Asalaamualaikum Dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam, Let us all make sure that we make lots of Dua for those whom we've hurt and ask for their forgiveness so that Allah (S.W) may also Forgive us and them. may Allah (S.W) forgive the entire Ummah Allahumma Ameen!
@@szaheer884 Syed, first of all I think you should apologise to the person whom you've hurt and ask for their forgiveness, if you can't do that then the next best thing is to make lots of Dua for them and ask Allah (S.W) to forgive yourself and to forgive them. May Allah (S.W) Forgive us all Ameen
@@szaheer884 Yes Syed, there is no money on the day of judgement, instead there will be good deeds However, We have all made mistakes in our lives and all of us are NOT perfect. For that reason it is very easy for us to hurt the feelings of others or even wrong them in many ways. We need to remmember that Allah (S.W) is the All Forgiving, Most merciful. Allah (S.W) forgives all sins so off course Allah (S.W) will forgive you if you make Dua that Allah (S.W) will Forgive the person and yourself and try as much as you can to go to the person or message him and ask him for forgiveness, try to apologise to him inshAllah and if he accepts your Apology then it is very good and easy mashAllah. And if he doesn't accept, then that is very bad for him to do that because we should all forgive everyone who does something bad to us unless they keep on doing it on purpose.. . If he doesn't forgive then make lots of Dua for him and then ask Allah (S.W), The Most Merciful, Kind and Forgiving to forgive you my Brother. May Allah (S.W) Forgive us all and grant us and our families ease in this life and swift entry into Jannatul Firdous Al Alaa Ameen!
@@CatsForLife21 May Allah bless you and your family Ameen even if the person forgive you already still you should pray for yourself and for them . Because hurting someone (for unnecessary things) is also a sin . But if we can't communicate with them or they already die then we should pray for them and we can also give some charity for them .
@@BH_S21 well to be honest, what I heard to do in a situation where we have hurt someone that we can't contact anymore is to make lots of dua for them and hopefully this will help us on the day of judgement in sha Allah.
i have asked my mom to forgive me repeatedly over and over and she just insults me and compares me to my dad for the way he used to abuse her now my mom hates me so much because i was about to say something bad but i said never mind you won't understand in front of both my parents i told my mom that and she got mad at me and saddened but i am asking her to forgive me i have repented over and over again and today i tried again and my mom just swore at me and told me to shut up when i tried saying sorry my mom is my life i'm almost nothing without her please help me somebody, anybody wallahi if you do i will pray sincerely that Allah grants you Jannatul firdaus and a pleasant life in this dunya and akhira and he saves you from the punishment of the grave
Have patience and ask for Allah’s guidance. In Sha Allah she will forgive you. “Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear…” (Qur’an, 2:286).
Do not stop asking for forgiveness, do not stop trying to makeup for what you did. She will succumb ultimately in time. Have sabr, keep asking, and keep doing good things that will make her happy all the time. Also anger from ones parent is a form of musibah, so give sadaqah with the yaqeen that Allah removes this musibah, that Allah make your mother happy with you. May Allah see you through
Be patient my brother,, keep asking Allah,,be good to your mother,,i also wrong my parents,,and i really regret,,i dont know what will happen to me without their blessing
change your behaviour and attitude towards her ... become a better son ......that's when she will actually forgive you .... bcoz then she would not feel that her forgiveness is wasted❤
Yesterday when iam in my college i puted stone and duster to my friend bag for fun but he got anger and i apologize somany times but he taked it too seriously, blocked my call and whatsapp , but still today fully i sitted next to him askd so many times forgiveness made many jokes still he says he says he will not forgive me... I said i will purchase new bag do whatever still he ignore... Now i amzed that i done one small mistake for my friend for my fun he not forgiving me.. But look at allah if we do sins for 60 years 70 years even our sin reachs the sky still allah says i will forgive you if you asked forgiveness 🥺 Allahu Akbar 😭 allah is greatest Subhanallah Allahu Akbar lahilahailallah
this is a deep question but I spend a lot of time on reddit helping people who are suicidal and ive seen a trend of say child molestors and rapists. Can they be forgiven and can they go to heaven? Say if they would not want to ask for forgiveness off the person in fear of reminding them again or say if they cant contact the person anymore. Is there anyway of them going to heaven
All they can do is ask forgiveness. They have to stand up one day and ask for forgiveness. Because if they're willing to change then there's always hope.
