A married man of many years once told me, "romance is the obsessive-compulsive diseased phase of a relationship that you have to get through on the way to real love. And one of the things you have to do is to figure out how to live with your other. Love is not candlelit dinners and long walks on the beach, but far more mundane things." And sometimes you have to give each other space. You don't have to do everything together.
I don't know anything about what went wrong with your first relationship, however all that I am watching now, validates you as a wonderfully lovely human being. Be proud of yourself!
Oh my god!!😭😭 This guy!! What a guy...He has this potential to transfer so much positive energy into me. Like I've been through this shit for months but seems like u r progressing sooner n much better than me.4.5yrs of togetherness n I just can't get over it yet, but from this video I've got enough energy to cry. So gonna have a long Good cry now with spending a good time with myself ❤
Nhan you are a natural influencer whose courage and honesty linked t accepting the reality is amazing. Good to see you treat yourself to flowers....i got cactus to slowly grow as i got better and shared my days now after 3years its in flower reminder that the olds gone better new time has come Bro.🌈
Sweetheart as a Mom to 4 boys I have seen them all go through heartbreak. But in the end, they have all ended up with the people they needed to be with and spend their life together. :) You are doing great! So proud of you! HUGS
Moving out is the physical, tangible representation of the breakup so it always hurts. I’m glad you’re in a better headspace and in a new home. All good things going forward. 🤗
You are an inspiration to all who have been through a breakup. We learn what to expect and what we want, as we move on. Relationships are filled with good and bad things. What needs to happen is first find out what is important in a relationship to you at the time, and see if the relationship can be saved. If not, then move on. So many people don’t realize that dating is not a one and done solution to loneliness. It’s a process where you eliminate the person you don’t want , and replace them with a better person. Eventually the process of elimination gets you closer to the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. You are doing some great things by moving out, writing down what you want out of a partner, and trying to be positive. And I’m VERY proud that you have not told us the bad things that happened between you and your ex, because we don’t need to know, and secondly, your ex should not be exposed as a bad person. I’m sure you would still be with him if you both could have worked on the problems you had. I only offer one suggestion. And I try not to do this. But don’t go to a therapist to get through this. Surround yourself with friends, talk it out, go have fun, and save the money. As you said it will be fine. There is a guy out there for you. And just from what I’ve seen from all of your videos, you should not have any problems getting a guy, because you seem to care. Continue to be your sweet self, and all will be ok. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us! ❤❤
Sending you love from Philippines 🇵🇭 I also went from an 8 year relationship break up, and trust me it really wasn't good but you'll get through it, I've been single for 2years now since break up and im now doing okay.
Hi Nhan, I’ve definitely been there BUT time, though it may seem like a longtime……embrace the personal love and growth. An entire new life was waiting for me. After spending 4 years in college, I realized I did NOT have the emotional dexterity to deal with sadly physical or emotionally challenged individuals. So I went back to college, Marketing/Music Theory. Before I even graduated I was offered a job where I did my internship. Off to Los Angele (?????) and then wonderfully New York. I sometimes think about how we’re really never good between us, only fleeting moments. Then surprisingly ended up meeting the guy that made me most happy. We never fought in 2 years (and that is not necessarily a good thing I had a great job offer from Universal, made more money than I ever expected. But I finally like myself and look at my life as a journey. I hope he didn’t leave you with emotional/physical wounds like my first partner, sigh whatever that was. Enjoy your exciting life…..I would love to live in London. In your backpocker you will always know your first was a pretty good score, until it wasn’t. An old school classic by Denice Williams “Free” may reflect some of your current emotions. And please let the tears flow freely……crying relieves sooooo much!!!!!
So sad about this video! 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 i was watching and following your blogs with Thiago. Wish you can still continue your love story when the right time comes. FOREVER LOVE...❤❤❤😍😘😘😘
you guys i think it is rise to understand that they were a couple, and by that i mean that they both might have made mistakes one to each other, so let's not put the blame in one or the other, relationships are like that, nobody is perfect, so let's not blame Tiago for what happend, Nhân is not perfect and Tiago's not perfect either, they are both humans and they both have flaws, they both came from different cultures, and i am pretty sure that they are both learning how to deal with those kinds of things in life, Nhân is still very young and still learning through out his experiences. So, respect the decision that they both made. Life is about growing and not spreading hate.
I’m so proud of you ❤ I’m going through a breakup too and your vids were recommended to my depressed ass. Thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing your experience.
i seriously love you and your energy so much!! im so incredibly proud of you:(( thank you for overcoming a time like this so well.. youre absolutely amazing and please know you do have a lot of people who adore and love you and will always stick by your side to support you! (including me hehe) keep going, youre doing so well!!!
Nhân, thank you for existing and being able to help people. I'm Brazilian and I've been following your channel for so long that I don't even remember what was the first video of yours that I watched. I just know that I'm not going through a breakup but my relationship is not stable, I just wanted to say that the words you said in your video gave me strength to focus on myself, Getting certain thoughts and wishes out of my head and knowing that everything passes, even though I feel weak for it. But everything has a beginning and I'm learning now, thanks for sharing your vision. With love, Matheus ❤️🇧🇷
wow, a very wise head and confident guy. On your list, empathy is from the heart but also mutual trust is so important, I am so lucky in my relationship I have this and much more. You will find what you want you seem to be a really nice and trusting person, I wish you health, happiness and love always, Big hug.
