I knew a sister who her ex husband used to beat her cold and blue he would go and commit Zina while she was like a slave in that home and he would beat their 1 year old son at the time very badly the child had severe speech difficulties and he would scream in his sleep. The sister ended up in hospital with her face all puffy when her family found out what the husband was doing to her they got the Sheikh involved and the Sheikh divorced her from her husband without returning the Mahr she sold the Mahr to feed her son. Now she is in good health and her son is good.
i believe that's called "Faskh" cancelling the marriage, and that can be done by an Muslim Judge and in that case the woman doesn't need to pay the mahr back.
Answer Sheikh gave is , she must pay the fidya even if she doesnt have it right now, she should pay it in the future. And this is not about abusive relationships .. then the ruling is different. We are talking about a man who is fulfulling his rights but the wife decides to leave.
She only has to return the mahr if he’s fulfilling her rights and doing all that he can for but she ends up losing attraction to him or some of the like that isn’t in his control she doesn’t have to return the mahr if he isn’t fulfilling her rights and she wants the divorce.
@Sidemen charity match Yeah. I know that. That's why mohor can be return if he didn't enjoy her....if he did, how could he take mohor the gift to women, take back!! A man enjoyed his wife (without her wanting for ...) for 8 years and gave mohor little by little every month meanwhile he earned way more money. He got legality by her and giving little by little; as mohor was ending, his and his mother's rudeness went way too injustice. She had to buy her own foods. Then she decided to leave him and give him talak...what she is going to do? Give all mohor back! In my opinion, it's not nice and sounds like women are property, return money if not satisfied. Even property has time limit to return money back! I know, Islam is not like that. "women are like your garden. Use as you like" .... well, guess what, not all gardeners are great caretakers and some gardens fall apart.
@Sidemen charity match "Use him" well, he also got the amused! Nowadays, divorce is a must....well, I guess women should marry without mohor cause how she will pay later. (She will use it). Well, we should not take nor pay mohor cause divorce is a must sometimes. No trouble for later.
Wrong information,,,,,,if husband is not giving rights to her ,,then only mehar will be return,,,if husband giving all rights then ,,,,,woman have return mehar ,gifts and all other marriage expense,,, because husband is not stupid he spend money oh her ,,and she taking divorce and taking every things with her
I've yet to see a single sheikh who said the gifts and other marriage expenses need to be returned. That is plain stupid but oh well, you are the greatest sheikh out there so ig we need to believe you
@@muzzammilkamran5948 if the gifts were a part of the mahr, then yes. But whatever he gifted her afterwards, and all the expenses he made on her later on, those don't need to be returned.
@@zara-he3jh I just said men is not stupid who give gifts,,not able to take back in condition of khula,,,,,just use common sense that literally u don't have,,,,,gifts is given to woman because she live with her whole life,but husband is 100 perfect but wife want divorce then mahar and gifts all things should be returned,,because it will injustice with husband,,know it doesn't matter gifts is part of maher or not,,,nd if u watch whole video,then see last part again,,,he himself said husband can take gifts back too .
@@muzzammilkamran5948 I'm afraid I can not understand what you are trying to say here. But what sheikh meant here is gifts that husband had paid as mahr
I knew a sister who her ex husband used to beat her cold and blue he would go and commit Zina while she was like a slave in that home and he would beat their 1 year old son at the time very badly the child had severe speech difficulties and he would scream in his sleep. The sister ended up in hospital with her face all puffy when her family found out what the husband was doing to her they got the Sheikh involved and the Sheikh divorced her from her husband without returning the Mahr she sold the Mahr to feed her son. Now she is in good health and her son is good.
Yes, because the husband is wrong in this case and that's why she won't have to return the mehr.
i believe that's called "Faskh" cancelling the marriage, and that can be done by an Muslim Judge and in that case the woman doesn't need to pay the mahr back.
