THE NARCISSIST DIDN’T THINK YOU WERE THAT STRONG
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ย. 2024
- The narcissist did not think you were that strong. The narcissist underestimated you. They didn’t think you would heal. They did not think you would figure out what kind of relationship you were in. The narcissist did not think that you would pick yourself up and put yourself back together. You are stronger than you know. Now you are a totally different person, you are at the pinnacle of indifference. You have experienced things that people can’t fathom. You now see how the world works and you see things clear than ever. Continue on the path moving forward every day. Namaste
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I have been to the lowest of lows, lip to the ground and no energy to get up many times and would tell myself “this is the last time, you can’t survive this anymore if something doesn’t change.” I stumbled upon this channel in my search for help just this past spring, and I can see more clearly than ever before where the path out is. It continues to be hard, but I have more strength and hope that I carry with me today than then. Thank you Andrew and Community for shining the light of awareness and acceptance.
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You can do this... If I didn't thinking he was the love of my life you can do it... I have been with Andrew for two and a half years plus a few months and I have done it but I can tell you the only way you'll ever do it is no contact with them and any people that are involved with him or her no contact is the only way give your time to get back to yourself which takes a lot of time. It took me from October 2021 until May 2024. I know it seems a long time but that's the way my journey took me. Getting back to myself but now I'm a new self never to be the same again and that's a good thing.❤
Sending you Blessings and Much Love🩷
Proverbs 24:16
[16]For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again: but the wicked shall fall into mischief.
Bless u
"It doesn’t take a lot of strength to hang on. It takes a lot of strength to let go.” - J. C. Watts 😊
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@@sabianstringer2112 : Although very hard, it is NECESSARY to break the trauma bond for your own healing. ⛓You will NOT heal UNTIL you break the trauma bond. 🙏⛓
Amen 🙏🏾
We Have to Be Independent Thinkers and Risk Takers by Being Strong Enough to Leave the Narc's Trauma Bond and Go Out On Our Own So We Can Begin To Heal.
'One thing the narcissist usually does is over play their hand.'
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And he did!
Ain’t that the TRUTH!
She sure did
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I felt like I won the lottery when I found out it had a name 😂
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Me too !
True you find back the powerful you.
The scriptures say what has been taken from you will be returned. So far. This has come true!😊
♥Amen...
And Amen 🙏 and our Blessings are always Blocked when they are around.
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Good for you ! I need the same ! Amen !
@@susancampbell7335there are decades ....that is no joke !
Cockroaches run whenever the light comes on!
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Yes !
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I am strong now and pursuing my goals in Jesus Christ he saved me from Narcis. ❤
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He had/has no idea how strong I am!!!😊
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Thanks Andrew ☺️🙏
Amen
Yet we proved them wrong 💪
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Yes, despite it almost destroying us ! But they failed...and will be stopped !
Thank you Andrew❤I had to move, change my name and phone number. I got my son back, a better job and peace🎉All glory to God❤
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You got your son back!! I don’t know who you are, but these words made me so joyful for you and your son. 🥹🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@franco2b145 yes praise God!
@@franco2b145 Yes forever thankful 🥹!
16:18 I just left my Narc Boyfriend of 5 yrs yesterday. I stunbled upon this video tonight. I am petrified he will pull me back. Im going to watch every single video you have posted. Thank you
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Thank you
Welcome 🙏 Andrew is a big part of my recovery from this unholy experience. Every word out of these dark creatures is a lie. Block, don’t go back/the Hoover. Stay strong and keep on running for the hill 🙏🏃🏻♀➡
@@hongtruong4576 Thank you
DON’T GO BACK
Facts and Thanks 🙏🏾
No weapon should prosper against me . 🙏🏾
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NON!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The narcissist is truly shocked that you no longer want them ... when you go no contact and no longer chase for any kind of resolution.
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This is true. I went no-contact when it was clear they were proud of having hurt me. It was baffling that six months later, they attempted to hoover me as if nothing had ever happened....... Now it's so easy to see just how socially CLUELESS they are. They seriously thought I'd want to interact with them ever again. Simply delusional. Scary people. Narcs.