I’ve never thought to have a TH-camr encourage me and support me in a way that I would never imagine. We haven’t met each other, but I already love you. Thank you for all the things you shared with fans. Thank YOU!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
People don't change much from the moment you meet them. We just need to understand how to access this intimate nature of who we want to have as life companions. It is a forest of secrets where we must learn to capture the voluminous waters and the whispers. Good luck on that dive, a great journey! May yours be successful! 😊 My warm hug for you!
I know talking about your break up is hard but you are showing so much strength and I am so proud of you. Using your standards list as a self help and healing guide shows your growth as well. We are here for you and we love you Nhan❤Stay strong and keep smiling🤗
I really envy and love how you always share your thoughts in every video the way you share your personal feelings without giving a care of thinking people will like it or not is really amazing, watching your videos really comfort me as a person who doesnt know how to talk about feelings. So you are AMAZING nhân❤❤❤ lots of love❤❤
This year has taught me so much 😢 there has been so much breakups this year. I also went through a breakup this month. It is time to focus on ourselves💜
wounds in time turn into scars and that make you more beautiful Nhan. not anymore important how you broken what more important is how you pick up your broken self in order for new version of you. hugs to you! new subscriber here! Blessings!
Nhân, we know that every new beginning is not easy, but we are sure that you are already victorious, with your strength and determination that you have, everything has already worked out, be strong because we are with you, I wish you all the happiness in the world because you deserve it, a follower of yours who thinks you're very cute here in Brazil. ❤
You have such a positive outlook of your life and we all learn from our failures and successes. Hope you the best and stay strong. You have to look in the mirror and say I love myself. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t love another person You are the bomb. Aloha Hawaii
Your 2 cents was worth it. If things had been different and you both had downtime away from each other things would definately have been OK. You are a very handsome young man and there is someone waiting for you around the corner who will love you and you him. Take your time. Losing someone you love you need time to grieve and you are handling everything the right way. In fact you will come out stronger in all this.. Sending a big hug..from a Mom of 3 teenage boys. ❤️ X
Hi Nahn. Sorry for late post. I just found your channel. Regardless of what led up to your breakup, you are right to heal yourself and process what happened. You have so much energy and joy in you. I always start smiling and laughing when I hear your cute giggles and laughs. You will definitely find love again, when you are ready. I left a monogamous relationship of 13 years almost a year ago. Never thought I could ever have any deeper feelings for someone again. Haven't even been on a single date since. But I have recently found a guy with whom I have daily contact via social media. He means everything to me and one day I hope he gets citizenship in my country and can move here. Love finds a way. Take care
🥹😭 Nhan, losing someone you love is heart breaking. But always remember you can overcome by accept the fact that there’s no forever with the wrong person, only with the right one. And also it’s a great decision to let go that place in able for you to move on and not feel sad everyday.
hello I'm from Chile I love your content I follow you for a long time you are a person who is worth a lot never change and you have very good followers that we are always supporting you
Siempre e pensado que las cosas pasan por algo y de todo aprendemos , eres una persona muy especial, me encanta que eres muy positivo ya que soy todo lo contrario, y verte realmente me ayuda 😊😊😊
Talking about self-love is essential for us to have relationships suited to our personal conditions and psychological expectations. This is quite different from selfishness, which looks only with the emotional charge of arrogance. Be yourself in fullness in relationships. That way, only those who understand and accept their individual characteristics will remain, instead of imposing a coexistence management system. My warm embrace for you! 😊❤
It's good that, you write your standards of your future partner, it's like you're already kinda manifesting it by knowing in yourself what you really want and deserve :) wish you all the best Love & light!
You are a very special person, beautiful, positive and full of good intentions. The events with Thiago came to help you grow emotionally and prepare yourself for someone better who will inhabit your future. I'm always in the crowd so that you have more reasons to open your wonderful 😃 smile. My warm embrace! I wish you the best wishes! ❤Sorry for any weird words. I'm using Google Translate cause I only have basic English.
hi, thank you for the motivation. You give positive energy. I can't be myself, I don't have friends with whom I could be open, but thanks to people like you who have the opportunity to live as they want, it makes me feel warm. as I said earlier, being gay in Russia is terribly difficult, especially when family or friends are not supportive. I am an introvert, and it is very difficult for me to communicate with people. Why am I like this?? why am I gay? why am I an introvert? and why is it so?
