As a Turkish girl from London that moved to Essex in primary school, this really hit home. Super proud of her for everything she’s overcome. Brave and smart girl.
Abbey you have to know this, the maturity in you is vast in this interview 🙌🙏. You’re such a great interviewer, a very emotionally intelligent person, you get the best out of your guests but more importantly you help them look at themselves in due course to grow from their experience with you. You have a talent here. ❤️
What she said about Lovebombing omg she described it PERFECTLY! love Ekin-Su, its awful she went through that! Glad she is healing 🙏🧡 For her to be so accurate about her traumatic experiences - as a person who works in mental health I can definitely say she's not lying. Not a chance. She's genuine.
I don’t think Ekin is a horrible person I genuinely don’t think she deserves all the hate she gets and the horrible comments saying she is disingenuous. I truly believe she just has a lot of baggage and trauma that she is still working through and dealing with. Unpacking trauma and insecurities is something which takes years of therapy, self love and reflection you can’t expect someone to fix themselves within the span of a year. I think when she went on BB she clearly was not her self she was dealing with a lot mentally. We are all human let’s just be kind and considerate ❤
I ADORE her she's such a babe, someone who we should all be influenced by, her strength is unbeatable and the class she maintains through her hardship is really admirable, keep shining Ekin
As a Turkish girl I can relate to her in someways. I also grew up in Essex and kids can be mean. I still hope I never bump into the boys that called me hairy lol. I always feel like they will still be childish and say things. I’m only 24 and doubt many of my year group has grown up. My generation is very immature. Always teach your kids to be kind.
erm... Is she lying? I'm listening to the book right now and she says that she went to the theatre with a friend, spotted this famous producer and, after texting her dad and him encouraging her, went over to introduce herself. Yet in this interview around 13 minutes she says that the director spotted her and asked her if she wanted to be in his play without even knowing she was an actress ??? Such an odd thing to lie about when it's literally in the book she is promoting... or did she not write her own book ??? wtf ekin
@@DesertHeat she meant she thought people wouldn't vote her, she was insecure in herself, she didn't call the viewers racists,,,!!! That's a" you "problem I think,,, don't twist her sentence to make her a "British racist" ,,,and you some sort of a victim!,,,
Honestly it just feels like Ekin is telling lies. We've all had a life and we've experiences certain things. People that are struggling are struggling because they can't work out their problems. Ekin doesn't seem confused about anything. She's telling Abbey Clancy the problems when it should be the other way round. Just step back and listen Ekin mask slips a lot. I'm not saying she's horrible person because she's not, but she needs to take responsibility and stop blaming everyone else
Don't believe half of it think she's very manipulative and plays her part in situations she's in .she's got multiple personalities and acts out how to behave on the situations she's in even her voice is different
I don’t think she knew what she was talking about, trying to talk like a therapist but none of it made sense and contradicted herself quite a few times
I feel ekin su is still playing pretend like she did when she was a young girl like the time she was pretending to be chased by paps when she was in a taxi and then the time she was encouraging hate on a love island page by leaving comments about an islander she wasn’t long taking it down when called out for it especially after the trolling she got after BB
I dont think she is healed at all, its sad to see that she is saying she is, its clear to see she is not. Alot of things didnt make sense in this. I hope your find authentic peace and the right path to heal your trauma.
didn't realise we had mind readers on this platform 🤣 How do you know she's not healed? She's managed to write a book on her hardships, which alone is hard to do if you're going through it, never mind being able to openly talk about it whilst maintaining classy and strong. I think she's definitely started her healing progress, she seems very open and honest throughout, she's smiling, laughing, talking about raw things so openly. She's not carefully trying to construct her sentences and stop herself saying things, she's just laying it all out. Obviously healing is a process, it works in stages, the first stage is recognition, then the other stages are building from that and gaining that self love back, it takes time of course, but comparing from last year to now, she's come a hell of a way so I think its rude to say this when its clear to say she has healed.
I love this podcast and thought Ekin was great on Love Island but as an interview i felt like this was uncomfortable to watch. I think Ekin has a lot of trauma that made the interview quite negative rather than uplifting.
I liked her in L I. Not so much in BB. I don't think she's a bad person but she doesn't seem authentic. She knows what she's saying and doing and although I don't like that, I do respect it. As for Loughton, Loughton is very clicky no matter what your ethnicity! Facts! Stop pulling the race card! I think people might struggle to like her because maybe she seems self obsessed. Nothing wrong with that but it's very uninviting. I see her ending up with an older man. I wish her well.
