Why Toxic People Make Up False Stories About A True INFJ

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  • @OnTrack101
    @OnTrack101  ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What Does It Mean To Be INFJ?
    The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people.
    00:00 INTRO
    00:22 10 Toxic people can't get their way around INFJs
    01:17 09 They can't copy the INFJ
    02:45 08 They're envious of how they make sense without trying
    04:01 07 They can't make them unhappy as they are
    05:20 06 They can't be as inspiring as INFJs
    06:40 05 They can't handle their indifference
    07:57 04 They are unsatisfied with themselves
    09:03 03 They can't mind their own business
    10:12 02 They just can't handle them
    11:08 01 They can't see them as their minions
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    • @jessmason2112
      @jessmason2112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let's give them something to talk about.👊😎

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I've learned not to care so much about what people think or say about me, and just try to keep living my life the very best that I can. If they have any hangups about me, then it's to do with them, not me.

  • @Taurusboy07
    @Taurusboy07 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Wow!!!!! This is my life. I have countless of people fabricating stories just to try to destroy my character. This have been going on since a child. It got worse the older I got.

    • @goontubeassos7076
      @goontubeassos7076 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I have the opposite effect, people tell stories how I’m “super human” and superior to the average human.
      I’m just an average guy, and I believe that scares them, because that would mean they feel lees then average person. Therefore if I’m super human and superior, what I do is unattainable by average people so they can validate their own incompetence.
      Thanks.

    • @Taurusboy07
      @Taurusboy07 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@goontubeassos7076 That is good. Unfortunately I get the bad end of the stick.

    • @h1dd3n5h0t5
      @h1dd3n5h0t5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In my experience my direct family has defamed me my whole life. But whenever I talk to any other human on earth, “I’m seen as that superhero tambien”

    • @Taurusboy07
      @Taurusboy07 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@h1dd3n5h0t5 Wow, same for me.

  • @Ms_StoryDragon
    @Ms_StoryDragon ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Because we INFJs tend to try to make sure everyone is okay, it can be easy-and also dangerous-to try and assist the toxic person. The toxic person doesn’t want that. They want to derail you, while your intentions are pure. Best thing to do is trust your intuition, pay attention to clues that the toxic person is a negative influence, and act accordingly. Cut them off, don’t give them any fuel for their drama, and keep doing what you do best, which is being yourself. When you let your light shine, the shadows fall away on their own.
    And no, gossip is a major red flag. INFJs are very careful about who they let in, and when we choose you, it’s because you’ve shown trustworthiness. You break that, that’s it. Be fortunate if we even acknowledge you exist.

  • @joschmoyo4532
    @joschmoyo4532 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Let's face it. We aren't from this planet. That's what burns them the most. My partner is amazed at my total indifference to the slander etc. The criticism of fool's is of no concern to me.

  • @Rishhabhh
    @Rishhabhh ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My toxic ex best friend was always demeaning to me. He always belittled me and spoke bad things about me to make fun of me. It was more of an insult and not a joke.
    Then what! **Door slammed**

  • @ameliaannhouck2670
    @ameliaannhouck2670 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I WOULD NEVER FORGIVE BETRAYAL OR GOSSIP , THAT DOOR GOT SLAMMED SHUT FOREVER !!

  • @twobeagles1365
    @twobeagles1365 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Infj may trip and stubble because of toxic people or narcissist's , but always rise back up, often stronger than before ,the mental abuse we endure, sometimes takes a while to shake off. But Oh how we can return those fiery darts and burn them down to their soul ...

  • @kerstinpalmberger8085
    @kerstinpalmberger8085 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I could never forgive gossip. What kind of friends do this? Yes many ppl get mad if they don't get what they want from u. But I would just set bigger boundaries.

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They will only talk behind our backs, because they are too afraid to say it to our faces how we say it to theirs 💕👑

  • @TheDarkness1
    @TheDarkness1 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh yeah. I find out new things about myself all the time that I never did. Normally don't care, but when your ex makes up stories about you to your child, that pisses me off. Not so much anymore since my daughter lives with me and figured out the truth, although it was confusing and frustrating for her growing up not knowing what to believe.

  • @hugmc
    @hugmc ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The devil doesn’t like our bright light 💡

    • @faithlivinghomestead
      @faithlivinghomestead ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AMEN!

    • @ANDROID697
      @ANDROID697 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's such a narcissistic thing to say.

    • @hugmc
      @hugmc ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ANDROID697 are u a narcissist

  • @hazael1945
    @hazael1945 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    True INFJ are few
    We know that

  • @rubynovel
    @rubynovel ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Take nothing personal but don't take no shit.

  • @6193derek
    @6193derek ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a kid when I was in school, it seemed every few months there would be another story go around the school about me. Each more absurd than the next. I would always find out about it because others would come up to me and say hey I heard that you: (insert socially degrading comment here), so that they could openly mock me about it. I couldn’t care less about the stupid stories though, but it also meant that most of the school believed the rumours, and would have nothing to do with me. Eventually even perfect strangers would start shouting slurs at me, because I was the guy who....
    As a result I usually didn’t have any friends at all.
    This even followed me into my working career. No matter what job it was, there is always some one either trying to sabotage me, or a manager seriously taking advantage of me.
    Otherwise, when I run into one of these toxic sorts in the wild, I tend to tear them apart by telling them absolute truth about themselves. Unless it’s in a place where I need to maintain a bit of dignity, in which case I put up an emotional barrier to them that is greater than Fort Knox.
    Life for an INFJ can be hard at times.