My heart goes out to you both...... heal yourself.... find happiness again... before you get in another relationship.... that being said... dont pass up the opportunity of someone walking into your life... by chance.... I have been through many relationships through the decades... the most recent of almost 19 years.... that is attempting to mend it self..... your are wise beyond your years..... and when you find "the one" he and you.... will make beautiful memories with each other... Leave this one with all the wonderful memories you did share...... and let it end on that... xoxo Randolph
I just absolutely love you! I love your videos and your life. I am sorry for your break up. You are just sunshine to me. You deserve the best. Thank you for sharing your life story.❤❤❤❤❤
Nhan, love your new place. I bet you have a new sense of freedom. I agree 100 percent that moving in with your partner is not a good idea, especially as young as you are. You deserve to put you first. The tulips are beautiful, glad you could pamper yourself a little with the face products from your sponsor. A great idea to make your list. I personally would add someone who is physically affectionate who likes to laugh.
Agora é hora de cuidar do seu apartamento. Decorar. Cuidar de você. Pensar no trabalho de maneira mais positiva. Menos estressante. Sabe aquele ditado " Ame o próximo como a ti mesmo " ? Acontece que o próximo mais proximo de você, é você mesmo. Então ame- se antes de procurar um novo amor . E não exponha seu namorado na rede. Nada de pedir ele em namoro na frente de todos seus seguidores. Isso pode ser um tiro no pé. Corra, libere endorfina. Faça amigos novos. Vá ao cinema ao parque. Sorria bastante. O mundo tem 8 bilhões de pessoas. Acho que pelo menos uns 3 bilhões já se separaram e refizeram suas vidas. Portanto é questão de tempo.. Força joven rapaz. Abraços de São Paulo. Brasil.
Your personality has changed to the better, the positive outlook your embarking on is a excellent reflection of living life on your terms. Stay healthy and keep your beautiful demeanor strong. Having experienced many breakups and it’s aftermath it’s hard to believe in yourself, but you are doing great. Best of luck keep going on your quest in personal growth. ❤️🙋♂️🏳️🌈
Wow nhan is a strong person. U can see that. Seems I'm quite late to know this update. I believe this can be fixed after certain time because I believe they still love each other... but I also found he already started to moving on.
I just subscribed to your channel because I love your energy and positive thinking. And you made me want to see and hear about your future endeavors!!! Please stay safe and healthy 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Im so proud of you, I am the one who sees your hard work on how you as individual and also as a partner. Just continue no matter what happen always choose to be happy and go out on a position that make you sad and lonely. Remember you have more than one , you have many online followers just keep moving. From the philippines Marvin, I hope you notice and shout out to your next video😊😊
This is Carlo... you are the most beautiful boy in the world! If you came to America you would be my king! Being Italian I have so much love to give.❤❤❤
stay well and take care of yourself, your mental and physical health need a lot of care, I dated 4 times and my last relationship was what hurt the most when it ended and after that I realized that we need time for ourselves, and that it's okay to break up, it's part of life, take care and your brazil fans love you ❤💚
Relationships are what you make of it. If it's 'overrated', it ain't a relationship.! Big hugs Nhan - your are doing great and one day Mr Right will turn up. With any luck it will be a delightful surprise! Happened to me 15 years ago and we are still going strong. D XX
I wish you all the happiness and everything will be fine. Take this experience as a valuable lesson, also to get to know yourself and this will allow you to grow up as a person!! ❤❤❤
It is very good to work on yourself know yourself and what you want before getting into a relationship I also broke up and decide not to get into relationship for now , I'm just working on myself loving myself and working hard ❤️
Bonjour de France 🇨🇵 tu es sincère et honnête....tu as eu 1 leçon de vie ! On apprend toujours d'1 échec...au moins pour l'avenir tu sais ce que tu ne veux plus.donc c'est positif...prend bien soin de toi.tout ira mieux très vite..❤
To see your character development and your strong mind to want to change for the better is so inspiring and motivates us to work on ourself too.📈 Thank you Nhân🐰🐇 for being such a positive influence and being the sunshine in our gloomy days.🥹🫂🌅
Love yourself first,then people will be drawn to you ♥️💔♥️🥰🥰love your videos sorry for your breakup I cried 😢a little for you, I know you find love 💕 again 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I love you I saw myself to you . I’ve been with a longer term relationship and we’re live in for 5 years but we end up strangers from each other’s. a silent fan here from Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤ .
I am a fan. You and Thiago were cute together, but that void between the introvert and the extrovert is huge and hard to overcome. My daughter was in a similar situation once. She is the social butterfly and the man who was not, just did not work. You are sweet! Stay that way!