That person will never forgive you if you caused their limbs to loss! Causes Eye sight to loss. if it was other than breaking and body harm. Yes that person will forgive you because that person still has the ability to live as a normal person. If you caused a limb loss. Mate you are done!
@ iUnbox but what if anyone hurt any person's feeling (broke heart and broke him/her from inside from soul) then that person will also never forgive that person who hurt them...then Allah forgive that person or not ?? Plz tell me
@@iunbox8379 and what if a boy done zina with a girl uncountless time for 3 yrs in relationship,,he promise her that he will marry her only one day..but after 3 yrs girl said to marry her but he refuse to marry her..then this type of fraud allah forgive him or not plz tell me dear ??
I bullied someone online and completely regret and I feel remorse and guilt for doing it. I want to ask them for forgiveness but I'm scared that they won't forgive . I have a reason for doing it but it's a stupid one. Basically because of anger. What if,when I tell them they curse me?
@@janaahmad124 BY allah yes but as far as im aware on the day of judgement they will still need to forgive you and then if they dont you exchange good deeds or bad deeds
I was asked for forgive someone whom I know and never known to have done wrong. I gave abslute forgiveness for any or everything the person did whether I know or dont know about it. Total and absolute forgiveness. I hope this is acceptable. I would like the opinion of an Islamic expert. Is my forgiveness acceptable? I am the oldest son in my family and I gave the forgivrness on behalf of all my family. I want to do it right and be sure the person is forgiven.
I did something bad I then called the person and asked forgiveness and admit my mistakes but the person recorded me and false accusing me in it then expose me to ppl
He did not answer the question. To do my best? what does that means? We are not talking about a text message. I know that we have to be honest and really apologize to the person truly. The question was What to do if I have asked for forgiveness, but the person will not forgive? It's Okay to say you don't know the answer.
Ask for forgiveness. Allah Judges hearts. If you have a good heart and good intention and ask for forgiveness by really meaning it and apologizing to the person by telling him/her what you did to him/her was very wrong and that you will not do such an act again. Then Allah will forgive you even if he/she says he/she doesn't forgive you . Because You have done your part by purifying your heart. Allah wants his people to be pure hearted. If you just say sorry and don't even mean it. Then there is no point of such an apology.
@@MuhammadHassaan cant say it better than that, Allah knows what's in our hearts so just by thinking and admitting I've done bad to a person just between me and my heart Allah knows it and will make it easy for me when apologizing to the person, so even if the s/o refuses Allah will guide him to forgive me later on as long as it was a pure apology
Alaa Benzouak hey can u help me sir I had a small fight with my freind he called men and I didn’t pick up and I blocked him for minutes but later he become angry i sorry him so many times call him and he seen messages and i call him he didn’t attend with ego I sorry him so many times and he didn’t seen or accept I really said sorry by my heart so Will Allah forgive me?
@@AbdulWahid-hv6gzwhen you make an apology and mean it from the bottom of your heart, Allah will put peace between you guys, eventually the guy you're in dispute with will make an apology or accept yours.
@@Anees_VK honestly your apology doesn't sound like an apology at all... If you did me wrong and then send me something like this then I will have same reaction.. you have to show and to prove that you have remorse
I am sorry but even this person did stg... like I asked for forgiveness even if she DID wrong to me too.... seriously is this behavior normal for a Muslim ? If someone comes to you remember every time you wronged someone too ...
Is it called forgiving if there is no apology? Or can you forgive a person who wronged you but he/she never apologised? I can't wrap my head around this. Someone please advise me.