This felt uncomfortable. Healthy relationships can happen from the off. Something about this didn’t sit right with me and after 30 minutes stopped. Won’t out me off Exhibit A though 🙂
I’m sorry but abbey discrediting her entire lived experience was so gross!! Especially when she highlighted it wasn’t all men but how to spot them was so spot on!
I don’t understand why she keeps talking? She does herself no favours. She’s so disconnected with who she is that she comes across as disingenuous. It all feels like an act. We’ve seen how she moves. It’s calculated. But the problem is she’s not smart enough to execute it. So she keeps having to give justifying interviews, the “poor me” and “it’s all them”.
She sounds so inexperienced and immature but weirdly so sure of herself. Abbey is a true confident woman who is naturally authentic… so contrasting sitting opposite Ekin who we really got to know in Big Brother when it was a house recorded 24/7 and other influential personalities. Can see a few narcissistic traits in her
the bit where she's talking about school about appearances and laughing at her name sounds like she's just watched My Big Fat Greek Wedding and memorised the scene where she's in school and they call moussaka moose kaka and said she was hairy and ate her lunch alone
You don’t have to believe her, but it’s important to remember that everyone, even celebs/influencers have personal experiences and bullying can have a lasting impact, especially on ones mental health. Dismissing someones story for no valid reason can be harmful. Showing empathy is better than jumping to skepticism.
I like Ekin and I think she seems like a lovely person but I still think a lot of this interview is not her real self. She speaks in cliches and riddles, contradicting herself throughout; doesn’t make sense.
Sorry Abby butt you’ve been with the same guy since you were what, 20? Which is great and I’m happy for you. But you’re not really in a position to tell anyone how to navigate long term dating etc.
sorry I don’t believe a word that comes out of her mouth. very calculated and manipulative. been that way since love island, I called it day one. she needs some serious therapy.
Totally agree, don't understand how she won LI, totally saw the same on bb. She seems very sure of herself and a bit delusional what exactly does she do😕
she's younger than she looks, born 1994. I'm from Liverpool and we had our first Starbucks when I was 18 in 2000 and presume bigger cities like London and Manchester had it earlier
Omg the interviewer interrupted her soooo many times I wanted ekin su to talk about davide more but nooo the host decides to start talking about herself and interrupting
You need to touch grass, she's literally opening up and talking about her struggles. And THATS your response? Seriously grow up. Shame on you being a bully at your age.
As a Turkish girl from London that moved to Essex in primary school, this really hit home. Super proud of her for everything she’s overcome. Brave and smart girl.
I completely agree! People don't realise what we go through as people of different ethnicity. I think she's a very courageous woman!
Abbey you have to know this, the maturity in you is vast in this interview 🙌🙏. You’re such a great interviewer, a very emotionally intelligent person, you get the best out of your guests but more importantly you help them look at themselves in due course to grow from their experience with you. You have a talent here. ❤️
Thanks for your support !!
What she said about Lovebombing omg she described it PERFECTLY! love Ekin-Su, its awful she went through that! Glad she is healing 🙏🧡 For her to be so accurate about her traumatic experiences - as a person who works in mental health I can definitely say she's not lying. Not a chance. She's genuine.
I don’t think Ekin is a horrible person I genuinely don’t think she deserves all the hate she gets and the horrible comments saying she is disingenuous. I truly believe she just has a lot of baggage and trauma that she is still working through and dealing with. Unpacking trauma and insecurities is something which takes years of therapy, self love and reflection you can’t expect someone to fix themselves within the span of a year. I think when she went on BB she clearly was not her self she was dealing with a lot mentally. We are all human let’s just be kind and considerate ❤
she’s an icon. her story is so relatable to mine during my school days. love her x
They can never make me hate you Ekin Su!! I met her in person after she won love island at the airport and she was sooo lovely ❤
I've got her book. It's SO sad to see how bullied she was. People really are cruel.
I went to high school with her. She was incredibly bullied. I’d stick up for her.
That's sad to hear. Good on you for being one of the good ones
Yes even I will stick up for her regardless, bullying is bad and is not tolerable at any cost.
High school? It’s called secondary school in England 🤔🤔
Liar
@@sr2592I live in England and call it high school?
I ADORE her she's such a babe, someone who we should all be influenced by, her strength is unbeatable and the class she maintains through her hardship is really admirable, keep shining Ekin
As a Cypriot girly that moved to England, it IS brutal and it feels so awful being different
Very expresssive, i like how she describes her emotions.
Ekin really speaks up for young people of different ethnicities that are born here. Many of us do not feel a belonging. Wish her many more successes.
