Watching this channel has gotten me to realize all of my shortcomings. Now, I'm up at 5:45 every morning including weekends. I've started therapy to deal with my anxiety issues. I make $53,000 a year and I realize that is nothing. So I got a part time job as well to pay off my debts and I'm working on my credit. I read and study everyday so I can take my professional Network engineer certification within the next 2 months. I'm already in really good shape but I'm working out harder and eating better so I can be in optimal shape. I don't sleep if I haven't done what I need to do to better my life and become the man I want to be. It's hard work but after only a month it is paying off. I really needed this reality check. Thank you for what you're doing Kevin!
because they are trying to come up with a narrative that doesn’t make themselves look bad. They will literally change their story within a whole conversation when you talk to them long enough.
Cognitive dissonance...she doesn’t want to take responsibility for her being single. They all love to say in gods time and god bring me a man. So blame lies on god and not them for being single
I'm halfway through, and I have to admit as a Muslim man, that your grasp of male / female dynamics is masterful. I wish everyone listening would take note.
And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame of being unmarried.”-Isaiah 4:1
Biggest take away is when women get pressed and asked the right questions. Alot of them will reveal that they aren't the victims they portray themselves to be.
We need to stop pointing the finger and heal each other there seems to be a lot of miscommunication and misunderstanding and learned behavior that needs to be unlearned. We need to come together as a people
Last caller had what seemed to be that "good man"- But calling asking how to get companionship now? 1. She did not have to work! Stay home with kids. 2. "No one cheated" 3. Said nothing bad about him 4. She filed for divorce bc she was young/immature and wanted to work on being a struggling single mom? 5. Man pays child support 6. She still talks to him everyday and says they are still married, very good friends? A lot has to be missing.. Unbelievable Confusion!
40 years old, 3 kids and still talking to her ex-husband on a daily basis....no thank you ma'am. No man of any value wants to sign up for that headache.
I know a girl just like this about to be 40 and she looks 30, a solid 8 on a bad day but she has 3 kids and her ex husband lives in the same town. She even admitted that even if she found a new man she couldn't guarantee that she wouldn't sleep with her ex husband.
Yvonne F Some guys sign up for it because they are desperate and they believe lies some of these women say like “I’m no longer attracted to my ex, we just try and stay cool with each other for kids sake”
@@yvonnef6240 Dang, even a female could see what's wrong with that logic or lack thereof and it's a female we're talking about....But then again, I'm only going by your avatar pic
I've heard that line so much from people her age it's NUTS. Kevin said it sistas wait too long to get started in life and boom it's too late and they are scrambling. I've literally dated women who had her mindset but also something Kevin hit on...the pride to not admit they were wrong because they'll get in trash relationships just to not do it! That lady called in trying to get into something NEW! But ended up realizing after KS raked her over hot coals that she was out of order. She had been living a karmaic lie the entire time and couldn't see it.
She was truly a a-hole and I think she was probably cheating on him. She had a lot of unmitigated gall 2 call in period 2 LIE! Who r they deluding?! I knew she was lying off the rip just like Kevin 2. She also sounds fat.
Lots of people claim Christianity and have no idea what that entails. They don't want Jesus, they want the grace and forgiveness while being satisfied living in sin. Watch her actions instead of listening to her words to see if she is an actual Christ follower.
You can't obtain God's grace, forgiveness or any other spiritual blessings while living in sin. All spiritual blessings are found in Christ. Folks need to read and study their bible.
What I got out of this is that a woman can kick a beta male baby daddy to the curb and still string him along while simultaneously looking for something better while trying to blame the world for acting in such a disgusting matter. She said “we love each other”. Where’s your love ma’am? Where’s your love?... Smdh. I almost shed a tear for that brother. ALMOST. But the man needs to have some self respect and walk away as well.
The wise woman builds her house [on a foundation of godly precepts, and her household thrives], But the foolish one [who lacks spiritual insight] tears it down with her own hands [by ignoring godly principles].-Proverbs 14:1
This woman was hanging on to her husband because she know he is a good man and would hate to see him with someone else. I think her husband is too good for her!
Kevin this is a hellava show bro ,so true so sad ,women are very masculine these days in a relationship ,they know what the scripture says about what a man is suppose to do and be but ask them what a women suppose to do and their role ,they don't have a clue ,keep up the good work fam,
Oh they know what their role is, they just have difficulty doing it for a Black man, ..even decent earning, middle-class ones. They have no issues doing it for any marginal, low-level White guy though..
@@tom11zz884 you are right they seem to want to always challenge the bm even not total submitting with sex, some ww and other races seem to want to please and support their man,women don't realize what it takes to slay dragons for a bm and to come home and get beat down more with out any support ?
@GodLoveFreedom that's not true if a women can't and won't submit before marriage and is so use to being masculine ,what button can she push to submit after marriage ? You have to already be in that frame of mind ,because you can only play a role for so long I have experience this with my first wife
Many women forget that having to work by the “sweat of your brow” was the CURSE God placed on ADAM the man for listening to the woman and eating the fruit with her. I believe the stress they feel may be because they’ve taken on the full curse (Adams and Eves) God placed on humanity. They’re trying to carry the weight of both curses and it’s destroying them.
@@uoenoho9426 Except it's not slavery bc you have the free will to curse yourselves. Bad decisions equals bad results. You have the free will to make good and bad decisions
Ima need Tiffany to make another point other than “don’t come down on yourself if you haven’t found love”. Kevin made several points and that’s all she had to say throughout the whole conversation. lol
So true Kevin....you hit it on the nail!! Men can’t find women who are submitted to God they’re rebels!! Like you said a lot of women are not living up to Godly standards, they’ve adopted worldly practices! I’m a woman...and I see this firsthand!!
I've dealt with this 1st hand. The clues were there. I just saw them as motivation and inspiration. She kept pushing me to get promoted, get the higher position more more more. Wanted to over buy in all areanas. Clearly I wasnt enough. Young men if you have patience to be in a relationship with women always know you are enough because if you were not she wouldnt be there. Stand firm.