Hi Nhan: Everything you wrote on your whiteboard and explained makes total sense. I have followed you for a period of time and I definitely can relate to how hard a breakup can be regardless of who is at fault or should I rephrase that and write it takes both partners overall. What I learned after my first relationship, is that I took time to understand what he liked about me and did not like about me, and the same in reverse, what I liked about him and did not like about him. Like you, you are figuring out what you want and do not want in your next loving relationship. What you are doing with that whiteboard you wrote on, continue to take time since more thoughts will come to you and add them to the whiteboard. With me and the time I took off to better understand what happened and why, I did self-analysis which paid off big time since my second relationship, which was my last relationship, lasted 12.5 years until his untimely death at age 35 by a massive heart attack. The only thing I might suggest to you which you have admitted to in your various videos is that you are high energy. Taking boxing as you had in one of your videos is a good thing to release both some of that high energy and release some of the tension from your past relationship. Nothing like a punching bag to take it out on, smile. I am a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and I might suggest when you find that special one, be sure to include him if he is at all interested when you are editing your videos rather than having him need to find something to do while you are working on your videos. Even if he is not interested at least offer that idea to him. As you said in your video, COMMUNICATION IS NUMBER ONE since without that, the relationship will not work overall. So you were right on when you wrote that on your whiteboard. The only other thing I would suggest, because of your high energy you might want to consider doing something like yoga or meditation and continue with your boxing. Energy is good, but for some, if it is high energy, it could become overwhelming for the partner. So just a suggestion regarding meditation and/or yoga in case that special someone you meet is not high energy as you are. I really look up to you for sharing your emotions and feelings since you are absolutely in my opinion, helping others as you go through your own personal situation. It is too bad when you were going to school in the USA I did not know you, since you are very special and someone well worth getting to know and care for. I wish you all the best life has to offer and keep up the good work...Steve
It's good to know when to get out of the wrong relationship. I made mistakes wasting my youth time, hoping things to work when deep down I know I put more effort than him in the relationship so it won't work. It took me catching him cheating for me to break off 10 years of relationship. I hope you will find someone who will truly love you as much as you love the other person.
You have so much emery its fun watching when you do your other Vlogs !! But its sad having a breakup but it is life !! All these self help books and writing a list what you expect from a new partner IS NOT HOW IT WORKS !! Plus seeing this is your very first relationship, is just the being !! we learn as we go through life !! Relationships is hard for everyone. BUT at the end of the day a partner is about respect, love ,kindness, understand ,giving and taking Giving each other space, talking about problems, being honest with each other BUT DONT analyse every single meaning I have been with the same man for over 36year. We now have just a friendship. I had 5 relationships through my life some lasted 1year others 3 to 5years This one the last one was my last relationship !! ONE thing when going through your breakup look at yourself and think was I easy to live with, was I also part of the reason why we broke up !! It takes two people and we are hearing only about all your issues !! Anyway just move on, learn to be happy with just yourself ,so next time you fall in love have a partner to share life with ,but everyone dont have someone in your life to be your happiness because that never works, you have a partner to enrich your life not to be your life Understand !!
You’re such a strong person, Nhan! :) Sending you love! ❤️
You are strong as well Stan ❤️ let’s heal together.
@@nhanta so uhhh did stan break up as well? :/
@@nhanta Awww be strong both of you! ✨I hope you too can meet each other in the future.
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oh wow you both are literally give asian sibling energy!!!
Heyyy friends, please give me some good breakup and moving-on songs. I am making a playlist on Spotify 😘😘
I wish you roses by Kali Uchis
No More 'I Love You's' by Annie Lennox
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Ella Mai- A Thousand Times
Stop Crying Your Heart Out by Oasis
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House of glass - Jon Caryl
Older - Sasha Alex Sloan
Heartaches - AI Bowlly
Being in a relationship is overrated. Learn to love your self and this will be the best relationship you will ever have.
Loving yourself too much means to be selfish. I cannot being selfish...
@@paolodesiato9497 Loving someone else too much means to be selfish too
@@paolodesiato9497you can never love yourself enough, that’s a myth. There’s a difference between love and arrogance, don’t confuse the two.
@@MrNumber112 Yes it's true
@@LexusFox If a person loves itself so much to be the best relationship in his/her life, it is arrogance.
A married man of many years once told me, "romance is the obsessive-compulsive diseased phase of a relationship that you have to get through on the way to real love. And one of the things you have to do is to figure out how to live with your other. Love is not candlelit dinners and long walks on the beach, but far more mundane things."
And sometimes you have to give each other space. You don't have to do everything together.
I really admire your sunny face sunny personality you’re such kind person and very humble ❤
You make a biggest terapy group with your videos. I loved your sensibilite and honestly, sucess for you always!
I don't know anything about what went wrong with your first relationship, however all that I am watching now, validates you as a wonderfully lovely human being. Be proud of yourself!
Oh my god!!😭😭 This guy!! What a guy...He has this potential to transfer so much positive energy into me. Like I've been through this shit for months but seems like u r progressing sooner n much better than me.4.5yrs of togetherness n I just can't get over it yet, but from this video I've got enough energy to cry. So gonna have a long Good cry now with spending a good time with myself ❤
Nhan you are a natural influencer whose courage and honesty linked t accepting the reality is amazing. Good to see you treat yourself to flowers....i got cactus to slowly grow as i got better and shared my days now after 3years its in flower reminder that the olds gone better new time has come Bro.🌈
Sweetheart as a Mom to 4 boys I have seen them all go through heartbreak. But in the end, they have all ended up with the people they needed to be with and spend their life together. :) You are doing great! So proud of you! HUGS
This process of you slowly healing has been something that has also helped me. I truly thank you for you positivity.
I'm smart, I'm strong, I'm beautiful!
REPEAT EVERYDAY!
I am your fan from Taiwan. I really love they way you deal with the whole thing with a positive mindset. Move on and never ever look back.