It’s so nice to know others feel the same way!
Love Ekin💛 thanku for interview, I learned from it 😊
They could never make me hate u Ekin 💕
Authentic and profound words 👏👼💪
Loved this , very emotional and raw
We love you Ekin❤❤❤
As a Turkish girl I can relate to her in someways. I also grew up in Essex and kids can be mean. I still hope I never bump into the boys that called me hairy lol. I always feel like they will still be childish and say things. I’m only 24 and doubt many of my year group has grown up. My generation is very immature. Always teach your kids to be kind.
She’s a beautiful 😊❤girl inside out ❤️shame on them bullies but look at you now how far u have come ❤ your brilliant Abby at interviews 😊
erm... Is she lying? I'm listening to the book right now and she says that she went to the theatre with a friend, spotted this famous producer and, after texting her dad and him encouraging her, went over to introduce herself. Yet in this interview around 13 minutes she says that the director spotted her and asked her if she wanted to be in his play without even knowing she was an actress ??? Such an odd thing to lie about when it's literally in the book she is promoting... or did she not write her own book ??? wtf ekin
Shes bloody great got to love Ekin!!!
Lovely interview.
She completely explained love bombing perfectly
abby you are an incredible interviewer. Love both you and ekin xx
Multiple personalities this one. I don’t find her authentic at all,feels like it’s all an act
@@DesertHeat she meant she thought people wouldn't vote her, she was insecure in herself, she didn't call the viewers racists,,,!!! That's a" you "problem I think,,, don't twist her sentence to make her a "British racist" ,,,and you some sort of a victim!,,,
Saying her mum only found out about the bullying from her book.. she's done multiple interviews and talk shows saying how she was bullied 🤷♀
Her mum is Turkish so she might not know
@@kiera6678what do you mean? Why just she is Turkish she wouldn’t know? Elon’s mum speaks speaks English as well ffs
@@scruffyo4460dude, calm down!
Honestly it just feels like Ekin is telling lies. We've all had a life and we've experiences certain things. People that are struggling are struggling because they can't work out their problems. Ekin doesn't seem confused about anything. She's telling Abbey Clancy the problems when it should be the other way round. Just step back and listen Ekin mask slips a lot. I'm not saying she's horrible person because she's not, but she needs to take responsibility and stop blaming everyone else
Love watching your podcasts but the bright red screen on TV really hurts my eyes :-(
Don't believe half of it think she's very manipulative and plays her part in situations she's in .she's got multiple personalities and acts out how to behave on the situations she's in even her voice is different
I swear she sounds Australian at one point in this.
Good you know her so well, do you wash her pants as well?
You must be so fun at parties
I don’t think she knew what she was talking about, trying to talk like a therapist but none of it made sense and contradicted herself quite a few times
Gave up after 2 mins the sound keeps dropping out every few words, this might be ok on headphones but on telly it’s terrible 🙉
What a lovely girl, just keep doing what you are do.hope you get a good man in your life 😊
I feel ekin su is still playing pretend like she did when she was a young girl like the time she was pretending to be chased by paps when she was in a taxi and then the time she was encouraging hate on a love island page by leaving comments about an islander she wasn’t long taking it down when called out for it especially after the trolling she got after BB
ekin su is my princess diana x
You're obviously being sarcastic? I hope you're joking 😂
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As a Scouse Bird, Abbey what are your thoughts on Ekin wearing KITTEN HEELS!
I dont think she is healed at all, its sad to see that she is saying she is, its clear to see she is not. Alot of things didnt make sense in this. I hope your find authentic peace and the right path to heal your trauma.
didn't realise we had mind readers on this platform 🤣 How do you know she's not healed? She's managed to write a book on her hardships, which alone is hard to do if you're going through it, never mind being able to openly talk about it whilst maintaining classy and strong. I think she's definitely started her healing progress, she seems very open and honest throughout, she's smiling, laughing, talking about raw things so openly. She's not carefully trying to construct her sentences and stop herself saying things, she's just laying it all out. Obviously healing is a process, it works in stages, the first stage is recognition, then the other stages are building from that and gaining that self love back, it takes time of course, but comparing from last year to now, she's come a hell of a way so I think its rude to say this when its clear to say she has healed.
I love this podcast and thought Ekin was great on Love Island but as an interview i felt like this was uncomfortable to watch. I think Ekin has a lot of trauma that made the interview quite negative rather than uplifting.
Not everyone’s story is meant to uplift others.
