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The guy who said … I am not happy and I don’t say it because that makes it real. That hit me.
damnn man
The reason he gave is absolutely dumb though.
@mia 🙌🙏
@mia "you have a homeless guy there... and you have wealth"
@@tossacointoyourwitcherOriginal thanks, didn't understand this phrase in the video.
I am scared to say that the only one holding me back in life is myself.
Same
Ditto
Oof damn same
Scared of yourself, screwing things up. Feel that
I am scared to say that I’ll probably never feel love.
"I'M NOT HAPPY!!"
with the happiest voice ever!
I think most of us aren’t really happy. Especially in our 20s. There’s a lot going on… a lot to get done and we’re stressed. It’s totally normal to not be happy.
I would do the same. I would feel a bit happy to be able to openly express my unhappiness, if I have a chance that is.
Depression's mask is a smile
I smile a lot, everyone I know says that im always up and hapoy and ect.. but.. I dont think I ever was REALLY happy from times I was 9yo
I mean yea. People that aren't happy tend to say stuff in a much happier fashion even if the thing isn't good, per se. At least for me. I'm speaking from experience
I’m scared to say and admit to my closest friend, my boyfriend and my family, that I feel very alone and unimportant and I have felt this way for 2-3 years now.
I am a big people pleaser, I like making other people smile or help them out. At the same time I feel a deep sadness and a sense of not belonging because no one thinks about me, texts me, calls me or asks to see me/hang out.
It makes me feel ugly and stupid and unworthy.
i totally get how u feel. but trust me ... its so important to talk about cuz if not u are just carrying all that weight with u
Dang, I feel the same
Hahaha same situation from years
And the thing I have no one friends
You are a awesome person! I have sure. Don't give up. ❤
“I’M NOT HAPPY!” Man I *FELT* that.
Yea with a smile. I'm not like happy continues to giggle
Me too
Same, I currently am but I have been there multiple times, although my current situation isn't the best I'm being "whatever happens, happens" while still looking forward to a future that I have planned and will do what I can to achieve it.
The realisation makes it hurt so much
I was like...i wish i could hug you and take that feeling away
I’m scared to be a burden to people I love when I don’t feel okay.
You are never a burden.💚
Everyone feels not okay at some point or will in the future. Just think, would you want to prop up that person you love for a while when they struggle? Then you can be certain they want to do the same.
Same... It happened that some of my close friends ghosted me /pushed me away/ complained "they had to listen to me for one hour" when I needed help. It was hard for me to be vulnerable with someone else and those reactions really traumatised me and I felt unworthy and weak, I still do.
I'm never showing it anymore if I suffer because I am convinced that people exclusively want to be around me if I'm fun /happy/interesting, but most of the time I'm just terrified of everyone.
Same! I feels like I’m a burden when I’m struggling
I can completely relate
I'm sometimes scared to say how much i actually struggle with my mental health. It is exhausting, all of it. I'm sending love and light to everyone struggling with depression, anxiety, panic disorder.. anything. Let's take it one step at a time, ok? ♥️
@@bubba283 Same.. depression just sucks the life out of you at its worst. Sending you strenght. 🙏
Thankyou. Sending love and light to you as well
Ok🥺
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Same. 🙏🙏
3:25 that girl really stood up for real wow that’s so courage’s ✊🏾
Exactly!
Sadly, it’s still happening
Palestine will be free 🇵🇸🤍
To the girl who said she felt like she was failing in every aspect of her life. You're not alone and you're not failing. At some point we all feel like we're failing in every role we play, (spouse/partner, parent, sibling, child, employee, friend,) but I promise it's only temporary. It's not how hard we fall, it's how quickly we rise. Stay strong everyone!
beautiful!
No it’s not life only gets worse
Thank you, i needed to hear this from someone
Yes. Thank you for this because I feel like I’m failing as a mother of my twins. If this pandemic didn’t happen my plan was to put my kids in daycare to have fun and play with other kids. Now we have to be careful and think twice about letting our kids in daycare for there health. Covid did a 360 on us. I don’t mind me at home with them but my spouse is military and we don’t have much places to go. We’re letting one more year go by to see what happens before we make big decisions. There 3 so by 4 hopefully the state will know what to do. And my kids understand this pandemic
Agreed, she is definitely not alone... Kudos to those who have it all together! Must be nice to luck out in life, sadly that isn't the case for everyone.
I love how thoraya loves everyone, regardless of race, color, religion
And politics. Or at least she pushes that aside. I hate how politics (both parties) divides people more than it unites. Not everyone has to share the same views or opinions but I wish we could all stop insulting eachother because we like this person or that person
@@natechenry yess exactly.
