Is Mayonnaise A Gender? | Transphobic Memes
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- The transphobes still can't meme, and this time they're going for the dinosaurs.
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I'll be honest here, I'm not trans but members of my family are highly transphobic and it really hurts me knowing that their love for me is conditional even though I'm not trans
@@junehatter8479 That's not what they meant at all.
@@junehatter8479 I think op meant that their family being transphobic made them realize that their love for them is conditional
Same
Yeah, some people are so set in their ways of thinking they can't adjust to other variations of life, must be scary to constantly have to keep such a construct from crumbling.
@@firasjemil213 I think you don’t understand what *ACTUAL* mutilation is. If you’re so invested, perhaps look into FGM in Africa. There’s a lot more things to worry about than people finally being comfortable as who they are
I, a trans man am very much out of control, chaotic and unruly, but that is only because I was left unsupervised in the glitter department with money. Bonus, I can now send glitter packages to transphobes
Just make sure you get the biodegradable stuff!
@@littlebitofhope1489 yeah we don't wanna make the planet "sad" only the transphobes :)
Don't ask why, but now I'm just imagining the classic cowboy walking into a saloon while everyone else stares quietly, but he's just covered in glitter, with clouds of glitter falling on the ground with each step.
@@rosiekittengirl760 i- that would be a good intro for a movie?
@@littlebitofhope1489 ofc. There was a sale on biodegradable glitter and because I'm the best Uncle, I bought them all to make bath bombs with my niece. Got to start them young in the ways of chaos.
I would like to share that on women's day, JKR made a terf tweet as expected and someone replied "Oh my god, SHUT UP" which got more likes and replies than the original tweet lmao
Pretty sure that was our queen Tinashe 👑
@@Swordprincess777 lol 😆
cant imagine how great it must be to ratio the big transphobe herself
Lmao ratio
got absolutely ratioed
It cost literally nothing of us as cisfolk to not be transphobic yet so many struggle to do just that 😮💨
Imagine being so preoccupied with other people’s lives when they aren’t inconveniencing you in anyway. Heck, I’d argue it actually benefits everyone to support the Rights of Others, at which point, in your idiotic hatred, fear and ignorance you are also hurting yourself, others and probably going to Hell. This is a net loss for everyone.
EDIT: Yes, I agree with OP
As a trans woman who grew up in the 90s, it can be hard to crush that internalized transphobia too. We appreciate all that our cis allies can do! These lyrics from "Fortunate Sun" really speak to me about the imperfect nature of progress:
"I’ve done a lot of violence to people in my space
Been a solipsist, been misogynist, been a fake
Been an insecure asshole and immature blank
Been broke, broke boundaries, and been a thin mate
Been a rich kid talking over people who ain’t
I been a simp, played the fool to a king of the snakes
I been a goddamn tool of the systems in place
But I’m not gonna give up and break
Listen - I’m not a good person cause I’ve never caused a hurt
And I’ve never had to force myself to change
I’m a good person cause I work and I work and I work and I work
To find a better way
So I will die trying to make this dark world a little brighter
I will build, I will fight, I will pray
I will walk, I will knock, I will write, I will love, I will hate, I will hope
If that’s what it’s gon' take"
@@samuelbarber6177 i think you read the comment wrong
I can say it's not as easy for all of us, but that was really no reason to not try. Just cause i didn't understand, doesn't mean it's wrong.
Foreign! It’s so cool to see you here!
As a cis guy, your channel has really helped me understand some of the issues that trans people face. So much so that I grew really close to my cousin, who recently came out as trans. I am really grateful for Jamie and his awesome community for enabling me to become my cousins own personal ally. Thank you all so much for that.
Good job educating yourself! *high fives*
Bless your soul
this is so sweet! i wish more people were like you :)
You’re an awesome dude :)
Ur amazing!
the "people have periods" one is especially bizarre to me. like the way they refuse and insist that WOMEN have periods makes wonder if they realize how close they are to implying that women aren't people.
i have to say, i did wonder if he was gonna comment on that. like i think that post was the closest i've ever seen skating towards that line
@@sandwichbreath0 I don't disagree with statements like "females have periods." It's not something I worry about. However ... if someone said "people have periods" it's also accurate. I'm not for policing language in any way. The truth is, if you're trying ot only include people who have periods in your statement ... there is nothing better than "people with periods." Not all women have periods, even including cis women. They could have been through menopause, as the common example. You're going to have to get really specific to say which group has it and which doesn't ... which I would agree isn't always needed.
However, if someone wants to say "people with periods face xyz" I don't see anything wrong with that. If someone wants to say "women with periods face xyz" I also don't see a problem with that. People arguing that language should be policed are people I don't understand, no matter which direction they're arguing for. As I pointed out in this comment, people arguing that we should be using women or female come across as thinking women aren't people. On the other side, it comes across as being pedantic at best and minimizing struggles others face at worst. Neither is ideal. So just ... let people speak how they want? Like that's the best solution imo.
@@connorh6718 What I don't understand is why they are so mad that someone else is using an expression to indicate something accurate that they personally don't like. You don't like it, don't use it... But be aware that what you saying is either factually wrong or inaccurate.
"Females have periods" is not correct, since the term females include all animals, including those that do not have periods.
"Human females have periods" is still biologically ambiguous and a false generalization.
"Some members of the Homo Sapiens Sapiens species that are biologically female have periods" is once again a false generalization and medically non complete.
"Some members of the Homo Sapiens Sapiens species that are biologically female and/or with DSD (intersex people), regardless of their gender identity, can have periods in some parts of their lifes" would be the best option...
Why are we not using that? Because it is effing ridiculous.
"People with periods" is a way to not sound like an effing clown.
In my language (Italian), which is extremely trans-erasing to begin with since we do not have a gender neutral terminology, we anyway manage to use this expression because it is correct; which leads me to believe that it is not just a problem with transgender people, they are simply ignorant.
transphobes don't care about including everyone who should be included; they just care about excluding trans people.
I mean I understand what you mean. But by saying women have periods you’re (sometimes unknowingly) invalidating trans mens (ftm) experience as people with periods.
It also invalidates people who are bioligically women but do not identify as women (genderfluid, NB, etc..)
To include everyone who doesn’t identify as a woman, people with periods is the best option. By saying that we don’t mean women aren’t people, we are saying that beside people who identify as women can also have their periods.
I hope I’m not too harsh sounding (english is not my first language).