Yes because she a professional victim🤷🏾♀️
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I liked her in L I. Not so much in BB. I don't think she's a bad person but she doesn't seem authentic. She knows what she's saying and doing and although I don't like that, I do respect it. As for Loughton, Loughton is very clicky no matter what your ethnicity! Facts! Stop pulling the race card! I think people might struggle to like her because maybe she seems self obsessed. Nothing wrong with that but it's very uninviting. I see her ending up with an older man. I wish her well.
This felt uncomfortable. Healthy relationships can happen from the off. Something about this didn’t sit right with me and after 30 minutes stopped. Won’t out me off Exhibit A though 🙂
I’m sorry but abbey discrediting her entire lived experience was so gross!! Especially when she highlighted it wasn’t all men but how to spot them was so spot on!
I don’t understand why she keeps talking? She does herself no favours. She’s so disconnected with who she is that she comes across as disingenuous. It all feels like an act. We’ve seen how she moves. It’s calculated. But the problem is she’s not smart enough to execute it. So she keeps having to give justifying interviews, the “poor me” and “it’s all them”.
She sounds so inexperienced and immature but weirdly so sure of herself.
Abbey is a true confident woman who is naturally authentic… so contrasting sitting opposite Ekin who we really got to know in Big Brother when it was a house recorded 24/7 and other influential personalities. Can see a few narcissistic traits in her
Definitely a histrionic personality disorder with traits of narcissism.
I don’t believe her . Sorry there something not right here
Always acts like the victim
Omg I was thinking this too
the bit where she's talking about school about appearances and laughing at her name sounds like she's just watched My Big Fat Greek Wedding and memorised the scene where she's in school and they call moussaka moose kaka and said she was hairy and ate her lunch alone
You don’t have to believe her, but it’s important to remember that everyone, even celebs/influencers have personal experiences and bullying can have a lasting impact, especially on ones mental health. Dismissing someones story for no valid reason can be harmful. Showing empathy is better than jumping to skepticism.
What exactly did you not believe?
Oh, so many adverts!
I feel this back story has came out after her performance in BB. I’m not convinced???
She's a Leo 😅 it makes sense
I like Ekin and I think she seems like a lovely person but I still think a lot of this interview is not her real self. She speaks in cliches and riddles, contradicting herself throughout; doesn’t make sense.
I want to like her so much and I did on love island but.. I get it, there is something unlikeable about her and I can’t put my finger on it..
Great interview. Middle aged Karen's in the comments hating on her again.
D***de fans ?
Her stupidity and self obsession is dangerous.
She tried her best ...
Sorry Abby butt you’ve been with the same guy since you were what, 20? Which is great and I’m happy for you. But you’re not really in a position to tell anyone how to navigate long term dating etc.
This is excruciatingly false
There is no way that year 6 kids 20 years ago had bleach blonde hair Prada shoes fake tan and designer handbags 😂😂
Exactly!!!
Must've been a posh school 😂
@@PeaceMatters5 🤣🤣
her downfall was because she was loved for the drama she was causing… its not possible to maintain that persona outside the villa
sorry I don’t believe a word that comes out of her mouth. very calculated and manipulative. been that way since love island, I called it day one. she needs some serious therapy.
You don’t know her you’ve just seen 45 minutes of an edited tv show
Totally agree, don't understand how she won LI, totally saw the same on bb. She seems very sure of herself and a bit delusional what exactly does she do😕
Pure clout
Something very fake about her
She's so lost
I didn’t have an opinion on Ekin Su but find her really disingenuous in this interview, but love Abbeys interviewing style ❤
Shes a liar Starbucks wasnt a thing when she was young !!!
starbucks was founded in 1971 but opened in the UK in 1998. Ekin Su was born in 1994 so she may be telling the truth
I don’t believe a word she says .
I’m tired of those who behave badly suddenly becoming the victim
She was really unpleasant in the BB house.
ekin was born in 1994, what u on mate
she's younger than she looks, born 1994. I'm from Liverpool and we had our first Starbucks when I was 18 in 2000 and presume bigger cities like London and Manchester had it earlier
Neither was 11yr olds wearing prada and fake tanning in the 90s 😂
Omg the interviewer interrupted her soooo many times I wanted ekin su to talk about davide more but nooo the host decides to start talking about herself and interrupting
Insecure !!!
she’s opening up about her struggles and you say that, you plant pot.
So false she really is. Probably a nice enough girl but does herself no favours, so unauthentic. Not believable or likeable at all. Ekin Who? 🥱
What is not believable? The bullying at school?
You need to touch grass, she's literally opening up and talking about her struggles. And THATS your response? Seriously grow up. Shame on you being a bully at your age.