Sweetheart!
@@yugicha302 Not necessarily. Explained REALLY briefly, being autistic basically means "brain think and work differently"
^^ this is so wholesome🥲
As an artist and Disney fan who experiences sensory overload, this warms my heart. I have always admired your work and looked up to you as an artist. I thought I was strange for being overwhelmed by the things I like (Disney world) and so did my friends who came with me. I appreciate you sharing your story and reminding me that I am not alone. Thank you :)
A couple days ago I was on the verge of tears in art class because we had to work with clay. The texture, the wetness, the way it gets in my fingernails, it was a tangle inside of me. My friend who has no concept of stuff like this, her words of advice of me just slightly poking the clay because I didn’t like it was, “you don’t like the texture of clay?? I LOVEEE the texture!!!”
i was like wtf thanks ig
I get overwhelmed with those same things. I am so glad that your art helps
why is donnas smile the cutest thing like... ever??
As somebody who’s also on the spectrum, it’s so sweet to see you so open about this 🥺 it makes all of us see that we’re not alone! Coping can be really hard, especially with loud noises. Scott, I really thank you!! You’re an amazing inspiration for me already
that's so sweet, I am happy to see people living their lives and feeling loved and comfortable as themself. It really empowers me to strive for the best I could in life
This is so wholesome. As a fellow autistic person it’s really cool to hear that someone so inspirational to me goes through the same stuff I do. I’m glad you could have a great vacation!!
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isn't it amazing how the diagnosis just... makes so many things suddenly Okay? you don't have to "just deal with it" anymore, because for the first time ever you know that this ISN'T something that everybody else handles without saying anything.
it's hard to realize that you really have just had it harder than most of the other people in your life. but it's also comforting, to know that you're not just... weak. I'm so glad that you can have this experience without shame. you deserve to be happy being yourself and it's so unbelievably amazing watching somebody who is a little older being... happy and autistic and alive. Thank you.
Don’t want to ruin a nice comment section, but autism definitely doesn’t make your life necessarily “harder.” Everyone has stuff they are dealing with and although autism is certainly something, I wouldn’t put it as far as making your life more difficult than everyone else’s around you
@@America17760 this isn't the oppression olympics and nobody is trying to quantify anybody else's pain. Autism absolutely does make your life harder, not because of any inherent qualities, but because we don't live in a society that is in any way built to accommodate autistic people or any of their specific needs.
To note: if you're worried that you're going to "ruin" something by stating your piece about it, please remember that you always have the option to not say anything at all.
@@TheUnofficialNinja I understand autism makes ones life harder, I think what I merely need to say is that you should have worded it more correctly to maybe say that autism brings unique challenges, instead of saying that it makes ones life harder than others around them.
@@America17760 if something is a challenge for you but not for somebody else, that means you have a harder time doing it than the other person. I'm not willing to compromise my language to make neurotypical or allistic people more comfortable.
(to be clear, I don't know if You're neurotypical/allistic, but that's the common use for rhetoric like that - the same as using "differently abled" or things like people-first language.)
@@TheUnofficialNinja Thats alright, although I wouldn't say I'm neurotypical. I understand if you struggle with language and grammar.
All my support to you. ✨
Autistic people are a great company, your wife has to be so lucky!!!
That was an adorable narration Scott. It's really an incredible feat you achieved. I wish you all the best for your future travels from the bottom of my heart 💕
You have no idea how happy it makes me to see self-acceptance like this. Just letting go and accepting your needs and meeting them. You are a stranger to me, but I felt an intense relief hearing you didn't feel like just toughing it out anymore.
As a neurotypical person, this was very heartwarming and weirdly made me feel at home😊
Hello NT person:D
@@T13GUY hi👋
I've become borderline agoraphobic because of sensory overload and can't go out by myself.
This video truly is inspiring because I cope with my art too, and seeing your art after those gorgeous primary sources makes me wanna get out there and travel a little. I want to expand my art and I sometimes struggle because I don't really get to use real life as inspiration. Sometimes I just wanna draw and relying on emotions as a source is tiring.
I'm 37 and just learned I'm autistic, as well. One of my earliest stories that looking back was an early sign of my autism was about a trip we took to WDW. It was a bad experience. But I have always loved Disney and ended up working at Disneyland as an adult. Now I'm a nanny for kids with special needs and one of my specialties is taking kids with autism to Disneyland. I spent about a year with one kid taking him every day in the summer and at least 2-3 days/week after school. I helped him acclimate to the atmosphere, crowds, new foods, etc. I got really familiar with the quiet spots to give him breaks and working the fast pass and DAS system to his benefit. And he LOVED it! It was the ultimate dream job for me!! I used to think based on other people's comments that places like theme parks were the worst for kids with special needs. Now I find them to be the BEST places because they actually function on very specific routines and are more predictable places to be than other places. I feel safer at Disneyland than at the grocery store on many levels. I get annoyed when parents don't let me take their kids to places like that because THEY find it overwhelming and think it's too much to send their kid with someone else. 🤦🏼♀️ My other specialty is helping people who think they won't like Disney come to a new appreciation of it by giving them a personalized tour. Disney is my special interest and a way of life. 💗
Disney (and any other theme park) is usually overwhelming because people usually only go once every few years or once in a lifetime. So it IS overwhelming trying to figure out how things work, where everything is, planning schedules to fit everything in, etc. When you go frequently and take your time learning how to make the most of everything offered, it's truly enjoyable. I try to use that knowledge to benefit others who can't go frequently.
You might not remember this, Scott, but I attended one of your livestreams and mentioned how my autism made me an easy target for bullying because I would rather draw than listen to class or talk to others. You said something along the lines of “as someone also on the spectrum, I understand how you feel” and I immediately burst into tears, haha! Nice to know we’re not alone in this. Take care.