  • @omegajoe7014
    @omegajoe7014 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    People always get mad because they don't get what they want from me - not because I wouldn't do it for them - but because they are so clueless that they try to find some illogical circuitous way of trying to trick me to do what they want. Maybe it's because they're so used to it with everyone else, but if they would just be straight up and ask normally - I would do it for them.
    Most times I forget how illogical most people are - and i get baffled by their BS too easily. In general - it's easier to just think most people always have some sort of agenda so I try to reason out what they want ahead of time. The problem however is that it is in MOST of the cases. When I finally run into someone without an agenda... it's usually a surprise and more often than not, they're an INFJ too. And then they get ticked off at me. :D

    • @stanbarr9884
      @stanbarr9884 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "Circuious". Thank you, I've finally got a word to explain how they have, and dbecause of lifes circumstances, still do, play their little guessing gamesw about what they want you to do for them.

  • @jessmason2112
    @jessmason2112 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Talk is cheap. 👊🙏😇💯

  • @elevenpoisons2484
    @elevenpoisons2484 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ex best friend use to express so much appreciation and expressing admiration etc. Until i broke it off with her for using me as a therapist and dragging me into every problems dispite me being drained. Suddenly everything about me is "disgusting", "careless" and "fake" even though my patience for her was extreme until i finally put my foot down. I am pretty sure her anger and resentment is from feeling helplessness after being dropped by someone she considered to be wise, patient and empathetic because if someone like that cant put up with her, who else could?

  • @patriciagootgeld9273
    @patriciagootgeld9273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The worst for me is a small town newspaper making things up off the cuff. I wouldn't wipe my butt with their rag. I wish I could let them know that, but I believe in Karmic debt. It just takes forever to catch up to them.

  • @dannyterrell1895
    @dannyterrell1895 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm going to make this real simple. From ignorance assumptions, misunderstanding envy jealousy and ego competitive Alph bravado. It's that simple having to use humility to defend our selves is hard!! We are so passionate about
    Principles and more obligations it can cause a chain reaction and eradic behavior. That's how we became the bad guy or the irrational one lol

  • @funnshinesunshine1312
    @funnshinesunshine1312 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I got fired in may. For getting overtime. I was scheduled for it. But not getting paid overtime wage. Simple truth is the boss didn't like me. The good news I filmed my firing and kept my stubs. SOMEONE GETTING SUED HARD.
    I can only imagine the stories made up by him after I was discarded. Apparently I have a kid. Hahahahahaha he was telling everyone I did? I dunno why

  • @DemureDarlings
    @DemureDarlings ปีที่แล้ว +3

    HAPPENS TO ME FAR TOO OFTEN 😢

  • @awakeningjourneyofself-uni3102
    @awakeningjourneyofself-uni3102 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I score ENFP and I totally rely to those situations and descriptions ^^'
    Maybe it's something that could be extended to all "NF's"

    • @h1dd3n5h0t5
      @h1dd3n5h0t5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you looked into cognitive functions?

  • @erinscruggs5838
    @erinscruggs5838 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People that feel inferior can never be true friends. Insecure people cannot love properly. So on and so forth. A drowning person will drown you while you're swimming them to shore, same thing here.

  • @elmahyrakanayori6016
    @elmahyrakanayori6016 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gossipp ? Hurt bad only if we agree about it ( we feel hurt more for others mentality disorder ) , gossip issues will keep the way its name, never care about it couse we always disagree n know ourself very well ..

  • @raymondezell7817
    @raymondezell7817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So on point. I love these videos

  • @gloriavis
    @gloriavis ปีที่แล้ว

    Im the infj who has her limits, i need to talk about the people who hurt me not to be victimized again

  • @sonamalika3573
    @sonamalika3573 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People always used to make false stories abt me...
    Each and every word in this video related to my life experiences
    I'm a quiet person at my college
    They thought I'm a dump ...
    I got frst mark in my every semester exams... they can't believe it and started making false stories and gossips
    They said u act like u didn't prepare well then how did you get frst mark
    But the truth is..they don't even ask me about my preparation before exam.. whether i prepared well or not..but they created these kind of things.
    I don't even explain myself to those toxic people
    I don't even care about being frst or second I'll try my level best in every exams
    Sry for my bad English

  • @gloriavis
    @gloriavis ปีที่แล้ว

    The world is upside down the inmates r running the asylum !!!

  • @sunden7434
    @sunden7434 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can talk BS about me! You can add some more false stories, as well! I am not going to west my time with any false "hero"! 😎

  • @ssemombweandrew
    @ssemombweandrew ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Present 👋

  • @wogbornagain
    @wogbornagain ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤔🤨🧐