@Keora Hogan I care about people, just not their skin color or religion, or views. People are cool. (Most)
and sexuality. i love it. :)
If people knew how many people really were so tolerant when not in some kind of internet safety zone the world would be better
In person
People are nice
3:45 This woman has one of the most beautiful faces I have ever seen
The one girl who said she’s failing in everything in life, I’ve been hating myself for 15 years for failing and I’m 20. I’m so glad I’m not alone
this channel makes me love people so much more. the realization that every single person is 'human', and we humans feel. we feel SO MUCH.
watching your videos grounds me home, it gives a sense of warm acceptance and reaffirms that empathy is so strong, so important, and is present in everyone of us.
you bring us together, thank you, thoraya
I’m crying 🥺🥺🤍
I disagree. Most humans are selfish and unempathetic. If that weren't true racism and sexism wouldn't exist to the extent they do today.
@@Weird_dude265 that seems like a really sad way to live life,, there are many terrible people, especially the majority of people in power, but I feel like the average person is good at heart
@@egluvspink If the average person were "good at heart" then the world would almost be a utopia. It isn't. Most people are certifiably terrible.
@@Weird_dude265 yes, people could be selfish, and that's bc they feel. feelings are not always pretty, they are a complex blend of our perceptions, actions and their consequences.
but i do believe everyone carries empathy, the degree of which differs. we either let it grow or lose it in the quest of life.
maybe that's why people often say, one sees their life flash before they die
I get scared to show my vulnerability because I'm certain they'll use it against me
Same here 🙁
Same here 😔
Same
Feel you!
The power of vulnerability- Brene Brown (on TH-cam)
I'm scared to run into Thoraya with her camera. (I work in the park where she records many of these conversations.)
But I love her channel, the probing questions, and the candid responses.
Haha that’s so funny! But we get you!
She wouldn’t record you if you didn’t want her to!
To that person that felt telling people they’re bisexual is stupid because they don’t need much sex: no, it’s not stupid. You can never be stupid for expressing who you are. Here goes a hug for you!
I am scared to say that I am scared of men. When people ask me why I am single, I am scared to tell them the truth. Especially to a guy that is interested in me. I'm scared to tell him that it takes a long time for me to get comfortable around someone.
Saying things out loud makes them real.
"Saying things out loud makes them real"..
Wow the last one..! Feel you love
I am in my 40s and have lived through abuse as a child and as an adult. I have always been super ‘successful’ and worked in male dominated industries. I think it’s okay to be afraid of men, be cautious about who you give your mind and your body to. I think our culture normalises violence towards women from the biggest to the smallest ways and that’s not something people tell you or allow you to speak about. There’s a major collective gaslighting around women being equal partners especially when they are kind and genuine. So I do agree if you choose to be single rather and wait for a man who honours you then it’s socially isolating. I wish you the best. The right man will let you take your time and will always treat you like the gem that you are. be grateful when your body tells you it’s fearful, our body holds a lot of wisdom and when you are in a safe environment and with a man who helps to create that safe environment for you your body will know. 🥰
@@Rubylove48 thank you so much Lucy for all the love. You're right. The body does hold a lot of wisdom and I do trust mine when anxiety builds in around someone. I feel like it's my body's own way of saying 'No, this ain't your stop, run along now.'
Thanks Lucy for your kind comment. Lots of love to you too.
@@roxana4218 my pleasure. Thanks for your wishes too. ❣️🥂
I love how each person answers the same question so differently, but they’re all relatable in one way or another
I’m afraid I will never be enough, to myself and everyone around me.
I feel you.. but you already are. Hugs!
Start with yourself - be good enough that you are proud of yourself x
"I'm scared to say anything that will let people into my life." Really felt that one. For me it's more because I'm afraid they might hurt me or worse I might hurt them.
I'm scared to say that I'm very insecure: I seek achievement and external validation.
Same.
There's nothing wrong in seeking validation but first you should now even if the external situations is not your way you are still fine.❤
Same here😢
Same here..
Your not alone
To the homie who went to rehab: my heart is with you bro. I too recently went to rehab. You got this man. I got this. We got this. Much love man.
thank you so much for sharing! i am proud of you! you got this!! 💚
@@fraeuleinpolle ♥️♥️♥️ thank you so, very much.
He was very attractive
@@JimmiAlli 😎❤️ lots of beautiful humans in this video.
@@call_me_cooper you sound like a very good person Daniel. Best wishes to you. 😊
The girl who spoke about Palestine!!! I love youuu may Allah reward you.