@@mvbigmagic4048 They only see hierarchies, based on traits you have - looks, intelligence, being successful etc. They minimize the value of those they see are better in you: "Looks don't really matter! I can get anyone that's as good looking as you and you're not that beautiful to begin with!" (thinking it or directly telling it to you or in subtler ways) and focus on what is their strength: "I'm so much smarter than you! You do nothing right! You are not a good provider! You are not a real man! You are dumb, because you're a woman!". This keeps them feeling safe.
If you accept this role, of being their emotional punching bag, everything is fine. If they leave you, it's because they won, they found someone better, you were ruining their lives, by wanting to be near them, being so inferior, they've proven they can get anyone, it's on to the next "challenge."
When YOU leave THEM, their whole "chart system" becomes out of whack and they feel inferior as hell. Their fantasy, in which your "score", based on these superficial values, was lower, becomes huge, in their mind. It's improvised anyway, and it's improvised by them, so anything can trigger a total reversal, especially when you leave them.
They need time to recover, to think of anything that would set your "score" lower than theirs again. You left them, because you're mentally ill, because you believe you were too good looking then they are... well... they just got a raise at work... so, you're back to being dumb again, you are too emotional, you're childish etc. You don't really know what's what and they do.
If you meet them again, and they've "recovered", it's as if nothing happened. They've forgiven YOU for seeing them as inferior. They don't care about how they treated you, because they can't see that. There is no such thing as good or bad behavior. They can't see others, they can't see themselves, they can't allow themselves to experience love or just "being", because that is useless. Being useless means death. This is what they were taught as children, when their parents were validating them only based on their usefulness. That "chart" of traits, and "score" they assign you, based on those observed traits, and scoring higher than you is all that matters.
I agree....they absolutely know why but they play lame....'why don't you want me ??' It's all a sisemic act of pretence 🤷
Gratitude 🙏 Andrew…
they are evil…
they will destroy everything…
Isolate and move in silence in the shadows…
They cannot see the gray… only black and white…
Stay alert! Stay alive!
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They definitely have that 6 th sense, for sure. They analyze their surroundings all time
I Strongly Agree.....DON'T accept 'the hoover'....it Only sets you back.on your process of healing.
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"I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor 🎵🎶🎼💪💪💪💪💪
At first I was afraid, I was petrified
Thinking I could live without you by my side
And after spending nights
Thinking how you did me wrong
I grew strong
And I learned how to get along
Now you're back
From outer space
And I find you here
With that sad look upon your face
I should've changed that stupid lock
Or made you leave your key
If I'd've known for a second
You'd be back to bother me
Go on, go, walk out the door
Turn around now
You're not welcome anymore
You're the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Think I'd crumble?
You think I'd lay down and die?
No, not I, I will survive
Long as I know how to love, I know I'll stay alive
I've got my life to live
And all my love to give and
I will survive
I, I, I will survive
It took all my strength not to fall apart
Trying with all my might to mend my broken heart
I spent so many nights feeling sorry for myself
How I cried
But now I hold my head up high
And you see me, somebody new
I'm not that lonely little person
Still in love with you
Now you come droppin' in
Expectin' me to be free
Now I'm saving my lovin'
For someone who's loving me
Go on and go, walk out the door
Turn around now
You're not welcome anymore
You're the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Thinkin' I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die?
No, not I, I will survive
Long as I know how to love, I know I'll stay alive
I've got my life to live, and all my love to give
And I will survive
I, I will survive
Go on, go, walk out the door
Turn around now
You're not welcome anymore
You're the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Think I'd crumble?
You think I'd lay down and die?
No, not I, I will survive
Long as I know how to love
I know I'll stay alive
I've got my life to live
And all my love to give and
I will survive
I, I, I will survive
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This is a nod to Gloria Gaynor but this is my new mantra. Enjoy. th-cam.com/video/Rn7YL9EknME/w-d-xo.html
❤💪 Wow..how fitting a song! Yesssssd. We survived and we thrive!
