I asked my girlfriend questions along these lines, she was attentive to my questions and melted after I asked her. She said that no body has ever asked her these questions before. This has made our relationship even better.
*Confidence and timing are everything when asking these questions. It’s all about keeping the conversation playful while making sure it feels natural to both sides.*
The greatest lesson I learned about sleeping with a woman is when she says "just like that", KEEP DOING THAT! Don't speed up or slow down, don't try changing positions, etc.
Red flag. Non communicative and she thinks you're a mind reader. Sarah's questions are regarding preferences, not showing you don't know what you're doing. Tell her what you like.
@stevenpurdy2235 perhaps you aren't a genius but it's obvious you have a fairly high IQ with that comment. In order to be classified as a genius you must have never married or been married and once a man has then genius is no longer obtainable for life. But a high IQ is just fine just so long as a guy doesn't marry twice , that would then take away the high IQ status for life. Marry three times and guy goes straight to dumbass for life. So yeah it's a bit tricky IMO and the very reason I only have my Bass boat and my coon dog Ray.
My problem with this whole premise is that, as a man, I don't want to use an "instruction manual". If I ask her straight up: "How do I please you?", that's too easy and I'll be less inclined to stray from that path. I think a woman is more impressed when you can learn what she likes along the way and apply that knowledge. She might learn something about herself, being led down some different paths.
Agreed except for that one question, "Have you ever had any bad experiences that you'd like to share with me?" I agree with the whole - I'd rather explore and discover things ourselves - perspective. But that one question shows a certain respect and caring and starting-soft and gentle kinda thing that I think most women appreciate. A lot of women have had a bad experience or even have been sexually abused and so this can really prevent a surprising spontaneous bad reaction to something you do. I don't think it ruins the mood to ask. If you're both already in the mood it's actually an intimate question that can bring you closer. If I used some of the other questions at all, I wouldn't ask them prior to sex - as instructions, but during the flirting stage as fun, teasing conversation - a little risque - to see how she reacts. More in a playful way to see if it maybe leads eventually to her showing some sexual interest. Not on a first date, but as we were getting to know each other better and getting more comfortable kidding around together. It might help push things along. Plant some seeds, in a sense, that then you back away from and see if she then becomes more "forward" later, etc. Timing is everything. I'm no expert, but I think this might work sometimes.
I usually ask two questions. 1) What do you like? 2) What don't you like? That's so I make sure NOT to do them. But when I'm engaged in physical intimacy, I pay attention to what her body is doing. I talking more about the involuntary reactions like muscle spasms.
Physical intimacy is about ASSOCIATION, and it is a form of DEEP COMMUNICATION in itself. Her body's reaction/response is SECONDARY - it's a symptom of what you are doing to her SOUL. Pay attention that you are staying with her as an actual being, the body just follows.
@@winfriedmaus That attitude is a relic of a long-gone era, when -- at least in some places and times -- women were effectively owned by men. You can hear it in the very choice of words: "YOURS", i.e. belongs to you. Women, of course, don't buy this bullshit anymore, and they should not buy it.
I don't ask questions to turn her on, I ask them so I can learn what she is about. Dating is about learning if you're compatible with the person who you are sitting across from. Questions I ask on dates: 1) What was the best compliment you ever got? / What was the best advice you ever got? These two questions show what someone values and acknowledges about themself. Its the thing about themselves they like the most usually. Or its the lesson in life they value the most. 2) What are the top 3 things you're looking for in a partner? Just so I know whether or not we're wasting each other's time. Do I possess what she is looking for? Do I want to change to be those things? Helps me predict if the relationship will have any longevity to it. 3) What's the most recent accomplishment you're proud of? Shows their proficiency in life and what they prioritize as a goal. Typical answers involve fitness, skill acquisition, gaining knowledge, kicking a bad habit or climbing the corporate ladder. 4) What's something about you I wouldn't be able to tell about you by looking at you? Its a question that gets people to show off any hidden talents they have. Its a fun one I like asking because you never know what they are going to say back. 5) What's a skill you wish you had? Shows an area where they want to improve. Should the relationship progress further its something that you can make arrangements to happen if possible. People appreciate when you help them reach a goal they desire. Asking them about it is the first step to making a wish a reality.