Moving out is the physical, tangible representation of the breakup so it always hurts. I’m glad you’re in a better headspace and in a new home. All good things going forward. 🤗
You are an inspiration to all who have been through a breakup. We learn what to expect and what we want, as we move on. Relationships are filled with good and bad things. What needs to happen is first find out what is important in a relationship to you at the time, and see if the relationship can be saved. If not, then move on.
So many people don’t realize that dating is not a one and done solution to loneliness. It’s a process where you eliminate the person you don’t want , and replace them with a better person. Eventually the process of elimination gets you closer to the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
You are doing some great things by moving out, writing down what you want out of a partner, and trying to be positive. And I’m VERY proud that you have not told us the bad things that happened between you and your ex, because we don’t need to know, and secondly, your ex should not be exposed as a bad person. I’m sure you would still be with him if you both could have worked on the problems you had.
I only offer one suggestion. And I try not to do this. But don’t go to a therapist to get through this. Surround yourself with friends, talk it out, go have fun, and save the money. As you said it will be fine. There is a guy out there for you. And just from what I’ve seen from all of your videos, you should not have any problems getting a guy, because you seem to care.
Continue to be your sweet self, and all will be ok. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us! ❤❤
Sending you love from Philippines 🇵🇭
I also went from an 8 year relationship break up, and trust me it really wasn't good but you'll get through it, I've been single for 2years now since break up and im now doing okay.
Just keep on fighting and always have positive insights in everything...your happiness is for sure just around the corner....
The best part is Nhan says to work on himself his lists, it makes me like you more. Remember to make your life easier, happier.
Hi Nhan, I’ve definitely been there BUT time, though it may seem like a longtime……embrace the personal love and growth. An entire new life was waiting for me. After spending 4 years in college, I realized I did NOT have the emotional dexterity to deal with sadly physical or emotionally challenged individuals.
So I went back to college, Marketing/Music Theory. Before I even graduated I was offered a job where I did my internship. Off to Los Angele (?????) and then wonderfully New York.
I sometimes think about how we’re really never good between us, only fleeting moments. Then surprisingly ended up meeting the guy that made me most happy. We never fought in 2 years (and that is not necessarily a good thing
I had a great job offer from Universal, made more money than I ever expected. But I finally like myself and look at my life as a journey.
I hope he didn’t leave you with emotional/physical wounds like my first partner, sigh whatever that was.
Enjoy your exciting life…..I would love to live in London. In your backpocker you will always know your first was a pretty good score, until it wasn’t.
An old school classic by Denice Williams “Free” may reflect some of your current emotions.
And please let the tears flow freely……crying relieves sooooo much!!!!!
I respect your pain. You’re not blaming or wishing negativity. Your focus is you and improving yourself. Recovery is a slow but you seen to be good
So sad about this video! 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 i was watching and following your blogs with Thiago. Wish you can still continue your love story when the right time comes. FOREVER LOVE...❤❤❤😍😘😘😘
Torci tanto por vocês dois. Mas infelizmente nem sempre as coisas acontecem como queremos.
Seja feliz . Todos nós merececemos isto.
Thanks! Love your vlog. Good luck, you're a joy to watch.
you guys i think it is rise to understand that they were a couple, and by that i mean that they both might have made mistakes one to each other, so let's not put the blame in one or the other, relationships are like that, nobody is perfect, so let's not blame Tiago for what happend, Nhân is not perfect and Tiago's not perfect either, they are both humans and they both have flaws, they both came from different cultures, and i am pretty sure that they are both learning how to deal with those kinds of things in life, Nhân is still very young and still learning through out his experiences. So, respect the decision that they both made. Life is about growing and not spreading hate.
I’m so proud of you ❤ I’m going through a breakup too and your vids were recommended to my depressed ass. Thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing your experience.
i seriously love you and your energy so much!! im so incredibly proud of you:(( thank you for overcoming a time like this so well.. youre absolutely amazing and please know you do have a lot of people who adore and love you and will always stick by your side to support you! (including me hehe) keep going, youre doing so well!!!
Nhân, thank you for existing and being able to help people. I'm Brazilian and I've been following your channel for so long that I don't even remember what was the first video of yours that I watched. I just know that I'm not going through a breakup but my relationship is not stable, I just wanted to say that the words you said in your video gave me strength to focus on myself, Getting certain thoughts and wishes out of my head and knowing that everything passes, even though I feel weak for it. But everything has a beginning and I'm learning now, thanks for sharing your vision. With love, Matheus ❤️🇧🇷
wow, a very wise head and confident guy. On your list, empathy is from the heart but also mutual trust is so important, I am so lucky in my relationship I have this and much more. You will find what you want you seem to be a really nice and trusting person, I wish you health, happiness and love always, Big hug.
I’ve never thought to have a TH-camr encourage me and support me in a way that I would never imagine. We haven’t met each other, but I already love you. Thank you for all the things you shared with fans. Thank YOU!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
I felt so moved watching this video, your vulnerability and sincerity really touched my heart. I'm sending love your way.