So, you don't think what Hamas did to the INNOCENT people of Israel was 'against humankind'. Wow.
Are you that ignorant? Innocent people in Palestine suffer from 1948. The issue is bigger than Hamas. The issue is related to stealing land and killing innocent people. Do not be foolish.
@@katemoore6249Bugger off!
I love that the girl spoke up about what's happening in Palestine, and I appreciate that Thoraya left it in and used it as a thumbnail
Wish u all would've spoke up about what's happening in iran and Afghanistan and ... and I wish u guys could just stop acting like the victims and cared about people who suffer from Islamic governments too.
@@wwbd7271 for the record there is no "Islamic country/law" ever, but j do know that the conditions of these people are horrible.
@@rawan_ahmad_ there aren't any Islamic countries or law ? You either are smart and using sarcasm to say what they do isn't Islam or blind with two brain cells
@@wwbd7271 Uhhh... what's happening in Iran? Buddy. Iran's the only Muslim country actively supporting Palestine. There's nothing going on there except normal life. And suffer "from" Islamic governments? Alright, I'll play game:
Wish u all would've spoke up about what's happening in the united states too ... and I wish u guys could just stop acting like the victims and cared about people who suffer from Secular governments too.
@@YariAzQuran "There's nothing going on there except normal life" - I am guessing you are a Muslim man, otherwise you wouldn't say that.
i love how the dude who said he is not happy, wasn't not happy because of personal reasons, but because of other people's unfortunate circumstances. like he was sad about the homeless guy being homeless. and i totally get him. it's sad how much we take for granted. and the fact that we focus so much on ourselves, but when it comes to others- people think just that other people's problems are their own.
im also really sad about how some people have billions of dollars in their bank accounts, but instead of using it to build shelters for the homeless or help provide poorer countries with better education systems, they use it to buy an unnecessarily big house or fancy cars. like even if you have a fancy car that can drive super fast, you still have to obey the road rules and drive slowly.
wow, i really rambled on hey?
if you read all of this, good on you. feel free to share your opinions in the comments.
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
I wish there were more people like you in the world 🙏🏾❤️
Excellent point.
I find it a little ironic(not sure if that's the correct word) because it's not really rich people people's responsibility to make life better for the poor.
I'm not saying that that's what you're saying. I understand that you are just saying you would help if you were rich.
I would want myself to help if I was rich, but honestly idk if I actually would. Ig I need to work on me. Anyways, have a great day!
@@ashikislam232 of course the rich are not responsible for the poor. being kind, generous or giving is NOT a responsibility! It's just something that you either are from the inside or you simply are not...!
Yess, he sounds like a good guy. When I look at people who had bigger hardships than me, i feel sad thinking of them. I wonder why would they live like that? How? What happened?
I'm scared to tell people I have depression because I'm scared they'll just think I'm feeling sorry for myself and wanting attention and pity.
I'm rooting for you, i so understand you , keep pushing and trying look for the things that make you happy.
You're not alone Gina.
@@maryamhassan7060 Thank you! ❤
@@NimaRazavi Thank you. ❤
@@ginabizzarosghosts7831 Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Wish I had you as my friend in my real life.
I love this comment section: full of love and supporting messages. It is so rare in this society where people judge each other even without knowing their story.
The girl who talked about asking for help, her words hit hard cuz they're very true. I'm an under 18 teenage girl and it's already been 6 years since I've been going through depression, without letting anyone know. I feel I'd overcome it myself it just keeps getting worse. I really wish I'd be able to ask for help someday.
Whenever I feel lost, I watch Thoraya’s videos, because it reminds me of how warm and real people can actually be ❤️❤️
Same here it's really calming and soothing
🤲❤
Awwwh side note I really love your username
Reminds me that other people are also fighting a battle
Me2, no one is alone on that
Sometimes, I am scared to say that I deserve a good life and that I am good enough to be loved
Both of those things are absolutely true!
@@Elena-vd1tv thank you
You ARE deserving of a good life! You ARE deserving to be loved! Love begins with oneself. Love yourself first and know that in doing so you will attract others to love you.
@@Esmeralda-gt6uf 🤗😇yes true ty
I relate to the second guy a lot. I regret coming out and telling people about my sexuality. It’s nobody’s business and people try to put you in a box based off of that. It’s not even a big part of my life.
I'm scared to say that I really don't like being a mom. I love my Ezrah but I haven't been able to adapt to motherhood a year and a half later..