Listen to the Who..Eminence
Thank you. The narcissist is lost and empty
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I got a new kitten and she is my world now. Vet visits, and keeping kitten healthy. Toys, food. I focus totally on the fur baby. Everyone loves her!!!
What's her name?
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@stupensardi2783 Sophia.
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I still have my 2 fur babies and they are the only things that give me the strength to get up in the morning.
Once you see through the narcissist when you are educated it is easy to see that they are kind of primitive in their manipulations. Same ol' same ol'.
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Thanks for all your help and insight, Andrew. It’s good to know that we’re not alone. Keep doing what you’re doing. There’s a never ending “supply” of people who need the benefit of your wisdom. ❤
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I certainly found out who he actually was, when i started calling out his lies . Projection, Rage fits, followed by a cruel discard.
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I learned about the two types of discard. The emotional discard is super confusing. When I had enough and started packing, in comes the rage and violence. Wow! We escaped.
I'm trying to get out of here without letting her know because the nasty, cruel devalueing will start. 😢
You're saving My life,if not for you, I wouldn't be healing, thanks 💪
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The *Grand Finalé* happens when the narcissist realises that (to their utter disbelief) you *won't* be coming back! *Ever* Then they indulge their rage -it's often *vandalism* (but it can really be anything that helps them regulate their emotions (having the emotional control of a six to nine-year-old must be difficult...). All of their calculations are predicated on the idea that you are "too stupid, and too cowardly" to face the truth about them -let alone be able to exit. They're like a spider who imagines they have the butterfly exactly where they want it. *Any attempt to escape will only end in exhaustion* After all -haven't they spent *Years* isolating you? Tying you down? They have convinced themselves that they can devour you at their leisure. But "one day" finally comes, you find the red flags online and the correct combination unlocks your understanding. Suddenly, you *are* free to be you, just as I am free to be me. I can't tell you how grateful I am for this support, Andrew! #Awesome
I am getting stronger and stronger everyday. Not looking back. Thank God we had no accounts together. I want a divorce and I can continue on my healing journey.💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
You got this! Good luck.
I used to cook all the time for him. No more!!!
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We appreciate you Andrew. Thank you.
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Thanks, Andrew. As the older narcissist ages the things they do and the way they think becomes increasingly odd. Their conscience becomes less and goes to nothing. There is a horrible mess to clean up when the relationship is finished once and for all.
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You are so right. I lived with him for 41 years, as he aged he got less careful and more self medicating. So proud to be single and learning to love myself again. ❤
So so so true
When older narcessist are alcoholic too , and they are in the famely, they destroie the whole famely with their realey demonic behaviour. They become nasty and destructive. My expierience is that they become worse about 40 and imposseble at 50 mean and accid 60 .victem and complening 70 .better you run away in time. ❤
Thankyou for the daily empowerment. It helps in the healing process that only WE can do by ourselves. 🙏🌸
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The Narcissist: "Listening to music is dumb!"
Me: Slowly placing my headphones on.
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My X , he is now a “No Name Brand..”. Told me many times he loved me when I left, finally after 7 times of my leaving I told No Name Brand , “ I don’t love you “ then No Name Brand ..went crazy , you will not get a penny from me… you are nothing , the neighbours hate you , on and on . Well after 58 years of toxicity plus 2 years dating, I am 81 and free since 2021 in December. Yes you too can be free , you are strong enough to get on with your life . Thank you Andrew , yes I am a Beautiful Bright shining Light 😊
You give me hope that I can get though this.
Hey Drew Now Doing Mental Homework Everyday as I Strengthen My Boundaries and Prepare Mentally for Separation.....Also Closer to God Now....God Bless, Sabian....Hi Everyone....God Bless Everybody (Even the Crappy Narcs)
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I have never found anyone who can explain what it means so well. everything I thought and couldn't express is explained here. I felt misunderstood so often. How grateful I am that I ended up on this TH-cam channel.
Good job Andrew 🎉🙏
I was raised by a narc, my ex was not my first recovery.
