Advice for you as a Lez. To decipher between admiration and romantic interest, reflect on whether the idea of intimacy-emotional and physical-excites you or feels unnatural. True desire often lingers in the spaces where admiration alone cannot fill the longing.
Wait, so as a Cats fan, I always thought Grizabella was just old and nobody wanted her….but now…I see it. She’s a cat lady of the night, wow. And yeah I will not bring myself to watch the movie version, only the 90s version. Also as a 31 year old single 6’2 lesbian who’s near New York….happy lesbian era 🏀
Ok so, as a very VERY short person myself, it usually happens bc your puberty stared way earlier that it was supposed to (in my personal experience), I got my period at 9 years old, and I have been the same height for about 4 years now (I'm 16 now) but doctors have told me that I'm unable to grow more because my puberty started earlier, meaning that when I was 10 , my body was of an 14 year old, now that I'm 16 I have practically the body of an 18 year old, and I have no option to grow because practically I won't grow anymore since my time has already passed, same with my mom, she's just a bit taller than me (I'm 1.48 and she's 1.51), she has been the same height since she was about 18 years old, and that's exactly what happened to me lol
Girl, “cornrows” is the equivalent term used in the US. The style holds cultural and historical significance across the African diaspora. Especially for African-Americans or Black Americans. You about to lose me.
@@MaiaFrench-tq4yv You misunderstood my comment. The host literally said ‘Americans don’t know what that is,’ which is why I mentioned that we call it by a different name and provided a bit of the history behind it. I wasn’t questioning her identity, just pointing out regional differences in language. As an American who’s fully aware of what cornrows are, I find it ridiculous for her to say that Americans don’t know. Regardless of her being half Black, that’s a generalization that doesn’t hold true. If anything, it should be an indication that maybe you and she don’t fully understand the cultural context you’re speaking on. My comment was just pointing out regional language differences, not questioning anyone’s identity
@ Yeah, she seemingly is unable to let it go and carry on with what she’s trying to say. The way she was referring to lesbians also felt a little… off, driving it home with how she was towering over this other girl. Idk. Something just felt a bit off and whether she meant it that way or not and it just had a judgemental undertone.
Love the podcast - you’re energy is great and you make me crease. Lots of people figure out their sexuality later on in life, some much later than 27 aha - I realised I was a lesbian when I was 17/18 but my older sister has realised she’s bi in her late 30s and I’ve got friends who’ve realised now at 26. It doesn’t mean you’re faking or anything like that. Might be worth reading about compulsory heterosexuality or comphet for short. Try not to overthink it and enjoy exploring. Also I’d add that you can go on dates with anyone and you might not like the person romantically. Lesbians/bi women don’t want to sleep with/date every woman they see lmao same as straight women don’t want to sleep with/date every man
HOLY SHIT YOUR PIXIE CUT IS AMAZING
40:49 ayame is such a fun relationship guru to listen to 😂 wholesome yet accurate
the adhd is already conquering the video
never clicked so fast i hope this is you coming out as a lesbian
if so… PICK ME
Advice for you as a Lez. To decipher between admiration and romantic interest, reflect on whether the idea of intimacy-emotional and physical-excites you or feels unnatural. True desire often lingers in the spaces where admiration alone cannot fill the longing.
That was eloquently stated.
You're criminally underrated on TH-cam what the piss 😤
“By a little boy” made me cackle 😭 you are so beautiful btw girl
8:05 insane revelation i never would've imagined you liked cats and much less openly talk about it
I would love to see you meet Juno Birch. I feel like you would totally match one another's energy.
hands down the best advices given for these stories!!
I used to tell people I just turned 21 on every birthday but ever since I turned 30 I’ve been telling people I’m 25 lol.
Wait, so as a Cats fan, I always thought Grizabella was just old and nobody wanted her….but now…I see it. She’s a cat lady of the night, wow. And yeah I will not bring myself to watch the movie version, only the 90s version.
Also as a 31 year old single 6’2 lesbian who’s near New York….happy lesbian era 🏀
« It’s because of my love handles » the way I screamed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
makin my way downtown, walkin fast, to that pizza love sauce 🎶🍕🎶
Ok so, as a very VERY short person myself, it usually happens bc your puberty stared way earlier that it was supposed to (in my personal experience), I got my period at 9 years old, and I have been the same height for about 4 years now (I'm 16 now) but doctors have told me that I'm unable to grow more because my puberty started earlier, meaning that when I was 10 , my body was of an 14 year old, now that I'm 16 I have practically the body of an 18 year old, and I have no option to grow because practically I won't grow anymore since my time has already passed, same with my mom, she's just a bit taller than me (I'm 1.48 and she's 1.51), she has been the same height since she was about 18 years old, and that's exactly what happened to me lol
Ayame IDK If someone has told you this but I think you look like Tamara Tunie - I was watching Law and order and kept thinking it Lol
This is me before watching and I think yes very much so
this is me before watching and i also think yes
Definitely bi🙏
I love that it took 10 minutes to get to the point 😭 she just like me fr
I love the hair 😍 😍😍
inshallah to the full conversion babes
God the things I’d do to have a chance with you 😭
Ayame + Amy Spalding = Ultimate Boots Couple
Girl, “cornrows” is the equivalent term used in the US. The style holds cultural and historical significance across the African diaspora. Especially for African-Americans or Black Americans. You about to lose me.
She’s half black…
@@MaiaFrench-tq4yv You misunderstood my comment. The host literally said ‘Americans don’t know what that is,’ which is why I mentioned that we call it by a different name and provided a bit of the history behind it. I wasn’t questioning her identity, just pointing out regional differences in language. As an American who’s fully aware of what cornrows are, I find it ridiculous for her to say that Americans don’t know. Regardless of her being half Black, that’s a generalization that doesn’t hold true. If anything, it should be an indication that maybe you and she don’t fully understand the cultural context you’re speaking on. My comment was just pointing out regional language differences, not questioning anyone’s identity
goodnight! Love you.
compulsive heteronormativity is why
THIS
❤❤❤❤ we accept
most likely..yeah
💡5'8" is average height for men in the United States.
where im from 5’7 is average dw babes
clicked so fast lol
ayame girl ...... what is this shake n' go wig?? love you tho lmao
I like keeping up with Ayamé & enjoy her content but this one was a tad… too judgmental for me 💀
@ Yeah, she seemingly is unable to let it go and carry on with what she’s trying to say. The way she was referring to lesbians also felt a little… off, driving it home with how she was towering over this other girl. Idk. Something just felt a bit off and whether she meant it that way or not and it just had a judgemental undertone.
Love the podcast - you’re energy is great and you make me crease.
Lots of people figure out their sexuality later on in life, some much later than 27 aha - I realised I was a lesbian when I was 17/18 but my older sister has realised she’s bi in her late 30s and I’ve got friends who’ve realised now at 26. It doesn’t mean you’re faking or anything like that. Might be worth reading about compulsory heterosexuality or comphet for short. Try not to overthink it and enjoy exploring. Also I’d add that you can go on dates with anyone and you might not like the person romantically. Lesbians/bi women don’t want to sleep with/date every woman they see lmao same as straight women don’t want to sleep with/date every man