You have to see the nature of that person ,if they are on shirk , Secondly , they wronged u intentionally If they are not feeling bad about it Don't forgive them If they did it without knowing if they regret full then forgive them even if they don't asked for forgiveness
@@UmarKhan-hi9mp telling someone to not forgive them is horrible advice. Allah loves those who forgive. It's simple if you were wronged you can forgive if you chose to do so, even if they don't seek forgiveness.
Shsikh, let people fake it till it become real. Some people dont even talk or meet and he just want to be forgiven,so what should a person do if this text message is the only gate opener???
Someone's was cheated on me and i abuse him 🥺 indirectly and then he comes to know about that,then I says sorry many a times but he's not forgiving me what should I do 🥺
What if someone sexually assaulted u???? It is not dat easy to forget or forgive???? Especially when he is ur family member??? What does ALLAH says about it???? Will ALLAH punishment it or not??? Because in this world there is no justice??? I want ALLAH show me sings
Annie Noor forgive him no matter what the sin wouldn’t you like Allah to forgive you ? If the individual regrets , repents and apologises to you then forgive him indeed Allah is most merciful he would forgive the individual and also reward you greatly have you seen the stories of our beloved Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم and the things which happened but yet he still forgave? indeed we should follow in his footsteps .
@@user-br1qk6mt6k but prophet Muhammad pbuh doesn't have encountered sexual harassment? Offcourse he was and he will be always superior from others creation what about sexual violence???? Whose who r going through may understand this pain???
But you asked the person to forgive but he said no to you. You were crying to Almighty Allah to let this person forgive you but the person still says No what will happen next 🙏
Say astagfar continuously Allah will make that person to forgive you If that person is Muslim then he will make reconcile on day of judgemwnt With that he will forgive If he is non Muslim allah forgives u
@@abdullasabana7500 If he is non Muslims first ask Allah to give him hidaya, if he is not destined to accept truth, then for them is only duniya So ask Allah to save him from upcoming harm, ask Allah to give him respect and status, wealth all good wordly things , this will reconcile for Allah to make this happen u need to be in tawheed
@@abdullasabana7500 Allah will give on ur behalf with or without his knowledge on day of judgement even he is under assumption that non Muslim has not forgiven u , Allah will inform him because ur dua in world has protected from harm, wealth given etc , with this he will be satisfied
If a person forgives you after you hurt them, will you still get the maqafat e amal or karma or any sorta punishment? In other words will there will be still a real for what you sowed? I need valid answer. Thanks ! 🥺
God will not forgive 5 groups of peoples . 1- Shafeyee 2-Hanbaly 3-Hanafi 4-Salafi 5-Maleki And all groups of sunnah according to Quran And Sahih Muslem ,Sahih bokhari.
Asalaamualaikum Dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam,
Let us all make sure that we make lots of Dua for those whom we've hurt and ask for their forgiveness so that Allah (S.W) may also Forgive us and them. may Allah (S.W) forgive the entire Ummah Allahumma Ameen!
@@szaheer884 Syed, first of all I think you should apologise to the person whom you've hurt and ask for their forgiveness, if you can't do that then the next best thing is to make lots of Dua for them and ask Allah (S.W) to forgive yourself and to forgive them. May Allah (S.W) Forgive us all Ameen
@@szaheer884 Yes Syed, there is no money on the day of judgement, instead there will be good deeds However, We have all made mistakes in our lives and all of us are NOT perfect. For that reason it is very easy for us to hurt the feelings of others or even wrong them in many ways.
We need to remmember that Allah (S.W) is the All Forgiving, Most merciful. Allah (S.W) forgives all sins so off course Allah (S.W) will forgive you if you make Dua that Allah (S.W) will Forgive the person and yourself and try as much as you can to go to the person or message him and ask him for forgiveness, try to apologise to him inshAllah and if he accepts your Apology then it is very good and easy mashAllah. And if he doesn't accept, then that is very bad for him to do that because we should all forgive everyone who does something bad to us unless they keep on doing it on purpose.. . If he doesn't forgive then make lots of Dua for him and then ask Allah (S.W), The Most Merciful, Kind and Forgiving to forgive you my Brother.