I disagree with both the question and the replies. My point of view is why bother asking? You should already know the answer. I mean, it should be pretty obvious whether she enjoyed it or not. If you have to ask then you weren't paying attention, and so she probably didn't enjoy it as much as she could've AND you probably don't care anyway. So, from any perspective I just don't get why you'd ask. If you're trying to be nice because you really care, then the question should be, "What can I do to make you enjoy it more?"
@@rhmayer1 Only if she asks the same question. Women's pleasure isn't men's responsibility more than the other way round. And yes, that's the kind of put down you get from women for asking that. However you/they forget that in s*x most people are not there in mind and that's how it should be. Demanding your male partner to be "mindful" of your pleasure is selfish and sexist. If you have complaints just speak up.
@@ky7299 Why do you feel you need to make a put-down for someone asking a well-intentioned question? You seem too ready to pounce, defensively. If I make a sincere and intimate effort to increase a woman's enjoyment and she responds annoyed, with a put-down then, well, that sort of ends my interest in her. She obviously has some issues that she needs to work out and is not ready for a relationship that I would be ready to invest my time and heart in. Sexual communication comes in all forms, verbal and non-verbal. Being "there in mind" may or may not be "how it should be." For some people they close their eyes and are off to another distant planet. Others prefer enjoying sex with eyes open and being right there, attentive and fully aware and conscious of every detail right in front of them. Perhaps most enjoy some kind of combination of both being there and getting lost in a far-away aroused state.
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If you have to ask these questions, one of two things is happening, you haven't been with this woman long enough to know her and secondly, you aren't learning as you discover each other together in a natural way. It's simple, learning her body and being intimate with her come over time spent caring for each other and trying to please each other. Don't force it, let it flow.
But you might not have time to learn by doing if she has preferences and you have not talked about them. Besides talking IS sex to women. Dim lights low volume, maybe a candle or lit fireplace and cuddling for a quiet talk about her desires is hard for a woman to resist connecting with you and answering your questions. Knowing what excites her would be a big advantage in you to bonding.
You know this sounds right up my alley to some of the other messages. I left here on your channel Miss Dawn I would go further with them, but every man and boy is entitled to their own privacy.
Great way to get slapped with a lawsuit/creep charge/smeared all over tiktok/called into HR/charged with assault/stalking/sexual harassment. You better be 6'3", high six figures, Sixpack, 6+ inches... or you're not even in the room.
@@johncooper9746 Then clearly, you’re either 6’3”, making 6 figures, have Brad Pitt-level looks, Arnold’s body, a 6-inch long or more d**k, and/or drive a BMW or better. Otherwise, you’re lying or living in a fantasy world.
Well said, Sarah.I have been interacting with a girl I really like. We both said we are attracted to one another. These questions are perfect for our next encounter.
No bro, if u haven’t had sex yet I wouldn’t go there that fast, these questions are best to ask after the first time or maybe 1 question before but not all of em before u even get there
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Ive always been wide open and outspoken about this. I say flat out that i want to know exactly what the woman wants, likes, etc. A man can only work with the info he has. Body language etc sometimes isn't enough depending on the woman
"If she likes you".... is the key part, if she likes/wants the man due to his look, character, .... money,...or any combination of these things it has been shown over the over that the men can treat the women like dirt and they keep coming back for more, IF she likes/wants the man
great and interesting questions but I believe the title should've said "5 Sexy Questions To Ask A Woman who's already in relationship with you (not someone you just met)"
Exactly, otherwise she is going straight to HR and best case scenario, you get called to your supervisor's office and asked to take a course in sensitivity training, worst case, you will be looking for a new job.
In my experience asking these questions isn't always a positive experience. A lot of women that I have asked these questions it's been a passion killer. A lot of women expect you to know how to read their minds, not all, but a lot. I get my pleasure from giving it, but when a women expects me to be physic it puts me under so much pressure, which can make sex a stressful time
I ask all of those questions with the women I’ve been with so that it can be more pleasurable for them and explain that to them. I also make a mental note of her breathing, pulse and sounds when she is almost to her O and then hold that tempo, rhythm and pressure so she receives everything. Afterwards I hold in that position and give her after care of soft soothing caresses to bring her mind and body back down slowly. They enjoy, remember, and replay all of the little things you do for them.
Number 1. Get out. Number 2. Change the locks. Number 3. Get someone younger, that's into you. Nuber 4. Be happy. Number 5. Be strong and find yourself.