This is Kevin's best show to date when it comes to helping and reaching black women AND men! For the first time, I feel I can call him "Godfather". I was married to a successful man and was a stay at home mother and I have probably aged out of the game at this point. However, I am pro-black family and I care deeply about our community and our children having strong black families. I support doing the hard work to help our younger generation stay together and be strong. Thank you Kevin!
Kevin is right... I'm a woman and I too could not come under the leadership of a woman in the church. The church I once attended had a female co- pastor that kept up so much mess that I, along with half the other members, left.
Yikes! The caller that dumped her high school sweetheart. She got the jackpot of life and threw it away. Geez! She should just go back to her ex husband.
God bless this show 🙏🏾. I thought it was too late but after listening to that 40 year old with the 3 kids talking to her ex husband I knew this show came right on time. The younger version of me thought that I can leave my husband at anytime and there will be another man waiting on me with 2 kids in tow. Now I really realize that ain’t the case. Thank you so so much Godfather. RIP 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* Unfortunately a lot of women think that's the case...until they eventually find out it's NOT. Glad to see SOMEBODY has sense. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
The first caller is a real one. She takes responsibility for following an incorrect narrative that woman are to be independent from men. The second caller avoids responsibility, deflects, and is preaching a script that single women shouldn’t feel bad. They go to church wearing a mask & not the mask you wear to protect from COVID. It’s a mask that conceals their true self which is one who avoids mastering the skills and qualities needed to be a man’s help mate.
When it comes to religion, one of the criticisms that I have towards religious institutions, specifically Christianity and Church, is that it doesn't seem to be a place where men can be fulfilled in their identity and it doesn't give men a sense of identity. The reason for why I say that is because for the most part, in terms of the congregation and attendance members, church is a female-dominated institution. 85% of the people that attend church and are part of the congregation are women. The head Pastors might be man along with his wife but beneath that, the leadership team and congregation is mostly full of women. Because of that, there are times to where the Pastor will just have to adjust to and give out certain propaganda in order to keep his female-dominated congregation happy even though it lies for the most part and men aren't down with that. Another thing is that Christianity and Church also does nothing but get you emotionally rowed up rather than just tell you the upfront truth, which is much more suited for women since they are ruled by their emotions. Another thing is that with Christianity and Church, it gives out this notion of passivity where you're told to not defend yourself if you are attacked and by nature men aren't like that and aren't down with that. In basic words, there is nothing about Christianity and Church that gives off a sense of 'Masculinity'. That's the reason I personally think why very few men are in it or why there is a very high but quiet rate of men leaving it. From my personal observation, the men that are in it for the most part, they're either very effeminate or they're very weak and docile. This is part of the reason why I joined MGTOW in the first place. MGTOW for me personally, also gives off that sense of 'Masculinity' and 'Identity' that I've been looking for most of my life, which I never found being raised up in Christianity and Church.
could not have said it better myself i see it all the time. especially after i was told i was not black enough to go to a black church. really i still hear from black women that i might not be suitable to go to their chruch. When did it become their's? i thought God was over the church.
Good job. You touched on the very important point of how the cancer of feminity has been intertwined in scripture to appeal, appease, and consequently retain the current gynocentric demographic of the black church.
I think it is important for people to find a church that fits their needs. I understand where you are coming from but there are churches out there with a large male presence. The one I attend has more men in leadership roles than women, including the volunteers. Keep searching and you can find a church that both uplifts and tells you the truth.
I only attended my church because of the pastor. He doesn't sugar coat the scriptures and that piss off a lot of people. Sadly not alot of men like my pastor are out there because they are dying breed. When the time comes for him to go with God, I am leaving the church.
One of the biggest problems I see between men and women is “the need to be right” instead of coming together to find a solution. All the finger pointing regarding who’s more right or wrong won’t change a thing. What we need is accountability and honesty and then maybe we can try to move forward. If relationships are bad now, can you imagine what’s it’s going to be like in the future. We are living in a fallen world that lacks morality, spirituality, respect, love and character. I question whether or not people really love each other.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ The Godfather is undefeated ! Facts over feelings. Rest easy KS. 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
🤔🤯Caller @ 2:08:54++. "I filed for divorce fom my HS sweetheart bc it was stupid...young and immature.... thought I could find somebody else later....no one cheated" Intro:"I'm 40, done the stay at home mom thing, 3kids(his), divorced, don't wanna have anymore kids, don't need the HVM just a GOOD man, want companionship, I'm a Christian, want a man that is a Christian, know I'm in the danger zone or whatever you call it, I did not have to work while married." Later: I went on to focus on work and being a SINGLE mom struggling to raise young kids. Divorced 12 years....oh um 8 years. He pays child support and I still talk to him everyday. "We're still "married" and have a good co-parenting relationship.... We're still very good friends. I have done that(try to go back to him)🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
@@kevinlee9929 She cheated on him, I guarantee it. Kevin slipped up & asked her a 2nd question before she could answer the 1st & she capitalised on that by simply answering "No".
I feel like Kevin was about to go in on that but didn’t wanna humiliate her like the Lisa del Sol chick who said she was 24 and engaged looking every bit of 40.
This woman is rebellious af. When I was in church, a lot of women were heavy in that opposition area. A lot. This lady needs a good rebuking. I mean, sheesh. How unfortunate.
Married BW to BM here. ... I love, honor and recognize the plight of my brothers & could/ would never bring myself to marry outside my race for they could never truly get us the way we should get each other. Having a child by one seems like I'm subjecting myself and the child to an identity crisis also Ive known swirling relationships go thru so many miscarriages etc as its like the bodies natural defense to reject "foreign objects" 🤷🏿♀️. I love you black men. Please understand that our current actions & divisiveness towards each other is the psychological effect of Willie Lynch passed on from generation to generation. We all need to be re-taught the miseducation we were given & recognize where this "misunderstanding" comes from. BW need to submit more to our BM letting them lead& guide the family but BM need to be more understanding, compassionate & dare I say PATIENT on why BW are this way (again Willie Lynch) for it took generations to get us here and may take us generations to overcome. We need to start teaching our children (boys and girls) black unity and love of one another... in hopes this divisiveness we have today strengthens into what it should be.
