I was SINGLE for 10 YEARS before meeting my husband, heres EVERYTHING I wish I heard in my 20's

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 พ.ค. 2024
  • If only I knew then, what I know now. I would do so much so differently. So to anyone in their 20's who feel like they are about to give up on love. I hope this video helps.
    I have some workshops that I am going to be facilitating virtually to support the gals along the journey. To be the 1st to grab tickets ( potentially free ones too) upon release, follow my instagram page. - / tosinfinityandbeyond

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  • @ON-mw1sr
    @ON-mw1sr หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    This video made me cry like a baby, I had to rewatch certain parts again, at 34, I have never had a boyfriend, lately I have been struggling with the constant feeling of hopelessness, feeling like the universe can't see me and frankly does not care. But when you said 'everything that has brought you to this point has been impeccable timing" that gave me so much hope, whilst my love life has been non-existent , everything else in my life has happened at the perfect timing . Maybe I can continue to extend the some faith to my love life. Thank you for this video which come at the perfect time

    • @Kosinfinityandbeyond
      @Kosinfinityandbeyond  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you for sharing your story! As a hopeless romantic, I want you to know I totally relate to everything you said! I used to see my friends getting in relationships or even were bridesmaids at weddings and still nothing was happening for me. I wasn’t ready to meet Kieron then though, I’d have probably fumbled him because I wasn’t ready. If everything else in your life has been the most beautiful timing, trust this final part too! Sending lots of love to you!✨✨

    • @ON-mw1sr
      @ON-mw1sr หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Kosinfinityandbeyond thank you 🥰🥰

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thanks for sharing I'm 25 still not married never really been in a real real relationship and I'm waiting on God.

  • @arandomgirl2001
    @arandomgirl2001 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I ask myself a lot how to "enjoy" being single, but I just can't. I can see my friends AND have someone, I can travel AND someone will be by my side, I can have some time alone AND hours later be cuddled in my lover's arms... it's just so sad to be single, because I cannot choose to be alone, I AM alone and will ever be... I honestly think god hates me and will never show me the right person and it's hard to accept this harsh truth...

    • @Kosinfinityandbeyond
      @Kosinfinityandbeyond  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m so sorry to read this! I can totally relate to those nights! The nights of frustration when it felt like it was happening to everyone but me. I want to encourage you though by saying this, feeling like it’s not going to come will only push the truest of partners away even longer. Feeling like it’s the missing piece to the puzzle will prolong you from the meeting the ideal one you desire! It does get lonely but do your best to focus on the abundance. Lean into the Law of Vibration and take yourself out on dates, buy yourself flowers but also date people so are providing more than the minimum. Enjoy the process, and please don’t give up!! 🤍✨

    • @ML-ni1tk
      @ML-ni1tk หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trust in God hun. Choose to tust in Him. He does love you for He reminds that even the hairs on our heads are counted. He gave His only beloved son for us while we were still sinners. How much more will he gladly provide and love us now that we are His children? Disspel those thats because they are simply not true. I'm in the same boat, 25 and never been in a relationship. And my ideal guyd doesn't even seem to be in my environment and I'm broke too lol. But I choose to have hope in my Lord and Savior. Our father. Countless of our sisters have waited on Him and he's proved to be faithful. Our sister, Tosin is an example. Surely He will provide for us too. Not gonna lie its tough to have patience and keep the faith. What helps me is reading His word especially Psalm, pouring my heart out to Him in prayers and conversation, and watching people like Tosin who are on the otherside. You are not alone in this. We're here cheering you on. Choosr to trust Him. God bless!😊

    • @jasminegayle
      @jasminegayle หลายเดือนก่อน

      I used to feel this way and now that I am happily partnered, something ironic happened. I realized all the things I romanticized WITH someone, I can do alone. The flowers, the music, the baths, the sunsets watching. The frequency of love is in those moments there and the right one will be drawn to that. I hope this is encouraging. Your time will come.

    • @Kosinfinityandbeyond
      @Kosinfinityandbeyond  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jasminegayle I couldn’t have said it better myself. I always encourage my friends, the girls and my clients to do the things they are waiting for a partner to do. Go on solo dates, buy flowers, enjoy life. Love yourself. Everything else will follow suit.

  • @ravenproductions6213
    @ravenproductions6213 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh I really needed this video. This was so healing❤

  • @moniquepatricee
    @moniquepatricee หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    as a 23 year old now, thank you 💕

    • @Kosinfinityandbeyond
      @Kosinfinityandbeyond  หลายเดือนก่อน

      enjoy the friendships and the memories. Trust the timing of it all.🤍

  • @meganhernandez857
    @meganhernandez857 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video ❤️ your energy is beautiful!! Keep em coming and keep shining!!!