Your feed hasn't popped up for some time. Nice to hear your soft voice and see that beautiful smile again. Have to tag this, to watch later. Have a good day. 👍
You never have this problem with Eastern European and south East Asian woman. There very direct and just tell you what they like/ don’t like and will ask you also
@@danielleadair7394 I agree, though being crude isn’t my style. I’m nearly 70 and my girlfriend and I talk about sex. In fact I’ve shared a few of the tips that heard on these videos that I was already doing anyway. She told me that it turned her on when I gave simple but firm orders like “Turn over.”
wow Sarah, what a great video (am i strange if i watch it again) you are one lovely woman, i could listen to you talking to me all day..well cool and many thanks for doing this video..(i have all that you mention here to look forward to with my current girlfriend ) ..boy am i exited xx
First off, pleasing a woman the first few times ain’t all that difficult. Ringing the bell with a woman you’ve slept with for years takes a lot more effort and imagination. And talk is cheap, when she starts moaning and quivering you know you’re on the right track. When she gets religon, and starts calling, “0h, God !!” You’re there. Just do more of what got you there. 😊
Are you suggesting to have this conversation and asking these questions before having sex your first time or should you get a base line reading your first time and then ask these questions afterwards ?
I'd say these questions aren't just for new relationships. It never hurts to check in with your long-time lover. Maybe her preferences have changed? Maybe she heard about a link that she's afraid to bring up first? Maybe her body has changed and what used to feel great isn't so hot anymore, or vice versa?
It's a wonder anyone can o with all the questions being asked better if things just happen naturally then you know your right for each other asking and waiting for answers kinda takes the suprise element away 😮
My five sexy cuestions would be: Do you like starwars? Have you ever watched Neil Breen movies? Do you prefer death metal or doom metal? Do you know on the secret of steel by Crom? Have you ever listen to black metal band Bal-Sagorh and Rick Wakemam?
I just discovered this channel two days ago. The stuff seems cool. But I gotta wonder (as should you all) as to what Sarah's background is? What's her qualifying experience?
Hi Bratty Pants, fun to see you here. Followed you off of insta. Thanks for the thoughtful tips. Can always be taught something new or just reminded. Live in OC , love to meet up with you. ❤
“Talking too much will kill the vibe with a woman”…not if the conversation is about her. What you’re espousing here is just that, making the conversation about her. Men already know this about women. What men are saying in the quiet quitting in relationships is: we want the conversation to be about us too.
Here's my question. Why do women keep a secret checklist of things, that they keep deep down inside, that makes them decide to leave a relationship when that last item is checked?
Very informative topic Sarah, very interesting listening to you, I'll definitely ask my lady these questions, sounds a great way to get to know someone's sexual preference, as you say where all different and like lots of different things. Thanks Sarah. :) 👍✌🆒🆒
Thank you so much Sarah, I never thought of this, but it seems like a really good idea? And so simple thanks, and your so cute yourself I like you, and I'm definitely going to give it a try asking my woman these questions because she is starting to be picky and a gruech, thank you so much your video is the best I would give your channel a hundred thumbs up at one-time if I could? Thank you Sarah for the help?
"I'm just happy to be there" - BINGO!!!! It is why we call it getting lucky. Why men do not want to risk the outcome. "Keep the ball rolling" "Bad experience" - you are right Sarah. It is a *very personal* question. Oddly, a guy will have sex with a women he does not feel comfortable talking about money with. Yes, locations, scents, things can cause flash backs. We good guys pay the price for what bad guys did - it not her fault. BTW, she needs to not only to feel safe but needs to know she is safe. Tell her it is ok to say no. Sarah, "dirty talk" OK, will have to google that one #6 - what do you like afterwards ? Not just take a shower together to clean up and then hold her. Thank you for the insight and guidance. Yes we are easy to please.
Pretty spot on with all 5 questions 👍 my former fiance and I were into letting, and showing what her, and I needed.. Until it wasn't needed 😮 But enough about me, great video Sarah..
I have a ltr going on 8 years now. At some point we talked about how many O's she has had with me. We see each other every weekend and of course every day when traveling. The number is around 5000. Intuition is vitally important when intimate with your girl. Not everyone has that fine tuned but something to work on.
Well, that works out to an average of 1.7 orgasms a day or 52 per month for 8 years. Whatever you are doing, keep it up and stay far away from a wedding cake.