Basically SHE is the issue. I’m not gonna myself a high value man BUT I’m a very direct communicator and high performing. If I went on a dinner date with this lady I’d ask very detailed questions and almost immediately excuse myself to the restroom and leave her with the bill. She doesn’t Listen, she doesn’t Hear, she doesn’t Cooperate, and she IS MOST DEFINITELY the issue. Poor guy man. We need Parental Custody reform because these feminist are ruining lives, including their own children’s lives. Smh
Mr. Samuels, please continue doing the LORD's work. I said this already in one of your videos, I wish I was taught what he is teaching and showing us when I was younger. And keep in mind, I am not black!
lol Kevin, you are far more patient than I am. "Should a woman stay in an abusive relationship" that one came out of wayyyyyyyyy left field #SnappleDapple!!!!
Very important and interesting discussion. Thank you Kevin for a high quality, professional, pointed discussion. I thoroughly appreciate you and your platform.
Hey Kevin, Love your platform and it’s content! Can you think about occasionally listing the fragrances you mention so that we can check them out. Thanks!
I’m never getting married to be honest I came to deal with the fact that I never got chosen. I’ve seen too many attractive women pick evil men. I’m living my life to the fullest I’m not worrying about being alone.
I came across a video yesterday by someone saying KEVIN SAMUELS IS A FRAUD. The guy was saying he wasn't a real business owner and all this other shit about how he isn't who he said he is. My thing is let's say all that is true. He's STILL inspiring niggas to get their shit together. Inspiring niggas to clean up their image. Inspiring niggas to make more money. There's NOTHING wrong with what this man is preaching. Keep doing what you're doing Kevin
Kevin I know you a Christian but you move like the Brothers in the NOI with the work you do in the Black Community. You sound like an FOI. I salute your hard work in the Black Community!! A Salaam Alaikum my Brother!!
Yes definitely, Islam principles will be back as the main standard, it’s inevitable. When a society falls down into chaos, the Islamic «System » becomes the necessity tool to rebuild & restructure a civilization. No wonder why many redpillers refers to Islam as the best «Patriarchal » model to consider. When the Zulu Nation has failed to bring Hip-Hop at its best as a culture & fell into «Chaos », edonism, & drug consumption, it was the 5% nation (with Islamic principles) who’ve done the work to bring Hip hop at the standard of decency (such as Knowledge Supreme, Supreme Mathematics etc... even tho we can disagree on some doctrines but the base foundation is Islamic)... & i can go on & on with many examples.
Hard headed is hard headed and the fact she always has to have a rebuttal and such non relevant rebuttals proves his point. She consistently wants to change the goal post to detract away from the point Kevin is making so by as to deny the relevance of what’s being said
Here is what I would say to the woman that Kevin was talking to about a woman's purpose being a man: You are single, and you have no prospect of getting a man. You are calling in on Kevin's show because doing it your way has not worked. In fact, men have been trying to do it your way for two generations, because that's what you said that you wanted, and it has not worked.
Listening to Kevin's show is like the conversation Franklin & Simeon had in GTA V *Simeon* / *Kevin* : You tell me exactly what it is that you want & I will very carefully explain to you why it cannot be. *Franklin* / *Female Callers* : What?!
I think we all fell for the independent woman hustle because many people benefited and it did not come from the black community. It came from the industrial revolution. They needed workers after the war, etc. etc. Problem is we were disproportionately affected by that mess. Then there is this mess about housewives were being abused. SOME were...some.
I actually finally got through didn’t hear the whole video until now...some of these women that call in are not the majority....that sounds crazy that last caller she’s ridiculous the women who left her husband
I don’t understand the last caller, why would you rather struggle than have a family house hold? That woman is toying with her ex husband’s emotions and that’s not fair on him. why put him through all of that for what?
People have left the church because of poor discipleship! Men have no other masculine men to follow in the church. Women have gotten away from our reasons for being here. Genesis 2:18 women are here to be a helpmate to our husbands but most women that are in the “danger zone” were NOT taught to get a husband. Education was on the TOP of my moms list along with cooking. Looking for a husband was not priority. Kevin is giving free game! I have learned to stay in my lane and be content with a middle class man.
Like the comment Alike. But I've noticed some moms don't teach there daughters anything but look pretty in this generation. No college education. They don't have to cook, drive, clean at minimum, work for minimum, etc. Make them lazy to the fact she depends on them only with no reciprocity to get or keep a man. Then the girl just say GOD send her a good man to treat her like a queen. But not working on wife skills.
Brandon Clark I understand its frustrating. What age group of women are you talking about? Social media has played a MAJOR role in today’s youth. You right some women don’t know the basics but show a little grace they probably weren’t taught.
@@KCoopp9 24 - 30 age groups. They have married parents that just pampered them and 5 years I see me and other guys just leave because they blow it. As kevin say they misinterpreted the church versus then would say God send them a good men when they had one but put no effort.
Good points: There are good examples of men in the church....and poor examples also, but the Bible says a good tree bears good fruit: just stick to the good trees!🤣 A lot of the women in church started out ok, but when they got grown, they started doin "their own thing": that's where Leotis came into the picture... 10-15 and 3 kids down the road, they wake up and realize they're 35, and they ain't gettin nowhere with him.......🙄 So now, they turn to church, with their club attire still on, lookin for God to send them a good man, when in actuality, God has been sending good men their way for the last 20 years: They were with Leotis (and they still with him).... And this is why a lot of the men have left church.....between the confusion and all the carnality, u cant go to church in peace anymore!!!!😂
Ecclesiastes 7:27-28 KJV [27] Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account: [28] Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.
Single parents, man I was a single parent after the divorce. I will not wish that upon nobody!!!!! Single Parent... Get a wife and a husband and build something strong to present to the world...
Not every adult is mature, err go, when getting advice one should learn to listen especially when you disagree with the answers. imposing ones view point despite the point fogs the issue from moving forward to a better resolution. This is what meant by women not being equal to men, they just don't think the same way.