People don't change much from the moment you meet them. We just need to understand how to access this intimate nature of who we want to have as life companions. It is a forest of secrets where we must learn to capture the voluminous waters and the whispers. Good luck on that dive, a great journey! May yours be successful! 😊 My warm hug for you!
I know talking about your break up is hard but you are showing so much strength and I am so proud of you. Using your standards list as a self help and healing guide shows your growth as well. We are here for you and we love you Nhan❤Stay strong and keep smiling🤗
I really envy and love how you always share your thoughts in every video the way you share your personal feelings without giving a care of thinking people will like it or not is really amazing, watching your videos really comfort me as a person who doesnt know how to talk about feelings. So you are AMAZING nhân❤❤❤ lots of love❤❤
This year has taught me so much 😢 there has been so much breakups this year. I also went through a breakup this month. It is time to focus on ourselves💜
wounds in time turn into scars and that make you more beautiful Nhan. not anymore important how you broken what more important is how you pick up your broken self in order for new version of you. hugs to you! new subscriber here! Blessings!
Nhân, we know that every new beginning is not easy, but we are sure that you are already victorious, with your strength and determination that you have, everything has already worked out, be strong because we are with you, I wish you all the happiness in the world because you deserve it, a follower of yours who thinks you're very cute here in Brazil. ❤
You have such a positive outlook of your life and we all learn from our failures and successes. Hope you the best and stay strong. You have to look in the mirror and say I love myself. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t love another person You are the bomb. Aloha Hawaii
Your 2 cents was worth it. If things had been different and you both had downtime away from each other things would definately have been OK. You are a very handsome young man and there is someone
waiting for you around the corner
who will love you and you him. Take your time. Losing someone you love you need time to grieve and you are handling everything the right way. In fact you will come out stronger in all this.. Sending a big hug..from a Mom of 3 teenage boys. ❤️ X
Hi Nahn. Sorry for late post. I just found your channel. Regardless of what led up to your breakup, you are right to heal yourself and process what happened. You have so much energy and joy in you. I always start smiling and laughing when I hear your cute giggles and laughs. You will definitely find love again, when you are ready. I left a monogamous relationship of 13 years almost a year ago. Never thought I could ever have any deeper feelings for someone again. Haven't even been on a single date since. But I have recently found a guy with whom I have daily contact via social media. He means everything to me and one day I hope he gets citizenship in my country and can move here. Love finds a way. Take care
love yourself no matter what. spread love as u always do..
Dont worry nhan you will be healed soon everything will be alright .do your best and god will do the rest . We your subscribers always here for you
🥹😭 Nhan, losing someone you love is heart breaking. But always remember you can overcome by accept the fact that there’s no forever with the wrong person, only with the right one.
And also it’s a great decision to let go that place in able for you to move on and not feel sad everyday.
hello I'm from Chile I love your content I follow you for a long time you are a person who is worth a lot never change and you have very good followers that we are always supporting you
Grieving is part of comprehending the journey. Take your time to receive the path from this. Hope you can move on. All the love for you.
Siempre e pensado que las cosas pasan por algo y de todo aprendemos , eres una persona muy especial, me encanta que eres muy positivo ya que soy todo lo contrario, y verte realmente me ayuda 😊😊😊
Talking about self-love is essential for us to have relationships suited to our personal conditions and psychological expectations. This is quite different from selfishness, which looks only with the emotional charge of arrogance. Be yourself in fullness in relationships. That way, only those who understand and accept their individual characteristics will remain, instead of imposing a coexistence management system. My warm embrace for you! 😊❤
It's good that, you write your standards of your future partner, it's like you're already kinda manifesting it by knowing in yourself what you really want and deserve :) wish you all the best Love & light!
Be strong nan... Move on and let the past erase😊... Be positive mind... You will Found your real destiny's partner.,a right person for u soon...❤❤❤
Looking at your eyes while you're talking, makes me feel like I'm watching the Whole Universe 🌌 . Stay strong ❤
Life is full of moments...some wonderful and some not so good. But your new place will be your own sanctuary.
You are a very special person, beautiful, positive and full of good intentions. The events with Thiago came to help you grow emotionally and prepare yourself for someone better who will inhabit your future. I'm always in the crowd so that you have more reasons to open your wonderful 😃 smile. My warm embrace! I wish you the best wishes! ❤Sorry for any weird words. I'm using Google Translate cause I only have basic English.
Keep that happy face and positivity you have...it's always a good vibes watching you.
when you got to the flower shop, and said 'what should i pick?' - real quick i said 'pick tulips!' - and you did ~
hi, thank you for the motivation. You give positive energy. I can't be myself, I don't have friends with whom I could be open, but thanks to people like you who have the opportunity to live as they want, it makes me feel warm. as I said earlier, being gay in Russia is terribly difficult, especially when family or friends are not supportive. I am an introvert, and it is very difficult for me to communicate with people. Why am I like this?? why am I gay? why am I an introvert? and why is it so?
I hope things get better for you, and your future is filled with much happiness.
Hugs
Sending you hugs and positive energy!