May Allah (S.W) Forgive us all and grant us and our families ease in this life and swift entry into Jannatul Firdous Al Alaa Ameen!
@@CatsForLife21
May Allah bless you and your family Ameen
even if the person forgive you already still you should pray for yourself and for them .
Because hurting someone (for unnecessary things) is also a sin .
But if we can't communicate with them or they already die then we should pray for them and we can also give some charity for them .
@@ea5307 Exactly Right mashAllah, May Allah (S.W) Bless you too my Dear Brother, Asalaamualaikum.
@@BH_S21 well to be honest, what I heard to do in a situation where we have hurt someone that we can't contact anymore is to make lots of dua for them and hopefully this will help us on the day of judgement in sha Allah.
proud to be muslim
Finally a sensible speaker. Jzk brother
There are many good speaks in islam Alhamdolilah
i have asked my mom to forgive me repeatedly over and over and she just insults me and compares me to my dad for the way he used to abuse her now my mom hates me so much because i was about to say something bad but i said never mind you won't understand in front of both my parents i told my mom that and she got mad at me and saddened but i am asking her to forgive me i have repented over and over again and today i tried again and my mom just swore at me and told me to shut up when i tried saying sorry my mom is my life i'm almost nothing without her please help me somebody, anybody wallahi if you do i will pray sincerely that Allah grants you Jannatul firdaus and a pleasant life in this dunya and akhira and he saves you from the punishment of the grave
Have patience and ask for Allah’s guidance. In Sha Allah she will forgive you.
“Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear…” (Qur’an, 2:286).
Do not stop asking for forgiveness, do not stop trying to makeup for what you did. She will succumb ultimately in time. Have sabr, keep asking, and keep doing good things that will make her happy all the time. Also anger from ones parent is a form of musibah, so give sadaqah with the yaqeen that Allah removes this musibah, that Allah make your mother happy with you. May Allah see you through
Be patient my brother,, keep asking Allah,,be good to your mother,,i also wrong my parents,,and i really regret,,i dont know what will happen to me without their blessing
change your behaviour and attitude towards her ... become a better son ......that's when she will actually forgive you .... bcoz then she would not feel that her forgiveness is wasted❤
Start doing astagfar daily continuously Ally will unblock the doors closed
She will forgive with smile
Astagfar has power to do that
Yesterday when iam in my college i puted stone and duster to my friend bag for fun but he got anger and i apologize somany times but he taked it too seriously, blocked my call and whatsapp , but still today fully i sitted next to him askd so many times forgiveness made many jokes still he says he says he will not forgive me...
I said i will purchase new bag do whatever still he ignore...
Now i amzed that i done one small mistake for my friend for my fun he not forgiving me..
But look at allah if we do sins for 60 years 70 years even our sin reachs the sky still allah says i will forgive you if you asked forgiveness 🥺
Allahu Akbar 😭 allah is greatest
Subhanallah Allahu Akbar lahilahailallah
this is a deep question but I spend a lot of time on reddit helping people who are suicidal and ive seen a trend of say child molestors and rapists. Can they be forgiven and can they go to heaven? Say if they would not want to ask for forgiveness off the person in fear of reminding them again or say if they cant contact the person anymore. Is there anyway of them going to heaven
All they can do is ask forgiveness. They have to stand up one day and ask for forgiveness. Because if they're willing to change then there's always hope.
Excellent answer
You get their good deeds.
Oh yes I also always get those pre-hajj and pre-Ramadan “forgive me please” 😂.
Meanwhile i searched "is it halal to not forgive some one " cause they never asked me for forgiveness.
That person will never forgive you if you caused their limbs to loss! Causes Eye sight to loss. if it was other than breaking and body harm. Yes that person will forgive you because that person still has the ability to live as a normal person. If you caused a limb loss. Mate you are done!
Can u plz tell me what imam said in this video,I had not get him..plz can u understand me?
@ iUnbox but what if anyone hurt any person's feeling (broke heart and broke him/her from inside from soul) then that person will also never forgive that person who hurt them...then Allah forgive that person or not ?? Plz tell me
@@henakhanam1544 no,allah will not...