That caller just after the 2 hr mark…. This is the first time I disagree with KS. No, that woman should not go back to her ex-husband. She was beyond deceptive and knows it. That man deserves better than that. She will never be loyal to him because she doesn’t respect him due to him letting her run over him for years. She left cuz she knows/thinks he is into her but she wanted to ride the CC with other men knowing she always has that dude as back up. My hope is her ex hubby finds a new woman worthy of a guy like him and ditches his ex-wife.
I agree with Kevin on a woman's purpose. Since men are leaving the churches and the faith in droves would you recommend a Christian woman be a helpmate to a non-Christian man? If not what is the solution for the large amount of Christian women looking for Christian men?
High Value are not the goal post that women should be seeking to get. There are not enough to go around, competition is fierce and most women do not qualify based on the true standards that Mr. Samuels has pointed out. In others words, money gives men options and women over 30 yrs old rarely fit the bill of being "submissive or cooperative."
1:34:00 sounds like he was at IBOC or possibly OCBF. I’m leaning toward IBOC since he mentioned Mondays. It’s a whole slew of Mega churches around that Westmoreland, Wheatland, camp wisdom, Cockrell Hill area- basically any exit of Highway 67
Men: You have to have 10k/mo for 5 years, and all of this other stuff to be an HVM. Why is it that as a man, I can so easily say: Ok. I don't have that, and I don't see it coming. Therefore I am not a HVM. And I can STILL understand, defend and agree with Kevin's points, and be an integral member of the show. It's sitting there. Right in front of me. Obvious. To the planet. So why would EYE argue about it? You, as a woman, are NOT an 8, 9 or 10. Arguing the point like it's the last sip of water, only makes you look uglier. Getting angry and immediately entering into prolonged attack mode ends it all for me. Quick.
Watching this channel has gotten me to realize all of my shortcomings. Now, I'm up at 5:45 every morning including weekends. I've started therapy to deal with my anxiety issues. I make $53,000 a year and I realize that is nothing. So I got a part time job as well to pay off my debts and I'm working on my credit. I read and study everyday so I can take my professional Network engineer certification within the next 2 months. I'm already in really good shape but I'm working out harder and eating better so I can be in optimal shape. I don't sleep if I haven't done what I need to do to better my life and become the man I want to be. It's hard work but after only a month it is paying off. I really needed this reality check. Thank you for what you're doing Kevin!
@DocChie thank you brother!
See you at the top
@@bigbaltimore definitely man!
Good stuff Chris! I am pulling for you, brother!
Blessings brotha! I'm on the same path! We got this ❤️
Why the hell do women have such a hard time answering simple questions directly?
because they are trying to come up with a narrative that doesn’t make themselves look bad.
They will literally change their story within a whole conversation when you talk to them long enough.
If their lips are moving, they’re lying
@@bobbygreens8984 congrats on coming out 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
@The Duke lol niggas like you are so easy to finesse
Cognitive dissonance...she doesn’t want to take responsibility for her being single. They all love to say in gods time and god bring me a man. So blame lies on god and not them for being single
I'm halfway through, and I have to admit as a Muslim man, that your grasp of male / female dynamics is masterful. I wish everyone listening would take note.
As a fellow Muslim, salute.
Most of what he’s saying he’s on point with Islam. Except for the cheating aspect well in that case we can get 4 wives😭
@@somalipirate20 The halal flex is ridiculous lol
@@somalipirate20 Not cheating. Exercising options.
@@somalipirate20 That is too much of a crazy thing
And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame of being unmarried.”-Isaiah 4:1
Oh my goodness 😨 the Bible is so accurate today!
@James Breedlove 💯 Facts, and only real wives who live by the gospel will truly understand the significant importance of this verse
That spiritual food my brother. They don't know nothing about that, bcuz it's like kryptonite to the majority of them...
I a 144% agree with ya...
_Please be respectful in my comment section. What is your biggest takeaway from this video? _*_Comment below_*_ ._
Biggest take away is when women get pressed and asked the right questions. Alot of them will reveal that they aren't the victims they portray themselves to be.
We need to stop pointing the finger and heal each other there seems to be a lot of miscommunication and misunderstanding and learned behavior that needs to be unlearned. We need to come together as a people
Could you please link the article on the impact analysis of Covid?
Celly Megie We have to hold people accountable. Calling out b.s is a necessity for changes.
Last caller had what seemed to be that "good man"- But calling asking how to get companionship now? 1. She did not have to work! Stay home with kids. 2. "No one cheated" 3. Said nothing bad about him 4. She filed for divorce bc she was young/immature and wanted to work on being a struggling single mom? 5. Man pays child support 6. She still talks to him everyday and says they are still married, very good friends? A lot has to be missing.. Unbelievable Confusion!
40 years old, 3 kids and still talking to her ex-husband on a daily basis....no thank you ma'am. No man of any value wants to sign up for that headache.
I know a girl just like this about to be 40 and she looks 30, a solid 8 on a bad day but she has 3 kids and her ex husband lives in the same town. She even admitted that even if she found a new man she couldn't guarantee that she wouldn't sleep with her ex husband.
@@thespiritualartofwar Why did she bother divorcing him if that's where she is mentally? No man is signing up for that foolishness.
Yvonne F Some guys sign up for it because they are desperate and they believe lies some of these women say like “I’m no longer attracted to my ex, we just try and stay cool with each other for kids sake”
@@yvonnef6240 Dang, even a female could see what's wrong with that logic or lack thereof and it's a female we're talking about....But then again, I'm only going by your avatar pic
@@outtogetyou72 Yes, im a female and I see the foolishness on both sides.
Caller,"I was young and dumb at 31 years old."😳
Exactly
I've heard that line so much from people her age it's NUTS. Kevin said it sistas wait too long to get started in life and boom it's too late and they are scrambling. I've literally dated women who had her mindset but also something Kevin hit on...the pride to not admit they were wrong because they'll get in trash relationships just to not do it! That lady called in trying to get into something NEW! But ended up realizing after KS raked her over hot coals that she was out of order. She had been living a karmaic lie the entire time and couldn't see it.