@stulzgrun7097 anytime you need to chat we are here.
@@ThienNguyen-cn5mq Thank you very much, I'm crying (( why are foreigners so kind ?
Nhan, I like your I thinking you are at the right path.
Don't cry anymore sweetheart, everything will become better soon.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I like your positive attitude 😊 your strong, you got this! You'll find your one, put it out, into the universe and believe 😌
i love you nhan! i hope u find peace within. i am here for you
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS, YOUR VLOGS ARE LITERALLY MY COMFORT IN THIS TIRING ASS WORLD!😣😣💕💕💕💕
You always share such positive energy and wisdom with us. Much love and respect to you, kind man.
Sending you love and hugs. You will find someone who loves you for who you are!
My heart goes out to you both...... heal yourself.... find happiness again... before you get in another relationship.... that being said... dont pass up the opportunity of someone walking into your life... by chance....
I have been through many relationships through the decades... the most recent of almost 19 years.... that is attempting to mend it self..... your are wise beyond your years..... and when you find "the one" he and you.... will make beautiful memories with each other...
Leave this one with all the wonderful memories you did share...... and let it end on that...
xoxo Randolph
I just absolutely love you! I love your videos and your life. I am sorry for your break up. You are just sunshine to me. You deserve the best. Thank you for sharing your life story.❤❤❤❤❤
Nhan, love your new place. I bet you have a new sense of freedom. I agree 100 percent that moving in with your partner is not a good idea, especially as young as you are. You deserve to put you first. The tulips are beautiful, glad you could pamper yourself a little with the face products from your sponsor. A great idea to make your list. I personally would add someone who is physically affectionate who likes to laugh.
Nhan!
It's so great to see you healing from this tough moment! It's the perfect time to take care of you!
Lots of love for your live!
Agora é hora de cuidar do seu apartamento. Decorar. Cuidar de você. Pensar no trabalho de maneira mais positiva. Menos estressante. Sabe aquele ditado " Ame o próximo como a ti mesmo " ? Acontece que o próximo mais proximo de você, é você mesmo. Então ame- se antes de procurar um novo amor . E não exponha seu namorado na rede. Nada de pedir ele em namoro na frente de todos seus seguidores. Isso pode ser um tiro no pé. Corra, libere endorfina. Faça amigos novos. Vá ao cinema ao parque. Sorria bastante. O mundo tem 8 bilhões de pessoas. Acho que pelo menos uns 3 bilhões já se separaram e refizeram suas vidas. Portanto é questão de tempo.. Força joven rapaz. Abraços de São Paulo. Brasil.
Your personality has changed to the better, the positive outlook your embarking on is a excellent reflection of living life on your terms. Stay healthy and keep your beautiful demeanor strong. Having experienced many breakups and it’s aftermath it’s hard to believe in yourself, but you are doing great. Best of luck keep going on your quest in personal growth. ❤️🙋♂️🏳️🌈
I'm at a point in my life where I'm experiencing these things. Thank you Nhan🖤
Wow nhan is a strong person. U can see that. Seems I'm quite late to know this update. I believe this can be fixed after certain time because I believe they still love each other... but I also found he already started to moving on.
I just subscribed to your channel because I love your energy and positive thinking. And you made me want to see and hear about your future endeavors!!! Please stay safe and healthy 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Im so proud of you, I am the one who sees your hard work on how you as individual and also as a partner. Just continue no matter what happen always choose to be happy and go out on a position that make you sad and lonely. Remember you have more than one , you have many online followers just keep moving. From the philippines Marvin, I hope you notice and shout out to your next video😊😊
This is Carlo... you are the most beautiful boy in the world! If you came to America you would be my king! Being Italian I have so much love to give.❤❤❤
stay well and take care of yourself, your mental and physical health need a lot of care, I dated 4 times and my last relationship was what hurt the most when it ended and after that I realized that we need time for ourselves, and that it's okay to break up, it's part of life, take care and your brazil fans love you ❤💚
Relationships are what you make of it. If it's 'overrated', it ain't a relationship.!
Big hugs Nhan - your are doing great and one day Mr Right will turn up. With any luck it will be a delightful surprise! Happened to me 15 years ago and we are still going strong. D XX
I wish you all the happiness and everything will be fine. Take this experience as a valuable lesson, also to get to know yourself and this will allow you to grow up as a person!! ❤❤❤
Can’t believe my two favs in TH-cam doing through breakup at the same time. Sending love to you and Stan ❤
Who is stan?
@@BELLAANDSONTV worldofxtra that's Stan's TH-cam channel.
@@dotslashdotslahsdotslash ok thanks 😊
Who else?