Definitely great communications to and to situations preferred for her to get and receive her most pleasure !!! 🎉 🎉 !!! 😊 !!! And every woman can be different and an individual !!! And every woman prefers her separate ways !!!
It was never my responsibility to make any woman have her "O" though some women disagreed. There are many women who have no idea what makes them have an "O". I have been with 55 women in my life (from the USA and several other countries). Half of them never had an "O" before me or with me. The ones who were orgasmic were the worst at communicating information about how to get them to have an "O". Do not underestimate the destruction of women's minds from modern feminism and birth control pills preventing them from having an "O".
I asked my girlfriend questions along these lines, she was attentive to my questions and melted after I asked her. She said that no body has ever asked her these questions before. This has made our relationship even better.
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That's beautiful
*Confidence and timing are everything when asking these questions. It’s all about keeping the conversation playful while making sure it feels natural to both sides.*
The greatest lesson I learned about sleeping with a woman is when she says "just like that", KEEP DOING THAT! Don't speed up or slow down, don't try changing positions, etc.
Sleeping. . . . ? What are you doing while sleeping ?
@@larrybrinley8222 it's a euphanism
@@larrybrinley8222 _"Sleeping with a woman"_ = f-cking a woman. Hope that cleared things up for you.
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1, How much do you owe ?
2, How many children do you have ?
3, How many men have you Divorced ?
4, What STD’s do you have ?
5, Do you have a job ?
😂 Player extraordinaire 🤣 ☠️
Were you born a male? lol jk
Women these days!
6, What meds are you on?
That's why you are still alone ...
My problem here is when I ask for feedback, I never get any. I just get ignored, or get told "I'm not here to teach you, you should already know".
Red flag. Non communicative and she thinks you're a mind reader. Sarah's questions are regarding preferences, not showing you don't know what you're doing. Tell her what you like.
What?! You mean you didn't know how to read her mind? How dare you! 😂
NEXT !!! Move along, because if communication and good will is nill in this aspect of the relationship, it is doomed to fail.
This is when the Cowboy walks away.
That's because "womensplaining" is just another term for "mind reading".
the what-to-avoid question is really important, guys. Even if she's never had a bad or traumatic experience, it shows that you CARE.
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@@LisaHack-hq3dv yeah, I can see how that would be a problem 🙂
No its not important at all guys
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Men ... I'm no genius...I don't have all the answers. Don't be desperate and creepy. Be yourself! If she doesn't like that, then move on
@stevenpurdy2235 perhaps you aren't a genius but it's obvious you have a fairly high IQ with that comment. In order to be classified as a genius you must have never married or been married and once a man has then genius is no longer obtainable for life. But a high IQ is just fine just so long as a guy doesn't marry twice , that would then take away the high IQ status for life. Marry three times and guy goes straight to dumbass for life. So yeah it's a bit tricky IMO and the very reason I only have my Bass boat and my coon dog Ray.
I agree. Sometimes the best way to help or do "work with men" is to do work with woman.
My problem with this whole premise is that, as a man, I don't want to use an "instruction manual". If I ask her straight up: "How do I please you?", that's too easy and I'll be less inclined to stray from that path. I think a woman is more impressed when you can learn what she likes along the way and apply that knowledge. She might learn something about herself, being led down some different paths.
Learn things, then internalize them to become intrinsic....
Agreed except for that one question, "Have you ever had any bad experiences that you'd like to share with me?" I agree with the whole - I'd rather explore and discover things ourselves - perspective. But that one question shows a certain respect and caring and starting-soft and gentle kinda thing that I think most women appreciate. A lot of women have had a bad experience or even have been sexually abused and so this can really prevent a surprising spontaneous bad reaction to something you do. I don't think it ruins the mood to ask. If you're both already in the mood it's actually an intimate question that can bring you closer.
If I used some of the other questions at all, I wouldn't ask them prior to sex - as instructions, but during the flirting stage as fun, teasing conversation - a little risque - to see how she reacts. More in a playful way to see if it maybe leads eventually to her showing some sexual interest. Not on a first date, but as we were getting to know each other better and getting more comfortable kidding around together. It might help push things along. Plant some seeds, in a sense, that then you back away from and see if she then becomes more "forward" later, etc. Timing is everything. I'm no expert, but I think this might work sometimes.
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"The only question I ever ask a woman is "what time does your husband get home?" (From the movie Hud)
You bastard. I finally found you. Lol.