She was truly a a-hole and I think she was probably cheating on him. She had a lot of unmitigated gall 2 call in period 2 LIE! Who r they deluding?! I knew she was lying off the rip just like Kevin 2. She also sounds fat.
Hotep lmao smh clown
I hate when people say that. We ain’t dumb if you know right from wrong
Lots of people claim Christianity and have no idea what that entails. They don't want Jesus, they want the grace and forgiveness while being satisfied living in sin. Watch her actions instead of listening to her words to see if she is an actual Christ follower.
Spot on!!
Correct! I pay attention to the fruit not your words🤷🏾♀️
Amen Ben. You are right. Sometimes the truth hurts, but it still needs to be said.
Preach.
You can't obtain God's grace, forgiveness or any other spiritual blessings while living in sin. All spiritual blessings are found in Christ. Folks need to read and study their bible.
What I got out of this is that a woman can kick a beta male baby daddy to the curb and still string him along while simultaneously looking for something better while trying to blame the world for acting in such a disgusting matter. She said “we love each other”. Where’s your love ma’am? Where’s your love?... Smdh. I almost shed a tear for that brother. ALMOST. But the man needs to have some self respect and walk away as well.
She also confirmed the fact that baby mommas can’t leave their BDs alone either. Further more cementing how poisonous they truly are.
The wise woman builds her house [on a foundation of godly precepts, and her household thrives], But the foolish one [who lacks spiritual insight] tears it down with her own hands [by ignoring godly principles].-Proverbs 14:1
She also tears it down with her mouth.
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They don't care about any of that
This woman was hanging on to her husband because she know he is a good man and would hate to see him with someone else. I think her husband is too good for her!
basically, he is in the friendzone.
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@@jhunt955 Facts! ✌️🏾
It's usually that way extremely common in marriage
Kevin is right. He should not talk to her
Kevin this is a hellava show bro ,so true so sad ,women are very masculine these days in a relationship ,they know what the scripture says about what a man is suppose to do and be but ask them what a women suppose to do and their role ,they don't have a clue ,keep up the good work fam,
Oh they know what their role is, they just have difficulty doing it for a Black man, ..even decent earning, middle-class ones.
They have no issues doing it for any marginal, low-level White guy though..
@sunnyD 22
It is " There's"...not " Their"
Silly and can't even spell at that...lol
@@tom11zz884 you are right they seem to want to always challenge the bm even not total submitting with sex, some ww and other races seem to want to please and support their man,women don't realize what it takes to slay dragons for a bm and to come home and get beat down more with out any support ?
@GodLoveFreedom that's not true if a women can't and won't submit before marriage and is so use to being masculine ,what button can she push to submit after marriage ? You have to already be in that frame of mind ,because you can only play a role for so long I have experience this with my first wife
Many women forget that having to work by the “sweat of your brow” was the CURSE God placed on ADAM the man for listening to the woman and eating the fruit with her. I believe the stress they feel may be because they’ve taken on the full curse (Adams and Eves) God placed on humanity. They’re trying to carry the weight of both curses and it’s destroying them.
@@uoenoho9426 Christianity makes good slaves. I thought I was Christian whole life but now decide I might be a mixture of religions.
@@uoenoho9426 apples and oranges.
Uoeno Ho Bible isn’t a slavery book fool
@@uoenoho9426 Ok 😆
@@uoenoho9426 Except it's not slavery bc you have the free will to curse yourselves. Bad decisions equals bad results. You have the free will to make good and bad decisions
Awesome show sir!!! I see your frustration.......it's a sinking ship and your pitching as much water as you can. Much respect to you Kevin!!!!
Ima need Tiffany to make another point other than “don’t come down on yourself if you haven’t found love”. Kevin made several points and that’s all she had to say throughout the whole conversation. lol
This comment gives me hope lol
Her deflection game was on point like a boxer who keeps parrying punches but doesn't throw any punches 😁
Clear4ort if that Kayla strawberry chick can be worn down by Kevin, ANY “strong, independent” woman can be as well!
Clear4ort can you leave me alone. Stop harassing me.
so many women like her
That is the game many female play. She hits the wall at 37 and now she is telling women not to look for love... so they all can be single like herself
I miss you so much, Kevin. Rest Easy💔🕊
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So true Kevin....you hit it on the nail!! Men can’t find women who are submitted to God they’re rebels!! Like you said a lot of women are not living up to Godly standards, they’ve adopted worldly practices! I’m a woman...and I see this firsthand!!
Lord do I miss this brother 🙏🏾 Gone too soon but his purpose was fulfilled
Agree
Blk ppl of substance please share this we need this platform like AIR and it’s getting more useful show by show thank you Kevin God bless !!!!
Alot of blacks folks especially women don’t want to hear it.
This is a conversation that needed to be had! It stings but it’s real. Thanks Kevin.
I've dealt with this 1st hand. The clues were there. I just saw them as motivation and inspiration. She kept pushing me to get promoted, get the higher position more more more. Wanted to over buy in all areanas. Clearly I wasnt enough. Young men if you have patience to be in a relationship with women always know you are enough because if you were not she wouldnt be there. Stand firm.
Kudos to you Brother for being a Cancer Survivor. May your Future be Prosperous and Fulfilling Bro.
This is Kevin's best show to date when it comes to helping and reaching black women AND men! For the first time, I feel I can call him "Godfather". I was married to a successful man and was a stay at home mother and I have probably aged out of the game at this point. However, I am pro-black family and I care deeply about our community and our children having strong black families. I support doing the hard work to help our younger generation stay together and be strong. Thank you Kevin!
Kevin is right... I'm a woman and I too could not come under the leadership of a woman in the church. The church I once attended had a female co- pastor that kept up so much mess that
I, along with half the other members, left.
Yikes! The caller that dumped her high school sweetheart. She got the jackpot of life and threw it away. Geez! She should just go back to her ex husband.
Why should he take her back?