There is a reason why u have your baby even if u dont like being a mom make it the best motherhood for the baby u will do great.best of luck
@@ugandareacts1994 thank you so much for that 😊
My gran used to say motherhood is the one job if you think you are perfect at it just shows how horrible you are. Maybe you just need more help. Don't be afraid to ask for help. The 1st 3 years are the hardest. You got this.
That is pretty normal. Seriously. It is a tough gig and often glorified. Finding a postpartum counseling group might help you feel less alone.
I relate to this on so many levels, I'm a new mother and well is just very overwhelming. I love my child, but is really difficult to connect with my kid. =(
We never want to show vulnerability, but it’s the first thing we look for in others.
People are just so rediculously beautiful! I've started noticing it in Thorayas vids and now I just look at strangers in a completely different way! People probably wonder why I'm staring at them!! 😂🤣
They really are! People are beautiful up close, when we see them for who they are and not what we've been pre conditioned to believe is beautiful or right, when we focus on the words their saying and the thoughts and feelings that drive them, and when we're so close to their souls that we see the humanness before we see anything else. On that note, you're beautiful too for seeing the beauty :)
@@saramuath1579 can we be friends? I love how deep you think.
Right?? Like glowing.⭐
@@saramuath1579 thank you!
Omg was definitely thinking this the entite time.
SUCH real and excellent answers. Thank you, Thoraya.
Thank you for doing this. I am not a very confident person, and seeing all these people showing theirs, I feel a little better in myself and my ability.
The Palestinian girl is astounding. SubhanAllah.
She’s beautiful.
I love how thoroya put her on the video's photo (idk what it's called) she accepts everyone no matter what
@@Iluvmushrooms19 i'm pretty sure Thoraya is arab herself?
@@mariaelyoussif is she? I didn't know that lol
@@Iluvmushrooms19 It's called thumbnail :)
Oooo this question hits deep! I'm scared just to say I'm scared in general! People make fear just a weakness but it's so normal! Everyone is scared of something.
I’m scared of my dad dying. He’s lost a good amount of weight about 50 lbs, in just 5 months which isn’t normal and it’s one of the signs of cancer. He smokes a lot, so it could be nothing but it could also be cancer, a sudden drop in weight loss in a short amount of time. He sent his testing in and he gets the results soon. I’m scared that it will come back positive that he has cancer.
@@natechenry im so sorry, i hope the test comes back negative and your dad doesn’t have cancer. Cancer sucks and also was in my moms side of family. I will pray for your dad and your family 🧡
5:47 this girl needs to be heard, this is so true. I would have the same answer as her, our society is so judgmental based on what they personally think or based on what news the media is spreading. it’s so hard to just say something without being criticized for it, whether it’s politics, your religion, personal likings, or whatever. man, I get her
3:26 my fav!! It's soo true in every sense of the word.
I'm afraid of having nothing to say. I'm afraid of silence, the unconfortable silence that comes from nothing to say....
Same
I'm the opposite. I'm afraid of saying things. I feel like I'm horrible with words and I'm being judged or looked at negatively. I like awkward silence. Perfect timing to do something silly. 🙂
Being anything other than straight doesn’t need to involve sex! To the individual that doesn’t have sex revolving around his life and afraid to say he’s bisexual, I feel this. My libido is very low but I still am attracted and would love to date women. Sex has NOTHING to do with how you feel towards a person no matter what gender. If you love them you love them. You don’t have to have sex to be intimate.
Jesus loves you
He might be bi romantic asexual... He's still very very valid and this is not me forcing a label on him, just that what he said is exactly what I feel about me too
@@tanie3543 I can see that. His words were “I don’t need sex in my life a lot”. Meaning he enjoys it he just doesn’t need it all the time or as often as the normal person. That doesn’t mean asexual but you’re completely valid as well.
It just means he just wants to be independent his whole life and there's no point in people knowing his sexuality. It's useless to tell people when you don't plan on dating or marrying.
@@David.124 Ofcourse, He loves all of humanity
This is precious! Makes you realize how at the end we are all equal even if different. Empathy is a feeling through which we can discover not only the others but also ourselves
3:54 YESSS SISTER SAY IT LOUDER! 🇵🇸🇵🇸❤
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I was never really athletic, but I always liked to play basketball because I was tall. I remember one day I was shooting hoops and I missed a few, and I looked over at my friends and they were whispering and laughing at me. I cried in the shower that night. I have never told anyone that, so yeah.
Because I wasn’t very good at it
I am sorry to hear that! But remember everyone is good at something.
i’m sorry. screw those “friends”. Also if that’s your basset, they are stunning!!!
It is my basset hound his name is moe! Also, I forgave them. Me and one of the ones that laughed at me have actually become really good friends.
