SEX, MASTURBATION, PORN, CELIBACY & BUDDHISM

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  • @damodarvinayagam3552
    @damodarvinayagam3552 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Thanks a ton Ajahn.... Feel privileged that even after 2000+ years after Thahthagatha, we can still listen to Dhamma...
    Inspite of your priority to cross the shore, you've the compassion to guide us...
    Sadhu, Sadhu, Sadhu🙏

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @marinatf-oy8rx
    @marinatf-oy8rx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Venerable, your message of tolerance and the avoidance of harm as the core principles of sexual conduct in Buddhism has made quite an impact on me. Thank you. 🙏

    • @noonespecial4171
      @noonespecial4171 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I was under the impression that women in the porn videos were willing participants. It was a shock to discover these are trafficked women or drugged, tricked etc. It's the conditioning we learn about women that I discovered is very far from respectful to humanity and myself too. Best away from this kind of thing.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @InfinitusYT
    @InfinitusYT 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank You so much Phra Dan, You have no idea how much Your gentle voice soothes Me. I look forward to every video!

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @noonespecial4171
    @noonespecial4171 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As unsavoury as those emailers were, at very least you were reminded of how carnal some humans are. The way you so tactfully described these too-much-information messages you had to read, I actually experienced the revulsion you must have experienced. Perhaps let people know that yiu are a Celibate Monastic and therefore have no association anymore with this topic. One has to ask whether these people are practising Buddhists or are just seeking someone to carry them. We either practice or we don't and that includes respect and extra respect for Monastics, being aware of the extra training rules you are practising.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @fingerprint5511
    @fingerprint5511 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    No questions in my comments!
    If you were looking to go on Tudong soon, I understand Ajahn Martin is leaving his Monastery due to Western Monks being disrespectful, entitled and not practicing Dhammavinaya. All those years he trained and poured himself into building a good Monastery with no corruption only to have virtually no one to support the practice. He would treasure your dedication Bhante. His latest video in his TH-cam channel is worth listening to for everyone practicing Dhamma. Meanwhile this talk doesn't bother me as I'm celibate. Thank you and hope you are well and happy.

    • @fingerprint5511
      @fingerprint5511 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think they are called Hijra, those born with 2 genders, they wear female clothing to honour the Goddess in Hinduism, and Eunuchs who are actually castrated males who dress as women. I saw a docco years ago and it is traced back in history to when males castrated themselves to serve the Royal family,the Enuchs, wereas Hijras are born with 2 genders. Also, this reminds me of Ajahn Brahm who asks why people keep asking him about sexual issues, marriage, romantic relationships, he says, I'm a Monk! Also people seem to be unaware that Buddhist Monastics can not and do not conduct marriage ceremonies - blessings yes, but not actual nuptials. And that the world also includes what is called the body so yes, to be celibate means you completely drop all interest and actions (life is easier if we do anyway) thank you for talking about the reality of Pornography. Its been proven that it rewires the brain much like those awful experiments on Rats where a buzzer that gave an electric shock was put in a cage along with food, the Rat ended up pressing the buzzer over eating. Porn rewires where humanity appears as objects to use and only for one's personal sense satisfaction, that cant be satisfied, much like the poor rat with the buzzer. It all comes back to understanding the 4 Noble Truths truly and yes, someone is always watching all we do - us 🙏

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @jens6754
    @jens6754 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The water on the roof was no problem at all.
    Thank you, Phra Dan ❤

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @Thisandthat284
    @Thisandthat284 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello I've been to Sri Lanka do you have an option on the elephant tourism industry it's absolutely disgusting how they are treated

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It is horrible to see animals in captivity anywhere I agree

  • @dianeheffernan7664
    @dianeheffernan7664 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thankyou for your valuable talks, they are so informative and you have a way of explaining things so well.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well.

  • @thekaizer666
    @thekaizer666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    folks have ZERO idea how fortunate they are to be able to speak with a bhante that has over 10 years as a bikkhu.
    thats like talking to a programming guru whos done it for 10 years, when youre asking questions about programming when youre just starting out.
    be kind, and be generous, everyone, cheers.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sabbe Satta Sukhi Hontu

  • @thekaizer666
    @thekaizer666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "WATCH IT WITH YOUR MOTHER" looooooooooooooooooooooooool PERFECT caption!

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @w2best
    @w2best 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Incredibly valuable talk. Thank you!

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @srmcfarling2315
    @srmcfarling2315 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    YOGA SUTRAS By Patanjali Vyasas And Lord Buddha's Dharma Sangha Thera Vada suttas, Real Yoga practice and Meditation Are the Language of The Inner World that really Very few people really go, I'm Thrilled to get the Official SUTRAS By Buddha from your, Yea Finally found the Real Treasure from the Thera Vada Buddhism thanks to your Real Treasure tradition WOW thank you, YOGI Steven Mcfarling Ashland Oregon USA

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @ValentinaPicchiLondon
    @ValentinaPicchiLondon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks
    Ajahn for this talk. How do I know your email? Or the chanting schedule? Or any other online/in-person events? With metta.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can see the chanel description and subscribe

  • @BohnDe95
    @BohnDe95 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thankyou for your talks Bhante. One questions I have, what is the Buddhist method to deal with feeling tired? Ive heard of some monestaries holding all night sitting sessions, surely there is a perspective on fatigue that helps one overcome it?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      th-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @tech1960ps1
    @tech1960ps1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the video.🙂

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well.