God bless this show 🙏🏾. I thought it was too late but after listening to that 40 year old with the 3 kids talking to her ex husband I knew this show came right on time. The younger version of me thought that I can leave my husband at anytime and there will be another man waiting on me with 2 kids in tow. Now I really realize that ain’t the case. Thank you so so much Godfather. RIP 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
Unfortunately a lot of women think that's the case...until they eventually find out it's NOT. Glad to see SOMEBODY has sense.
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....and the way you behave will cause him to leave you. You cause this.
The attorney is being honest and can hear the pain of not being married with kids. I am 41 years old and feel the same way.
She sounds like it hurt her a bit to be so single. She’s teachable, and if she has her physical in order, she will most likely end up with a good man.
Mr Samuels, you are doing a public service. My God I wish someone like you in my life when I was growing up.
Always a good night! Learn a lot and thank you for the gems you continue to bring! God bless you continuously! ❤️
The first caller is a real one. She takes responsibility for following an incorrect narrative that woman are to be independent from men. The second caller avoids responsibility, deflects, and is preaching a script that single women shouldn’t feel bad. They go to church wearing a mask & not the mask you wear to protect from COVID. It’s a mask that conceals their true self which is one who avoids mastering the skills and qualities needed to be a man’s help mate.
Mr. Samuels...your presentation is A1! Very impressive.
Image consultant = top level professional presentation
DaBlackStar 🤔makes since
@@NikNik0123 *sense
When it comes to religion, one of the criticisms that I have towards religious institutions, specifically Christianity and Church, is that it doesn't seem to be a place where men can be fulfilled in their identity and it doesn't give men a sense of identity. The reason for why I say that is because for the most part, in terms of the congregation and attendance members, church is a female-dominated institution. 85% of the people that attend church and are part of the congregation are women. The head Pastors might be man along with his wife but beneath that, the leadership team and congregation is mostly full of women. Because of that, there are times to where the Pastor will just have to adjust to and give out certain propaganda in order to keep his female-dominated congregation happy even though it lies for the most part and men aren't down with that. Another thing is that Christianity and Church also does nothing but get you emotionally rowed up rather than just tell you the upfront truth, which is much more suited for women since they are ruled by their emotions. Another thing is that with Christianity and Church, it gives out this notion of passivity where you're told to not defend yourself if you are attacked and by nature men aren't like that and aren't down with that. In basic words, there is nothing about Christianity and Church that gives off a sense of 'Masculinity'. That's the reason I personally think why very few men are in it or why there is a very high but quiet rate of men leaving it. From my personal observation, the men that are in it for the most part, they're either very effeminate or they're very weak and docile. This is part of the reason why I joined MGTOW in the first place. MGTOW for me personally, also gives off that sense of 'Masculinity' and 'Identity' that I've been looking for most of my life, which I never found being raised up in Christianity and Church.
could not have said it better myself
i see it all the time. especially after i was told i was not black enough to go to a black church.
really
i still hear from black women that i might not be suitable to go to their chruch. When did it become their's? i thought God was over the church.
Good job. You touched on the very important point of how the cancer of feminity has been intertwined in scripture to appeal, appease, and consequently retain the current gynocentric demographic of the black church.
I think it is important for people to find a church that fits their needs. I understand where you are coming from but there are churches out there with a large male presence. The one I attend has more men in leadership roles than women, including the volunteers. Keep searching and you can find a church that both uplifts and tells you the truth.
I only attended my church because of the pastor. He doesn't sugar coat the scriptures and that piss off a lot of people. Sadly not alot of men like my pastor are out there because they are dying breed. When the time comes for him to go with God, I am leaving the church.
@@raouljoseph1411 I completely understand that. Good decision Bro
One of the biggest problems I see between men and women is “the need to be right” instead of coming together to find a solution. All the finger pointing regarding who’s more right or wrong won’t change a thing. What we need is accountability and honesty and then maybe we can try to move forward. If relationships are bad now, can you imagine what’s it’s going to be like in the future. We are living in a fallen world that lacks morality, spirituality, respect, love and character. I question whether or not people really love each other.
I love this Music in the Beginning. Even these choice is Style Bro.
POWERFUL show brother...
Sad to say, she's not willing to change anything and that's where we will always fall short.
The _"Lilith"_ spirit has taken over. She belongs to _"the streets,"_ now...
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
The Godfather is undefeated !
Facts over feelings.
Rest easy KS. 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
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Damn! This show is a monument. It's possibly the most profound broadcasted program I have ever experienced.
🤔🤯Caller @ 2:08:54++. "I filed for divorce fom my HS sweetheart bc it was stupid...young and immature.... thought I could find somebody else later....no one cheated"
Intro:"I'm 40, done the stay at home mom thing, 3kids(his), divorced, don't wanna have anymore kids, don't need the HVM just a GOOD man, want companionship, I'm a Christian, want a man that is a Christian, know I'm in the danger zone or whatever you call it, I did not have to work while married."
Later: I went on to focus on work and being a SINGLE mom struggling to raise young kids. Divorced 12 years....oh um 8 years. He pays child support and I still talk to him everyday. "We're still "married" and have a good co-parenting relationship.... We're still very good friends. I have done that(try to go back to him)🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
@You Do 2 Much Yup. Ask the right questions and they expose themselves.
@@kevinlee9929 She cheated on him, I guarantee it. Kevin slipped up & asked her a 2nd question before she could answer the 1st & she capitalised on that by simply answering "No".
This a perfect example of playing games and then hitting the wall. The wall and Kevin are undefeated 💯
She tried to monkey branch but grabbed a snake and fell on top of her ex lol.
I feel like Kevin was about to go in on that but didn’t wanna humiliate her like the Lisa del Sol chick who said she was 24 and engaged looking every bit of 40.
His subscriber count is doing NUMBERS. CONSISTENCY IS KEY🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This woman is rebellious af. When I was in church, a lot of women were heavy in that opposition area. A lot. This lady needs a good rebuking. I mean, sheesh. How unfortunate.