In the words of a great trans man: ‘dinosaurs are cool transphobia is not’
Do you mean you're a dinosaur?
Ps: I don't wanna imply anything, just teasing at that spelling error.
as a trans guy, i can say that dinosaurs are very cool and good 🦖✌🏻
I hardly ever wear a dress anymore. but i have one left in my closet. it's a satin-y one with very bright colored dinosaurs on it.
@@Omneyvdwatering does it fit?
People don’t realise that Gramatically Gender-Neutral Languages can actually be a safe space for Enby and Trans Persons. I never realised carving out an identity was offensive. Only goes to show how the world will not change.
Oh, they do realize. They don't want non cis people to feel safe.
My native language doesn't have gendered pronouns, which leads my parents misgendering people every now and then. The natives would laugh it off, as everyone knows it's an honest mistake
@@v3ru586
this is so relatable 😩
@@v3ru586 my language is the exact opposite🙈 evrything is gendered... from articles, to nouns, to adjectives and pronouns... it's a mess
Edit: and there's no neutral pronouns either
My native language, Finnish, does not have gendered pronouns. Every person in third person singular is simply "hän". In my opinion it makes everything so much smoother. You can't misgender anyone by using a pronoun, intentionally or unintentionally. Add to it that we also generally go by first names and when we use last names, using titles like Mr/Ms/Mx is very rare. When I'm speaking Finnish, I don't need to know a person's gender to address them or talk about them in third person. I think it creates a bit of a linguistic safe space for everyone - not just enby and trans people, but also cis people (including the silly ones who throw a hissy fit when they get requested to use certain pronouns).
The world does change, constantly. That's what makes some of these silly people so uncomfortable.
The irony of the "my generation had Wonder Woman" is that Lynda Carter is incredibly supportive of trans rights as well as a host of other wonderful causes. Wonder Woman thinks transphobes should shut up, basically.
The puppy/kitten thing is really revealing, because it shows that a lot of these whackadoos really DO think of men and women as essentially different species. Which is... uncomfortable.
seriously it pisses me off, can they really not see the difference between sex or gender and _species?_
The only argument they have is ridiculous comparison.
@@mjamin9124 No. No they can't see the difference.
They also can't see the difference between gender and sexuality, which is why transphobes always use repackaged homophobia with a few words switched.
They don't think of men and women as different species, but they do recognise that there are differences between puppies and kittens and there are differences between men and women. Whilst the differences may not be the same, the fact that these differences do exist is the basis for the analogy.
@@Em-Bee yeah but it is still a bad analogy
In Germany, we recently had a particularly infuriating incident in the parliament regarding trans women members. We have two now, since last year. Now a popular politician from the conservative/right-wing/bigotry party that emerged during the "refugee crisis" held a speech in parliament just attacking her, using her birth name and invalidating her identity. No political issue attached, just a personal attack for the other member's identity. Luckily, almost all other politicians stood against that. This type of transphobia is so wild, arguments like "she shouldn't be here on a women's quota" are coming from people who represent parties that don't have a women's quota in the first place. In fact, I think the Green party, who are the most socially progressive, are the only ones to have a fifty/fifty gender ratio set and the only ones who have trans people in parliament, so I think that's a pretty ridiculous line of thought even within TERF-logic.
At least people are standing up against those assholes.
Yes it is horrible. The "Storch" is just transphobic
Thats AfD for ya, always crying about some fringe case, but never addressing *actual* issues.
Calling Storch a conservative doesn't even come close to what that woman really is. Storch is a nazi through and through, just like her grand father.
You can say her name
Storch, everyone schould know this name of this horrible human being
Same for Alice Weidel. The lesbian, married to a woman, who is against Same Sex marriage
I don't know who first wrote that "BiRdS aNd ThE bEeS" meme. But now that Jamie's brought it up, i've suddenly felt compelled to ask;
"Do they even know how many sexes birds or bees have?"
Yeah, as a gay enby bug nerd i hate to break it to the transphobes but "bees that look like birds but still have a stinger" umm I don't think that sleep deprived joke means what you think it means?? Only female bees have stingers, stingers evolved from the ovipositor therefore no male bees, wasps, ants, etc have stingers.
(Cute fact!: Male mason wasps will jab you with their pointy abdomen as a bluff to make you think they can sting, that just adorable to me)
Obviously this in no way is a good metaphor for humans *at all* but scientifically inaccurate "jokes" that include bees or wasps are a pet peeve of mine
Like how am I supposed to take someone who's transphobic, AND doesn't know shit about bees seriously? /hj
At age 48 I came out as non binary. After half a lifetime of things being complicated and not knowing why. Recently I realized this means I'm Trans and thought: okay cool 😄🌈
Congratulations my friend I am glad you are living your true self
Congratulations!! I'm so glad you've discovered something about yourself and are able to feel more comfortable now! So proud of you!
@@Lola_Nico What makes you say they didn't?
@@Lola_Nico Bro what? Non-binary people aren't "ruining" the trans label. Unless they were assigned nb at birth they are identifying as a gender different from the one assigned at birth, aka: the definition of transgender.
@@Lola_Nico being trans Isn’t about medically transitioning if you cannot understand that then please educate yourself before posting harmful ignorant nonsense on the internet
Thank you 😊❤️
These people not calling it the trans-genda is what I’m actually mad about.
Yeah, if you're going to be a shitty person at least use funny phrases to describe the supposed minority conspiracy you're proposing.
Right? Like... they could also call it the trans-mission. People, there are options!
Like a Transphobic Mario
They’re just uncreative. I mean, think about how long they’ve milked the attack helicopter joke.
@@rosewoods1901 If you call it the trans-mission, that means it sprea...
OH GOD YOU WERE TRYING TO TRANS US ALL ALONG D:
The look of horror on Jamie's face when he realized terfs are trying to appropriate dinosaurs was priceless. And yes Dinosaurs are cool transphobia is not, they are just gonna eat the terfs. 🦕 🦖
LOL! It was trans people who labelled gender critical people dinosaurs in the first place, but it back fired in the most spectacular fashion imaginable! Now the trans community are back peddling...hard. Its hilarious!
🦖 Their vision isn't based on movement, it's on how transphobic you are
yeah i was like noooo i like dinosaurs
I’m so sorry, I must be really stupid but why am I constantly hearing
‘women are at risk’
or
‘women are being pushed out’
and
‘women rights are being destroyed’
What am I missing? My daughter is the most beautiful girl and I loved her as much now as I did before she transitioned!