*huggle*
To the sweet lady who said she’s scared to say she’s Christian, people will see the love of Jesus in you even during your silence. Please don’t be afraid to speak out; it’s something to be proud of. Walk in faith 💕
I identify with her totally
Me too, somehow this subject is always sensitive.
I thought her main point was that she's not comfortable with the assumptions people make when they hear a label. Labels mean different things to different people.
I've had similar experiences for saying I'm not religious.
I think Christians have given themselves a bad rap due to their judgemental attitude and conservatism. I really don’t think Jesus hates gays but Christians do.
As a non-religious person i fully support your faith and will fight to protect your right to practice it.
Just dont threaten me with hell or try to make me miserable for my own faith (atheism is the belief in the non-existence of a higher deity, so its still faith just inverse).
Assholes exist in every sector, but those will always find something to criticise you for and their opinions dont matter. Theyre lost souls and they should be left alone to find their way.
Metaphor: if you think wearing a pink shirt makes you gay, the issue is not the shirt
Your videos are very eye opening. It kinda peeks into people’s lives and minds and helps me understand people to a greater degree than I do. Everyone(even animals) are going through something and our behaviors reflect that too. Very intriguing.
I love videos like these! I love how people finally can be there self and say what they always wanted to say. That’s why i love this channel because people can show who they truly are.
I'm scared to admit I genuinely hate my life and I have since I was a child. Anything significant that's ever happened to me, I remember vividly and I have memories all the way back to age 2. About 93% of it is pain, loss, grief and staying strong. I've been exhausted for a long time.
That actually feels kinda good
Hey man.. yes, it does feel good. I really really hope you get better though :) stay strong..
You're not alone and you actually haven't done anything wrong, you were a child, innocent ,naive and powerless, you literally couldn't do anything, i don't think you should blame that innocent child who had NO power/control. That child needs to be loved and cared for, protected and forgiven. What can we do now i think that's more important, WE Can't change our past but we can change today and tomorrow's.
You're not alone, I have the same experience. I'm rooting for you and I'll pray for you.
Hang in there ,things will change, circumstances will change,
You're great, you're awesome, you can do whatever you wanna do in this life. 💕
Talking about it is so important, find loved ones, therapist, call a number, or random strangers on the net and let it out.
Hugs
I feel this too
This channel has made me realize that all of us are scared of other people's opinions in one way or another, and that we're all struggling with our demons and feeling alone in that. These days it's getting harder and harder to really feel seen and heard and to belong. Thoraya, thank you for making us feel less alone.
These videos of Thoraya, I love them. Once in a while I get to see them, and they make me emotional, but also are motivational. Knowing that every single human has their own struggles...
Definitely a good addition to a morning routine. Your videos brighten my day so much! Taking a peek into other people's lives really helps you reflect on your own. Love watching and leaving with a new perspective after each video! Your work is something beautiful Thoraya!
Im scared to let people know that Im actually not strong (im a coward), that I have no real plan for life and that I probably do need help but I dont want to burden anyone because I have always been the person to help other people but I feel too guilty and bad for letting other people take on my burdens for me...
I felt this
You rlly put it into wordss
Most people don't have a plan for life. I'm not saying it's a good thing, just saying it's actually normal.
We are Human "beings", not Human "doings". Allow yourself the space to just "be" & experience life as it unfolds for you. Don't put so much pressure on yourself, enjoy the journey...& the process! 🤗💜
@@ren8240 nice one A!
I'm afraid to say, that as a 70 year old gay man, I have no idea what's going on with me right now. My husband of 21 years recently died, three days later the vet said our dog has inoperable liver cancer, all my friends live out of state and I'm just going through the motions of trying to be human and maintain self control because if I can't, what happens?
People are going to leave. They dont hace a choice. And I know it stinks. Its the worst feeling in the world. But we cannot go through this alone. Dont keep thsi to yourself
Keep going forward brother, find the joy in life that allows you to just take a moment and say yes, this is something that makes me happy, I matter, my feelings matter, there is good and there is bad and both are equally important in my development. Not all that is good will last and not all that is bad will either, but appreciate both and know it is the course of life . I hope you feel more positive soon.
Big hugs!!!
Go to Jesus, He cares. He says you should cast your burdens on Him, Whatever your going through, He sees it and He loves you. That’s why He died for you. He knows we can’t do anything ourselves and need a Savior to come set us free. He wants you to be free and know Him and be saved forever. By being raised from the grave by God, He conquered death and sickness and everything horrible, including depression and other bad feelings. Please trust in Him love!