Thank you Nhan(w/a hat) for putting a smile on my day! let's keep moving forward. :)
It is very good to work on yourself know yourself and what you want before getting into a relationship I also broke up and decide not to get into relationship for now , I'm just working on myself loving myself and working hard ❤️
Bonjour de France 🇨🇵 tu es sincère et honnête....tu as eu 1 leçon de vie ! On apprend toujours d'1 échec...au moins pour l'avenir tu sais ce que tu ne veux plus.donc c'est positif...prend bien soin de toi.tout ira mieux très vite..❤
To see your character development and your strong mind to want to change for the better is so inspiring and motivates us to work on ourself too.📈
Thank you Nhân🐰🐇 for being such a positive influence and being the sunshine in our gloomy days.🥹🫂🌅
Hope you find someone good in future. Be strong and keep positive thinking k. ❤
😊😊😊 keep fighting .. .. Sending love ❤ hope
you can find a right person not now but soon.
Love yourself first,then people will be drawn to you ♥️💔♥️🥰🥰love your videos sorry for your breakup I cried 😢a little for you, I know you find love 💕 again 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm so sad to hear the news that if you two broke up, it's okay maybe that's the best for both of you❤️, cheers to you ❤️
I love you
I saw myself to you . I’ve been with a longer term relationship and we’re live in for 5 years but we end up strangers from each other’s. a silent fan here from Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤ .
I am a fan. You and Thiago were cute together, but that void between the introvert and the extrovert is huge and hard to overcome. My daughter was in a similar situation once. She is the social butterfly and the man who was not, just did not work. You are sweet! Stay that way!
You will be okay. Ive been there and its really really hard. Lots of crying but you will be fine.
Hi Nhan: Everything you wrote on your whiteboard and explained makes total sense. I have followed you for a period of time and I definitely can relate to how hard a breakup can be regardless of who is at fault or should I rephrase that and write it takes both partners overall. What I learned after my first relationship, is that I took time to understand what he liked about me and did not like about me, and the same in reverse, what I liked about him and did not like about him. Like you, you are figuring out what you want and do not want in your next loving relationship. What you are doing with that whiteboard you wrote on, continue to take time since more thoughts will come to you and add them to the whiteboard. With me and the time I took off to better understand what happened and why, I did self-analysis which paid off big time since my second relationship, which was my last relationship, lasted 12.5 years until his untimely death at age 35 by a massive heart attack. The only thing I might suggest to you which you have admitted to in your various videos is that you are high energy. Taking boxing as you had in one of your videos is a good thing to release both some of that high energy and release some of the tension from your past relationship. Nothing like a punching bag to take it out on, smile. I am a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and I might suggest when you find that special one, be sure to include him if he is at all interested when you are editing your videos rather than having him need to find something to do while you are working on your videos. Even if he is not interested at least offer that idea to him. As you said in your video, COMMUNICATION IS NUMBER ONE since without that, the relationship will not work overall. So you were right on when you wrote that on your whiteboard. The only other thing I would suggest, because of your high energy you might want to consider doing something like yoga or meditation and continue with your boxing. Energy is good, but for some, if it is high energy, it could become overwhelming for the partner. So just a suggestion regarding meditation and/or yoga in case that special someone you meet is not high energy as you are. I really look up to you for sharing your emotions and feelings since you are absolutely in my opinion, helping others as you go through your own personal situation. It is too bad when you were going to school in the USA I did not know you, since you are very special and someone well worth getting to know and care for. I wish you all the best life has to offer and keep up the good work...Steve
Those pink tulips are so pretty 😍😍😍 Hello 👋 from Philippines 🤟🏼
Aw...your so sweet...and smart I think your on a great tract towards your future, take your time love you 😊❤
It's good to know when to get out of the wrong relationship. I made mistakes wasting my youth time, hoping things to work when deep down I know I put more effort than him in the relationship so it won't work. It took me catching him cheating for me to break off 10 years of relationship. I hope you will find someone who will truly love you as much as you love the other person.
Lots of love and positive energy for you ❤
Nhan, best wishes and success. I empathize with you. Have a great 2023. 😄
gud video young nhan
studio looks nice 🙂 simplicity
arrange the flowers 💐
You have so much emery its fun watching when you do your other Vlogs !! But its sad having a breakup but it is life !! All these self help books and writing a list what you expect from a new partner IS NOT HOW IT WORKS !! Plus seeing this is your very first relationship, is just the being !! we learn as we go through life !! Relationships is hard for everyone. BUT at the end of the day a partner is about respect, love ,kindness, understand ,giving and taking Giving each other space, talking about problems, being honest with each other BUT DONT analyse every single meaning I have been with the same man for over 36year. We now have just a friendship. I had 5 relationships through my life some lasted 1year others 3 to 5years This one the last one was my last relationship !! ONE thing when going through your breakup look at yourself and think was I easy to live with, was I also part of the reason why we broke up !! It takes two people and we are hearing only about all your issues !! Anyway just move on, learn to be happy with just yourself ,so next time you fall in love have a partner to share life with ,but everyone dont have someone in your life to be your happiness because that never works, you have a partner to enrich your life not to be your life Understand !!
Nhã you are very strong I love your way of being may God protect you always 🍀🍀🍀🍀
I love the energy that you have+all the best 😊
Your priority no 1 stay safe stay healthy keep positive❤❤
Nhân you deserve all the love in the world❤
You're still young..just focus in your future..learn to love yourself..coz self-love is everything..❤
You are very strong for your age everything will work out fine for you