How is she destroying women’s rights?
Trans people have been around for hundreds of years… why are these people acting like it’s all brand new?!?!?
Edit: as it has been rightly pointed out, trans people have always been around! When I said hundreds of years, I simply meant within written history.
Transphobe are destroying women right, but they want a scapegoat for their shitty behavior.
Because people are idiots. Not all, thankfully, but many.
I would posit that Trans people have been around as long as people have. They have been around for millions of years.
Basically :
- Create a narrative that is possible but rare
- Base it upon people's trauma
- Extrapolate that because it is a minority, utilitarian measure is best (since there is a possibility that cis-women may be affected, and since radical female supremacists and traditional gender-rolers both know people supporting them care about cis-women's safety a great deal for different reasons), even if data doesn't support it being a huge deal at the time and it creates other problems.
- Go back to enforcing sex=gender and rigid segregation of the two.
I hope we can move past this.
Happy for your daughter to live in an accepting home. Good luck going forward.
It's a tactic. People villainize things they don't understand and the reason it's seen as an issue now compared to before is because people are realizing that it's not ok to bully, harrass, and abuse people for living differently. So transphobes are throwing a tantrum that their transphobia is being called out and they're being held accountable so in an attempt to cover up that they're the problem they go 'oh, but look at these people we deem weak that need protection, these other people are a threat to them' when they really aren't and it's all smoke and mirrors to try and distract from the fact they're mad they're not getting away with their shittiness anymore. Your daughter is beautiful the way she is and her living her life is no threat to women
Dinosaurs are cool. Transphobia is not.
I'm the proud mom of a wonderful transwoman who has recently started on her transition journey and I know some of our family is going to be transphobic af when they find out, but that's their loss. Her dad, sisters, and I love her the way she is.
😭 so wholesome and supportive. We need more human beings like you!
*everybody liked that*
💟I love you for this wonderful comment. It's warming my heart. :)
Im a proud mom of a transman. Some family may not accept him, but those that do are the ones that matters. I’ve learned so much watching your videos @Jammie dodger. Right there with you Coreopsis. ❤️❤️
Will you adopt me so I can have supportive parents
I really don’t understand transphobia. I’m dating a woman, and found out the other day that she is trans. I was surprised, but nothing has changed in regards to my emotions toward her, because she is absolutely lovely. So transphobia really confuses me.
Internalized factors, mostly, including reflexive shame. In men especially, any sort of feeling that they are less than 200% straight, even if rationally the trans woman in questions is so feminine attraction to her could never be seen as less than straight, feels like an attack on their identity and they lash out.
I see trans women as women so if I am already attracted to one, great, doesn't matter. If by someone else's metric that makes me more bisexual than straight, why would I care anyway? As if that'd make me a lacking human being somehow.
Also, being in a relationship is like the only time you have a right to know how far that person is in their transition physically. The amount of people who think it's okay to ask trans people private questions about their bodies is mind boggling to me. If I'm dating you, it effects me directly. If not, if we're friends or something, it doesn't matter to me and I don't have to know unless you WANT to tell me
So let me get this straight... If I was dating a guy pretending to be a woman, and I found out he was actually a guy that was lying to me about his sex, you would be confused if I was angry? Weird. I guess you like dishonest relationships, but it's not healthy.
@@teck1756 trans women are not men pretending to be women, they are women who are trans. If you don’t want to date a trans person that’s fine, but you don’t have to be an asshole about it. Tell me, do you think Jammi is a man, or a woman pretending to be a man? If you can recognize that he is a man, then you can understand that, by the same principle, trans women are women.
@@teck1756 Except Trans women aren't men pretending to be women , they are women who had the misfortune of being born in the wrong body.
It is scientifically proven that trans women are actually women their brain structure matches almost perfectly with that of a cis woman .
So no it's not a dishonest relationship , youre just mega insecure in your sexuality , and you are too scared to accept facts , I really pity you foolish transphobes, must be hard living in a constant irrational fear of what other people do with their bodies.
Trans women are women, trans men are men. Period. End of discussion.
No one is being erased by the existence of trans people and I say this as an out and proud bisexual cisgender woman who is also a trans ally.
@@firasjemil213 Yawn
@@firasjemil213 biologically speaking everyone was born as female in the womb and later developed different characteristics.
@@firasjemil213 idk why you think that when it just isn’t true. Brain scans say it isn’t true, hormone levels say it isn’t true, psychology especially says it isn’t true. Have you ever even looked into it?
@@firasjemil213 Why do you lot always think trans women are doing this because of fetishes? You are obsessed with what we do in the bedroom, kinda weird huh...
Star Chaser Studios its a bait dont respond
Jesus didn’t die on the cross for people to compare to him to JK Rowling 😭
A billionaire who hates her neighbours. Seems very un-jesus
Amen 😭😭😭
I'm so confused. Are these the same people that were screaming about Harry Potter being Satanic?
You could have ended that sentence (assuming it is a sentence, as you didn't use a period at the end) after the word "cross".
@@carolmurphy7572 you do know that Jesus dying on the cross was a literal historical event 💀💀 I’m literally an atheist and I still know that it happened…
10:17 It's like someone saying rectangles have 4 straight sides with 4 right angles and the second person says "Nooooooo only squares have that!" Not realizing the irony in their own statement
As a fellow of the Geological Society of London I think I have firm professional chops to say dinosaurs are definitely cool. As a member of the human race I think I can definitely say transphobia is not cool.
This is my favorite comment!
I toast to that.
@@paul_atardis Cheers, my good friend! 🥂
I like to point out that cis people also get gender affirming medical care and cosmetic procedures all the time. There's lots of cis people who get breast/penis implants, or electrolysis, or hormone supplements, or a ton of other things that aren't medically necessary for their physical health. Why do transphobes think it's okay for them to "go against nature" to feel better about the shape and perception of their bodies, but it's not okay for trans people to do what amounts to the exact same thing, for the exact same reason, just because someone else made the wrong guess about the meaning of their genitalia as an infant? Like... it's an absolutely bizarre argument to make.
What "wrong guess" is made about the sex of infants? If you say sex and gender are separate then why do you lot keep confusing the two? You say one can be whatever gender regardless of sex, so why is it always being brought up that someone was "mislabelled" at birth when sex shouldn't have any bearing on gender? All trans women, are without exception of the male sex.