And if any Christian has said anything that Jesus would not approve of like “go burn”, “your going to hell”, or any rude name, please know that on behalf of them, I’m sorry. Jesus Christ loves you and he is against hate. That doesn’t mean a sin is not a sin, but that means Jesus wants everyone to show the love of Him to everyone.
“He was delivered over to death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification.”
Romans 4:25 NIV
@@obehi526 Sorry. I don't believe one word of that. If it gives you comfort, I'm happy for you but for me I think the whole religion thing is nothing more than brainwashing and fear mongering to get people to comply and get their money. But that you for your concern.
How you get people to be so honest is beyond me, you really have gift and way with people, great video.
i absolutely love these please never stop making them
everyone is so beautiful when they are close up.
in my family we dont share emotions a lot so ur videos are giving me what im missing
I’m sorry that you have to go trough that.
Just know when you’re an adult you can share your emotions with whom you want.
I feel you
Oh my gosh I relate so much to the second person about bisexuality. I dont identify with it because I also feel like its not a part of my personality, nor is sexuality a huge or even important part of my life! Gosh, it was nice to hear someone have similar thoughts to me when I felt like i was the only one with this weird paradox within me.
New viewer to your channel! Love it!
I've secretly questioned my sexuality for years alone
I admire this brave and beautiful people, telling the truth about their flaws. They are heroes! Thanks for sharing. It feels good to see that there are honest people out there, real people.
To everyone: you don't have to "be" happy all the time to feel happy. Happiness is a feeling. What you should be is content.
There are no shoulds really.
@@cv5686 sorry I may have worded it wrong but yes that's not what I meant
No one can possibly feel happy all the time! And that's okay. We are all emotional beings and all emotions have worth and value. Yes, even anger. Anger can be a great motivator.
@@cv5686 I agree. No shoulds, no musts, no have tos. We are not slaves.
“I’m not happy” that hit me hard
I think this has been one of my favourite questions you ever asked and favourite responses, especially the ones that weren't sure if what ther were saying even made sense, I was actually really impressed by people's ability to so beautifully express themselves and how they felt cos it's a really hard thing to do.. so proud of every one of you that felt so terrified but still did it anyways 🙌🏾
But yh this made me reflect cos recently I've finally felt able to start looking into and face my darkness, feel through it so I can process and finally release it. Scary af, painful af, intense af but so liberating and strengthening as fuuuuckkk.. being able to let go and surrender going through the depths of the darkness (as opposed to spiralling down out of control into it) and reaching the light.. ah I'm so grateful I've been able to begin this healing process/journey. Thank you for asking this question Thoraya! I've been running from all of these more difficult experiences of coming into myself and aligning with my spirituality, and your videos are great way of feeling connected to people, they way you film is so personal.. ah thank you cos I don't always wanna be around people but connection is so important rn so yeah I'm just grateful for the work you do, it's so impactful, don't know how many lives you've impacted but girl keep doing all you're doing, would love to get to see and know more about the beautiful soul behind the camera (like when you spoke with Sarah and she asked you q's and did some work with you - it was so beautiful and i just remembered how connected if felt to you and your emotions in that video, as I was watching and doing the tapping along with you I could see on your face how I was feeling inside.. AHH anyways looking forward to seeing your other channel 👌🏾❤️
You hit on to something here. It's a gem! Men in particular, don't get to unload their dreams and fears much. You doing this gives them an open opportunity to unload. I love what you're doing!
“Bravery is being afraid and doing it anyways.”
Such a great video! So powerful. 💛
As seen in this video, most people are scared of sharing their interests and what they care about or what matters to them. This video is extremely comforting to me as I have always been afraid to share what I like. Probably because I hate the idea of having to defend my interests. For example, when I tell I prefer old songs as opposed to modern hits. I have to further defend my interests saying why I think they are better and why I like them. And yet, they are not considered valid as they are not mainstream or aliging with their intersts.
I should not have to defend my interests as long as they don't disrespect others. No one should have to defend. So it is sad how people do not just accept and resort to mockery.
I cannot agree more with this. Many things I enjoy have horrible stigma behind it for one reason or another, and I hate having to explain myself. Why should I be sharing something that just gives another reason for someone to judge me based off of? Why is that something I should even be worrying about at all? It’s frustrating.
@@mikabugg I agree it is incredibly frustrating!
That's because people will use what you really want against you.. generally
@A heart named Lee This is such a simple sentence and yet it is so comforting to hear/read!