I know now that what I fell for was nothing more than familiar ground, once I realized that I knew I had to get out for my own sanity, mission accomplished.
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He put me down phisicly abused me Manipulated me but I’m free now
..."if you only knew..." Thank you so much for telling my truth. God speed.
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At 4:36, THAT'S THE POINT.
EVEN IF YOU GET THE KNOWLEDGE TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP "WORK", YOU'LL SOON LEARN THAT IT'S BORING AND MEANINGLESS.
GREAT VIDEO SIR.
NEW SUBSCRIBER HERE.
I relize now they are pond life .
Feel so much better as time goes by .
I moved into a new neighborhood...Within 6 mounts...I already know who to avoid! Thank You for all
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He knew,, 💪🏼 It’s what caused him to fall in love with me and then caused him to hate me 🙋🏻♀️
If you watch Prof. Sam Vaknin, he's the one who coined narcissistic people into the vernacular actually and speaks often about mother hate by the narcissistic men. They have never separated from Mother but they must, so you are the sub mom and he must separate. That's somewhat the explanation.
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@@pammychica Thank You ☺️
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@@pammychicaThank you for this clarity
When I do/did something nurturing , a lot of times I heard :
" Thanks Ma. "
He was fond of saying :
" When a man gets married , he gets a new Mommy. "
I told him henceforth any time he called me "Ma ," I would tell him you're welcome "Hubs ." ( He didn't know what that meant : so I explained : " hubby " or "husband." 😅😅😅 )
We aren't married and he is vehemently opposed to the idea , so haven't heard again. 😉😏
One year ago today I was out with my best friend and vowed to leave the narc in 90 days. I was going to make my exit plan. Tomorrow is my birthday and he realized immediately I was pulling away. He threw everything at me for my birthday buying me all these gift, taking me out on a cruise, dinner, flowers. Everything. I thanked him but was already out of the relationship. By August 3rd he called me out and by August 8th he was gone. He tried everything to squeeze me into having to come back to him. Left me with no money, didn’t see the children, smeared me at church, my family, my friends, left me with all the bills and debt and no support systems. By August 30,2024 I knew who my true family and friends were and my circle had become tiny but mighty. He didn’t destroy me, I was set free. I’m so blessed to be laying here on vacation with my two children about to ring in the best birthday ever 40 and free. 🎉 God is good, Andrew something you said that always resonates with me….. the most galvanized version of yourself. I love that and that’s me now! I love it. Thank you for your words of wisdom this past year.
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Nothing short of a Narc flip out, break down, panic, etc. Too late. They plod along and
objectify you and as mentioned, "Over play their hand." Glad you were set free! 👍
Self worth is the key to the cage.
Nice.
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You're right, and when I walked away he was shocked.
They ARE boring, aren't they. Had never thought about that but really, they aren't interesred in anything but themselves, which makes for a very poor conversationalist.
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Mine's was only interested in gambling
Lots of “like” and the convo gets bogged down with the word “like.” I was thinking wow! Do you have any idea how many times you just said “like?”
This is true. I realized, if you think of the most selfish choice in any given situation, then that is what they will predictably do. Very boring when you think of it. Whereas people who know how to love others are amazing. They will do the most amazing and unpredictable things out of love. But narcissists.... are predictably selfish. Even if it means it will hurt them in the long-term. Here's hoping everyone finds a group of amazing unpredictably loving people to surround themselves with! No-contact has allowed new and better friends to enter my life, as I peeled myself away from those who sought to hurt me, and succeeded for a time. Life is better with loving people. They are out there. The world is big, and narcs tend to hang out together. So step away from them. It is truly like coming out of a mist and seeing the world for the first time.
Spot on Andrew. I can relate to what you have said. The narcissist is a dark evil energy entity and it can sense our energy. We can combat it with our peace, love, honesty, kindness, authenticity, integrity, generosity, joy, happiness and all of the good things and qualities we have been given by God as His children ❤❤❤😊😊😊 thank you 🙏 God bless you ❤
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Took great counseling for 1 1/2 years!! He was shocked when I filed for divorce! No wonder he hated me going to nursing school and mocked my first part time job! He made sure he hid his money etc for 17 years. I never knew I was his third wife!