What people are going round demanding that breast implants or penis implants are a matter of life and death and a human right? You're being very disingenuous about that point. Further, no one getting those cosmetic surgeries is claiming the surgeries should see them categorised differently by law as a consequence, another thing you "forgot".
@@ambientjohnny "What "wrong guess" is made about the sex of infants?" firstly, they said about the *meaning* of thier genitalia. nobody's saying that they were wrong about the child's sex, or that trans women aren't of the male sex, just that they were wrong about what that meant for their gender. the commenter didnt confuse the two lol, either you misread their comment or you deliberately misinterpreted what they were saying. at birth, we were labelled with a gender and a sex at the same time, which i know you know.
secondly, gender affirming healthcare is actually life-and-death for a lot of people. dysphoria is awful, and it can drive people to suicide. that's because it can cause a whole lotta side things, insecurities, social anxiety, depression, etc. people have died over this. so yeah, it's life and death. but even ignoring all that, the commenter didn't forget anything. they weren't talking about the catergorization of trans surgeries, they were talking about cis people's reactions to them. things like "you're mutilating your body!" get thrown around a lot, and that's what they were defending against, that's the part that's comparable to cosmetic surgeries, which is pretty obvious from the fact that they were talking about transphobes saying 'going against nature' instead of 'trans agender'. you're arguing in bad faith, and it's obvious to anyone who actually knows about this stuff.
@@ambientjohnny Dude, if you were forced to live as someone you're not, how would you feel about it?
You said it!
@@toothfairy10133 Exactly!
11:23 Fun Fact: The original creator of Wonder Woman, Charles Moulton, was as outspoken about challenging gender and sexual norms as someone could be in the early 20th century. He based the character on a combination of his wife and their polyamorous life partner.
“Everyone complaining about women wearing dinosaurs is going to look batshit crazy” … that’s a dog whistle. They’re describing a dog whistle
came here to comment this
If I get a coworker like that, I'll just wear Jamie's t-shirt. Let those TERFs do the complaining themselves :P
Yup, just like neo-no-no-Germans and Pepe the Frog and the "ok" sign (held up to be prominent) literally saying out loud "THIS IS OUR LOGO!!!" and then trying to deny it. And dogwhistles are supposed to be subtle, not in-your-face advertisements lol
Like, a friend of mine got a coffee mug with a clean scene from his favorite hentai on it so that it would look innocent to any outside observer and anyone who complained about it would instantly out themselves as knowing a bit too much about hentai...that's just good trolling :) But "I'm gonna wear something to go out of my way to offend trans people!" is just being a massive dick.
@@Kylora2112 fully agree on the dogwhistles thing!
I really am not trying to be rude or a clever dick or anything but real quick I feel like describing n**is as “no-no Germans” is a little off (?? I guess I can’t come up with a good word, sorry). Obviously it originated there but today n**ism is found internationally, and is not an ideology that is accepted in Germany anymore. (Obviously there are still people there that hold those values, I’m just saying they are not the majority by far)
Also it could contribute to the idea that to be a n**i you have to be German or that most Germans still are. (I’m not saying you think that - you’re on a jammidodger video I’d be very surprised the folks here are typically super lovely and politically excellent! It’s just that I have seen those ideas floating around online in the past and that type of phrasing could be read in a way that would support that - I hope that makes sense!!)
I get not wanting to say the word because of the algorithms that censor it but I find the asterisks usually help avoid getting flagged, and I’m sure there are other euphemisms as well.
Anyway I’m very sorry if that was overstepping and I hope you have a great day!!
@@Ivytheherbert Thanks for the tip!
Dinosaurs are cool 🦖
Transphobia is _not_ 🏳️⚧️
Preach
Dinosaurs are very cool
Facts
So if a woman doesn't have a period does that make her a man? 🤣 This transphobes logic. I just can't. 😆
I'll admit I'm a cis female who struggles to TRULY understand gender and sex, but I don't care what other people do as long as it's not hurting anyone/anything (read: murder is not OK) and I will continue to do my best to include everyone and use the correct wording. It's the least I can do, y'all have to deal with SO MUCH already and I have it easy being cis.
Acknowledging privilege is so wonderful. It's really great of you to want to learn and include everyone! I know that should be the bare minimum but, yk. People are mostly assholes.
Same!
I think we schould normalise nöt being able to understand everything but still be kind
@@chichiro8625 Are u German?
I think it's unfortunate that there is the idea that we have to understand a person's perspective in order to accept its validity. I'm white. I will never really understand what it means to be a person of colour in the country I live in. And that's okay as long as I believe the stories and perspectives of those people of colour. Cis people will never totally understand what it is to be trans either internally or walking around in the world. And that is also okay. Just believe what you hear and do what you can to be accepting and promote acceptance in others.
To be fair, it is rather complex when you get down to it. Since not even sex is a binary but rather a spectrum. Like, there are AFAB who are biologically male and AMAB who are biologically female.
PCOS is a very common condition in people who have ovaries, one symptom is overproduction of testosterone. Causing a host of additional issues that usually correlates more to men than women. Then you have the additional issue of gender expectations and rigid gender roles that is nothing more than social constructs yet are treated as biological. Despite proof otherwise.
There's a reason why gender studies exist.
My native language doesn't have gendered pronouns, but on the internet, people commonly use English, so I can still put my prounouns in my bio in English. Problem, transphobes? :)
Also, a language without gendered pronouns would be a dream for trans and enby people!
@@e.458 Yes, or for closeted trans people. I have to learn Spanish with a transphobic teacher and I’ll get marked down if I describe myself with masculine words (-o not -a)
What language is that? And how does that work? How do you say for example ”she is a great Singer” ? (Maybe weird question but i like learning about different languages!)
@@SpaceMango I hope that Ezsti answers you so that we can see their language in action, but since I don't know when that will happen, I'll give this response that should be viewed as a supplement to whatever their main response is: Most languages throughout the world do not have gendered pronouns. (One survey estimated that about a quarter of all languages have them, mostly from the Indo-European and Afro-Asiatic families.) The most widely spoken first language in the world today, Mandarin, does not have gendered pronouns in its spoken form (although they were introduced to written Chinese in the early 20th century, to make the language appear more modern and European). These languages have a single word that can mean ‘he’ or ‘she’ (or ‘he’ or ‘she’ or ‘it’, or even ‘he’ or ‘she’ or ‘it’ or ‘they’); as usual with pronouns, you need context to know what the pronoun refers to. Without gender to guide you, sometimes you need a little more context than you would in a more gendered language.