May Allah grant her better judgement in choosing a husband and bless her with someone better
Answer Sheikh gave is , she must pay the fidya even if she doesnt have it right now, she should pay it in the future. And this is not about abusive relationships .. then the ruling is different. We are talking about a man who is fulfulling his rights but the wife decides to leave.
He also said if the husband agrees on the fact that he doesn't need the money then she doesn't need to do so
Return mohor if she divorced! Whaaaattttt! It’s a gift to women. He used her! How come she has to return….If touched by him! It’s a gift to women!
She only has to return the mahr if he’s fulfilling her rights and doing all that he can for but she ends up losing attraction to him or some of the like that isn’t in his control she doesn’t have to return the mahr if he isn’t fulfilling her rights and she wants the divorce.
@@anasdore259 She returns mohor if he didn’t touch her and divorced happens. Well, women are not things that says return if not satisfied!
I see I was just going based off what I understood from the Sheikh, Barkallah feek though.
@Sidemen charity match Yeah. I know that. That's why mohor can be return if he didn't enjoy her....if he did, how could he take mohor the gift to women, take back!!
A man enjoyed his wife (without her wanting for ...) for 8 years and gave mohor little by little every month meanwhile he earned way more money. He got legality by her and giving little by little; as mohor was ending, his and his mother's rudeness went way too injustice. She had to buy her own foods. Then she decided to leave him and give him talak...what she is going to do? Give all mohor back! In my opinion, it's not nice and sounds like women are property, return money if not satisfied. Even property has time limit to return money back!
I know, Islam is not like that.
"women are like your garden. Use as you like" .... well, guess what, not all gardeners are great caretakers and some gardens fall apart.
@Sidemen charity match "Use him" well, he also got the amused! Nowadays, divorce is a must....well, I guess women should marry without mohor cause how she will pay later. (She will use it). Well, we should not take nor pay mohor cause divorce is a must sometimes. No trouble for later.
Ya sheikh you didn't answer the question.
Man didn't answer the question
i think you didn't hear his answer
did you stop listening after the first 10 seconds or something?
Does this apply for gifts too
No
yes same ruling in gifts and in marriage expense u stupid
@@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856yes same ruling applying on gifts and marriage expenses, as well u stupid
Does this include gifts that weren’t part of the major
No.
No
@@lildum6988yes gifts and marriage expense also include u stupid
But what if the man is mean or selfish? Does a woman then also have to return mahr?
Its just an what if question. Its not my situation 🙈
To be clear.
Mean or selfish? May god forgive you
It's in case if a wife gives divorce to husband not in the case if husband gives divorce to wife.
What if I don’t have all the gifts
If he forgives you and say I don’t want it so it’s okey and if you have the meher give him back 😅
Wrong information,,,,,,if husband is not giving rights to her ,,then only mehar will be return,,,if husband giving all rights then ,,,,,woman have return mehar ,gifts and all other marriage expense,,, because husband is not stupid he spend money oh her ,,and she taking divorce and taking every things with her
I've yet to see a single sheikh who said the gifts and other marriage expenses need to be returned. That is plain stupid but oh well, you are the greatest sheikh out there so ig we need to believe you
@@zara-he3jh I don't know what u r saying ,but in case Khula maher ,,gifts r need to returned
@@muzzammilkamran5948 if the gifts were a part of the mahr, then yes. But whatever he gifted her afterwards, and all the expenses he made on her later on, those don't need to be returned.
@@zara-he3jh I just said men is not stupid who give gifts,,not able to take back in condition of khula,,,,,just use common sense that literally u don't have,,,,,gifts is given to woman because she live with her whole life,but husband is 100 perfect but wife want divorce then mahar and gifts all things should be returned,,because it will injustice with husband,,know it doesn't matter gifts is part of maher or not,,,nd if u watch whole video,then see last part again,,,he himself said husband can take gifts back too .
@@muzzammilkamran5948 I'm afraid I can not understand what you are trying to say here. But what sheikh meant here is gifts that husband had paid as mahr