Married BW to BM here. ... I love, honor and recognize the plight of my brothers & could/ would never bring myself to marry outside my race for they could never truly get us the way we should get each other. Having a child by one seems like I'm subjecting myself and the child to an identity crisis also Ive known swirling relationships go thru so many miscarriages etc as its like the bodies natural defense to reject "foreign objects" 🤷🏿♀️. I love you black men. Please understand that our current actions & divisiveness towards each other is the psychological effect of Willie Lynch passed on from generation to generation. We all need to be re-taught the miseducation we were given & recognize where this "misunderstanding" comes from. BW need to submit more to our BM letting them lead& guide the family but BM need to be more understanding, compassionate & dare I say PATIENT on why BW are this way (again Willie Lynch) for it took generations to get us here and may take us generations to overcome. We need to start teaching our children (boys and girls) black unity and love of one another... in hopes this divisiveness we have today strengthens into what it should be.
How much more patient do you want us to be?
And I say again. The culture needs this man.👊🏿
Wow that was powerful. Always keep the discussion open so we all can learn, heal and prosper.
I lost it when the last woman said “we still live together..” 😑😑😑😑 after SHE divorced him “12” years ago for no reason.
Embarrassing
Ridiculous
Basically SHE is the issue. I’m not gonna myself a high value man BUT I’m a very direct communicator and high performing. If I went on a dinner date with this lady I’d ask very detailed questions and almost immediately excuse myself to the restroom and leave her with the bill. She doesn’t Listen, she doesn’t Hear, she doesn’t Cooperate, and she IS MOST DEFINITELY the issue. Poor guy man. We need Parental Custody reform because these feminist are ruining lives, including their own children’s lives. Smh
@@DC-qk8ue Straight Facts.
She didn't say they still lived 2gether. She said they still talk 2 each other every day and they were discussing getting back 2gether.
Unbelievable! . . . . can't make this shit up!
She said they still love each other, not live together.
If Tiffany is still married then she basically called this show looking for advice to cheat? 🤦♀️ You can tell she lies about everything.
Mr. Samuels, please continue doing the LORD's work. I said this already in one of your videos, I wish I was taught what he is teaching and showing us when I was younger. And keep in mind, I am not black!
Kevin..you are on point as always. I’m going to catch you live and donate.
lol Kevin, you are far more patient than I am. "Should a woman stay in an abusive relationship" that one came out of wayyyyyyyyy left field #SnappleDapple!!!!
Very important and interesting discussion. Thank you Kevin for a high quality, professional, pointed discussion.
I thoroughly appreciate you and your platform.
Even if it offends women or men, this man speaks truth
Your zeal is much appreciated, Mr. Samuels.
Your shows just keep on getting better and better!!! Brotha you are on 🔥👍🏾!
Always droppin knowledge and changing perspectives...thanks
This show was everything!! 🗣🗣I especially liked how he broke down the hustle and bustle concept!! That was a whole prophecy 🙌🏾🗣
Hey Kevin, Love your platform and it’s content! Can you think about occasionally listing the fragrances you mention so that we can check them out. Thanks!
KS is so patient with these women...cause at points most men would have been in the sunset 🌇 trying to talk to these women!!!!!! Smh,WOW!!
This was a very good show! Much needed conversation and dialogue. Definitely enjoyed this. It put things in perspective.
I’m never getting married to be honest I came to deal with the fact that I never got chosen. I’ve seen too many attractive women pick evil men. I’m living my life to the fullest I’m not worrying about being alone.
I came across a video yesterday by someone saying KEVIN SAMUELS IS A FRAUD. The guy was saying he wasn't a real business owner and all this other shit about how he isn't who he said he is. My thing is let's say all that is true. He's STILL inspiring niggas to get their shit together. Inspiring niggas to clean up their image. Inspiring niggas to make more money. There's NOTHING wrong with what this man is preaching. Keep doing what you're doing Kevin
LoL...
I love how Kevin is a refined, educated, well spoken, charismatic, articulate etc etc... until he gets mad then he goes full gangsta!!!
I agree. Church isnt helping that man gain "high value". His hard work and dedication
Watching this years later this was one of his best shows
I adore your show even though at times the truth may hurt. I appreciate the unadulterated truth!
Kevin I know you a Christian but you move like the Brothers in the NOI with the work you do in the Black Community. You sound like an FOI. I salute your hard work in the Black Community!!
A Salaam Alaikum my Brother!!
Yes definitely, Islam principles will be back as the main standard, it’s inevitable.
When a society falls down into chaos, the Islamic «System » becomes the necessity tool to rebuild & restructure a civilization.
No wonder why many redpillers refers to Islam as the best «Patriarchal » model to consider.
When the Zulu Nation has failed to bring Hip-Hop at its best as a culture & fell into «Chaos », edonism, & drug consumption, it was the 5% nation (with Islamic principles) who’ve done the work to bring Hip hop at the standard of decency (such as Knowledge Supreme, Supreme Mathematics etc... even tho we can disagree on some doctrines but the base foundation is Islamic)... & i can go on & on with many examples.
Legitime Processor Yes sir the Honorable Elijah Muhammad once stated, “Islam Comes When All Else Fails”
They all meet at the lodge at the end of the day and sometimes they great each other with "Aslaam Alahcum"
Adult Supervision yep the Shriners do give that greeting
As Muslims myself, who is Elijah. We can't have a prophet after the last prophet Muhammad may peace and blessing be upon him.
Hard headed is hard headed and the fact she always has to have a rebuttal and such non relevant rebuttals proves his point. She consistently wants to change the goal post to detract away from the point Kevin is making so by as to deny the relevance of what’s being said
Here is what I would say to the woman that Kevin was talking to about a woman's purpose being a man:
You are single, and you have no prospect of getting a man. You are calling in on Kevin's show because doing it your way has not worked. In fact, men have been trying to do it your way for two generations, because that's what you said that you wanted, and it has not worked.
These women is donnnneeeee out here sheesh!!!!!
Listening to Kevin's show is like the conversation Franklin & Simeon had in GTA V
*Simeon* / *Kevin* : You tell me exactly what it is that you want & I will very carefully explain to you why it cannot be.
*Franklin* / *Female Callers* : What?!