@@SpaceMango I am not the person you replied to, but in my language (Finnish) it would be "Hän on hyvä laulaja", "hän" being the 3rd person singular pronoun. We just don't have any other pronoun to call another person by proper grammar rules, and we have very little gendered grammar compared to some other languages. Also in spoken, common Finnish it is normal to use "it", "se" in Finnish of a person, though in official settings it would be considered rude and it isn't proper grammar.
'A Dinosaur' has been my screen name for 15 years now. If it gets wrapped up in transphobic poppycock I'm gonna be mighty salty. Love your work Jamie, always a fun watch!
Well, if you think about it, trans slang for someone who doesn’t know they’re trans her is Egg, and mayonnaise has eggs in it, so I suppose mayonnaise could be a genderfluid egg
"Fluid egg" is that pun?
I would love this but usually it's referred to as "egg" because of the shell cracking thing I think so the cursed image of a chicken cracking open and walking out of a mayonnaise jar came into my mind 💀
But still genderfluid mayonnaise
I love the wonder woman meme because Lynda Carter is an outspoken ally to trans people and regularly makes it clear that she sees trans women as women, she specifically mentioned it in her tweet about international womens day
I love her so effing much.
She has to. It's not like it's a choice
Also, Wonder Woman in the comics very openly supports the LGBTQ+ community. There’s also a trans Amazonian as of 2021, her name is Bia.
That meme is the whole reason I came to the comments. I hate when bigots co-opt images from things that are actually very much not bigoted. You know, like when transphobic misogynists use the term "redpilled" or racists make "jokes" by changing the words in Charlie Brown comics.
@@toomanyoldsports No. You're wrong. Bia is the first trans Amazonian. Whilst Nubia is Diana's twin sister made from black clay. Please don't spread misinformation. Just look it up. 😑
"You can't compare trans people to puppies and kittens"
My English teacher, who compared Shakespearean women to cars and footballs: *awkward silence* w-what?!?
I'm also confused. You're telling me that your parents didn't teach you about gay people at 6 and trans people at 7??! Those weren't important early conversations??
I love the “dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not” shirt, a bit extra when thinking that the number one pop culture thing with dinosaurs are Jurassic Park and they definitely had trans dinosaurs since all began as female but some changed to male due to the frog dna spliced in to them
I had not thought of that...
Yes! I love that!
@Emi Val yes! Thank you, my thoughts exactly. Real dinos were odd too, it's weird that someone would back up their narrow views with them 😂
The transition was all natural!🦖🦕
@@barrylangille3523 my mind travels in strange places, you’re welcome
I feel like Jesus would be PISSED to be compared to JK Rowling.
@@Lola_Nico wtf are you talking about? Are you serious
@@Lola_Nico LMAO please read your own comment
What was the original comment?
@@Lola_Nico trans women are women
@@Lola_Nico I have no arguments and you literally threw sentences without any meaning, you have no explanation for all that you said or example. Here I will now say that people who wear red T-shirts endanger people with green T-shirts and harass them and make them feel depressed. You have no argument for that? I'm right because I just said that.
“The trans agenda… the transgenda” made me laugh so hard it sent me into a coughing fit
"I don't have pronouns." Alright, everyone, you heard John. John would prefer to be referred as solely as John. Please respect John's choices.
someone tell John that John just referred to John as "I"--
@@mjamin9124 💯 Perfect comeback.
this
Did you see that sonic/shadow video where that's exactly the joke? Shadow tells sonic that he has no pronouns; Sonic says that everybody has pronouns; Shadow says that Sonic should only refer to him by his name.
@@legrandliseurtri7495 no but that's hilarious
"Twitter users when they find out some languages don't have gendered pronouns"
How on earth could this even be a problem 😂 my native language (Finnish) doesn't have gendered pronouns and I can assure you it's very inclusive for all genders and people! I'm very proud of our language in that aspect as a nonbinary person.
Yeah, less chances for misgendering trans people. If anything, that'd be _their_ problem
What pronouns do y’all use then? Genuinely curious 😊
@@wolfofmercury7518 hän is the word they use as a pronoun and it includes all pronouns. So you would use hän instead of she for example if you were to translate English to Finnish.
that one was so weird, like what were they even trying to say??
Same in Hungarian, we just say ő. It must be an Uralic language thing because Estonian is like that too. I'd be happy if all languages did that, life would be easier. During the 19th century language reform some weirdo linguists actually tried to create gendered pronouns to be more western-sounding but nobody liked it.
Just wanted to say that i found your channel a while ago and i like your videos as a cis man. I used to not understand what trans really meant and had false beliefs and stereotypes because i never heard about it and was raised in a transphobic upbringing but you made realize how happier people can be while being their true selves and how diverse people can be about these things. So thanks for being you and have a nice day!
Just found out one of my uncles is apparently really transphobic, which really bummed me out, so it's nice to see everyone here saying Dinosaurs are Cool, Transphobia is Not. 🦕
6:25 the way you said "because it is" was so wholesome and lovely
I've heard about a trans man in the 17th century in Germany who lived his whole adult life as an man. He was a priest and soldier. He was baptised 3 Times as a man and married twice to the same woman. His preffered name was Anastasius (the newborn) Lagrantinus Rosenstengel (Rosen = Rose = Vagina and stengel = stem = penis). He had an selfmade standapee Packer and a selfmade Strapon.
Historians: aaaah yes the last lesbian who was killed for sex with a woman in Europe... He also asked for an male's grave...
We truly love historians.
Yeah, trans people would for sure hate languages where everyone just uses gender neutral pronouns and nobody tells you "you can't be a they"
my native language refers to a person, regardless of their gender, using a gender neutral pronoun, which counts as "they" in english. to add to that, there are different words for what counts as singular and plural "they", so transphobes can't say, "they is only plural!" when talking about said language. :>
I hope everyone is doing well. You're amazing, keep going I believe in you.
You are everywhere
Reverse uno
I hope that your bed is always the perfect temperature and your chocolate chip cookies never turn out to be raisins.
@@djoctobeat5204 But I like raisins =(
@@alixtheprofessionalcatherd6850I hope that you have plenty of raisins in your future then :D
Transphobes: "If you play with DOLLS then you're not a real man, you're a GIRL!"