FAFO
HEY, RODNEY DNAGEFIELD STILL LIVES!!!!
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I usually ask two questions. 1) What do you like? 2) What don't you like? That's so I make sure NOT to do them. But when I'm engaged in physical intimacy, I pay attention to what her body is doing. I talking more about the involuntary reactions like muscle spasms.
Physical intimacy is about ASSOCIATION, and it is a form of DEEP COMMUNICATION in itself. Her body's reaction/response is SECONDARY - it's a symptom of what you are doing to her SOUL. Pay attention that you are staying with her as an actual being, the body just follows.
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@@davidcave5426 fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 never ends for disbelievers
If she's not interested you'll get jail time
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Yep, it’s a trap.
DANGER WILL ROBINSON!
She's not truly yours it's just your turn
Same in reverse, right? He's not truly yours, it's just your turn.
And that attitude is why men fail.
@@winfriedmaus That attitude is a relic of a long-gone era, when -- at least in some places and times -- women were effectively owned by men. You can hear it in the very choice of words: "YOURS", i.e. belongs to you. Women, of course, don't buy this bullshit anymore, and they should not buy it.
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I don't ask questions to turn her on, I ask them so I can learn what she is about. Dating is about learning if you're compatible with the person who you are sitting across from.
Questions I ask on dates:
1) What was the best compliment you ever got? / What was the best advice you ever got?
These two questions show what someone values and acknowledges about themself. Its the thing about themselves they like the most usually. Or its the lesson in life they value the most.
2) What are the top 3 things you're looking for in a partner?
Just so I know whether or not we're wasting each other's time. Do I possess what she is looking for? Do I want to change to be those things? Helps me predict if the relationship will have any longevity to it.
3) What's the most recent accomplishment you're proud of?
Shows their proficiency in life and what they prioritize as a goal. Typical answers involve fitness, skill acquisition, gaining knowledge, kicking a bad habit or climbing the corporate ladder.
4) What's something about you I wouldn't be able to tell about you by looking at you?
Its a question that gets people to show off any hidden talents they have. Its a fun one I like asking because you never know what they are going to say back.
5) What's a skill you wish you had?
Shows an area where they want to improve. Should the relationship progress further its something that you can make arrangements to happen if possible. People appreciate when you help them reach a goal they desire. Asking them about it is the first step to making a wish a reality.
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One question NEVER to ask a woman:
"Did you enjoy it?"
You will be lucky if your relationship survives this.
Lol I often ask her this question as her gentle man yet she is too afraid to leave me or lose me. This life is weird. ;-)
😂 i do it everytime no problems
I disagree with both the question and the replies.
My point of view is why bother asking? You should already know the answer. I mean, it should be pretty obvious whether she enjoyed it or not. If you have to ask then you weren't paying attention, and so she probably didn't enjoy it as much as she could've AND you probably don't care anyway. So, from any perspective I just don't get why you'd ask. If you're trying to be nice because you really care, then the question should be, "What can I do to make you enjoy it more?"
@@rhmayer1 Only if she asks the same question. Women's pleasure isn't men's responsibility more than the other way round. And yes, that's the kind of put down you get from women for asking that. However you/they forget that in s*x most people are not there in mind and that's how it should be. Demanding your male partner to be "mindful" of your pleasure is selfish and sexist. If you have complaints just speak up.
@@ky7299 Why do you feel you need to make a put-down for someone asking a well-intentioned question? You seem too ready to pounce, defensively. If I make a sincere and intimate effort to increase a woman's enjoyment and she responds annoyed, with a put-down then, well, that sort of ends my interest in her. She obviously has some issues that she needs to work out and is not ready for a relationship that I would be ready to invest my time and heart in. Sexual communication comes in all forms, verbal and non-verbal. Being "there in mind" may or may not be "how it should be." For some people they close their eyes and are off to another distant planet. Others prefer enjoying sex with eyes open and being right there, attentive and fully aware and conscious of every detail right in front of them. Perhaps most enjoy some kind of combination of both being there and getting lost in a far-away aroused state.
This may seem an obvious comment, but turn your phone off, or turn to silent before recording. I love your content and find it very valuable. THANK YOU!!
You video your "intimate time"? If so, you're a sick puppy! Or is it for "educational and training purposes"?