@@DivaDivine88 Yes, most of the time :(
Every act of vulnerability that helps other people to feel less alone in this world is heroic. Thanks for bringing us all together Thoraya
Also, to the guy who is bisexual but doesn't have sex as an important part of his life, thank you so much for sharing. I think you helped me to heal a little bit on the inside
Seriously , thank you so so much for this channel. Thanks. 🤜🤛
I'm scared to say that I don't have faith in humanity.
lol
u just have to find a hero.
focus on what's good.
support that.
Be the person that would garner that faith in yourself for others. It only takes one and it starts with you.
Watchdominion.com
I watch this to regain faith in humanity
Neither do i
Thoraya, I just gotta say, you're amazing. You have a gift...where people feel comfortable enough with you that they tell you all their deepest most vulnerable secrets. I would love to meet you someday.
I love how you portrait strangers in close up. It's very intimate, just like the answers they so bravely give. Everyone is so beautiful in their own way!
You’re a blessing Thoraya.
7:42 i can relate to that.. It's such a weird feeling rejecting someone when they ask me to do something for them.. I feel like i have to say yes or else I'll a terrible and a mean person
Saaaammee!! And recently I realized how if I ask my cousin something she will sometimes say "no sorry Im (insert something) right now" but if someone asks me something I feel like I dont have a good enough reason to say no.
Like it physically hurts me to try to say no. Though Im getting a tiny bit better at it.
I think I have been traumatized by my best friend (well how she was in the past) because she would react so badly to hearing no.
"Let go to the mall!"
Me: "I dont feel like it..."
"Why not, are you busy? You don't have a class or anything."
Me: "Yeah Im free but I dont feel like going."
"If you dont want to hang out with me just say it, you don't have to make up excuses."
Me: "...No no its not about you, fine lets just go."
And stuff like that just made me scared to say no to her and it still effects me today even though she has grown up since then and doesnt do this anymore.
Don't feel like sad sometimes you can't do it and that's ok ....a real friend would understand
It just takes practice saying "no" and it's not selfish in most circumstances. Saying "no" when your need to is part of building healthy relationships and growing both your inner strength and self-esteem.
@@princessalia6 "but if someone asks me something I feel like I dont have a good enough reason to say no."
- this sentence is so true. You are at least not alone because i know people who have similiar thoughts. From an outer perspective i just can say your reasons are important too. But i know from my own problems, it's hard to talk about these thoughts openly. [i deleted my other story because i read your e.g. dialogue after that. I really wish that your friends will be more mindful in the future. I know it feels very pressuring a lot of times if friends act like that, daring and stuff.]
@@maximilian2843 Thank you that means a lot. You're right, I know I should value things I want to do for myself. Like I get all the things I have to do get done and as Im about to rest and like maybe paint my nails, do some drawing/painting or practice something else I want to do, and someone asks me to do something (like babysit a baby, help them do something, etc). I feel like my "fun" or "leisure time" is less important than someone that has to do something important. Hence I end up saying yes to everyone and get too tired to do anything I want. My mom gets really frustrated that I let people "walk all over" me or use me. But I say at least I can sleep peacfully at night knowing I havent done anything wrong on my part.
Though slowly I'm getting too tired of this and I've been slowly but surely improving in saying no when I want to.
Sorry for my rant, I wish you a healthy, happy, long and successful life!
I am scared to say that I'm afraid of being myself so I put on different masks to blend in with the world. I'm afraid that I won't be accepted if i be myself.
Don’t be. LOVE WHO YOU ARE! YOU ARE AN AWESOME HUMAN BEING!!
You just described me
@@bassethoundblooze8778 Thank you🥺
Thank you Thoraya . You are doing a great job!
Its funny how the most nurturing thing in life is love and yet the most common commentary is that of I dont really know what love is. The world is in need of love and accepting the imprtance of sharing it.
The guy who made up the adding ingredients analogy really hit home because it’s so true, asking one question or saying one thing brings about uneasy waters.
3:29 yes queen !! Raise your voice against the injustices happening in the world ! Palestiniens have been suffering for so many years and no one seems to care it breaks my heart
The Hamas starting wars? Making the Jews fight back because if they don’t , they’ll kill all the Jews? That injustice ?!
@@thecolorfulgecko2200 maybe if the Zionist didn't envade their homes and ethnicly cleanse them they would never attack...if I come to ur house and try to dragg u out of it ofcours ur not going to blow kisses and give me roses..ur gonna fight so ur home won't be Taken away from u ..
@@thecolorfulgecko2200 Nice try love but hamas was created 34 years ago in 1987 while Palestine have been occupied illegally and forcefully since 1948 . Do the maths
@@thecolorfulgecko2200 Hamas shouldn't be 'get out of jail free' card excuse for killing children, how can the 'most sophisticated' army in the world do this?