Me: "Okay, I would like to be a woman then"
Transphobes: "NOOOO! What happened to feminine men and masculine women?! It's okay to like girly things and still be a man!"
Unfortunately there are lots of places in the world where trans men are still placed in female jail/prison and vice versa. I fell victim to this a few years ago and was placed in the female inmate population as a trans man. During this time I was forced to only shower during times when the entire female inmate population was locked in their cells. Forcing me to do a "walk of shame" every time I just wanted to shower. Everyone would holler at me from their cells as I showered. There were lots of other acts of discrimination in there. There must be reform of our jails, prisons, and our society as a whole.
@@krimsonkatt I believe in some places being trans is enough to throw you in jail, not sure really. (I know being gay is)
@@krimsonkatt it was for child support. My family took my son. Kicked me out on the streets. And I was broke so I couldn't pay. So I went to jail.
My family is incredibly transphobic. Only my grandmother speaks to me.
@@krimsonkatt I envy your faith in our society to do the right things legally. However, this is sadly not the case. The law doesn’t make many accounts for being human as it is black and white in its execution but not in its terms. Cases like this result in many arrests that, morally, seem wrongful; but, legally, are correct.
@@Lola_Nico this person went through hell at the hands of their family and you used it as an excuse to further your $h¡t
Stop. Just. Stop.
@@Lola_Nico definitely an issue. I agree if someone randomly claims they are trans that isn't right. However for someone like myself who has medically began transition I don't think that's fair to be placed in a jail with (in my case) women. Or fair to the women in the jail to have trans males in with them. Also there is rape on both sides of the jail. Not just the men's side. Rape is common place in broken systems such as these. There needs to be an entire overhaul of the criminal justice system. Both in aspect with trans discrimination and the rapes which run so rampant.
Apparently since 2019 Iceland has added the name ending 'ber' meaning 'child of' to go with 'son' and 'dottir' and I just thought that was really cool
@@neoncircus2365 I would imagine so, yes
Sylvie Laufeyber sounds nicer than Sylvie Laufeydottir
Could also just sound better, so neat!
6:00 i can get drafted now. Heck
I know I'm preaching to the choir, but like, the whole reason I transitioned was because being a man wasn't my game. No matter if I was masc or femm (trust me, I tried both)
Now I'm more of a tomboy/demigirl and I couldn't be happier
This made my day.
@Dreaming Arcana aww, I'm glad ^-^
@@firasjemil213 buddy, that’s not how this works. We keep explaining it to you and you keep just plugging your ears and not listening
@Firas Jemil and apparently you’re just uncool. But you can change that if you change your views or at the very least keep it to yourself. OP isn’t a man, they said that, if you for some reason don’t think that’s true you didn’t have to say anything.
@Artemis Cane, glad you’re happy. ^ - ^
@@firasjemil213 I weep for your sad, broken soul. I hope you find healing and happiness.
hi, today my best friend left me and watching your videos really makes me smile in these hard times❤ keep up the great and supportive work
The way he said, "The dinosaurs would eat you!" Was adorably hilarious to me.
I feel like the Dexter one was more of an "accidental Ally" selfown because the poster used the correct pronouns for the Trans girl classmate. I'm sure the irony is lost on the transphobes though lol
if someone is ever transphobic (mainly online) just say “Hey, friend! It’s the trans community here. We were just wondering who asked :)”
based
Bigotry sounds pretty exhausting. The one dude couldn't even chill out looking at cute puppies and kittens without getting mad and making a meme about trans people.
Transphobia really has made me delay coming out by so much. I realized I was trans around 15-16 and I'm now 19 and only now I'm starting to be out to most people who are actively relevant in my daily life. I've been really lucky that it has mostly been supportive, but the amount of transphobia I see on a daily basis online still makes me fear coming out irl where people can physically hurt me or yell at me or something like that.
I hope you'll be accepted publicly soon - that all trans people will. Try and stay in as many positive and safe spaces as you can and find a close lgbtq+ friendgroup. My journey so far has been quite similar. I'm 17 and nonbinary and realised over a year ago. I'm out to 1 friend irl.
Education around all related topics really is nonexistant/ very rare and it's hurting many people.
I get hate online for being trans. One of the things that helps is knowing that the transphobes are the ones with a problem. We are fabulous. Don't hide who you are to please others. You'll see that the vast majority of people are supportive or indifferent
You. Are. _Valid._
And know that you have many, many Gen-X lesbians and gays [like me!] who were fighting for your acceptance even before you were born. We may be getting up in years now, but we still got your back, kiddo!
Hi I love your videos! I came out as non-binary and she didn’t except it. This is helping me accept it
I accept you you beautiful lil stranger
I accept u random human wish you luck! :D
i came out to my big sister as pan about an hour ago. still not sure if she accepts or not but it sounds like she doubts i’m gay, but again i’m not sure 😭
Edit: she supports!
@@TeenagedRat hope she accepts you person! :D
@@_Itspossiblyzain_ ty ^^
Biologist here- seems they didn't look into ADVANCED biology 😂 Also it's male, female, intersex/hermaphrodite at most in books, and even then we know that changes with hormones and sex chromosomes are more than XX and XY.
Dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not! Side note: Jamie your hair looks amazing today 💕 🦕
I'm sorry, but I burst out laughing when you said "Deezer" LMAO
5:42 this is gives off major cult energy
Beautiful alliteration! "Carefully curated collection..." You are very clever. You could do commercials on American television and I would buy whatever you had to sell. 🙂
Congratulations, kindly collect 100 cookie points (C, if you prefer Roman numerals) for mentioning alliteration!
@@kashakroger1692 I would like you to know that I read your comment, and now have Cookie Monster's "C Is For Cookie" song stuck in my head. It therefore made your comment suddenly 1000% funnier, and absolutely perfect.
The 'women aren't people' argument is getting staler than a left over Jaffa Cake from Christmas
Yeah - what does that even mean anyway? Are they ducks?
8:50 that deep breath I feel like was Jamie saying 'Don't you dare'
3:58 Agreed. And being not straight doesn't entitle you to be transphobic. Or any other sort of phobic either.
(Apart from arachnophobic or stuff like that lol)
0:45 Jamie did you just present us with a sponsor with the the word "deez" in it and expect us to be mature?
Deezer nuts
Watching channels like Jammidodger, Shaaba, and One Topic At A Time has really helped me figure out who I am / who I want to be. Thank you so much for your content, Jamie!