Who would find any value in this nonsense
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If you have to ask these questions, one of two things is happening, you haven't been with this woman long enough to know her and secondly, you aren't learning as you discover each other together in a natural way. It's simple, learning her body and being intimate with her come over time spent caring for each other and trying to please each other. Don't force it, let it flow.
But you might not have time to learn by doing if she has preferences and you have not talked about them. Besides talking IS sex to women. Dim lights low volume, maybe a candle or lit fireplace and cuddling for a quiet talk about her desires is hard for a woman to resist connecting with you and answering your questions. Knowing what excites her would be a big advantage in you to bonding.
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You know this sounds right up my alley to some of the other messages. I left here on your channel Miss Dawn I would go further with them, but every man and boy is entitled to their own privacy.
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@@LisaHack-hq3dv I didn’t say anything about that
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1 what foreplay ?
2 had bad ?
3 where touch ?
4 what style ?
5 how org ?
You absolutely rocked this.. everyone needs this video.... man or woman
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Great way to get slapped with a lawsuit/creep charge/smeared all over tiktok/called into HR/charged with assault/stalking/sexual harassment.
You better be 6'3", high six figures, Sixpack, 6+ inches... or you're not even in the room.
What kind of life is that a thing?
Fool.
@@johncooper9746 American lives.
@@LittleTas12 sure isnt my reality. Sucks to be you.
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Then clearly, you’re either 6’3”, making 6 figures, have Brad Pitt-level looks, Arnold’s body, a 6-inch long or more d**k, and/or drive a BMW or better. Otherwise, you’re lying or living in a fantasy world.
Been married a long time.....long enough to know not to ask questions and long enough to know to stay on my side of the bed....
100%. I don't know why any man would take her advice. You should be doing these videos.
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Avoid those who ask "what's the size of your bank account"?
So helpful!! Wish I could have been briefed on this a long time ago
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Excellent Video!!! Your Voice is Mellow and Marvelous!!!
It’s well rehearsed
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Talking through things can be a passion killer.
Well said, Sarah.I have been interacting with a girl I really like. We both said we are attracted to one another. These questions are perfect for our next encounter.
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No bro, if u haven’t had sex yet I wouldn’t go there that fast, these questions are best to ask after the first time or maybe 1 question before but not all of em before u even get there
I love your content, and thank you for fixing your reverb audio problem.
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I just love these pop-up ads suddenly appearing now, then you have to start all over at the beginning. TH-cam is really beginning to suck. Maybe time to ditch the App.
Clearly your microphone told you how it likes to be touched!
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@@sarahdawnmoore don't die as a disbeliever
@@sarahdawnmoore It likes to be held and moved that way, so you obliged?🎤
Ive always been wide open and outspoken about this. I say flat out that i want to know exactly what the woman wants, likes, etc. A man can only work with the info he has. Body language etc sometimes isn't enough depending on the woman
Cant even rely on the comments to list anymore lol
yaa i think the comments are just so random and weird lol
Comment sections in todays YT are terrible. Just quoting with a laugh emoji or some stupid meme comment.
Not to be disrespectful, I really like the way you hold that microphone. 😊
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"If she likes you".... is the key part, if she likes/wants the man due to his look, character, .... money,...or any combination of these things it has been shown over the over that the men can treat the women like dirt and they keep coming back for more, IF she likes/wants the man
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great and interesting questions but I believe the title should've said "5 Sexy Questions To Ask A Woman who's already in relationship with you (not someone you just met)"
Exactly, otherwise she is going straight to HR and best case scenario, you get called to your supervisor's office and asked to take a course in sensitivity training, worst case, you will be looking for a new job.
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In my experience asking these questions isn't always a positive experience. A lot of women that I have asked these questions it's been a passion killer. A lot of women expect you to know how to read their minds, not all, but a lot. I get my pleasure from giving it, but when a women expects me to be physic it puts me under so much pressure, which can make sex a stressful time
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I ask all of those questions with the women I’ve been with so that it can be more pleasurable for them and explain that to them. I also make a mental note of her breathing, pulse and sounds when she is almost to her O and then hold that tempo, rhythm and pressure so she receives everything. Afterwards I hold in that position and give her after care of soft soothing caresses to bring her mind and body back down slowly. They enjoy, remember, and replay all of the little things you do for them.
Number 1. Get out. Number 2. Change the locks. Number 3. Get someone younger, that's into you. Nuber 4. Be happy. Number 5. Be strong and find yourself.