Ooooh after giving him five chances...he sure did not see it coming...❤❤❤Greatfull.
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We didn't think that we were that strong either! Look at us now ❤
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Every time I get involved with a jerk it takes me less time to get out of it. Thank you for all your wisdom!
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That's the tiny upside of getting over the major Narc devastation by an expert manipulator. All incoming Narcs to follow, seem like amateurs.
Thank you🎉
The Narc never did not like when I expressed how I felt.
I needed this 🥹 After almost six months of suffering, studying, healing and searching, I got my keys to freedom yesterday. I found a new home and will be safe this weekend ❤ I thought I wouldn't survive out here. Thank you for guiding me through all of this. I don't think I would have made it without your videos. Greetings from Germany. Namaste 🙏🏼
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today is a strange day i actually miss the narccisist although i thought i had broken the trauma bond just been thinking about the great times we had although i know none of it was real she wore a mask . everythink andrew said today is true i figured her out and walked away after 5 years of constant drama trouble and most of it was over nothink .keep strong people someday we will wake up and the narccisist will be a distant memory
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That Trauma Bond thing is so powerful and confusing. The Metaphors helped me understand it, i.e., YoYo, breadcrumbs, etc. It's such a twisted illusion. You think you've found a plateau of peace and genuine connection and the Narc would be incredibly"giving" at times and that's what pulled you in. When the rug is pulled from under you and the their Mask is removed ...it's now the climb back. Not easy. Most won't know what you've been through. You too-stay strong and get even stronger than before you met the Narc! In a way, you are already.
@@jhavajoe3792 it was the silent treatment i hated more than anythink usually when i did swimming running or went the gym whenever i asked what the issue was all i got was am fine its in your own head the stalking on social media wanting to know who who is on facebook who am talking to were am going with friends wanting me to show my location finacial abuse demanding 200 pound a month just for staying over a few nights a week the constant digs making me feel bad saying am to sensitive the list goes on literally walking on egg shells whenever i was around her i felt relieved when we had good days and there was no drama somethink you should never be thankful for it should be like that most days . am strong and pulling through just somtimes you think of the good times instead of the bad its what happend to me yesterday be strong everyone our hearts might be hurting but each day without the narciccist is a gift and a life of no drama and peace
Good Morning Andrew💯🇫🇷🙏🫡My Narc/sister,,, did not think I could BE SO STRONG🙏🫡💯🤣HOLDING out for 2yrs+,,, not giving in to see my Mother ,, or get a neighbor to bring a card ,, I could send ,, or flowers!! She has my Mother in her WEB OF CONTROL & taking the whole House,,, for herself!! Thinking she DESERVES IT!! SHE does Not!! But ,, I rise above all of this!! Prayers & Truth will always PREVAIL!! HAVE a great day!!😊🌟🙏💯
“The peace I feel without your presence in my life is worth being the villain in your story.”
Worth it a thousand times over.🙏🏾
Love this quote.
Almost anyone and everyone is the villain in their story at one point in time. 🙄😖
This ❤❤❤❤
@@suesanders1169 Truth 💜
Narcs beat me up physically and emotionally until I was broken down into a shell. Sibling, parent and an ex. Somehow I am still here. God is good. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Andrew speaks life into us. May God bless him.💖💖💖
🙏🏽 Namaste
This message is very much truth as each video that has come from you has been growing in strength and as you shine the strength toward us, we also are strengthening. I’m not fully living my “best life” of where I hope to be, but I’m very grateful for how far I’ve come and I know I’m on my way. You have been leading me for a long time Andrew and this community was a saving grace in my life. May we all continue to rise in ways we’re called to. 💖🙏🦋 💪 ❤️
Yes 👍💥
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@@ESSIEMARIE1998 Hi there❤️🙏
I've become stronger than steel, they have no chance against me, they already know...