But he's bang on with most of them. He's telling the truth 😂
@@kevinlee9929 He goes easy on them until they start the bs, that's when it's show time lol
Basically lmao
I'm on my way. But now I'm learning how to be right my damn self, by listening to your program
I think we all fell for the independent woman hustle because many people benefited and it did not come from the black community. It came from the industrial revolution. They needed workers after the war, etc. etc. Problem is we were disproportionately affected by that mess. Then there is this mess about housewives were being abused. SOME were...some.
@@uoenoho9426 Oh my God. I am so sorry to hear that. Thank you for sharing such a difficult personal experience.
@@uoenoho9426 Wow that's horrible
I actually finally got through didn’t hear the whole video until now...some of these women that call in are not the majority....that sounds crazy that last caller she’s ridiculous the women who left her husband
Yes they are majority knock it off
I don’t understand the last caller, why would you rather struggle than have a family house hold? That woman is toying with her ex husband’s emotions and that’s not fair on him. why put him through all of that for what?
hypergamoy
This was an interesting discussion.
Emotional/mental abuse is never talked about and it's way more prevalent. Especially by women
A woman’s pastor is not her covering. She either has a husband, or is it at home with her father until marriage.
Do your thing fam.
Latinas are getting my vote from 2020 and beyond.
Work WITH him. A kingdom divided cannot stand.
People have left the church because of poor discipleship! Men have no other masculine men to follow in the church. Women have gotten away from our reasons for being here. Genesis 2:18 women are here to be a helpmate to our husbands but most women that are in the “danger zone” were NOT taught to get a husband. Education was on the TOP of my moms list along with cooking. Looking for a husband was not priority. Kevin is giving free game! I have learned to stay in my lane and be content with a middle class man.
Like the comment Alike. But I've noticed some moms don't teach there daughters anything but look pretty in this generation. No college education. They don't have to cook, drive, clean at minimum, work for minimum, etc. Make them lazy to the fact she depends on them only with no reciprocity to get or keep a man. Then the girl just say GOD send her a good man to treat her like a queen. But not working on wife skills.
Brandon Clark I understand its frustrating. What age group of women are you talking about? Social media has played a MAJOR role in today’s youth. You right some women don’t know the basics but show a little grace they probably weren’t taught.
@@KCoopp9 24 - 30 age groups. They have married parents that just pampered them and 5 years I see me and other guys just leave because they blow it. As kevin say they misinterpreted the church versus then would say God send them a good men when they had one but put no effort.
Good points:
There are good examples of men in the church....and poor examples also, but the Bible says a good tree bears good fruit: just stick to the good trees!🤣
A lot of the women in church started out ok, but when they got grown, they started doin "their own thing": that's where Leotis came into the picture...
10-15 and 3 kids down the road, they wake up and realize they're 35, and they ain't gettin nowhere with him.......🙄
So now, they turn to church, with their club attire still on, lookin for God to send them a good man, when in actuality, God has been sending good men their way for the last 20 years: They were with Leotis (and they still with him)....
And this is why a lot of the men have left church.....between the confusion and all the carnality, u cant go to church in peace anymore!!!!😂
Thank You Kevin
This is a great show for educating women n men
KS, you're right again!
A Henry can pick up a Marisol, and get that type of cooperation w/o $120k...$80k, is sufficient for most of them
Ecclesiastes 7:27-28 KJV
[27] Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account: [28] Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.
WOW! YOU GOT AN HONEST ONE! THANK YOU JESUS!
Single parents, man I was a single parent after the divorce. I will not wish that upon nobody!!!!! Single Parent... Get a wife and a husband and build something strong to present to the world...
Open to what god has for me and not chase something=i dont want to have to actually put in any effort so ill hope god does the work for me
Not every adult is mature, err go, when getting advice one should learn to listen especially when you disagree with the answers. imposing ones view point despite the point fogs the issue from moving forward to a better resolution. This is what meant by women not being equal to men, they just don't think the same way.
That caller just after the 2 hr mark…. This is the first time I disagree with KS. No, that woman should not go back to her ex-husband. She was beyond deceptive and knows it. That man deserves better than that. She will never be loyal to him because she doesn’t respect him due to him letting her run over him for years. She left cuz she knows/thinks he is into her but she wanted to ride the CC with other men knowing she always has that dude as back up. My hope is her ex hubby finds a new woman worthy of a guy like him and ditches his ex-wife.
Thank you Kevin❤️
This song always puts me in a happy place 😃
Proverbs 18:22
....“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.”
I agree with Kevin on a woman's purpose. Since men are leaving the churches and the faith in droves would you recommend a Christian woman be a helpmate to a non-Christian man? If not what is the solution for the large amount of Christian women looking for Christian men?
Genesis 2:18 (It is “Not Good” for man to be alone) Not good!
The woman has to learn to be a “wife” first
Thank you for addressing the image of a man . Dress code!!
High Value are not the goal post that women should be seeking to get. There are not enough to go around, competition is fierce and most women do not qualify based on the true standards that Mr. Samuels has pointed out.
In others words, money gives men options and women over 30 yrs old rarely fit the bill of being "submissive or cooperative."
1:34:00 sounds like he was at IBOC or possibly OCBF. I’m leaning toward IBOC since he mentioned Mondays. It’s a whole slew of Mega churches around that Westmoreland, Wheatland, camp wisdom, Cockrell Hill area- basically any exit of Highway 67
1:13:08 - 1:13:18 best dialogue quote of the live stream!
Men: You have to have 10k/mo for 5 years, and all of this other stuff to be an HVM.
Why is it that as a man, I can so easily say: Ok. I don't have that, and I don't see it coming. Therefore I am not a HVM. And I can STILL understand, defend and agree with Kevin's points, and be an integral member of the show.
It's sitting there. Right in front of me. Obvious. To the planet. So why would EYE argue about it?
You, as a woman, are NOT an 8, 9 or 10. Arguing the point like it's the last sip of water, only makes you look uglier. Getting angry and immediately entering into prolonged attack mode ends it all for me. Quick.
Kevin was in such a battle within himself to advocate for women but a lot of these modern women are just too foul.