@@henakhanam1544 this does require repentance and seeking Allah forgiveness. But if it was physical harm abuse. There is a problem
@@iunbox8379 and what if a boy done zina with a girl uncountless time for 3 yrs in relationship,,he promise her that he will marry her only one day..but after 3 yrs girl said to marry her but he refuse to marry her..then this type of fraud allah forgive him or not plz tell me dear ??
I bullied someone online and completely regret and I feel remorse and guilt for doing it.
I want to ask them for forgiveness but I'm scared that they won't forgive .
I have a reason for doing it but it's a stupid one.
Basically because of anger.
What if,when I tell them they curse me?
then thats upto them. just apologise now and tell them how much you regret it and pray for forgiveness off allah too
That's up to them but if u apologize deeply and properly and repent to Allah u will be forgiven inshallah
@@janaahmad124 BY allah yes but as far as im aware on the day of judgement they will still need to forgive you and then if they dont you exchange good deeds or bad deeds
Assalamu alaykum, brother/sister don’t expose what you did
@@salafiyyah001Thank you for the advice Jazakallah
I abused Islam and now I'm feeling sad and crying
My constable is also muslim. Forgive me ☹️☹️😭
Turn to Islam we will help you
U fool u jai sing u abused Islam 😠 🤬 😡
@@amanmokashi4888 😭🙏
@@amanmokashi4888 don't be angry
You have been forgiven. I have forgiven you and Allah has forgiven you. He is the most merciful the most forgiving.
And what happens when that doesnt help? What happens if the person still doesnt forgive? Or chooses not to?
Say astagfar continuously
Allah will make that person to forgive you
I was asked for forgive someone whom I know and never known to have done wrong. I gave abslute forgiveness for any or everything the person did whether I know or dont know about it. Total and absolute forgiveness. I hope this is acceptable. I would like the opinion of an Islamic expert. Is my forgiveness acceptable? I am the oldest son in my family and I gave the forgivrness on behalf of all my family. I want to do it right and be sure the person is forgiven.
I'm not a Muslim or an expert of anything but you are a good person. I wish peace and and blessings to you and your family.
I did something bad I then called the person and asked forgiveness and admit my mistakes but the person recorded me and false accusing me in it then expose me to ppl
Sorry
U done ur part
Don't worry Allah forgives u and he will be checked out
He did not answer the question. To do my best? what does that means? We are not talking about a text message. I know that we have to be honest and really apologize to the person truly. The question was What to do if I have asked for forgiveness, but the person will not forgive? It's Okay to say you don't know the answer.
Ask for forgiveness. Allah Judges hearts. If you have a good heart and good intention and ask for forgiveness by really meaning it and apologizing to the person by telling him/her what you did to him/her was very wrong and that you will not do such an act again. Then Allah will forgive you even if he/she says he/she doesn't forgive you . Because You have done your part by purifying your heart. Allah wants his people to be pure hearted. If you just say sorry and don't even mean it. Then there is no point of such an apology.
@@MuhammadHassaan cant say it better than that, Allah knows what's in our hearts so just by thinking and admitting I've done bad to a person just between me and my heart Allah knows it and will make it easy for me when apologizing to the person, so even if the s/o refuses Allah will guide him to forgive me later on as long as it was a pure apology
Alaa Benzouak hey can u help me sir I had a small fight with my freind he called men and I didn’t pick up and I blocked him for minutes but later he become angry i sorry him so many times call him and he seen messages and i call him he didn’t attend with ego I sorry him so many times and he didn’t seen or accept I really said sorry by my heart so Will Allah forgive me?
@@AbdulWahid-hv6gzwhen you make an apology and mean it from the bottom of your heart, Allah will put peace between you guys, eventually the guy you're in dispute with will make an apology or accept yours.
Alaa Benzouak he is not accepting even he cut my call so god will forgive me bcoz I say sorry him with my pure heart?