  • @MULINSEN木林森
    @MULINSEN木林森 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Bhante
    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @Zulay092
    @Zulay092 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello bhante, should my walking meditation advancement be equal to my sitting meditation for it to be effective? and does ambient sorroundings play a big role in walking meditation.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      th-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @chrisrichardson8988
    @chrisrichardson8988 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed hearing about the stages of ordination and precepts for lay followers.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @nahanng7791
    @nahanng7791 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How can I be ordained at the same vihara as you Bhante?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      th-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @RiccMarin
    @RiccMarin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, sadhu 🙏🙏🙏

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @lukemckean6155
    @lukemckean6155 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow! As a good Buddhist I’m not sure i should watch this video with a title like that Bhante! 😂😂😂

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Buddhists should understand the 3rd Precept. Sukhi Hontu

    • @lukemckean6155
      @lukemckean6155 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@englishmonk hehe I know. I was being facetious 🙏

  • @andrejtomazic8495
    @andrejtomazic8495 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sadhu, sasdhu, sadhu. Thak you so much.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @julie-vg4so
    @julie-vg4so 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "If we are really thirsty, water is sufficient". 25:39

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @drm54321
    @drm54321 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much Bhante!

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @dennnn13
    @dennnn13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ,Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu! Bhante, would you advise to lay people to practice asubha practice in order for them to restraint their sensuality? Thank you.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      th-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @lukemckean6155
    @lukemckean6155 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Much Mudita for your trip to Kandy and the Temple of the Tooth Bhante! How wonderful 🙏❤️💎

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @thomasbarchen
    @thomasbarchen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wise answers...

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @the.trollgubbe2642
    @the.trollgubbe2642 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sidenote: Isac Newton lived in celebacy, maybe just to busy to even think about women

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @julie-vg4so
    @julie-vg4so 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dear Venerable, many Buddhist monks have TH-cam channels that are ad-free. Due to the title of this subject, the ad was very sensual, and really not aligned with the dhamma.

    • @lukemckean6155
      @lukemckean6155 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bhante has no control over the advertising. If you don’t want ads you should sign up to YT Premium

    • @julie-vg4so
      @julie-vg4so 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've heard from other monks that they do have a say over ads@@lukemckean6155 . My comment was for informative purposes, it wasn't a complaint and is not based on my preferences.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There are no adds during the videos, this is my choice. Before and after I can't control.

    • @julie-vg4so
      @julie-vg4so 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@englishmonk Sadhu 🙏

  • @FRED-gx2qk
    @FRED-gx2qk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Greetings Phra Dan🧐

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @HNIW
    @HNIW 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you Bhante watched the movies "The Matrix" and the "Star Wars" series? Ignoring the action scenes, for me as a teen in Europe they were the first glimpse into Eastern Spirituality. Do you have any personal observations about elements of Dharma that can be introduced to teens by this way? How is Buddhist path different from "unplugging from the Matrix"? Except for the light saber, how are you different from a Jedi 🙂 ?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      No but I have heard of them. The word of the Buddha in the Suttas is the best way to introduce Dhamma.

  • @Mevlinous
    @Mevlinous 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    31:24 thank you, very helpful

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @vijaykumar-r8j2t
    @vijaykumar-r8j2t 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Vandami bhantey

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

    • @vijaykumar-r8j2t
      @vijaykumar-r8j2t 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@englishmonk 😊😊😊 thanks bhantey

  • @thekaizer666
    @thekaizer666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    loool youre WAY too worried about us laiety being distracted by such simple mechanical sounds, hahahha, metta

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @Jess-hm7ft
    @Jess-hm7ft 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @clayclayton9819
    @clayclayton9819 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Venerable Sir, what is acceptable to sleep on ?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      th-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @skylershire439
    @skylershire439 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    hello.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @rjclue2630
    @rjclue2630 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Monk. I learn how to use Sperm into vajra.
    When you leave the body. You can walk on top of the books earth. Below earth js yellow flame. And warm. Like a warm bed. 😊 is she my mother 🤔
    Am still looking for my mother 😡

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @barbararew5203
    @barbararew5203 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a Catholic and wanted to make you aware of Catholic teachings. You stated that masturbation was ok with other Religions.
    Catholic Church teaches that is a sin against purity.
    The body wages war upon the spirit. One must subdue the passions if we want the spirit to reign.

    • @fingerprint5511
      @fingerprint5511 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just because the Catholic Church says something does not mean it is factual or a belief everyone should adopt. The Catholic Church also says that sexual relations should only be performed when one is going to attempt conception, never any other time. So if you are not abiding by that rule, you are 'sinning.' Every time you have had intercourse without the intention to create a human being, you have sinned. Of all people to judge, right in front of you a man who lives by 227 Precepts which is subduing sensual pleasures in ways you could not cope with in your luxurious religion of Popery. Buddhism is about purifying the Citta, unlike your Monastics living in luxury, drinking alcohol, I won't even go into the breaking of celibacy and the long, long list of corruption hidden behind a face of 'love.' Have respect when you speak to a living human actually practicing purity. Perhaps you are so accustomed to the corruption you can not recognise what is wholesome. Ex catholic here, a big one too.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Peace be with you.

  • @dimopetrov4982
    @dimopetrov4982 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Not to be rude, but 40 min.of talking and you said almost nothing. It's the same with all the scriptures,they use one word "sila" ok..that doesn't explain much ether. Let me say it with one sentence,...If you don't preserve your sexual energy it's impossible to open your energy channels and chakras, that means you never gonna achieve Razor sharp Mindfulness (Knowingness). You have to see clearly every single thought popping in your head to be able to stop lust( craving for sex) Even then ,you have to investigate how single thought triggers feelings, emotions and actions. Without that never gonna reach any awakening. Unfortunately most of the people doing sex and then meditate, this like a hamster wheel, spinning in circle in vain. Thank you for your videos!

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sukhi Hontu