Your feed hasn't popped up for some time. Nice to hear your soft voice and see that beautiful smile again.
Have to tag this, to watch later. Have a good day. 👍
Aren't you happy about that ? You should be.
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You never have this problem with Eastern European and south East Asian woman. There very direct and just tell you what they like/ don’t like and will ask you also
I never talk about sex with a woman and never have problems getting it quickly with her! Some women will be turned off by sex talk that’s a fact
Uh no. Women talk.
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@@danielleadair7394 I agree, though being crude isn’t my style. I’m nearly 70 and my girlfriend and I talk about sex. In fact I’ve shared a few of the tips that heard on these videos that I was already doing anyway. She told me that it turned her on when I gave simple but firm orders like “Turn over.”
Me as well. She just walked out
Sarah i really love your open freshness ❤
I wish my therapist looked like this.
wow Sarah, what a great video (am i strange if i watch it again) you are one lovely woman, i could listen to you talking to me all day..well cool and many thanks for doing this video..(i have all that you mention here to look forward to with my current girlfriend ) ..boy am i exited xx
5 ways to end up in prison for sexual harrasment because women cant handle anything
All great questions. Asking is so important. I really like the idea of asking about bad experience.
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Unless you are driving a Ferrari asking these questions will only drive you to jail
Even then they still may send you to jail and hope to get a good chunk of cash from you
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Nice gentle discussion, thanks Sarah...
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First off, pleasing a woman the first few times ain’t all that difficult. Ringing the bell with a woman you’ve slept with for years takes a lot more effort and imagination. And talk is cheap, when she starts moaning and quivering you know you’re on the right track. When she gets religon, and starts calling, “0h, God !!” You’re there. Just do more of what got you there. 😊
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Jewish women who don’t know how to relax and have some fun in Life, not allowed.
Same when she grabs your head or body and starts pulling you in. 😊
Are you suggesting to have this conversation and asking these questions before having sex your first time or should you get a base line reading your first time and then ask these questions afterwards ?
I'd say these questions aren't just for new relationships. It never hurts to check in with your long-time lover. Maybe her preferences have changed? Maybe she heard about a link that she's afraid to bring up first? Maybe her body has changed and what used to feel great isn't so hot anymore, or vice versa?
It's a wonder anyone can o with all the questions being asked better if things just happen naturally then you know your right for each other asking and waiting for answers kinda takes the suprise element away 😮
Do you think each time depends on the mood and feelings at that time? Thanks for the tips and you keep being you. We love you.
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Who are we ?
My five sexy cuestions would be:
Do you like starwars?
Have you ever watched Neil Breen movies?
Do you prefer death metal or doom metal?
Do you know on the secret of steel by Crom?
Have you ever listen to black metal band Bal-Sagorh and Rick Wakemam?
When these 5 questions fail, I find that question #6 seems to produce great results:
#6. " Does this cloth smell like chloroform to you?"
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I just discovered this channel two days ago. The stuff seems cool.
But I gotta wonder (as should you all) as to what Sarah's background is? What's her qualifying experience?
Men never can come up with anything if a woman asks them the same questions. We are just shocked to be intimate with them. Kinda like compliments.
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Thank you for sharing educational content and thank you for dropping jewels
Glad to hear your audio problem is fixed. Sounds so much better!
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Great and helpful for us benighted guys...nice, matter of fact delivery. Thanks
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Be bold, ask. Then say," I want to please you,I want to improve for you"
Sarah, do you have something over big microphones?
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Hi Bratty Pants, fun to see you here. Followed you off of insta. Thanks for the thoughtful tips. Can always be taught something new or just reminded. Live in OC , love to meet up with you. ❤
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“Talking too much will kill the vibe with a woman”…not if the conversation is about her. What you’re espousing here is just that, making the conversation about her. Men already know this about women. What men are saying in the quiet quitting in relationships is: we want the conversation to be about us too.
I like the way your holding that microphone Sarah.
Ask her if she likes to hold it like that. Or if she likes your comment
My wife enjoyed talking to me about my former lovers and about her lovers as well. Eventually it led to us having an open relationship
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Thanks. My new woman and I have some walking to do, as it were. You've helped.
Here's my question. Why do women keep a secret checklist of things, that they keep deep down inside, that makes them decide to leave a relationship when that last item is checked?
Good1. No reply. Secret woman's business. We have ours too.