Doesn't really answer the question
@@Anees_VK honestly your apology doesn't sound like an apology at all... If you did me wrong and then send me something like this then I will have same reaction.. you have to show and to prove that you have remorse
I am sorry but even this person did stg... like I asked for forgiveness even if she DID wrong to me too.... seriously is this behavior normal for a Muslim ? If someone comes to you remember every time you wronged someone too ...
Is it called forgiving if there is no apology? Or can you forgive a person who wronged you but he/she never apologised? I can't wrap my head around this. Someone please advise me.
You have to see the nature of that person ,if they are on shirk ,
Secondly , they wronged u intentionally
If they are not feeling bad about it
Don't forgive them
If they did it without knowing if they regret full then forgive them even if they don't asked for forgiveness
@@UmarKhan-hi9mp telling someone to not forgive them is horrible advice. Allah loves those who forgive. It's simple if you were wronged you can forgive if you chose to do so, even if they don't seek forgiveness.
If someone says I'm sorry but I'm not asking for forgiveness?
What should we do?
Shsikh, let people fake it till it become real.
Some people dont even talk or meet and he just want to be forgiven,so what should a person do if this text message is the only gate opener???
What is better online or real life to say ask forgiveness?
Real will help more
Someone's was cheated on me and i abuse him 🥺 indirectly and then he comes to know about that,then I says sorry many a times but he's not forgiving me what should I do 🥺
Should I forgive someone who tried to kill me with his car?
forgive him , Your reward with Allah or forgiveness will be immense inshallah
@Belinda is there a hadith
What if someone sexually assaulted u???? It is not dat easy to forget or forgive???? Especially when he is ur family member??? What does ALLAH says about it???? Will ALLAH punishment it or not??? Because in this world there is no justice??? I want ALLAH show me sings
Annie Noor forgive him no matter what the sin wouldn’t you like Allah to forgive you ? If the individual regrets , repents and apologises to you then forgive him indeed Allah is most merciful he would forgive the individual and also reward you greatly have you seen the stories of our beloved Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم and the things which happened but yet he still forgave? indeed we should follow in his footsteps .
@@user-br1qk6mt6k but prophet Muhammad pbuh doesn't have encountered sexual harassment? Offcourse he was and he will be always superior from others creation what about sexual violence???? Whose who r going through may understand this pain???
Can I be happy when someone doesn't forgive me
You can give sadaqah on their name or pray to Allah for forgiveness
Say astagfar daily .
Allah will make him forgive u
But you asked the person to forgive but he said no to you. You were crying to Almighty Allah to let this person forgive you but the person still says No what will happen next 🙏
Say astagfar continuously
Allah will make that person to forgive you
If that person is Muslim then he will make reconcile on day of judgemwnt
With that he will forgive
If he is non Muslim allah forgives u
@@UmarKhan-hi9mp is it suree? If he is non Muslim allah will forgive me
@@abdullasabana7500
If he is non Muslims first ask Allah to give him hidaya, if he is not destined to accept truth, then for them is only duniya
So ask Allah to save him from upcoming harm, ask Allah to give him respect and status, wealth all good wordly things , this will reconcile
for Allah to make this happen u need to be in tawheed
@@abdullasabana7500
Allah will give on ur behalf with or without his knowledge
on day of judgement even he is under assumption that non Muslim has not forgiven u , Allah will inform him because ur dua in world has protected from harm, wealth given etc , with this he will be satisfied
If a person forgives you after you hurt them, will you still get the maqafat e amal or karma or any sorta punishment? In other words will there will be still a real for what you sowed? I need valid answer. Thanks ! 🥺
If that person forgives u it wipes out complete as if the sin has not done
Total clean
This is based on hadith
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏☝️☝️🤲🤲
What if you’ve hurt them unintentionally?
That probably doesn't count but unless you felt it was inappropriate remark etc then you can ask
God will not forgive 5 groups of peoples .
1- Shafeyee
2-Hanbaly
3-Hanafi
4-Salafi
5-Maleki
And all groups of sunnah
according to Quran And Sahih Muslem ,Sahih bokhari.
God will not forgive u as well
Brother come out of this shit
Have taqwa , do righteous deeds Allah forgives