Transphobes are holding onto primary school science but going from primary to lower years of high school to GCSE to A level to degree, etc. is basically a chain of 'no, it's more nuanced than that' and the science I learnt at GCSE is almost completely different to my friend's A levels
Just a reminder
Trans fems, you look pretty and I hope you have a good day
Trans mascs, you look handsome and I hope you have a good day
People outside the binary, you look positively perplexing and I hope you have a good day
Xenogender people and non dysphoric trans people, your gender is valid and I hope you have a good day
Allys, I can’t tell you how much the little things mean and I hope you have a good day
(If this made your day please let me know it means a lot)
In 2013 I had a psychology 1010 course, my professor spent more than one day on the topic of the differences between transvestite and transgender. He told us that many people tend to think the two as the same, which of course they are not. He went into the psychological and biological reason on how people end up being born with an XX chromosome but are mentally men and vice versa. He was in his 60's during my time in his classes, I am pretty certain he's in his 70's now, and didn't question what science told him. Granted he's an expert in his field, so it would only make sense that he would think people would sound like idiots when they act as they so boldly do now on the internet. I wouldn't doubt that he's now retired, since I intend to go back once I do some things about what the school is claiming I owe them (I had grants and scholarships). Then 2020 hit, thus pushing me to be out of school for nearly five years.
I'm still very baby trans even after coming out over a year ago because I still haven't started my transition and, trust me, I've tried. Social transitioning is so difficult when those you're living with either don't want to accept you and so they just ignore your name a pronouns and keep calling you your old stuff or you've got someone constantly telling you just how weird and wrong you are. I have both of these. I'm stuck living with family who just doesn't get it. Though, my mother is trying. Its just... How do you go from looking your child in the face and telling them they need to do what makes them happy and then still call them by the pronouns that make them feel trapped? It makes no sense.
I'm glad all of the comments I've seen have been nothing but supportive. These videos always make things better.
I hope things get better for you. I'm a trans man who didn't feel comfortable or safe enough to come out until I was 48. 5 years later and mostly transitioned I feel right but 'right' is such an understatement. I have in part dealt with the same issues as you and I would say if your mum is trying then have patience with her because I know from experience how difficult it is for some people to adapt and I don't think it is deliberate. It is hard when it feels like everyone is against you but remember it is their problem or their bad, not yours.
@@TomTheOwl68 I'm trying, its just difficult. Especially since I'm getting the most hate from my younger brother. He's super religious and believes everything his church says. I just wish I could explain it to him though I know he won't listen. Thank you for your kind words and support.
Good luck, my friend!
I hope things get easier for you. I'm 45 and my family doesn't get it either (except for my kids). I tried dressing feminine for special occasions for their sake and I think when they look at the photos it just reaffirms their views. Wish I had been stronger & more consistent.
@Imperiatoris I'm confused. What do you mean by "Human" name?
Havent even watched the video yet, just wanted to say that I just found you through LGBTQ recs on TH-cam & I really love your videos. I came out as bi last year but have never felt fully accepted in the lgbtq community because I'm in a "straight" relationship. Whether you're talking about sexual orientation or gender identity, you articulate yourself so well & i feel like it's going to help me discuss my queerness better! Thank you thank you, all loveee
You're bisexual no matter the junk or mentality of the lucky person you end up with. Some people just happen to either be bigoted themselves, or still hurt and are somewhat envious of others having an 'easy time' having a normal life when they cannot yet.
Cisgender science teacher here, I can confirm, Dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not!
You are a science teacher, you are cooler than dinosaurs.
A transphobic person: “Look what I made!”
*shows a picture of Joanne Christ.*
Me, a queer Christian: “Yeah, I don’t think that’s going to offend who you want to offend dearie.”
The pan one hit home because there was this one person I knew who was pan, and when another friend of ours came out as trans person 1 was not very accepting. They made a similar excuse for their transphobia. I am no longer friends with person 1.
being👏a👏part👏of👏the👏community👏does👏not👏excuse👏your👏bigotry👏
I have never knowingly met a trans gender person, and I'm both bi and demi, so I have no idea if I would find myself attracted or not. But I still support and accept the trans gender community 100%.
And here bi people are accused of transphobia 😑
@@Ikajo I'm not completely sure what you mean but I'm not saying that bi and pan people are all transphobic, I'm just saying that people should not say that to be trans is to actually just be confused on one's sexuality.
@@user-gf5tb8yf3r I'm just giving my own perspective. Bi folks tend to be accused of being trans exclusive due to the whole bi meaning two thing. I'm also agreeing with you.
@@Ikajo I have never seen anyone bisexual define themselves as being, "50%/50% attraction to _only_ a rigid gender-binary." I've only ever seen bisexuals _telling off_ other people saying that _about_ bisexuals. Then I, Old Uncle Gay, have to step in and explain what the Kinsey-Scale is, and how we weren't using these terms so rigidly back in the ancient days of 1992, etc. …
@@John_Weiss No, you are right. Those are what other people are saying. Kind of my point.
I saw an interesting post the other day about why conservatives feel the way they do about trans/queer/liberals "forcing" things on kids or other people. Because they're authoritarian, they can't imagine people who are NOT authoritarian. So to them, the opposite of straight/cis authoritarianism is trans/queer/liberal authoritarianism, instead of giving people the option to choose. They can't imagine that people who are oppressed by the system just want freedom, rather than oppressing THEM instead.
“There’s only man and women biologically”
Intersex/men: 👁 👄 👁
Seriously though, we dudes are screwed. We now must fight to the last one standing until there's only one man left.
I guess it's kinda badass because Highlander, but still a little cruel.
Trans man here, if I go back in the closet can I survive the carnage
@@mjamin9124 sorry man, we'll drag you out of there and end you as brothers, there can be only one etc.
If you win, I hooe you're straight or bi, cause that's gonna be a whole lot of lonely women and I imagine they can't all be satisfied with just themselves. The nonstraight ones do luck out...
People born with an intersex condition are still either male or female.
@@dimcgee1726 not exactly. Doctors can’t categorize them into a “male” or “female” boxes, so you can’t say 100% for sure that they have a male or female body.
If you tell a trans person to "act their gender" you're kinda an accidental ally. I think what the transphobe wanted to say was "act your sex".
Also, at 6:30, Jamie was totally channelling Roly.