@@chriskilgariff1119 You're supposed to talk about the list or it stays a secret that nobody will guess.
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Very informative topic Sarah, very interesting listening to you, I'll definitely ask my lady these questions, sounds a great way to get to know someone's sexual preference, as you say where all different and like lots of different things. Thanks Sarah. :) 👍✌🆒🆒
Great questions! I hope she asks them back.
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Hi dearest beautiful lady I enjoyed this video on 5 questions which are very important...I have learned a very important lesson.❤
The one question that you did not say, "do you have any disability" As we get older life happens
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Thank you so much Sarah, I never thought of this, but it seems like a really good idea? And so simple thanks, and your so cute yourself I like you, and I'm definitely going to give it a try asking my woman these questions because she is starting to be picky and a gruech, thank you so much your video is the best I would give your channel a hundred thumbs up at one-time if I could? Thank you Sarah for the help?
Question-one will get you investigated by the FBI.
"I'm just happy to be there" - BINGO!!!! It is why we call it getting lucky. Why men do not want to risk the outcome. "Keep the ball rolling"
"Bad experience" - you are right Sarah. It is a *very personal* question. Oddly, a guy will have sex with a women he does not feel comfortable talking about money with. Yes, locations, scents, things can cause flash backs. We good guys pay the price for what bad guys did - it not her fault.
BTW, she needs to not only to feel safe but needs to know she is safe. Tell her it is ok to say no.
Sarah, "dirty talk" OK, will have to google that one
#6 - what do you like afterwards ? Not just take a shower together to clean up and then hold her. Thank you for the insight and guidance.
Yes we are easy to please.
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Thanks! I like how these questions are in the place of mature conversation about needed info. :-)
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Pretty spot on with all 5 questions 👍 my former fiance and I were into letting, and showing what her, and I needed.. Until it wasn't needed 😮
But enough about me, great video Sarah..
Did you ask her if she likes when you comment on her videos ?
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This is pretty informative. Thank you.
I have a ltr going on 8 years now. At some point we talked about how many O's she has had with me. We see each other every weekend and of course every day when traveling. The number is around 5000. Intuition is vitally important when intimate with your girl. Not everyone has that fine tuned but something to work on.
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Well, that works out to an average of 1.7 orgasms a day or 52 per month for 8 years.
Whatever you are doing, keep it up and stay far away from a wedding cake.
Very helpful, thanks
How early in the dating process is it safe to bring up these questions?
Wich question asks gets me the biggest slap in tha face
Definitely great communications to and to situations preferred for her to get and receive her most pleasure !!! 🎉 🎉 !!! 😊 !!! And every woman can be different and an individual !!! And every woman prefers her separate ways !!!
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You’re awesome Sarah
I tried these questions at a speed dating event last night. The results were not good.
There are not first-15-minutes questions. They are questions for AFTER some physical intimacy has been initiated (like touching, makeout, etc.).
Hahahaha. Too soon dummy!!
Nice one, Subscribed. Please keep'em comin...
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She will let you know, believe me!
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I always hope their answer to the first question is, "The back of my throat."
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Insanely awesome video.
Me: Honey?. Got a few secs? I need to ask you a couple of questions...
Sounds like a lawsuit, tickets please?
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These help me to make sure i never ask these things.
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I think you better don't react to your phone, just ignore or edit it out.
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It was never my responsibility to make any woman have her "O" though some women disagreed. There are many women who have no idea what makes them have an "O". I have been with 55 women in my life (from the USA and several other countries). Half of them never had an "O" before me or with me. The ones who were orgasmic were the worst at communicating information about how to get them to have an "O". Do not underestimate the destruction of women's minds from modern feminism and birth control pills preventing them from having an "O".
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Sarah, so even your phone got excited about the subject matter
Great Stuff. Will try to remember, thanks. XXX.
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women need to know men work even harder at it when the womans reaction is louder and verbal
Speak for yourself. Your as bad as her she thinks she speaks for all women and you just did the same thing
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I wonder what body count one has to have to be able to answer some of those questions...
I’m confused. I thought you were walking away from your online presence. Not so?
My favorite is “do you do it”?
I ask that 5 times.
Explain please.
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Job interview?? Crazy ideas following here!
Due to my stroke I have lost my manhood
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I asked my wife, she had one response to ALL of the questions.
"I've never done it, so I wouldn't know."
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