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Yes omg Andrew on Point! They repeat your own words back to you and it's so frustrating. I told my ex he was a "Chaos Creator" and now he loves to say that about me when those were MY words I said to him because I learned them through research and channels like Andrews. . These people are the worst you cannot ever talk to them about what they are doing to you or they get educated from you and then pretend they had this knowledge and start saying it about you. UGH so annoying.
Truer words were never spoken! Love your videos. Thank you
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she did say to me "you will never find anyone like me" - spot on.
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She told me nobody will ever make me happier
Same here + you won’t make it alone. Then I said: Oh watch me
I hope your response was : " I pray to God I never do. "
Hilarious way to phrase it! We certainly hope not to find anyone like them again.
2:38 That is EXACTLY what she told me. Completely out of the blue, we weren't even arguing, she might have been thinking this for weeks or months before she said it.
Her: You'll never find another
Me: And you'll never find another
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I can feel the experience in your eyes 👀.
I understand your wisdom in your words 🫡.
I Appreciate You. 💙
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You give hope ❤ I left three times but didn’t understand what was happening. I came back when he hovered and breadcrumbed. Now I am 66, financially dependent on him and he sat across the table from me and told me that I couldn’t make it without him. I hate him.
There's a way. At minimum, Grey rock, be unbothered. Bored with him. Genuine disinterest. He's going to be bored, bored, bored. He will leave.
If you live in or near a city, Women in Crisis Centers usually offer phone counseling and guidance. 🌹❤
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You see the truth. Stay in the truth. The hate will fade.
Hope I get stronger but not hard of heart ❤
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I’m getting stronger and wiser. I can spot toxic people by their reactions: Do they have to be right at all times? Do they talk without thinking first? (Impulse, inflated ego) I keep them at arm length if I can’t completely avoid them. I’m keeping the focus on me, still healing and running for the hill 🏃🏻♀➡
@hongtruong4576 I am listening to Andrew's videos every day to learn as much as I can. Oh boy, what an innocent upbringing I had, thinking everyone had good in them, 25 years married to a narc
I AM inclined to believe , you already questioning your heart becoming hardened , is proof it won't. 🙂
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😢you're always on time.
I can't afford a therapist and i have no one to vent or ask questions how to heal so these videos are helpful
We are so lucky to live in this video age.
keep watching Andrews videos. Andrew has been through it and what he says is all the important info. needed. Watching his videos helps me to heal from a 50+ Marriage to a NarcHusband who passed away last week. Stay Strong!
Divorced from narc after 17 years. Never remarried again. I am drawn to them every time. Best to not trust again.
You are so right. I didn't trust my instinct. Well I do now 💪❣️🙏
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You come to find out just how right your gut was
Never doubt it again
I think Andrew is right - we did pass the test. We are all here after all. I tried swallowing a bottle of aspirin when I was 15, 38 years ago, but the contents must have been replaced with Vitamin C as there were no discernable effects.
It is the narcissist who exemplifies weakness, dishonesty and cowardice.
So thankful the aspirin didn't take you out. God bless!
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@@eloisem3214 ,thank you!🙂
Now that I'm healed (6 years divorced), there is no way that I would ever go back to the abuse. It was the hardest thing that I've ever been through in my life. Thank God for delivering me from that evil creature.
Same for me! Out 6 years too!🎉
@@rosecampion4337 Doesn't it feel great to be Narc Free? 🎉🥳🎉🥳🎉
I'm just starting my journey away from my boyfriend that's a narcissist I put up with his crazy axx for 15 years now I'm looking for a place and moving on. suck of him treating me like I'm nothing an flirting around with younger girls in front of my face and looking for girls online and him cutting me down make me feel insecure because of my high cheekbones cause being 40% Cherokee saying I look like a man when I don't and I'm 135 lb and I'm fat to him .I'm so done with it all I gave him too many chances no more time to heal
@@lonelyheart9022 I'm glad to hear that you are done with all of his BS... I stayed for 32 years. That was way too long! I don't know how I put up with all of his BS for that long. I waited until the kids were grown and on their own. Then, I left him, and I never went back. It was the best decision I ever made. I woke up one morning and decided right then that I was done. I decided that minute out of nowhere that I was leaving. Within two hours, I had my car loaded with my personal stuff, and I left. And, I never went back.