I really can't tell if they meant it as "act your agab" in a transphobic way, or as "act your gender" in a misogynistic way (As in; don't be so bitchy, women are supposed to be docile flowers I can push around for my amusement). Which, I need to add, would also be transphobic because it insinuates that she was behaving in a "manly" way or failing at her own gender presentation. Which is also bullshit. Overall, a pretty bad comeback, no matter the situation.
Channeling Roly is never a bad thing. 😁
8:05 - Jamie, people who are this transphobic probably think men and women *are* two different species. You know, that whole “men are from Mars, women are from Venus” bs?
Have you read the book?
3:32 as a pansexual we do not claim this person
As another pansexual I agree with you
Last time I was this early, JK Rowling wasn’t spewing shit on Twitter.
So like never
Or I guess in the beginning of Twitter when her last books of the main Harry Potter series were being shipped out.
@@iantaakalla8180 yeah thats probably right
"anything else inbetween [male and female] is a self experiment"
yes.. and sometimes, hear me out, experiments prove a hypothesis
Why is it that every time I watch a Jamie vid, I just wanna give the poor dude a hug for all the transphobic memes he puts himself through to make us smile
6:53 don't you mean... *the transmission*
2:34 my language (hungarian) doesn't have gendered pronouns, but me (and many also hungarian ppl i know) still put our pronouns into our bios because putting your pronouns in your bio can also be just a sign that you support trans people and they can safely interact with you.
Whenever you post my day gets better
god. Imagine if English never had gendered pronouns, that would be nice.
When I was growing up I always wished there were gender neutral pronouns. Not that I knew anything about transgender people, I just thought it would be so much more convenient and accurate when talking about people in general.
The bigots' heads would explode.
I mean except for pronouns english is a very gender neutral language, in italian (my native langauge) EVERYTHING is gendered. The chair? Female. The table? Male. The window? Female, and so on... it's a nightmare and also really stupid, objects don't have a gender. I wish we could change the language and make it more gender neutral. Some attempts have been made but there's been an uproar by people who want to "preserve the language", as if languages don't constantly change anyway.
>> 1900: We will have flying cars in the future
actual 1900: TF's a car?
Ok but when I tell lgbtq+ people that finnish, my language, has only one pronounce for all genders (hän) and even then we mostly call everyone it (se), they think it's great every time lol.
Me, I like Japanese. There's 4 commonly used versions of how to say "I", with 2 weird outlier versions that I honestly only hear used for anime villains and demons, and 5 ways to say "you," and all words that mean "that person over there" are the same for men and women. The "I" and "you" pronouns are only "gendered" in that there are societal mores that incline women to use certain ones, but even that is more "this is more polite" rather than it being "this is the women's way to say 'I', and only women can use it." Also, of course, the most rough, rude ways to say "you" in Japanese can range from "you" to "hey, jerk!" to "You a-hole!" just based on how aggressively you say it...convenient, that.
@@Mokiefraggle In Japanese most yous are not used for anyone else than family, friends, or subordinates. It's interesting.
Finnish would sound rude to many people as we don't have basically any of these kind of rules. Everyone is "it" from babies to presidents and even our formal way of talking just changes the yous into prular ("te" instead of "sinä", which is just multiple of "you") and basically nothing else.
Finnish is one of the hardest languages in the world, but still has some things very simple.
I'll be donating the money I would have spent on a ticket to the new Harry Potter film to the Trevor Project. We should all work to help those She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named has harmed.
I think it's a reach to claim that one person disagreeing with the dominant discourse is somehow 'harming' others. She spoke some words, as an adult writer, not as policy-maker. No-one has been harmed.
@@n3v3rm0r3 Really. What are the anti-trans laws you're referring to?
@@username.not.known2473 people who looked up to her have been. Children who read her stories and thought she understood what it was like to be neglected, or misunderstood. They were all hurt by this. The more people we support who say things like this, the more people we encourage to say things like this. Policy makers included. As far as anti-trans laws. Look at Texas. Look at what they are doing to *children* actual children. Outing them and reporting them to lists and their families who may throw them out on the streets? How can anyone not find that repulsive?
@@krimsonkatt I should have said Fantastic Beasts. There's a 3rd Fantastic Beasts film coming out next month. I'm hoping the plans for making that a 5 film franchise is canceled after the new film inevitably flops. The 2nd movie was complete garbage. I didn't hold much hope for the franchise to begin with, but JKR being a transphobic jerk has eliminated any desire I have to engage with her new work.
"a man who thinks he is a woman"
This sounds like transmen before they start questioning.
Me when I tried to suppress my dysphoria.
Linda Carter is absolutely not a transphobe and has spoken out against transphobia. So the Wonder Woman meme is even worse
I’m cis, but several of my friends are trans and non-binary, and I love them. Gender is whatever. Use the pronouns you’d like. Be whoever you are. Do what makes you happy. Dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not.
Never thought I'd go from seeing churches burning HP books to the author's head on Jesus. Life huh?
Hi Jamie 👋 I’m glad I found you 2 years ago your channel saved my life ❤️
It's not a complete day til I hear "hey spuds". Thank you Jamie.
Actually in French, all nouns are genderized so yes, Sharon that mayonnaise does have a gender and I'd appreciate it if you used proper grammar. thank you
The thing that really bugs me about that Wonder Woman meme is that Lynda Carter has been very clear about her support for trans people.
On the other hand that very thing makes the transphobes posting that meme look kind of silly, which is fine.
True, it does amplify their silliness, but I just don't like them using images of people that are explicitly opposed to their ideas. It reminds me of incels and the like using the term 'red pilled' then getting told to f' off by the Wachowskis. Sure it's funny seeing them called out, but it annoys me that they need to be, y'know? They can have their Jesus K Rowling (I'll leave that for a Christian to call out), but as a Wonder Woman fan I feel the need to point out they don't have Lynda Carter on their side! ;)
@@barrylangille3523They already look very silly.
I'm a mom of 3...nobody needs to feel sorry for me! Beeing Kind, excepting and inclusiv is really not that hard to explain:-) Love your content @Jammidoger you remind me so much of a friend of mine. Unfortunately he lives really far away and we have not been able to see each other in over a year, due to the pandemic.
Why you bring me comfort I’ve no idea I just really really enjoy watching your vids whenever I’ve had a bad day and it just makes it all better
anyone concerned about the growing hardship of parents explaining sex and gender to children i got an easy one for you
give a shit about the well being of your child and it'll come pretty naturally.