And look at the imbalance
It's a joke
@@thecolorfulgecko2200 it must be zionists liking your evil narcissistic comment. I hope they'll do to you what they're doing to muslims.
I love what you do in these videos; you are a gift to the world!
Thank you so much for sharing this! “Failure” “disappointment” “inferior” … why on earth did human beings invent “value”?!
@3:32 she’s stunning!
Congratulations to the guy who is working on his sobriety! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
She should be a model wtf
@@iAmNothingness I agree . She’s so beautiful mashallah ❤️
I'm scared to say when I am in a dark place ( anxiety, depression..) yeh. But learning to express that more.
That is good. Stay strong you are doing so well!
I love your channel and work. It’s so meaningful! Thank you. ❤️
To the guy that doesn´t need to have sex as we are been told and is very independent that doesn´t need a relationship: Always have that courage to be who you are, regardless what we are taught to be or feel. I really relate to your words and I am glad to know there are more like me spread around!
Same. I really felt what he said and am glad that I‘m not alone with these feelings.
Im muslim and im scared what i have done in a bad(sin) ways.May Allah guide us, InshaAllah Aamiin
I'm afraid of being lonely, I feel like there'll be a point in my life that I'll be all alone and there will be no one beside me. I don't even stay in my room for this reason. I'm always hanging out downstairs even tho I don't talk to my family lol
Life is so unpredictable, you'll most likely not be alone forever. Especially since that is something you really don't want, you'll be open to loving friendships and find love.
This might not make sense for a while longer, but the person who will always be beside you and there for you is You.
Learn to appreciate you and build up the relationship you can rely on.
💗
I feel like I’m kinda great full that I was lonely when I was younger because it really helped me not rely on others and be more independent and what I’m saying is that loneliness isn’t always a bad thing,you’ll always have yourself at then end and that’s all that matters(at least to me)
@@Ivy_alvarez i love being alone, but I hate feeling lonely. Even though im not alone i can feel lonely and sometimes i dont feel lonely when im all alone.. so i dont know whats wrong with me lol
OH MY GOSH THESE PEOPLE ARE SO GORGEOUS these videos are so so interesting too!!!!!!
3:20 Omg yes this is so important and it really warmed my heart!!
I love this concept of letting people share their feelings and allowing them to open up. I would much rather open up and share my feelings/fears with a stranger. It’s like therapy with a stranger, I feel no judgment. I never miss a post on this channel or on her podcast.💕 keep up the awesome videos Thoraya. ✌🏻💕
0:42 I FEEL THE SAME. People are so in sex and made this their personality, the only topic to talk about... Only 4 friends know I'm Bisexual and I don't want to talk about it. Just live
Yes! So many people in society have made sexual orientation/gender/the amount of sex they have their entire identity. I'm fine with you if you're cis or anywhere on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, but please develop an actual personality so I can actually enjoy being around you.
You might want to look into asexuality!! Just a suggestion ahaha... I am panromantic asexual
@@tanie3543 yeah, i already think about that.
TM...every time I watch one of your videos it's like mini-therapy for me. Thank you so much for what you do.
Thank you Thoraya for your great work- I love that you interview such a diverse group of all ages- especially the younger generation- I am 56 and witness to the cruel speed at which time travels- for the young to have courage to speak and give courage to others- so that their lives have quality and meaning- what so many are searching for-you are leaving a legacy for us all to love and live by- thank you dearly
I love this channel so much, it just captures emotions in such a beautiful way
Same!!
I am scared to 'be true' and to 'tell the truth'. I feel like I always lie to people around me, so to be seen as, maybe, good, loving, kind, sweet, or just to fit in, etc. I tell myself that I lie for good reasons, hence, I always lie and I am scared to tell the truth and to be true, because I always lie to myself.
Hi Thoraya, can you please make a video where you tell us about the process that goes behind your filmmaking, 'behind the scenes.'
These videos give me a new love for people every time. Man, I f****** love people, they're so cute 😤
The Christian girl.. I understand her so well.
How are you going when it comes to Faith
I pray you find the courage to say you are a Christian😮
I’m scared to say no. I fear people will abandon me if I don’t do what they want.
Same.
I've been missing your rich content. Thanks for posting again 🙂
I feel blessed to be in the place i am now, mentally. I did not think this many people are hiding behind things they are scared of. You just have to face your fears head-on with courage. It's not easy, but after facing several fears you will feel a great sense of peace and newfound confidence.
I appreciate these videos so much. Thanks for all you do Thoraya!! 🧡💕
your background reminds me of an album cover I l know :)