It gives instant relief and soothing to know you all managed to escape for the good. May God guide you for the coming time. How did you all manage to get out of the trap? And what did you all face during that time?
I just got divorce papers served to me. I need some help 🙏🙏 prayers and just let me know it’s going to be okay.
It won't be for a long time. The emotional scars will itch and burn for the rest of your life.
You will survive but you'll be more tired, more bitter, and justifiably less trusting of everyone especially those who were closest to you and did nothing when you needed them the most.
In time people will tell you that you are a better person for the experience, but deep down inside, you will hate everything that got you where you are because it was a price too high you were forced into paying.
I am praying for you. That is a gut punch. It is a legal battle. Just like a traffic ticket. Get a flat fee attorney. Gather evidence. Be calm. Half of all marital assets are yours. Watch Rececca Zungs stufff!
Funny,I was moving some plant seeds to another bag,,when he mentioned seeds, its called synchronicity..😊
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This video resonates with me because of your expressions of what we have faced exiting the narc abuse cycle and what we have overcome and are overcoming. The more we overcome, the stronger we get. We are all unified on this channel. No matter where we are on the path, we are all connected in some way. Thank you for these daily reminders of how important, blessed, and beautiful we are! ❤
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You are awesome Andrew!!!! Thank you for all of your knowledge and insight! So accurate!!! 💪⭐️
In the case of our casino friend,she says she's strong when in fact she isn't. The obvious reason for this is this girl will go through any length to have and maintain friends
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I always chuckle when you mention the multiple smart phones😂. So correct.
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TODAY IS FINALLY DAY 1 OF BEING HEALED OUT OF 10 MONTHS OF BEING DISCARDED!
Finally Made it!
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MEN how did you do this? Still suffering from the love bombing retrospecrive while she is with someone New
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@@Cowboy19735 how long relationship have you been through and recovery time? Did she tried to hoover you back?
@@Marcin-l2i we were together 8.5 years, she Discarded me on 11.20.2023, did her -
" Smear Campaign " during December / Christmas.
Found out she is a Narcissist in late May 2024 when I went to my doctor due to depression and anxiety. He said that I might have PTSD and sent me to a Psychologist, I then was Diagnosed with Narcissist Abuse PTSD and that's when everything was starting to become clear!
So back to your original question, it's been a total of 10 months since the Discard and the last time we actually talked was on the phone on New Years Eve 2023 due to our cat died that evening, we were both devastated, but looking back I know she didn't feel a thing and was just " mimicking " my emotions of being distraught. The last text I got from her was 4.30.2024 when she told me she took a new job and a new place to live 500 miles away, and I think she is with her " New Supply " that lives there too!
That supply relationship has been going on since April 2024, so I suspect it's starting to get " Tire Worn " about now. No " Hoover " yet! However I suspect a 50/50 chance of one in the Fall of 2024 and I will be ready for it with a Rude Ass Welcome! LOL
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How do you feel about your ex now?
The narc operates on the emotional intelligence level of a 5 year old petulant child…a mischievous child who enjoys tormenting beautiful animals…they enjoy bringing someone who is more than them down to a level less than them. What narcs don’t understand is that we are constantly evolving to the good, that is something they can never do. They are stuck in a low vibrational level. We are able to recover and evolve and recover past any setbacks. Our internal will to survive and remove ourselves from the torment and chaos helps us to thrive God’s grace and mercy helps us press on.
We got away narc, deal with it, take your sorry narc self someplace else
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LOVE this video.. I am stronger..even with the bad days. He totally underestimated my strength and actually admitted that he didn’t know I had the strength to leave.. that has empowered me to push through the “ bad days”.. Thank you!
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hello smiley man hope you are doing well it's storming here thank you for the video 😉👌
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When you’re on this vibration you are POWERFUL Andrew!🙌 Truly a Phoenix 🐦🔥
Love this!! Thank you Andrew from Texas ❤
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Spaz won't talk to him! Omg that is so funny. He used to say that all the time. He now walks in his own valley of death. By his own choice.
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Love the direct flood of truth Andrew unfolds like a lightening storm. Ug. so good.
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The experience backed up by education and Knowledge has given me power and Protection,,t.y. Andrew,,my tool box is Full,🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️💫
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Yeah he didn't he thought he was punishing me by giving me the silent treatment. However the silent treatment gave me time to get myself together and see things much clearer. So I thank him for that and I've gotten stronger everyday.
I didn't think I was that strong until I was challenged, I never say I can't
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No narc you thought wrong.....enough was enough, BYE!
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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👍 And they'll remain thinking "wrong" till the end. 👍☕
When enough was enough and you walked away you proved to yourself how strong you are.
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@@jhavajoe3792that's for sure. 💯 they cant see past their own eyelids.
Andrew, I believe you're meeting your Moonshot. What a gift you're giving to empathic souls like mine 🙏🙏🙏
And yes, it turns out I've become stronger than I ever could have imagined when i really wasn't supposed to survive... I'm still thinking about that for a minute 🤔 Namaste and God Bless.
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This is really the truth man
Yea they take advantage and the longer I stayed the more I realised it is draining 😢 thank God I was discarded. Still hurt but it’s better than staying.
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Thanks Andrew God bless enjoy your week!
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Stay strong.
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Thank you Andrew and Community members, she didn't expect me to be this strong but when the light comes on we finally see so much more clearly. Amazing. Thank you all so much. God bless ❤
💔We all eat lies when our hearts are hungry...
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Better words were never spoken a hungry heart will eat lies gobble them down so true thank you for that❤
Truth... sadly 🙏
Yep dull and boring. Only conversation I can have with her is news, sports, weather and what she bought at the store.
You're stronger than you'll ever know... just believe... believe in the healing path it's yours to own and to mark out. What they ( the narcissists) think is totally irrelevant they gave up the right to have opinions when they tried to destroy you. Finding yourself again will happen with time.... slowly....but it's going to be ok. When your broken pieces are put back together it's the best feeling ever... being whole 🌟☺️💜
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❤Thank you Andrew ❤ I am 💪 STRONG
FOOLED HIM !!! Ha
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My ex husband finally said "You beat me at my own game"! No contact ( that was 30 years ago)!
I studied abnormal psych when l was 17 and a Freshman in college. We have a narcissist here. She says she is a perfectionist. She is not. She is a paranoid narcissist who has to control everything. She views me as an enemy because she knows l know who and what she is, and she tries to put me down. I am not perfect, and l know it. I also deal with her carefully and mostly indifference. She has said she hates me, to which l shrugged my shoulders and said that l must then be doing something right. She has called ME a narcissist. I guess we all have narcissistic tendencies, but l know l am not perfect nor do l with to be!!!! What a horrible thing to have to be!!!!! She is hyper-religious and says l am going to hell. She is preparing me for it!!!!!
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Legend
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Even after leaving a narcissistic, trapped relationship many years ago, you always manage to reveal something new. I managed to end this turbulent relationship, and I am very proud of it. Even after all these years (separated from a narcissistic), you manage to inspire me to stay away from these distorted, toxic relationships. Thank you Andrew. You are the source of my strength. ❤
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My ex Narc didn’t know crazy until I show what craziness looks like. They will back off when they feel threatened. These are cowards that feed on vulnerable people and abuse you more and more by working on your weaknesses.
You may have found a tame one. If they backed off at all.
@@thecarpenter2599 This person wasn’t expecting what was coming. A person can endure but when you reach your limit is game over. I understand my methods are not precisely recommended but to me it solved te problem. No Hovering, No stalking , blocked. However, it has taken me extraordinary efforts to deal with the aftermath of such abuse. I have a range of days from the worse where I question my existence to days where I feel slightly better.
Amen on that 😂